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Escalation & Calibrationalfadog77/r/seduction22/12/25 03:04 AM
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Outer Game alfadog77/r/seduction04/01/25 07:56 AM
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Inner Game alfadog77/r/seduction05/10/24 08:46 AM
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alfadog77/r/seduction14/08/22 06:35 AM
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Yeah maybe I was being too aggressive with HER atleast. The date i had on Sunday, she was loving it, started flirting back with me, fidgeting with my ring and caressing my hand and what not. Calibrating for each kind of girl is honestly my new sticking point. That'll take some more time(and more dates) to fix. But honestly, where i was 2 or 3 years ago is different since now, so it's kinda cool to see where ive gotten haha.
/r/seduction23/12/25 01:44 PM
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I dunno, ive done majority of my dates at bars, I usually try to find one with a nice intimate vibe, if it wasn't so cold, I usually like to move around to another place, like a mini date. And yeah, could be a possibility, at the end of the day though,for one reason or another, she wasnt interested! Oh well.
/r/seduction23/12/25 01:11 PM
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Yeah, for sure, we'll do better for next time. Next bus comes in 15!
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:01 PM
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FUCK YES!! Everything you said is on-point, and honestly, boxing classes single handedly helped me the most. It truly pulls the simp out of you, the feeling of going to "war" (sparring) its so thrilling, really need to get back into.
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:10 PM
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Ain't that fucking right. Embarrassment is an underexplored emotion, go make a fool of yourself! Youll learn eventually.
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:06 PM
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Ahhh I see what you mean now, my bad. Yeah, I tried my best to flirt during the positive moments, like us laughing or something, but for sure, maybe i was being too forward, appreciate the follow up man.
/r/seduction22/12/25 01:54 PM
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Wow, i never thought of it like that, but now that you mentioned it, she atleast knew it was a man to women conversation!! The fact she had to mention it when I texted her yesterday means she knew what I was looking for. Thanks for bringing that to light!! I really need to stop second doubting myself, its probably my BIGGEST character flaw. I never have my own back the way I do for other people. Maybe on my next date ill try to employ that no kissing policy, im happy to test out other angles, ev…
/r/seduction22/12/25 01:07 PM
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Honestly almost all of my platonic female friends were originally people I wanted to get with but for one reason or another it didnt work out. I have enough emotional maturity to be able to keep it as friends only. I use them to warmup my flirting skills and to go back to when I get blown out. I think it helps cuz the women that deny me at the bar or the clubs always look suprised when im talking to another super hot girl right after lol, does it help? Maybe with social proof atleast. Terrible w…
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:57 PM
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Yeah, honestly ur right, I should've made a move sooner, I just got into our conversation and actually started to enjoy talking to her and stuff LOL. Oh well, so many girls in the city, ive somehow managed to convince 3 of them to take the train into CT LOL. So Im happy to say not everyone cares about my location.
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:49 PM
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Yeah, for sure, dating can be brutal, just gotta keep going on em and filter the ones that arent interested. And yessir, 5'7" Pakistani dude, the cards are ALWAYS against me but I dont let it stop me, If they liked me on hinge, Im marketing myself well enough to not let those things get in the way, on the date, just trying to crush it!! Its why I didnt mention those features of mine in the initial post, I will always consider it a non-issue, ill let them reject me before I reject myself
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:46 PM
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Theres a comment in here that says she TRIED to be into it, and who knows maybe she did try, but im no mind reader!! Onto the next one I guess. I appreciate your response, I think its safe to assume that there were powers at play that I couldn't change, no point in trying to find something that I did wrong, I did the same stuff on my date yesterday and she was very much into it. Even started fidgeting with the ring on my finger and caressing my hand. You cant win em all!
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:36 PM
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Yeah, youre right, at the end of the day its a number game! Of course I only focus on the people who give me the same energy back, but its an assumed risk that they just might not be that into you when you're going out for a first date. You for real gotta love yourself when dating, shit can be cruel but I just keep my head up. The date I had yesterday, already making plans for round 2, very reciprocal and down!!
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:32 PM
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Yeah when she pulled back I would chill out for a few, played it cool, tried again later. Right off the bat I broke the touch barrier (you have really nice nails, let me see) just to gauge her level and she seemed to be chill about. Typically from my prior dates, if I can hold your hand, I could go for a kiss!! I had a slight inclination that she would've rejected me after that failed attempt but still continued to text me throughout the night, so I figured it was whatever, but I was wrong and t…
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:29 PM
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Yeah, ive had a few rejections already due to the distance, but I also had a few that didnt care. Cant fix it at the moment. Moving to the city is the goal, we're slowly making it there.
/r/seduction22/12/25 05:04 AM
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Thank you brodie, I would say this was a rare one for me, just too much self doubt in me, we'll get em next time. Thank you G
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:34 AM
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I like how you reframed this, I really need to start doing that myself, pays dividends to your mental health. Probably still have some inner game issues myself, ill for sure bring this up in my therapy session. Thank you man! Unfortunately for her, I have alot of platonic girlfriends, that roster is at max capacity. After that response I told her that wasn't what I wanted and not what hinge is for and told her to take care.
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:49 AM
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You have any idea of what I could've done better?? Im trying to think of the date, I was being playful, had us role-playing because we got into disagreement about something (this is why we're in couples therapy) tried to make her envision us doing something together in the future (play your cards right and you may be able to see my cat). Should I have been more like, sexy? Lmfaoo
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:42 AM
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I wish I could disagree with you, but you're right. Looks like i need to keep dating. I know I can do it. I got reference points of me putting in the work. Its just easy for myself to regress and constantly talk down about myself. City dating is a different beast.
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:39 AM
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Thank you brodie for bringing me back to reality, im starting to think that there was nothing I could've said or done to change the trajectory. Ive come a looooong way but I still question myself constantly. Im also going for an entirely different ethnic group, so many more asians near the NYC area lol. Maybe its just different with them too but I feel like the concepts of game apply the same regardless
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:36 AM
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Yeah, you bring up a good point, ive had dates where we've kissed way before the date ended, I have enough experience under my belt where I can gauge that, this one... not so much, but the "no spark" thing ive seen multiple times. My goal is to reduce those texts but im having trouble pinpointing my issue. She clearly thinks im attractive so it must've been something I did or said
/r/seduction22/12/25 03:33 AM
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This is so ironic. Ever since I lost alot of weight (181 to 146) ive been getting hit with gay allegations like everytime I got out with my crew. Even though I haven't changed much about my personality/looks wise. I almost thought about making a post until I saw this. I've asked my girlfriends about it and their theory is cuz I actually try to take care of my looks/appearance while most guys in our area can barely style their hair or just wear a t-shirt and jeans. Good post.
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:53 AM
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Yeah, you're right, I do need to play it less safe and take more risks. I'm proud of where I've gotten from where I started but I still have work to do.
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:15 PM
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Honestly, they'll talk to me for awhile and then just be like "okay have a nice night it was nice talking to you" Sometimes I'll get a make out session in but typically I'm a bit more drunk and my goal is to this without being plastered.
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:15 PM
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Thank you for this, this super insightful, I appreciate you!
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:30 PM
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Yes!! I am your friend lol. I do give off a friendly vibe as I've been changing the mindset in my head from "picking up women" to "let's just socialize" It's helped me improve my odds of talking to women but not necessarily bringing them back home. Are you thinking of that old-school escalation ladder? I read it a long time ago. Will have to find it again
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:19 PM
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Hell yes, brother. Brown Boys Unite 💯 Hopefully I can start improving my odds
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:16 PM
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By intent, do you mean like "Hey I think you're cute" but not directly saying it but rather showing it through eye contact, flirting, etc etc? Do you have any examples of a man-to-women situation, kinda having trouble visualizing that. I can be playful. I've had a few women say "Wait you're so fun" so I think I got that part down. Isolation, haven't tried that yet but I'll add that to the to-do list. Thanks, man!
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:16 PM
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This is something I don't do, Thank you, man, will give it a try this weekend. Unfortunately, the club I went to was kind of dead in NYC, that 12-degree weather for sure makes people homebodies haha.
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:13 PM
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Hey u live and learn that's why I asked
/r/seduction05/10/24 05:34 PM
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Alright cool, outside of the darker clothing imy pretty much set on everything styling-wise. Attitude and confidence is getting better now that I feel good about myself. The posture we got face pulls for at the gym 💯 Thank you man. Appreciate the feedback.
/r/seduction05/10/24 03:08 PM
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What would you consider "gritty"?
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:37 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 you're absolutely right. I'll have to change up my response for next time.
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:36 PM
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Yeah, seriously. My pops was constantly working to keep a roof on our heads so he wasn't able to parent as much as he would like to. Not his fault. He did what needed to be done. I don't have a flamboyant tone, I'm pretty conservative in regards to that. I don't think I'm zesty or anything like that. I think it's my mannerism or my energy. Although metrosexual... does seem like something I do in terms of how I keep my appearance, (eyebrows, dressed nicely) I'm gonna try something different tonig…
/r/seduction05/10/24 02:35 PM
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Yeah, maybe I'm just overthinking it tbh. I do take care of myself and like dressing nice af and all that grooming stuff. I'm too hairy lmao.
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:54 PM
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Yo crazy enough that is kinda me, high energy, making everyone laugh, lots of smiles etc. I have done the other approach of being calm, stoic, etc, but the girls I did talk to just found someone else with higher energy. I appreciate this tho, I need to be more in my masculine energy.
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:51 PM
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Thank you homie! Losing that weight was the best choice I've ever made for myself. So many doors have opened up which is why I'm asking this question now LOL Its after I've engaged with them, 🤣 but then they still stick around and flirt. The same girl last night who thought I was gay asked for my Instagram later In the night. I am pretty thin right now and in the progress of packing on muscle but until then I gotta keep trying and failing. Muscles gonna take atleast year or two of eating right a…
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:47 PM
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I agree because it's better than arguing I guess? Never argue with a girl lol. Cardinal sin. Pretty sure I read about agreeing and amplifying on here and turning it into a joke or just trolling them. I slept with a girl about 2 weeks ago, hinge, one-night stand but she was cute and did not think I was gay. Like I said it doesn't happen often lol. I also have a date setup for a cider mill today.
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:43 PM
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I found a new barber(Dominican) and he just did them lol, I didn't ask him to do it but he did and honestly it was needed lol
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:36 PM
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Damn, maybe I need to change my approach, I will say growing up, i was primarily raised by women. Maybe this could be something I could bring up in therapy. It doesn't happen often but in the last 5 months it's happened on 4 separate occasions, one of the girls that I thought I was gay made out with me afterwards. So maybe just keep doing what I'm doing? Lmao
/r/seduction05/10/24 09:03 AM
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Wow, I appreciate the hard truth, socially retarded is honestly a great way to put it. Friends say I'm one of the most social people they know because of how many people i know when we go out, but i was never able to get to a deeper level of intimacy with women, thanks for pointing that out. You said it the best honestly, I do put myself in the mindset that I need to worker harder than the rest with women because of all my own mental blocks. Guess it really is mostly about the relationship you h…
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:55 PM
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thank you! I never really thought about it that way. I'll definitely keep that in mind next week.
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:47 PM
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I'll give them a watch! thanks man appreciate it.
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:06 AM
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homie you've been spamming this in the last 7 threads smh
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:54 AM
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Bro were you the same date as I was? hahahaha, same thing happened to me. matched with this girl last Wednesday, got her number and planned a date within the first 10 messages. Literally from last Wednesday to two hours before date we were texting. held hands for a bit, gave a hug goodbye. she texted me she got home safe and that she had a fun time with me and I replied back and that was that. The next day.... RADIO SILENCE. I decided to text her that day and hope she had a good day and sent an …
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:07 AM
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haha, unfortunately since that person commented I changed it up a bit. I really appreciate the feed back though. all of this helps out alot. I'll see if I can take a better picture for my main once it's warmer outside. quite cold still in new England 😂
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:15 AM
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Thank you for the information! I'll try and get some better pics taken in the future when it's warmer outside here. Interestingly enough, it doesn't show you the videos I have in my profile. I have two videos, one of me during my boxing lesson, and another one where I'm toasting the boys on the side of a mountain with our snowboards
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:15 AM
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was wondering if someone could critique my profile. https://tinder.com/@bigmoe96 all criticism welcome
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:47 PM
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You can lengthen your legs but you can't lengthen your arms FYI, you'd look funny looking with tall legs and shorter arms
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:16 PM
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thanks for the advice!I appreciate it. I just gotta get my ass in gear and just do it. After my last break up 8 months I vowed to myself id get good at this and I will!
/r/seduction10/12/20 08:12 PM
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Ahh, thank you. I live in the suburbs in New England so its been freezing over here so I cant really walk around. I was thinking of cold approaching at malls but I still have some resistance to it.
/r/seduction10/12/20 05:57 PM
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Where have you've been approaching during these covid times? I've been trying to get out there cold approaching but not sure where to go that isn't too creepy or weird.
/r/seduction10/12/20 05:02 PM
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Thank you man, glad im doing it right. I approached over 15 girls and I got two numbers. One had a boyfriend but was still down to hang out and the other gave it to me after I asked her to grab coffee. I didn't text them at all because I lived in an entire different state so it was good practice. I defintely need to get down the "After" part.
/r/seduction18/11/20 03:09 PM
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I just started too, what do you usually say when you first go up to her? My first day lf cold approaching I just straight up told them they're cute and tried to start having conversations from there
/r/seduction18/11/20 01:49 PM
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Bro trust me I know your pain. My ex and I broke up in May and a month and half later she's dating a friend of mine... that I was venting too... while she was in bed next to him. You don't understand the rage I still have 2 months later. I straight up called this dude and said if I see you in person it's lights out(maybe, depends on if there are cameras and witnesses) Very glad I picked up boxing as a new hobby after we ended things. We will both get through this! Fuck our ex's. There is definte…
/r/seduction22/08/20 12:04 AM
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I'm from CT as well, near the Hartford area too! Same boat as you lol. Very hard to meet women during Corona especially with masks. My only suggestion is beaches. You can try Old Lyme, Misquamacit, Watch Hill(these two places are way better) if you have a group of boys you can go with. Goodluck and if you ever need a wingman let me know cuz I'm pretty rusty myself. Coming out of a 2.5 year relationship and my game is gone.
/r/seduction27/07/20 11:21 PM
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Pakistani guy here as well. I get them shaped up and get ridiculous amounts of compliments for them deff do it if you have really bushy eyebrows.
/r/seduction10/04/16 07:33 AM
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The last girl that rejected me was a friend of mines ex. I was fully aware that if things got serious between me and that girl I'd have to tell him and I knew he'd be pissed and the friendship most likely would be over.
/r/seduction08/04/16 07:06 AM
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