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Family: you, your husband, and your future baby. Nobody else. You must do everything in your power to protect that, even if it means cutting people like your parents out of your life. Right now, your relationship doesn't need that poison. You both should be focusing on strengthening the bond and preparing for parenthood, enjoying the ultrasounds and milestones and the morning sickness. Mentality creates reality - it's the way life works. If you allow others to plant the seed for divorce/abortion…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 02:24 PM
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Nope. Read the study ( https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8135653 ). It specifically states: The investigation of all rape complaints always involves a serious offer to polygraph the complainants and the suspects. Additionally, for a declaration of false charge to be made, the complainant must admit the rape charge is false. The police department will not declare a rape charge as false when the complainant, for whatever reason, fails to pursue the charge or cooperate on the case, regardless of …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 12:10 PM
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I agree. Tests in general are BS. I much prefer a take-home exam with super hard problems rather than a 50 minute exam that measures speed.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 11:12 PM
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The average difference is not significant - men and women are actually quite close. I'm five IQ points dumber if I sleep 1 hour less than normal. The difference comes from the higher variation in the male population. Our distribution is more spread out, so we have more 'specimens' on both the high and low end of the IQ distribution.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 08:49 PM
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How could they? Being chased by every guy in their teens/20s makes it practically impossible to even entertain the thought that it will change with age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/18 01:18 PM
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OP is not talking about dominance in the sense of competing or fighting other males. That's dangerous, nowadays you never know what the other guy is packing. Bars are also a waste of time and money.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:37 AM
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She's 28. A bit late to start looking for a relationship. Why didn't she at 18?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/18 02:09 PM
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Taller girls are fine. I just don't like how missionary works out like that, even if she's only 1 inch taller.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 11:02 PM
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I never understood the need to comment on linked posts. Think about it people, every time this happens, we are interfering in a way that may reduce the honesty of future posts. We want them to post freely without the fear of being judged - that's how reality and truth become visible. Brigading leads to self-censoring and dishonesty. "I'm totally happy with my cats".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/18 02:04 PM
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a little more monogamous effort from a 30 year Yeah, because 30 year olds have had their fun on the CC and now are looking to settle down. Women optimize their behavior based on the goal they're trying to achieve.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 03:57 PM
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I feel like serious relationships with people contemplating marriage should be aware From OP.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:59 PM
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She is going to walk away from this with zero consequences. I know, I've lived through this. Any proof of false accusations will be brushed aside and ignored.
/r/MensRights08/07/18 07:37 AM
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False hopes. A bad girl can play the good role for a VERY long time. A "good" girl can become very fucking evil under the right circumstances. They're really all the same: they're women. Picture this. OP shares this, everything is great and he gets married. A few years down the road he gets divorced. What do you think she will do during the custody battle? meds and therapy Like I said, false hopes. AWALT.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 07:08 AM
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Keep it to yourself. I also thought I needed to share this sort of personal stuff. It's just ammo in case of a breakup. he's abusive he even takes meds and is in therapy Yeah, I've been there. Keep it to yourself. Get rid of this need to share - do so with your guy friends.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 07:03 AM
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She's certainly had plenty of suitors. Think about it... she looks good for her age, so imagine how she was at 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 03:20 PM
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He's one of us.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 12:51 PM
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It's not about better or worse. It's just in our nature.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 12:47 PM
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> But, while you're looking down on me, I'll keep looking up. For another 5-10 years. The wall is unforgiving for party girls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 12:06 PM
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They're not equivalent. When a woman looks for new options, she no longer cares about her current one. When men sleep with someone else on the side, they can be very much infatuated with their main partner.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 11:56 AM
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men who took steroids and did nothing still gained muscle mass True. In fact, they gained more mass than those who exercised naturally. However these studies can be misleading. The studies measure "lean body mass", which doesn't necessarily equate with muscle mass. It could well be water retention. That's why steroid users will "lose" a significant amount of "gains" after, say, a dianabol cycle. What they're really losing is water weight.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 01:01 PM
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blending colors That certainly put a nice visual in my head.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 12:36 PM
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I am baffled by this too. All the Viagra in the world can't get me hard for this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/18 11:03 PM
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First impression: the female version of "IT" the clown. If she's "a few extra pounds" then I need to be hospitalized cause I'm fucking anorexic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/18 11:01 PM
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That is some scary stuff. when I calculate the weeks it's you that I'm thinking She's so casual about it. Eerie.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 12:25 PM
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LMAO she makes Dorian Yates look small.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 02:40 PM
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I've notice this too... the less educated and career oriented a woman is, the better relationship material she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 02:35 PM
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You bring up a good point with the negative profiles. Now we all know women think that men are attracted to the same things women are (career, etc). I wonder... if a man's profile was that negative, would his success increase?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 11:05 AM
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She looks that way with makeup too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 11:04 AM
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She's 29 and yet her longest relationship was less than a year. How is that possible?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 11:02 AM
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> Tell her what she is doing is disrespectful and let her know that she can do it if she wants, but you have no interest in a woman that thinks that's an acceptable behaviour in a relationship I don't see anything about you breaking up with her. Time to put your money where your mouth is. She's done this several times and you repeatedly let her back. Time to move on. > don't let her back in unless she makes a God damned effort to change her behaviour In my experience, any change is short-lived. …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 05:18 PM
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It's not enough. I had an ex delete those messages. Get the audio.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 12:23 PM
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Also get extra lube for the child support rape that's coming in a few years. These women aren't the type to stay married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 07:43 PM
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You buy women dinner? I've done that maybe 2-3 times a year with exes. You're doing it wrong man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 07:40 PM
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Most women figure out that time is running out by late 20s or early 30s. This one is... special.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 07:37 PM
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Lol. She's 40. Waited a bit long, didn't she? She's not interested in casual sex and married men - that means she did all those things in the past. Probably in excess. She looks like she was a stunner in her younger years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 07:35 PM
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who doesn't grow resentful and insecure with me How can I meet a high value man who doesn't feel threatened or resentful of me? Women just don't get it. They really believe men actually feel intimidated by them. We don't. We are just sick and tired of hearing about the following: I'm of average intelligence, perhaps cushioned by my education and generally being well read. I'm well spoken, well travelled, have impeccable manners and I know how to carry myself We don't care. She might like that in…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 01:23 PM
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LMAO this is great!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 12:55 PM
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You know she's going to look like a shipwreck in real life when she's using those filters in her dating profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 09:34 AM
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Maybe we're on the verge of discovering a new type of game - nice guy game. Pretend we're interested in settling, pump, and dump. Only problem is, nice guys don't get to pump.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 09:30 AM
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When I was younger, I was looking for women my age (late teens, early 20s) to settle down with. Now that I'm "a little bit older" and I've seen enough women that were asshole jerks, I'm just looking for nice innocent women around 18-23 to casually date and fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 09:27 AM
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Except after 3 years of dating, she has a kid and 2 years later she's a single mom. She really couldn't figure out during those first 3 years that the relationship wasn't gonna work?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 09:19 AM
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Perfect time and age to focus on a career. All women should be doing this in their 30s, AFTER they found a husband in their late teens and early 20s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 01:56 PM
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AI has become amazing at changing people's appearance in a realistic way. You don't even need Photoshop skills, just download the app and make yourself look more attractive. I tried one of these apps. Can turn a photo of myself with a serious face into one with an award winning smile (shit eating grin) - makes me look like a total Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 01:48 PM
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The bloopers of reddit have had enough of this shit: they're the "nice guys" she can't seem to ever find.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 01:45 PM
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She's 32? She looks at least 40-45. Jesus her face...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 01:35 PM
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Men are more stable and their moods/mentality changes over a longer period of time. Even when our mood changes, we are much better at turning on the rational part of our brain, use it as guidance, and don't let our emotions affect our actions.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 01:26 PM
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It's all about Empowerment nowadays. Being a single mom has become a symbol of strength and independence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 12:44 PM
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It's so funny how all the critics of the red pill don't have the first clue what it's really about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 10:39 AM
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State what you want. If she's not down, you know she was planning on sticking you in the friendzone. If she agrees, game on. Meanwhile chat up other women too, then these little annoyances will stop bothering you as much.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 11:10 PM
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The mistake you made was... when she said she's working on the dissertation, you should have told her *sure, reach out when you're free and we'll make plans*. > I get a text from her the following week inviting me to a group meeting with friends at a bar I wouldn't go group dates. Tell her you prefer to meet 1 on 1.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 10:21 PM
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It sounds to me like the only real reason you have to divorce is her communication style. What steps have you taken to correct that? The marriedredpill sub may help with that. I would reconsider... you're getting the sex you want on the side. You said it yourself that parentally the two of you are fine. Your daughter is 11 now. Think of the impact it will have when she learns that dad divorced mom because he wanted to fuck other women. Keep that to yourself and keep on trying to improve/train yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:03 PM
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how you wouldn’t get sick of someone real fast if you obsessed over one person It can happen very easily. Imagine you're in your late teens or early 20s, and your entire life you got absolutely no attention from women, no displays of affection from your parents, nothing of the sort. Then one day somehow a woman shows interest, and you start dating. You experience this for the first time in your life. You're going to use that to fill every void in your life. "Hobbies" seem lackluster compared to …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 11:29 AM
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RPW... a lost cause.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 01:13 AM
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Lol she would have assaulted him at that point.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 12:40 PM
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Yeah... considering how nowadays graduate stem programs will waive application fees for women only, this isn't surprising at all.
/r/MensRights10/06/18 11:10 AM
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You probably could have banged if you didn't repeatedly say you "have feelings for her." Next time, with another gal, it's better to say "I'm not interested in anything platonic, but if you want something romantic let me know and we'll make some plans." Or something similar. There's no need to tell them you have feelings, that will only hurt your game. It freaks women out when a guy is falling for them that early on. Just keep your mouth shut until she confessed her feelings.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 07:53 PM
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She must be a 1/10 if the "guys she messages never get back to her." Either that or she's a 5/10 (Max, she's over 40) and has ridiculously high standards messaging top men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/18 07:24 PM
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Was just gonna post this as I was reading about her behaviour. Beat me to it. OP, you need to do this.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 01:51 PM
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LMAO. Never again will I LTR someone who fucked me while being involved with someone else. Learned that lesson the hard way. Doesn't matter how fucking sweet she seems.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 11:41 AM
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Glad you're back and reposting these. What I don't get though is.. why do people think this is fiction?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 11:38 AM
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For someone who has not actually experienced the results TRP can bring, I can understand how this can look like fiction. From my own experience, it's most definitely real.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 11:35 AM
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The only one you listed there that actually doesn't fall in the career type is secretary. I don't think you understand how time consuming medicine is. Same with teaching.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 11:05 AM
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It is rare and special these days.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 11:02 AM
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it is possible to provide the assertiveness and raw sexual attraction of an alpha while also providing the caring and providing qualities of the beta in one individual You are literally describing the male unicorn, something everyone here should strive to become (provided they want a LTR).
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:26 PM
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A few exceptions do not disprove the rule.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 02:31 AM
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I watched the first few seconds. WTF, she is completely retarded.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 09:21 PM
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I unsubscribed from that sub. I used to post a lot of advice, but eventually realized I'm wasting my time. The hamster is too strong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 09:17 PM
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If you could stand to lose a few lbs and put more effort into your appearance, then do that. In my experience, women tend to always underestimate how fat they actually are, and somehow perceive themselves as being at a healthier and more attractive weight than the actual truth. What's your height/weight?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 06:20 AM
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This ought to be the top comment, rather than the emotion and opinion/societal taboo based arguments I see on here. "Too old" really boils down to one thing: will he have the energy necessary to raise and play with the kids? Will the age gap cause issues down the road, where he will be 70 and her 50?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 06:09 AM
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This number of "29" is arbitrary, and unsupported by a good argument/reason. The same reason you quote (degrading/damaging of he leaves her) not only applies to any man of any age, but also comes from a place of fear.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 06:03 AM
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Very powerful piece. It needs to be printed and distributed en masse. I'm glad that more women are voicing this sentiment and spreading the truth. TRP can say it all day long, but in the end we get labeled as misogynistic bastards.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 12:08 PM
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I guess that’s always been the problem in our marriage — my not wanting to hurt him or make him uncomfortable What did I just read? Sweet Jesus!
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 12:44 AM
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Being in a big empty house, and the footsteps echoing through the hallway, no one there – and no one on the pillow next to you. Fuck. How do you make yourself happy in a situation like that? IDK, I live by myself and I fucking love it. I leave the toilet seat up, nobody nags me. Heck, if I wanted to, I could put the toilet seat down, and then pee on it. He needs to get a dog.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 01:32 AM
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Read everything /u/Whisper posted on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 10:31 AM
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The daughter disowned him? That's very funny.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:36 AM
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Forever. Look at me #MeToo .. allegations going years back. Keep it forever. Take 2 screenshots. One with her name programmed, one without, showing her phone number.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:08 PM
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How's the quality, video compression, sound, and reliability? I've been looking at this.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:06 PM
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Amen. Text after is useless if a vindictive ex deletes it. True story.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:01 PM
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Women and their male "just friends"... classic.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 10:52 AM
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Well... let me just say if you start flirting like the other comment suggested, that will not go well. It makes YOU look like a cheater, it'll nuke your relationship, etc. Give it some time, but if you feel like you can not regain the level trust you had for him, walk away. One question to consider: of you hadn't caught him "almost" cheating, would he have cheated or stopped? Also, avoid long distance.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:42 PM
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There are many ways in which this mentality manifests, once internalized. You know deep down you have a lot to offer. You know you make a Badass boyfriend. You believe these things to your core. If you ask someone out and she rejects you, you don't take it personally. You walk away knowing that she's missing out on your awesomeness. It doesn't really bother you for more than a minute. If a woman is shit testing you or playing games, instead of getting frustrated, you think man she is really not …
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:33 PM
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Ok, you know how men think better than I do.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 04:23 AM
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You are dating a man. Stop wishing for him to act like a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 04:44 PM
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BMI can be misleading. I mean, sure yours could be lower, but if you carry your weight in the right places and have good proportions, it's not as big of a factor as you would think. I think of you show willingness to improve and have a healthy lifestyle (gym, good nutrition), this will fix itself and also show potential to possible suitors.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 01:49 PM
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There's nothing wrong with shyness, but you have to make yourself appear approachable. Shyness can come across as "don't talk to me", so look into that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 01:47 PM
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Look into keto and intermittent fasting. Also, strongcurves.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 01:45 PM
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Date guys who are 27, but don't have sex with them? Sure, if OP wants a beta.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 01:44 PM
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The thing is most women today have NO IDEA their relationship value depreciates sharply as they age. I think they know it instinctively, but they hear so much BS and propaganda about focusing on career, not marrying/having kids until 30s, that they just don't think about it consciously. They are told that they should explore their options and date around in their 20s before they settle. In other words, they are told to live their lives as men do. Well, that works for men, but obviously the strat…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 11:53 AM
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Women don't understand men, period. Not only that, but they don't make an effort to understand what we are looking for. As a result, when they are on the dating market, women only think about what they want, when really they should be calibrating their behaviour to match what their dream guy would be looking for. I see this on RPW all the time. Just go look at the posts. They have all these requirements. A favourite of mine: guy has to wait months before sex (until commitment), BUT he better not…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 01:07 PM
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IDK man that was funny as hell. I would totally say something like that, depending on context.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 01:32 AM
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It's all dependent on the context. If he's just running around saying he's the captain, that's just a power trip. Red flag indeed. If she's doing something where she constantly challenges or questions his every move... well that would get annoying very fast. She does mention she's opinionated so I'm inclined to say it's more of the latter, but who knows? We need more info.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 10:52 AM
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Grad school is free for STEM fields. You won't be paying a dime for grad school. One thing I recommend... look for a partner now if having a family is one of your goals.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 09:02 PM
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most men don't mind the hard work as long as the woman is truly worth the effort This is 100% right. I can see some women reading this and thinking I'm the gatekeeper of sex, which means I'm going to withhold it. Let me just remind everyone here by a few excellent posts by /u/Whisper - he describes exactly what is going on. Go read these: The Slut, and how not to be one Passion The Final Exam Assuming men are stupid Submissive Behaviour as Strategy Actually, go read everything that he posted on …
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 12:36 PM
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To add, keto and/or intermittent fasting do wonders for one's skin.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 07:30 AM
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You shouldn't, having hetero male friends will ding you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 07:30 AM
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Vibrator is the problem. Too much stimulation. Same effect that masturbation has for us men.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 07:19 AM
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Levi 541 is excellent for me.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 07:16 AM
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I'd start going to strip clubs just for kicks. You got plate material at best here.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 07:15 AM
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it's could set everything up bad to follow See my other comment. Your mentality is sex is bad, and if you really are looking for a fulfilling relationship, this is going to prevent you from getting that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 12:29 PM
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OK, it's time for a reality check. It's winter/cold, which doesn't leave a lot of options. Going out for drinks is boring (I rarely drink, and I don't want a partner who drinks) and expensive. How about we cook a dish together? Much more fun, and a better bonding experience. This is especially if we accidentally burn the dish (because we're making out and we forgot to put a timer for the oven) - a great opportunity for you to assess how the guy reacts if things don't go as planned. If you want a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 12:27 PM
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Bingo.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 12:03 PM
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EDIT: I just read some of the comments here, and they're worrying. A number of users are focusing on the statement you wouldn't have that if it wasn't for me itself, when really they should be asking what drives someone to say that in the first place. In fact, for any behaviour one should always ask why is it happening? See what I wrote below: This statement begs some deconstruction, as it says some things about your acquaintance. In order for a man to come out and say you wouldn't have that if …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 11:57 AM
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Asking her when she's free does not make her take the lead. As a leader, you take into consideration her schedule, set up a time to meet, and something fun to do. This is true in relationships too. Commanding "let's do this on day X" is not being a leader, more like a dictator, because you're literally expecting her to drop whatever she's doing with no knowledge of her actual schedule. Maybe she has class, or an exam. so I suggested the day after tomorrow Why? Do you know for certain she's going…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 11:27 AM
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I don't know, maybe. But I prefer to not overanalyze. It is much more freeing to just do what you feel like doing, instead of always thinking what should I say next. If I make a mistake, so be it. The women that are REALLY into me will overlook my mistakes, and let me just say those are the best times. Women who are so-so .... who cares about their flaky ass anyway?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 02:34 AM
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I suggest a meetup. She says sure but might not be available that day we'll have to text again I suggest you try this in the future: ask them when they're free. By doing so you avoid the annoying back-and-forth. It also gives you a chance to gauge her interest levels. If she's high, you'll get TONS of options and very specific - she'll basically give you her entire schedule. Since I started doing this, I've had much better success, and I instantly recognize the flakes (they'll answer with stuff …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 02:28 AM
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I doubt they are more turned on, but there's a possibility of a fetish as you said. More likely, they are just worn down and tired of conflict, so after a while they resign and let the woman take charge.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 12:17 PM
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she has completely emasculated him and he supports or even encourages her behavior I've seen this often. Some women are just more assertive/masculine than others. My theory is that what you're observing is a process that took a long time. It's a result of the blue pill happy wife, happy life mentality.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 12:16 PM
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men are intimidated by intelligent women This statement is an attempt to shame men into liking these "intelligent women," which really means disagreeable / combative / masculine / competitive women. A more accurate statement would be: men are repulsed/annoyed by intelligent women. Intimidation has nothing to do with it. A man may be "intimidated" in the sense of having approach anxiety, or being nervous on a date, but that's not exactly intimidation. It's just anxiety. Now there's nothing wrong …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 12:14 PM
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To be fair, the dude is overweight and needs to lift. ASAP.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/18 12:23 PM
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I really think that women who are morbidly fat sincerely believe, in their head, that they are in shape, attractive, etc. They really believe it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/18 07:18 AM
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If you have nothing but your looks to make you appealing then a younger woman with similarly good looks will be more appealing Certainly if a woman only has her age and physical attractiveness, that is not enough of an asset to secure a high quality man (maybe a dumb man who thinks with his dick instead of his brain, I've seen that happen). In TRP language, they are at best plate material. They are not even part of competition here. I'm really talking about those young women who want to marry, h…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 01:32 PM
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You put it very nicely. I would add, women also have to reflect on their own behaviour, as well as their looks. Are they feminine? Are they promiscuous? Bitchy? Healthy? Active? Mindful of what they put in their bodies?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 12:20 PM
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Men don’t just turn 35 and suddenly become successful and attractive You're absolutely right. I think a lot of men at TRP delude themselves into thinking the magic will happen. Nope. It takes hard work. We're talking years. I literally spent the last 5 years of my life incessantly working on self-development (physical and mental). But if a man puts in the work, he will achieve exactly the levels of success. Finances have nothing to with it. The same can be said to RPW here. You CAN achieve your …
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 12:17 PM
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This entire thread is very telling. A lot of anger, shaming, jealousy, and denial of a man's biology. I really do hope the mods keep it up, as it can serve as a great example for younger women, or older women who actually want success in their dating instead of bitching and moaning.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 12:10 PM
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geez guys, what is wrong with u? There's nothing wrong with them. They are operating based on instinct and male biology. hope that some guy in my age This is the problem. You are targeting the wrong age group. At 29, I would target men in the 33-40 age range. You will have a MUCH better chance at finding a partner there, than a man who is 29. instead of picking a 22 year old, for whom he will seem like superman, because these girls hardly have life experience or know what they want in life When …
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 12:01 PM
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there is RMV to consider as well You are absolutely right. But all things being equal, the younger woman will win.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 11:29 AM
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I think it goes beyond the woman's current physical beauty. I have seen plenty of 30 year olds who look good. My theory is that guys instinctively consider "how long will her beauty last," in other words, will she retain that valuable asset? To give an example, a close friend is approaching 30. Problem is, she spent her 20s focusing on education/career. She looked very good in her teens, super cute and feminine, but she didn't take care of her body, and was overweight most of her 20s. Now that s…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 11:27 AM
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I honestly thought this male friend actually preferred women in their 30s. Turns out, they were just for practice. Well, yes. I guess I can easily see why a guy would date someone his age or slightly older if he was solely interested in sex, especially while he's in his early 20s and still developing into a man. As you noted, In his early 20s, he struggled to pick up girls and we sometimes gently teased him about his lack of success in dating Now that he's older, he is realizing the extent of hi…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 11:16 AM
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It's nothing out of the ordinary. It's not going to happen with everyone, or every day, but if the woman is attracted to you, this is pretty much how the date goes. It's completely effortless. The key things are these: Talk to everyone. Not because this will expose you to more women. I used to think like that at first - a mistake. You do this because you want to be 100% comfortable when talking to a stranger. As soon as you spot indicators of interest in a woman, approach. There is literally no …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 02:47 AM
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Lol. Why did I get my hopes up. What was I expecting. What a great story, all the way to (and including) the end. I can relate to it entirely. I literally got goose bumps when I read the ending. Not in a bad way or anything. I actually smiled. Can't really describe it. It's like having access to a common but large secret about the world. It's so surreal when I meet a gal, she seems perfect, I start to imagine the possibilities, only to find she has a boyfriend, pictures of ex, or partying it up …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 02:39 AM
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That is exactly what I'm saying. Typically at parties, bars, maybe. But in day to day interaction? Nope.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 06:41 PM
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It's definitely tough. I guess screening very thoroughly to avoid crazies might help. IDK. It's a risk no matter how you look at it, and I don't see a way to reduce it to zero except through complete abstinence, like you said.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 02:02 AM
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You don't have to necessarily pass up opportunities, but just be prepared and record the encounter. But if you get into those women who put up LMR and all that, next. Don't listen to the TRP bullshit of doing X and Y to overcome LMR. NEXT. No shame in it. There will be plenty of women to meet in the future. PLENTY.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 01:43 AM
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It's really simple. Install audio recording devices that can be easily turned on without drawing suspicion. Or hidden cameras. If a bogus accusation comes up, you have proof.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 01:36 AM
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That is why one should just abandon these apps and just approach and ask women out in person. Nobody does it these days, it's really easy to stand out.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 06:56 PM
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I hope I didn't unintentionally insult him. You didn't. Male and female attraction work very differently. While a statement like that would most surely have a negative effect on a woman's attraction, it would be a nice ego boost for a man.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/18 09:20 PM
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As a Romanian I'd say care is needed with all women in this region. This is especially true if OP plans to move back to the US. If I were to find a wife in Romania, I wouldn't disclose that I'm a US citizen.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:28 AM
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The blog is spot on. To feel "lucky" means to feel inferior and unworthy. It's some Disney blue pill bullshit. If you got offended or felt uneasy reading the blog (the part when the man doesn't feel lucky), now you know why.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/18 06:10 AM
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There is no way you guys are worse than her socially. Come on bro, we are very good socially! ;) For you it was sales, for me it was a little bit of sales but mostly tutoring/teaching. I don't even have a concept of anxiety when talking to people anymore. Public speaking in front of groups? FUN! So for those of you in academia who don't want to get a sales job, start tutoring. Best if you can do it in a group setting (like at your university's center) instead of 1 on 1.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 11:16 AM
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The decrease in strength and endurance is very temporary. It comes back with a vengeance once you break the fast.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 03:13 PM
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It's very situational. I'm an INTJ on paper but can be very extroverted in the right setting.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 03:11 PM
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Seriously worried now Why? Sounds like you handled it like a champ!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:10 PM
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I don't know... to me none of that is worth the hassle. I wouldn't give a woman like that a minute of my time. It's not a victory. You are spending time and energy with low value females. You are also playing with fire. This is a false accusation waiting to happen.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 03:14 PM
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Even if they may have naturally alpha behaviours, they are still blue as the sky when it comes to ideology (unless they're from a different culture). I would never share even with my most traditional alpha friends that I frequent TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 02:46 AM
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Even when you know each other, I wouldn't. Been there, done that, nothing good came of it. Unless you suspect he is RP too, it's better to keep it to yourself and instead connect with the people here if you want to talk about it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 02:43 AM
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No. Men react just as bad when they hear about this.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 02:41 AM
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The guilty until proven innocent is a very real push. People like to think we're exaggerating, until it happens to them. Here's an except from an email at my university just a few days ago: We can all help create a culture of empathy, respect and equity. Preventions starts with challenging victim-blaming and believing survivors when they disclose. Based on personal experience and the stuff I see happening with MeToo, my initial reaction when I hear a person claiming rape is one of skepticism. If…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 06:38 PM
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Netflix/YouTube comedy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 01:34 PM
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I'd say almost everything they teach on here is pretty spot on. I had a conversation with a friend last evening - she is also in the RPW category, trying to improve herself, etc. She asked how exactly do guys rate us and stuff. I told her the following: Initially, attraction is a visual thing for us. That basically gets your foot in the door. So having a healthy body, not overweight, etc - all of that is the foundation for everything else. In terms of clothing/makeup, I would caution against goi…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 01:28 PM
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Welcome to ADHD! It's challenging. I remember struggling with something similar in my teens/early 20s. Having hobbies, learning a new instrument, contributing to others, etc - these are all things that helped me realize my self-worth. Now my validation is almost entirely internal. I spent a good deal of time reading various things that fall in the category of self-help. I started that at least 7-8 years ago. I got into meditation, fitness, nutrition, etc. It turns out diet has a noticeable effec…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 11:58 PM
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I'd say keep doing it. You'll eventually come across a man confident enough to approach you. One word of caution, save the smiling for showing interest.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 11:18 PM
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Meditation. It helps you stop getting so invested in mundane bs.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 11:15 PM
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TRP and RPW are great matches for each other in terms of the qualities of the people involved. But the strategies are very much opposite.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 11:14 PM
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how can I come to terms with the fact that RP men appear to be so against committing to a girl It's not that they are against commitment. A lot of guys on TRP have been burned in the past, so if you're spending any time on the men's forum, that's what you're going to see. To you it looks like anger, while to me it looks like storytelling and a way to inform each other of things to avoid. We just use different language - it's like group therapy lol. I think a lot of guys at TRP would love to meet…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 11:11 PM
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walking out at any stage in the relationship if shit goes downhill If I could turn the clock back to about 1.5 years ago, and slap myself, I would. Multiple times. While my situation didn't end up with divorce, I'm in the middle of fighting false accusations. It's one hell of a red lightning strike, that's for sure. Never again will I compromise and date a woman that shows even the slightest hint of red flags. I would rather stay single. I've gotten enough pussy variety to last a lifetime, so I …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:56 PM
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I sense a story here. But you're 100% right. It's also one hell of a red pill. You develop the ultimate "don't give a fuck" attitude after an experience like this.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 12:41 PM
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and post it online No. I would understand if he/you are traveling somewhere and he wanted some private viewing material. But I can't wrap my head around posting it online. I may be wrong, but I imagine you want kids at some point. Imagine them finding videos of mom.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 12:44 PM
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he's putting this on me because he knows that I wouldn't make the move Nope not at all. He just wants you to reciprocate and show some interest.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 12:33 PM
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Well it sounds like maybe you were too shy and didn't show much interest on the date, which is why he told you that. He wants you to reciprocate.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 12:31 PM
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Naturally it depends on the guy, but having hips/thighs is usually a good thing as long as the stomach area is under control.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 01:47 PM
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His view will change for the better of course. It can also be attractive to know that she is working on that (depending on her starting weight), even if she hasn't reached her goal yet.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 01:44 PM
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I can even empathize with the SJWs and see they are just living in pain and confusion like so many others, looking for answers You know you've broken free of the anger phase when you can look at your critics and empathize with them. It's not patronizing in any way - it truly is a sincere feeling of empathy and compassion towards others.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 06:38 PM
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In grad school, can confirm.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 02:06 AM
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Here's a good one: Yes, I get why middle-aged men chase young women, but I still don't understand why he has yet to have a relationship with a woman closer to his own age who has a career based on intellect and with whom he could find a partner for his ecological and intellectual pursuits. These young girls are like dessert. He must occasionally crave a full course meal, no? The women with "intellectual" pursuits won't cook a full course meal!
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 10:18 PM
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I laughed so hard at this, I'm stealing it. High five!
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 06:51 PM
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Drink water.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 06:40 PM
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It's true, and it's the same for the guy. Google the Coolidge effect.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 12:45 PM
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You are struggling now. If you think it will better and that she will change, you are wrong. Get out while you can. It only gets worse from here. Learn from my mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 09:02 PM
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Record everything and don't sleep with drunk chicks.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 06:57 PM
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hires more men because they are more capable and admitted this completely dead pan This is why there is no patriarchy. It's a meritocracy. A patriarchy would be a deliberate omission of women from certain circles, simply due to the fact that they are women. This simply isn't happening. The gap in any field is due to a number of factors, including: merit/capability interest level varies by sex societal pressures (this exists, but it's not the only factor as some feminists would claim) etc
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 08:59 PM
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Any time someone tries to argue a point and uses the words immature, insecure, or anything similar, I immediately know they are full of shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 12:52 PM
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Could you teach, say, math in English?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 02:26 AM
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I have been lifting weights fasted (whether I was dieting at low calories or normal), for the past 2 years. I've also done 48 hour fasts where I continued to lift (albeit much weaker). I've never gone in "starvation mode". It's simply not true. Check out /r/fasting -- there are people who do long-term (several days in a row) fasting who never go in starvation mode. The only thing OP needs to worry about is getting her vitamins in.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/18 01:19 PM
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Some strategies to look into: keto diet, or lower carbs in general - this will affect your gym performance, but once you get into ketosis, not only does your body use fat for fuel, but also helps with hunger and mental clarity intermittent fasting (IF) - you should consider this as a lifestyle, it's great not only for fat loss, but also for maintenance once you stop dieting. I had a back injury lifting, which prevented me from working out for about 2.5 months. During that time, I didn't really w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/18 01:15 PM
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This is already happening on RPW, and as women become more and more dissatisfied with the average "man," we are going to see more of it.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 12:58 PM
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I was reading about this recently. If you're interested in a more scholarly approach, Anne Campbell did a study about feelings after hooking up. A summary of her research is at https://www.livescience.com/2678-realities-night-stands-revealed.html
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 07:26 PM
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Just had a look, holy moly.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 06:52 PM
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the way I talk can come off as flirty when I don't mean to That is something you may have to watch out for in the future, but I don't think his reaction was reasonable. You have coworkers you're going to have to collaborate with (in a reasonable setting). Greeting people with a handshake is standard.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 11:52 AM
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I know what HCG does in men, but what does it do in women that makes the "HCG diet" effective?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 11:45 AM
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Insulin is a totally different beast though. VERY different from steroids. His idols didn't die from steroids, they died from using other drugs on top of steroids (insulin, diuretics, etc.).
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 11:43 AM
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Sounds like he knows what he's doing.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 11:39 AM
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I hold onto his vials and lock them away. That's my compromise what do you think? I think that is going too far. If his bloodwork comes back good, then I see no reason for this level of control. I'm not a fan of his dosages for testosterone/nandrolone, but you are trying to interfere in a way that a parent would, and that's just asking for trouble. Dianabol is a risk here, but "4 pills" means nothing if we don't know the dosage, and even so it's only an issue if used for extended periods (more t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 11:37 AM
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Hi /u/Arima779. I have some experience with steroids as I have been on TRT for the past 3 years or so, and spent this time researching everything that I could about testosterone, as well as other steroids in general. steroids permanently ruin your body This is not true! They CAN indeed cause issues if they are abused, but if used properly and responsibly, they are perfectly safe. Also, not all steroids are created equal. If he's only using testosterone, the chances of any adverse health effect i…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 11:27 AM
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Difficult times always happen in life, it's unavoidable. It doesn't matter if you're single, in a LTR, married, shit will hit the fan and it will affect you internally. Embrace it - this is a revealing moment in your relationship. Maybe it's all in your head and you're overreacting, but it's during these times that you find out if you can really rely on your partner. While AWALT, some women are high quality and will actually be supportive in these situations. It sounds to me like your GF should …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 11:59 AM
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Could be worse. You could be married to her now.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 07:19 PM
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How do we win in this situation? You already won. You managed to avoid a relationship with someone who has no sense of loyalty, and uses technicalities to sleep with others. If you were in a LTR with her, she is the type of person who, during a fight or a break, will sleep with another man. She will then tell you that's "technically" not cheating since she was single for that period of time. If she truly valued you and wanted to be your girlfriend, to earn your commitment, she wouldn't have slep…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 07:17 PM
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He has to prove he didn't rape her. That's how it works now. For defamatory lawsuits, that is indeed how it works. If X sues Y for defamation, X must prove in court that the damaging statements made by Y are false. The burden of proof is on the accuser, as it should. Don't confuse this with Y making a false statement about X (such as a rape accusation). If Y presses charges against X for rape, Y must prove that in court. Burden of proof falls on Y.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 04:40 PM
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OP, as they say on TRP, you can't "unplug" someone who isn't ready. I think you did everything you could to increase your brother's awareness of the situation. Him being "love-blind" means he just isn't receptive. At some point, you have to let him crash and burn. Experience is a harsh, but VERY effective teacher.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 12:24 PM
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There are a lot of posts here, if you just search for "red flags." It will help you identify them.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 12:00 PM
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The problem I see happening today is that of heavy polarization: women choose one path or the other. I see so many undergrads (mostly freshmen/sophomores I interact with), and they just bury themselves into homework, then party hard on weekends as a way to make up for social time, thinking that's going to fulfill them in the long term. Instead of drifting like everybody else, they could join some club on campus, or meetup group in an area they are interested in, and meet like-minded people. Ther…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 12:36 PM
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Like I said, it's clear you haven't gone through something like this. It turns your entire reality upside down.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 03:19 AM
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deterred by rumors and hypotheticals is not the kind of men most women are looking for, he's not going to be a strong, masculine man It's very easy to say this when you haven't been the target of a false accusation, and experience firsthand what /u/Guywithgirlwithabike is talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 01:59 AM
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What do you think? I would think you are a female Terminator from the future.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 11:38 PM
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It may exist, but the advice given here is based on probabilities. My and other men's experience dictates that the odds of coming across the "unicorn" are very low. Given the rarity of finding a good prospect, it really is in your best interest to meet as many women as possible -- it only improves your odds if finding a suitable woman for marriage. So really no matter what your end game may be, this strategy applies.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 11:24 AM
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If you have the time, I'm very interested in hearing about the red flags you ignored. It will be good material for everyone here to learn.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 05:18 PM
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This is the only sensible response to this post. OP is really playing with fire.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:14 PM
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I feel like I am reading about myself. Just be glad you're rid of her. Could be worse.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:18 PM
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XRP shows a lot of promise indeed, and the nice thing about it is that it's cheap.
/r/MGTOW06/01/18 02:05 PM
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women have had equal access to the internet and the exact same information as all the men have who invested in bitcoin. Here is a situation in which there were 0 barriers for women to participate They are using the internet for entirely different purposes, such as posting selfies on instagram.
/r/MGTOW06/01/18 01:24 PM
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It's true that he rolled it back, but it doesn't force colleges to revert to the higher standard of "clear and convincing evidence." The universities continue to use the weaker "preponderence of evidence" standard (which is the main issue in how due process is being violated for the accused). since colleges now have to report rape accusations to the police I am not aware that they have to report it. They have the discretion to decide whether to report it or not.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 09:35 PM
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I was thinking this exact same thing. How many women ask for verbal consent prior to sex? Probably very few. Considering how common it is to have a few drinks beforehand, most women are guilty of rape (being under the influence prevents someone from getting consent).
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 01:51 PM
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Wait it out until the next period, then bail when it comes. Being 2 days late isn't a big deal, one of my plates was like a week late and everything was fine.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 01:37 PM
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This is pretty much how universities do it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 01:44 PM
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As someone who LTR'd a proven cheater, I hear your pain. My advice: don't delete or erase anything.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 01:40 PM
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Things that "work" for one girl might be different for other girls. There are also general rules/guidelines that have been discussed here at TRP for a long time: you never LTR a party girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:28 PM
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Oh, the blue pill comments about OP's insecurity... Next thing they're gonna come here and say that women can be friends with their exes. OP is on point. Just one word of warning to everyone: if you get a lot of conflict from the beginning when you set the tone for the relationship, just dump her. Don't waste your fucking time.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 12:24 PM
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I teach vector calculus and I haven't noticed much difference between men and women in engineering. They seem to be equally capable, with some very intelligent outliers in both groups. But naturally men outnumber women.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 03:29 AM
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It's not that they think these guys are ultimate Chads. It's simpler than that. Women just love drama. They crave the emotional roller coasters you describe above. If the relationship is peaceful, they will still find something to complain about.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 07:27 PM
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Not really. At least not in a noticeable way right away. But they sure used it as ammo in the future.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:51 AM
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I wouldn't confront, but I would sure as hell start thinking of an exit strategy.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:25 AM
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Something that my mom always told me, but I had to learn the hard way before I actually listened. You NEVER open up to your woman. She will one day use those things you share with her against you.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:19 AM
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Don't forget, he MUST record the interaction in some way so he has proof of consent. Because these bitches will regret it later and accuse him of rape.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:17 AM
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Perfect advice. If I had a dollar for every time I thought to myself maybe she's changed. Nope, they do NOT change. They'll be able to fake it for a while, but it won't last. Within a month, she'll start having other guy friends, etc.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:15 AM
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You are right to be skeptical. The range is calculated from a population of males of all ages. So of course, for someone who is 80, a T level of 300 may be normal. However if you're in your 20s and you test around 300, the doctor will still call it "normal", which it most certainly isn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 12:42 AM
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My first meditation session.. really a guided meditation, was the opposite. It was a 5 minute clip, but it felt like it lasted much longer. In a good way. I remember the following day or two everything around me felt a bit different.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:28 PM
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