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I've used modafinil, even in fairly high doses, and never felt any effects other than stinky piss. Adderall works wonders for me, though.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 04:58 PM
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So NEXT it is for this one... She flaked on me twice. After continued escalation today and obvious interest from her, I show up at her hotel as planned and she sends me a text saying "I am staying in tonight. I came here on business, as you know, and I want to keep our relationship professional." I had no good response to that without coming into her frame, so I left. Hamsters gonna hamst.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:15 AM
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Joe Morrissey indeed appears to be a Dark Triad man, but I think the issue of race has a lot to do with how this all went down. Racial politics are still a big factor in America, especially in southern states like Virginia. Morrissey is white but his district is majority black. He is a liberal Democrat, regularly visits black churches, and is well liked in that community. And the 17-year-old girl Morrissey fucked is black. (See video here for an interview with her: http://wtvr.com/2015/01/12/joe…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 10:55 PM
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This is all spot-on. The two most important things I've learned in approaching college girls are: 1) It's a numbers game, moreso than picking up older women. There's only going to be a certain subset of college girls who like older guys. I play the "Christian Grey" card as I'm tall, mid-thirties, a little bit of gray in my hair and am a moderately successful entrepreneur. Some 18-22 year olds love this, others just aren't attracted. It is what it is. 2) For this age group, pull her into your fra…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 05:19 PM
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http://www.betcheslovethis.com/article/hating-nice-guys Here's a piece about hating the "nice guys." Basically spells out that girls want a man who passes their shit tests and can play the part of the asshole.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 03:50 PM
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My father is naturally redpill. He is 21 years older than my mother, has a dominant and charismatic personality, still lifts and is athletic even at his current age (in his 80s). He and I have had many of the same conversations about men's rights, marriage, and the importance of holding frame that we discuss daily here on TRP. Dad has been pretty much the only person in my life who follows these principles. I went through a period of resentment toward him in my beta days, but I respect him more …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 08:12 PM
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"We're not having sex tonight" really means "you can fuck me, but I'm going to put up some resistance because I am not a slut." One of the most common shit tests out there.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 08:10 PM
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YES. That's what the people who complain about making $10 an hour don't understand.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 09:58 AM
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Adderall is overrated. A lot of people think it's a wonder drug, but I was on it for a couple of months this past summer and had much the opposite effect. Made me very unfeeling, overaggressive and a little too much of an asshole. It did help my concentration and ability to finish tasks, but that wasn't worth the "asshole" side effects to me. (I'm enough of an asshole without Adderall.) You might want to try Vyvanse or Strattera - everyone's body and brain chemistry reacts differently to all thi…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 08:52 PM
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Same here.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 06:03 PM
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I like it when a plate talks to other guys. 1) it proves that the girl is attractive and desirable and 2) in most cases the guys she talks to are going to be orbiters so no threat of them ever fucking her.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 05:58 PM
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This belongs in r/asktrp. You have a clear case of oneitis for your ex. One of the key tenets of TRP is "don't put pussy on a pedestal." Enjoy sex with other girls for what it is, don't try to use it to fill a void. I had two LTRs in the past that crushed me emotionally, but that was because I didn't have an abundance mentality in my relations with women. Nowadays I spin plates and I love the variety.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 04:00 PM
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Humility works. Reminds me of a buddy of mine from college who has always been stoic and rather introverted. Saw him 5 years after graduation and he told me about living in Boston and going to grad school. He didn't even mention that he was going to Harvard until I asked. He is so high-value that he doesn't need to brag. Every time I see him, this friend always has a different girl by his side and is still a bachelor and multi-millionaire in his mid-30s. Redpill by nature.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 03:48 PM
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Yes. I had many female "friends" in my beta days who I was sexually attracted to; in other words, I was their orbiter. Since swallowing TRP, I have either gone no-contact or escalated sexually with all of them, depending on the situation.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:39 PM
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Even if I were a billionaire I would never spend that kind of money on pussy. Paying an 18 year old slut a $500K salary is insane. No need to pay for a soft harem when my social status would be so high - high SMV girls would fuck me for free as long as I maintain an alpha frame. I'm far from wealthy now and that part is already true for me. My ideal would be a Ted Turner arrangement - spin several long-term plates with no expectation of exclusivity. I want kids, but I need variety and can't see …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:06 AM
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Set a vision and goals for yourself, and take actions each day to work toward that vision. This has helped me tremendously in my career; right around my 29th birthday, frustrated with working in dead-end jobs, I decided to start a business. There are few better leadership opportunities. That's just one example. I'm applying the same theory (set a vision and take actions toward it) in my relationships with women now that I've swallowed TRP.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:26 PM
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Even some songs sung by women have redpill truths. Example: Whitney Houston "Saving All My Love for You." "Though I've tried to resist being last on your list, but no other man's gonna do..." - Hamstering her way into fucking a married alpha, even though he won't commit. http://www.elyrics.net/read/w/whitney-houston-lyrics/saving-all-my-love-for-you-lyrics.html
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:13 PM
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Nothing wrong with low value plates. Just don't forget to stop working on yourself and go for the higher SMV girls as time goes on.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 07:03 PM
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I'd treat the tip-top vag remark as a shit test and agree/amplify. Kind of a weird one though.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 07:01 PM
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I had frequent business trips to Atlanta and met an FWB there not that long ago. She was 26, graduated from a big state school and lived with some of her sorority sisters in an apartment in Buckhead. If you stick to the right neighborhoods there are plenty of young, hot single women. Some other parts of Atlanta metro are either ghetto or redneck, depending on your racial preference.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 06:59 PM
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This Dr. Phil episode even has a fat age 35-ish blonde sugar baby who tells her man "my bag is hungry" when she needs more money. Blech. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-rl_vxMlQ18
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:32 PM
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There's even daygame advice: "Search While You're Out Walking" http://www.poetryintranslation.com/PITBR/Latin/ArtofLoveBkI.htm#anchor_Toc521049257
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:22 PM
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Me: "can I kiss you" Fat girl: "no" Me: "why" Fat girl: "because you asked" That is a real-life example of how I used to try to escalate. It never worked.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:59 PM
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I attempted suicide twice because of a severe case of oneitis. Of course that was 10 years before I discovered TRP principles. After that, I continued to try to be the perfect beta bitch boyfriend to whatever girl would have me. Thank God for the Red Pill - not only has it helped me with depression, it's the self-improvement part that is really more important than getting pussy. (The pussy is a side benefit).
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:55 PM
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Perfect example of holding frame. This shit works.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:46 PM
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Fucking a Filipina is one thing, just don't marry one. I had a coworker who got hosed by his Filipina wife. She has a hot body and is 20 years younger than him, but she stayed with him long enough to have a baby, get U.S. citizenship and then filed for divorce (with alimony, child support and all the other benefits that come with that for her).
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:35 PM
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This is great. Reminds me of a coworker I once had - he was 19, short and fat (actually looked a lot like the guy in the video with the fat suit). He pulled lots of high SMV pussy because he was confident and came across in a very Redpill way.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:11 AM
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I'm about to turn 32 and my SMV keeps going up with age. Like you, I was somewhat of a "big man on campus" (in a frat, etc.) in college but then struggled for a few years after college, unknowingly playing the part of the beta chump thinking it would attract women. I started my own business at age 29, shortly thereafter found r/seduction and then later TRP. Also began lifting recently, and the confidence boost and attention from women I receive from all of the above has been incredible. I have h…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:34 PM
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I just ignore it and look for nonverbal IOIs. Many times a girl mentioning a "boyfriend" can be a shit test. If she's interested in you, she's looking for someone better.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:25 PM
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I can relate to this story. Back when I was BP and had a scarcity mentality with a side of white knight, I met a girl out of state via a wrong-number text message. (She was trying to text another male friend in my city, but was 1 digit off). The conversations started out flirtatious, and she was decently attractive, but I ended up becoming her emotional tampon and we talked on the phone almost every night for over an hour. I flew out to see her after about a month, and she went back to my hotel …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:27 PM
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I moved several hundred miles away from my parents when I turned 18 and started college. We had a fairly healthy relationship but the move (by default) made me less close to them. Although my behavior was very blue pill in my 20s, moving away was one of the best decisions I could have made. Forced me to be more independent.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:19 PM
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As Goldmund calls it, "game porn." I've learned a lot from reading his FRs.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 10:42 AM
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I started as a teenager, as a recreational pilot, and was fortunate enough to have parents with deep pockets who helped pay for a lot of my flying hours. My grandfather had an old Cessna and I also learned informally from him. The job with the small regional airline was fun but paid next to nothing starting out. (Less than $30K/year). You can make a decent income as an airline pilot, but it'll take you 20 years or more to get high enough seniority to fly any of the larger jets. That's why I got …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:06 PM
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"ended up having to fuck them both"....what a chore. Haha. Nice way to phrase that.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:51 PM
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A girl talking about how she "acts like a man" is her way of saying she's a slut.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:05 PM
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All very true. In my beta days, I was constantly worried about getting a job, losing my job, and kissing the boss's ass to look good. Now with the switch flipped (I am the employer - I own a business) I look for candidates who are confident as you described.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:29 PM
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I know several black women in their late 20s/early 30s and from what they say, they're all looking for a unicorn: a black man with higher social status and education than they have, who will commit to an LTR. But many black men who fit this description, end up with white women or are just spinning plates. Some black women feel pressure from their parents & grandparents to live up to the "Cosby Show" ideal. Marrying a white man would taint that ideal to an extent. Call it reverse racism, but it's…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:56 AM
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Ha. The show is a trainwreck to watch (and bluepill as fuck). Lonely teenagers find people for LTRs online who send them fake pics and lead them on, sometimes over several years. Then Nev and his co-host track down the "catfish" - they're usually morbidly obese, or gay.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:55 PM
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It's a shit test. Ignore or agree and amplify. I've gotten this from numerous women. If they're showing IOIs and slipping the "my man" in, they're looking for an upgrade or an alpha fuck.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 08:52 PM
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He's the creator of the movie and MTV reality show "Catfish."
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:28 PM
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I don't know the guy, but he is beta as fuck. Worst that could happen if their relationship ended, is that the girl would have to find another beta provider (or a job). No kids, no marriage.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:20 PM
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Cool story--although not an ideal outcome for the father and his family. Dad must have had an affair and the woman gave up Thomas for adoption. This is all the more reason why I need to do a DNA test--my dad brags about having slept with over 200 women in the early 1970s, so it's very possible I have some half siblings out there that I (or he) are unaware of.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:18 PM
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Blue pill all the way. Good morning texts will put you in the friend zone because they show neediness. The general view here on TRP is that we initiate texting only to arrange face-to-face meetings.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:06 PM
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I used to be attracted to fat chicks because they were less of a challenge to get in bed. That worked well for me when I was weak willed and lacking in confidence. Then, once I raised my SMV (starting a business in an industry I'm passionate about; dressing better; moving to a more hip part of town) the skinny and fit girls started to notice me. Now I think fat girls are disgusting. If you continue to practice redpill principles, you're going to lose attraction to this girl as your SMV goes up. …
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:46 PM
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Yeah, not a turn on for me. Flip it around, though, and I think it's hot and a sign of dominance for a girl to wear something of mine. Especially if she's cooking for me wearing one of my undershirts, no bra, and her panties.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 06:23 PM
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Your replies to her texts are just perfect. Being a man of few words via texts lets that hamster spin!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:17 PM
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Why do you want to meet someone who's marriage material in college? There will be plenty of time in your 30s to start down this path if you want.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 07:47 PM
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Shows how men don't hit the wall if their SMV is high enough.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 07:44 PM
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Don't ask her. Even if she brings up a "boyfriend," she could just be referring to a beta orbiter. Or she's looking to upgrade in her choice of man, if you're alpha enough.
/r/trpGAME29/08/14 03:21 AM
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Pan seared duck gets the fuck.
/r/trpGAME29/08/14 03:16 AM
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You speak the truth: a man giving away commitment too soon is an act of desperation. I did this with some fugly women in my beta days because I did not have an abundance mentality or much self-confidence. And then once I committed, the sex got worse or nonexistent.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:40 PM
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Amen. I've never failed with this strategy for getting a number. Any girl worth my time is going to follow my directions.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:34 PM
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Or he could always convert to the Episcopal Church, like this priest: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alberto_Cuti%C3%A9
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 09:13 PM
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That's what I'm planning on doing. Good to hear it's worked for you. I met a bodybuilding coach recently, he is a refreshing change from the "all cardio, all the time" skinny guys I've had in the past as trainers.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 07:24 PM
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It's from the Washington Post iPad edition. Didn't see any popups on my end...
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:24 PM
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If your SMV is high enough and you don't care about your beta male friend getting hurt, not too difficult to do. Girls with a "boyfriend" are often MORE flirtatious with me than those who are completely unattached. There's a chick in my social circle now who I would make a plate if circumstances were different. She is constantly texting me wanting to hang out while her betabux is away. But she's pregnant with his baby (or presumably his) so I'm not getting into that drama. When she & I go out in…
/r/askTRP16/08/14 06:05 PM
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Fortunately my mother didn't divorce rape my father - she voluntarily gave him half their total assets and they had an amicable divorce. What's a Blue Valentine scenario?
/r/askTRP15/08/14 10:36 PM
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I am in my early thirties and, like others here, grew up with a career-oriented mother and a stay at home dad. Perfect combination for raising a blue pill boy. Ironic thing is, Dad was very Redpill when he was single - he tells me he slept with over 200 women when he lived in NYC in the late 1960s/early 1970s, and he is 21 years older than my mom. (He was 48 and she was 27 when they got married). But he let himself lose frame and be "betafied" by my mother once they got married. She worked on Wa…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 04:53 PM
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I know the soccer player guy, we have some mutual friends...he is an orbiter from what I can tell. Very passive, anxious type of personality, always the "nice guy" around everyone...etc. All I can say is that I do NOT want to be another orbiter with this girl. She's got plenty of them already.
/r/trpGAME02/08/14 08:54 PM
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Do you have any cultural/religious norms keeping you insecure around women? What you said about hanging out with your cousins makes me wonder. You need to put all your insecurities aside and assume attraction.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 10:32 AM
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Yeah, so smiling at an attractive woman and approaching her afterwards is like rape? Absolutely ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 05:02 PM
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Totally true. In my beta days, I walked with my head down and shoulders shrugged. Standing up straight with shoulders puffed makes a huge difference in how men and women treat me and respect me.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 09:49 PM
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Good explanation re: amorality. Thanks. I think there's still some white knight left in me when dealing with this married chick who's into me - she's going to cheat, and probably already has with other guys, so who am I to keep her from that.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:12 PM
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Now THAT is a good idea, thanks. My business is one that actually has quite a few college students as customers, so asking the university to host a conference would be a good fit. And I enjoy public speaking - never been afraid of it. It would be a good DHV and social proof once I speak.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 03:16 PM
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I can give you one possible answer, from the perspective of my 87 year old father. Listening to his stories from his high school and college days, he was redpill from the start - he was confident and successful, always asked out the most beautiful girls in his circle and they usually said yes. Of course in his youth (1940s/1950s) before birth control, women were usually looking for marriage, so he didn't lose his virginity till age 24. He married a model/actress in the mid-1950s but she already …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 02:03 PM
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