Been around the seduction community since I was 18, right after my first major breakup, Im 25 now, not sure what the hell I'm doing wrong. I had another 4 yr on/off relationship afterwards, but it was toxic as all hell and it ended up with her throwing all my shit out of the house 7 months after I moved in with her. Nope'd the fuck out and never spoke to that girl again. I know my worth

Everytime I go out, I try and try, I see all my boys get girls without even trying. Sometimes they're the ones getting approached. Mind you im a 5'7" South Asian guy but VERY americanized(booze, bacon, and bitches). I always try to tell myself that my height is not my issue and it's everything else, but seriously, I think my height and ethnicity are the biggest issue but, who knows, maybe it's the bars that I go out too.

I just got back from the bar, went out with the intention of having fun, I approached two girls tonight, one girl was hitting my shoulder while I was dancing because my energy was right, started dancing along me, once we made eye contact I was like "I really like the top where'd you get it" and she pulls me close to her and said "that's enough, thank you" and walks away 😭. I honestly laughed about it and didn't really think about it until now.

My boy told me he knows a couple girls and introduces me to them, one girl I was trying to talk with and get her interest piquing but alas, she was interested in my boy and they were vibing, good for him, he's got a good physique and is 6'2", I can't do anything about that except for rooting him on.

The only time I really try to game is at night, Im too busy during the weekdays to day game because of work and gym, so I try my luck with night game.

Where I'm getting discouraged is that this is a weekly problem, I'm invisible to all the women but my boys do fine, I try to stay upbeat, but after two failed relationships and countless failures, I'm getting fucking discouraged, I'm on the fitness journey but it's lame as hell to wait till I get my ideal physique and then try to attract women, I wanna get good now and baske in glory when I build up my body.

Any advice on where I can approve my game and chances? I go to the club/bar with the intention of having fun, I try to talk to women when I think we'll have a fun convo and vibe but get blown out really fast.