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Yeah me too. What's your skype? I want to hear about it.
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:37 AM
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Well basically you need to be able to be hyper aware of why she is doing what she is doing. It does depend on the situation, but an example in a relationship would be her talking about how this guy tweaked her nipple, and conveniently neglected to mention what she did about it. She is trying to elicit a response from you. What do you do? Tell her you don't appreciate the way she approached that, she basically left it open ended to see how you would react. This usually takes them aback, and they …
/r/seduction19/03/12 06:49 PM
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That is DEFINITELY one way I've learned of doing it, and it works with any woman. However, there are plenty of women out there that try to turn that tendency off, and if you can simply point it out every time, you can help train that tendency right the fuck out of them. I will mention though, that in training them they have to be ready for it, and you might lose them at the end anyway, but leave em better than when ya found em.
/r/seduction19/03/12 03:32 PM
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A fucking year, and now you're back too? You date someone?
/r/seduction10/03/12 04:54 PM
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I can usually relate certain games to competition and how competition is important to me, and speciically, why video games - anyone, even disabled individuals has an equal starting ground. It's just your wits versus theirs.
/r/seduction16/01/12 03:05 PM
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Ok a couple tips. Forget her name? Ask her. It should go something like this: "What's your name?" "Sandra, I already TOLD YOU." "No, your LAST NAME." When you meet someone, and you are vibing, ask her name, tell her you are terrible with names and you'll need her to speak in third person for a while to remember it. I got some more for later if anyone is interested.
/r/seduction07/01/12 11:29 PM
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Nope. This guy has some valid points but he never defines what an 'asshole' is, just strawmans them. And this fixing shit? Saying girls just want to fix things? I mean, maybe some of them, but not nearly most of them. Most of them get in relationships wanting more out of it than what they will get. That's all. We all do it. This thing about checking things off the list? Man, I dunno about you guys, but when I start dating a girl, in the end I probably will have learned more things about myself -…
/r/seduction05/01/12 07:20 PM
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Move on. I've found it's more trouble than it's worth dealing with girls who don't know what the fuck they want. Without realizing it, she is instilling in him the same feelings of insecurity that we encourage some of our newbies to sow by techniques and mindsets such as the abundance mindset. He is getting played by HER even if both of them don't want to admit it.
/r/seduction10/10/11 04:32 AM
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Believe it or not, frogma, 'fuck her' is not always the best solution.
/r/seduction07/10/11 05:11 AM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eternal_September
/r/seduction02/10/11 01:31 AM
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How did you find the trail upkeep club?
/r/seduction27/09/11 01:53 AM
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Whoops, I've been traveling- getting back to you. Here's the thing about being serious with someone. As a PUA out on the street or in the bar, you have practiced so much on the early game that you fuck up almost never, and don't want to date almost anyone. You make early judgments about girls and feel great about them because bitches be crazy. You abandon anything that you are sure won't work. There are some relationships that might work though and guilt has (should have) nothing to do with apol…
/r/seduction21/09/11 06:04 AM
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Ok, here's the thing no one is saying. Yes. In order to establish an equilibrium of how much of an ass you actually want to be, you will need to experience the dickish side of you. You will realize that it is a dickish and move back to what you feel comfortable with - being yourself, but opening up a bit to what you can get away with. I had to hurt several people before I came to terms with the balance, and those people noticed I wasn't being myself. We are all still friends.
/r/seduction21/09/11 05:55 AM
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Tough call knowing what to apologize for. Arguments aren't avoidable if you are a level-headed person. Women think with their emotions, you should know that.
/r/seduction03/09/11 03:14 PM
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You're generalizing, and that's fine for new guys. Solid inner game is great. But the finesse of a serious conversation and how to avoid pitfalls in arguements and how to address things you have issues about in a kind, caring, and forthright manner could use some elaboration. It's not about making a relationship 'not boring' That's attraction, and that's easier than it seems a lot of times. You can take a girl on a hiking trip and make her titter and giggle and say things like, 'I'm having a rea…
/r/seduction01/09/11 08:21 PM
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How to have a serious discussion about your concerns is not adressed.
/r/seduction01/09/11 06:07 PM
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There is a desperate need for this. I've been working on this more than anything else recently. It's easy to be witty and charming in spurts. So much more of a challenge for something real. /relationships is BS. We know that.
/r/seduction01/09/11 03:57 AM
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No. This isn't about landing her, it's about bringing her into the terminal and getting her to emotionally disembark and go on a trip with you.
/r/seduction01/09/11 03:56 AM
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I feel like I've gotten out of it what I've wanted to and there are so many Keyboard jockeys on here now it's not worth my time to post. Pickup is far too black and white on seddit now. I've said my piece in the past about what was wrong here - we needed tiered seddits based on skill/ desire.
/r/seduction16/08/11 05:55 PM
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Used to. Kept getting 'blah blah that's not how you win the girl over' from the guys who have a skewed perception of alpha. It's a big problem here when if you suggest anything that could be considered supplication or making yourself more vulnerable - in order to figure out whether the girl is worth your time. However, as a follow up now that I'm good and sober, I would not bother following up on this one. She's lost to you because you made her feel inadequate at her own game where she is used t…
/r/seduction16/08/11 03:21 PM
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I havn't posted in about a fucking year because I've been mostly figuring out LTR game - Tofu. Tofu you've run into the same problem I've run in to a couple times. While males often have the competitive drive to be better than other males and also their mates and be the superior catch - Because they are SO FUCKING RARE - I doubt you've run into females that simply must feel as though they have the upper hand in any relationship. I know you rarely let that happen with girls you are interested in,…
/r/seduction16/08/11 03:27 AM
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the difference between AFC and alpha : your definition of 'girl' and 'woman.' You have a great fucking point, and if no one can see it, that's a damn shame.
/r/seduction21/02/11 06:39 AM
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Sometimes that makes you realize you gotta step up your game though. Not that I don't agree.
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:58 AM
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Yeah, we don't hang out no more.
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:58 AM
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Fantastic. KNOWING IS ONLY HALF THE BATTLE.
/r/seduction20/02/11 09:22 AM
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Oh God. Go to bathroom. He number closes her using me as social proof. WTF.
/r/seduction20/02/11 09:02 AM
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This is better advice than the escalation ladder, imo.
/r/seduction18/02/11 09:30 PM
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Oh man I'm ahead, I got a girl's number yesterday doing this at a stop light.
/r/seduction18/02/11 09:07 PM
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Stop taking my name in vain.
/r/seduction18/02/11 07:03 PM
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Re-read it.
/r/seduction17/02/11 03:21 AM
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Well, I figured out more background. Your link wasn't too obvious. Basically it depends on if you want to date her or not. If you commit to a V-day thing, you pretty much are saying, "I want to get serious." This bullshit with the other person is crap-tacular. May or may not be a shit test. The thing about shit tests are, you can sometimes not tell if they are actually shit tests. I don't know the chick, but I've used the line, "I didn't invite them, I invited you." (subtext: just you and me or …
/r/seduction10/02/11 08:57 PM
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Tell her that you'll super size her. V-day is a trap, though. Avoid at all costs.
/r/seduction10/02/11 06:27 PM
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Stop fucking circlejerking about it here though.
/r/seduction10/02/11 02:13 PM
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I have on several occasions kept around people in general that were better at me than things, in order to GET better at things. You need to do things without them, but keep them around. Good friends will NEVER cock block you or make you feel that you don't have a chance because they are better at things. As a good friend, he should want to help you down that path. Ask for his help, and tell him how you feel.
/r/seduction09/02/11 08:33 PM
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There is more to it than that. Sometimes you call out people who interrupt you; they don't even realize they are doing it.
/r/seduction08/02/11 01:30 PM
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What?
/r/seduction08/02/11 01:29 PM
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When someone turns into the school jock and says "Star Wars is gay," you shut down. Own that shit. I have a framed poster of Left 4 Dead up in my living room right next to oil paintings and framed band posters. Anyone who makes fun of it instantly gets a lecture on why zombies are cool in general, and I make them enter my reality on how interesting zombies are from a philosophical standpoint. "Why do you think people are so obsessed with zombies?" "I think maybe they represent the permanence and…
/r/seduction07/02/11 09:31 PM
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That's not all it is penetrating.
/r/seduction07/02/11 08:18 PM
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As an aside, I think it is also important to ask yourself, "Why am I writing?" before you start writing. Am I trying to get support / brag / whine? (Don't ask us to feed your ego, do this for yourself) Am I stuck on an issue I encountered? (If so, think about it for a couple days before appealing to us.) Do I feel like others could learn from this? Is there an overarching lesson to be learned? How certain am I about certain events (how she felt at a certain point, details that seem to stick out …
/r/seduction07/02/11 08:11 PM
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Do it with everyone everywhere. Also practice interrupting people and stopping people from interrupting you.
/r/seduction07/02/11 07:24 PM
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The whole idea behind RSD (which Tyler Durden and Tim teach) is that the world is your playground. If you aren't having fun, it isn't worth it. This video started me on a path a couple months back that made pickup MUCH more fun, and made me care less about the outcome, because I was having fun anyway. Tofu I think is really into this sort of thing, his "DERRRRRRRPPPP" opener shows that pretty well. The trick is carrying this attitude past the opener; you've got to have a very lighthearted person…
/r/seduction07/02/11 07:07 PM
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That's just like how they talk there man.
/r/seduction07/02/11 12:32 PM
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I can start posting more if you like. There's some good shit floating around.
/r/seduction05/02/11 09:40 PM
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You didn't like the claw? hahah. Puny mortal.
/r/seduction05/02/11 08:21 AM
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This shit doesn't belong here.
/r/seduction04/02/11 05:14 PM
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Thanks. I'm getting tired of doing these. Make sure they get downvoted too. Not to be an ass about it, but because these posts don't belong here.
/r/seduction04/02/11 04:15 PM
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You're mostly right. Here is where you are wrong. someone to mimic what a naturally confident, secure, and socially adept person would be doing instinctively, anyway. At first, maybe. But in order to truly become good at this, you must BE a confident secure, socially adept, interesting person. Important distinction. After all, it is fake it until you make it.
/r/seduction04/02/11 04:14 PM
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It used to be that the people who knew what merited discussion had the power to downvote crap advice by AFCs who really don't know what they are talking about. Now seddit has turned into a sort of buck up community, where people are more concerned about telling everyone "keep it up you're doing great!" than evaluating where they can improve. This isn't a motivation forum. The motivation for getting away from AFCs comes from within. If you can't muster up the courage to make yourself do the thing…
/r/seduction03/02/11 09:44 PM
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True but anyone who read the sidebar should know that.
/r/seduction03/02/11 04:58 PM
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No, he does have a good point, but he is making it the wrong way by oversimplifying it and ad hominim attacks. We can't instantly disqualify advice simply because they might try to make money on it, and PUA doesn't simply amount to 'grow a pair' either. I am not saying you can't find the stuff for free elsewhere, or that for some of them, it isn't now just a cash cow they are trying to milk. (DeAngelo's recent stuff comes to mind) But that doesn't mean that there aren't some very useful kernels …
/r/seduction03/02/11 02:39 PM
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When material in this post is easily found simply by reading the sidebar, posts like this are blatant circle jerks. Not to mention, if you go into a situation with the attitude, "I'd regret it if I didn't" with a HB10, she will read it and instantly dismiss you. They get that crap all the time where some kid decides that if he didn't do it he'd regret it. I think we differ slightly. I strongly do not believe in babying AFCs. This isn't a support community. /r/Mansformation is good for that, or /…
/r/seduction03/02/11 02:13 PM
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Yes, and nothing any of them say has any merrit. Anything that Tyler Durden has to say, or DeAngelo, or anyone, really, according to his blanket statement has anything to add to "HAVE SOME BALLS AND JUST FECKING DO IT." We know what he is talking about, yes, but "PUAs want you to think differently so they can keep filling their pockets doesn't really follow, and is negative as hell to boot.
/r/seduction03/02/11 01:12 PM
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Because Seddit is officially full up of chumps now.
/r/seduction03/02/11 12:58 PM
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Dude why are you trying to out someone while being a fucking woman's cunt about it?
/r/seduction02/02/11 11:56 PM
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This isn't a Field Report, it is an opportunity to circle jerk. No detail, just a 'hey guys I was confident and cool and I really didn't do anything but I got their numbers. Shower me with praise.'
/r/seduction02/02/11 10:51 PM
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Everyone, I understand how tempting it is to upvote this sort of post. But honestly, is this kid going to learn anything from us telling him how to go about it? All he needs to do is maintain frame and be alpha, and lead. We all fucking know it. But this shit doesn't need to get upvoted. OP: Read the sidebar, and get back to us when you have something else other than 'how do I game this particular girl.'
/r/seduction02/02/11 10:33 PM
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First off, this post really doesn't belong. You asked no specific questions at all. Read the sidebar. However. Cold read them. 'Oh you seem sweet, but I bet you're one of those (entitled,whatever) scene chicks.' If she doesn't respond, have a story ready, if she does respond, she is probably qualifying herself already or is actually one of the bitchy, entitled girls you really should not bother with.
/r/seduction02/02/11 12:12 AM
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He's a troll.
/r/seduction02/02/11 12:11 AM
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Not to be a wet blanket, because you are doing what you should be doing, but please be aware that there are girls out there that just feel the need to have attention from every male in their life. If they don't have it they will do what they feel like it takes to get it. Push-pull is VERY important with these chicks. The more push the better, until they actually make a declaration of interest.
/r/seduction01/02/11 09:21 PM
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Mostly just false prophets who think they are giving good advice, but instead are supplicating AFCs.
/r/seduction27/01/11 09:27 PM
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Wow. the worst possible environment for trying to talk to someone. If it sounds like something you'd day, ask her if you can grab lunch this week, since talking is so verbotten around there - you're dying to talk after being trapped in a cube all day, right?
/r/seduction27/01/11 09:26 PM
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'Never admit attraction to her before you know she is attracted to you' is a basic tenant of pickup. Read the sidebar, please, before you use this as Ask Seddit. You're on the right track, and keep it up.
/r/seduction27/01/11 09:21 PM
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This may sound harsh, but if you think something like this is significant, please get out and meet more people. Also, the devil is in the details. Did she wait a while after you gave her the money to go get the snack? Did she come right back and offer you some? How much conversation was geared twords her getting the snack, and how much was banter?
/r/seduction27/01/11 09:06 PM
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Thanks, Sargent Seddit.
/r/seduction27/01/11 08:59 PM
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She could have noticed you are staring at her and figured she could get some money off of you. Staring is bad.
/r/seduction27/01/11 08:57 PM
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Sometimes you get stuck in the 'assume attraction' mindframe. It happens.
/r/seduction27/01/11 08:47 PM
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Troll.
/r/seduction27/01/11 08:44 PM
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Probably trolling, chex.
/r/seduction27/01/11 08:43 PM
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Too much of an insult, hard to construe otherwise. But by all means, let me know how it turns out. NY is different after all, but no way it would work in DC.
/r/seduction26/01/11 06:56 PM
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Here's my $0.02. If the girl is already into you and you know she wants you and she knows you want her, then yes, it is fine. Escalation is a NO GO though. But we all knew that already, didn't we.
/r/seduction26/01/11 02:59 PM
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I read his comments. He's at 6". This is redic. Pun intended.
/r/seduction26/01/11 02:42 PM
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I'd rather not, I couldn't get through all the comments on this. I just hope all these false prophets are seen as such.
/r/seduction26/01/11 01:06 PM
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One of my buddies helped me with this, I used to get flaked on all the time, happens to the best of us. Next time, just seed it with a, yeah I'll call you the day of just to make sure we are still doing XXXX. The idea is that you aren't confirming her, you are confirming that you can also still do it because you are a busy mother fucker, and awesome shit comes up all the time. If you call her and she starts to be all 'yeaaahhh I can't goooo....' cut her off and say you are going to your friends …
/r/seduction26/01/11 12:36 PM
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I have no idea what you are asking/offering , but No More Flakes is a semi-useful source.
/r/seduction26/01/11 04:14 AM
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Dammit, you're right. I rely too much on banter.
/r/seduction26/01/11 04:11 AM
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While building comfort tell her you'd invite her back to your room, but it is sooooo far away. (if she doesn't get the hint, mention sarcastically how it's a whole couple fights up the stairs.) Delivery is key - to be honest, i'm not sure if my friends could pull this one off. Think Macaulay Culkin smile. Edit: tofu is right.
/r/seduction26/01/11 03:55 AM
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Everyone else is missing the point. *You don't explain things away that you think are 'beta'. It is the explaining away that is beta. * If you explain it to everyone the way you explained it to us, they will hear this: BUT I AM IN THE ARMY AND ALSO GOING TO MED SCHOOL SO IT IS OK TO BE A NURSE, RIGHT?! Which is far from what you want. If you feel that way, you will convey it. Just say why you love it - working with people, tell a story, being a nurse and caring for people is a HUGE DHV. You are …
/r/seduction25/01/11 09:25 PM
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Help her along, she will resist telling you.Was it my young looks? my height? was I too much of a player? (minor self deprecation - lose the alpha mindset for this conversation, you've blown it out anyway). Think of stuff that it might have been. 'I just want to know for my personal development.' After, ask specific questions about what initially attracted them to you. reminded me of her brother too much Was an bullshit excuse - you just failed at being alpha and maintaining alpha frame in gener…
/r/seduction25/01/11 09:21 PM
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Some of the crap on this comment page is making me cringe.
/r/seduction25/01/11 09:07 PM
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First off, try once more to set something up if you haven't already. sometimes busy girls just lose track if they are bad at planning. That not responding just sounds like a minor blowoff. was lazy before in trying to help you because really you gotta figure it out for yourself, but it sounds like you could use a little more direction. I first remember hearing about it in Vin DiCarlo and Julian Foxx's text/phone game lectures 'No Flakes' (which I can't seem to find right now, but was about 30% b…
/r/seduction21/01/11 06:09 AM
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What were your results?
/r/seduction20/01/11 09:51 PM
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You don't do it by text. She'd ignore it. Call her, leave a message, say, " I have something important to discuss with you."
/r/seduction19/01/11 06:23 PM
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You hafta prefix it with something that demonstrates your sincere desire to know the truth, at the same time as a complete understanding that you no longer have or want another chance.
/r/seduction19/01/11 01:20 PM
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Manwhore. :D
/r/seduction19/01/11 01:22 AM
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Not to be contrary, but as an anecdote: I would disagree.
/r/seduction19/01/11 01:04 AM
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The common consensus here about asking girls what they want is this: "They don't know, don't bother asking." I see A LOT of bad advice in here, the bit about the 'put your hand on their cock' is absolutely bollocks. This is the best advice I've read, even if it isn't directly correlated.
/r/seduction18/01/11 10:14 PM
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I hope I didn't give that indication. All are welcome here. The sidebar will help you. I get the impression that I have a couple audio files that you might like. Let me know if interested, and I'll host them for you.
/r/seduction15/01/11 01:31 AM
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If it was just 'coffee according to you,' you wouldn't be posting here. If you are asking permission to screw the girl in the unhappy relationship, we are here to tell you do what you feel is right. Also: don't supplicate.
/r/seduction14/01/11 03:21 AM
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I prefer Wing Commander.
/r/seduction14/01/11 03:17 AM
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Read the sidebar next time.
/r/seduction13/01/11 09:18 PM
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Read the sidebar. Sounds like she is indeed into you. Don't wait too long to escalate before you figure out if you like her or not - There'll be time for pillow talk later. You don't really ask for specific enough advice for anyone to help you.
/r/seduction13/01/11 03:32 PM
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You're a paranoid little fucker, aren't you?
/r/seduction13/01/11 03:28 PM
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Hey! I happen to like Woody Allen.
/r/seduction12/01/11 10:43 PM
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For your number 3, I had a big issue with that for a while. Music helps, so does relaxing completely right before planning your night. More than anything though, I recommend calling a friend just to catch up with them. You get in the mood for talking and bullshitting. I think sometimes the more important question isn't ,"how do I get into state?," but rather , "why am I NOT in state?"
/r/seduction12/01/11 09:59 PM
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I was going to pretty much ignore this for anything but a lark, but then I showed this video to a girl and starting calling her names. I'm pretty sure it worked. Give it a shot.
/r/seduction12/01/11 09:46 PM
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Everytime you think, "what if she is just being polite?", or "I can't beleive I did [] earlier... what a DLV." Stop. ACTUALLY say that shit in your head. ' Just walk around thinking every woman would probably want to be with you in the right circumstances and you are golden. It also puts you into an 'abundance' mindset.
/r/seduction12/01/11 09:44 PM
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If you want to set two people up, tell them both that they would like each other. Works decently, actually. People start to look for signs that the other person is into them, which in itself makes the other person think they are into them. Snowballs from there. Crap now I've got 'matchmaker,matchmaker' stuck in my head.
/r/seduction11/01/11 08:26 PM
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You've read too deep into it. You are operating on the assumption that he shouldn't play it out and see what he can make of it because he will get attached enough to become an orbiter. He should follow the other advice and see where he can go with things. She could very well just be seeing someone and feels like she should only date one person at a time, (maybe she needs a little bit of prodding...and poking.) or that she feels like she would sleep with him if given the chance and she doesn't wa…
/r/seduction11/01/11 05:39 PM
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Are you a keyboard jockey or just a troll? Pretty sure that wasn't some sort of obfuscated shit test like you are implying.
/r/seduction11/01/11 03:05 PM
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It gets mentioned quite a lot, actually.
/r/seduction11/01/11 12:27 PM
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I agree that you should avoid practicing out of state, but part of practice for me is being able to get in state no matter what condition I am in. Part of it is also feeling like you want to be in state no matter what condition you are in. Sure there is something to be said for being well rested, and often I'll take a 20 minute nap before going out, and knowing what that rest will do for your head, but I am of the opinion you should try to tax yourself and find the limit of what you can do no ma…
/r/seduction09/01/11 01:30 PM
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I'm going to make your friends watch.
/r/seduction08/01/11 11:06 PM
1

I love the psh, eye roll, look away.
/r/seduction08/01/11 11:05 PM
1

Isn't the point of being awesome to avoid boring?
/r/seduction07/01/11 01:01 PM
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Wow. My mistake. That sounds completely unbalanced and almost like teenager-think.
/r/seduction06/01/11 09:28 PM
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Please don't mention us there.
/r/seduction06/01/11 07:09 PM
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So far downvoting the posts on 'how do I handle this situation' is working for me. Usually these posts only get maybe 4 or 5 upvotes, and we just bury them. When it gets to be too much I'm sure some of us can pitch in for a more private medium. Do you really think it is too frustrating yet? Don't base it on the lurker numbers, base it on the noise. Lesbian PUAs post cut down significantly on the 'bad' posts for a significant amount of time... maybe it is sidebar material.
/r/seduction06/01/11 07:08 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction06/01/11 02:24 PM
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Have you read the sidebar? This is pretty basic stuff. It just seems like you need her more than she needs you right now, and she knows it. However, just keep doing what you're doing, until she can admit to herself that no one else is going to come along and fulfill her desires like you can. Remain aloof and treat her LMR for your relationship as such. Freeze her out a bit, see other people. Brag a bit maybe, calibrated to her. However, this is relationship crap. You shouldn't be asking this her…
/r/seduction06/01/11 02:15 PM
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Not that kind of dominant.
/r/seduction06/01/11 01:46 PM
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Not quite yet. It's not so so bad; there are a lot of lurkers. But when it does come to that, it is fairly clear who needs to come and who needs to stay.
/r/seduction06/01/11 01:45 PM
2

No! Don't supplicate! Change the frame! Always be gaming everyone! (Well I guess you don't hafta here though.)
/r/seduction06/01/11 03:54 AM
1

Is excellent good better or worse than good excellent?
/r/seduction06/01/11 03:32 AM
2

I've made the same observation...but I didn't think until just now that I could use it to break the bitch shield. Ever tried negging about how important someone's job is?
/r/seduction06/01/11 03:17 AM
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I'm stepping out of my usual comfort zone of giving good advice, but could he leave a note on the door? I mean holy crap how did people date before telephones...
/r/seduction06/01/11 03:16 AM
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I'll admit the 3 second gaze and the look back, as cliche as it is, actually works - I'll give him that. Observe that most guys are not aware of where they are looking. Our dumb cavemen male brains are build to simply take a lot of information in and make judgments as quickly as possible. This tendency is one of the first things guys need to get over before they can attempt pickup, and one of the easiest (and most fun, from what I've heard) things to abuse while trying to seduce men. I'll elabor…
/r/seduction06/01/11 03:11 AM
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I usually think David Wygant is pretty good, but at some point he stopped giving advice and started making money. Guess which one this is.
/r/seduction06/01/11 12:55 AM
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Personally? Don't put all your eggs in one basket. You get your hopes up for one girl... Anyway, having someone else on the table makes you less available (good), keeps you more aloof(good) and also gives you something to fall back on (good). You might find out HB8 loves Hitler or something later on, and you'll kick yourself. But CCMix is right. Do what you feel is right. If you feel solid set with HB8, maybe it'll work.
/r/seduction06/01/11 12:08 AM
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Yeah, you made that post about the 'not getting one specific girl' a while back. We are on the same wavelength on the issue. Incidentally, thanks for the karma I leeched on that post.
/r/seduction05/01/11 11:57 PM
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Fuck. And here I thought it was just me. Boring and often prudes?
/r/seduction05/01/11 11:46 PM
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Don't mention us then. We don't need this - we don't "solve problems." Try PMing next time or explaining a bit better what exactly we try to accomplish here. We just got rid of the huge influx of 'ZOMG I HAVE THIS SITUATION WHAT DO I DO' posts. We don't need more. Here is the comment.
/r/seduction05/01/11 04:10 AM
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They call it the game but these are real people with real feelings. Don't manipulate people's emotions and feelings if you aren't prepared for the consequences. Play with fire; you're gunna get burned.
/r/seduction04/01/11 08:23 PM
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See below.
/r/seduction28/12/10 01:01 PM
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Ohman. I am but I need quite a lot more interference from them to really give much advice. The way I game I've had lots of experience dealing with AFC friends, and found it easy to get girls on my side simply by being a rad guy or letting my friends deal with them whether or not they realized it. Maybe in a few months, when I feel like I have more complete knowledge.
/r/seduction28/12/10 01:00 PM
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Yeah I know the type. They are usually just shitty people. Usually I give them the 'what the fuck are you doing' look and slight head shake from side to side...hard to elaborate across the internet. I'd like some more details about what the are harassing you about but that is probably PM material. I still have friends jab at me for not knowing certain things, music, whatever. Usually it's best to take it lightly, make sure you say something, and make them sound ridiculous for judging you. Music?…
/r/seduction28/12/10 04:23 AM
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Hahaha! Define... 'healthy'.
/r/seduction27/12/10 07:52 PM
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Could you please retype that first part?
/r/seduction27/12/10 07:42 PM
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No, even if they are otherwise sane, they have no experience with how to cope with a relationship and have a healthy balance. Anyone below the age of 24 I would never date if they were the first. There are more fish in the sea that aren't a minefield.
/r/seduction27/12/10 05:35 PM
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I feel like this needs to be more substantial about how they give you problems and how to deal with them. I've personally not had a problem with these guys, generally they have some valid points but just don't have the guts to follow through and be a boss. They know enough to not get in your way.
/r/seduction27/12/10 05:33 PM
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Oooh. This one is difficult. I can't believe I forgot this. You should know two things. They WANT to be sad and taken pity on, and they want you to try to pick their emotions up. You have a choice. You can spend ALOT of time aside talking some sense into them, or ignore them. Don't ignore them if you have a girl who is even a little bit concerned about him. I've seen girls go comfort them and later become their girlfriend. It's ridiculous. I can't tell you this will work 100% of the time, but wh…
/r/seduction27/12/10 05:25 PM
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For the puppy dog ones, if they seem near un-helpable - Just Be Alpha. Tell them if they are doing something that won't help you. Tell them to stop staring, you'll tell them why later. You don't need to teach them enough about game to play it, just enough to make sure you can. Be a leader of them. If you don't lead them, when girls can tell that they don't know what they are doing and you havn't taken control of the situation they will hold you back much more. Sometimes the silent 'stop doing th…
/r/seduction27/12/10 05:10 PM
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I agree. Sometimes your friends see him as a fake alpha if they don't know any better, so he gets brought out to events. He generally gets away with it because his friends have weaker personalities. My tactics involve making him look like an ass and generally one upping him, thus humiliating him and making him hate you even more, and trip himself up. He will never be able to put a finger on exactly why he hates you, and if he tries to turn people against you, he will simply look jealous.
/r/seduction27/12/10 05:01 PM
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The Aggressive Prick: He tries to cockblock you constantly. He wants to be the alpha but doesn’t know how. So instead he just constantly tries to make you look ridiculous or tell embarrassing stories about you to your target, and follow you over to groups before you’ve established that you are one rad guy. This is insanely frustrating. They key is to not let him ruffle your feathers. You need to show him who is boss, it is the only thing he can understand. Point out how rude he is being. I perso…
/r/seduction27/12/10 06:50 AM
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Experience. She WILL latch on to you. In terms you can understand though: You will have LOTS of LMR hurdles. She will tell you about all her problems and expect you to supplicate before f-close. She will continue to tell you about her problems afterwords and have NO confidence in bed (no fun) and no confidence in meeting new people (something that you should probably by now love doing.) She will wonder constantly if what you are doing is 'right' and if what she is doing is 'too fast.' She will p…
/r/seduction27/12/10 05:00 AM
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Whoops too much eggnog. You mean very late game. Gotcha.
/r/seduction27/12/10 04:50 AM
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Don't give her your power!
/r/seduction27/12/10 03:11 AM
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Dude, if she is escalating for you, take advantage. This holds for everything. And maybe it is different in person, but...uh...but pulling her hair seems a bit off. About the talking to someone else: nearly every time you are escalating physically early on, have your attention focused away from her, body pointed away, etc.
/r/seduction27/12/10 03:11 AM
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Speaking from experience, introduce her to some AFC friend of yours, she will appreciate you for it, and open up your social circle a bit more. Totally not worth the trouble.
/r/seduction27/12/10 03:02 AM
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Yikes.
/r/seduction25/12/10 07:44 AM
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If you just met her I would respond differently. IMMEDIATELY also start doing it to her while holding a conversation with someone else. She will start laughing. It's a physical neg, plus kino. It makes her realize how socially unacceptable it usually is to just run your fingers through a strangers hair, and gives you an easy in to escalate your kinoing.
/r/seduction25/12/10 07:07 AM
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I would go one step farther than this, though I understand the facetiousness. Being good at pickup requires being the lifeblood of a good experience for other people as well. Create good experiences not only for yourself, but for other people. Anecdote: I just recently created an experience that had little to do with pickup directly. I called a few people and asked them to bring friends. I won't go into details for my own reasons, but I created an interesting enough experience that people who di…
/r/seduction22/12/10 07:34 AM
1

What venue works for you?
/r/seduction22/12/10 06:59 AM
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Somehow this just doesn't ring true to me. When I read in a bar I havn't really noticed a whole lot of approaches from girls. Someone else help me be more eloquent?
/r/seduction21/12/10 11:44 PM
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There is never just one set at a bar.
/r/seduction21/12/10 09:36 PM
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I'll confirm this. When I first started on my path to PUA I had a night where I was just fucking pissed/jaded. I stopping giving a shit about what people thought of me and just did what I wanted. I managed to talk to the entire crowd at a concert that I walked into alone, including the band. I had mothers and daughters eating out of my hand at the same time, entire groups coming over because they wanted to be involved in what I had to offer. I ended up going all over town dragging three or four …
/r/seduction21/12/10 09:32 PM
1

I actually read your post. Music is important. I found myself listening to the wrong music right before a date and I fucked it up. I now have a mix explicitly for this. I'm a fan of The Heavy, Kasabian, and Black Keys. Try some. You have the right idea. You need a few songs to reset your mental state. Then a couple to start feeling sexual. A few for getting ready to interact, get excited about your night. Then the kicker. The one you want stuck in your head. Your motto, your anthem. Your "I AM A…
/r/seduction15/12/10 08:27 PM
1

We all gotta learn the hard way.
/r/seduction15/12/10 07:54 PM
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Read: not being serious. About any of it.
/r/seduction15/12/10 07:37 PM
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Naw I'm just fooling around. It's a tough situation, you need to be playful to get out of it. The words are less important than your demeanor. Not to mention, I wouldn't really want to get to know someone who gets offended at the word midget.
/r/seduction15/12/10 07:12 PM
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What? I don't follow.
/r/seduction15/12/10 05:44 PM
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Whoops. Don't do that again. Honestly you sort of backed yourself into a corner. I wouldn't call unless she indicated that she wanted to see you in the morning or that she has problems waking up. If you do call, make sure you don't stay on too long, have something cool to do. Don't call her and 'talk to her while she wakes up.' Call her later in the day. Brush it off. But honestly dude, you should figure this sort of shit out for yourself, not be asking us.
/r/seduction15/12/10 03:50 PM
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I also might like going with, 'Well mine is to get really fat. you know, so I can sit on midgets and...' wait no, mine won't work at all.
/r/seduction15/12/10 03:20 PM
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Just because you can doesn't mean you should. You made a wise choice in line with your personal convictions. For that, you did the right thing. Don't doubt yourself.
/r/seduction14/12/10 02:54 AM
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Well written and to the point. Something that EVERYONE needs to realize before they can understand not only to attract other people on purpose, but in order to understand why we are that way in the first place.
/r/seduction14/12/10 01:15 AM
1

Really? I would think there is such a stigma to ranges and little opportunity for escalating kino that it wouldn't be very good. Not to mention difficulty in talking. Can you elaborate?
/r/seduction12/12/10 12:28 AM
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You may want to consider finding a way to redirect a question on your age. I look very young for my age, so I off the cuff usually go with ,"Old enough," "older than you, clearly. You must be what, 18?(or some number that is clearly too young for them to be) or some other playful evasion. Make fun of them for being too young for some reason before they can even have that thought. However, you clearly care about their age, so you may need to be pretty creative about how to find out theirs. ArMcK …
/r/seduction12/12/10 12:18 AM
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No, that is supplicating and she will see right through it. Plus, you don't want this to be an emotional moment, you want them to dismiss it from storing in their memory. You don't want it to matter.
/r/seduction12/12/10 12:16 AM
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Just keep in mind everyone else feels the same way, but no one wants to admit it.
/r/seduction12/12/10 12:00 AM
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eye code? As in give her the look that communicates ,"Can you believe this guy is getting all riled up?" Because if so, I love this trick.
/r/seduction11/12/10 11:56 PM
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Noogies work wonders. If she is being a relentless knucklehead, I've actually also pulled off the splash some water out of a cup at her and go in for the kiss. No joke.
/r/seduction08/12/10 10:43 PM
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Too bad the joke post is at the top. I enjoy a good joke, and I don't take the stance that we shouldn't skitz around on here, but I think when good advice and serious thought are put to the wayside for a laugh, we as a community have a problem. Edit: Well clearly that didn't last long. Cool beans, guys.
/r/seduction08/12/10 10:41 PM
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I think I understand what is frustrating you, and I'm sure plenty of us feel the same way. The whole premise behind these posts are that people are so FROZEN in fear of doing something wrong and fucking up at this chance with this girl (pussy pedestal, oneitis, blah,blah, whatever you call it) that they don't just take a fucking chance and say something. It is more important that you have the self confidence to just say something anyway. Fuck up? Oh well, I learned not to do that. Yeah it'll suc…
/r/seduction08/12/10 09:48 PM
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If you know she gets off later, I'd prefix asking to meet up with her by saying how you gotta do/ go to [something awesome] immediately after work though, so it'd hafta be later on in the night.
/r/seduction18/11/10 08:45 PM
1

I find this hard to admit, but I've had a single crush since I started taking matters into my own hands. It was because I for some reason had this animal attraction to this girl but I knew she would be ENTIRELY too much trouble, so I reluctantly friend-zoned her. The 'crush' only lasted for a week or two though.
/r/seduction18/11/10 06:37 PM
1

Thanks. I think I made an error though with the museum- it's at about a good 20 minute metro ride from my place.
/r/seduction18/11/10 03:41 PM
1

You never tell your friends about the time you totally bombed an approach? Stop pretending.
/r/seduction18/11/10 03:39 PM
1

Oh it'll work. You just fall into and out of it as time goes on. I've led her into it by pretending to be the world's best clueless tour guide since she was new in town, telling her all about the purple doohickey over there and all about the newly discovered derpasaurus. And I'm not actually charging her dude.
/r/seduction16/11/10 05:30 PM
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I doubt it. Ample opportunity to comment on anything - couples, tourists, so many subjects to joke about. Unless there is something I'm missing.
/r/seduction16/11/10 04:52 PM
2

Why wouldn't you try to escalate? I would think it would be incredibly attractive to take her aside, kiss her, and then continue dragging her around the museum. Push pull and what not.
/r/seduction16/11/10 04:14 PM
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DC/ Bethesda / Rockville
/r/seduction16/11/10 04:12 PM
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I worry a little that 'isolation' will be hard - there will be plenty of people around and anything direct will be shot down. Thoughts?
/r/seduction16/11/10 04:43 AM
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