Sup!

5'7 South Asian homie unfortunately living in a town with clicky groups. People from smaller towns come to my town because we have the best bars in the area. I live 5 minutes away. So bringing a girl back would be sweet. Apt has good vibes, got a hookah, cute cat, good music etc.

So for the last year and half i finally grabbed life by the balls and took action.

Lost over 35 pounds (181 to 148) picked up an active hobby, and started dressing better and got therapy and adderall to navigate my mental health properly.

I can finally hold conversations with women and keep them somewhat attentive. I was even able to cold approach a girl at barnes and nobles and actually keep her interested!! She took the time to Uber to come see me cuz she was still in college. All my problems with online dating didn't exist with my first ever cold approach. Awesome stuff. Blows my mind all i needed to was get a little lean and have some fucking confidence, dress better, and have no filter

My sticking point tho is bars... I can talk to women and they'll talk to me for awhile but for the life of me I can't take them back home lol. I'm not sure if this just a general overall problem or if it's just my energy. I've had enough experience in the bars to realize numbers and Instagrams don't mean shit.

I was hoping to get some pointers, will be going to NYC tommorow for a friend's birthday so it'll be good practice since no one knows me there.

Thanks!