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amazonri/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:38 PM
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Yeah mine was very affectionate. I dont mind affectionate girls, its good feedback generally and if you actually like them, it feels good to share that with them. I dont think girls understand that us guys need to see certain things for us to be comfortable giving them our exclusivity. The second we suspect basic things missing in a relationship, it increases the pressure for us to break things off. We will suspect something is really wrong and it sort of kills our emotional attachment to them. …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 10:54 PM
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Yeah but hers was on another level. She was even like this when we were official and exclusive. It was clear to me that this was some childhood or dating trauma baggage. It was just an extreme case. If she never reciprocated back I wouldve thought she wasnt interested at all. Its the only reason why I tolerated it. But eventually it snowballed into the reason why I broke things off. Like she would only text first if i didnt write her back, it always took a negative event for her to reach out for…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 08:49 PM
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Most of the time. A girl I dated loved me, but she was extremely passive in our relationship. I had to initiate every conversation, but she reciprocated with enthusiasm and availability. No shit tests, no sex withdrawals, no attitudes. Complete submission in bed. BDSM, had her on a leash, handcuffs, collar, you name it. But her passiveness in the actual relationship itself drove me crazy. We were exclusive and i wanted a girl to be clingy to a healthy degree. She wasnt. Her clinginess manifested…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 08:31 PM
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I think most black NFL players have the right balance between slang/casual and professional. Just watch their interviews. A lot of is actually being "that guy" mixed with media training, but if you are looking for real life examples in the flesh, its them.
/r/seduction12/02/22 05:34 PM
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A guy who has fucked 5 HB9's has a higher SMV than a man who has fucked 20 HB6. ​ Some guys will never unlock the HB9 no matter how much game they have and how much they workout. Those are reserved for guys who mix Talent and hard work.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 07:14 AM
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Depends on how much "worst" his "average" face is from handsome. 1 point down? Jacked wins. But if handsome face is 8.5/10 in looks and average guys is 6/10 that 2.5/10 is a big difference. A BIG difference.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:47 AM
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She gives out many IOI's to a wide variety of guys ... usually implies low standards aka easy to fuck. Many guys seem to know her a little bit more than "acquantainces" .. usually seen via extra friendly body language with her.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:34 AM
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normal situation girl gets mad at orbiters, but keeps 3-4 Chad rotation who she picks up call and fucks on occasion depending on convenience
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:32 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. As for the eye contact issue with him, I dont feel that it is because I am taking the lead. He asked me out to lunch and we had a good time. He definitely wants to meet up this weekend, I think he is treading carefully because we are technically coworkers and its only his 2nd week on the job. I know he has the "balls" because I see him basically flirt and lead conversations with a bunch of the women clientele that come in. Anyways, regarding the eye contact - I think he …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 09:59 AM
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You just need to start winning more. Winning at 17 means being popular, going to parties, befriending Chads, getting swole not just lifting and spinning your wheels, and fucking girls. Work towards all of those things, and push your comfort zone. You will eventually begin racking up some Wins. Every champion failed and lost many times. Look at all of the greats.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:14 AM
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Fair point but confidence doesnt root only from sex. Confidence roots from social status, accomplishments, self esteem, body type, etc. These things will factor into his body language as well. A Lower SMV man who can lay the pipe is still going to have to attract the woman into bed. Once she tastes his good dick, then the tables will flip and she will begin chasing him. But according to this post even under these circumstances she will branch swing to a 9/10 Chad with 6/10 dick game, if the oppo…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:03 AM
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He really needs a customer service job IMO. This will give him a fair share of older ladies, with a mix of hot girls and some dudes and Chads here and there.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:59 AM
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Who said he has rock-solid inner game confidence? His SMV is a 6, this is where the confidence/looks/status all calculated come to. His sex game being a 9 is just good dominant sex (which is obviously in demand). However that doesnt mean he is extremely confident, otherwise his SMV would be higher. Other than that I agree with everything else you said.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:53 AM
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No, you are right. This is exactly what I left out on purpose.. glad we agree on this aspect.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:24 AM
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This was exactly my point. I never thought about it like this until a friend brought it up and told me that sober sex is awkward. I thought that was kind of weird, I admit he is kinda beta so it makes sense. But it made me think about other people too, seems like most people have drunk sex for one night stands.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:52 AM
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Fuck man.. im on a diet too.. so i cant be eating fast food 2-3 times a week just to have sex. Is it literally impossible to fuck a plate without plausible deniability? Even if they agree we are both FWB's.. is it still necessary?
/r/askTRP31/01/18 03:19 AM
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Nah man.. no fucking at the house period. This is a huge logistic obstacle I need to get around :/ Can I just say 'lets go on a drive' or 'lets go on a late night adventure' ?
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:57 AM
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No I mean, what do I write on the text though? I know to escalate and fuck on every date.. if we dont fuck i will soft next. I just need to know what to write for plausible deniability.. we both dont have a place to fuck.. only my car. I cant say "lets grab drinks" either because i will be driving. I want to fuck in parks, on the beach, in nature, in my car, on a hike, etc at night time of course. This is the plan. After we fuck, I drop her off and rinse and repeat. This is the blueprint I have.…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:55 AM
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We're both 18 and live with parents. Im not going to meet her parents after fucking her only once. Meeting the parents gives off a boyfriend LTR vibe I feel. How should I approach it then? Without drinking since i am going to be driving (only place to fuck is in car).
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:51 AM
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Best way is to do "soft approaches." Just approach random women without the intention of getting their number. This will initially take the pressure off you and you can kind of test the waters here based off how these women will respond to you. After you get some cute girls who seem receptive, it will boost your confidence.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 05:09 PM
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My favorite way of approaching is when I see a girl who gives me a bunch of IOI's and heres the key: not many people around - so I go in for the kill and her guard is down because there is no audience. Also if she makes the approach 'easier' by coming in my vicinity and floating around. I have a good reception rate because i follow these rules.. i hardly cold approach women who havent given me IOI's to begin with. I have a question for you though. How do you show your intentions of wanting to fu…
/r/askTRP29/01/18 05:07 PM
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Yup. Totally killed the vibe, I was just shooting the shit anyways, its all good. Her receptivity was a win in my book
/r/seduction26/01/18 04:54 AM
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"Alpha Male of Group" Its basically a term used to describe when someone tries to overtly compete with you, in this context it was for a girl. For example, he could have talked to her any other time, but he chose to do so when I was.
/r/seduction26/01/18 04:10 AM
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This is most likely the answer, however OP isnt providing context regarding IOI's. If she is giving IOI's and is acting this way, I know shes shy/trying to not mess up. If she isnt giving IOI's and is acting this way, you are basically invisible to her.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 03:03 AM
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Yes its an IOI. Its primping, aka adjusting clothes. In specific context, she is trying to draw attention to her ass by making it look the best it can by pulling up her pants. Like others said, it will only remain an IOI (which is a sweet nothing) if you dont approach.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:08 AM
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The wall usually starts around 24. Hits full swing by 30 years old. It is when their youthful glow begins to fade, their bodies get fatter, etc. Some women with great work ethic can delay this wall by working out and taking care of their bodies, but most fall victim to just letting it wreak havoc on them. Some women, although rare, can maintain really good looks well into their 30s and even 40s, Im sure you can think of some youve seen around your town. These are the ones who have good genetics,…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:52 AM
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I just cant tell if your original answer was a genuine answer or you just being a smartass. Can you embellish on what you meant originally? Not trying to be a dick to you.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:49 AM
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Do you have any real life experience with this or are you just a TRP alpha male?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:04 AM
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Dudes definitely plugging in his own shit via wordpress
/r/askTRP15/01/18 09:23 AM
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Lol this was literally a second idea i had. Buy some beers and head to the lake at night. only thing is the local lake in town isnt very appealing, but its plausible deniability - all that matters. Did this idea have much success with you?
/r/askTRP08/01/18 07:37 AM
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What if you are visibly slightly nervous, but fighting through it? Does that still display confidence?
/r/askTRP28/12/17 05:21 AM
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Number 1 thing i learned from it was to not be needy. Also to ask her out when the iron is hot. Women reward boldness. (many men dont ask women out, and if they do, it is when it is too late) Everything else is common sense.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 07:12 AM
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How would you define frame? Its one of the most complicated aspects of TRP to explain. Can you write down how you perceive it as well as how you actively practiced enforcing it in daily life?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 02:16 AM
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Word.. this makes a lot of sense. We are on the same page. P.S. Social isolation can turn the most natural alpha motherfucker into a socially awkward fucker. Good thing those social skills come back like muscle memory.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 06:05 AM
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preselectionevek 19 grants you immunity to 3 beta traits? Cant tell if you are agreeing or disagreeing. Even the most alpha men out there have beta traits here and there. Are you implying that 3 beta traits is a little bit in comparison to preselection?
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:01 AM
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Well, let me reword this. Preselection is in a sense status.. and also is in a sense High SMV because a lot of women want you. Preselection is the result of status and SMV. So if you have enough positive traits to pedastool you up there, does it overpower negative traits? You are essentially being screened and approved by other women, so thats all women care about - what others think, especially their competition. Can I get a serious analysis instead of a "you lazy sack of shit fucking hit those…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 05:57 AM
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This is exactly what I thought too. but heres the thing.. body language means everything. So because a smaller "inferior" man is taking on dominant body language in the presence of a more superior man, does the inferior man actually feel he is more dominant? Or is he faking it as a survival instinct. Because people put hands on their hips when they feel powerful.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 03:50 AM
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I agree. I have never seen this advocated on TRP or any sort of dating philosophy period.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:43 AM
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Red could mean she blushed, blushing is a symptom of physical attraction
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:18 AM
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Word bro. Im deleting this shit because its straight golden knowledge
/r/askTRP03/12/17 09:12 AM
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I literally agree and have come to the same conclusion with everything you said. But "Game" IMO is reading body language and knowing how to react to it. Its really that simple.. I mean obviously theres SMV/dread/preselection but those are all passive. The body language reading and reacting are active in which you are always present in the interaction to know what to do next. That is game. This is why some girls are like "this guy just gets it." These bluepiller/PUA types think its what you are v…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 08:58 AM
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No no I understand it. I understand the really advanced aspects of it.. I just had an epiphany that understanding her body language = game. I have never thought about it like that but it seems so true. Do you agree?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 08:39 AM
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Its still a bit unprofessional to overtly flirt though, especially around other coworkers. Gotta keep it lowkey i guess
/r/askTRP03/12/17 08:17 AM
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Would going on a "late night cruise" be too direct? By direct i mean these whores still want plausible deniability.. its all apart of the game. I just wanna fuck her in my car.. like i said im in college and live with my parents still. Dont wanna bring hoes to my house unless theyre outta town
/r/askTRP01/12/17 07:23 PM
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Normally Im direct.. but want to tone it down a bit as coworkers. How should I ask her out in this context?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:12 PM
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In any other situation I would easily ask her out. However my intuition about it being a coworker makes me not want to be so direct. How should I ask her out in this case? How did you? I just want to fuck her in my car.. we have that kind of sexual tension. I dont even think we need to pretend to go do other shit.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:10 PM
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Heres the thing.. It ends in 2 more months. Theres a risk involved with waiting 2 more months.. I can lose attractiveness due to familiairity (im the new guy) or she can go into auto-rejection mode. Shouldnt I just strike when the iron is hot? Im her potential Chad of the month PS I have abundance at the end of the day, so its not a big deal.. but as a horny college man to have an HB8 blondie with a bubble butt being so thirsty, you really recognize an opportunity like that. Shes not some HB5
/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:57 PM
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Basically a plate. For some context a lot of attractive customers flirt with me and she notices.. she is really attracted for this reason (preselection). Therefore she sees me as an AF.. not a Provider, so yea i dont want a relationship at all.. I just want to fuck her before or after work and act like nothing happened at work, rinse repeat. Only plan on being there 2 more months
/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:55 PM
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Like let's say, when my confidence grows, I start talking too much and end up being annoying. People take notice, and I take notice of them and my confidence goes down again. Its just like an incompetent player that suddenly get confidence but then screw up everything and his confidence goes down This isnt who you are. This is you under social anxiety. This is the result of a weak social muscle. A strong social muscle will have made that mistake a few times (overtalking) and fixed it after a few…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 07:06 AM
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Get a customer service job ASAP.. put an end to it so you can start living the life you want and conquer it back. Shrug off the discomfort and trust the process. A rough 2-3 weeks is totally worth suffering through if it means gaining confidence. I will also say that the gym is important as well.. look at it as a steroid for the way you feel, the way people perceive you, and all of this will accelerate the feedback loop. Guarantee in 2-3 months of talking to dozens of people per day (retail, res…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:51 AM
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Been working a customer service job for about a week now. Major improvement.. gotta keep on grinding! My job forces me to speak to hundreds of people per week, so its consistent and frequent.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 06:30 AM
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Ive literally had different highs and lo's of my life where I was the most confident person in the room all the way to complete isolation (social anxiety). The only difference between the two was when I was the most confident guy, I was talking to hundreds of people per day for my retail job. When I had SA, I was locked in my room avoiding people, not working a "social" job. So yes.. Only way to get better at talking to people is to just... talk to people. Its hard at first but if you can push t…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:27 AM
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Im not so sure about your advice, sounds like OP can hamster a way of "building social skills" just by observing on the sidelines. He needs to practice talking to people, only way to get better at talking is to talk to people (duh).
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:24 AM
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Yes. I am personally going through to process right now of regaining mine. Long story short I got depressed, isolated myself, and lost my social skills. Before my depression I was a total charmer and beamed with confidence. My personality deflated into a dry flat fake polite personality when depressed, which was due to me not training my "muscles." I just recently got a social job with customer service recently, in a strong attempt to finally beating my social anxiety ( about 2 years now ). I am…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 06:20 AM
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Dont bring up TRP terms.. just teach him concepts, and show him in real life by example.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 06:41 AM
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Thanks man. This is exactly my blueprint here. The trouble is doing it consistently. How long did it take for you to gradually decrease yours? Weeks? Months?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 05:04 AM
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For sure.. TRP can translate to social success by not being a doormat. Social success = no social anxiety.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 05:02 AM
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Or to make it even less awkward, just say hi or strike up a small convo next time he sees him.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:13 PM
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Skin issues: Go to r/skincareaddiction and post a picture of your thing. Over 5 very educated snatches will tell you the best solution. Trust me, if theres anything you should listen to women about, its skin or hair care. They really know their shit because its where their value comes from. I literally posted a photo there and they are the literally the Red Pill of skin problems. Theyll tell you what it is, how to get rid of it, what product to use, then all you gotta do is go to the store and g…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:08 AM
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At a certain point the money/stress/time wasted you spend making a few thousand per year may not be worth your mental and physical health. So lets say for example you make an extra $3000 per year from working overtime here and there. But on the flip side your physique is at 17% body fat and not 10% where it would have been if you werent working. You would gain more cost:benefit from being ripped/confident/happy compared to an extra 3000 which is going to end up going towards whatever bullshit li…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:05 AM
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Theres a difference between an alpha smoking weed with her, in the same way he would catch lunch or coffee with them -- and a beta who is doing an unspoken transaction of weed for sex.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:39 AM
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Accept it. Be his friend. Be cool about it, dont look/act intimidated. Just dont AMOG him back, you will look insecure in the process and it will backfire.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:09 AM
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Hey man, gym rat here. Ive been lifting for about 5-6 years consistently now and have a good looking face. When you are big, you get a lot of attention. Overall on first glance, women check you out and men respect you. But theres a dark side mainly with men: they become haters. They will turn into females and try to bring you down instead of raising their own SMV (female strategy). I mainly see this happen with "half-way alphas" around town. These are the guys who arent alpha, or beta, somewhere…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 05:03 AM
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I dont wonder that, just bouncing off what OP was insinuating. Do you have any social awareness? Read the comment above mine.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:53 PM
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I didnt call myself Chad. I just used to polar opposites to make an example.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:51 PM
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Because this never happened until I got big big. When I was 175 pounds it rarely happened, now im 210 after a solid bulk and it happens more often. How can you explain this correlation instead of attacking me?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:49 PM
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Thanks, this is true. Everyone else on this thread is shitting on me because they think im "humblebragging" and thats the #1 rule to not to do on Reddit, even more The Red Pill. This never happened to me until I got bigger (about 210 pounds), when i first started lifting it wasnt happening as often. So theres a correlation there. Has this happened with you?
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:45 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. So do you suppose they think im a fake alpha in TRP terms? Im not trying to fake alpha ness, just keeping good posture and lifting consistently with diet -- i do not want to delve into their hamster.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 07:53 AM
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Do you think society looks at an old 80 year old man the same way they do a jacked 220 pound 25-year old Chad? They will get 2 completely different looks from the same people
/r/askTRP28/08/17 07:51 AM
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i may have exaggerated with that metaphor, but my shoulders naturally have a retracted scapula (in a good way) due to PT exercises i learned post-surgery. it just feels very unnatural to slump them forward since my back muscles are pulling them back naturally. Good point. Ill post a picture of someone with a similar posture in a second. Edit: here you go. Guy on the very right has a very identical posture. Im not as big as him, but about as big as the first guy in the picture so im not a skinny …
/r/askTRP28/08/17 07:14 AM
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Makes sense. But do you think its really that black and white? Hot girls settle all the time, and lots of Chads I meet arent all that, theres always a flaw both socially and physically. You are making it seem like you need to have game and be good looking to make it work. I think girls will tolerate some flaws as long as your SMV is higher, no? Just curious -- do you actually have experience here or are you being an idealist?
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:53 AM
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Exactly. I used to be more confident back then so I just need to regain it back. I know its gonna be rocky at first. But my issue isnt the IOI's, since I have been working on my SMV. In your experience did your SMV carry your awkwardness and still translate to success with girls? Or was it a complete turn off
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:49 AM
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Do you have experience with this? And yes, I can see that happening. But even then, doesnt cold approach really make you stand out above the pack?
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:44 AM
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