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| 1 | Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens?To play devil's advocate, I usually don't care about vagina size at all like you said, but I have had sex with one specific woman who's vagina was so loose that I couldn't feel anything, and that made sex completely unenjoyable for me. So yes, most of the time it doesn't matter, but when it's too loose it definitely becomes a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens?7" is not average. Anyone who thinks that has no idea what they're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens?If size wasn't mentioned, then what did you talk about when discussing your sex lives? Was it just whether or not they were good with their fingers/tongues etc.? And how often do women actually discuss their sex lives with each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 09:37 AM |
| 0 | Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens?Did your partners ever comment on your size though? I'm sure out of 50 of them, at least one of them would have given you her thoughts on it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 11:26 AM |
| -14 | Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens?That wasn't the question. I asked how many are size queens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 09:04 AM |
| 7 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?Sometimes I'll talk to a guy and we'll exchange a smile or a knowing glance of "if we weren't married to other people... ;-)" Does your partner know about this? Tbh I'd be a bit uncomfortable with that, and I know some might even consider that emotional cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 03:51 PM |
| 7 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?Regular women act very differently around hot guys compared to unattractive guys lol, I don't know why you think this is exclusive to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 03:48 PM |
| -5 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?So if your boyfriend notices you becoming flustered and confronts you, would you get defensive and accuse him of being insecure? Or would you understand and apologize? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 03:48 PM |
| -3 | Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner?What if you find out that you actually have a lot in common with him and there's some chemistry between you two? Would you ever consider leaving your current boyfriend (if you were very early on in the relationship, say 3-4 weeks), to pursue this new guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you think men who work from home are less masculine?We don't live together. She doesn't cook, she just eats out or gets takeout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Women, do you think men who work from home are less masculine?Yes I pay for all the dates. She's very sweet though, and offers to split the cheque every time. She even forced me to let her pay for dinner one time because she said I'd been paying too often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 05:26 AM |
| 4 | Women, do you think men who work from home are less masculine?Yeah I teased her back said it's a skill issue 😂 since her job is 100% digital so she could easily work from home. But her company doesn't allow it so 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Women, do you think men who work from home are less masculine?The dynamics are different when you're a woman working from home and he says it must be nice though. That's sort of the traditional gender role where the woman gets to stay at home and the man goes out to work all day. Very different when it's the woman who's out at work and the man is staying home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Women, do you think men who work from home are less masculine?How is this neurotic? Don't women care about being feminine too? That's why they watch makeup tutorials, say things like "I'm just a girl", and also are afraid of lifting weights because they're worried it'll make them look bulky even though that's not true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | What are you even supposed to say after a first kiss lolIsn't that a bit needy? | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.Why wouldn't they expose their partner's size if they like it and it satisfies them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.Can you expand on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:54 AM |
| 0 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.Were they hard? If not, then your experience is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:54 AM |
| 0 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.What you said makes complete sense. Thanks for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.Does 5 inches actually feel that different than 4 inches? What makes 4 inches the cutoff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.And what would the range for too small/too big be for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:32 AM |
| -1 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.Then wouldn't it be better to defer to men for size estimates or conversation topics about size? Instead of gaslighting guys and claiming we're all insecure or whatever? At least we know our exact size and women don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.Why would not knowing the exact inches equate to size not mattering? It's just that your scale is off, not that size doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:26 AM |
| 4 | Women are bad at estimating penis size.You'd be surprised how many people don't know the specs or screen size of their phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 04:02 AM |
| 4 | Do you cold approach a couple of girls (friends)?Disagree. most times I've tried to approach a group of girls, it's always ended up with the fridge trying to protect the snacks. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:57 AM |
| 4 | Do Android phones really make you less attractive?Most hot women* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Do Android phones really make you less attractive?Why are iPhones sexier? Are you comparing the iPhone Pro Max to the top end Galaxy S Ultra? Or are you comparing it to a $50 no-name Android phone lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 04:15 AM |
| – | Are women with higher sex drives usually more forward/flirty?Are there any tell tale signs that they're trying to pretend to be nice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 03:43 AM |
| – | Are women with higher sex drives usually more forward/flirty?Is there a point at which you become more forward? Is it once you're in a committed relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 03:42 AM |
| – | Are women with higher sex drives usually more forward/flirty?As a guy I can tell you I definitely didn't max out at 18 lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 03:42 AM |
| – | Are women with higher sex drives usually more forward/flirty?Do you get more flirty when you know someone better? Or are you always shy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 03:38 AM |
| 11 | Are women with higher sex drives usually more forward/flirty?I hooked up with one of them a second time when I went back to her city on vacation, and over the course of 2 days she wanted to go 6 rounds total. Idk why you're questioning their sex drive when they've literally told me about it and I've experienced it myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Are women with higher sex drives usually more forward/flirty?Yeah the previous two girls I mentioned pretty much slept with me within the first 3 hours of meeting in person. One of them was after days/weeks of messaging back and forth about what she wanted to do to me. For the other one, we matched while I was on vacation, and we met up literally 2 hours after matching on that exact same day and hooked up. That's why I'm wondering if high sex drive is correlated with flirtiness and suggestiveness over text. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Are women with higher sex drives usually more forward/flirty?Makes sense. Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 03:51 AM |
| 8 | Are women with higher sex drives usually more forward/flirty?They literally told me they wanted to go for multiple rounds consecutively. I was completely drained and exhausted after lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 03:50 AM |
| – | Men lie about not preferring big boobs the same way women lie about not preferring big dicks.It's it 90% though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 04:47 AM |
| – | Men lie about not preferring big boobs the same way women lie about not preferring big dicks.Same argument women use for guys with small p lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 04:46 AM |
| – | Men lie about not preferring big boobs the same way women lie about not preferring big dicks.So would you say you prefer big butts over small butts? Or would you still say butt sIe doesn't matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 04:38 AM |
| 4 | Instagram women and modelsDMing random girls you don't know on IG doesn't work. I know people on this sub keep pushing the idea that IG is a dating app, but it really isn't. If you don't know a girl, there's a 99% chance she won't even read your DM because it gets put in another inbox and she doesn't even get notified about it. Even if you have a blue checkmark with thousands of followers, your chances of getting a reply are low. There's a reason dating apps exist - the people on there are single and actively looking to … | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 10:00 AM |
| 9 | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.The difference is that when a man really likes a woman, he also gets worried that he'll over-compliment or appear over-eager to please her, which we're constantly told is an ick. So even if we really like someone, we might still play it cool just to avoid giving them the ick. Whereas with women, if they really like a man, they'll usually go all out for him because men aren't as prone to dropping women over the most minor things. And men also get complimented so little that they would actually wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 11:43 AM |
| 2 | What's the best DM to send a girl after moving from a dating app to Instagram?She hasn't posted any stories since we added each other unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 06:55 AM |
| 0 | We should get rid of dating appsAs an introvert who works from home, dating apps have made dating infinitely easier for me. I wouldn't have met any of my previous partners if not for the apps. Yes, I'm attractive and have a good profile, but anyone can get good results if they put in the effort imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 06:58 AM |
| 7 | We should get rid of dating appsThat's like saying we should all be using typewriters because the previous generations didn't have computers. Times change, we either adapt or fall behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | It's possible for women to be more attractive in their 30s than their 20s.What age do you think you'll start to experience a decline in your looks now that you're attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | It's possible for women to be more attractive in their 30s than their 20s.Ok you have a point lol. I was referring to just physical appearance but yeah there's definitely a higher risk for baggage by that age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | It's possible for women to be more attractive in their 30s than their 20s.But most people don't do all that in their twenties. That's my point. So the average 23 year old with shit diet and zero exercise will look worse than a 30 year old who's had a glowup. So if you had to choose between those two, you'd pick the 30 year old right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:38 AM |
| 3 | It's possible for women to be more attractive in their 30s than their 20s.It's mainly Gen Z who's pushing this idea that 30 is old tbh. My millenial friends have all told me they feel younger at 29/30 than they did at 22. But when I tell my Gen Z friends I'm about to turn 30, they're like "oh my god that is so old" or "enjoy your last year of your 20s while it lasts, grandpa". Lol. It also explains a lot about why people these days are so against age gap relationships. If Gen Z thinks turning 30 is basically the end of your life, then it makes sense why they'd be so a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:36 AM |
| 3 | It's possible for women to be more attractive in their 30s than their 20s.I know quite a few women IRL who have massively glowed up in their 30s after calling off their weddings or getting divorced in their late 20s to men who cheated on them. It's as if they're motivated to get hotter out of pure revenge haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:33 AM |
| 2 | It's possible for women to be more attractive in their 30s than their 20s.But how often are all factors kept equal in the real world? It's far more likely for a woman to have a glow up later in life than it is for her to suddenly lose her looks when she hits 30. If anything, women who were already hot in their 20s will remain hot in their 30s. So there's no downside to dating a 30 year old woman at all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Women, how old are you and what is your preferred age range when dating?This gels with my IRL experience where pretty much all of my female friends have told me they'd never date a guy who's younger than them. Interesting how dating preferences on reddit differ so vastly with preferences in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 05:18 AM |
| -2 | Women, would you find it inappropriate for a man to cold approach you at a nice restaurant?And then what? If she's interested, I'd end up having to go over and approach her anyway. If she's not interested, then I feel like ignoring the note or having to reject me by writing another note back would be even more awkward, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 11:14 AM |
| -8 | Women, would you find it inappropriate for a man to cold approach you at a nice restaurant?What if it was a guy who you found very attractive? Does that change the equation at all? Or is a turn off regardless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 09:30 AM |
| 5 | Women, would you find it inappropriate for a man to cold approach you at a nice restaurant?Who said anything about offering my dick?? the fuck lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Beautiful Women are Accustomed to a Certain Dating/Lifestyle and Shouldn’t be Shamed into Dating DownOn the contrary, I've often found that when I don't shower an attractive woman with gifts and compliments, it impresses her more than if I did. This is because attractive women are used to every other guy bending over backwards to impress them, so when you don't do that, it sets you apart and makes you appear more confident in yourself. For example, I once rejected a girl I'd been seeing for a few weeks because she mentioned that if we got together she would expect me to pay for all the flight t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Women, how old are you and what is your preferred age range when dating?How has that age gap been working for you? Do you prefer it or was it something that just happened? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Jordan Peterson's views on the sexual marketplace are self-contradictoryPeople are putting off marriage longer and longer these days. The trend is only continuing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 03:46 PM |
| – | Men on reddit lie about their boob size preferences the same way women lie about their dick size preferences.A woman who cares more about muscles will be able to overlook height, and vice versa. Same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:40 PM |
| 10 | Both genders would be happier if women did the approachingWhy? It's about the only non-online way of meeting women left lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 03:38 PM |
| – | Men on reddit lie about their boob size preferences the same way women lie about their dick size preferences.Why does it have to be one or the other? The best is to have both, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:57 PM |
| – | Men on reddit lie about their boob size preferences the same way women lie about their dick size preferences.Well most men would find comically huge boobs unattractive too. I'm talking about bigger than average but not freakishly big. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:56 PM |
| – | Men on reddit lie about their boob size preferences the same way women lie about their dick size preferences.My wife has medium sized boobs. And I'm perfectly happy with them. They fit her well and they are perky. This gives the exact same vibes as "my husband has an average sized dick, and I'm perfectly happy with it. The big ones hurt". So you're kind of proving my point. Can we agree that both men and women do this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:54 PM |
| – | Men on reddit lie about their boob size preferences the same way women lie about their dick size preferences.But it does have a lot to do with sexual attraction. It's the closest comparison we're going to get, since no one ever talks about vagina size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:44 PM |
| – | Men on reddit lie about their boob size preferences the same way women lie about their dick size preferences.Smaller boobs pose a functional issue too. You can't really squeeze them and play with them if they're too small, and you definitely can't motorboat them lol. I don't want to get too graphic because this isn't the point of my post, but obviously with smaller boobs you can't really give someone a boob job with them either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:41 PM |
| – | Men on reddit lie about their boob size preferences the same way women lie about their dick size preferences.But then the same argument applies the other way. If a guy is 6ft tall, has a chiseled jawlines, muscles and a great career, then it doesn't matter if he has a small dick because all the other benefits outweigh the negatives. That doesn't mean "size doesn't matter", it just means that the guy is attractive enough overall to overcome that. If i see some super cute chick with a pretty face and a nice ass. I don't really care if she has small boobs. Long as they are not saggy. But if you had the op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:39 PM |
| – | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menYou can prefer that your partner is taller than you and still settle for someone who isn't. That happens all the time in the real world and yes I've seen it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:45 AM |
| – | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menBy definition, if you're average you can't be classified as highly desirable, because you're much more replaceable than a man who's above average. You can be somewhat desired, but you'll never be able to experience what it's like to be lusted after. Some men want that feeling, and others don't. Who am I to judge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Women, how old are you and what is your preferred age range when dating?Very sensible opinion, thanks for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 01:18 PM |
| 68 | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menI think this is more an online opinion vs offline behavior kinda situation. It's the same with height. On reddit, women overwhelmingly say height doesn't matter, they actually prefer men who are the same height as them etc. But in the real world, I have yet to meet even a single woman who doesn't prefer her man to be significantly taller than her. Same with age. On reddit almost every woman says they only date men their age, and yet IRL, 90% of women I've spoken to said they prefer dating men wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Is it true if you are physically attractive man, women generally approach you first and make a move?Yes but only women who I'm not attracted to. As many options as I have, the women I'm attracted to have infinitely more options and would never need to approach first. When I'm at a club, I'll often get women coming up to me and asking for my name. Never once has it been a woman I'd classify as above average. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you become comfortable with having more than one girl at once?What motivates girls to look for casual sex instead of a relationship? Is it mostly because they're fresh out of a breakup and aren't emotionally available? | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 11:50 AM |
| – | Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man?Then women should specify exactly what they mean. They're supposed to be much better communicators than men, but when it comes to dating and sex, it seems like most women are terrible at describing what they actually want lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man?Do you think the women who you'd describe as having your dream body also take gear? And how often do you work out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 08:56 AM |
| – | Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man?lol there was literally a post on here the other day saying that women are lying when they say size doesn't matter, and all the women in the thread kept gaslighting the OP that he was just insecure. it's better to be honest than to lie imo. women like big dicks and they should stop pretending they don't. it's worse when 99% of women on reddit say they don't care but then irl women constantly shame guys for having small dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 08:47 AM |
| -1 | Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man?If you work out a lot, then the male equivalent who spends as much time in the gym as you would probably look like a bodybuilder. Do you not think it's a double standard to find bodybuilders freaky while they probably work out the same amount as you do, except as men they pack on a lot more muscle mass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man?So if he's skinny with no muscle you would be OK with that? Do you not feel like since you put so much work into your physique, you deserve a man who puts an equal amount of effort into his? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 08:43 AM |
| 0 | Dating apps are not a good indicator of real life datingWhere are you getting that 80% number from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenSure, but if you only start dating with the intention of settling down at 30, it'll take you some time to get married and then some more time to successfully get pregnant. Not to mention it takes years to build a relationship with a man to the point where he proposes to you and also wants to start a family with you (since he probably won't have the same biological timeline). So realistically if you want to have a kid at 28, you'd need to start dating your husband at 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenI agree with the general sentiment, but then what happens when that young under-26 year old woman reaches 30? Are you going to discard her for a younger woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:32 AM |
| -5 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenthe average 30 yo woman who is only thinking about marriage and kids and wants to settle for beta If she really wanted kids she would have settled down well before 30. By the time she turns 30 her options are severely limited. I actually find late 20s women more attractive than early 20s, but I can't deny that from a biological perspective, fertility starts to decline pretty rapidly past the age of 28 or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:30 AM |
| 29 | Dating apps are not a good indicator of real life datingThe same women you see in real life are also on dating apps. If they would have swiped left on you on the apps, they would most likely also reject you if you cold approached them. If you have amazing game and your dating profile is terrible, then maybe you would stand more of a chance in person than online, but that's not the case for most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:33 PM |
| – | Just because dating apps are the most popular way to meet doesn’t mean you have to use themAs an attractive introvert who doesn't like small talk, dating apps work much better for me because they allow me to expand my dating pool and meet other attractive people who I would never run into in my daily life (I work from home). I don't like dating via my friend group because it usually doesn't work out, and then it gets awkward when you have to explain to your friend that the girl they introduced to you isn't your type and that you aren't going to pursue things with her. My hobbies are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 04:20 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense when women claim that most men just want casual sex.For me, I need to know we're sexually compatible before committing to a relationship. I don't view sex on the 3rd date as casual sex. I view it as determining our compatibility so that I can then decide to go all in on this girl if we're compatible. And the fact that we've made it to the 3rd date shows there's already some level of investment. This in no way means that I'm "just looking for casual sex" as women claim. I just don't think it's a good idea to become exclusive with someone when you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 07:42 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense when women claim that most men just want casual sex.What makes you think these men/women are giving honest responses to the survey? I'm not a huge fan of hookups but ironically the few times that I did have one night stands with women, all of them had some variation of "No hookups" on their profile, and yet ended up hooking up with me lol. So clearly what women say and what they actually do are completely different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 07:40 AM |
| 8 | It doesn't make sense when women claim that most men just want casual sex.Aren't there other studies showing that the percentage of men who are single and not having sex is at an all time high? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 07:39 AM |
| 2 | It doesn't make sense when women claim that most men just want casual sex.Would you consider yourself average or above average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Pedestalizing women is good.By that same logic, women should also be pedestalizing men because they're attracted to us and we are the only ones capable of having heterosexual intercourse with them. So why not just both genders not pedestalize the other and leave it at that lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.Thanks for making my case for me haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 03:31 AM |
| 0 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.If she's never had a relationship and she's 25, that would be an equal red flag to me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.What makes you think that a woman who's lost her virginity, maybe just because she wanted to know what sex was like, is a form of seeking validation? If you met a woman who was supermodel-level attractive but you knew that she'd had 1 or 2 previous boyfriends, would that be such a turnoff to you that you wouldn't want to date her anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.typically a man who has never been able to find a relationship usually has qualities that make him unattractive to women. And those qualities continue to make him unattractive. This is exactly my point - this standard applies to women too, provided they aren't religious. All the women I know who are virgins are either extremely prude/religious, or they are very awkward to the point where they don't know how to flirt with men. So the religious part aside, that means that they have qualities men w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.Yes, I'm referring to women who are virgins not by choice, just like most men who are virgins also are virgins not by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.Exactly, so if a woman is that socially awkward to be unable to have sex even in her mid 20s, I would find that unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.So when all these men say they want a virgin woman, what they really mean is they want a religious woman, right? And which religion exactly? Christianity? Islam? Something else? It just seems like men focus on the virgin part rather than the religious part, which suggests to me that they value the concept of virginity itself, not the actual religious beliefs behind it. And as a man myself, I'm saying that I do not want a woman who has no clue what to do in the bedroom. I want someone who's attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Female virgins are equally as unattractive as male virgins past a certain age.That's my point. It's almost impossible for a woman to be attractive and also a virgin past 25, unless she's literally saving herself for marriage which I've already stated is the exception. So if a woman is actually a virgin in her late 20s and isn't religious, that would make her just as unattractive as a virgin man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Do women actually go to bars and clubs alone?And here I was thinking that complimenting women on their looks right off the bat was a no go haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:03 PM |
| 7 | Do women actually go to bars and clubs alone?Are you open to being approached when you're with friends? What kind of openers would you prefer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 09:33 AM |
| 1 | "If they're still single in their mid-30s there's a reason" - why is it OK for women to say this about men, but not the other way round?men who date younger choose those women over the women their age. they're not going for younger women because women their age won't have them. I agree with this. But what happens when the younger woman you choose to date grows older? What's to stop you from just leaving them for another younger woman who's more attractive? You'd never be able to have meaningful lasting relationships in that case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 03:17 AM |
| 18 | "If they're still single in their mid-30s there's a reason" - why is it OK for women to say this about men, but not the other way round?Then how come every single female friend I've asked has said they don't date guys younger than them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 04:49 PM |
| 5 | "If they're still single in their mid-30s there's a reason" - why is it OK for women to say this about men, but not the other way round?What do you mean by deliberately going for younger women? It takes two to tango. A woman is also a consenting adult, and most women I know do prefer men 3-5 years older, just like men prefer women 3-5 years younger. It doesn't make sense to me why men get blamed for being naturally attracted younger women, when younger women are also instinctively drawn to older men for their greater maturity and ability to provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 04:40 PM |
| 0 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?what's the proof of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?Could she bond with you though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 04:30 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?In what society do women not get the ick when a man asks to split the cheque on the first date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:51 AM |
| 1 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?They provide, but not financially. They provide in other ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:16 PM |
| 12 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?But why would a non jaded woman want to be a with a jaded man? Surely she'd want a non-jaded man for herself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?So being jaded has no effect on whether a man is in his prime, but it does on women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 04:14 PM |
| 4 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?That just sounds depressing and completely transactional to me. What's the point of dating a woman if all she wants is your money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:40 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?What was better about your dating life in your 30s? Were you able to date more attractive women? How old were they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:08 PM |
| 4 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?Very fair point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:07 PM |
| 7 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?Then doesn't it make sense for a jaded man to go with a jaded woman? Then the two of you can be jaded together and ironically trust each other more because you've both been through the same bullshit and can relate to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:07 PM |
| 0 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?This is the first good argument I've seen on here. As a man I do agree with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:06 PM |
| 5 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?Why isn't a single 30+ year old man all kinds of red flags? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:06 PM |
| 8 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?tbh a lot of men are saying that though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:05 PM |
| 2 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?Doesn't that depend on whether they're career women or not? If a woman was never interested in developing her career in the first place, it doesn't matter what age she is. She might still be a barista or overseas English teacher at 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:05 PM |
| 12 | If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30?Being attractive has nothing to do with the things I mentioned though. Plenty of women are more attractive in their 30s than their 20s. Doesn't mean they aren't more jaded and don't have more baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?What makes you think the percentage of people who cheat via dating apps would be different than IRL? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:11 AM |
| 10 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?So are men on dating apps more or less attractive than men you'd meet IRL? I get 2-3 matches per day and I consider myself relatively attractive, but I still have to put in a ton of work on my profile and my cold approach skills to be successful with women. I think for a lot of attractive women I see on the apps, they barely put any effort into their prompts, and a lot of them have prompts like "I'm looking for someone with abs/6ft/rich" etc. which even the most attractive men would never be abl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:04 AM |
| 6 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Bars and clubs are basically one of the worst places to find a long-term relationship So are dating apps, according to many women. mainly getting hit on by drunk men who just want to bang Many women say this is their experience on dating apps too, minus the drunk part 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 04:02 AM |
| -11 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Maybe we just have different life experiences then. From my perspective women who put a lot of effort into their appearance tend to want to go out and socialize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:56 AM |
| -4 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?If you're extremely good at your job and you're getting calls from recruiters left right and center for better offers with higher salary, would you still go through the trouble of going on LinkedIn and applying to jobs and filling out your CV to apply on company websites when there's no guarantee a human being will even see it, when you're already getting calls from real recruiters who are dying to hire you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?I've met up with quite a few of the attractive women on these apps and some of them are even more attractive IRL than in their pictures. It just made me wonder why they would even need to be on an app if they're this good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:17 AM |
| -13 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Anecdotally though I see a very high correlation between a woman's attractiveness and how active her social life is. The most attractive women tend to go to a ton of events (probably invited by other attractive friends), whereas the less attractive ones stay home. Think about a woman with stunning supermodel type looks. She's probably out at the club on a Friday night, or grabbing drinks with her girlfriends, or at a fashion show, or at any other number of social events that attractive people fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:13 AM |
| -1 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?I have reasonable standards of attractiveness imo. By attractive I mean anyone above average so literally a 6/10 and above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:10 AM |
| -1 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?That's my point. Attractive women don't even need to learn how to approach men. Men will come to them. Just go to any bar or club and you'll see how much attention the hottest girl in the room gets from every single guy there. Why are these women still on dating apps when they can have their pick of the cream of the crop IRL? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:10 AM |
| – | Most couples meet from IRL, not onlineI disagree. I meet 10x more women from dating apps than I do IRL, if not 20x. I don't date friends of friends because I find it awkward and messy if things don't work out, plus I don't enjoy being the subject of gossip in my social circle. I work from home so I don't meet people through work except on very rare occasions when I'm on business trips. Dating apps have been a godsend for me. I get 2-4 matches per day across the apps I'm on, and this is enough to go on a date with 1 new girl a week i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 04:36 PM |
| -1 | Women generally prefer older men, but at the same time a man who's in his 30s and still single is seen as a red flag.Right. But how is a woman supposed to know whether you've been in a relationship before? Usually that's not a question you ask someone when you first meet them. So you have to go by attraction and "feel" until you're comfortable enough with each other to talk about your dating history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 09:28 AM |
| 2 | How can I get "hood" hispanic/arab girls as a white guy? Not sure how to connect with this group?Do you have any examples on what to say to make them feel beautiful? Like specific phrases or things to point out? | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 03:42 AM |
| 0 | How can I get "hood" hispanic/arab girls as a white guy? Not sure how to connect with this group?Isn't it generally a bad thing to compliment girls on their appearance since everyone else does that? | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 02:52 AM |
| 6 | How can I get "hood" hispanic/arab girls as a white guy? Not sure how to connect with this group?Why does being older make it easier for you? Do you mean the older hood girls that are around your age are easier to pull? Or do you mean the younger ones tend to go for older guys so it gives you an advantage? | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 11:48 AM |
| 5 | Left college dateless and probably headed to South Korea for a year. What to expect?Being a white guy in South Korea is a little bit like being an Asian guy in the West. Don't expect it to be a walk in the park like Thailand or the Phillipines. Korean men are considered extremely desirable right now so you'll have a hard time competing, especially on their home turf. Your best bet will be to learn some Korean to set yourself apart from the other English teacher expats. Otherwise you'll just be considered a "loser back home" which isn't a good look, especially in Korea. | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Failure in real life approaches but master at online datingAnd here I was thinking that the only people with an Asian fetish were creepy white guys haha | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 04:13 AM |
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