Improving Fashion and vocal tonality

MetalPUA · 2015-02-17T01:58:40+00:00

You've got two different voices, your "head" voice and your "chest" voice. When singing your head voice handles the high notes and your chest voice handles the low notes. Your head voice comes out through your nose, your chest voice comes out through your mouth. You want to learn how to speak mainly with your chest voice. So here's a trick from the book Models. Read the following sentence out loud:

"Why don't you come to the party with me?"

Now plug your nose and read it again. If your tone doesn't sound very different, you speak mainly from your chest. But if your voice sounds nasal, you need to work on speaking with a deeper voice. Keep practicing until you can read the above sentence while holding your nose and your voice doesn't sound any different.

You'll also want to work on two other things: speaking slowly, and speaking loudly. If you're a fast talker, people will perceive you as being nervous. So start speaking in a slow and deliberate manner. Also, when you're in a social situation, the volume of your voice should be a little louder than everybody else in the group. Research has shown that speaking loudly commands more respect and attention from the people around you.

SinSlayer · 2015-02-17T01:38:38+00:00

While voice tone is important, i find speed and pace to be even more so. Try to slow your speech patter. It makes people focus more on what your saying and anticipate your response. When you speak fast, it makes them mentally have to work to keeo up, which can be off putting.

Bitru · 2015-02-17T03:51:59+00:00

Here is a video of how to develop a manly voice.

Lavde2722 · 2015-02-17T08:47:06+00:00

I think you'll hit the law of diminishing returns fairly quick when it comes to fashion. If your game is going out to bars, anything more than a nice button up shirt, jeans and a nice pair of shoes is unnecessary. Fit is the key to looking good. Check out the sidebar of /r/malefashionadvice. They have a guide for how things should fit.

It can be overwhelming, but if you do the basics well, you can still dress well and keep it simple.

tectonic9 · 2015-02-17T05:57:42+00:00

when do I know that I have reached the point of diminishing returns and improving my fashion further won't have any more significant improvements in my success with women?

Right now. Feel free to play with your style as much as you want, but if you're expecting it to be some magic transformation after which dating will be easier than before, then stop thinking about it right now, and go outside and meet some girls today.

Yes, style is an easy way to improve your appearance, but it's not magic, it won't get you a date, and it's not a substitute for in-field experience. The tall, handsome, rich, stylish guy may have an easier time than the short, ugly, poor, sloppy guy, but if the latter goes out and develops better game then it'll show.

So if your style is at least better than disaster level, then from now on decide that improving it is for YOU, and that the rest of your forward improvement will not wait on it.

joshsway · 2015-02-17T17:57:03+00:00

you don't have to work on one thing at a time, just fyi. Why not work on a few things at once?

bnkul · 2015-02-17T18:47:55+00:00

Visit the subreddits other people linked and lurk them for a bit. Find a style you like preferably one that doesn't include a fedora and then buy basic items and make sure they fit well.

Title	Improving Fashion and vocal tonality
Author	alpha_hxCR8
Upvotes	19
Comments	19
Date	February 17, 2015 12:59 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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