Men lie about not preferring big boobs the same way women lie about not preferring big dicks.

wtknight · 2025-05-20T12:04:13+00:00

Removed. No posts about looks.

Waiwirinao · 2025-05-20T04:34:22+00:00

I prefer a nice ass and a pretty face, thats no lie.

One-Fig-4161 · 2025-05-20T04:35:00+00:00

Big boobs are fun but I’m also into petite women. Idk what to tell you bro, I’m not lying.

TheDollDiaries · 2025-05-20T04:36:56+00:00

I think you only think someone is lying if you lie about things like this…because come on

Akitten · 2025-05-20T05:18:25+00:00

What no they don't?

There are no women who prefer tiny dicks over larger ones. There are PLENTY of men who are part of the itty bitty titty committee. I'm one of them. Actively prefer smaller chested women. My dating history backs this up nearly 100%

It's actually women who seem to get pissed when men express this preference. I've been actively insulted by women who ask for my preference. When I say Rose Leslie and Keira Knightley are both significantly hotter to me than Kim Kardashian, they seem scandalised.

Creepy-Builder-9343 · 2025-05-20T04:40:03+00:00

i don’t think men are lying per se just expressing flexibility. “my monkey brain gets all sorts of chemicals when it has big boobs mhm, but i’m conscious so if i love you and you don’t have big boobs it’s fine.”

EulenWatcher · 2025-05-20T04:36:57+00:00

Preferences can’t really be argued about, and breast size, unlike dick size, is all about visual appeal and touch. Bigger breast doesn’t really affect the pleasure of PiV like a bigger (to a certain degree) dick can, so it’s just how you prefer it visually/touch-wise.

I’m bi - I think shape is above size. A nicely shaped small breast is more aesthetically pleasing than a huge one losing its shape, although both can be nice to the touch.

ksmigrod · 2025-05-20T04:46:48+00:00

Nope, you know the saying: "the bigger they are, the longer they get"?

Stock-Argument-1040 · 2025-05-20T05:30:10+00:00

This is a lot of words to say you can't conceive of people thinking differently to you.

Few_School2680 · 2025-05-20T04:44:46+00:00

There can be a general rule and people who deviate from it. There are absolutely men who prefer small boobs

Eastern_Yam_5975 · 2025-05-20T04:46:46+00:00

I feel like a lot of people are butt fans instead of boob fans. If you’re thin with huge boobs it the experience is kind of weird.

AngeAware · 2025-05-20T06:08:53+00:00

I don't think they're lying so much as the karma system and default sorting of comments on Reddit incentivize contrarian viewpoints that make insecure people feel good about themselves

Icyfemboy · 2025-05-20T04:36:29+00:00

I dunno about others but I genuinely wholeheartedly like all sizes except maybe completely flat and even then it’s not a dealbreaker. If your frame fit your size then I really don’t give two shits how big or small you are.

jay303x · 2025-05-20T04:58:45+00:00

I'm the ranking chairman of the itty bitty titty appreciation committee (IBTAC) and this post is extremely offensive, you'll be hearing from our lawyers

Slow-Narwhal486 · 2025-05-20T05:04:28+00:00

I’m not a man, but I’m bi…I don’t really care about size when it comes to boobs. I think boobs that are proportionate to a woman’s frame are the most attractive. If a woman has a tiny frame, DDs wouldn’t look right on her, but a B/C would look fantastic

WhyStandStill · 2025-05-20T05:22:30+00:00

To be honest, big dicks can be very uncomfortable during sex, and I would definitely prefer an average or even a small one over a big one. 🤷🏼‍♀️

This whole bragging about the ‘bigness’ of certain organs has always seemed like total man-made bullshit to me.

JonMyMon · 2025-05-20T05:36:07+00:00

I've never been turned off by a woman's boobs being too small. I have, however, been turned off by a woman's boobs being too big.

lostacoshermanos · 2025-05-20T06:00:05+00:00

Bs as a man big breasts are a turn off

DankuTwo · 2025-05-20T08:31:50+00:00

This is a bad comparison. Men tend not to reject women for breast size (despite having preferences), and breast size is sort of irrelevant to sexual satisfaction (whereas penis size is actually pretty important).

Try again, sir.

uglysaladisugly · 2025-05-20T08:51:02+00:00

You all spend a LOT of time trying to replace people in their own heads for no reason at all.

I'm not a guy but small perky boobs are OBVIOUSLY a whole preference.

KhadgarIsaDreadlord · 2025-05-20T11:46:31+00:00

You are trying to make an objective statement on subjective preference. A common problem in this subreddit.

SkylineRSR · 2025-05-20T05:09:25+00:00

Men do not shop for partners like build a bear like women do, simple as.

Logos1789 · 2025-05-20T04:42:59+00:00

The most attractive thing about women with smaller breasts is they try harder.

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ImNotTheOneReally · 2025-05-20T05:22:04+00:00

If you see two women who look the same and one have bigger boobs than other its can be an argue. But it wont happen so it would be nothing more than a theoretical argue.

I saw attractive women with small boobs and bigger boobs as well. I dont think people would choose somebody who is not as attractive but has big boobs over somebody who has smaller (but more attractive body overall) .

In my case id definitely chose a woman even with absolutely flat chess if i like her shape, face, personality or even voice over than somebody else who has big boobs but but she is behind the other girl in any other ,, asset,,. Two nice boobs wont change anything in themselves.

Icy-Gene7565 · 2025-05-20T05:35:14+00:00

Prefer a b cup to EE

coldsleepybitch · 2025-05-20T05:50:00+00:00

Idk, I’m sure there are some women who do prefer bigger dicks for one reason or another but if I’m being honest I’d rather my partner’s dick be a little too small than too big. The average vagina is about the same depth as the average penis. Having your cervix rammed can be really painful, and a lot of women including myself can’t even reach orgasm from penetration on its own. He’s gonna have to eat me out to get me to finish either way, so aside from visual appeal which just isn’t that important to me (I think all genitals are kinda funny looking) dick size doesn’t matter nearly as much as who it’s attached to. I’m also a petite, smaller chested woman, and I was insecure about it for years, but have come to accept and even appreciate my boobs. My husband adores them which is good enough for me! It took me a long time accept that he wasn’t lying about finding me attractive, but the fact that I find him beautiful and sexy as hell without a lot of the physical qualities women are “supposed” to prefer, has made me realize he could really feel the same toward me as well. We as women and men can really only speak for ourselves when it comes to “what men/women want”. I know what I prefer differs from other women, we are individuals so of course we won’t all like the same things. I have no reason to believe men wouldn’t be just as diverse in the things they like. What is basically universally unattractive, however, is being told we’re lying about what we prefer if it doesn’t validate someone’s pre-existing beliefs about bIoLoGy. Please stop that.

Fan_Service_3703 · 2025-05-20T05:56:58+00:00

No doubt this is important to some men, but there are others out there who are ambivalent or prefer smaller.

Personally, a long time ago I sat next to someone at work who was very well-endowed in that regard, and I didn't even notice this for three months despite seeing her every day. It's just not something that interests me.

I do find the Kardashian arse repulsive though.

reallinustorvalds · 2025-05-20T06:17:18+00:00

I don't lie about it

septiclizardkid · 2025-05-20T07:19:56+00:00

I small boobs.

Ass man though. But let's see that personality.

BobtheArcher2018 · 2025-05-20T08:25:21+00:00

At first I didn't think this analogy worked that well, past the fact that both genders will virtue signal. But the more I thought about it, the more it did seem to work. But that means understanding that bigger is not always better in either case.

There is a primal power to bigger dicks or boobs. My preference is actually for shape over size, and I don't really like the bigger ones usually. But I still feel the immediate power of a big rack on a primal level before other cognitive processes kick in. It is probably the same with women and dicks. There is also an uncanny valley effect for both. Past a certain size, both become cartoonish and lose both their power and their ability to generate desire. Nobody really prefers the low-end, either. But a truly flat chest is preferable to a micro penis because the chest is still 'functional'.

Then within the zone of common preference, people legitimately have different preferences. I like enough size to have great shape. Past that, I'm less attracted. Big is usually saggy. Some women begin to make associations between penises that are too big for them and a lack of attraction. Some don't. Some prefer girth. Some women are hung up on circumsized vs. not. Some care about shape or bend, etc.

Adject_Ive · 2025-05-20T10:25:50+00:00

There is currently a subreddit about small boobs that has 1.2 MILLION members.

TheDollDiaries · 2025-05-20T04:34:49+00:00

It’s not false I have huge boobs but even I have had men admit that they like smaller to my face but I mean damn some guys just like boobs.

Title	Men lie about not preferring big boobs the same way women lie about not preferring big dicks.
Author	always_pizza_time
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Date	May 20, 2025 4:30 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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