Why does TRP makes shit-test responses so complicated? Isnt being unaffected by it the golden zone?

skullsquarecompasses · 2017-12-23T06:05:25+00:00

Growing up I am what you call the "natural alpha."

Shyness and not being able to make eye-contact aren't traits of a "natural alpha", but all right

For people who really are natural alphas, yes, the way to deal with shit tests espoused by TRP may seem a bit calculated and over-the-top. That being said, I can understand why - a lot of guys who come to TRP have little to no idea what shit tests are or how to deal with them. So, they need to take baby steps in the beginning to learn how to identify and respond to them. Later on, once it has been internalized, then they become less calculated, more natural. I compare it to learning a new language - at first, your speaking will be formulaic and formal, but once you get the hang of it, it will become much easier and you'll sound much more "native", or at least "relaxed".

M23W0OH7FV2t · 2017-12-23T06:06:01+00:00

it doesnt come natural

Your presence here belies you being a natural alpha. Some of us (and I definitely include myself in this sentence) were born in neighbourhoods where those we idolised were those young men who became passport forgerers, committed street crimes, cloned passports, etc. and so need to get better role models.

I'm from Flanders -- the northern part of Belgium for those who are unaware -- and grew up as a minority there. My brother went to Syria and joined ISIS, his bones are now sitting somewhere in their caliphate. I avoided the same fate by taking after a cousin of mine and educating myself in STEM. After uni, I joined a few companies as a contractor till I relocated to Copenhagen and am currently contracting with a large bank.

I don't feel comfortable telling most people irl my story as some of them may or may not be interested. Here, I can write an essay, post it on trp, have people read it; whereas in the bar, I must hold their attention lest they focus on something more enticing. There's a metric tonne of stuff that's more exciting than listening to a story about 151cm North African guy who made something of himself coming from Anderlecht. That's assuming the average Dane knows where Anderlecht is, in the first place.

TimPartendale · 2017-12-23T08:21:40+00:00

The problem with shit tests are they are very variable and situation dependent.

But I do enjoy seeing new ways women test men in field reports/asktrp and the various responses the community comes up with. Sometimes these guys come up with downright hilarious stuff.

Ou-tis · 2017-12-23T08:28:35+00:00

Some men are not natural alpha like you,they need an explanation.And if they come here it's because they are really,really frustrated about their romantic lives. Why?Because they don't know how to behave with girls and are awkwards as fuck. Someone have to explain to them things and they seem calculated and complicated,until they can ingrain in themselves the right attitude.

And even the supadupa natural alpha can slip to beta traits or blu pill thinking,because women are deceptive and we live in an enviroment that is totally blupill. It's better calculate than regret.

Title	Why does TRP makes shit-test responses so complicated? Isnt being unaffected by it the golden zone?
Author	amazonri
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	December 23, 2017 5:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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