| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | Improving Fashion and vocal tonality | alpha_hxCR8 | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 12:59 AM | |
| 2 | structured game vs unstructured game. ie mystery method/magic bullets vs RSD natural style game... | alpha_hxCR8 | /r/seduction | 16/02/14 07:13 AM | |
| 2 | Have been going out to talk to random people, religiously.. wondering what I should focus on for improving seducion skills | alpha_hxCR8 | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 03:03 AM | |
| 2 | Toastmasters vs acting vs improv for improving verbal skills | alpha_hxCR8 | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 05:17 AM | |
| 1 | Role models for ideal voice tone/delivery | alpha_hxCR8 | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 07:22 PM | |
| 1 | growing a full beard | alpha_hxCR8 | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 01:08 AM | |
| 1 | Reddit critique my online profile.. go hard..or soft..as you wish.. | alpha_hxCR8 | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 09:09 PM | |
| 0 | improving verbal freedom | alpha_hxCR8 | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 07:19 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Role models for ideal voice tone/deliveryThanks.. will check him out.. Was going to go with Obama.. he has pretty good delivery as well.. | /r/seduction | 25/12/16 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Carl Sagan gives great advice.GOod one. I have actually changed my screen on my personal laptop and phone to that pale green dot picture. I did put it on my work laptop, but then I had to explain to everybody what that meant when I had team presentations lol. It was too much work, so had to remove it from there | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Toastmasters vs acting vs improv for improving verbal skillsThanks /u/Big_TX for the encouragement.. I have read reviews of a lot of the popular systems, lovesystems, MM, BradP, RSD, Models, Double Your dating. I read all of these at one point, but over time I found that they are all tangents of MM. Models being an exception which is more like NMMNG. I am already working through NMMNG with a group of other guys. Its hard to tell which one actually works, because modern/new model doesnt necessarily mean it works. There is so much marketing, and every pick… | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Toastmasters vs acting vs improv for improving verbal skillsYeah.. thats I am doing right now. I have a goal of 15-20 hrs of social activies per week. Its a bit hard to do because I have a habit of just sitting at home, which I need to get over. I am not yet there, and I have put more effort into accomplishing that goal. Like if I am exhauseted after work, my natural tendency is to sit at home and watch movies. So the structured classes like improv/networking events push me to socialize every day. I went to toastmasters for a bit, but never did any of th… | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Toastmasters vs acting vs improv for improving verbal skillsThank you for your comment /u/SeinoMore Yeah.. I actually have seen some very hot/intellegent/ambitious women in my meditation/improv classes/jams as well. But I dont go there to pickup. Maybe because I dress pretty well/non-verbals have improved a bit these days, I can see a lot of women giving me IOIs (extended eye contact, looking at me when I am not looking, proximity IOIs, getting very nervous when I am around). I actively try to avoid picking up women in these groups, because I am here to … | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Toastmasters vs acting vs improv for improving verbal skillsThanks for very much for your comments /u/calumtingham..You have some good points.. But... The skill of seduction can be broken down into 3 components (MM): attraction, comfort and seduction. Ofcourse you cant improve on seduction phase in toastmasters/acting classes, but I think attraction, comfort building can be improved much faster in taking dedicated acting classes. The reason for this is because in the first 2 phases you are basically talking your head off. Yes there is kino (again cant be… | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I am Derek Cajun, I now run Love Systems, teach guys how to lead the life they want, and play SEGA. I'm here with Chris Shepherd. Ask me anything!If you are coming from dancing Salsa in a "Salsa/Latin" club vs going to a Nightclub (such as XS) and dancing salsa, I think there is a big difference. I used to be an intermediate in salsa/bachata/ballroom. I have a buddy who is instructor level in salsa/bachata/latin/ballroom/hundred different types of partner dances. When he used to go to these specialized "latin clubs" where people go mostly to dance, girls would flock him, because he was such a good dancer. His tactic IMO was he would dance… | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 10:47 PM |
| 2 | I am Derek Cajun, I now run Love Systems, teach guys how to lead the life they want, and play SEGA. I'm here with Chris Shepherd. Ask me anything!I understand what you are saying, which is that frame control is very important for game. I guess my question is as a newbie isnt it better to start off with structured game and then move to natural game? This is the same method I see most of the good instructors have followed (even though they have come to denounce it later). If game was purely about assuming value and not about "having value" good looks/ height/ wealth/status wouldnt matter right? [edit.. I guess I might be a bit confused what… | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 09:07 PM |
| 3 | I am Derek Cajun, I now run Love Systems, teach guys how to lead the life they want, and play SEGA. I'm here with Chris Shepherd. Ask me anything!I agree with the confidence part. Putting myself in scary situations has built my confidence greatly (improv, Toastmasters, leading clubs) | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 08:53 PM |
| 8 | I am Derek Cajun, I now run Love Systems, teach guys how to lead the life they want, and play SEGA. I'm here with Chris Shepherd. Ask me anything!Thanks Cajun for your post..i am sure a lot of people have similar questions.. This is kindof counter intuitive. Because, to learn effectively you have to break a skillset logically down to its components, and then learn it step by step. Say if you take the music analogy.. people who learn music first learn to play a single note, then a more complex series of notes, then learn to put together a simple song.. then a more complex song,.. then maybe a shitty creative music. At that point they proba… | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 08:51 PM |
| 4 | I am Derek Cajun, I now run Love Systems, teach guys how to lead the life they want, and play SEGA. I'm here with Chris Shepherd. Ask me anything!Actually I do agree. As Cajun said, latin dancing helped me when I used to do club game. But it seems you already know latin dancing (salsa, merengue (?), bachata (?)) pretty well. Bachata is probably the sexiest and more appropriate for club game. | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 08:34 PM |
| 2 | I am Derek Cajun, I now run Love Systems, teach guys how to lead the life they want, and play SEGA. I'm here with Chris Shepherd. Ask me anything!You mentioned you have moved from the logical triad method to a more natural method of developing attraction. This has been a long discussion about the pros and cons of natural vs structured game. Historically game has been "taught" by instructors only for the past few decades while sales has been "taught" by instructors for much longer. Typically sales training is very structured with routine stacks and a similar structure as the TRIAD model. Ofcourse when you are a super salesman, you dont nee… | /r/seduction | 25/07/16 07:44 PM |
| 1 | improving verbal freedomThanks. Thats kind of what I am going to do for the next year, but in a bit more structured and focused way. Because of my work and stuff, I can always be chatty. So I joining these events so I practice socializing in a focused fashion | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 07:05 AM |
| 1 | growing a full beardBy mess: you mean my hairstyle or beard? Just got a #2 fade last week..maybe its the angles or something.. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 07:14 AM |
| 1 | growing a full beardGood point! Thanks. I will keep that in mind! | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 07:11 AM |
| 1 | growing a full beardThanks for your comments, sis. Are you referring to me or to fatalecs? | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 07:10 AM |
| 1 | growing a full beardThanks bro. i will try to cut BF. I was much lower at one point, then gained weight due to work stress etc. Yeah.. i wasnt very groomed on this one. i usually groom my beard once a week on sundays. So you kindof caught me on a bad-beard day :) | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 07:09 AM |
| 1 | growing a full beardI mean...I was reading online..and it seems if you are growing a full beard, it does require regular maintainance, dealing with the itchiness etc, which is not present with with a clean shaven look. But I will definitely give it a try and see what happens... | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 04:40 AM |
| 1 | growing a full beardYeah..thats what I felt too. I started upgrading my ward-drobe and start getting so many IOIs from girls. Granted I had a very shitty ward-drobe before I started thinkiing about fashion and stuff. This is a definitely a bit of investment, so I am trying to figure out whether getting a beard is a good idea or not. Do you still think beards are weird? :) | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 04:26 AM |
| 1 | growing a full beardThanks for the information. This is very helpful. Not sure how much of a strong jaw I have, but I have to figure that out. Do you think I have a strong jawline? http://imgur.com/a/nJYLO | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 04:24 AM |
| 1 | growing a full beardThanks for replying I am Indian with light brown skin color and have a oval face shape. I never have really grown out a full beard, but I have seen a bit of patchiness on my beard. I usually wear a trimmed 7 day beard. is there any particular face shape/skin color/feature etc which looks good with a beard? | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Improving Fashion and vocal tonalitythanks | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Improving Fashion and vocal tonalityThank you. Will do. Was trying to find out some goal, but I think I will have to come up with something by myself. | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Improving Fashion and vocal tonalityI am actually not working on fashion by itself. I go out regularly, meditate, go to gym, work(a lot) etc etc. But my fashion and general grooming sucks, mainly becuase I am habituated to being sloppy. I have tried changing before, but it didnt work before. And I cant handle too many changes simultaneously especially with my work load. | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Improving Fashion and vocal tonalityThanks for the reply. I dont want to spend a lot of time on fashion. I go out regularly twice a week, and have 1 good outfit (which too maynot be that good, especially after I lost so much weight). Other than that outfit, my overall fashion/grooming sucks. I have known that for a while, and I have tried changing it multiple times. But because I took on too much/read too much, and because I work a lot, I always regressed. So I decided I am going to take a small step every week towards that goal, … | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Improving Fashion and vocal tonalityYeah. I agree. I do have 1 good outfit that I wear when I am out. But in general in my day to day life, my outfits suck. I barely pay attention to what I wear or how I groom myself, my room is in the shits. Its partially because I work a lot and dont have time to properly dress etc. I have tried changing my overall fashion multiple time, but I have always regressed, because I too on too much. So I decided this time I am going to start small, really small. Thats exactly how I lost so much weight.… | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Improving Fashion and vocal tonalityOk, I will try to emulate him from his speeches. | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Improving Fashion and vocal tonalityThanks. I will check it out. | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Improving Fashion and vocal tonalityThank you. I think I don't speak that fast and have slowed down over time. What is an appropriate speed/pace to talk at? | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Reddit critique my online profile.. go hard..or soft..as you wish..No, but I may have gone too much on the funny/weird side over time with my profile. | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 10:46 PM |
| 2 | RSD Julien is doing a webinar tomorrow[WED 9PM] talking about his INSANE Outer Game skills! MUST WATCH for Intermediate/Advancedfirst of all, there is nothing free that you get from a company. If you are getting any free information, you are paying for it by sitting through free tours which are full of marketing. Secondly go listen to foundations. It costs $369. Then go read "revelations" by venusian arts. Revelations contains ~10X more information for newbies all the way up to advanced ppl, and it costs $97. RSD essentially puts out information in video format, because a hour video seems like it would contain more infor… | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 12:57 PM |
| 8 | RSD Julien is doing a webinar tomorrow[WED 9PM] talking about his INSANE Outer Game skills! MUST WATCH for Intermediate/AdvancedPersonally I find RSD products has too much noise (marketing) compared to actual value (signal). I used to listen to RSD, and now I try to avoid it. Even though RSD fan boys try to treat people who follow mystery method or Magic bullets as a feather hat wearing, voodoo magician, who spit out memorized chants to woo girls to bed, that is not true. RSD borrows a lot of stuff from Mystery method. If you read Julien's AMA, you will know that. Most of what RSD label as its own, is actually borrowed f… | /r/seduction | 18/02/14 06:52 PM |
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