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| 1 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Ah this. 25% BF, 30 BMI. Yeah any dude that lifts consistently makes BMI look stupid | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 11:15 PM |
| 11 | Almost 1 in 3 American men aged 18-30 are incels. Can you believe this statistic? Why is it so high?Over 25% is overweight; 30% is clinically obese and then they have three categories of obesity. There’s also “metabolic syndrome” which we’re seeing a lot more of nowadays. But agree with you that we are so conditioned to overweight people that seeing someone with a 28 BMI is normal... he’s just chubby or big-boned. He has a “dad bod.” In reality, it’s not okay. Edit: after looking into it, it might depend on the source as some say >25%. But most of the medical world uses 30% as the cutoff. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?If a dude wants to continue to wear a condom with his girlfriend of 8 years, that’s his business and it’s not of my concern. Especially when IUDs are out there which will allow your girl to go 3-5 years without having to take oral contraceptive pills. For third parties reading this post: there is definitely a reasonable middle ground out there. And once again, my fight is not with you or these “rules.” If you use condoms 100% of the time then you’re not the problem. It’s to spread information th… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 08:14 PM |
| 8 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?Agreed, wear a condom. Everybody is looking at the whole condom thing to stave of a baby. I work in healthcare. I’m looking to protect myself from most STDs (STIs). If I’m fucking some rando raw and she’s likely getting action from other people in the meantime - I’m putting myself at risk for god knows what. Get tested. And wrap it up, unless you’re exclusive and know she’s taking the pill. That’s really my criteria. I’ve fucked 20+ girls and haven’t even had a bout of chlamydia et. al. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Found out about ltrs past, worth overcoming?Her past and her current actions make it NOT worthwhile for you to continue anything serious or exclusive. I have an N = 20+ so I wouldn’t necessarily judge a girl for having a count near to mine. The thing is, you could imagine her count being much higher than 20. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else bored of companies like Gillette jumping on the let’s all hate men bandwagon?The company (P&G) also owns: pampers, crest toothpaste, bounty paper towels, charmin toilet paper, head and shoulders shampoo among many other things. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Girls lose interest after first kissI think both kisses have a time and a place. The make-out, tongue-jabbing, prolonged, porn-like kissing you’re doing is great in a dark night club or when you’re already balls deep in a girl. I don’t think it’s the best choice for a first kiss. The soft, sincere, gentle, short kiss? It’s a way to show your sexual intent without making her feel uncomfortable at first. It’s like an ice-breaker. You can now continue to escalate in other ways or move to another location. You can also always make out… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Need help to put it all togetherIdk, saying you don’t give a shit about her ex and setting boundaries isn’t a bad thing. But going nuclear and saying “or else it’s over” May have been over the top. You know she sent you that pic to get a response from you and she got it. Her calling you insecure? Lmao, don’t agree to that at all. Revealing it in actions in one thing. Admitting to it is a whole other thing. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 02:17 AM |
| 20 | "You can get much better than him" shittest from her jealous friend in the clubIf I can’t agree and amplify within a few seconds of the comment, I prefer just to ignore it. It’s better than coming off as butthurt or making a self-depreciating comment. I liked the other suggestion in the thread about being jealous/friend with an ulterior motive (wants me for herself) as that’s a pressure flip. Going out on a limb and saying “why are you body shaming me?” in a non-serious tone with a smile might also get the friend to F off. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 02:08 AM |
| 1 | experience with Bumble?I find the girls on bumble to be of better “quality.” But the whole message you first thing kinda screws you over sometimes. My experience with bumble hasn’t been great overall. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 01:55 AM |
| 7 | What are your guy's thoughts on flexingMy thoughts on flexing? You got a new Rolex or nice sports car that you’re psyched about? Show it off if you want. It’s your object and your social media. The problem comes from overdoing it. Once in a while is fine. Nobody cares. But excessively posting your belongings or brands comes off as trying too hard. If you buy things for yourself then the urge to constantly post about it isn’t that great. You also run into the problem of attracting the wrong type of people. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 01:50 AM |
| 2 | How to be more social and charismatic?Being social is about give and take. If someone made an attempt at a joke, laugh or at least smile. Give others their time to talk, but interject and try to be engaged in the conversation. Mimic their body language or lean in a tiny bit to display that you’re interested in what’s going on. If there’s an awkward silence, just roll with it. Don’t pull out your phone or act weird. I agree, change the tonality of your voice when you’re talking. Add some excitement into your voice if you genuinely wa… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle mistakes that make you look bad?I just make ridiculous stories on the spot about events I don’t feel like explaining. In your case: “I slammed my trunk too hard,” or “I was in a high-speed chase with Russian spies.” You don’t need to explain anything to friends or strangers. It’s your business. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 08:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: So I guess women really are better parents after all.For you to say “millions of men” are skipping off on paying for their biological kids seems very blown out of proportion... almost bitter. For me personally: I would take care of my kids regardless of mom’s situation. I don’t think I could ever treat kids from a different father equivalently as my own. But that’s a fault on me and it has nothing to do with the poor kids. I never date single mothers. The disclaimer that these thoughts are coming from somebody without kids. I wrap it up all the ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | One thing that The Red Pill gets wrong with regards to being alpha and making moneyI actually just realized that TRP was “quarantined.” Which is a shame. Although apparently it’s still accessible on desktop. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Cure for premature ejaculationI agree. But, the reality is patients are just too timid to ask. I’ve had older guys who couldn’t even say the word “viagra” yet it was apparent they really wanted a sample or prescription from me. And if they cared, I could explain how their uncontrolled diabetes and worsening cardiovascular disease were likely contributors to their problem. Asking on reddit? That’s the path of least resistance. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 11:18 PM |
| 7 | Cure for premature ejaculationPremature ejaculation can have a myriad of etiologies. Five reasonable suggestions: Get more experience with women in general and you won’t bust in 30 seconds, I promise. There is actual scientific backing that the first time you have sex with somebody (that you find attractive), your brain biologically wants to ejaculate quickly inside as that’s the basis of reproduction. However repeat encounters with the same female? It will take longer for you to cum. Wearing a condom does delay time to ejac… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Does Having 0 Social Media Hurt My SMV?Social media could help or hurt somebody. You can have a carefully tailored snippet of your life as you say or... a very cringeworthy social media presence. However the lack of social media doesn’t necessarily help nor hurt most. You’re just missing out on any possible benefits it may grant... for example certain girls are very comfortable chatting on social media and have all of these different strategies they use to try and show interest through their favorite platforms. It is a quick way to d… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with beta orbiters cock blocking?If you get angry, aggressive or defensive against this dude, you lose. This is what he wants. In fact, ignoring the orbiter or killing him with kindness is not only the correct play... it’ll piss him off too. Two missions accomplished in one. Because your actions will demonstrate that he’s irrelevant to you (which he is). I would not waste any more time thinking about this dude. If she brings it up again or asks more silly questions then just laugh or change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Would it be a beta note to send my ex girlfriend of 4 years an apology note?If you killed her favorite dog or ruined her life.. yeah maybe an apology would be warranted and appreciated. In your situation? It’s just seeking attention and will come off as trying to rekindle something that should have had been put to rest four years ago. I would guess she’s moved on by now and you should too. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Weight loss or sleep and depression?Have you considered: depression / sleep apnea nutrient deficiencies endocrine or hormone abnormalities acquired or congenital heart problems the fact that you’re waking up mid-REM cycle the fact that you’re over-exerting yourself on certain days any drug use? any cancer history any recent travel, outdoor activity Bla bla blah there are a lot of causes for what you’re describing and you should go talk to your family physician about it. Maybe you can narrow down together, better explain your sympt… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Insecure about the number of girls I've hooked up with - how to just not worry about it? [21M]I don’t think it’s something you should necessarily value, but I understand that you’re feeling the sensation of “missing out.” I was in a similar boat as you. After undergrad my “N-count” was low... like maybe 3?... 4? I had plenty of opportunities that I squandered during college and have learned from them. But at the time, I DID feel like shit when I heard my roommate banging some 10. Or when a wingman would snag a chick at closing time and I’d have to uber home solo. In the years now outside… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Tinder hoe brings friendScenario 1: the friend will... - make the date super interesting and maybe even put your date at ease - play you up and say good things about you once you leave Scenario 2: the friend will... - make the encounter more awkward - ruin any plans you have for after the date - sabotage you Scenario 2 would be the worry. I personally would “next” or make one attempt to reschedule with no friend present. It’s one less variable in the equation. If you have nothing better to do, follow through with it as… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Can I get clarification on how important money is in attracting women?When you sit down for a steak dinner: — The quality of meat you select is the man. You can get a choice cut of meat cooked at the perfect temperature.. the guy who’s charismatic, desirable, and dare I even say, foreign or a shitty cut that’s too dry or too chewy (fat neck beard beta?) — the salt and assorted seasoning would be “the money.” You can make a bad cut taste decently with some sprinkled on, but the seasoning is in no way what makes the dish great by itself. In fact, too much salt (beta… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 09:19 PM |
| 2 | One thing that The Red Pill gets wrong with regards to being alpha and making moneyOkay, so what's the question? This is AskTRP Your recommendation seems sound, but I've seen "alpha" high-earners. For instance, a few surgeons I've met who lift frequently and have a lively social life. This is all while raking in fat stacks and switching out the R8 for an X6M to better accommodate an entourage. There are also the people who are born into wealth and can pursue a sham career all while wining-and-dining in exclusive clubs or jet-setting to Dubai. Everybody sees a successful man/su… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Was given advice by an older guy, wanted to see what trp thought of it? from the way it's written it looks like it's saying: If you're too stupid to notice a chick likes you, she'll still like you once you become less oblivious. This situation is if a chick is sending you IOIs but you don't pick up on it until 3 months later after your buddy brings up how she has been looking at you and laughing a lot more at your jokes... she continues to hang around you or is likely part of some close friend group. Outcome: when you ask her out, she says "yes." Almost like a "fi… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Best way to let a girl down in a reasonably nice way?Ironically reducing affection and attention may lead to her wanting OP more. As long as he realizes that. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Post pictures of what you think a "dad bod" is.I understand OP because there was a shift in how people viewed “Dad bods.” When the dad bod craze first started it was aligned to what OP displayed. It was literally 20-30 year old overweight men who were shirtless and didn’t care. Love handles and a small beer gut were typically with every candidate. Then more articles came out saying: “No, THIS IS A DAD BOD,” and featured literal gym gods who happened to be dads or older celebrities with near-perfect six packs and some extra flab on their arms… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating at workI (still) think dating a coworker is a bad idea and would only really consider it if I’ve had a long dry-spell. I’ve seen work relationships backfire a few times. Plus, my main objective when I go to work is to work. For me, I may flirt or practice some game, but I’m clear about where it’s going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Women owe everything to menI have too many degrees to be a conservative. I have too much money to be a socialist. So sure, “moderate” sounds fine to me. I don’t think you need politics to follow some red pill ideals: lifting/presentation, being social, and understanding human nature. I just try to keep an open mind, hence why I’m here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/18 03:08 AM |
| 1 | I voted for Trump for the sole reason that he triggers people I dont likeThat’s very true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 06:08 PM |
| 3 | A centrist opinion on KavanaughIs she though when apparently other women are corroborating similar accounts? This is like Weinstein and Cosby all over again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | A centrist opinion on KavanaughFun fact the facial cysts / redness is indicative of all of the years he’s been drinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 03:05 PM |
| 2 | I voted for Trump for the sole reason that he triggers people I dont likeI did not vote for Trump, but I like Trump because he brought conservative hypocrisy out to the forefront. complain about the deficit when libs in office. Then run it up to enormous levels and give tax breaks to the rich when you take it back. brag about being champions of state rights then switch to using the federal government to squelch said state rights unconstitutionally delay Garland for Supreme Court then have a hissy fit when Kavanaugh is investigated ONE week by the FBI deregulate anyth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Men CANNOT be virginsThis is like some 4-D chess logic here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 02:36 PM |
| 20 | Women owe everything to menThis seems a bit extreme. And this is coming from a guy who participates a lot on TRP subs.. Yes, men are expected to fight and defend. Yes, modern day feminism takes things too far. They take things for granted. They only see themselves as victims and rarely ever consider that a man can be a victim. But women weren’t even allowed to vote in this country until 1920. And even after that, there was a “sit down and shut up” mentality for women up until modern times. It’s only now that women have ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Lost my cool with 1.5 year ltr, any suggestions?Well ultimately you treat it with a drug (Metronidazole). But when people douche, use all sorts of scented products, antimicrobial or spermicidal agents down there, smoking, new partners, etc... all of these can contribute and throw things off. Sometimes it’s hard to pinpoint a cause and other times it’s obvious (oh you’re douching 3 times a day down there? Stop that.) Recurrent infections or her not getting better, she should really seek more medical help. Actually go in and get an exam, don’t … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 08:11 AM |
| 4 | Lost my cool with 1.5 year ltr, any suggestions?Non-sex related infection? Like BV? This occurs when there’s an overgrowth of the natural flora in the vagina. It actually can happen if you practice too much hygiene... allowing regular bacteria a chance to flourish. There’s also yeast infections and various UTIs but those can be handled if mentioned to a provider. Dyspareunia (pain while having sex) is not normal and she should go back to her doctor. If there isn’t an infection or other organic cause then there could be a psychological compone… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 07:36 AM |
| 10 | Why is it that TRP brings out some racist crazies?This. A lot of libs are beta soy boys. That doesn’t mean being (far) right = red pill ALPHA DOG. I’ve encountered just as many beta repub snowflakes. Case in point, the insecure ones who in that thread say they wouldn’t fuck a chick who fucked a black man (lol). I’m not here to discuss racism or Cheeto Mussolini, I’m here to discuss and read about the red pill. It’s fair to call idiots out if it doesn’t pertain to TRP. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Would you consider an LTR with a woman who has fucked black men?To answer your question honestly, if I think she’s worthy enough to have a LTR then I would not care. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Dealt with a cuckYour story made me laugh audibly. Good job. If that “gymnast bod” is what you want, roll with it. Who cares what else is going on? I personally would take the awesome BJ and leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 02:17 PM |
| 3 | My gf exhibits inappropriate behavior around homosexual menAgreed. First, she brought it up. But secondly, OP went with her. He could’ve hard passed on the night all together. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How to build smv in a new city?You gotta find a younger crowd where marriage is out of the picture. Any university hot spots / bars near by? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about party rich girls?How do you know they’re rich? They look like basic ass white girls to me. And secondly, I’m rich so what do I think about them? Let’s fucking go party. At least people wont complain about the prices of the tickets/booze/food. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 08:17 PM |
| 12 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?But that’s a double whammy to a wife: she’ll have to lose the kids for a day to Dad and lose some of her monthly free money. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Sounds like a good TV reality show. I’m sure all of the child’s portion is not actually enriching the child. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:50 PM |
| 12 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?Sounds like you’d have to set up a nanny cam to catch your wife banging some other dude, with FBI facial reconstruction of the video evidence, followed by a forensic semen analysis of the bed covers, all to prove, beyond a doubt, that she cheated on you. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:49 PM |
| 6 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?It’s insanity but the cost-per-guest of a wedding in the US is now creeping up to ~$140/person. At 200 people, that’s $28,000 already. Factor in the ring, dress, photographer, DJ, booze for now 200 guests, exclusive venue... it can get out of hand quickly. An easy fix is to not invite so many damn people - many of which you’ll never talk to again after the wedding. Got a large family? Trim the wedding itself to immediate family and invite everyone else to a reception. Spending more than 12k on a… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:42 PM |
| 7 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?It’s also a shit situation because fighting to pay less theoretically means your kids will get less but it also means you’ll be able to sustain yourself and your ex won’t get her paws on your money. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Thinking about becoming nurseBoth Nursing (BSN) or Nurse Practitioner (master’s) are good ideas. You could also become a nurse anesthetist - a lot of men do this job and get paid bank. I would also recommend looking into becoming a Physician Assistant (100-200k/year or more) if you feel as though nursing may not be for you. The entry requirements are a bit more rigorous than a BSN program because it’s a master’s degree. I love medicine because of the job security, great pay, and benefits. I hate it sometimes because you may… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 06:16 AM |
| 5 | I can't handle being in groupDon’t treat it as a group. Treat it as a 1-1 conversation. This. A group encounter (or party) is the fastest way to get to know a ton of people at once. You usually get a chance to chat with everybody in attendance in a low stress environment. Break off into side conversations and really bond with people despite the chaos. A 1-on-1 encounter typically places more expectations on you or your partner in order to keep things progressing. The trade off is you’ll get more time in the “spotlight” and … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 06:02 AM |
| 4 | Is Rick from Rick and Morty the Pinnacle of RP?To answer your question, Rick seems more “dark triad” than red pill. He has a big ego, seems to do well with the ladies, does what he wants, and takes orders from nobody. But his crippling alcoholic addiction and lack of gainz don’t seem very RP. At least, not the “pinnacle” of it. You should try to focus on real world red pill examples. Go read the main thread over watching cartoons. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Being lead on or lost interestFrom my experience, dating before college turns out of one two ways: You get married to your “high school sweetheart” You break up in a flaming blaze of glory after chad gets a few rounds with her in the dorm bathrooms Things that you’ve mentioned, like her breaking a snap chat streak? This is petty bullshit. Do not gauge how you’re doing with women by using pointless metrics. You went on a date and kissed a girl. That’s something a bit more tangible. Feel free to pursue this girl for the next m… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 05:38 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think an acceptable N-count is for a girl at the end of college?If five is he number you’re comfortable with then make it 5. But this is a touchy subject for some and know that she’ll likely lie to you about her number. My number is up there... I’m in the N>20’s. I wouldn’t tell a girl this because I don’t want to open a can of worms. As a result, I would not judge a girl solely by some number unless it involved STDs, bad baggage, weird/clingy Ex’s, or other red flags. I would prefer my to LTR to have a lowish count but it’s not a deal breaker. I also do not… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 05:26 AM |
| 12 | There was no connection.Na, I’d say there was a connection or else she wouldn’t have texted you the “take it slow crap” nor made out with you. She probably felt slighted when you demonstrated some sort of push back to her “take it slow” BS. Most beta dudes would have responded with “okay,” enter her frame and walk on egg shells else they risk losing her. You didn’t give a shit (or at least texted in such a manner). This shifted the power back to you. For her to regain power from the situation is by ending it, flaking, … | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Almost completed my engineering degree, feeling very depressed and lost.I just wanted to add that just because your coworkers have bitch tits and suck the soul out of you doesn’t mean you’ll have to be that way. There are a lot of “fun” office spaces. When you’re interviewing for jobs take extra notice of the social dynamics. As others have harped, its good to get into a job like engineering/medicine. Even if you don’t LOVE it the job security, pay and benefits usually outweighs the toll it takes. Try to make it fulfilling. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Masculine bedroom designI would say the important thing would be to keep your living space clean and neat. In my apartment I have my guitars/musical instruments around so that always pulls conversations or impromptu jam sessions. I have some nice (cheap) paintings from an auction that’s professionally framed. A globe with locations I’ve travelled to always brings up conversation and curiosity in people. Lastly some trinkets from my travels or photos of awesome people I’ve met, framed. Always keep some wine and/or candl… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | LTR throws a tantrumGood stuff, thanks for sharing your story | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 05:18 PM |
| 2 | My crush had a threeway. Scared to become a orbiter.Right. If women hated them, they wouldn’t be fucking so many of them | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 09:54 PM |
| 21 | Going out with a girl, she doesn’t drink. What are some ways to create plausible deniability....protein shaker that hasn’t been cleaned for 3 weeks Looks like I have a new go-to | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 09:52 PM |
| 12 | LTR throws a tantrumMate it’s only been a year and you have to deal with this shit? If I were in your shoes I would skip celebrating the anniversary all together. I wouldn’t necessarily tell you to leave the relationship but you should sit down by yourself and question if it’s worth it. BTW congratulations on your passive income. I’m trying to reach a stage like that in my life. For now it’s a grind. But it seems silly to criticize you for this. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Field Report: Fucking my former oneitis and what it made me realizeYeah it wasn’t one of the tighter ones Sucks when it just feels like pounding a bag of air and there’s no resistance. she didn’t know how to ride Seems like she needed your help sooner to show her the ropes lol | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Really Need help.Good luck man | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Really Need help.Major case of oneitis, your text above is a perfect exhibit for students of the red pill philosophy. The inherent problem is you’re pissed that your bros fucked this chick and not you - you are then using this fact as an affront to your self-worth. It’s not. You seem like you have a lot going for you so just go game other people. This chick is nothing. You will not have a future with her. Worse, she doesn’t like you. In a vacuum I would have said that kissing her was a good sign.. but with every… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 11:20 PM |
| 7 | Advice on my tinder profile pics & profile.I would, especially if all your other pics are selfies. Ask a passerby and hand them your phone/camera. Have them snap several photos of you. Review them immediately after they leave. If you like any of them, great, if not then wait a minute and ask someone else. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Didn’t hook up with tinder chick. Does that mean she wasn’t attracted?Pretty sure you made it far enough on your first date to try again... | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 12:31 AM |
| 11 | Why has men's sexual appetite shifted from breasts to booty in the last couple decades?I’m an “ass” man and I’d say it’s because yoga pants are a common occurrence. To me a girl could have A cups and still be super hot with a cute face and a nicely proportioned rump. I’ve also noticed that a lot of “bigger” women think they’re hawt solely because they have large tits. When in reality, guys who like tits tend to prefer busty-petite women. But I’m not sure if the collective appetite has shifted. There will always be preferences. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Texting Advice (how to respond)“Are you a good cook?” responses I thought of in 30 seconds: - I make a mean PB&J - Dave Ramsey thinks so - My real name is Heisenberg - Yes She’s “studying for the LSAT” which certainly is important, but it seems like she’s not interested. I’d move on. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you show you're attracted without coming off as needy for them?I don’t doubt that your attractive. The problem is that girls have higher expectations for attractiveness. The girl you might see as a 6 thinks she’s a 9 and demands an 11. Attractive or not you need to be 110% on your game. You also need to have hobbies/activities that you can fall back on so that you don’t obsess over women. When you make women secondary to your life’s goal(s) then things start coming together. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 04:38 PM |
| 3 | I have so much trouble holding frame.The best way to hold frame when you fear you can’t is to be silent and not get emotional. You can always reassess or reevaluate most social situations at a later time. Another default is to be amused, smile/grin and laugh at most situations. Although when done inappropriately, you’ll look nervous or foolish. So use this one a bit more cautiously. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 04:31 PM |
| 3 | What shoes/boots are "in" right now?Positive attention: Converse Timberland boots anything Gucci | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | High school reputation ruined. Isolated myself as a result. I have been improving myself but I am currently lonely with zero real friends. What do I do about it?Ride it out until college then reset your image and start fresh there. Continue to lift and try to be social in the meantime. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How should I've dealt with this?I would’ve said “yes” if it seemed like the chick was into me. I also would not have a second thought about it the day after. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/18 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Shutting yourself out in crab-bucket scenarios?Your plan seems sound. You’re 16, life changes immensely out of high school. Once you’re in the real world or go to college your new persona will be the default persona. In high school I was a chunky nerd with braces. When I went to college, and subsequently life afterwards, I did a complete 180. I grew out of my prepubescent body, lifted, traveled, remained social and out-going. Looking back at middle school and high school yearbook photos make me cringe. Most of the “popular kids” who I tried … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 05:32 PM |
| 17 | Blindsided by BillyI don’t think you’re overreacting, your friend clearly spent time calculating his moves: He heard you didn’t value his oneitis and probably was jealous that you had plates/other options he likely hung around like a beta orbiter he convinced her that he’s the long-term support she needs rather than a weekly fling A similar story happened to me. I confided in a friend and that friend then used this information to harm me. I now pick my friends better. Overall, you have other options so it’s no ski… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Whats your take on mixing weed with red pill?I don’t see these two things being mutually exclusive. I personally avoid weed and other drugs due to my profession and my overall disinterest in substance abuse. With that being said, I do not judge those who partake. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 08:57 PM |
| -2 | Why are most of the muscular men right wing?There isn’t a good explanation because the correlation is in your head. And I’ve yet to see any evidence to support your question. This is equivalent to me saying, “Head and shoulders is blue. Why do libtards have more dandruff?” I’m liberal and I lift. My friends are liberal (or very apathetic to politics) and they lift. Did I survey everyone at my gym? Nope. But I also didn’t make a reddit post saying, “my gym leans left - why is that?” And leave it to the dogs. The responses in this thread ar… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Why Behavioral Addiction Will Destroy YouNo problem, it’s a solid post. I was just thinking that there had to be more examples out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/18 01:48 PM |
| 93 | Why Behavioral Addiction Will Destroy YouYou discussed porn and videos games but I think you missed an opportunity to talk about a HUGE one: social media. Everyone my age is fixated to their phones as they walk, eat, shit, drive, and sleep. The people who post and repost photos for likes and attention - getting their reward as the numbers soar. In addition to those who waste hours on reddit seeking karma or sending a nauseating stream of snapchats. Some folks earn 6+ figures from social media so there are exceptions. But most people us… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/18 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Addicted to huge tits.. (shitpost)They don’t fee great to be honest.. even the ones that are well done. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVCongrats on your weight loss! Inspiring transformation and good luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVI thought I was the only one! I’m never hungry in the morning and I’m very rarely hungry by time lunch. I could probably sustain myself off of a yogurt or a piece of fruit for most of the day. If I’m hitting the gym I’ll have a protein shake post-workout. I feel like I have to force myself to eat otherwise. Coworkers and friends will ask me constantly how I’m not hungry. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Female jail worker illegally has sex with inmate in prison. Says the inmate was a sociopath and that she lacked "training to supervise problematic inmates." She was married at the time with kids, and was sentenced to more than 4 years for over 28 counts.They probably heard that “blondes have more fun.” | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/03/18 10:42 PM |
| 33 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?Small business owner and I also work in healthcare. Still in my 20’s. I came from an upper-middle class background and own a decent amount of stocks/savings. Money definitely makes life better. I watch people struggle everyday and patients who can’t afford even sparing $3 for medications they NEED. Money can also be used as a crutch. Keep up the work in the gym. I find the hierarchy to be: poor beta guys —> rich (oftentimes beta) guys —> guys that lift —> rich guys that lift. My unsolicited advi… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Female jail worker illegally has sex with inmate in prison. Says the inmate was a sociopath and that she lacked "training to supervise problematic inmates." She was married at the time with kids, and was sentenced to more than 4 years for over 28 counts.He has a thing for blondes | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/02/18 08:09 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend admitted that she cheated on me for 1 year.Dude you are 28, she is 36. She wants to settle down and she pinned you as the chump to take care of her because she’s past her prime. Run and go date someone younger than you. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 08:44 PM |
| 5 | How to make money on the side?500€ isn’t much, but 50 years invested at 8% return is about 10,000€. Not the answer you wanna hear? My recommendation is to save more money, spend less, or get a side gig. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 12:33 AM |
| 9 | Really ? 3 times at her place still no sexEh, rubbing some girl’s pussy makes me think that she is (or was) interested in OP but she is going along the lines of “I want to make him my long-term partner and I don’t want to give off the impression that I’m a slut,” mentality. If OP reads up on how to handle last minute resistance, I think he’s golden. If not for her, for his future prospects. However, I agree that she’s likely a lost cause. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 11:40 PM |
| 79 | Nice guy over on the dating advice sub respects the shit out of his date and doesn't understand why she ends up grinding on another guy in the clubShe was going to uber directly back to Chad’s | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/18 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Theoretically, who is higher value, a wealthy guy in late 30’s, or a stunning 22 y/o girl?I would say the guy. There are lots of 18-22 yo women, but this guy’s wealth is in the top 1%. And if he has more than just his money: in-shape, charisma, fame, multiple plates/abundance mentality, then it’s game over. Obviously this is just my opinion and it’s not scientific in any sense. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Travel advice for a single man (early 30's)Barcelona or South of France | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 11:47 PM |
| – | Snapchat, insta stories, I think they're more of an hindrance than a toolYeah true... without social media you learn to not seek petty attention like “omg my Facebook photo only got 12 likes!” But it’s the only way I enjoy staying in touch with family/friends who live abroad. I could call, I could send an email or a letter.. but that requires work. I think I’m trying to say that it’s useful for more than just being an attention whore or killing an entire workday. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 06:48 PM |
| – | Snapchat, insta stories, I think they're more of an hindrance than a toolEh, Facebook is more personal so it’s not really strangers validating you but rather acquaintances and family. You could also lock down your Instagram. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Is my SMV low?It’s her loss. But you don’t have to give girls that you barely know an ultimatum... it shows that you’re too invested, too early. Which then turns them off. If you were fucking 4 other girls at the moment, would you have threatened her? No. You wouldn’t give a shit. Your looks aren’t the problem, it’s probably your text game and desire to drop your load. Try to keep encounters face-to-face. Don’t play up the med school thing too much or else girls will try to take things slowly and walk on egg … | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 12:52 PM |
| 2 | The Humiliation of Aziz AnsariRight, going back to his apartment is not consent for sex. And you know what happened? There was no sex. He called a cab for her and she left. This is a total non-story, but this chick tries to use him for her 15 minutes of fame and claim that mischievous, horrible things occurred. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/18 10:29 PM |
| 9 | The Humiliation of Aziz Ansari“He believes his fame and seduction is enough,”... “He can demand sex for taking a woman out... Did you even read the story? Nowhere does it say he “demanded sex.” This chick went back to his apartment after a date. He performed oral sex on her and she reciprocated twice. Clearly, SHE wanted to bang a known celebrity and when things didn’t go her way, she wrote a smear piece on him. If you believe he gave two shits about “Grace,” you’re wrong. Since you didn’t read the story, here’s the summary … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/18 09:35 PM |
| 2 | just hit it off really well with some girl :)Next time ask her what she’s wearing while on the support chat. Slowly stroke it until she says “uhh khakis.” Splooge your kids all over the keyboard then ask for her digits. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 05:54 PM |
| 3 | How to handle such behaviour?You are unsure how to react? Dude, you don’t react. She happened to go through the trouble of: 1. Asking this guy to pose with her for a photo 2. Taking said photo 3. Sending the photo to you 4. Waiting patiently for your response All so that you can give her attention. If you don’t give her attention you break that whole cycle and she sits there like... ummmm..... uhhhhh??? Then, you let the hamster work its wonders as you seek other options. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Resolving to prostitution onlyYes, some of those girls are very attractive. The one good thing is that this places a “price on pussy.” It’s sort of an easy, yet fake, way to create an abundance mentality. However, I don’t encourage escorts for that very reason. It’s all fake. The sex might be good and she’ll suck you dry. But once this chick is done with you for the night, she’ll waltz on over to her next client, sometimes immediately right after. You put yourself at increased risk for STDs/STIs. Escorts are considered high-… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Thanking You GuysWRONG SUB. This belongs on r/thanktrp Just kidding. Good work turning yourself around. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "You're Short."And I think you’re a dumbass for harassing a reasonable question. It’s a shit test. This isn’t the first time we’ve collectively come up with funny replies to one. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Getting numbers but they don’t reply.This works very well... actually almost all my dates are from a similar format and I’ve had quite a few. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | InfectionComing from someone in healthcare - you should see your primary care physician or a urologist. The problem could be spotted after a urinalysis or you may need more of a workup. Some need a short course antibiotics and no amount of cranberry juice will fix you. If you have a sexually transmitted infection which is causing your symptoms, your partners may also need to be treated and your state’s department of health will likely receive a report. Guys get UTIs less than women due to our anatomy. Bu… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | My LTR is "busy" + another girl invites me to the moviesThanks for the critique, you’re right about that | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 08:55 PM |
| 3 | My LTR is "busy" + another girl invites me to the moviesWell since you want moderate advice, I’d say she’s been busy but is also taking you for granted. I’m very busy right now but I still have 1-2 hours in a day where I could meet with somebody if it were important to me. You don’t actually have to go to the movies with the girl from the gym to apply dread. Merely mentioning that some girl from the gym asked you to go on a date should be enough. If you do actually go on the date, don’t feel as though you’re stringing her along - you’re merely keepin… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 06:29 PM |
| 2 | From promising to mixed signals - did I not move fast enough and is it possible to catch up?I feel like one of your problems is that all of these encounters are in a school setting over a meal.. break that cycle and actually invite her to your place or do an activity and transition to there. It’s hard to do tons of kino when she’s sitting across a table from you. Also, have you even tried to make the conversations sexual/flirty? Or do you just talk about school? At this point you have nothing to lose. Try to escalate and see if she accepts or ultimately turns down your offer. Play it o… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | "Gunna Stay mad?" shit test or comfort test ?Good, don’t respond and let it sit there. She’s trying to save face. She responded which means it bothered her enough to reply. At this point it’s whoever loses frame first and it certainly won’t be you. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Wearing elevator shoes for average height man?If it’s winter you can wear some timberlands in the club, nobody would care. They do add a small amount of height. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Found out my plate has a ton of bodiesIf the doctor called her - she was the one with the STI and then they treat the partner(s) if necessary. She probably has been with more than 21 dudes. Girls tend to decrease their number and guys tend to overinflate it when asked. And I know guys with numbers in their 40’s. If you wanna play in the hookup culture then many have higher body counts. I would recommend using protection with a plate or ONS until you know they’re clean. It’s not as fun, but you can avoid getting more infections or po… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 06:01 PM |
| 2 | My LTR is "busy" + another girl invites me to the moviesOP seems like a reasonable historian who has previously read the side bar (lifting, multiple options, understands shit tests) and thus I’m giving him the benefit of doubt on this one. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | 24. No friends currently. Never dated. Unnattractive. Boring job, etc. What can do I to change things and make things better for myself?Mental illness is real. Have you seen a mental health provider or therapist? Because we can’t help you with that. All we can help you with is the fact that you need to turn your life around. Go to the main sub and lurk, don’t post. We’ll provide the information and you just need to apply it to yourself. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 05:18 PM |
| 9 | I’m new on TRP and I have questions about casual sex/one night standsWhat’s holding you back is the fear that trying to escalate with her will risk losing her and all the progress you’ve made. In order to do this successfully you need “outcome independence.” With this girl that’s texting you about sex positions etc, I’m assuming you’ve already met her in public once. If that’s the case, text her saying you’re doing “X” on Friday and she should come over. X could be making dinner, watching a funny movie, playing guitar, or any other such activity. Believe it or no… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or nah?No, not the sushi date invitation - sushi is great! I meant when she asked you to be friends because she’s now “dating someone” bit. If you said, “yeah that’s fine!” then she relegated you to the friend zone right off the bat. And it would be an uphill battle of kino and IOIs to win her back unless she flat out lied to you (which isn’t uncommon for girls to do). Also late replies are okay. Hope you’re doing well. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Girl begs me for money to see her dying father out of state. I find a bus ticket for a fraction of the price she said she needed and this was her ironic response.I know rich people who commute into manhattan on the train or bus because that allows them to do work or have some leisure time before getting to the office. Yes, greyhound is included. Unless you have a chauffeur... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/01/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | "fudging" your ageIf someone asks you for you age, ask them, “how old do I look?” If they underestimate you by a lot, just smile and don’t confirm or deny anything. If they over estimate your age or guess you age correctly, just act insulted that they think you’re that old. Poke fun at their answer, but never confirm or deny it. Sometimes age is beneficial. Other times it might hamper you. Disclaimer: I’m in my 20’s but have been assumed to be 4-5 years younger. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 02:08 PM |
| 2 | "fudging" your ageEh, the elaboration at the end seems a bit much. then I guess you must be really old! Quick reply: not old, experienced OR Agree an amplify: “Yeah, I turn 100 on Saturday. Party at my place.” | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Cheated on LTR, she found out and ended it, getting her backRun, don’t walk, to the nearest exit. I think you both need to find different people. My advice to guys who get cheated on here is usually: “You never take back cheaters - once a cheater, always a cheater.” If you were in a committed relationship, which you enjoyed, why would you cheat? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | How to quit porn for good?I think there’s a happy middle ground here. On one end of the spectrum there are people who: spend hours a day watching porn spend days curating and collecting porn have terabytes full of porn can’t get hard without porn use porn as a crutch have unhealthy expectations due to porn This is unhealthy. The other end of the spectrum is to be “nofap” and demonize porn and masturbation. Find a healthy middle ground. Go 6 days out of 7 without watching anything. Replace your hand with a plate (or multi… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Help me not fuck this upYour initial text should be something along the lines of “Hey this is the cute guy from the bar yesterday. What’s your name?” Keep things short and try to meet her before investing too much time or thought into this. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Freshman in college, how do I climb up the social hierarchy?Cliched things, but they work because college is just an adult continuation of high school... I’m going to go down the list in order of the most difficult things to the least: Joining a collegiate sports team (hard) or club team (easier). Have your own apartment or space near campus. Throw a party. Invite people over. Join a frat or clubs to meet people. This can be time consuming but it does hold merit as long as it’s not a “nerdy” one. Many clubs I joined had monthly socials and fun events to … | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Self-Deprecating WomenI mean, you got her number go meet her in person. If her attitude is unbearable or she’s a clear catfish... end the interaction. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What are your best answers for common shit tests like “I have a boyfriend” and “ You’re like a brother to me” or her calling off a date/plans to hang out ?If she is showing signs that she does not care or is uninterested in your plans... show that you are not affected by her lack of caring. The worst thing you can do is be “butt hurt” and reveal your cards. This will show that you’re more invested in her and outcomes with her, which will then reduce your SMV in her eyes. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 06:13 PM |
| 56 | Branded as fuckboi?Crab mentality. What do you do? You continue with lifting and being social. Honestly, who cares if they call you a fuckboi? You want to fuck you identify as a male Fuckboi confirmed. I understand that the word has a negative connotation, but from the sound of your post you don’t identify yourself with it. You’re simply improving your SMV. It’s good that they’ve noticed your changes. If you show them that you don’t care about being labelled as something silly, they’ll either like the new you or i… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What is the sexual strategy for non-black minorities in the west who want to get a high notch count?Yeah he sounds like he’s doing just fine. Cities certainly do help as people tend to be more open-minded and exposed to many more types of people. As an addendum, my post wasn’t necessarily saying only go for white girls. I tend to appreciate girls from a variety of backgrounds - hot is hot. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Married RP" is not RP and the only good end game for RP men is MGTOW.You can be alpha and use red pill. But not all red pillers are “alpha.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 12:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Married RP" is not RP and the only good end game for RP men is MGTOW.Right? The spinning and harem advice is for guys who are younger or who have no intention of getting married. But there is definitely a lot of RP advice for long term relationships, including marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 12:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Married RP" is not RP and the only good end game for RP men is MGTOW.I mean lifting 500lbs with a finger nail is pretty impressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Is being short for men comparable to what is being chubby for women in regard of negative impact on one's SMV?Yeah club culture in the US is a lot different than my experiences in Europe. I prefer European clubs and tend to have more fun when I go out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Is being short for men comparable to what is being chubby for women in regard of negative impact on one's SMV?Meh, if you’re both happy that’s all that counts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 11:56 AM |
| 3 | On treating women like childrenYes, we’re all just kids deep down inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 11:46 AM |
| 1 | You've been marooned on a desert island for the rest of your life with a man and a womanThis whole scenario seems forced. It’s one thing to put them on an island, but then OP added all these unnecessary conditions and variables | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Ltr in weird situationWhat are you studying? How much longer do you have? Three options: Move out. You don’t need a $3,000, 2-bedroom apartment in the rich part of town. Find something cheap that confers your own room. Either a studio by yourself or a 2-bedroom with a roommate. Work part-time during the school year and full-time during the summer. Her parents already have a hint that their daughter is seeing you. If you want it to be a LTR kind of thing then just bite the bullet, dress nicely, and introduce yourself … | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Can't get an a hard on in a strip club, is this something I should be worried about?Nope I agree with this sentiment because: A good amount of strippers aren’t even hot. They’re caked with makeup and stay in the industry well after their prime because the money is good or they have few real-world skills. It’s hard to get a boner when you’re being coaxed to buy $20 drinks, pay for lap dances or VIP seating. Any attention you receive is so forced and ungenuine. Went to strip clubs a few times with buddies to celebrate birthdays. It was fun once or twice, but that was dependent mo… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 09:15 AM |
| 8 | What is the sexual strategy for non-black minorities in the west who want to get a high notch count?Yes the higher n-counts are possible despite not being a 6’3”, blue-eyed white boy named chad. I have a Mexican friend and a Muslim friend slaying more (white) pussy than you could imagine. Very attractive girls. But with this comes: a natural ability to pass shit tests, dread game, unrelenting persistence in social interactions, in-shape, well-traveled, multiple languages, and out-going personalities. I would be lying to say that people will not discount you for the color of your skin or your b… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 08:57 AM |
| 0 | is it possible to stop a younger sister to stop smoking weed?Might be a better sub to ask this in than asktrp. But my opinion is that I’m totally against smoking weed or using recreation drugs. My career choice doesn’t align with it It’s still illegal in my state and on a federal level Marijuana is still a drug and has negative side effects. They’re researching the long term implications of Mary-J use. I’ve seen many high school friends waste away their life smoking weed and working minimum wage jobs. They spend what little they earn to get more. They als… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP makes shit-test responses so complicated? Isnt being unaffected by it the golden zone?The problem with shit tests are they are very variable and situation dependent. But I do enjoy seeing new ways women test men in field reports/asktrp and the various responses the community comes up with. Sometimes these guys come up with downright hilarious stuff. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 08:21 AM |
| 3 | How to maintain a positive mentality when alone?Believe me, I’m a social butterfly. But sometimes after a long day, I need some time alone. Alone time is cherished. Go for a long run (some exercise should lift your spirits and it’s healthy). Or maybe a long drive. Read a book. Find pleasurable activities you can do by yourself. I’m not telling you to isolate yourself. But there should be no reason you can’t go longer than a few hours without being depressed. Unless you’re Dan Blizerian, you won’t have an entourage of women following you aroun… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 08:16 AM |
| 2 | College ChoiceThe US is a great place for business and higher education. But if you were to apply to these Ivy League schools, what sets you apart from the rest? There are smarts kids from all across the globe competing for the likes of Harvard acceptance. Ultimately what are you final goals? Did you consider the costs of studying in the US? Not just tuition (I’m assuming you’ll get a a scholarship) but also living expenses and travel expenses. Would these be a burden on you? Would and consider non-ivy league… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 08:02 AM |
| 4 | Advice on messaging these girls (w/screenshots)On a scale of 1-10, these interactions are maybe a 4. Not great. At least you’re trying to move things along. I know it’s a bit hard to reengage people after a few years, but you don’t have to spill your life story. Emphasize meeting them in person if they want the details. My one suggestion would be: instead of sending 5 messages, one after another, spend an extra 30 seconds and combine them into one or two short messages. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Anecdote that further proves how staying fit and in shape automatically gives you a confident vibeUnpopular opinion: Trump isn’t alpha. He lashes out like a 12 year old girl on Twitter, is Putin’s lil bitch, and is out of shape. Rich, yes. But not necessarily my version of a TRP role model. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Insane BitchInteresting read... but it doesn’t really belong on the main sub. Maybe asktrp - if you’re actually seeking advice? Also it sounds like you lose frame a lot and let her actions control the show. You’re right, move out ASAP. But fix yourself or else this sort of stuff will happen again. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Burlesque performers sued for using #MeTooYeah, but lest you voice your concern and be downvoted. You don’t have to support that idiot of a president to be here. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Female accreditive-exculpatory-egocentric conversational mode and the uselessness of asking for, or listening to her opinionIt seemed like you were going somewhere with this and then - woosh - no real tangible conclusion or point. Perhaps tie it in with a meaningful real world example related to the sub. Obviously if someone lies or changes their story frequently, they aren’t trustworthy. Okay, and...? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 01:35 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls to chase?Yeah, because their internal clocks are ticking louder and louder as they march towards 30-35. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Foreign girl stopped texting me, now she wants to meetThe two month hiatus means nothing. You just weren’t orbiting over her and continued on with your life. It’s a good sign that she contacted you and wants to meet. Essentially, she showed her cards and most likely wants to engage in more with you. Take her up on her offer and assume attraction. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 01:22 AM |
| 1 | What is the opinion of TRP on ssris?Get medications if you need them. Clinical depression is an imbalance in the brain. That’s why we have treatment for this. You’re not abnormal or weird. Lots of people are depressed and many more suffer from depression, however, they are unaware of it because it may present subtly. Medications can only help so much. People also need to find ways to be able to cope with their stressors and find pleasurable activities in life. Get your sleep. Keep your appetite up and eat when needed. Go out for a… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 01:17 AM |
| 2 | What is the opinion of TRP on ssris?This. I finished my rounds at a psychiatric hospital and many providers default to keeping people on medications. You really have to say “I don’t need them!” so that they can start weening you off. Otherwise, a lawsuit could be brewing. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What is the opinion of TRP on ssris?Erectile dysfunction is a leading side effect of SSRIs. There are other medications you can try to combat depression, but there is “no safe drug.” | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Instagram - Make you or break you?Make an account again and only post high quality photos, occasionally. Nobody cares about your # of followers and you don’t lose any mysterious allure unless you post 5x a day. Just make sure your photos aren’t selfies. Be in cool locations or with cool people. Your Instagram should show off who you are without being a complete facade. It should help you more than hurt you. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Instagram - Make you or break you?Even better, you can archive them so that you can hold memories (if needed) but nobody else will see them. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Shit test or nah?If you are actually interested in being more than friends, don’t set yourself up for the friend zone from the very beginning. She did you a favor - you were probably going to pay for her dinner too. Money saved. Headache saved. The search continues. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:49 AM |
| 2 | HB that is interested in me is rumored to have herpesWhat super hot girl doesn’t have herpes? If you want to bang but it’s bothering you, go get tested and ask her to do the same. Give her some spiel that you see a couple people and you don’t want to spread anything. Buzzkill I know, especially since some health centers won’t check for herpes by default unless you specify that you want it done. Otherwise, just pass. Your health matters the most. There are plenty of chicks out there. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:33 AM |
| 2 | How Do I handle ThisI upvoted this so that people can learn from your mistakes. If you tell us you’ve moved on from this girl then actually move on and stop talking to her. I don’t think you can salvage many more meaningful experiences from this particular girl. Good luck man | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Kissless virgin. I’m ugly?Take a photo outside with better lighting and clothing. Use Instagram or something to glamorize your photos because you could do better. Also keep in mind that in the grand scheme of things, getting a match on tinder doesn’t mean much. A good amount of girls use tinder for validation. If your goal is to get laid, like I said, you have more things to worry about than how you angle your photos. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:14 AM |
| 3 | What do you talk to girls about?Focus the conversation on them, let them do 80% of the talking. You just steer the ship and make it fun/enjoyable. If I’m doing the talking, I usually default to talking about my travels. When I let them do the talking, I get conversations about school, work, yoga, Netflix, upcoming parties, politics, music/concerts, interpersonal relationship crap, etc... you don’t need to be an expert at anything - just listen and have an opinion or show some interest. If a topic is boring, move the conversati… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:07 AM |
| 14 | My friend chose a stupid bitch over meAs a 3rd party observer, I can tell you’re angry about this whole situation. I find it funny that you’ll call her “a bitch” meanwhile you were dating her. Take a deep breath, the solution is easy: don’t interact with either of them. He broke your trust. She’s not forgiven either but you can’t fault a girl for swinging branches - it’s their M.O. Avoid making this a huge deal, just ghost them. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Kissless virgin. I’m ugly?I know you’re just seeking validation, but you’re not ugly. Your face is fine. You’re holding your smartphone and iPad in a weird manner. It makes me think that you have other things you need to work on, specifically: 1) trying not to come off as weird 2) lifting 3) this entire post reeks of a lack of confidence. Have confidence in yourself. Kissless virgin? It’s not the end of the world. You’ll be fine if you read the sidebar and try to improve yourself. Make it your goal for 2018 to turn yours… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Plate spinning and STDs.I agree that bacteria can develop resistance to Cipro, which is why we have Doxycycline, Cefixime, Ofloxacin, Ceftriaxone, Azithromycin... all are effective treatments to gonorrhea. I also hope that more novel antibiotics hit the market and I encourage healthcare practitioners to not overprescribe or use too broad of a spectrum when it isn't warranted! Likewise, I was encourgaing condom use and avoidance practices for HIV. Luckily, unlike in the 80's, HIV has transformed from a death sentence in… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 10:33 PM |
| 8 | Plate spinning and STDs.Yes, Epidiymitis is a complication of chlamydia which is why you need to be checked as soon as you exhibit symptoms (although many patients are asymptomatic when they have both chlamydia and gonorrhea). That's why I recommend frequent checks to the local STD/STI clinic, urgent care, or even your primary care physician. I'm sorry if it felt like I have this "pop a pill" attitude. Really I just want people to understand that they should be cautious and practice safe sex BUT if something happens - … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Plate spinning and STDs.I'm pretty sure he's joking. To obtain a prescription for antibiotics (like penicillin/azithromycin/ciprofloxacin/vanco, etc...): you need to see a licensed healthcare provider such as a Doctor / Physician Assistant / Nurse Practitioner. Although keep in mind, Penicillin will not treat all possible STDs/STIs... Your clinician will need to do a proper physical exam, take some tests, as well as ask you about your past sexual history. After that, they will gladly write you a script for something sp… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 08:48 PM |
| 47 | Plate spinning and STDs.As a future healthcare provider, I'm going to set the facts straight: Some of the most common STDs/STIs in the United States are preventable or curable: HPV - "genital warts" are the most common STD according to the CDC. There are over 170 related viruses and about 40 of which can infect your genitals. Men can get vaccinated with Gardasil to prevent the most common strains that cause warts/ cervical cancer in women Chlamydia/Gonhorrea are the most common STIs seen in 15-24 year olds (about 3-4 m… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 08:39 PM |
| 1 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."I always wear just a black tee shirt and jeans, sometimes shorts on dates. The girl puts on a dress, heels, make out lolololol My success rate is pretty high too. It depends on where you're going for the night, but at most I'll wear a polo or button down with black jeans. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 10:40 PM |
| 5 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."What about not being able to come (cum) during sex? I also feel like if we romp for 30 minutes and I still didn't blow my load she starts getting worried. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 10:33 PM |
| 12 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."I started following the red pill a year or two ago and have NEVER complimented a woman on her appearance since (during the "dating phase"). These girls dress stunning for dates too and always fish for compliments. For me, it doesn't make sense to compliment pretty girls, you just give her an idea that she's above you AND I'm 100% sure she already knows she's moderately attractive. My caveat? When she's sucking on my dick then I say something about her hair, pretty eyes, nice ass, etc... It's the… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Pretty Little Liar: #fakerape protest at Columbia gains tractionI read it sometimes in French, but it feels Russian-propaganda-y. Then I read CNN or FOX and it feels American-propaganda-y so I guess Russia just got wise and decided to play in the Anglo/Franco sphere. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 06:43 AM |
| 7 | Pretty Little Liar: #fakerape protest at Columbia gains tractionGood luck ripping down the ones all the way up by the traffic lights though muwhaha | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 06:40 AM |
| 61 | "It's not our site's goal to be a completely free-speech platform." -Ellen PaoTouch TRP or Fat People Hate and I'll go ballistic | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 05:07 PM |
| 8 | Feminists Don't Actually Give a Fuck About WomenGayLubeOil represents TRP so well, somebody buy this man a beer (or a tub of whey) | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 05:02 PM |
| 3 | "Local Sexy Single Women" Part 3Thank you for these thorough and comprehensive guides. You tok the time to provide in-text examples. Now that I look back at my previous online dating experiences, I see points where I may have stumbled in my game. Times when everything seemed right and she'd flake on the first date and I'd let that get to me. Other times when I got numbers but then things fizzled. I acknowledge that these girls are over validated and are receiving attention from betas so I tread carefully and keep my expectatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 09:23 AM |
| 2 | "Local Sexy Single Women" Part 3Not to mention, if you give out your number, you're reliant on HER to interact. If she doesn't (or forgets) then you can't really press the issue without breaking a tip (avoid double texting/seeking validation/ etc). If you get her number then you can make the moves at whatever moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 09:14 AM |
| 3 | "Local Sexy Single Women" Part 3I think he really plays into the idea that he's not a provider. Even though paying for a $3 coffee doesn't seem like a big deal to you, think guys get into this "I'll be courteous" mentality from the beginning and then never stop. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Femnazi, SJW hellhole Sweden gets ex slut party girl princess that settles for her beta bucks princeOff the top of my head: IKEA, Nikon, Volvo and dominating the Winter olympics. There's a great quality of life in Denmark / the Scandinavian countries. I'm not sure why you're angry at them. Do you expect every country to "revolutionize the world"? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Femnazi, SJW hellhole Sweden gets ex slut party girl princess that settles for her beta bucks princeYou seriously think an entire country is blonde? 100% -.- | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Femnazi, SJW hellhole Sweden gets ex slut party girl princess that settles for her beta bucks princeBecause it's Google Translate so it's not translated into sensible English. It's just good enough for us to get the context. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 02:52 AM |
| 2 | The BetaBux Mindset: DECLASSIFIED?? I'm very confused who this comment is directed to because I don't think anybody in this thread is "angry", or at least, I'm not. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 01:45 PM |
| 1 | The BetaBux Mindset: DECLASSIFIEDThe title of the original post says he's 22 | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 01:43 PM |
| 3 | The BetaBux Mindset: DECLASSIFIEDI posted this example to help guys here find that truth without wasting their time. This isn't an isolated incident - I bet hundreds of guys are getting played RIGHT NOW. The guy in the story will hopefully learn the errors of his ways. Don't laugh at the man you once were,... I don't really find his story funny, it's rather sad actually. Although, laughter is good medicine. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 01:42 PM |
| 1 | The BetaBux Mindset: DECLASSIFIEDThe bot deleted the post I'll have to resubmit it -.- (I think) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 10:00 PM |
| 37 | The 'Dad-bod' Wasn't Enough; Behold the 'Mom-bod'This topic always reminds me of this Miranda Kang Picture. She had 3 kids and isn't a fat cow. Pin this all around the house and kill any hopes your significant other has of keeping that "baby weight" | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 08:35 PM |
| 60 | The 'Dad-bod' Wasn't Enough; Behold the 'Mom-bod'AH HA. This was their plan in the beginning. Support dadbod and give all the betas that nice ego boost, then shoo this "mom-bod" shit in to catch them off guard. Yeah, no. It's good TRP and the general fitness community won't take either seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Learn how to repair/fix the stuff you own.That's all my mom would watch - A&E and shit like that.. I'm seriously wondering if she's getting ideas from the shows or not | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 08:21 PM |
| 12 | Porn and video game addiction are leading to 'masculinity crisis', says Stanford prison experiment psychologistThe guys with the real issues are the ones spending hours and hours a week grinding for some cosmetic items in a game, or completing every little quest in an RPG. I agree with you on this. In my experience the people who play video games competitively tend to be more intelligent and athletic. Yeah, silly me - these guys are SUPER ATHLETIC hurr hurr | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Porn and video game addiction are leading to 'masculinity crisis', says Stanford prison experiment psychologistYeah I could sense from your post you were bitter about video games. That's not what you said at all. You said: Sounds like you're just mad you got trolled or you aren't as good at video games as you thought. "Trolled"? "You aren't as good." Neither of those things are true. once you put them in their place and see them as a choice or as you put it "downtime" they lose their edge over you. My initial response was towards an article talking about excessive video game use and you come in with "mod… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 09:35 PM |
| -2 | Porn and video game addiction are leading to 'masculinity crisis', says Stanford prison experiment psychologistMy KDR on COD was +4.0 without dashboarding. I 10th prestiged myself in 4 or 5 of the installments. It was the only game I played.. when I was in High school I played that game like it was my job: 8 hours or more on weekends. It's not that I was bad. It was that I realized that instead of being competitive in other things I was weilding my dominance on a virtual game. I was a leader on my team and a great member in the "clan". It was fun - there's nothing wrong with some downtime. It's the exces… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 09:05 PM |
| 36 | Porn and video game addiction are leading to 'masculinity crisis', says Stanford prison experiment psychologistThis. There used to be a time when men worked outside, fought on the battlefield, and/or played sports. Those things are replaced by being hunched in front of a computer screen. Video games have replaced these weak men's capacity to be competitive in anything other than a fake virtual world. Do you know how competitive people are on video games? It's directly correlated to how meaningless their REAL life is. Edit to respond to the downvote train Why are competitive video games looked down at? - … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 08:23 PM |
| 2 | I just went out with a woman "my age", and you should too... but not for the reason you might think.You're rambling about bullshit that has nothing to do with the title of your post. And you're offering nothing relevant by commenting. You're a faggot Were you touched by your pastor as a child? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 08:58 AM |
| 3 | I just went out with a woman "my age", and you should too... but not for the reason you might think.Never saw the movie, but WTF now I want to. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 08:50 AM |
| 6 | I just went out with a woman "my age", and you should too... but not for the reason you might think.And then the club sandwich – you club the bitch then tell her to make you a sam'ich. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Accidental Red Pill on /r/AskReddit, got x4 Gold.Pretty sure I stumbled on here twice from negative publicity. The first time, it was late at night and I just said "WTF is this shit?" and closed reddit. The 2nd time I got redirected to TRP was months later. I actually sat down and red some posts. The red pill mindset stuck. I haven't left since. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | There is no better validation of SMV than from someone you alpha-widowedSend the widow a nice set of flowers and use her as dread game later down the road ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 05:16 PM |
| 15 | How BP friends can turn on you, and how easy it is for them to throw you under the bus.girls will use him for the gossip value he provides You're spot on, they text him for hours on end about their bullshit problems. He said this, she did that... He likes the attention they give him but he's not getting any closer to his end goal (to lose his virginity despite being 24). I am gradually distancing myself from him so that it's not noticable. Girls text him trying to find out what I'm doing/did for the night or who "that girls was". He then would ask me and in turn I'd say, "Why the … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 02:50 PM |
| 24 | How BP friends can turn on you, and how easy it is for them to throw you under the bus.My BP friend is okay to talk to in our related field of work, but once anything about girls, dating, or fitness comes up he becomes insupportable. I tried taking him out clubbing 2-3 times with me and show him the reins on how to seduce girls. He told me he liked to dance, etc... He had no sense of style (I had to give him some of my clothes because he had nothing remotely acceptable), would stand on the sidelines as I talked to groups of girls, refused to drink, wouldn't dance with girls, hung … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 09:25 AM |
| 6 | Captain Vs FirstmateThe captain goes down with the ship. The chief mate just branch swings to a bigger, more loaded ship when things start go awry. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Even "good" wives treat their husbands poorly: post from /r/parentingFor some reason I thought "Cliven Bundy" and was very confused... This Al Bundy guy was before my times, but he's pretty hilarious. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Even "good" wives treat their husbands poorly: post from /r/parentingI found that show funny, but you're 100% right now that I look back at it | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 08:53 AM |
| 2 | I hate to beta, but I do on average 10 favors and receive -1 reward for my efforts… The sad part is if I wasn’t being beta I would have absolutely zero female interaction in my day.I'm going to respond because I think that you need to hear this. STOP doing fucking favors for these people, especially since they are only negatively impacting your life. I would rather do zero favors and get nothing in return and no interaction than fruitlessly waste my precious time and effort. I'd rather have girls on my dick because they find me attractive, not because they "owe me" or try to get stuff from me. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 06:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with BP flashbacks from your past?Understand where your weaknesses were and be happy you are no longer like that - learn from your past mistakes. Granted the longer and more rich your beta past, the harder it may be to look ahead and improve. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a Comment Comparing Girlfriends to EscortsI think of girlfriends as "escorts" all the time, especially if you're richer. If the only think she's bringing to a relationship is sex in exchange for you buying her stuff and paying her bills then that's what it comes down to. Remember the guy who had to pay hundreds of millions of pounds to his wife after their divorce? Someone calculated that she received over 10,000£ per day simply to say "I do." He could've hired a high end escort to follow him around all day, everyday, for far less. Not … | /r/askTRP | 23/01/15 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Taking care of your faceI think I'm one of those blessed souls: I'm 20-some years old, NEVER had acne, NEVER had pimples, NEVER had any annoying black heads, bumps, or zits, NOTHING. Zilch. Likewise, I don't do ANYTHING for my face: no lotions, no soaps, no ointments and creams. I don't even wash it in the morning. Nope, I just take a shower and use AXE shampoo. Sometimes I wonder if I should take preventative actions before bad things happen, or if I should just continue with nothing because that seems to be working. … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 08:26 PM |
| -1 | A small compendium of concrete manipulation techniquesManipulation is used by the greatest of alpha males, they do it so naturally that you don't even know you're being manipulated ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 12:47 PM |
| 11 | A small compendium of concrete manipulation techniquesI'm not sure what's more impressive: the fact that this was written into the script by very skilled writers or the fact that somebody analyzed said script and characters to such detail. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 12:43 PM |
| 1 | There's an AskReddit going right now about how it feels to have "settled." A lot of AWALT going on in there.Question: do these archives last indefinitely? or should I just "save" and hope for the best. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 06:32 AM |
| 1 | In a rare moment of honesty, AskWomen admits they are disgusted/insulted by beta guys asking them out.Exactly, I imagine most guys here being 5's and 6's at best (there's nothing wrong with average), but by lifting a lot, getting a good job, and adopting TRP principles you may very well turn yourself into an 8 and hence being able to attract more attractive women. Your math is a bit off though, it's a scale of 1-10, so 95% fall between 3-8, 68% from 5-6. The most elite 9's and 10's are only ~2% of the population. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 12:07 PM |
| 4 | In a rare moment of honesty, AskWomen admits they are disgusted/insulted by beta guys asking them out.She may marry you, but that don't mean she likes you. Nope, she just likes your money :) | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 11:58 AM |
| 2 | The Sun (UK) bows to pier pressure from feminists to drop topless modelsI'm mocking the overt mission that feminists support, this is straight from Wikipedia: The concept of sexual objectification and, in particular, the objectification of women, is an important idea in feminist theory and psychological theories derived from feminism.[1][2] Many feminists regard sexual objectification as deplorable and as playing an important role in gender inequality.[3] Now I agree with you that this is an assault on men's ability for cheap sexual pleasure. It's the underlying cau… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 12:59 AM |
| 21 | Reversing feminismThat's fine, it still disproves the original quote. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 09:13 PM |
| 8 | What's the deal with sluts? A field reportI think if I said "casual dating" to any of my non-RP friends they would imply that there's some sort of exclusivity to that. Hooking up, "seeing each other", spinning plates, friends with benefits or one night stands all seem to get the point across better. In the end of the day, it's all just semantics. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 09:05 PM |
| 38 | The Sun (UK) bows to pier pressure from feminists to drop topless modelsFeminists are just jealous their tits aren't as nice. Feminists don't want men looking at women like sexual objects yet by removing bare breasts from public view we will only over-sexualize women even more! Seeing bare breasts in movies, television, on the beach or in "the Sun" help desensitize men and women because fat being stored under breasts (boobs) isn't anything special. Really. It's a secondary sex characteristic. FYI: There's a typo in your title, it's "peer" pressure mate. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 07:38 PM |
| 7 | Society despises low-value men.While I don't agree with the double standard, this is a part of the whole slut vs stud debate. A high value man who can get a lot of sex is a stud = good. A woman who has a lot of sexual partners devalues herself. This is why nobody cares that she has a dildo. In fact, some guys will watch porn of solo girls pleasuring themselves with dildos. I'm publishing an article about this in the near future. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 03:38 PM |
| 1 | The importance of having a mission . . . truth or BS?Well, are you trying to plate women or find a long term prospect that you can spend your life with? You don't need to try and impress girls with in-depth explanations about what you do. I find that guys who truly master something try to explain intricate details about what they do early on in the courting process. Unless she's a science chick she'll find that booooring after a while. Just tell women you're a "world-renowned scientist/researcher" and leave it at that – exhibit other life experien… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/15 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Replies to "I miss you" text?I know. When she says "I can't..." and you respond "you know where I am.." Her texting, "I miss you," what do she want from you bro? Use your head, she wants you to say "I LOVE YOUUU, I MISS YOUUU TOOOOO." I understand the situation, believe me, I've been there. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/15 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Where a woman is slut shaming...herselfThis is when she goes off on me saying she [k]new her past was going to be used against her. No SHIT, fucking whores don't know better. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | High school first date ideasBanging in the car is a must, but don't drink & drive. Or just invite her over for a movie at one of your places (hopefully no parents) - drinking is optional, I'm not condoning any illegal activity -.- | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Fucked?Maybe you caught her off guard because she pegged you as BB. She probably got home and texted all her friends "OMG /u/BrotherBloodAngel just kissed me!!" Like I said, give her one more chance. You already laid the kisses and made it known that you want to be sexual with her. You polarized this girl by doing something that a regular "friend" wouldn't do. It's a blessing in disguise. You see, if I make out with a girl and the next day she says "we need to talk, LJBF." then I know I don't need to w… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 09:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Reviewing "game" from the weekend, need insightFrom your story it seems like you spent all night gaming/being around this girl. I would've branched out and talked to other people. I think you started from behind the 8-ball on this one (pun intended). She had a boyfriend and she was being watched by her friends for any sort of deviant behavior. The first time she/they denied the #-close, I wouldn't have asked for it again. It's good you acknowledged that you'll probably never see her again, but if you do, maybe you'll be in a better position.… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Are western caucasian women hypergamous and slutty because they are beautiful?I personally do believe that Caucasian people are aesthetically more pleasing to look at on average than other races. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but mass media only promotes this "white women = super hot" idea in the Western World. If you go to parts of Africa, Rural China, or even the Middle East – you have local women presented as the sexy billboard girls. I know, I've traveled to these parts of the world. The only influence the U.S has on these parts is the movie/entertainment busi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/15 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Round the world Canadian girl (with a boyfriend) didn't have sex or romance with guy who gave her free ticket (contrary to 300 comment TRP thread saying she will - links inside). Thoughts?Well I imagine she was they were on her best behavior considering the (inter)national media attention. Me personally, if I were her boyfriend, I would let her go on the trip but just have her know that I might not be waiting for her when she got back. Why? Too much worrying about what's going on for no reason. Although, maybe since the BF has seen how faithful she's been, he might feel better tying the knot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Women are always on my mindYou need to find activities to keep you busy throughout the day. After work, I go for a run, go lift, go grocery shopping, make dinner, write my books, watch/read the news, browse Reddit and then hit the sack. There's literally little to no time to give any fucks about girls. Sure, I'll text them to hang out with me at later dates but they are far from "always on my mind." | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 05:22 PM |
| 8 | Is it me or is January plate spinning month?Every month is plate spinning month; it's the gift that keeps on giving. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Do you think conservative and "old-fashioned" cultures got it right? If so, what changed?Can't say I am or ever was a "classic" liberal, but I guess that's why you used the word "many" and not "all". | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Experiencing this instant SMV increaser. Any other ones out there?The silver one looks nice, but damn I want that black one. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/15 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Listen to women more, don't be macho, Pope tells men.Ever since I saw this picture I can't listen to any pope. WWYD (what would Yoda do?). | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 04:58 AM |
| 29 | My recent AWALT experience. (attempted branch swing)OP your friend is awesome, buy him a beer you guys tag team the shit out of her | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 06:58 PM |
| -1 | ex contacting me, playing it rightDude, you've got her. She's throwing all her cards on the table not to lose you, this bitch is OBSESSED with you. You know how you "win" this? 1) Don't talk to her for a week or two. If you must tell her some BS then say, "I need time to myself/gimme some space". When she comes to your place tomorrow don't let her in. 2) during the no contact phase keep hitting the gym and meeting other girls. 3) break the no contact, tell her to come over and then turn her into your fuck buddy if the sex is all… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 03:34 PM |
| 7 | A Picture is Worth a Thousand WordsI'm going to look at this before a "cheat meal" | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 12:39 PM |
| 11 | How to tell her you have a girlfriend and still get her to stick around/sleep with youI see three possible moves: Denote your GF to plate status and bang these other girls without dinging your consciousness. tell your plate you're seeing other women/there are other girls in the equation but don't refer to them as your girlfriend. Say "it's complicated." don't bring up having a girlfriend at all, be a cheater. If you can handle this then more power to you but I'd rather break up with my girl and chase other prospects than cheat behind the scenes. I think option 3 is viable if this… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 11:00 AM |
| 2 | This year, my goal is to learn a skill that will allow me to make spare money on the side. What ideas do you have?Good questions, I won't tell you exactly what I write about for fear of getting doxed BUT I want to mention 4 things: 1) FIND A NICHE. Make it part of your website name too. If people know they're going to your site to read about X then whenever they want to know more about it they'll head back to your site. 2) GOOD CONTENT. No 80-word click bait articles, your posts should be 400-1000 words of solid content at minimum. Lists or how-to articles are popular. If your articles suck then nobody is g… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/15 10:46 AM |
| 3 | This year, my goal is to learn a skill that will allow me to make spare money on the side. What ideas do you have?Writing: blogs, eBooks, etc. Tutoring or private lessons for something I run a popular site and get several hundred dollars a month from advertising. I also released a nonfiction ebook which earns $$$ too. I do these under various pen names though. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/15 10:57 PM |
| 12 | "I bet you say that to all the ladies""Which one told you? Michelle?... Sarah?" "Yup." | /r/askTRP | 16/01/15 10:48 PM |
| 47 | Short and Sweet Proof of TRP at WorkI would call this one instance "evidence" as opposed to proof. Otherwise we'd be over-extrapolating your case study and diluting a good message's meaning because of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 03:15 PM |
| 6 | Opening a restaurant specifically for menThe thing is that women don't go to barbershops to get their hair done so the "men-only" concept is a great one, you won't lose much business. A man-only restaurant will remove part of the market. Everybody loves food, so you can profit off of women just as equally as men. If you're hellbent on the concept then keep a simple menu with classic dishes and have beer - LOTS OF BEER. Like I mean, crazy deals where buying a beer with your meal is a steal. That'll bring the guys in. Also consider happy… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 03:03 PM |
| 26 | Brisbane, Australia: A woman has started a social club for "Well endowed men" and "Women who respect them". Membership is signified with a particular silver ring linked to a mobile app, and requires men to be over 7 inches to join.People who aren't 7 inches (women & men) can get in simply by referring 3 qualifying men. This club is a lie. At least kick the fucking women out, they don't even have penises to measure. I'm 7 inches as well, and apparently this chart using 3 scientific studies estimates that 17.5 cm (6.88 inches) or above is within the top 9.5% of men when averaged between the 3 studies. This "club" is simply women trying to empirically sift through the bottom 80% of men that they try to make invisible on a da… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 07:13 AM |
| 39 | Brisbane, Australia: A woman has started a social club for "Well endowed men" and "Women who respect them". Membership is signified with a particular silver ring linked to a mobile app, and requires men to be over 7 inches to join.One of the comments: "Is there a "10 Club" for people like me who don't want to hang around the 7 plebs?" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 07:06 AM |
| 74 | Brisbane, Australia: A woman has started a social club for "Well endowed men" and "Women who respect them". Membership is signified with a particular silver ring linked to a mobile app, and requires men to be over 7 inches to join.Or the "Double D club – but no fatties!" | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend broke up with me need trp helpThat hurt to read... So you dating a 20 year old chick and you'll be at a club where your 17 year old ex may be? Dude, that's perfect. Get them both riled up and go home fucking one of them. You need to move on though, emotionally I mean. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Plate, meet my other plate.You can't take things too seriously. Although I'm not sure why they always have to be "shit eating" grins and not just normal grins or "pussy eating" grins :D | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/15 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Bruh, Popular YouTuber's Wife Took Shit Testing to The Next Level by Deleting His Work and Potential RevenueExactly! Many years ago the first girlfriend I ever had was breaking up with me, and I had teary eyes in front of her for a solid 10 minutes. "But... but.. but WHYYYY." SO PATHETIC. Any tingles a girl would've had for you suddenly vanishes when she realizes she was worth so much more to you than you to her. It doesn't matter how amazing your relationship was, there's no recovering from that to her – you're her bitch. You've only solidified this. I learned from that experience because a day or tw… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/15 10:39 AM |
| 7 | Avoid women with debtMy friend flat out told me "I'm going to be a trophy wife" when she was 20. She's 22, majoring in journalism, so I guess she's still sticking with the original game plan. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Tom Leykis Auctions 3 Hours of His ShowLeftist? Tom Leykis said it himself that he prescribes to neither the left nor the right and sees himself as a libertarian. He likewise helps his listeners "get laid more", helps women understand male thought, and lines his wallet with green. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 09:58 AM |
| 4 | Tom Leykis Auctions 3 Hours of His ShowIf you can get your ass to Burbank, California then start a crowd funding link immediately because we need to raise the cash before January 16th. Competition may be fierce, the bidding is already at $2.4k. Funny, I was just listening to the Leykis today. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Why did she ignore me in person?Sounds like she's playing games if you're certain she saw you. I'd next this one bud. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/15 01:14 AM |
| 2 | The girl from the storeChalk it up to experience I guess, there's plenty fish out there. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/15 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Manscaping?I have had first time sexual encounters with a new girl at every one of 3 stages (untouched, trimmed, full bush) and guess what.. none of them gave a fuck. Awesome sex mind you. I go untouched 80% of the time now. I shaved it all off twice in my life and didn't enjoy it both during the shave and afterwards (you're navigating around a sensitive area). The first time I shaved it all off I not only felt stupid but I looked it too. I tried one more time thinking I'd feel differently about it, but no… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 09:35 PM |
| 3 | The girl from the storeBro, you asked for advice and we give you solid advice. Then you go out and do the literal opposite of said advice? Despite everyone saying a Facebook message would be weirder -.- Don't change your life for this broad, keep going to that pharmacy. You're making this whole situation more awkward than you need to be. That's why you asked this question in the first place, to reduce how awkward you'll feel, AND NOW you're feeling awkward anyways. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 09:28 PM |
| 1 | The girl from the storethe whole problem is.. we're swiss, it's awkward to approach a woman anywhere but social activities or through friends. I'm an American in France and it's the same situation here as it is in Swizerland and you know what? I'm thriving here because of people like you. You're interacting with her at her job, do you know how EASY it is to utter: "let's go get a drink after you're done working [I'd like to get to know you more/outside of work]" ? Either she: Accepts. Great. Not only that, you had the… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "actor/sportsperson is soo hot"Agreed, I was a bit disappointed. Oh well. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 04:29 PM |
| 54 | A 24 year old woman asks a sex column about her problem. AF/BBNo brakes! The cock carrousel has no brakes!! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 05:42 PM |
| 41 | Bruh, Popular YouTuber's Wife Took Shit Testing to The Next Level by Deleting His Work and Potential RevenueShe then went on and on about how she has never seen me cry. Not when we had broken up 1 and a half years into our relationship One read flag in this guy's story is that they broke up before and then they mutually decided it was a good idea to get married? The fuck. To add to my comment, this is why I tell boys not to cry if their girlfriend breaks up with them. IF he really has to cry then at least avoid doing it in front of her at all costs. Crying in this case shows weakness in a time when yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do most women find men that watch or masturbate to porn less attractive and less appealing?I have 2 ideas: Competition: the girls in porn are usually very attractive and then your S.O has to up her game to compete or realize her pussy pass is broken. She may feel less attractive because she cannot be like the girls in whatever you're watching. Perceived Status: The stereotypical neckbeard incel can spend hours masturbating to porn in one sitting because he can't game/attain women in the real world. They can't sex girls so these guys just hit up the next best thing, porn. It's accessib… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | FR and illustration of exactly why to keep red wine in the houseWine isn't as impressive here in France because it's so common place... good, detailed field report nonetheless | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Girldriend gained significant weight since start of relationship. How do I get her to lose it?I'm assuming you asked this question because you're losing attraction to her. If this was a short term girlfriend/plate (less than 6 months) then I'd just dump her. If she's been around for a while then I'd mention something along the lines of "you're getting bigger and it bothers me." Encourage her to work out with you and eat better. Depending on how big she got, her losing weight will probably take a while (which is why tend not to stick around). Another way you can is by using dread game. Yo… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Atheists of TRP, how do you cope with the knowledge of your impending doom?This isn't doom but rather freedom; if one day your very existence is wiped from this earth then you can live to make mistakes and enjoy the world carefree from judgement. You know what life was like before you were born? Infinite darkness... you weren't even conscious. That's what I feel like we'll return to upon our death. Sure it's a grim outlook but it only helps me get out there and live life to the fullest rather than expect a second chance at happiness in some "afterlife" Tom Lyekis is ve… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 02:23 PM |
| 2 | My[19M] acquaintance [29?]just got dumped and came talking to meI feel I may have already fucked it up... Maybe, but you won't know for sure until you try to bed her once. This seems salvageable. BTW I'm into cougars Then your username should be cougarlover not guitarlover ! | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 12:29 PM |
| 10 | If you had to...?Act like nothing happened and it didn't phase you. OR Do not go to anything where she is. If this is unavoidable then see above. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 11:57 AM |
| 3 | My[19M] acquaintance [29?]just got dumped and came talking to meShe's got a decade on you but if you still want to bang then tell her to come to your place, literally just text her "come over" or "drinks at my place"... I don't really see how you can fuck this up, she said she's looking for a fwb Also stop talking to her about her ex unless you want to be her emotional tampon. The more she mentions him to you the less tingles she feels around you, just stop it. You're making this harder than it needs to be. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 11:54 AM |
| 48 | TIL that Barack Obama's wife once threatened to divorce him after he lost an electiona single mother Yeah she totally drives her kids to school, cooks for them, and helps them get dressed in the morning like normal moms do /s/. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Cutting off a Plate and Handling Red FlagsI read your story and I noticed you messed up in some places: 1) she asked me how many girls I was dating, as in dating at one time... You should always be "dating" and feeling the water for other women (see plate spinning). Why does she get to not be exclusive while you're already treating her like a long-term relationship? Cut out the commitment – go radio silent. 2) Asking your S.O for STD testing isn't out of the ordinary, however the frequency which you describe seems weird as well as the c… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/14 03:35 PM |
| 148 | [FR] She doubled down on polyamory and has been summarily nexted.She tries once again to make you jealous and then the crying ensues because she realized you called her bluff. Stay strong. Avoid the floods of "I'm sorry"/"I love you texts" and let all those calls hit voicemail... in fact, block her number. Ride out the storm by doing so in between another girl's legs. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 03:18 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Unplanned meeting of two platesIndeed this is a scenario you don't come across often on TRP. The fucking is always great if you're in high (female) demand but you're also in low supply (attention, commitment, vetted/mature, High SMV). Or even, if you have the illusion of these aspects. Now you just have to sit back and continue to reap the benefits, congrats. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Would the "Brad Pitt Rule" even apply to rape?I think OP meant "someone as good looking as Brad Pitt." OP explicitly states or some other equally high SMV man) I've never heard of Anita Hill, but Chris Rock would be in the category of Brad Pitt's SMV. Regardless I think it's a dumb question because someone of Pitt's status has no need to rape anybody; he can effortlessly get a slew of hot girls to suck his penis on the daily. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Would the "Brad Pitt Rule" even apply to rape?do you think they'd be fine with it? Yes, because the criminal case would gain national media attention and she'd be cashing in on that multi-million dollar settlement. Worst case scenario, she had a chance with Brad Pitt. Let's be honest, they'd hamster "rape" with Brad Pitt as "surprise sex". | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 11:12 PM |
| 1 | My fiancé wants to know why TRP and Feminism don't go togetherPlot twist, OP is the fiancé | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 01:21 AM |
| 16 | FR: Mate's girlfriend tries to shame me, I expose her. AKA be the best wingman you can!I heard this is how the relationship ends. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 12:22 AM |
| 23 | The Double Income No Kids TrapMy dad earns well over 100k and has been for over adecade... He doesn't have money saved for retirement... He's 50-something years old... *Facepalm | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The TRIFECTA: Cheating, Hamstering & Wall-hitting - [Real World Example, Video]That's the irony of it all! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How would your game be different if you were worth $100 million?But I already travel not as a tourist.. you just need to make friends whenever you can. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/14 03:43 AM |
| 7 | moving to USA from EE country?I'd disagree. As an American living in France (Europe), you should try to go to the US if you can because it's way easier to make a large salary. the immigration laws paranoia The US attracts the most immigrants of any country in the world; without immigration laws it would be madness. Europe is just as hard to get into depending on where you come from. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 10:18 PM |
| 3 | moving to USA from EE country?This might surprise you but I'm American and I know a decent amount about Georgia (the country); it might not be as unknown as you try to make it seem. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 10:17 PM |
| 24 | The TRIFECTA: Cheating, Hamstering & Wall-hitting - [Real World Example, Video]All of his videos are based off of Red Pill ideologies and you're in luck because YouTube is filled with his content. I listen to his stuff when doing the dishes, riding the bus, or even walking to work. Patrice O'Neal and Tom Leykis are the warriors we need in this world. While Patrice uses comedy to get his point across, Leykis uses raw logic. Leykis manages to expose women for their tactics and help guys get ahead (get laid, prenups, avoid wackos, etc...). He also has a segment called Leykis … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Jk Rowling is mad that her female readers are tingly for Draco Malfoy.In addition you have to think how many lives were saved by modern technology versus the primitive healthcare Yeah, I actually went to Africa on a Medical trip and aided some the communities by providing healthcare. Things are getting better, but there's still a ways to go. conquering of land is not a white only thing. True, you're right. My problem isn't the idea that European or whites are evil, they aren't. It's that they overplay how their aid and humanitarian efforts help meanwhile they negl… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Jk Rowling is mad that her female readers are tingly for Draco Malfoy.The Nazis also rightfully believed they were doing good to the malnourished lands they conquered. They were only expanding their living space for the Arian race, the superior beings, of course. If the Nazis were successful they would justify their conquest in exactly the same manner, "We only improved the Balkans, before us they were technologically, politically and socially inferior. Look at them now!" Likewise, you're asserting that "modern technology" is inherently better than human lives. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Met a girl at the beginning of the year who had a lot of potential, her attraction to me seems to be dying out.My advice, cut contact with her and start looking for other women. Here's the thing, if she wants to continue enjoying your validation/attention and if she REALLY wants to be with you in the long term then she'll come around and cut the crap. For the time being, she's fucking with you (and not in the good way). It seems like you played poker with this girl and showed your hand too soon. Go out and improve yourself, go out and game women who live closer to you than 8 hours away. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl at the beginning of the year who had a lot of potential, her attraction to me seems to be dying out.CHOOoOoo choooo, the oneitis train has just left the station!! This girl is toying with him, hard. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Going to a small holiday party, and ex best friend will be there and it will be impossible for me NOT to interact with him. How should I think about this?Do you have feelings for this guy because this sounds like one intense bromance... I could handle going to a small party and minimally interacting with the dude, I see no harm. But if it gives you THAT much anxiety then respectfully cancel. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/14 06:34 PM |
| 14 | Jk Rowling is mad that her female readers are tingly for Draco Malfoy.A word about racism since you mentioned it. Holy shit that long ass post seemed to come out of nowhere; I didn't expect to read that when clicking a link about Malfoy. It is white European gentile men that created... Spaniards are European yet some of them wouldn't be classified as white. Likewise, you list a good slew of things produced by Europe however you exclude the myriad of inventions, technologies and ideologies created by others which aid the world in general. This isn't an us versus th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 01:46 PM |
| -4 | Jk Rowling is mad that her female readers are tingly for Draco Malfoy.No need to apologize. You just should acknowledge that Europeans killed their people, oppressed them and most importantly stole natural resources which could've maybe bettered Africa instead of the colonizers. Edit: the down voters are just delusional and they're thinking with their emotions instead of their logical brains. For instance, the Belgians went to the Congo and committed genocide to the tune of 10 million people [NSFW]. This is honestly Hitler-status; do you honestly believe the Afric… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Some tips on "faking" like you're rich to get laid. (Without having to actually lie)Here's a generic script in French I came up with quickly: Allô ? Ah salut Jérémy, Euhh, je suis un peu pressé en fait.. Hein ? [tone shift] Non, mais je t'ai déjà expliqué ça, il faut vendre la moitié.. Bah si ! On a jusqu'au vendredi prochain... Hé, je t'appellerai demain, okay ? Ouais, bon, à plus. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Some tips on "faking" like you're rich to get laid. (Without having to actually lie)Hire a VIP escort dressed to the nines to approach you and say "Who is this girl? You haven't replaced me have you?" You might as well save the $500/trouble from doing all the other bullshit and just bang the VIP escort LOL | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Some tips on "faking" like you're rich to get laid. (Without having to actually lie)Well the image is that he has 40k in his checking account and the girl is sitting there in his car like "wow, I only have $1,000 or so there..." | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Some tips on "faking" like you're rich to get laid. (Without having to actually lie)and still pull stuff out of the garbage. I thought they only pulled shit out of their asses, silly me | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 12:35 AM |
| 22 | Some tips on "faking" like you're rich to get laid. (Without having to actually lie)I am equal parts amazed and disgusted morbidly fascinated. I don't support his tactics but I'm slightly enjoying the fact that these girls try to use him for money and in the end they're the ones being played. In fact, they never have to figure out he's not rich; he can simply break it off after a few bangs for whatever reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Drunk girl jumps out of car to blame boyfriend. Thankfully, he was recording their argument.He was thirsty... the thirsty ones never make it out alive | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Move to that big city you've dreamed of. It will CHANGE your life. Part 1/5Very inspirational post, I recently moved and I'm loving it in my new city. I agree whole heartedly that you need to go out there on the daily and make an effort to befriend people. Let me know if I can mention portions of your post on my site that I just started. Your French seems off, shouldn't "part one" be: (1) la première partie... (2) la deuxième partie... (3) la troisième partie... etc, | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 09:32 PM |
| 8 | Move to that big city you've dreamed of. It will CHANGE your life. Part 1/5In Montreal you'll get by rather easily not speaking a word of French, but French is omnipresent. I'm in France now and I speak fluent French. I was surprised when a waitress in Montreal began speaking it; it made me smile and was rather sexy. I wish more Americans took the time to learn another language, this is why I think Canada is a bit cooler than us. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Move to that big city you've dreamed of. It will CHANGE your life. Part 1/5I lived in NYC for several years Tom and it's great. You can meet a lot of cool people/foreigners and the city is very vibrant. When you come, send me a PM and we'll shred Gotham together (barring that I'm not still in France). My folks got a place in Midtown Manhattan but I want to get my apartment when I return to the U.S. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 09:22 PM |
| 2 | What is the symbolism of women drinking wine alone? I see this in a lot of TV shows and now a lot of reddit single-women Christmas cards.They think it's fancy or they may enjoy the taste. Since living in France I've been drinking a shit ton of it too, it flows like water. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/14 02:00 AM |
| 1 | How would you summarize the red pill in one or two sentences?TheRedPill is kind of like a "fuck women" circlejerk. Fucking a lot of women is what we do (pun intended) Here's a decent definition from this post. TRP is a community that seeks to understand how men and women interact with each other -- knowingly or otherwise - and, based on that understanding, formulate ways in which men can improve themselves in this arena. Sometimes it's quite concrete, e.g., hit the gym, looks matter. Other times it's more abstract, e.g., maintain frame, a woman will lose … | /r/askTRP | 23/12/14 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Leveraging Money into SMVWhen they know you have $$$ you attract the wrong type of girls, well, wrong in the sense of LTR's – right in the sense of quick poon. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/14 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Leveraging Money into SMVI wouldn't see anything special with an adult male in a Beamer or Mustang. It depends on OP's age. If he's in his early 20's with a beamer than that's not bad - most guys drive beat up pre-used cars. If he's 50-something then meh. Cars depreciate in value plus there's no point in driving around in a lambo on a daily basis. I personally never owned a lamborghini, yet I've heard them referred to as garage fairies because nobody wants to put milage on it or risk it getting scratched/damaged. Repair… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/14 01:40 AM |
| 1 | As someone who has never really been into fitness and lifting...I do both in one day, 5-6 times a week. The cardio keeps me slim, the muscle building makes me buff. Start out working out 3-4 times a week, aim for an hour a day. Also, DIET is more important than exercise so significantly reduce the beer guzzling and pizza shoveling. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/14 01:37 AM |
| 4 | How do you talk to the police?The worst thing you can do is be an asshole about it. Not sure if this is a general statement or one directed to OP. However OP states he was only asked questions pertaining to his detainment and they didn't like that. I find that contempt of cop truly does exist. If you piss the cops off, they will try their hardest to make your life miserable EVEN if it means arresting you on bullshit charges (one that gets thrown around a lot is "resisting arrest"). While I believe cops are human beings and t… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 12:21 AM |
| 6 | How do you talk to the police?I watched this video several months ago and it's been my mantra since. Granted, I don't get in trouble with the law on any basis, but there's no reason to self incriminate and bring evidence against yourself. So to answer your question, how do I talk to the police? I don't and I won't. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Whats the fucking holdup with male birth control?Interesting thanks, I'll look it up, I wasn't familiar with this | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Whats the fucking holdup with male birth control?There are a bunch of female contraceptives out there but the pill uses estrogen/progesterone to inhibit the body's natural cyclical hormones. It also makes the cells lining the uterus less capable of allowing the fertilized egg to attach. We men produce sperm on the daily, here's an explanation because it's a bit harder to simplify. My take is that it's easier to halt making a baby through a hostile environment than it is to f with our sperm production. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 03:57 PM |
| 20 | RP response to girl splashing you with her drink?Considering the bouncers don't get to you first because, well, white knights | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 12:02 PM |
| 4 | Intimacy and sex: Red pill's advice for guys that missed out on their adolescence and college years.you will have to live with the fact that in a competitive country such as the USA The girls in the US aren't the best and certainly aren't the hottest, but you do what you need to do bro | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 11:52 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Handbook - an free e-book of TRP postsso I can make it into this book. I know right; there's no Partendale excerpts in this book. It's inspiration now, I'll think of some good shit during my distance run | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 04:20 AM |
| 1 | How should i go about this date tomorrow?I want the date to end spectacularly. Great, well do you have a plan for this date? What are you planning on doing together? she was in a complicated relationship with some dude, What made it complicated? Was he a muscular bad boy who she couldn't tame? My advice, she's coming back to you so you should "assume attraction". Don't be super interested in this girl, and try to initiate kino early on. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 03:48 AM |
| 4 | I suspect my mom is cheating on my dadExactly, he needs evidence before telling his dad otherwise he's only going stir up trouble. Also, if she's actually cheating then bringing it up will only put her on high alert and less prone to making a mistake. Some important questions: How old is your mom? What does your mom do during the day? Is she off working or staying at home.. Does she us email or any other form of communication? Does she have any "close" guy friends? Is she hot? If so, she should hit me up (just kidding) | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 03:39 AM |
| 3 | A thanks to the users or people that exposed you to TRP.Same story, I used to be on /r/seduction all the time and somebody mentioned TRP in a bad light. I checked it out, but I guess the front page was trash that day because I never went back until a few months down the line (when it was once again mentioned in a bad light). Now it's the only sub I bother reading (on this account).. I only have about 30 minutes a day to browse it so it's always time well spent. Thanks to all the haters out there for giving it attention. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/14 03:28 AM |
| 10 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?A lot of betas are diluted into thinking they are alpha I agree with you. Although I think the dudes who hit the gym to get toned and have some knowledge about social dynamics fair a bit better than the neckbeard virgins who play video games 24/7 or the hopeless fat "nice guys" of the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 03:23 AM |
| 17 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?I know plenty of "average" guys who don't hit the gym (but are thin), have plenty of friends, yet few lovers. They aren't "social rejects" in any sense, that's an extreme term. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?Why I don't date fatties | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 02:21 AM |
| 23 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?The only losers are the social or physical rejects. Or the average looking guys/beta male chumps, and let's be honest we know they're a large majority of dudes. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 01:45 AM |
| 20 | Need some convincing of Red Pill Truths? AskReddit- Girls of Reddit, did you ever have a guy that you wished you said yes to when he asked you out? What is the story?Surprised at the girls who said "no" despite liking the guy due to "shyness" or disbelief that he liked her. Luckily most of those guys moved on, you see that's what caused the regret. I love living my life knowing I'll continue to be successful, rich, and toned even 10 years from now. The girls that rejected me back then aren't even worth my time now and their feeble attempts to get back in contact with me only stroke my ego. Oh hypergamy | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 08:32 PM |
| 2 | If you're muscular and average height/slightly short, how do you wear dress shirts while still trying to look tall?It depends on the social context. With friends at a bar or if I'm dressing casually for work then I don't tuck in my button down. The only time I really tuck it in is for more formal events. I'm not short, that's just my view on the matter. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Red piller since yesterday, in a situation and need a primer ASAP2 hours? Honestly I've texted girls after a whole day just because I was busy and forgot about it.. That's the great thing about texting, use your unlimited response time as your advantage. If you want to respond, go for it. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Broke up with girlfriend of five months. Was brutally tough to do, but I believe it was the right decision.This isn't much of a question but still a good read. I always support men who take no bullshit from women, good job overall. You already know which areas you need to improve. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 04:23 PM |
| 8 | Enough's Enough "Asian Men Have it Hardest/Race Traitors threads" = Instaban. Man the fuck up pussy.Exactly, it's always foolish to expect everybody to like you. I'm biracial, no skin off my back. In the dating world, I am a horror film. So dating you is a nightmare? (I saw the pun and just had to) | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 04:05 PM |
| -1 | Enough's Enough "Asian Men Have it Hardest/Race Traitors threads" = Instaban. Man the fuck up pussy.I moved to France just to slay French girls on the daily, good move brother | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Daily reminder that AWALTLuckily science harps upon replicability, which eventually forces the fakers out into the cold. Studies and data need to be repeated, observable and empirically tested. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Did i handle this shit test alright?Normal humans have friends | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 02:19 PM |
| 1 | What are some good films, TV series, and books with good male role models?Rick is great but he was on a crazy/depressed spree for a long time. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 12:38 PM |
| 9 | A Message to our Asian Friendswhite carousel and suddenly retreats back to asian men when she hits the wall. She's been riding the CC in general and she's hitting the wall - she's look for a beta provider. This is where Asian men should band together (with their 6-figure salaries and toned gym bodies) and fuck girls of other races or get Asian girls who are young and CC free. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 12:33 PM |
| 2 | I know this question is beta but...Anything that has to do with Michael Jackson works for me, I moonwalk up into the scene then perform "Thriller" for her number. When I do the crotch pull and high pitch scream, well, then she knows I'm down to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Prostitute GameLol it's 5:30 in France and I'm on Reddit tipsy, this is actually a good list: Better food quality Yes and no, you can eat really well in the U.S but foreigners only seem to know us for McDonalds... Then again, kebabs and Mcdo exists here in France and it's very profitable here. I've eaten well in both countries, honestly. Better prostitution laws Oh hell yeah Drug laws Marijuana is now being legalized in the US ;) But Europe gets the pass because of the lower drinking age. Cleaner streets I cal… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 04:34 AM |
| 16 | Don't fall into her frame. Don't supplicate. A RP example.Op says she would've waited 4 weeks to bang this guy. Ain't nobody got time for that. She's just pissed because she actually would've fucked him, later, (in fact she said MAYBE in the morning) and he bailed. So she hamsters that it's because he's a needy desperate prick but in reality it's the complete opposite scenario. She wanted da cock, she missed da cock. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Prostitute GameI've lived and worked in Europe for a while and I'd disagree; could you point out the "lot of areas" for the ignorant ones like myself? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 12:10 AM |
| 1 | 19 y/o needs some career advice.I'm studying medicine, but it's probably not the best bang for your buck. My buddy got his B.S. in engineering, graduated, and makes big bucks surfing Facebook in his new office. Overall, brave through the coursework and you'll be rewarded in the end. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 12:01 AM |
| 7 | Is it RP to cheat in a LTRWomen cheat, let them be the dirty scoundrels. If you don't want commitment then end the relationship or go masturbate. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/14 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Girls who vent over social media?Are girls who vent about relationship problems over social media(twitter/facebook) trouble? I want to say yes, but the truth is girls vent to their close friends and beta orbiters all the time, so maybe social media is just her attention seeking outlet. If you're in an LTR where this occurs, how do you confront it efficiently? Lawyer up... just kidding. Not sure if there's much you can do besides not give her any attention via social media. If she bitches to you in person that's one thing but do… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/14 07:26 PM |
| 12 | Can you really seduce a girl into one night stand sex, even if you are not her ideal physical type ? (Short, Minority etc.)... I'm going to go out on a limb and say you want to be the guy in your story. My advice: stop fantasizing and get your ass to the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Do average men in big cities have a harder time getting dates online?I've dated in both settings and I prefer the large city atmosphere. Granted, I don't use much online dating, I meet girls in the real world. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 07:09 PM |
| 9 | 2XX: We all basically disagree with TRP. Well, sort of...TRP is a reflection of how the vast majority of successful men think. I met many successful dudes and once I held a conversation with them I realized they were natural alphas. They didn't read any of this TRP shit yet they were successful with women by using the same techniques we harp upon as a community (lifting, abundance, not being an orbiter, lack of commitment, etc) TRP: 1 Feminazis: 0 | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 11:45 AM |
| 1 | How to just be friends with a women?– When you're with her avoid flirting or excess touching but remain nice (aka not cold). – When you hang out with her, make sure she brings her friends or you two go out and you game women with her help. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/14 11:29 AM |
| 8 | This could be the future for YOU if we let feminists get away with "rape culture" BSHoly shit that was deep. How do you find enough evidence to lock somebody up for a rape they've never committed? — feminism, my friends. Also, my buddy is a corrections officer, and I cracked up at the guy's description because he described him almost perfectly. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 08:36 PM |
| 7 | Plate goes on dates / sees other men (AFAIK) but always flocks to me in the endI like this OP, he actually knows what the fuck he's talking about. You sir are wise, once a cheater always a cheater aka ≠ LTR. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 07:49 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with the family over the holidays and the changes I've madeI'm not sure why you have to discuss any TRP with your family. If they mention that something about you is different just smile and say you've been working out more or you have a new outlook on life ever since your mother passed. Happy holidays | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Girl texts out of the blue?"Sorry, I'm seeing other people." "Can't I'm busy." [No response] <-- my personal favorite | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Plate I've been seeing thinks its acceptable to make fake domestic abuse claims.Nothing more satisfying than having your phone get blown up post-bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Gf messes up twiceAlright man, good luck and stay on your toes. Don't be afraid to bail if needed. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Today I realized I'm a overweight Red Piller, maybe notI'd argue that losing weight is 80-90% what you eat and the rest depends on sleep & exercise. If you eat healthy you can get away with 3-4 days of moderate exercise. These guys have a 12 week program, here's weeks 1-3, which will get you started towards your transformation. I'm on week 9, and I'm loving it although I switch some exercises in and out for variety. They also have a great video on buying healthy food on a budget, watch this. Me, I eat healthy and exercise 5-6 times a week. On these … | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Gf messes up twiceI'd not talk to her for 2-3 more days, but honestly do you want to deal with this after party bullshit time and time again in the future? 6:15 to 5:30, sure it may not be a huge deal, but if you're worried enough to wake up and see if she came home then clearly this issue matters to you. Actions speak louder than words, keep that in mind. You could tell her you're disappointed or you can show it in your demeanor. Seriously, are guys here morons? Because the answers are really dumb. You asked for… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 05:14 PM |
| 3 | I'm a fit guy that can only attract overweight women. and I contribute to hypergamy by sleeping with them because I have no other options. I do it because the lack of sex gets to me.Girls will "reject" you for any reason under the sun; bro you're making 100k a year and you have 5% body fat - you're fucking awesome, so start believing you are. Don't tell girls you make money because then you'll be attracting the wrong bunch (in my opinion), stay humble. Any of those girls that rejected you are probably making a huge mistake, it's their loss. At least, that's how you should see the interaction. Smile and walk away, go game another girl right after. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Girl lied about being a virgin, find out she had a one night stand the night before I "took her virginity".My first GF was a virgin and it wasn't worth it either... the blow job skills were lacking and she wasn't leaps and bounds tighter than anything else I could remember. She tried though and she was fun, so I guess that's all that matters now. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 03:15 PM |
| 6 | Fatty pays up to $30 each to photoshop editors from 17 different countries so she can hamster that "beauty is cultural". (That's potentially $510 in gym fees)This girl definitely used fiverr to find the photoshop "professionals". Even if these guys and gals are true PS masters, nobody would take the time to do a stellar, vogue front page cover job for $5. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Let's stop the "Any South Asian/Indian/Pakistani/whatever" posts.I agree that these threads should not clutter the main sub, but rather if these gentlemen have a question they should direct it towards askTRP or use the search bar (because it's been answered many times). I browse this subreddit almost daily and haven't seen a "race post" for a while. Overall, I find the race threads interesting. I'm taking it OP is white, which means... he doesn't find them interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 02:52 PM |
| 7 | Askreddit: "What subreddit do you disagree with the most?" Guess what is #1Holy shit that subreddit is fucked up | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/14 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Dance, Monkey, Dance: The Time Has Come For A Shift In The Mediums Of SeductionI agree with sending this to the sidebar, newbies could find it useful. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 08:54 PM |
| 36 | Dance, Monkey, Dance: The Time Has Come For A Shift In The Mediums Of Seduction68,000 people liked that single photo and that dude thinks he even has a chance with her, why did he bother commenting? Why feed the machine... Him and the others are the problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Why Beta-Males ALWAYS LOSE - Woman Double Standard in a nutshellThat video was awesome, so happy I watched the whole thing. The beta male shaming examples were straightforward, this is why if you have a "provider" type job then you should avoid mentioning it to women. Sadly, I miss South Beach now that I saw that... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Failed plate. Continue for xp?So she went on 3 dates, you didn't escalate and she wants to see you again? Ok. See her 1 more time, if you two bang then there's hope. If you don't then she clearly just wants a LTR or you're taking things too slowly. IF you want an LTR then play this out, but since you're trying to plate her then I'd bail soon. For future reference, I thought "the talk" was when you wanted to break up AND if you want better answers it helps to be a bit more thorough in your initial post. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Girl with boyfriend is going on trip around the world with random guy she just met. Don't worry though, "This is totally sort of like as friends".Saw this story pop up on my facebook feed an hour ago and smiled, "I know TRP will love this shit." Come onto TRP, and lookie here! Top post. I'm hoping that we get a followup from the media indicating that she dumped her old boyfriend for the jet-setter. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 12:19 AM |
| 52 | Lowered ExpectationsWhen my friends ask how they can turn their sexless lives around I tell them: You have to first invest in yourselves, not in women. If you don't love yourself then how do you expect others to love you? You have to look into that mirror after a nice, hard gym workout and like what you see. You have to literally think "I'm the shit" and deep down inside you mean it. There are tons of ways you can raise your SMV - don't do it for the girls, do it for yourself. My buddy was and still is a simple, co… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 03:58 PM |
| 19 | Never date a woman who won't do sexual things with you that she did with her other partners.Just trying to picture the 180° from "So what do you do for a living?" to "WHAT'S THE CRAZIEST THING YOU'VE DONE WHILE FUCKING OTHER DUDES" Your opening sentence is completely illogical, nobody would act like that. And while I understand your comment, you're coming at me with the wrong premise. You won't believe the kinky shit I've talked to girls about on the first night I've ever met them. If your opening interaction is sexual then talking about sexual things isn't out of the ordinary. If your… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 03:40 PM |
| 31 | Never date a woman who won't do sexual things with you that she did with her other partners.I probe with questions like: "What's the craziest thing you've done while having sex?" "Where was the craziest place you've had sex?" "Did you ever do _____, did you like it?" Some guys do this as first date banter, others wait until they know her a bit more, whatever your style is. I think, the sooner the better. If she doesn't give you an answer or goes "ummmm, nothing..." then egg her on a bit. If she's really got nil then share one of your stories (it doesn't have to be your craziest) then o… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 11:58 AM |
| 6 | What would "TITS or GTFO" be without the "GTFO"?It's a good thing they're realizing, at a young age, that there exists a bad side to marriage. When people are in love, their judgements are clouded. Maybe there's hope here. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Unable to attract "attractive" women. Do not know what my sticking point isMaybe you fail their shit tests or come off with a BP/friend zone vibe? Chin up, keep maximizing your time out there and use the "average" looking women as social practice for the time being. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/14 09:10 PM |
| 3 | If you lift and don't feel happy and energetic then you're doing it wrong.I just came back from a run/chest day and popping open TRP after a warm shower is a satisfying feeling. You feed your body, then your mind and soul. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 07:44 PM |
| 3 | If you lift and don't feel happy and energetic then you're doing it wrong.Unprocessed carbs can be fruits or veggies | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 07:41 PM |
| 1 | If you lift and don't feel happy and energetic then you're doing it wrong.I'm not addicted to carbs, I run 40-60 miles a week ON TOP OF going to the gym 4-5 days a week SO I need them. I'm rolling into the 2,000 mile mark for the year | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Forced to see my ex-girlfriend (oneitis)how do i deal with this or a sudden future attention from her? How do i deal with being angry everytime i go to class? You don't have to blatantly ignore her, just alk to other people in class... don't sit next to her and don't look at her intentionally (etc). If she says hi, then say hi back, you don't have to be her friend or engage in deep conversation, just let them die off. If you make it obvious that you're purposely avoiding her (in person) then it seems a bit extreme and a bit childish. … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/14 03:56 PM |
| 1 | NoFapTestosterone levels: OVER 9,000 | /r/askTRP | 15/12/14 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Entitlement to sexBut sex is part of a romantic relationship Exactly, if I only want to hang out then I have friends for that - I have a girlfriend because even hough she becomes my best friend she also enjoys making love to me. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/14 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Should I keep contact over text/phone if I cannot meet for some time?Eleven days really isn't a long amount of time, and you're busy so don't sweat it. People have lives. Don't initiate contact with her, and 2-3 days before going out just text her saying "we haven't seen each other for a while so let's [propose date & time]." | /r/askTRP | 14/12/14 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Xmas gifts for Red PillersI'm going to avoid listing book titles and give you some things I would like as an RP man/things I'm considering getting: – If your friend is RP but doesn't lift then write "A free month towards your new gym membership" on a card, put it in an envelope. You'll front the money when he goes to sign up. This is good if there's not a very expensive monthly rate/initial fee. Bonus points if it's a gym you go to and you want to work out with him from time to time. – Running gear (gloves, hats, under a… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/14 02:18 PM |
| 14 | The biggest cock carousel rider is posting sad posts on her Facebook about being single past the age of 30.Men can find a career, a degree or improve themselves after 30 - however a women's attractiveness is influenced heavily by her physical looks which begins to decline exponentially as she ages into her 30's and 40's. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 07:40 PM |
| 2 | My dog got me laidHe said it after receiving LMR | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Is there a conspiracy happening? How can there be so many groups independently trying to destroy masculinity and western civilization without collusion between the groups?It is a woman trolling asktrp, do not feed it | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 11:23 PM |
| 2 | I don't get you guys on this.I saw /u/somepill trolling another post too. Such a shame that he/she has nothing better to do. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 11:18 PM |
| 8 | Chinese man moves to Ukraine and lands a 17 year beauty.Confirmed, the wife is very attractive. While the story is somewhat inspirational, I can't imagine many RP'ers are running off to get visas for Ukrainian tomorrow. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 10:25 PM |
| 2 | How to stay away from STD's on one night standsIf you're really worried then use a condom when going in and avoid trashy/slutty girls - whatever your definition of that may be. Keep in mind you can still get an STI even if you use a condom properly so the ultimate prevention is abstinence/monogamous relationships with clean girls. It's your life/safety so ask if they "have anything you should know about" a bit before sexy time. Some girls with STIs will tell you before any contact occurs, others honestly don't know they have something, and t… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/14 08:08 PM |
| 190 | Princeton Mom: Learn from mistake sexWow that finished so strong: Reporter: Why are you not talking to the young men, telling them not to rape? Guest: We can teach a burglar not to steal, but better advice: LOCK YOUR DOOR. – Applause when the guest called out "antagonistic feminists" – Applause for acknowledging that young boys are being considered rapists before stepping foot into a courtroom. – Applause for realizing that a fumbled kiss or "remorse sex" shouldn't be constituted as rape. These women cry foul after the fact when th… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/14 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop gossiping?how would I evade the question if people ask me what I did with someone? If they ask then you can provide as much info as you feel comfortable providing, just don't lie. Don't make it sound like you had sex with a girl when nothing happened or you never heard from her afterwards. Sometimes my buddies will see me hitting on a girl and I'd get her number. Later they'd ask me if I saw her again and I'd tell them the details if they wanted. It's a bit different because they're asking me about a scen… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Can this still be salvaged?I don't think you're completely fucked, make out with her again and escalate later. She wanted to bang you that night and you didn't... me personally I prefer to get the intimacy as soon as possible. If you had sex with her that night, you could have always "maintained control" and retake the power the next time. Her not being into PDA isn't a huge red flag, I had girls like that before who would be monsters when we were alone. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think Floyd mayweather is redpill or blue pill?Thanks for the clarification, I wrote this in 3 minutes because I have to go back to work. Hopefully my ideas are expressed well enough: I think the musician example is the idea that since he's a musician he has the prospect of becoming famous and wealthy, which temporarily raises SMV. flaunting money lowers smv, and makes you look like a provider. Yes and no, I can think of examples for both sides. Flaunting money may make you look like a provider however it also has the ability to significantl… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 10:45 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop gossiping?I realized that the guys who are banging a lot of girls don't need to brag about it; it's commonplace. Also, just the way I act in the bars/clubs have my conservative friends calling me a "playboy", so there's no need to brag about catching girls. Apparently walking up to girls and opening a conversation with them is a huge feat. Actions speak louder than words | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Do you think Floyd mayweather is redpill or blue pill?To be fair this specific thread is heavily down voted so there may be a glimmer of hope. I'm pretty sure OP is just trying to prove that he's more "alpha" than Mayweather, which seems odd. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good example of a redpill movie?That movie sounds like it'll have a happy ending. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Do you think Floyd mayweather is redpill or blue pill?Wikepedia: Floyd Mayweather, Jr. is an American professional boxer. He is currently undefeated as a professional and is a five-division world champion, having won ten world titles and the lineal championship in four different weight classes. He seems pretty alpha to me. He's at the top of his career and is very successful. Being short or bald doesn't disqualify you as an alpha and he's got money and likes to flaunt it - I don't see a problem. Also do you think a natural alpha who is a broke, tat… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/14 10:15 AM |
| 24 | Washington Post close to calling UVA rape story a fabricationThis "rape victim" created a FAKE PERSON to get her crush jealous. What the actual fuck. She used a high school photo and fabricated messages to create this "UVA junior". Her friends couldn't find him on social media nor the UVA student database. So her plan backfires and she wanted more attention so she cries "RAPED". It's good this bitch has lawyers because I'd sue the living crap out of her as the accused party. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 08:59 AM |
| 3 | What It’s Like to Be a 58-Year-Old VirginSome were also offended that he called some of the girls "fat" and deemed that he had "high standards" ALTHOUGH he later recounts going after obese, handicapped, and deaf women as time passed. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 08:48 AM |
| 8 | $52,000/year in child support isn't enough -- exwife wants access to the kid's savings accountOnly $572,000 left to pay over the next 11 years! Man, that's a mortgage on my new mansion. He did say he makes a lot of money and lives in the State of New York, where the price of living is higher than say rural Missouri. BUT STILL even when you consider all of these factors it seems like a ridiculous sum of money and should be lower. Not only that; when his daughter stays with him I'm sure he'll be spending on her. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 08:16 AM |
| 2 | If I go on a coffee date with a girl how can I make it clear that I am not a provider/friend and I am interested in sex?Funny story, this one girl came to my place, we cooked together and then she willingly DID MY DISHES. You know how I got her to come back to my place a few days later? "Hey, my dishes are piling up... Come over." ^ [It was something like that, I don't remember the word for word text] | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | "Who is this?" response textThanks, solid advice | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Using your phone's camera to dominate social situations.Yeah if you're on a dance floor surrounded by awesome people then whip out your phone and take a quick group selfie from a downward angle. Somehow when people see you taking selfies they always try to jump in and be there too. Worst case scenario you have a cool picture to show that you were having a good time. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 10:42 PM |
| 67 | $52,000/year in child support isn't enough -- exwife wants access to the kid's savings accountThis lady is worse than a fucking leech; she's trying to suck this man dry even though she has no need to (she's dating another rich dude and she is receiving some people's yearly salary in child support). Luckily from the comments it seems unlikely that the mother will get her hands on the account and be able to withdraw massive amounts of money. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Old hook up from years ago wants to hook up again, except...If you want the lay without looking desperate then don't be so enthusiastic in your text back. A simple "sure" or "ok" suffices for now; it looks a lot different then "FUCK YEAH". Regardless, Jane is only the messenger and she'll relay your response to Mary. You'll be on easy street after that. She didn't have enough guts or desire to message me directly. That does strike me as odd, but I don't think it matters much. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Waiting gameDo you wait longer or address it immediately? Wait a day and respond with a simple "Ok". She knows what she did; let her sweat it out a bit. If you validate that you're not angry right away then she got off the hook too easily. When she texts you asking if you're mad, etc just ignore those comments, tell her you're busy with something "ttyl", or change the topic. It's good you're not actually angry so don't bring it up, ever. It doesn't matter to you. The less disappointed you are, the harder sh… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 09:48 PM |
| 0 | Anyone down to mentor a 19 year old?What are you getting angry about? I find that when I "get angry" lifting then I do a much better lift, but outside of that I me getting angry has had little success in achieving my endeavors. My best solution to blowing off steam is not getting angry in the first place. Sometimes if you stop and take a second then you realize how menial/ trivial the source of anger is. I know some dude will recommend "meditation", but I've personally never set aside time to do that and I rarely get angry anymore… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this right?Hey no problem, actually I reread your post and your response actually wasn't bad, and it didn't sound butthurt. What I meant to say is you shouldn't be worried about her "not like a date" part. I would have just made the response a bit shorter next time: Okay, maybe some other time. AND, if she said "love to some other time" then there's still hope. Good luck, and overall try to get some more prospects. I know it may be harder as you get older but there are gals out there. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Beta friend.He comes to the gym with us, but the only reason shes not with him is she doesn't have a membership there because she is lazy and has bullshit medical problems to get her out of anything. Fixed that for you | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Beta friend.You had me in the first paragraph at: 5"3 and pushing 150lbs I'd never consider her as LTR material considering how much I love working out. Likewise, why the FUCK do people deal with the bullshit? This my friends is the power of the poon, it makes sensible, decent guys put up with crazy bitches. If you want to talk to this guy then don't use any crazy lingo and make it short: "Bro [crazy bitch] is holding you back and you deserve better," tell him 1 or two examples and leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this right?Me personally I read the "not like a date" line as indication that she can't spend time with you or go back to your place because at 7:30 she has to do all this BS. The fact that she said 6-6:30 could work meant she was open to seeing you but you declined it (which is fine), however the way you declined came off a bit butthurt (angry), however you shouldn't really get angry at her first sentence. I don't give a shit if a girl calls it a date or not, I'm going to be doing the same thing (chatting… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How long do you wait?This shit does work; she's comfortable at your place and doesn't mind coming back later during the night. Or you can just skip the bars all together and have her come to your place to "pregame" (which lasts until the morning) | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 07:46 PM |
| 2 | "Who is this?" response textHey thanks for the help. Yeah you're right; it wasn't an attention seeking text like, "Hi Tim!"; she actually was straightforward and reinitiated contact (which was the point of forgetting about her). Assume attraction. Deep down inside I think she digs me, but there's still probably one or two more shit tests I need to pass. I typically assume attraction because in this city these French girls don't encounter any foreigners. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 01:15 PM |
| 8 | Are you out of the closet?Do you know why it's in secrecy? Because if I go and tell all my beta friends why they suck with women and give them unsolicited advice then they'd hate me. I'm not afraid about talking to TRP with close friends and EVEN my siblings because we have similar viewpoints on the matter. I'm not ashamed about what I post on reddit because it is my opinion and viewpoint of the world. What I'm not for is SJWs or offended fatties/feminists trying to ruin somebody's life because he said "I don't fuck fat … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 12:13 PM |
| 6 | If I go on a coffee date with a girl how can I make it clear that I am not a provider/friend and I am interested in sex?Don't talk to her about boyfriend/provider shit like what you do a living, but rather make the discussion vibrant and fun. Make it about her too, be mysterious. Tell her you invited her because YOU want to know more about HER, make yourself the prize. Touch her on her back, arm and hands - let her warm up to you. Don't overstay your "date", spend 30 minutes to an hour MAX and tell her to follow you, take a nice walk around town and ask her if she wants to go to your place to have a bite to eat/w… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 12:08 PM |
| 7 | Hitting on women in crowded placesThis works 99% of the time but it can backfire. If the attractive girl has other prospects OR just feels like throwing her fat friend a bone once in a while then she may willingly leave you two alone. Because, you know, Jessica never gets a guy and this one seems really into her. If you're flirting with the ugly friend and she's not the ultimate goal then you need to not cross a certain line. Otherwise you'll have an undesirable girl following you around all night. ABORT MISSION. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on women in crowded placesExactly, if you're attacking a group and only engage one person during the start of the interaction - well then, it's bound to be more difficult than it needs to be. Play the group first! | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 11:59 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to girls over Facebook?The only person I talk to on Facebook messenger is my sibling, I typically dedicated all other correspondences to the phone. I'd say only use the messenger to set up a date + logistics. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 11:55 AM |
| 10 | Man gives note to Beta husband about pregnant wife cheating in front of her, after she openly shames him.he doesn't have any kind of a commitment to you. She does... This is the biggest point. I'm not dating your boyfriend, he's not taking me on dates, he's not showing me to his parents, and he's not expecting me to be faithful to him - he's expecting HER TO. If she fails to do that than she's at fault. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 01:07 AM |
| 16 | The Sexodus, Part 2: Dishonest Feminist Panics Leave Male Sexuality In CrisisThis is one reason why they live longer than men (another being genetics). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Questions about Emotional CheatingWhat is it? What does it include? It can be anything as simple as you (a guy) talking to other girls or elaborate as secretly wishing somebody else was his/her lover. Emotional cheating is different than "sexual/physical cheating" (or the cheating most people think of) because no sex or even physical touch has been involved, it's mostly just mind games. It's like your girlfriend messaging her EX that she still has feelings for him on Facebook and you find the messages but you can confirm with hi… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/14 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Tinder Guide with Screenshots. TL;DR: 1. Get Number 2. Text to Setup Date 3. MeetThanks for sharing this, my only problem is that lazy fucks may steal your script word for word which may devalue it. Overall, I'm going to do a bit of experimenting | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 08:52 AM |
| 4 | Tinder Guide with Screenshots. TL;DR: 1. Get Number 2. Text to Setup Date 3. MeetDon't change it, the fact that it's cringe inducing shows that it's light hearted and cheesy. That's what girls think pickup lines are so meh | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 08:44 AM |
| 1 | So close, but tripped at the finish line.what do you think guys? I can't think of what i did wrong here. I think you fucked up at the beginning, you're trying to pursue a "friend for a while" and make her into a plate meanwhile she wants to see the parents and hear those wedding bells ring. How old are you two? Did she actually come over for the movie? Did you two have sex? Your text is ambiguous (I knock down the shit test by A&A). | /r/askTRP | 09/12/14 08:27 AM |
| 31 | How to deal with loneliness?If you're lonely then go get friends and be social, get the fuck off reddit. Do you know what's a redflag to women? Guys who have no friends or their friends are geeky ass beta bitches, you think she wants to hang out with you then? Enrich your life with social experiences and women will take notice; you'll still have to game but social proof makes your job easier. One of my favorite quotes: "You're never lonely if you enjoy the person you're alone with." | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Did I do the right thing?Hey man sometimes I felt the same thing, a plate would fall out of my life or a GF and I would break up. A bit after the interaction you miss it but I guarantee that those feelings subside when you're with another (hotter) girl. Time also heals this type of stuff, just chalk up the sex to experience, keep your confidence high and get back on the saddle. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Did I do the right thing?did I do the right thing Anytime a post is titled as such, 9 times out of 10 he did do the right thing and is just feeling the "no-pussy remorse" of it after the fact. This girl is a liar and you're speculating that she wants to be exclusive with you because you're well off. Anytime a sexual girl wants to take things more slowly it's because she sees you as BOYFRIEND material and doesn't want to lose you like the other guys. She doesn't sound like LTR material; if you want to salvage the FWB rel… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 03:58 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with being "2nd choice"When girls admit to Facebook stalking me, it's creepy. Him saying that will only freak her out | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 03:51 PM |
| 2 | What kind of brainless women are you seeing that they let an "agree and amplify" suffice when they ask you a direct question?Being private and full of mystery is always better than being a predictable open book | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 03:49 PM |
| 2 | What kind of brainless women are you seeing that they let an "agree and amplify" suffice when they ask you a direct question?are you seeing other women ? I see women everyday hundreds of others yes, my mother is in town next weekend are you seeing other men? plenty duh [laughter] [silence] [silence + topic switch] | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Wtf texting?To her just getting a response is enough; she knows you're still an orbiter. Stop texting her, the next time she texts you something DO NOT RESPOND. In fact, just delete her number. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/14 03:41 PM |
| 3 | [MOD] Don't ask to be a mod. Keep reporting any bullshit or trolling comments you've spotted.I am new into TRP ... My problem is for those who are super new to TRP and if they search the past post history, main sub and sidebar then they'll find that their question has already been answered 9 times out of 10. I spend a decent amount of time there trying to help people out, I feel as though you guys are over-exaggerating the state of decline. But I have stopped answering the generic bullshit in lieu for the more specific problems. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Chris Brown's girlfriend leaves him, revealed she went on dates with DrakeDrake did it because he wasn't featured on the track | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Chris Brown's girlfriend leaves him, revealed she went on dates with DrakeNot kidding, I used to play "Loyal" right after I read a great BP story, now I don't know if C. Brown and company are worthy that honor. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 12:29 AM |
| 1 | First date = Makeout close. Waited 3 days to text, want to set up 2nd date but am unsure about logistics20 minutes away doesn't seem super far, when I was in college we walked everywhere and sometimes girls lived 20 minutes away by foot but it didn't stop them from walking to hang out with me. My suggestion for a text would be to set up for her to come out for dinner at a restaurant near my house and then have her drive over to my place for drinks/fucking. Why not just invite her over to have dinner AT YOUR PLACE? and then since she's already there you just watch a movie or something and F-close. … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/14 11:15 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to allegations of harassment?I haven't responded to her message yet, and I'm not sure if responding is a good idea at all. Don't respond via text, if she's soooo offended then she or her boyfriend will seek you out in person. In person all you have to say is you don't recollect those events ever occurring. These are text messages so tread lightly, that's the stuff they'll pull up during the interrogation/court hearing. Likewise DO NOT APOLOGIZE, that sounds as though you're admitting guilt. You're saying it's probable that … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/14 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Advice about my LTRI'll chime in, The reason your wife is being 100% apparent and trustworthy is because she doesn't want to lose you and she's probably just waiting for that proposal. From your situation I think the pros outweigh the cons. She can eventually develop her own hobbies OR HECK, you take your wife with you when you do some of yours (for instance if you like shooting then take her with you, that's fun). It might be a little off putting to make the decisions 24/7, but I'd rather have a wife that just go… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/14 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Advice about my LTRDo other guys really care about speech impediments? Some do, but me personally I don't think I would be a huge problem. Nobody will flat out be rude to you guys or say anything, and if you tell your good friends/family the situation then they'll support you both. Besides that, does it matter what random strangers think? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/14 10:51 PM |
| 10 | Dude accused of rape by Lena Dunham has GoFundMe to sue herAnyone have a pic of her in college? Here you go. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Dude accused of rape by Lena Dunham has GoFundMe to sue herBreitbart confirms the campaign.. I tossed in a few bucks it seems like the right thing to do. I remember reading the story a while ago and being pissed off. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 10:18 PM |
| 10 | Woman gets sexually harrassed at work, complains to her boss about it, boss propositions her for sex to solve her problem, she has sex with him. Guess what? She's married.Then when the boss fires her ass a few months down the line, she'll bring him to court and earn a hefty "rape" settlement | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 10:36 PM |
| 3 | DefinitionsGreat list, I just have one comment. I always perceived "unicorn" to also have the significance that you've found the "perfect woman". Usually guys in unicorn posts start off with 3 paragraphs stating why this girl is sooo special and is so much better than the others. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 10:43 PM |
| 1 | 8 Essential Rules For Banging A Single MomMy friend used to date a single mom. She would have him hang out with her kid all the time and eventually he got attached to the kid. He had to leave the relationship because the mom was toxic, but leaving the kid behind made him feel like crap (the mom is a deadbeat, the kid doesn't stand a chance). Don't do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 10:21 PM |
| 3 | The Men Giving Up On Women and Checking Out of Society (good article)You are reposting the top, stickied post in this sub. Please delete. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 10:16 PM |
| 6 | BETA in the GYMIt's apparent the BF is there to keep her on a tighter leash, pretty sure that relationship is going to snap soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on interesting (female) roommate situationWhatever you do, don't give up your other plates. In fact, bring one of them over and pull her into your room for the night.. or just start being less "available" and spend less time at home. This girl doesn't want a relationship as badly as you do, she doesn't want exclusivity so play it as such. Keep her as a plate, you've got a good setup, why ruin it all with relationship talk? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 08:35 PM |
| 1 | What does TRP think about this malicious/fun app?I was going to say that as the girls will wise up and use better privacy settings once they realize that the same weird dudes seem to keep finding them at different bars. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Ex girlfriend who is in a relationship wants to go to a movie..We can confirm he's a beta orbiter because if she really wanted to fuck him she would've been there 100%. OP lost by playing into her game and responding to the text breaking 3 years of silence. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Men and women alike describe me as "a small, lost looking little fellow." What the fuck am I still doing wrong?What the fuck am I still doing wrong? I could be nothing, they may just be fucking with you and it's actually taking its toll. Or maybe you just have an awkward face that screams "I don't know what the fuck I'm doing" during social events, or, you're void of energy in energetic interactions. Your post is missing a lot of information but let me continue to speculate: You sound like my friend, he's about 5'5 and every time he comes out with me to the bar/clubs he'll just sit down with his drink an… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Did I make a mistake?At 28 she's hitting the wall, that probably can explain her desire for commitment. But you did the right thing; fuck waiting 1.5 years dude - you know what's one thing that all nice guys possess? It's the fact that they will wait, and wait, and wait. Let 2-3 more years pass and you'll find a nice chick who's actually younger than you and you'll be fine. I know people with jobs in medicine and it can control their life. Sure doctors have a bit more fun, but you'd always be the guy that's competin… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 07:54 PM |
| 15 | That UVA rape story Rolling Stone magazine published that was too good to be true? Yeah, you guessed it.How do you publish and entire article and not as much as check up on the institution you're slandering? I'm sure they could've cleared all this out before it became a big mess. But actually, maybe the fallout is a better result against these false-rape feminists. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 07:47 PM |
| 2 | How does an alpha command respect from other men?What's with all these /r/askTRP posts popping up in the main sub.. let alone, there's now a friday discussion board. These questions aren't deep enough to warrant it's own post here. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | What if she responds in a negative way to your shit test responses?It's a hypothetical conversation and that's not necessarily true, I had plates who would tell me about their "ex" just to try and make me jealous/commit to her. They wanted me to continue chasing after them. I wouldn't respond and things oftentimes worked for the better (besides one really fucked up story). | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 03:22 PM |
| 5 | FR Update From 2 Nights Ago: Need help identifying IOIs from an HB9. Should I progress?Well you: 1) noticed it was rejection and took it like a man. 2) are willing to move on with your life. Just those two things alone means you're on the right track. I know you're a nurse and you probably have a hectic schedule, but keep putting an effort to meet women and get yourself out there (if that's what you desire). | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Looking for adviceIf you want to meet up and have a real conversation let me know. This is where you should've just dropped the "drinks at 7" message, but whatever there's little difference now. Go for it bro, she was the one who proposed it, work your magic one-on-one. It's doubtful you'll see her again after the study abroad so be loose. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/14 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Feminists are slowly taking over the gaming world aswell. Sign the petition!I understand the logic; Target is a large company and the decision they've made is rather significant. Not only that, they've let a small, boisterous minority dictate such an important decision. It's just Target is definitely not the place for buying games; most people can find better deals online, on Steam, or at an actual gaming retailer. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Feminists are slowly taking over the gaming world aswell. Sign the petition!Serious question, who the fuck goes to Target to buy video games? While this is appalling and I signed the counter petition, I'm honestly confused. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 10:27 PM |
| 1 | On sex and other thingsI just deleted it, I didn't like the wording either. Telling her isn't necessarily wrong, it's just since you said this NOW you'll never be sure whether or not her BJs are actually voluntary OR because you mentioned it. It's the same thing that happens to husbands who tell their wife they're not happy with the amount of sex they're getting - then they get 1 or two nights of pity sex before things go back to "normal". Rather than ask, I believe the best course is to lead with actions (which is wh… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Ex girlfriend seems interested again. How do play this correctly.right of me to apologize for saying some awful things TRP airs on the side of never apologizing; besides, you didn't even say anything horrendous. Even though she came back , shes not good for me and I shouldn't do anything. So I got my answer Some of us have been there, that's all. More times than not, I've been burned by my Ex's. If you want to play with fire then do it man, you need life experience too.. but I'm still an advocate of ignoring her; that's what I do nowadays and it makes life 10… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Ex girlfriend seems interested again. How do play this correctly.I went back to the old thread and realized I gave you advice to "stop texting her completely" and clearly you didn't head that warning, so now you're here again.. not sure if it's worth posting. You couldn't handle plating this girl; your feelings for her run too deep. She's going to fuck your life up between now and when you have to go to college/uni - then your relationship will ultimately burn in flames once again. Not sure how you start the post with "I was done with her shit, she was treati… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Getting boners too easyIf you're that embarrassed, wear briefs. Then roll it onto the side of your leg when you get a chance. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Texting to ask a good time to call?Okay, well she sounds busy, but she can take 1 minute out of her day to respond to a text. Honestly bro, we're making a big deal out of nothing; you're just trying to call her for a date and it's going to work out or not so if you want to text her: "Hey, I have something to tell you, call me when you can./when can I call?" Then fine. But now you're making this into a two-step process and she's already busy so you're needlessly extending the interaction. You text her about the call then she texts… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 10:12 AM |
| 2 | General life practices to become more confident and more desirablea nice local girl who seems fantastic. What makes your get attached so quickly? After 3 weeks she left me, leaving me devastated. Go make out with another pretty girl and then tell me how "devastated" you'll feel. You'll forget the first girl's name by then. The drunk me can go up to any girl Drinking is liquid courage, which is why your interactions with girls should be while you're SOBER. I'm losing hope Raise your SMV. Lift, read, and focus on your life. Go out and be social with girls but no… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 10:04 AM |
| 1 | European Red Pillers - how do you adapt the RP mentality to fit EU women?I'm living in France and besides seeing European girls as more fashionable and less fat, I don't find handling the two as any different. I work nightlife in Europe just like I do in the US and find success. Girls seem a bit flakey here but admittedly they're also flakey back Stateside. Conversations here seem easier to open because of my foreigner status, yet likewise there is a small language barrier (my French is great but I'm not a native so my quick wittiness takes a hit). Are US girls just … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 10:46 PM |
| 34 | GayLubeOil's Gift Giving GuideDid you notice how OP forgot necklaces, jewelry, and other high-investment, unoriginal items? These gift ideas are both cheap AND effective, especially the Chinese made stuff. But why be cheap EVEN though you have money? Well if your girl is only sticking around because you have $$$ then your relationship sounds just swell. But I mean, showering her with expensive gifts is a great way to how much you love her, right?? Right?? /s/ Had to upvote after the first paragraph, just knew it was going to… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 10:40 PM |
| 11 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriage"Mom! The white stuff was just milk I gagged up; I swear!" | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 07:46 PM |
| 12 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriageIf people aren't so ashamed of their past than why hide it from those who need to hear it the most? If her past was 100% perfect then why did she hide this from her husband. Oh wait.. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 07:40 PM |
| 12 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriageThat's because white guys don't specify their race, it's usually assumed. If you consider this, you'd realize that "every two weeks" isn't nearly as often as "everyday". | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 07:32 PM |
| 5 | AFBB: Rationalizing eugenics with 'patriarchy-smashing', but of course beta husband can't knowWhy choose to hide such a decision from him if it really is 'for the best'? Yup, she should be running home to tell him about the good news! How "genetically fit" HER child will be, I'm sure he'll be ecstatic. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to 'how long your relatioships usually last' question, if you've never been in any?Is this a question you've been asked multiple times or are you preemptively preparing for this question considering your age is hovering near the time that girls get looking for a husband beta ATM. How long do your relationships last? 1) As long as they need to last... 2) Long enough. Now of course an answer like this may cause her to wonder about your response, so you should be ready to deflect any follow-up questions. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 07:01 PM |
| 1 | How do I be myself in a group of men who compete with and talk over and correct me whenever I show my intellect?I want to add, I used to have a friend that would argue with almost anything you said... he was the guy that would pull out his iPhone during a minor disagreement and pop open Google to find facts to turn the battle in his favor. If you defeated him in "pitched combat" (aka the discussion) than he'd simply smile and say "Yeah, you guys are right." I learned that it's just not worth arguing with these types of people; they just want attention. They'll beat you down until it's a pyrrhic victory; y… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I be myself in a group of men who compete with and talk over and correct me whenever I show my intellect?I'd really like to see other examples of people "correcting" you, but overall my advice would be to just let it roll off your back. These situations aren't "personal attacks" unless you treat them as such. If a "dude" doubts your knowledge, well then be curious and throw the question back at him, find out why he's skeptical: "Well, what do you think?" But don't lose your frame. Don't respond in an "OMG FUCK YOU" kind of tone, but rather a nonchalant sort of manner. You guys are just talking abou… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl out again after she said no?It's telling you to annoy a girl by asking her out 500 times Three times to be exact, however my personal number is two times. There's a difference between persistence and annoyance. You're not texting her, rapid fire, to hang out with you out of desperation - you have other girls. Before, I used to just give up after a no response or an excuse (without a proposal); I had a "one and done" policy. Then I started saying "what the heck" and would send another logistics text for a meet up 2-3 days l… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 03:17 PM |
| 5 | What do we think of "pick up artists?"they are simply there to take advantage of socially awkward dudes and make money teaching them shit You're right. It's like dieting products or homeopathic remedies which don't work but target a needy market. People already know that diet and exercise will stave off obesity yet they'll continue to throw their money at easy fixes. They hype up a lot of their messages and make it seem so easy without telling you how much learning "game" Only the shitty PUA's do that. Some like GirlsChase or even t… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 11:59 AM |
| 14 | PART II: I c/p some legendary quotes from TRP posts into my notepad over the past few years. Here are some of my favorites..."Third world countries" still have computers, internet, phones, roads, and cars you know. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 10:20 PM |
| 1 | wanting to travel, looking for suggestions, resources and field reports on destinations (Asia)I feel like you'd find work in Japan without much difficulty with a PhD in physics and good English speaking abilities. The thing is you'd get by with English in South Korea more than Japan (just my thoughts). Of course if you plan on living in one of these countries for a long time then learning the language is a must, but like you already mentioned you're just feeling around so go feel and make a decision. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/14 10:02 PM |
| 1 | I can't handle being short, what can I do?What the fuck did I just read | /r/askTRP | 02/12/14 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Fought with my wife last night about my "poor communication skills"She's right, when you're married it's normal and expected to answer a call or a text about your status reasonably quickly. I think you missed the part where OP stated, "Last night we had an evening board meeting, and my wife knew this." | /r/askTRP | 02/12/14 05:46 PM |
| 2 | I have seen the scam known as love play out right in front of my cousin. Now he's left heartbroken. Immediately turns red pill.You're a good friend. "O" is his cousin, although I agree he's a good cousin. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 05:34 PM |
| 15 | Women mentality regarding datingOP is too busy reading the rest to respond right now | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 05:26 PM |
| 1 | You are a man. Then handshake like a man.I got a firm handshake today from a colleauge that I see in the gym quite often. It left my hand aching for a couple seconds afterwards. As we parted ways, I couldn't help but think "wow".. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 05:15 PM |
| 16 | The Critical Importance of Legal Free-Market ProstitutionExactly, when a girl ONLY sticks around because you're very financially well off, she's essentially a covert prostitute. Remember the wife that won 530 million from her divorce settlement? She was essentially paid $40,000 per day to be a wife, that my friend is prostitution at it's finest. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 05:07 PM |
| 6 | I've Been Rejected 335 Times.Both literally and figuratively | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Please help me break free of this monogamy mindset and start spinning platesNo prob, at least you were honest. Good luck man | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 09:07 PM |
| 7 | Online social experimentI once caught a bullet with my bare hands, I only eat the red M&M's, Hugh Hefner is my uncle, I threw a house party in space, and I skydive to work everyday... naked... with hot babes. Something special thing about me? I only saved 14% by switching to Geico, oh and my human penis was replaced with a 12-inch robotic steel rod. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What arguments can I use against feminists?Yeah I figured you were using TRP knowledge too; at least you're fighting for a good cause. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 08:50 PM |
| 7 | What arguments can I use against feminists?Dude I love your conviction in defeating these feminazis, but I'm going to suggest something: don't do it. No matter how convincing your arguments are, they will not listen to you. What's your ultimate goal? To convert them? LOL. The MRA sub on Reddit shows a lot of hypocrisy in feminist logic, use that. This guy also has some good TRP videos. Honestly I'd highlight with your sister how rampant feminism is inherently broken, it's run by rich privileged white women who care more about catcalling … | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 08:07 PM |
| 1 | What you do talk to a girl about after approaching her in a house party setting?Ask her about things she's excited for in life/looking forward to, ask her if she's ever done (insert cool thing you've done) and tell her she needs to try it (or relate to her if she's done it). If you listen to her and not dominate the conversation then you'll have many routes to stem the convo. Keep in mind you can have an amazing conversation with a girl and it results in nothing more than that. Make sure you're escalating the convo if that's you're ultimate goal. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I enter monk mode before or after I lose my virginity?Why not do both? Improve yourself constantly AND go out, be social and try to game women. Even though I'm in "monk mode" and a I have a long list of things I complete each day I still go out Thursday, Friday, and Saturday to get approaches in. Oh and don't let girls you're gaming know you're a virgin - play it off. If you're 21 and a virgin it may or may not raise red flags for her. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What are your guy's favorite thing to do when you have to be in a public place on your own? (e.g. at a coffee shop)I'm usually never in coffee shops alone, I only go there when I bring a girl from the street on a quick date. I think the one or two times I went to Starbucks alone (and stayed in the restaurant) I sipped my coffee and either talked to someone on the phone or read TRP. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/14 04:28 PM |
| 26 | Even prostitutes in Poland do not want to hear men complaining. They resent them.A client to a prostitute: "My wife, she's cheating on me again, can we hug for an hour?" "No please, just fuck me... in the pussy, asshole, anything, please." [Sobbing] "I can't handle this torment!!" [goes in for hug] [prostitute fighting back] "Get the fuck out!!" | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | A video example of female dichotomy (AFBB).Seems real, but I feel rather naive for thinking that. My skepticism lies in the public handjob. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Women are childrenHey, bartenders have rent/car payments/and bills to pay too | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 08:49 PM |
| 2 | What to do?I cringed through the start of your story contemplating if I even wanted to see how it ended. Then I read this: I'm nothing more then an orbiter so i cut her out. Bravo! She recently found out I've been hooking up with girls ever since and now wants nothing to do with me. Great, isn't that the goal of cutting her out first? You didn't want anything to do with her. Unless, wait... unless you want something to do with her? Since when does her opinion fucking matter dude. She's insignificant; is sh… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/14 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Not Giving A Fuck: Low Inhibition/Overcoming Doubt and The Drive4More (Vid)When you classify how insignificant our lives are on the grand scheme of things well - it makes approach anxiety, rejection and any other type of interaction rather pointless. Be bold and do what you need to do to make your life worthwhile. Pretty inspirational | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Just there a House Party. Now female flatmate is throwing a tantrum for the messines afterwards as in it's my faultTell her these exact words: "You're acting childish and immature, we agreed to this party and your room was a mess before you left. I CANNOT be held accountable, you were fully aware that your room was unlocked." If she won't help you clean, call back some of your friends and ask if they can give you a hand and you'll toss some snacks/beer their way . | /r/askTRP | 30/11/14 02:57 PM |
| 16 | FR: Women are truly disgusted by Betas (and they cheat with Alphas)You're 100% right, numerous times have I see girls pull the boyfriend card as a shit test, it happened to me last Thursday (she asked me to go to her place, the "boyfriend" she mentioned earlier was non existent). Heck, once my own friend instantly told this dude she had a boyfriend upon his approach and he walked off with his tail between his legs. She's single. I couldn't help but laugh at it all. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 12:30 PM |
| 4 | FR: Women are truly disgusted by Betas (and they cheat with Alphas)4 days a week I hit the gym, 5-6 days a week (sometimes 7) I'm outside running. Despite having a job I find time somehow, it's always beach bod season! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 12:24 PM |
| 13 | Unrealistic Expectations of Women?These women are lazy, they want to lower the bar instead of work for results. These are the same women who feel entitled to muscular, well-built men. They don't realize that takes a guy weeks-months of gym time and constant diet to achieve those results. But instead of ranting behind a keyboard TRP, how can we change this? Well, if you're a healthy weight then don't settle for overweight girls or girls who don't put any effort in themselves. They get by because people accept this behavior, heck … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 12:14 PM |
| 51 | FR: Women are truly disgusted by Betas (and they cheat with Alphas)If a girl I'm gaming (touching, kissing, in my bed) waits too long to mention she has a boyfriend then in my mind she's fair game. A girl who really loves and enjoys her boyfriend will let you know early in the interaction of his "existence" (real or imaginary). | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 12:03 PM |
| 10 | FR: Women are truly disgusted by Betas (and they cheat with Alphas)showering every day is overkill and unnecessary: Working out 5-6 times a week makes it necessary man | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 11:57 AM |
| 2 | TRP's take on gaming high school girls as a college-aged guy? (nothing illegal, of course)I know you're trying to be funny, but he's 20, some of them are 17/18.. That's his age! | /r/askTRP | 30/11/14 11:51 AM |
| 1 | My reputation is going downhill because of woman troubles. Some advice would be awesomeTell your good friends the truth and have them help you protect your name. Graduate from high school and cut contact with all the useless HS acquaintances (even social media) and this shit will be an afterthought. The great thing about college is that unless you go to a place close to home, you can forge a new identity and be almost anyone you want. being considered that fat nerd who wears glasses and reads comic books. Doesn't necessarily help you for this scenario but start dieting and exercis… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/14 11:47 AM |
| 3 | "I only get guys i consider below me, i don't get guys my own tier or above"Are you trying to game this girl and she used it as a shit test? Regardless here's 3 easy things you could've done: Agree and amplify + sarcasm ...I don't get guys my own tier or above "I know right, it's the same thing with me! EVERY girl that talks to me is way below my standards." (Make it apparent you were referring to her with eye contact and a smirk) Aloofness ...I don't get guys my own tier or above "Oh, what makes you consider that/so special?" Don't take her seriously ...I don't get guy… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/14 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason why some of the sluttiest girls I know post the most inspirational quotes on Facebook all the time?They want to realign the beta orbiters, or they simply want attention. Maybe posting inspirational quotes makes her feel smarter (cognitively it offsets the slut within). | /r/askTRP | 30/11/14 10:27 AM |
| 22 | [AF/BB] Guy reads what his girl really thinks of him [r/relationships]Those sluts don't want their BB boyfriends to know they settled, it can ruin the easy life they did nothing to earn. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Guy finds out that his wife cheated on him, yet forgives her, but then finds out that she is pregnant.they are white. she bare backed it with a black man. he was going to find out... I disagree, not all birracial children have tan skin some of them turn out white and you wouldn't even know. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Should i bother going to bars alone?wow that's lame I never get that cause I simply say "my friends are on their way." OR "I'm new to this town." (which I am). If you mack a girl for a while and she re-questions where your friends are you say "they bailed on me," or "they went to another bar." Usually when I enter a bar I chat with a few dudes also to up my social proof, so sometimes I'll point towards them and say they're my buddies. You'll be surprised, I can shoot the shit with a dude for 15 minutes and he'll affirm I've known … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 12:14 PM |
| 10 | Asking girlfriend for nudesI'm not sure why you replied to my comment though, it seems irrelevant. I tell OP to not ask her for nudes but initiate that sort of stuff and you go off something else. if you dont see your girl for 3 wks and you are exclusive she sends you nudes. Period. My girlfriend goes off somewhere for a month and I don't get a nude from her, I don't get insecure about it. You're overestimating how important nudes are, and once again my original statement stands, they aren't a gross sign of affection. Per… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 03:55 AM |
| -1 | When is being beta fine in a relationship? I showed some betaness and wanted to know if it was the right move.Honestly I think you did the wrong move. Now, I understand 100% why you did it, but let me explain. She said that when I do things like tease her and joke about leaving her it made her really sad. This girl should be happy that you have a bunch of girls out there to be with and you're sticking with HER, you're committed at least enough for her to be your girlfriend. Its not your job to comfort her in such a manner and lower your own standing by doing it. Girls who have boyfriends simply to raise… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 03:09 AM |
| 2 | My oneitis is starting to itcitch againIn your story you say you initiated the breakup, so in this case you have all (if not most) of the power. Interact with her during the holidays when you must, don't overdo it. Don't get attached. Your life has changed for the better since you were with her, just let it show in the way you act around your friends. She still makes me weak. Nothing good comes from oneitis man, what will you gain by chasing this girl? Is it really worth it? Assess everything and then execute your plan, if you're goi… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 03:01 AM |
| 12 | Asking girlfriend for nudesshe'd normally just send them my way or initiate it all the time Well how about you initiate this time? Don't fucking ask her for them, that's not sexy at all. Just sext her normally and start the conversation the same way she would; it's your gf you know what turns her on more than I do. My long distance ex never sent me nudes, yet we fucked like bunnies every time we met. You may be falsely associating nudes with affection. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 02:52 AM |
| 1 | A girl I've been sleeping with for a week is friends with a ton of celebrities. I feel inadaquate. She's in town one more night, need to spark more interest quick!Good luck, just stay chill dude. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 02:48 AM |
| 2 | I need some no bullshit advice about baldingI have too much debt and responsibility to travel around the world for stories to tell on first dates. You don't travel for the stories, you travel for the experience of a new culture and world around you. I speak several languages so I travel to speak with natives! Likewise Beruit, Lebanon certainly has a different vibe than what I see here in Lyon, France. New York City, London, or even Rio in Brazil - each city and place outside of that has molded me a bit. I understand that you have responsi… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Been here for a while, game still sucks, need help.I heard smiling alot hurts my chances so am I only supposed to make batman smirks? Just don't look like a goon and smile at everything/laugh at jokes you honestly don't find funny. Girls like a dark and mysterious man but they also like a guy that can smile and have fun once in a while too. Denying attention to attractive girls is key, good job. But you still have to put a little chase into it. Your body posture seems fine, remember to always stand straight. Honestly maybe you're shooting yourse… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 11:35 PM |
| 2 | A girl I've been sleeping with for a week is friends with a ton of celebrities. I feel inadaquate. She's in town one more night, need to spark more interest quick!Help! What do I text her to ask her out tonight? Depends on what you want to do - tell us an activity and we can help you further. Fuck man, just ask her to come to your place for dinner and a movie (if your place is in decent shape). And what should I do to leave a huge impression? Fuck her right in the pussy, hard. I feel inadequate I feel like this is the biggest problem. If you're worried about who she's around then you're going to mess up your game. Live and let live, sometimes plates fall … | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Got their number 5 weeks ago, never texted them. What do you think of this text?To be fair, you're texting girls from 5 weeks ago so I'd say you'd probably only going to re-hook around 1 out of 10. But good job, you have one more date now than you would've had beforehand! | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Got their number 5 weeks ago, never texted them. What do you think of this text?That works and it saves you time down the road. The only thing is that now I get random numbers calling my phone when before, at least there would be a name like "Emily XYZ".. I tend to block the crazy bitches and delete the flakes' numbers instantly. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 11:20 PM |
| 15 | game changes as you ageLook at Hugh Hefner, he's always smiling like a little kid. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Brother in law gets thrown in jail based on accusations from his ex wife about touching his daughter. Need help!From OP's story, it's not a daughter but a son. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 04:05 PM |
| 16 | /r/relationships - Convincing yourself that the truth isn't the truth and having no self respectWomen will make up with their lack of physical strength through emotional/mental attacks. It's working on this dude, it's destroying him from the inside. Lawyer up, divorce papers, tell her fucking family she's a cheating whore then peace the fuck out. Start finding other significant others if it makes you feel better. Just get that crazy bitch out of your life, she isn't worth the stress, she isn't worth the bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 04:03 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about music?Oh, then you could've said that in your initial question!! I like listening to any type of pump-up music. However even better than music is if you search "Patrice o'Neal" on YouTube, and listen to the audio of his old radio shows/interviews. The video lengths vary, they're entertaining and are filled with TRP truth so it may be more beneficial for you than plain ole music. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 03:52 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about music?This question is BS, but I'll throw you a bone. What do you think about music? The best music is anything you can pull a girl close to and dance with her, your faces touch and you lay a kiss on her lips, you keep your head in close and wait. She lets 4 seconds slip by, then her lips open up again and you start making out. Game over. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Is it easy to change a fatty?You're an idiot. As a 3rd party, your comment would hold more weight if you forgo the name calling. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 03:14 PM |
| 2 | My work colleague likes me, but I'm unsure it's in a romantic way. What do?I skimmed your post, read the words "colleague" and "boyfriend" and already determined you're wasting your time thinking about this girl. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 03:12 PM |
| 6 | News: Hedge-Fund Tycoon Hohn’s Wife Gets $530 Million Divorce PayoutThis infuriates me. Let me be honest - no matter how much money this guy has she can easily be well off with 2 million, no THREE million pounds and be a happy. That's a shit ton of money, sure her quality of life will decrease BUT ultimately she's deciding she wants to leave. She doesn't merit free money, 530 million.. WHAT? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 01:38 PM |
| 4 | is snap fitness worth it?If you just want a gym with decent hours, tons of machines and you don't really care for classes, personal training, saunas, etc, then I'd say $20-40 is an acceptable price for a gym membership. In some large cities you can't really find a decent place until you hit the $50/60 a month range. Now I know everybody's income is different but there are great gyms out there for way cheaper, so do a little window shopping first. I believe that going to a gym will warrant better results (faster) than do… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 01:19 PM |
| 6 | Is it easy to change a fatty?Don't do it bro, you'll be wasting your time. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/14 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Age in a PartnerNot to mention this is only a "prospect" it's not even a girl he's seeing and is getting flack for it. He may try to date her and she blows him out of the water. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/14 07:45 PM |
| 18 | Guy's fiancee starts hanging out with another guy and admits that she's more attracted to him. AskMen's advice: don't break up, stay with her! She's just confused and exploring her feelings!force your party line. We don't have a party line, we're just sensible dudes who knows that this poor chump is getting played by his gf of 9 years. What party line? Our opinion = a party? stop brigading /r/askmen We link the archived post here so we can view it without having to go to askmen. I don't go there and I'm sure most of my fellow TRP'rs are too lazy to even care about it. However, WE ARE men too, so in theory those posters are asking us questions just as much as they're asking you. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/14 07:40 PM |
| 55 | Guy's fiancee starts hanging out with another guy and admits that she's more attracted to him. AskMen's advice: don't break up, stay with her! She's just confused and exploring her feelings!It's like going into the car dealership for 90 days straight to test-drive the same vehicle before buying it. On the 90th day he realizes there's a faulty transmission, but buys it anyways. *Edited the analogy. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/14 07:31 PM |
| 146 | Be the caveman that she wantsCavemen also didn't piss their pants thinking about what to text a girl or whether or not his oneitis liked him or not. They were to busy hunting, building shit, and creating the next generation of humans. Overall, your post is pretty straightforward and refreshing. "[It's] so easy, a caveman can do it." | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Love is conditional proof – Mona Dotcom leaves Kim DotcomI remember seeing a 60-minutes documentary on this guy, I thought he was badass because of how cool his estate was and the fact that the government raided his place. He did some great interviews. Unfortunately the good life is vanishing and that's what happens when people with guns (government) blatantly thinks you're cheating the system (because there are people who cheat the system, however they don't flaunt it). | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Still on the edge? Social media is probably why.Not that this leads to an LTR or anything beyond a ONS if even that, but still. Yeah, I agree fuck future plans with that. I don't even like her anymore, she's hot but I've found hotter girls who have half the emotional baggage and 10x less shit tests. If she starts contacting me more (which she certainly will), I'll probably ignore it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Life after College; On forming FriendshipsGo to a different bar or club every Friday and Saturday night and just work the scene - meeting everybody through small talk (getting more intimate if the interaction allows). I've met a few new people this way and then I met their friends too after hanging out with them for a while. It literally pays dividends. Meeting someone new is (usually) a great feeling. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Fat chick on TwoX gets furious because her boyfriend doesn't want to marry her while she's obese.Don't even give fat chicks the time of day, I look right past them and just know they're eyeing down my large biceps. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 02:59 PM |
| 15 | Still on the edge? Social media is probably why.About a year ago I used to be a beta orbiter for this girl on Facebook - I would like her shit and occasionally comment. I stopped that, in fact I stopped liking things or commenting on stuff in general. I simply go on Facebook a few minutes a week to comb through any notifications, or if I want to send a private message to somebody. I only upload a 1 awesome photo once in a blue moon as opposed to 16 pics at a time. I ran into the girl I detached from orbit and she said, "you don't go on Facebo… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 02:41 PM |
| 9 | "I'll be your nemesis" - an inspirational text found on the seduction redditI just went to the gym today and this post makes me want to go back. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 02:02 PM |
| 1 | I got my excel sheet going for Monk Mode from the Manifesto. Any have any suggestions on how to improve it?I'm going to set something similar up except change the some of the categories. Is there a number of points you'd consider to be worth a "good day" versus a "great day"? For instance only doing 9 things out of the 20 means you pretty much sucked but 16/20 - ohh yeah. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/14 09:56 PM |
| 5 | So theres a new "Tinder" app out, called Bumble. It's pretty fucking sexist.The thing is for every guy that does that [never respond], there will be 50, no 100 guys that the girl won't even message. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Let's do an autopsy on a big fail.You sexed this woman up twice and you call it a "big fail"? Is this because you secretly wanted more from this relationship? Sure it was a bit rocky in the middle of the story but you already acknowledged that, I think you honestly know how to improve your situation. Keep losing the weight and building muscle (30lbs is great, keep at it), continue not giving a shit and don't worry if she didn't respond - give her a day, two days, don't get in touch until she breaks contact, and since she likes y… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/14 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How to balance approach and intentSo approaching girls? Showing intent? Don't worry about it, I find that if you approach a girl with confidence, look sharp, a smile on your face and a bold attitude then it doesn't matter what the content is about. How many guys just shyly oogle a girl from afar and wish they went and talked to her? How many other guys actually go up to a group of girls outnumbering them 6-to-one, smile, shake their hands/introduce themselves and bring the party attitude with them. Don't approach girls and then … | /r/askTRP | 22/11/14 04:20 AM |
| 17 | So, I told the girl I started dating that we don't have sex enough...While I agree it's good that he got her out of his life your response was exactly was I was looking for. You don't just fucking tell a girl "I want more sex..." you first make her want to fuck your brains out. You know how many times a TRP story comes along - the husband uses dread game or the boyfriend goes no contact for a while and you have the girl banging him everyday for weeks. If you have get pity sex because it's too infrequent then you're better off looking elsewhere especially in an ex… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/14 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis - why can't it be a goal?Oneitis isn't liking a girl enough that you'll consider her as LTR material - it's being obsessed about her. Nothing good comes from that mindset because you inadvertently give her all the power (which sets you up for failure or a bad relationship). I hope that was both succinct and clear, I could go on... | /r/askTRP | 21/11/14 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Help on asking girls out.Don't just take our word for it - you have 7 lines, use each one on 3 girls and see which one works the best. Of course it's not a real experiment in any sense, but I think we've entered the realm of nit picking with all these subtle variations. I like #4 and #2, but honestly I could probably get away with any of those in person. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/14 07:32 PM |
| 2 | /r/relationships is such a huge eye openerEverybody knows you'll find bullshit on r/relationships and 2x, it's like typing a reddit post to say your crap was brown | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 04:48 PM |
| 17 | Yet another classic example of Beta Bucks...the long con.I started out claiming that I would only get married to have kids. Now that is off the table. Because women and society use them as bargaining chips to force you into submission. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/14 12:10 AM |
| 4 | 2 girls 1 guyThem and their boyfriends aren't even threatened by coming over, they know you won't make a move. For me, "movie night" most definitely means "sexy time", so if it happens more than once (movie = no sex) then they get comfortable. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/14 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Woman from Norway sentenced to pay $50.000 for false rape accusations, after the man recorded their whole date.Or get a little hidden mic and attach it to yourself discreetly | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Different Approach/Tips for Older Girls?You need to reduce their perceived value, the easiest way is to use their age against them, women take their age very seriously. Halfway through the date when there's a lot of laughing etc, make a small comment "wow older women do know/really know how to have fun" or any variation of the statement. Laugh at any butthurt (if there is any) and then you'll notice that she'll spend the rest of the evening trying to prove that she is "fun" regardless of her age. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/14 10:01 AM |
| 22 | "I need a break from you.""I need a break from you" "Oh thank god" (smile, leave, go game other women) "I need a break from you." "Go buy a Kit-Kat bar." (This one is just me being funny) "I need a break from you." "Alright." (Leave, radio silence, forget about her unless she breaks contact) | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Hookup requests from women on dating sitesI fail to see the "cringeworthy" portions | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Did I get friendzoned?The hell just happened?I don't know why that specific order of words made me laugh so hard | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Women react to being photoshopped into cover models - and then complain againThey can't easily look like their dream selves . So they try to tear those ideals down. It's all about self-esteem and feelz being hurt. When women don't achieve this, they bitch and moan (bitches "bitch" about stuff 24/7 anyways, so the term makes sense). When a man isn't his ideal self he strives to become it. Good post highlighting the hypocrisy. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Want to see a newspaper editorial complaining that men DON'T catcall?Remember homeless guys of NYC, check your privileges. /s/ They're too busy trying to snag poon to even give a shit.. I wonder how many of them even know they were in the video. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 02:38 PM |
| 54 | Article: "I have shagged over 100 blokes but I’m not a slut"Woman with average paycheck = strong, independent, self-made woman Man with average paycheck = loser | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 02:30 PM |
| 12 | Article: "I have shagged over 100 blokes but I’m not a slut"Most men earn sex because their SMV is high enough or they have good game. Women merited nothing from spreading their legs open. That's the difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Guide to ConfidenceTrue. But if a girl perceives you as a low SMV guy then almost any action that tries to get in her pants will be viewed as "creepy" regardless of the actual content. Think about it this way, "if Brad Pitt did the same thing, would he be labelled as a creep?" Confidence circumvents creepiness. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 12:32 PM |
| 1 | What do girls mean when they say "I have to go X, but I'll back"?Well do they come back? Something about this question leads me to believe they don't... | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Where is the frontier between approaching and chasing?Hey, you didn't get any responses so I'll chime in. These two words have similar if not identical meanings but the connotations are slightly different. Approaching is fine, you need to approach women, try to game them, get their number, ask them on dates, etc.. Chasing, however, is more negatively seen as doing anything and everything you can to get a specific girl. She'll friend zone you and turn you into an orbiter and you'll still be there trying to chase and hope she comes around to her sens… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Emergency button! Mother brings up strong points about why I need to think about children.Exactly. I told my mother that I didn't think I wanted kids and she lost it, she started calling me "selfish" etc... Clearly she wants to be a grandmother, and her voicing her opinion comes from a position of selfishness rather than my own needs in life. I'm sorry, I want to enjoy life and not spend half a million dollars or more on raising 2 brats. This entire conversation was hypothetical though, I'm still on the fence and too young to even care really, but it just goes to show you her thought… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Labelling women as skanksI'm in my early 20's and I've slept with 10+ women, the difference being that I didn't lose my virginity until 20. For me girls with a high count pose 2 problems: More partners = higher risks of STD's. Almost the easiest way of prevention is said over and over again, limit your partners and remain in monogamous relationships. I'm not going to go in s tangent about this but this is reason #1. Likewise I'm going to go school to become a doctor. A girl with a high count who's nearing her 30's screa… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Labelling women as skankswhy do you need to explain it? Because this is asktrp and the best answers usually are accompanied with an explanation | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 02:48 AM |
| 24 | r/twoxchromosome thread - "I have a fear that my sexual history will come back to haunt me" GENTLE BE WARNEDAfter being in the dating scene for a while, a girl can EASILY sleep with a guy that's 2-3 notches above her SMV. If she's a 7, high value men may sleep with her. If she's a 5, she can still bang a great looking 8 who needs a cum towel for the night. The same isn't true for guys, I see decent 6-7 men wasting their time on low value girls! A girl can go out on any given night and have sex with a decent guy if she so pleases, but for a good part of guys this isn't the case. If a dude is really des… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Science tells us what we already know. Men Age Like Wine. Women Age Like Milk.Thanks I'll look for his YouTube stuff and maybe even send him a nice email. However, did he close up shop due to death threats and feminist attacks? Dealing with worked up women as much as he does is probably very taxing on the mind and body. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 12:35 AM |
| 4 | UPDATE: My super Beta best friendRight, she's almost 30 and after a 7 year relationship you've probably come to terms that this guy will likely become your son-in-law. Hell, I'm in my early 20's and my parents asked me once or twice if I want kids! Being pressured to get married and having kids (only) to satisfy your mom and dad is a bad decision. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 12:30 AM |
| 16 | Science tells us what we already know. Men Age Like Wine. Women Age Like Milk.Legend has it, she's still crying to this day. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 11:00 PM |
| 15 | Science tells us what we already know. Men Age Like Wine. Women Age Like Milk.WHO IS THIS MAN AMD HOW CAN I THROW MONEY AT HIM? Perfect frame, burned those women on multiple counts and spoke nothing but truth. I found myself laughing out loud, the FOX news audience in the background only making it sting more with the "oohhhhhh!!'s" during the burns. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 10:57 PM |
| 11 | r/twoxchromosome thread - "I have a fear that my sexual history will come back to haunt me" GENTLE BE WARNEDDude well said, admittedly, LMR and all these other shit tests are girls just trying to outwardly show that they aren't sluts. Let's be honest, her telling me "we're not having sex tonight" while I'm in the process of fingering her after the first date doesn't convince me. Five minutes later she's begging you to stick it in her... She thinks that the reason all these other alphas didn't stick around was because she was too easy to dish out sex. Probably. But in reality it's probably a whole slew… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 10:42 PM |
| 20 | UPDATE: My super Beta best friendHow would you act if you were this girl's dad? Admittedly, I'm not sure... Am I a failure for letting my daughter become a tantrum-filled entitled cunt? Or am I simply looking out for her best interests because this "John" fellow is loaded and my daughter would have a good life. Isn't that what parenting is about, trying to give your kids knowledge and wish that they live a prosperous life? No doubt, the mom/daughter probably had a lot of influence but left it to the man to call and be the voice… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 10:29 PM |
| 8 | UPDATE: My super Beta best friendMaybe she thinks that a "sorry text" will prevent him from seeking money in court, I'd be pissed if some girl dented or scratched my Mercedes door and in turn I had to pay for her bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 10:25 PM |
| 16 | r/twoxchromosome thread - "I have a fear that my sexual history will come back to haunt me" GENTLE BE WARNEDIf she gives you a low number and there's no history of long term, serious relationships then chances are she's a liar. And do you want to date/marry a liar? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 09:30 PM |
| 22 | r/twoxchromosome thread - "I have a fear that my sexual history will come back to haunt me" GENTLE BE WARNEDwhat are you a virgin or something Even better, when girls ask: "Are you a PLAYER?" This should be a red flag, it shows you that she's trying to shame you about being promiscuous because in turn she has been so too. Typically I'll have 4 times less sexual partners than her (minimum) and I had to put effort into getting them (unlike her). | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 09:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Curious what a bad FR looks like? Here you goI fail to see why that comment is directed at me, did you mean to respond to the guy above me?.. Patrice O'Neal doesn't call girls bitches because they act as such - he calls them bitches as a STANDARD term! I personally don't use the word much which is why I used a known TRP person. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 04:51 PM |
| -2 | Let death set you free from your fears.The more changes man makes, the further from God's word we get. Because "God" wrote and mass reproduced the bible, not a bunch of men... Riiiggghhhttt. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 08:43 AM |
| 9 | the end of casual sexBut he could erase those weeks of neglect with one evening of being attentive, earnest and present. Nothing matters more to women than your attention and commitment - why do you think this girl kept coming back? She saw this alpha comedian and knew he was fucking other girls (sex injuries, texting others, "disappearing acts"); she wanted to make him HER'S, she wanted to tame the beast. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 08:24 AM |
| 5 | Factors that effect divorce rate. People with low IQs should not get married.Factors that effect affect divorce rate This post calls out those with low IQ's, yet ironically, the title has a typo... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 12:14 AM |
| 24 | Women do not give a fuck about your "feelings".Stoic: noun a person who can endure pain or hardship without showing their feelings or complaining Dude the fucking post just said, don't dwell on your feelings - TAKE ACTION. Likewise we aren't saying don't talk to anyone about your feelings - just DON'T talk to WOMEN (especially those you are having sex with/want to). Nothing good comes out of telling them your insecurities, being a bitch, etc - nothing. I once "vented" with this girl about a myriad of pussy drying topics, thinking that openin… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 10:55 PM |
| 3 | TIME goes full damage control mode for including "feminist" in their "list of the words that should be banned"What's better, that TIME included the word or that it was voted to the top by internet users?That's right, "feminist" is more annoying than the words "bae", "turnt" or "kale". What's even better than the TIME poll is Washington post's reply to said poll (emphasis mine below): I keep trying to imagine a universe in which too many public figures declaring themselves feminists would be a bad thing. This would have to be a universe where “the issues,” as the poll vaguely mentions, no longer exist — … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 10:41 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Curious what a bad FR looks like? Here you goWhile I agree with your point that this girl is irrelevant, calling a girl a bitch ≠ being angry. If you listen to Patrice O'Neal, he shamelessly called women bitches, even the guests on his show. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 09:43 PM |
| 4 | RSD Julien gets schooled by CNNHe should've asked the reporters some questions, such as why less than 1% of his content is being scrutinized | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 09:35 PM |
| 0 | RSD Julien gets schooled by CNNI may consider giving them cash just to show my support of their cause.. Fuck yeah RSD helps people seduce women to an extent ALTHOUGH you can bet that more women will be browsing the pickup community to spot what men are doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Still don't believe AWALT/AMALT?"Your honor, may the record reflect that the defense is a bunch of misogynists." "Overruled." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Should gamma males filter trp's advice?I know a few gammas in my life and you're right to an extent - these dudes have little to no experience with women and the idea of "nexting" a girl seems ultimately ABSURD. My one childhood friend is a fat, basement dwelling dude within decent job and no girls. Never had a gf and I'd bet $100 he's still s virgin. Reading about what betas do would be useless, but overall to improve himself he needs to lose the weight and ditch the video games. He needs to seek out more women and get rejected over… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 08:42 PM |
| 4 | What do you do when you catch her little lies?First it starts with the little stuff, then she'll lie about more and more serious things. Habitual lying develops if its success rate is higher than being truthful. Eventually you'll find yourself in a relationship and you can't even trust your significant other - you get paranoid and she makes you look foolish when you question her. In reality, she's actually fucking the alpha next door and making you look like a chump for even suspecting it. This scenario comes up on Reddit a few times. Stop … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Texting advice?Not bad, but I think this would've been better: "Hey it's ____, you gave me your number at school. Meet me for XYZ tomorrow at 10." Keep your messages as short and succinct as possible WHILE using good grammar. Grammar sets you apart from the other boys who try to hit on her AND you look more intelligent when speaking in full sentences anyways. You don't have to spell out what you're going to do on a date, and nothing prevents you from changing up the plans or doing stuff afterwards - but I find… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 03:56 PM |
| 1 | 18 year old male guy, new to TRP. Any suggestions on how to make myself better?I agree, I mentioned lifting weights - it's the video link. However when I need to cut down on excess body fat, I run, I personally love doing it but I know it's not for everyone. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 03:47 PM |
| 10 | How is it really like being a single male in your 30s?It's horrible because they make it seem as though you're missing out on stuff, and then they spend more time with their wife rather than hang out with the bros. Lastly, it's harder to coordinate get togethers. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 03:37 PM |
| 5 | How is it really like being a single male in your 30s?I thought the second part was assumed... | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 03:35 PM |
| 10 | "Baby it's cold outside" is the perfect red pill Christmas song [RP Theory]"He's right it's cold outside, I guess I'm not a slut if I stay heheee" | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Texting advice?How long did she not reply for? Was this 5 minutes and you're panicking already or has it been 2-3 days? It sounds like you didn't build enough rapport/attraction during the initial interaction. But I'm curious what your texting skills are like. How did you "attempt to make plans with her? Did you say stuff like this: "Hey [name], this is ____, I'm going to [insert location/event/awesomeness here] Thursday night, you should come." (Good) and this: "Meet me for lunch/coffee Wednesday at noon." (G… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 12:46 AM |
| 3 | 18 year old male guy, new to TRP. Any suggestions on how to make myself better?What do the Red Pillers suggest for a guy like me. What we suggest to all newbies: read the sidebar, go to the main sub /r/TRP and read/absorb the posts like a sponge for a month or two. Improve your SMV (social market value). GO SIGN UP FOR A GYM TOMORROW, no excuses. Start running and start eating a healthy diet. I started out by following these guys' program for 12 weeks on YouTube and continued to run 35-40 miles per week. Getting buff is great for my health and people started taking notice … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Is mgtow psychologically fulfilling?If you're swallowing the pill you don't necessarily have to be MGTOW. I consider them the more hardcore & elite motherf***ers - I aspire to be MGTOW and maybe I'll ultimately decide once my monk mode has been fulfilled. I still wonder if I can stop looking for that motherly, nurturing love. Bro, look for what makes you happy in life just don't get trampled like a doormat in the process. The dudes that look towards their wife for everything are the ones who get fucked in the end (and not in the g… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Only Socially Successful With MenUse the fact that you make guy friends to your advantage. Guys have girls who are friends with them and besides if you make a few bro friends to hang out with as the night goes on you loosen up and care less about girls. This results in you having more fun & attracting more female attention in the long run. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Would TRP advice work for a butch lesbian?It probably would be beneficial to her to some extent however I must mention 2 things: As with anybody trying to make their friend swallow the pill, when people live in the blue pill world sometimes they're hesitant to embrace TRP. You need to spoon feed her it in small doses and bring it up a bit in person - I tried to send my friend directly to the TRP Reddit site and he noped the fuck out of there and said "this isn't for me." even though he could benefit greatly from it. TRP is a guy's haven… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/14 12:09 AM |
| 2 | I have realized that I do not do anything that is not boring during my free time. What new things can I try?No lie, walking around Times Square these 2 girls asked me "can you take our picture?" I took their picture and somehow PINNED their accent instantly, I said "Est-ce que vous êtes françaises ?" and saw their little faces light up with delight as they said "Ouais ! But how did you know! [in French]".. I laughed it off and asked them what their plans were in New York, who they were with etc.. I then asked if they'd like to go have lunch with me in China Town and we spent the day together. Nothing … | /r/askTRP | 16/11/14 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Quit my Job last night, and it felt amazing.Kind of. I finished college and I am applying for medical schools, the 2015 cycle. Currently I'm doing a lot of freelance work and I'm actually in France right now working a fun gig until the spring :p | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 05:22 PM |
| 11 | Quit my Job last night, and it felt amazing.It wasn't necessarily seniority, there were some new hires who were older than me but got out of the night shift because they had a wife/family, I was just a kid. They figured all the kids wanted to work nights which wasn't the case AND when they hired me they said I'd have 1-2 night shifts per month, they didn't tell me I'd be a designated night shifter. Considering all those things and the fact that I was still a university student, I left. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 05:19 PM |
| 51 | Quit my Job last night, and it felt amazing.Those jobs can afford take advantage of younger workers, to them you're disposable and most of the time kids endure the bullshit because they need the cash. I used to work for an ambulance company as an EMT and they only seemed to schedule me for 12 hour shifts Friday or Saturday night from 6PM until 6AM (despite my schedule accommodating other times). None of the seasoned people wanted those times (obviously). It not only fucked with my schoolwork and social life, oftentimes the next day I'd be… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 03:32 PM |
| 3 | I have realized that I do not do anything that is not boring during my free time. What new things can I try?Learn a foreign language, message me if you want specific ways to learn French/Italian. Edit: I should've just been more straightforward with my post but when I originally wrote this, I didn't have time to elaborate. I go to France a lot so my French has developed out of sheer practice. If you want to teach yourself French or Italian than here are some resources you can use to get started. I would recommend making a DuoLingo account (Google it - it's free) and it's an easy way to practice a lang… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/14 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Woman are so superficial it sickens the fuck out of me.While I agree with most of everything you said, this is /r/askTRP and you didn't ask us anything. Yes girls are superficial and yes when they're online it's exacerbated. You have 4-5's in the dating world who are instantly 8's due to how many messages and compliments they get from thirsty men. I'm convinced some girls simply use online dating to get an ego boost "oh my look at all these men who want me - look at all my options!!" I'm very happy that you've walked out on those lying whores, but y… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | When a guy hits on your girlfriend/plateI've seen some little guys that can throw down. My friend is a small 5'5" dude but has done 10+ years of karate and then a myriad of other types of street fighting. His hand to hand skills are incredible, I've seen him take down dudes who towered over him - he's insane. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/14 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Learning GameI agree /r/seduction has more information than /r/trpgame and is a great replacement for just "gaming" girls. However not many people overtly agree with TRP's mantra and most users who ask questions sound like losers/nerds. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/14 12:20 PM |
| 1 | For the stubborn RPer's considering marriageI didn't tell my family that I'm not getting married yet because I know it's only going to cause an uproar. Fuck that shit, I don't need crazy/emotional women controlling my life and taking my hard earned money. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 11:27 AM |
| 1 | A word about asking questions in /r/askTRPI'm pretty sure most of the guys there have oneitis and are avoiding facing the inevitable fuckup their fuck ups. I find myself telling them how hey fucked up more than actually solving anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 08:08 PM |
| 166 | First there was "Feminism for Bros" now there is "Honest Deception"I [26F] asked my boyfriend [27M] of five years to consider an open relationship. He broke up with me and I'm heartbroken and going insane. She asked her attractive/intelligent boyfriend with a secure job, great family, supportive nature, and great sex life if he'd be interested in having sex with other people. The DUDE LEAVES and CUTS ALL CONTACT. Beautiful - beautiful!! Brought a tear to me eye. Her hamstering kicks in: He's very good in bed but I just wanted to have some other experiences - is… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Guys: We're making headways!!!! NYC D.A. clears Man for Slapping a Ho in Self-Defense.And there's no video evidence to prove his innocence... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Guys: We're making headways!!!! NYC D.A. clears Man for Slapping a Ho in Self-Defense.4 days is way too many, but they probably wanted to consider the myriad of eye witness accounts and maybe the video wasn't provided to them until later. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 11:53 AM |
| 2 | We Land on a Goddamn Comet - Women Care More About ShirtsBertha Lovejoy (i.e. the charicature that pokes fun at feminists) is on our side. Exactly, I just with "Bertha" was more overt about the satire.. some of the lastest stuff I read by "her" seemed serious and I would've taken it as such had I not previously known that it was a troll account. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 11:37 AM |
| -1 | We Land on a Goddamn Comet - Women Care More About ShirtsShe is an American commenting on a guy from Europe who wears that because their culture doesn't care. Just like how Europeans comment on things within our culture because OUR culture doesn't care? I under the rest of your comment but you know why this article was published - clickbait and money. Let's not forget that. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 11:34 AM |
| 7 | Plates hooking up with other men?It's safer, you last longer, you reduce the risk of pregnancy AND you don't get as attached to her compared to when you fuck her raw. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Typical QuestionsMan, where to even begin with this one.... no friends or acquaintances the entire time Make some fucking friends, you're not going to meet people or sharpen your social skills by being alone all the time never been to club or bar .... Where do I meet girls if I have no friends? This assumes you need to have friends to meet girls which in fact is irrelevant. You can meet girls anywhere, on the street, at the bars/clubs you've never been to, even in your uni or workplace. Likewise people now meet … | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 11:17 AM |
| 2 | I am virgin by choice, whats your opinion about it and why?I am [a] virgin by choice, what[']s your opinion about it and why? Why do you need our opinions about it? Okay, well since you asked: ".... THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING?" "I want to marry a virgin" - good luck finding one. 99% chance you'll find a girl worth marrying and she won't be a virgin. Then what will you do smart guy? WITH every year that passes, she gets older, and it becomes less and less likely that she's a virgin. I guarantee that if you continue like this you you'll end up settling for a … | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 11:01 AM |
| 4 | Updated /relationships thread - Wife close friends with "Fit Guy" confirmed to be cheating. My take away from this is if your LTR/wife is constantly hanging out with another guy and texting him you should be suspicious, and it's not "controlling" if you decide not to put up with it.I shortened the quote to cut down on my comment length. I wasn't trying to call that person out but rather go along with her and fault the wife for being selfish. The man says he still loves his wife, so to her, he's thinking about himself and his feelings first. You're right, he loves her so much even though she devastated him. His life will never be the same, he'll be forever scarred from this event. He'll second guess whether or not his wife is lying to him. Really he needs to be less forgivi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Help me not mess this updemand she hand me her phone unlocked so that I can review all messages that have been sent to discover if she has cheated. Can you contact the phone provider and get a statement of inbound + outbound calls? Honestly you're going through too much trouble, being paranoid about the security of your relationship isn't healthy. Relationships are built off of trust and your wife is doing some strange things which make it hard to trust her. went from her divorcing me to getting it on. It had been over… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Can't delete onitis pictures due to betaness.remind myself that I was worth that sort of attention and loyalty from a Gal and I can have it again if I want it. Exactly! The first time I went on top of the Empire State building I was with my EX, we toured Miami together, and I travelled across ALL of northern Italy with her (she lives in Italy). Even though I have zero contact with her and zero desire to be with her, it's still badass to look back at all the pictures and see all the cool places I've done. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 09:56 PM |
| 1 | According to BBC, the Ministry of External Relations says RSD Julien Blanc will be denied entry in BrazilI'm calling it - Julien gets banned from 10+ countries like a criminal despite the fact that he didn't actually commit any crimes. Worse, he's missing out on all those hot Brazilians... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 09:44 PM |
| 65 | Updated /relationships thread - Wife close friends with "Fit Guy" confirmed to be cheating. My take away from this is if your LTR/wife is constantly hanging out with another guy and texting him you should be suspicious, and it's not "controlling" if you decide not to put up with it.Two of the comments in the updated post: I'm so so sorry this happened to you. But you need to think about what's best for the kids, not you. Because his wife certainly thought about what's best for the kids when she willingly cheated on her spouse behind his back. She lied to him a month earlier about the relationship and WAS CAUGHT redhanded - she did not confess. We all know divorce negatively affects the man anyways, it's a lose/lose for this poor blue piller because I think he's choosing to… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend and I agreed to a break. I regretted it very quickly, what do I do?Dude she's being a bitch but really (I know this hurts for you) you need to stop texting her about EVERYTHING. If she texts you - keep it as concise as possible. GO OUT THERE AND TRY TO FIND OTHER GIRLS or hang out with your guy friends. Don't give her attention. And when she pulls the BS: "I'm rejecting so many dudes!!" you just don't even acknowledge it or agree and amplify "OMG, me too!!" | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Can you explain to me why this is true?I believe OP got this quote from a TRP video I listened to just yesterday. To make things more clear the speaker was saying that in society (movies, TV shows, books) all the romantic feelings revolve around the girl, but in reality it's the guy who over fantasizes everything (as you've previously stated). | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Shy girl?This here, if OP sexed this girl up and gave her the attention she missed, it's a recipe for disaster. He'll impact her life so much that she won't want to let go. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 04:36 PM |
| 62 | Can't delete onitis pictures due to betaness.Don't delete them and here's why: 10 years down the road you'll want to see photos of you when you're young and happy; honestly you won't give a fuck about her emotionally anyways. It'll be cool to look upon your past, show your kids some of the people you dated, and overall rekindle memories of your life (the good and the bad). My advice is to delete it off of facebook or other places where you frequent often, move all of them to a folder on your computer or a usb/falshdrive and forget about it… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How important is it to not schedule something with a girl on Friday or Saturday?That's what I thought the reasoning was - friday and saturday you're too busy with other people and previous plans so you keep plates to the week. Besides we all know they don't do worthwhile or fun shit during the week so they'll remember your interaction more. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 04:31 PM |
| 2 | She stood me up, now what?OMG, I want to see you right now Wait, she didn't want to fuck then and there? So, I waited... one hour, two hours... After 15-30 minutes without any update on if she's on her way, there's no way in hell I'd still be there. What the fuck does "little late" even mean, she purposely just blew you off, you can tell after waiting for her for two hours. "Hi!, I'm sorry because yesterday I had an Emergency so I couldn't wait for you... plus, my cellphone battery went out and I wasn't able to receive y… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 04:22 PM |
| 2 | My FWB of five years wants to have a baby.If you follow through, you're current LTR will get revenge in the end. Some way, somehow, she's planning your demise. I would watch your back as long as you're dating her. If you're with her 10 years from now, this shit may blow up in your face. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/14 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Being ugly is so discouraging..I'm not going to sit here and lie to you that being "ugly" won't hold you back because there are external factors outside of your control. BUT being ugly will hold you back less if you change your mindset. Focus on what you can fix and change with your life. Even the ugly HS football players got poon, let that sink in for a moment. If your status, confidence and game outweigh your looks then that's what girls will roll with. Go lift at a gym (and take it seriously), go run, and do productive act… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 04:06 PM |
| 2 | American Women Vs. Everyone elseA lot of women that would otherwise be attractive have ruined their looks due to poor dietary and lifestyle choices To make matters worse, there's now "Fat acceptance" movement which further desensitizes us Americans to what is "fat". The people who are overweight today would've been lard asses a half century ago. Fat girls (who could be 7's or 8's if they lost weight) want to force us to look at them as if they're ATTRACTIVE. Instead of changing themselves (the hard way) they'll bitch and moan … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 03:55 PM |
| 3 | 100+ Studies On Women ALL Men Need To See (2 Videos)So it's you who made these videos.. I listened to some of your other stuff today while on the bus/walking around town. I found myself nodding and smiling like a goon at statements which I felt were not only true, but put into words very nicely. If TRP had a physical "voice", it would resemble some of your work. My only critiques would be to go a bit lighter on the TRP terminology and I always thought that PUA (pick up art/artists) was denoted as each letter: "P.U.A" so hearing it sounded out as … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Easiest Hack To Improve Your Game TENFOLDGranted when a large chewing gum company funds research you do see a scientific conflict of interest. The study I threw up though had neuroimaging done. I used to do research academically and Ph.D professors directed me to studies indicating that chewing gum increases blood flow to the brain hence helps improve X,Y,Z. I'm not trying to make you appeal to authority but it does seem at least a bit scientifically sound. I never chew gum anyways, it's just I was curious and did some more sleuthing. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Easiest Hack To Improve Your Game TENFOLDYou don't even know what the word "trashy" means. He said it isn't scientifically proven, I simply showed evidence that there is some scientific backing. There are MORE studies out there, instead of typing up a shit comment on /r/seduction you can do a quick Google scholar search. I don't have time to do that for you, I'm not here for that. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Text game after the first date?this one doesnt have my number so just let her message on fb or be the first one with a side note of "heres my number" Pick up your phone and text her this, right now: "Hi this is ___, here's my number / now you have my number. (!)" No smiley faces, dumb emoticons, etc. Use an exclamation point if you want but honestly this doesn't have to be over the top. How long to ask her out again? Dude if you have something in mind then just mention it to her now. Otherwise, wait 2-3 days before an event a… | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 05:09 PM |
| 5 | I'm unhappy with the quality of girls I'm spending my time withStop hanging out with these ugly, disgusting, (borderline) fat women.. start cutting them out of your life, if they ask you to hang out tell them you're busy, slow stop responding to their calls and stop being the only glimmer of fun hope in their lives. Start putting more effort into attracting the girls you want. Approach them on the street, they're the ones who need to reject you over and over until you develop a nice core. The reason you're stuttering when you see these "awesome" girls is be… | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 05:03 PM |
| 0 | Easiest Hack To Improve Your Game TENFOLDHere's one. Just use Google Scholar and comb through more if you want. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Easiest Hack To Improve Your Game TENFOLDScientifically proven by who? Gum Chewing Inhibits the Sensory Processing and the Propagation of Stress-Related Information in a Brain Network This one isn't done by Wrigley Co, although some do exist. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Do any of you see yourselves getting married?I heard that raising the average U.S kid costs $250,000 from birth until the age of 18, and that's excluding college. I'd rather travel the world some more, buy another house, or throw it towards my "Lamborghini fund".. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 04:48 PM |
| 3 | La Timidezza nella seduzioneMy best Italian to English translation: "When speaking of seduction, timidness is generally (wrongly) categorized as an "anti-seduction" element that somebody can possess, a flaw which we must absolutely liberate ourselves from, and something that prevents you from achieving results." – Had an Italian girlfriend from Milan, mais je rigole pas le français est 10 fois mieux ;) | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Got digits, don't know what to do with them.This was my first time asking for a girl's number without bsing saying it's for homework Stop doing # closes for homework help, these girls will just use you and give you attention for the wrong reasons. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Is the friendzone not real?Simply put the friendzone is when one of two parties has unreciprocated feelings, when somebody wants to be intimate with a friend yet the other person doesn't feel the same way. Whether it be a guy or a girl in the friendzone, it exists. Hence, it is not a "fake concept" and this person's argument is not true. The fact that he/she is saying "it's meant to humiliate women" makes me assume that he/she is emotionally affected by the friendzone. He/she senses injustice. However, the friendzone affe… | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 12:00 AM |
| 1 | can we update the seddit logoCompared to some subreddits like /r/TheRedPill, I agree 100%.. The only problem is, who would be willing to update it? I clearly have no CSS skills | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 08:49 PM |
| 10 | Do women find intellect a turn off?Agree and amplify, "Yes, Einstein has got nothing on me." being smart shouldn't be a bad thing unless you're a grade-A nerd about stuff. By agreeing and making her statement seem ridiculous it show's your not affected by her question. Or likewise, do a pressure flip, she asks "oh so you're smart?" and you respond, "are you smart?" I did neurobiology when I went to school, I hated talking about my major and I barely brought it up although when you go to college it's an inevitable question. I just… | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Why are you on /r/seduction?Just pour water over it | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Got a lot of digits. Friend says I shouldn't initiate contact?He's still afraid of rejection? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Ending a friendship with a close friend, what's the last move?My last move is making it clear that the only way we can continue is in an romantic relationship. Just say "I enjoyed having you as a friend but I'm looking for a relationship/girl to date, so I'm going to be unavailable for a while." As for going with her and her family on thanksgiving, I personally wouldn't. BUT if you can have fun during the break and maybe impress the shit out of her family while earning brownie points towards this relationship that you want - GO. Maybe you should go, and th… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have experience with Porn-Induced ED?There are some days when I can't get my boner up when going at it by myself although I've never had problems with ED in bed (I'm in my 20's). Some days I'm just not in the mood, after long workouts or runs I'm tired. Don't reschedule! Don't run from your fears! I'd say if you can't get it up, just play it off, satisfy her with your hands/mouth and then roll over - night night. Who cares if she's insulted that you didn't having a raging boner, that's her problem, honestly bro don't make excuses o… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Taking your seat.you are the little kid crying for his seat, He spelt college as "collage"... I agree this isn't a shit test, as you said you don't even talk to these girls. If you want you can neg them, but honestly it's pointless. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Does she think I am a beta?I enjoy being with you because you let me be a woman, I feel protected, and you are mature Thanks for the extra info. Honestly, she sounds like she's happy being with you, maybe your TRP skills are showing? You sound like you're the masculine figure in her life. I'm trying to think of some covert ways to get at her intentions however I have to go to the gym and stuff like that. If other people don't respond to your situation then I'll happily give you some more advice.. I'll brainstorm a bit | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 04:32 PM |
| 1 | [22-M] Embarrassed because I can't last in bedIt's scientifically proven, the more often you have sex with somebody the longer you last.. just keep at it. Even if you blow your load then make her cum and things should be fine. Also if you stop worrying about it, things will become better. Increase your foreplay on her, don't let her stimulate you a lot at the beginning. Wear a condom, that shit helps you last longer. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Frame Control with this girl.She jokingly says she probably will miss me. I'm confused, you opened up to her saying you miss her but then you sound as though you don't give a fuck about her.. You should've left it at that, but okay she pleads not to be angry and you ignored her, good job. From what you've written here it's apparent she likes you, at least a bit. I'd just text her and ask her to come to your condo, act as though nothing happened, don't be mad at her and let her come crawling back. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Excessive compliments from a girlTake the compliments and let them tingle that ego of yours, I mean some dudes have a very poor self image of themselves and here you have a girl validating you for nothing. Now just because she compliments you doesn't mean you have to dish out a ton of compliments.. if it becomes excessive then just ignore them after a while | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 04:19 PM |
| 13 | What to do with this chick who works at my gym?OP you got lucky, this is one of the most thorough askTRP responses I've seen | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Does she think I am a beta?From your description it does should like she's trying to settle down with you, I mean as a girl at 25 you've got yourself 2-3 years max before that wall is intense. Now settling down with a relationship does not necessarily mean she sees you as "beta".. Likewise, it doesn't mean she has other motives (unless, you have a banging high paying job or something). If you're happy being with this girl then I wouldn't make this a huge deal.. if you think that she's only sticking around with you to use … | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Tips on how to "soft-next"Exactly, girls love drama, they want to tell their friends "OH MY GOD, X SAID THIS TO ME HE'S SUCH A DICK.." and make you look bad. If you slowly cut her out, there's not much she can say. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Examples of shit tests?Mec même en France les femmes utilisent les « shittests ». For example : how many girls have you been with? Nothing good comes from answering this question, you ignore it, change the subject or simply make it ridiculous by answering "too many", "all of them". A girl texts you asking if you missed her: don't fucking say "yes", agree and amplify "YEAH, I need someone to do my dishes." A girl is legitimately angry at you for something you said: LAUGH IN HER FACE and don't apologize, just make it se… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 03:10 AM |
| 7 | Purplepiller seeks conversation/debateI am looking for someone... to try to see if they can make me swallow TRP Nobody can make you swallow TRP, you must embrace it yourself. If you're writing a paper or something I could see how this post would be warranted, otherwise maybe you should try some of the teachings and see where it takes you. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Best response to "Do you miss me?"Depends on what type of effect you want: "You were gone?" "YES, SOMEBODY NEEDS TO DO MY LAUNDRY" "What was there to miss?" "Nope :P" or simply ignore it; be creative, she's looking for a reaction from you. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Avoiding friend zone with plate, weird situation.You could possibly start going over to her house more often, for nonchalant things, introduce yourself to her parents and let them see you're not such a bad dude.. Would her parents freak if you guys just did homework at the kitchen table, or you watched movies in the living room together? OR, you can just invite her to your place, secretly. Likewise if you have a car you have a lot of freedom. Trying to play this one behind their back would create a more "thrilling" relationship although you'll… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What age did you move out?I'm a 22 year old with my own apartment, but there's no shame in living at home at 22. $400 a month x 12 months = $4,800 in a year that you can put into a savings account, Roth IRA, or throw towards mutual funds. I'd say move out by time you're 24, take advantage of your parent's help for the time being and let them know you appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Is there a good response to that or just ignore it?Laugh a hearty laugh and when they ask you what's wrong or look at you funny that's when you just continue to crack up and shake you head "no" They'll get the idea | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 02:21 AM |
| 14 | My girlfriend has, I think, cheated on me at least emotionally online. Should I dump her?You've set the boundaries and she has willingly disrespecting them. Worse, you've seen her lie and cover up evidence. Is this really someone that cares about you? There's no point in being in a relationship that makes you live with a constant sense of paranoia. I know people hate breaking up because it throws you back into the dating world and you'll have to seek another mate, but honestly dude you have better chances out there. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 02:18 AM |
| 6 | This girl's giving me bad signs. Should I speak up?I'm so happy you came to askTRP before telling her any of that shit. I share the same sentiment as the other posters, don't talk to her about that. Go to the ball with her, who cares if she's just using you as an attractive dude. THEN, after Saturday just cut communication with her until she seeks you out (which my guess is she will). If she doesn't reinitiate contact then we know she's really not that into you anyways. I mean, you've already banged the girl so there's attraction. There's only s… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 02:10 AM |
| 1 | When 'swallowing the pill' would you recommend changing social circles gradually?I'm not sure why you can't get buff with the alphas, but then go hang out with other people. You don't really need them as much as they don't need you. However, would you want people who are "yes men" in your life, yet they don't help you develop socially? Or would you rather take some abuse but be forged into a man? Likewise, you'd learn more about picking up girls hanging out with the polo guys than with the archers, just saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 01:53 AM |
| 11 | Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable!... the majority were dudes and light skinned women (1st group, 2nd group, 3rd dude, 2 gay dudes, gay dude in costume, & white or asian girl at the end). | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Guy goes on a backpack trip in Europe, meanwhile his girlfriend fucks Chad"spins faster than a F1 racing tire" | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 11:48 AM |
| 8 | Sex-hamstering in LTR and after 5 years of marriage goes wrong. Great lesson for everyone here.I hope the husband leaves, for good. I hope his parents tell him that no matter how christian he is, divorce is the right option. Fuck her, even if she cheated 7 years ago, she still cheated. It pisses me off that she's downplaying this and it pisses me off that HE'S CALLING HER. FUCK CALLING HER – HAVE YOUR DIVORCE LAWYER DO THAT SHIT. She knows she fucked up (hence the Reddit post). You don't get to fuck a guy when we're dating and then come back into my arms for "comfort". | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Got her number, but haven't texted her to let her know it's me.If you can't text her that it's your number then why'd you even get the number! It's clear that you like her too much to follow through with contacting her Bite the bullet dude, you don't even need to add anything flirty to the end of it a simple "Hi it's ____ from this morning." would suffice. Usually I avoid this problem by texting the girl my number when we're in person, face-to-face. | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 12:29 AM |
| 12 | How long do you wait until you tell a girl she's attractive?I had a date with a girl two days ago, she looked pretty and she dressed nicely. Guess when I told her she looked: attractive, beautiful, stunning? I didn't tell her any of that shit. I went the whole date and the only comments I made about her appearance were slight negs. I had this girl laughing, twirling her hair, etc, I don't need to validate her yet, I just fucking met her. Actions speak louder than words and most likely if the girl is attractive then she already knows it - you dishing out … | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How do I get with a girl I know at a party where I know everyone and there are not many people?Don't use alcohol as a crutch and abuse it - take a few drinks if you'd like, but don't go overboard and showboat. Talk to her, then pull a 180 and go talk to somebody else. This party is your chance to up your social proof – you have to talk and be buddy-buddy with every guy and girl. Make guys high five you and scream your name, make other girls laugh at your jokes. When she sees how sociably desirable you are she'll want to hang around you, this is when you don't give her the attention she wa… | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 12:13 AM |
| 7 | I suck at talking to girlsWhy get pitchers when you can get bitches Any average guy would've been sinking his teeth into these girls after this remark – your response actually wasn't too bad because it shows that you didn't bite and you're different. Although I would've went with something more along the lines of "bitches are overrated" or "I don't want bitches, I want REAL women." Both those statements would slightly neg them but give them something to prove, I guarantee they would've stuck around a bit more. Thanks you… | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 12:05 AM |
| 12 | Ever reject a girl after she rejected you?Hey. Yeah, I'm single. Are you still interested Your response should've been IDK, let's go get a drink and find out... This way you keep the door open for a possible interaction but you don't throw yourself at her feet like a sad puppy. Likewise, you change the frame, make her be the one trying to sell herself to you. | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Chick reschedules / flakyI think you overestimate how easy I can find dates on a Tuesday night :P No you're right, I went over the top with this post I guess. | /r/trpGAME | 28/10/14 08:59 PM |
| 1 | The reason why TheRedPill shouldn't cite to fictional works as examples of TRP in action.Yeah I can see how we observe things which happen in the world and try to come up with logical explanations. I prefer real-world examples to fictional ideals. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 09:21 AM |
| 1 | More of a rant but why is it so hard to commit to honesty and a schedule?Does the contact read: "Michelle R., FLAKE (x1)" | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 09:19 AM |
| 1 | More of a rant but why is it so hard to commit to honesty and a schedule?If I'm going to the bar at 11, I lie and tell my friend's that I'll be there at 10:30... they always seem to get there at 11:01 and say "Sorry I was late." Guys usually aren't that bad, at least if they're running 5-10 minutes late they send me a text and I know that I'll be killing some more time. One time we were waiting for these girls to go a concert and they said "we are 5 minutes away!" I knew those girls and knew they were lying; they just left their apartment. Twenty minutes passed and t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 09:16 AM |
| 10 | The reason why TheRedPill shouldn't cite to fictional works as examples of TRP in action.I used to work in a research lab and I agree. When OP called RedPill a science I got a good chuckle. Sure, we try to use logic to support our arguments but we aren't using the scientific method. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/14 11:00 PM |
| 16 | TIL just deleted a post about male victims of domestic abuseDon't bother posting there But I could see how TIL would reach a larger Reddit population than TRP, considering they have over 80 times the amount of subscribers. It would give an anti-feminist post a chance at reaching /r/all, and we could get to more BP dudes (hence saving lives). TRP has a moderately bad reputation, if something comes from this sub it'll get down voted. If it comes from a more "harmless" sub then there's hope. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/14 10:51 PM |
| 1 | My father's advice since I was 9: "When you are good, you get."Yeah, somehow guys realize how much it sucks to be unemployed while girls will happily just swim over to the next ATM beta. They understand if you're not able to provide for others and in a world where one of the first questions somebody asks you is "what do you do for a living?" it affects your SMV if you don't have income coming in. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/14 01:02 PM |
| 4 | So many women are just searching for a man to plug into their equation for life+1 pour Gilles Deluze, mais j'aime pas trop ses œuvres ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Hillary 2016: why all men should be concernedWhile I agree that has been the trend, Hillary is a very popular candidate, its possible she could win. However, it's obviously too soon to call it, I mean the elections are in 2016 and it's only 2014!! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 01:49 PM |
| 14 | Hillary 2016: why all men should be concernedHillary Clinton and German Chancellor Merkel are getting it on in the Oval Office. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 01:46 PM |
| 3 | FR - Close to wall girl highlights RP truths similar to a Teen girlI gave you an upvote for fixing my foolishness, but that phrase was a catch-all. There has to be a few girls (where x > 1) who focus on their studies rather than socialize, becoming doctors or Ph.D holders. The girl OP described was a bum and a CC rider, but there are people out there who I didn't want to misrepresent by over generalizing. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 08:31 PM |
| 6 | Survey shows that half of all women would lie to their husbands or partners to keep their relationship going if they became pregnant by another manMaury is one of those shitty daytime TV shows which focuses on relationship problems. The show likes to do DNA tests on dudes who claim they aren't the father of a kid. Your title reminded me of the show because some of those hoes get pregnant by another man and then try to pin the baby on the boyfriend/husband. The way he dances when he finds out he's not the dad... priceless. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 08:23 PM |
| 13 | Survey shows that half of all women would lie to their husbands or partners to keep their relationship going if they became pregnant by another manYour title essentially describes the Maury show (actually this video is even better). "BOBBY, you ARE NOT the father." Crowd erupts into mayhem, the Maurry chants grow louder. Skank runs off crying.. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 05:25 PM |
| 7 | FR - Close to wall girl highlights RP truths similar to a Teen girlIf a chick is 28 and single either she has a great career or it's a sign that something is wrong with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Guy has been praying for 10 years for a woman but is still a virgin at 25. Asks how he can chill out, be more optimistic, and "inviting."I could imagine it being hard, all your friends are probably married and you may feel as though you're missing out on that part of your life. Just make sure you don't get desperate and wind up with someone that'll make you miserable. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 05:13 PM |
| 2 | HILLARY CLINTON: Women In America Are Owed MoneyDon't blow your load until you see the whites of their eyes teeth!! – Major General Israel Putnam, Bunker Hill (1775) | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 03:25 PM |
| 1 | "It was all a lie." A TRP insight.I thought they wanted the bull to be black because of the idea that they could satisfy the wife better (well-endowed, athletic, rough, etc)?? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 10:43 AM |
| 2 | "It was all a lie." A TRP insight.Her asking you is a shit test in itself and you accepting it just confirms how beta you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 10:41 AM |
| 6 | "It was all a lie." A TRP insight.Slow Motion Train Wreck | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 10:39 AM |
| 13 | "It was all a lie." A TRP insight.That's what ended my last relationship as well. I literally said the words "do whatever makes you happy, I'll be here for you/I'll always love you." Nowadays, I cringe so hard at my past, but at least I've learned from my mistakes. Update: I cut her out of my life completely even though she still wanted the benefits of having me as a friend without having to fuck me. Almost a year without contact, I can keep this up indefinitely. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 10:35 AM |
| 2 | "I don’t care as much how a guy might be humiliated.”I understand that he's a business owner and he's not totally in control of people's actions, BUT he could've said something along the lines of "Safety for our guests and staff is our biggest concern..." rather than lie out of his ass. If his bars is one of the "safest" in Minneapolis then Minneapolis is a violent fucking city. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 10:21 AM |
| 1 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women CraveI agree. I read everything on the Front page; I didn't say anything about not looking at the "New" articles. I read through the front page stuff really quickly so in order to get more content I'm forced to search by new. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 08:51 PM |
| 87 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women CraveClick bait title or not if the reddit post is shitty as fuck or doesn't contribute then it won't be upvoted to hell on /r/TRP... I'm not sure how you can argue that making a title for a magazine, newspaper, or publication requires more skill than a Reddit post. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 08:49 PM |
| 2 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women CraveYeah when I'm making $330 an hour Reddit will definitely be the website I waste all my time on... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 05:02 PM |
| 1 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women CraveI read everything on the front page of TRP, so the title is irrelevant to me, it only gives me an idea of what I'm in for | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 04:43 PM |
| 1 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women CraveThat was during his blue pill days, he's a changed man now | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 04:41 PM |
| 24 | Thank you TRP. My story and progress 3 weeks after swallowing the pill.and my young age. Thank god we're getting to some of them while they're young ! I wish I knew this shit when I was 16, 17, 18 instead of my age now. Good luck kid, god's speed. Oh, and when you text that girl, set a time/date/and take the lead. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 03:48 PM |
| 9 | "I don’t care as much how a guy might be humiliated.”Can't say any of my bars have had shootings or stabbings, I didn't know 2 shootings in a strip club is considered "safe". | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Dating Black WomenOkay, I upvoted because you looked it up, but here's the kicker: Is it that these black men prefer white women, or is it that this subset of white girls prefer black men? Relationships are a two way street. Likewise, are there other attributes (besides skin color) which causes one of these sets of people to be attracted to another. You are right in saying that these are marriage numbers so the number of actual relationships are definitely higher. But, could we say that white men date other races… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Dating Black WomenI'm not sure you can make that call that it is definitely confirmation bias. That's a fair statement, but really personal experience is flawed and filled with cognitive shortcuts. I spent some time in a research lab and I've always been the type to prefer experiments and surveys over personal judgement. I'd say, just Google some statistics about interracial dating/marriage (preferably by state/worldwide) and check it out for yourself :) | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Dating Black WomenSuit yourself, but I'll never find myself dating outside my race, especially with [insert your race here]. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 08:33 AM |
| 5 | Dating Black WomenHere's some of your logic: I'm going to hang large swastikas on my car because "it's just a symbol like any other one." and "symbols only have power if you give it." I mean, my friends never use it in a derogatory sense against jews, we just really love German history. No harm, right? People shouldn't get angry. I don't usually go the PC route, but just because something is a "word" and commonplace doesn't mean it's OK. Even if your intentions are harmless, it can still cause harm and you know i… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 08:30 AM |
| 7 | Dating Black WomenPlease, get off your high horse. Ebonics IS actually a variant of English; it follows a designed set of rules among speakers with predictable changes to phonology and vocabulary. Likewise you're generalizing ebonics because it varies from region to region. – Minored in linguistics. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 08:19 AM |
| 4 | Dating Black WomenI swear I see more white women with black men than white men with black women You answered your own question, it's the called confirmation bias. You place more emphasis on information which confirms to your world views. When you see two white people, in a couple (a large amount), you don't chalk that up because it's "normal." I am in a state with relatively few blacks, When I lived in PA (not in Philly) all the girls were white so it's not like you had much of a choice. I'm not going to agree or… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 08:14 AM |
| 2 | When asking a girl out, use the Brad Pitt ruleThis happened to me YESTERDAY. I asked her to come get a drink with me on Thursday, Two minutes later she responds that she's focused studying for a big exam on Saturday (it's France so weekend exams exist) but she proposed we go next Thursday. Next Thursday I'm busy, no beuno, I told her Monday. She accepted, told me she's looking forward to it and all that girly B.S they sprinkle I don't mind being a leader (even if she didn't suggest next thursday I still would've asked for another day), but … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 07:59 AM |
| 0 | Feminism is about maintaining the idea that women have zero agency or responsibility: Over 70% of people want OTC birth control, but feminists actually DON'T because it would mean women must pay for it.I don't go to teen centers and clearly we have different doctors. I usually buy condoms in bulk :/ | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is about maintaining the idea that women have zero agency or responsibility: Over 70% of people want OTC birth control, but feminists actually DON'T because it would mean women must pay for it.Men have been paying for condoms FOR YEARS, I didn't hear any feminists standing up for birth control then. Fuck you guys, I want free stuff too!! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 02:57 PM |
| 6 | So apparently women are free to do porn, but men are NOT free to want nothing to do with women who do pornShe willingly chose to star in multiple erotic films and was paid to do so, that's fine. Just don't expect the actions of your past to not come back and bite you in the ass. If a young 20-year old was arrested for soliciting prostitutes, he doesn't have much of a chance at political office (but it was his DREAM JOB!! his livelihood!!). Well, in this case a school deems that you have no place in their institution, even if the incident was decades ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Cost of Cavani's divorce (PSG player)While 20,000 per month is a lot, Cavani makes 160,000 per WEEK. I shit you not, check out the source. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 10:56 AM |
| 5 | 28M - How can I maximize my potential in the next 5-10 years?100% I agree, if you're American and you can speak French well then they cream their pants (your SMV is upped at least 1-2 points). I'm constantly surrounded by people and I make friends easily. Guys sit there and play up how cool I am, girls flock just out of pure interest because foreigners aren't common in this area. I've banged more French women in the past 2 months than I have the past year back in the States (granted I was very beta back then and I've adopted TRP since). Not only do I find… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 07:28 AM |
| 1 | A stark contrast between my beta days and nowThis - I made the mistake of "re-orbiting" a chick after I previously tried to get in her pants (we madeout but I was 100% beta at the time). Then I found this sub and said "fuck that shit". She now texts me, facebook messages me etc and I haven't responded, I don't plan on doing so either. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 07:18 AM |
| 11 | 28M - How can I maximize my potential in the next 5-10 years?I'm living in the French countryside and fat girls are nonexistent. If you find one, she'd be classified as "chubby" in the States. By leaving the States you just have more bangable women, fuck that +60% overweight shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Field Report. First date with woman approaching wall. (more confirmation on theories, lessons learned)By doing this you don't give it to her flat out (and lose frame), and you create a silly situation. If she REALLY wants it then she can snatch it off your face. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Picking up girls at the grocery storeAt the end just look at it as though you gave her a nice compliment | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Guys, I went out last night.He wasn't attracted enough to her to actually see her again. We need to stop looking at numbers as just a trophy and realize they are tools to get back in contact with others. | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Talking to a girl you pass on sidwalk?That's why I go there to party | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Talking to a girl you pass on sidwalk?Has it ever bothered you that your name is French for "kitchen"? | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Changing Location to HER PLACEIf you guys didn't drive then offering to walk her home is a great way to be a gentleman/protector while making your way over to her place | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Moving on from current friend group...This is what I did to have some fucking fun during my summer: 1) Take your car 2) Take $200 - $300 3) Drive 1,000 miles south to Miami, Florida 4) Party. Pictures. Beach. Titties. 5) Drive 1,000 miles back north to NYC 6) Pay your speeding tickets | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Got her number but she didn't respond to my text a day later...I think OP is recieving unnecessary flak. He has the right idea, move on and keep up that abundance mentality. However, the amount of time you wait (5 hours, 24 hours, 6793 hours) is arbitrary. | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell the difference between confident and creepy?I remember reading that excerpt from Manson and I agreed with it 100%, however I'd like to add that if you don't want to be interpreted as creepy then the way you dress could factor into it. Who would you think is more creepy? The guy who's dressed well and has a nice smile on his face or the dude with bad posture who looks like he crawled out of his mom's basement? Maybe it has something to do with the fact that when I look decent/dressed well then I have more confidence. I don't worry too much… | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 07:31 PM |
| 24 | How to become good at storytelling/more magnetic?He'll actually first tell a story on how he used to suck at telling stories | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The 10 Best Pick Up Artists of 2014Tim Partendale isn't on this list ;) | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 06:35 AM |
| 1 | The Send-off TextI understand what you're saying but a message like "If you ever feel like taking a study break and grabbing some food..." would only be responded by "Okay!" or "sure!" and then you never hear from her again. Honestly I don't really care for your idea or OP's.. really I just ignore the person and/or delete the number Dont deny yourself possible future bootycalls by being THAT dude. You act as though every girl a guy meets he intends to fuck. | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Make seduction a hobby, not a job.TLDR: have fun I can't believe such a generic post got so many upvotes | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 05:33 PM |
| 1 | When she wants to text 24/7 and you don't.I harp about only texting to setup dates but that doesn't mean I don't text girls back if it warrants a response. OP asked a question because these girls are texting him too much so in sum he shouldn't text them back as much if it ruins his interactions in person. Find balance in your life young Padawin. 160lbs, 5"11, no confirmed neck beard | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Study abroad dating?I dated a girl I met from study abroad for almost 2 years. She was Italian and I live in the US currently. | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Classy responses to "I have a boyfriend."Dude stop and think for a second: Why the fuck is she on Tinder while she has a boyfriend. If it's true, "next" that cheating hoe, if it's false "next" her ass for not being smart enough to lie well. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Classy responses to "I have a boyfriend."If she's lying about having a bf (and I've seen my friends do it to other guys) I don't really change much of anything ( I still act jovial and fun to be around) I just brush it off and say it's her loss. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 04:04 AM |
| 2 | How hardlined is the rule that guys always text first?Hey no problem! I reread what I said and just wanted to add that when there's a girl I really like and she texts me back, I get all giddy. However this can be bad because you shouldn't really be dancing around for a girl's attention or waiting by your phone hoping she sees your message. In one hand she could be ignoring you, playing games, or she could be busy/working/away from her phone. You'll never know for sure, which is why I don't use texting as a real indication of interest (unless it's s… | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 03:39 AM |
| 26 | My solution to approach anxiety. Real stuff here.Except you'll still fap furiously after you get back home without results | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 03:28 AM |
| 15 | My solution to approach anxiety. Real stuff here.5 Hour Energy, a quick long run, and pushups work fine for me. EDIT: Lol at the downvotes, sorry for thinking 5-Hour energy is stupid and useless. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Discredited PUA theoriesActually I pulled off an opinion opener just the other day but I worded it as: "Hey, you look like the type, what do you think about ?" "Hey, you look __ , what's your opinion on ___?... why?" To be honest, I was curious about the matter and I don't typically use it to open people. Oh and don't be afraid to share your thoughts! | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | To all the virgins out thereIt is also scary wondering which STD's you picked up | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 02:13 AM |
| 2 | To all the virgins out thereRegular sex does make life enjoyable, however I want to have regular sex with girls that I care about and who meet my standards. I don't want to settle. So in sum, it's not really the sex that I'm after, but the emotional connection and person that I'm having sex with. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 02:11 AM |
| 2 | How hardlined is the rule that guys always text first?Hey you didn't get a lot of responses so I decided to chime in I currently am playing the field but not really looking for anything. If I experienced something cool or interesting during my day that I'd like to share with a girl then I'll send her a short text about it and not really expect a response. I find that not expecting a response prevents me from glancing at my phone every 5 minutes hoping she'll reply. If I haven't heard from somebody in a while then I'll just text "hey" or "what's up"… | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 11:09 PM |
| 11 | Interesting paragraphMillionaireBy30 | /r/seduction | 13/07/14 10:16 PM |
| 3 | First hookup in ~2 years. Social Anxiety way down; hopefully someone gets something out of this!Me too, I'm kicking myself now for not taking more opportunities back then | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 12:42 AM |
| 14 | Rejection is a tool to help you get to what you want.I love you guys | /r/seduction | 11/07/14 11:52 PM |
| 1 | The first lair across the ocean has been opened: Nederseddit!But you know some Belgians speak French, comme moi. The divide is real. | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Offering NYC daygame helpThanks for the offer, I'm in the city and I'll gladly take it | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Can you help me understand what I'm doing wrong? Women stop responding to me after a few dates....Well it is possible the he is doing or not doing this for them to consider him relationship material.. Is his life in order and does he have a clear set of goals with personal passion thrown in? | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 06:29 PM |
| 1 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...Hey wait! Wanna suck some dicks later tonight :3 | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 06:01 PM |
| 3 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...Tall, dark and handsome with a raspy voice, limping gait, black cape and red light saber. Last I've checked he wasn't paying life support for his 2 kids | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 05:50 PM |
| 2 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...I don't recommend exercising to be attractive, I recommend it to live a long and happy life free of preventable health problems | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 05:49 PM |
| 1 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...Because if the dogs sniff one another's butts then the owners must be soul mates | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 05:43 PM |
| 1 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...People were just ripping early psychologists like Freud and you're going to bring up mystery? I don't think many people take him seriously anymore | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 05:32 PM |
| 5 | You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals: Unleash your DNA.It doesn't matter if you're short, tall, fat, skinny, black, brown, or white. Preach brother, preach! | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 05:08 AM |
| 1 | This interview with a millionaire and night club manager opened my eyes on so many thingsI wonder how many sedditors ran out and got tattoos after this post | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 11:09 PM |
| 0 | How to Prevent Double Dates??Well it's easy for us to say "don't go on these double dates", but the reason OP is asked is because that's the norm in Colombia. Rather we should be stressing that the world does not stop if you don't do things that are "socially normal". | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 10:58 PM |
| 0 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."Learn the ways of the cane. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 04:26 PM |
| 4 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."Don't excessively say she's your "dream girl", "one of a kind", etc.. Also don't hover around her 24/7 and only do things with her: you should have your own things to do and your own friends. If you always treat her like she's better than you than eventually she'll believe it. It happened to my ex-girlfriend | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 04:25 PM |
| 1 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."Buddhism taught me that you can only lose what you cling to... I believe that's a false quote from Buddhism that you're quoting. Nice try though | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Advice from 30 to 20 old me - TL;DR Live more interesting life.Because no mater what you do in your 20's you can always do more in the future - you can always go higher and you just don't realize it yet. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 04:16 PM |
| 8 | Advice from 30 to 20 old me - TL;DR Live more interesting life.I'm confused; what circumstances are preventing you from living life? | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 04:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Part II: Left the friends at home, First Solo night out ever. And it was awesome. #-close, k-close, hilarious rejectionI only go out solo but it was always hard for me to articulate why to my friends. Now I can just use this post as an example hahah | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How to find out a girl's schedule without seeming beta?Please enlighten us about how you were unable to understand this man's point because he said "wanna"? By the way, you missed correcting "Thrusdag" asshole >.< | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how the fuck can I not get one response on match.com?usually always blew my mind | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 02:02 AM |
| 2 | An approach to seduction through a marketing perspectiveWell said; I am amazing and I'm single so I won't settle for just anything. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 01:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] OP finally tries to put pickup into practice, produces below-average debut performance, writes first field report. (Long.)I think you're being a bit too hard on yourself; you started off with an "no reason to pass up on a good opportunity to try out what I've learnt." attitude and then gave yourself a C- as the end result!? Honestly, I've been doing seduction for a while and picking up my friend's sister whilst everyone is there would be no easy feat in my books. My only additional criticism would be that you didn't isolate her well enough/soon enough.. take her to another bar or just ask her to hang out with you s… | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Eye Contact - An Underrated & Underused Weapon of Mass DestructionUpvotes for being called a "badass muhfuqqa" and also for pulling my ex's pubes one by one muwhahahahah Well-written | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 03:08 AM |
| 42 | How does one 'flirt'Within the next 316 minutes you should be holdings hands. Within the next 457 minutes her panties should be out of the picture. Within the next 127 days a wedding date should be set. I enjoyed your advice but the time stamps seem unnecessary; where does it all end anyways? | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 11:04 PM |
| 1 | So I was wondering if Mystery was still around, and this turned up. Thoughts?You're right RandianHero, he should know better... that video was hard to watch | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?Yeah, I think the text was a good idea if you escalated more.. Now you should just take her "wtf haha" as an I'm not interested because ignoring her now will only wind you up into the "he's not inserted in me" category. Your options: 1) do not apologize for your actions, that text was good because it polarizes her in a sense 2) keep up the kino and show your interest in your conversation - if things aren't going well then just bail faster than a white collared criminal on $400,000 parole | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Help please, AFC hereIDK part of me says give her one more chance but she waited two whole weeks to apologize, so that isn't a good sign. You didn't write much though so I can't determine if this is a "I just want to be friends" situation. I've been dealing with a girl like this, she said she'd be down to hang out, we set up a date for the next night and she totally just blew me off. I just finished texting her I'm not interested anymore but in fact you can just not message her back at all. [P.S, we're all AFC's at … | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Drunk girls? ErmI heard it was only $9.99 | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 07:20 AM |
| 2 | I'm just going to leave this hereQu'est-ce que tu aimes? | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 07:06 AM |
| 1 | I'm good with girls I'm not that into. Bad with girls I really like. HelpI am in shape, but not for girls - I hope to live a long and fulfilling life :) | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 06:54 AM |
| 6 | I'm good with girls I'm not that into. Bad with girls I really like. HelpConfidence is really overrated on this sub. Also, general self improvement (lifting etc.) will make you more attractive, and then attractive girls start coming to you. You bash the word "confidence" and then play up "self-improvement" without even realizing that self-improvement brings confidence.. Why do you think guys who lift are more attractive? Because they behave as such because they know they're fucking attractive (knowing you're high-value is called... bingo! confidence!!) Once again ano… | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 07:07 PM |
| 3 | So I was wondering if Mystery was still around, and this turned up. Thoughts?The average person (or at least, Gawker commenter) needs to stop thinking that all PUA's are filthy spawns of Mystery and his gang. I personally don't associate myself with this guy because being a "pick up artist" already has a bad enough connotation around women. They think we're all douche-bag assholes who don't respect boundaries and rape easy women.. they have their heads up so far up their asses that they don't even realize the guy they're head over heels with has been using PUA techniques… | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 07:00 PM |
| 2 | How To Fix Your Confidence if it's Weakthat was funny 6 years ago.. | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development.I wouldn't call Tinder a gimmick, although I do like calling things gimmicks hahah If you're good at seduction in person then maybe it's not a crutch, but guys who use Tinder as their sole way of scoring women will be lost when the women actually decide to meet them | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Why Tinder is pathetic...Essentially a DHV story (Check the glossary of terms in the sidebar) DHV- Demonstration of High Value. This refers to anything that makes you out to be a cool guy. Example: A DHV story is when you tell a cool story about yourself. DHV Story- This is a more positive and humble alternative to bragging- if you recently took a trip to Spain and had a crazy awesome time, it might not be a good idea to say “I took a trip to Spain and had a crazy awesome time!” but instead say “When I was in Spain, bla… | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 10:18 PM |
| 31 | Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development.Tinder is a tool and tools are supposed to make our lives easier, but the amount of "seduction" over tinder is equivalent to the amount you'd get in a text message. I don't seduce women over text, I do so when they're with me.. | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development.Tinder posts are getting on my nerves | /r/seduction | 01/05/14 10:11 PM |
| 2 | If this gets through one person's head, I've done my job"Bear" with me? Who the hell wants bears with them? O.O | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 07:38 AM |
| 2 | 7 Approach Invitations You'll Get from GirlsIt's not about analyzing every move I don't know, there was a lot of analysis in there.. I appreciated the work you put into it though I'm admittedly lazy, and only approach the women I get A.I's from But why? You're lowering the amount of possible women to game! What about those girls who can't position themselves next to you or those girls who didn't even realize you were across the street, but you run over to say "hi" anyways? It just seems like a cop out from being rejected a few more times … | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 07:35 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Policy Change for Introduction Posts, "Help Me" postsI <3 the mods | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 07:24 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Policy Change for Introduction Posts, "Help Me" postsLegend has it that he trained his penis to overcome typing with flipper arms. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 07:23 AM |
| 4 | Brandon Stanton, creator of Humans of New York, on approaching strangers.If you don't know what Humans of New York (HONY) is; well, it's the SOLE reason I still keep my Facebook account active. Brandon Stanton approaches many New Yorkers on a daily basis, snaps a candid shot of them and chats them up until there's an inspirational quote that he can share. Some posts make me laugh, others are inspirational or very somber.. I think I cried once. Overall, reading HONY brings a smile to my day more than any silly girl would ;) Follow Humans of New York Here. Thanks for t… | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 12:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a number on first approachHB7 face/ HB9.5 body When will people start using binary scales; these numbers are unnecessary smh | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Is PUA just for sex with sluts? Or can it be used to develop a loving connection?He probably didn't read it in it's entirety ;) | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"?Exactly, if you don't make it weird then it's not as weird as you think from a 3rd person perspective. Besides, since you don't really say much more than introducing yourself then you can end the interaction as quickly or as slowly as needed | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Is PUA just for sex with sluts? Or can it be used to develop a loving connection?PUAs seem to only go after sluts as they are more likely to have sex than a women doesn't have sex with randoms. I'm a pick-up artist; both girls I've had sex with it was their first time. I also then became their boyfriend for a time after that. One girl I was honestly considering marrying her but she lives in Italy and our long-distance wasn't working out. I want to say, as a random internet stranger, that you sound very ignorant. I'm not out there trying to get easy sex, I'm out there trying … | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Learning seduction from George ClooneyAbs cream, pheromone sprays and penis enhancement only shows how gimmicky guys are willing to get to achieve results. Yet it's not just guys; there are crazier products out there for women. Confidence comes from within and without going on a rant I'll just let this post about Clooney speak for itself. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Riding SoloI also go to bars solo, in fact one at one of the places I go to a lot some people know me as "lone wolf". It's not a reputation to be afraid of, I like to think of it as: "I have so much damn fun by myself I don't even need friends to entertain me." Whenever I walk into a club/bar, I'll talk to anyone that seems interesting (guys or girls). At least open and approach and if it doesn't seem like it's going anywhere then you can get another drink/talk to other people. I'll hop up onto the high ri… | /r/seduction | 27/04/14 10:59 PM |
| 7 | She never texts me first but when I text her, she texts back right away. What does this mean?Girls are fucking weird story of my life | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 05:31 PM |
| 8 | She never texts me first but when I text her, she texts back right away. What does this mean?She's playing the game; you're playing the game.. the mental chess match has begun | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 05:28 PM |
| 1 | I'm loosing intrest in gameit's great when you ask for a girls number she PURPOSELY gives you a wrong number instead of saying no. This is why you text her to make sure she gets your number while you are in her presence!! If she gave you a fake number then neg her and walk away. Luckily no girl has given me a fake number but still... Last night I went to the club, met a few girls, but overall just danced the night away and had a blast. This is how it should be, you should be able to have fun without girls and then welcome… | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 05:27 PM |
| 5 | First date flake. tips on how to progressShe at least had the decency in advance to let you know she can't. It seems like a legitimate excuse, what sane person at 5AM would go on a walk at 9? Play it off like it was no biggie, ask her out again and if she flakes then realize she's not interested. But this girl seems interested, usually flakes don't even text me they aren't showing up ;) | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 03:05 AM |
| 1 | how to be less of an antisocial doucheConversation is an intellectual and dynamic space. Chit chat is a battle of wits and skills, if it isn't thrilling for you then you're doing something wrong. If you bored about a topic in a conversation the change the topic to something you enjoy. | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Question for the guys of r/seductionI have a boyfriend, but he lives abroad for a while now and quite frankly, I have needs. I don't consider myself a slut,... Fuck. You. TimP | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Pussied out at a club - Help meBut that would take time and effort :P | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Using Facebook for Online DatingIn person is better, but online works too | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Using Pheromones sprays1) Pheromone sprays exist? 2) Guys actually purchase them and use them?... That's not pick up at all; it's a gimmick and I hate gimmicks. | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 08:43 PM |
| 5 | Go MetaFirst there was beta, then there was alpha. NOW ladies and gentlemen, there's META!! What's next? How to be Gamma? Ultraviolet? /end sarcasm because this was a great post/ | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How to get the girl to choose the date?I'm going to get ice cream. Wanna tag along? I totally get what you mean, however when your intentions ARE for her to come along then why not just say "Let's go get ice cream (with my friends)." Also, the whole "tag along" part seems like childish wording imo | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 08:05 PM |
| 2 | How to get the girl to choose the date?Confirmed: ex-girlfriend liked being in charge which often lead to tension. She's now classified as the "craziest bitch" I know ;) | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How to get the girl to choose the date?Caesar-Status right here | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 08:01 PM |
| 15 | Former unconfident guys of seddit- what helped you work through your period of non confidence in yourself?You spend the first part of your post telling us why your life is in order and why women should be with you. Great! Now show, don't tell. she's gorgeous she'd have no interest in me How do you know that?! Well you won't truly know unless you get in there and find out for yourself; most likely you'll never see this girl again so even rejection means nothing. Believe me, approaching and finding out it doesn't work is better than not approaching and kicking yourself all day for pussing out. Another… | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Defriendzoning (Maybe not that hard)I think you should tell her to stop talking about her ex and her problems to you (unless you actually enjoy that). Not only does it sound friendzoney, but personally I don't really care about what people say about their ex's because it's usually one-sided jabber. She is not in love with me... No, she only seems that way because she's not needy. Great. You're not needy either. It sounds like her sending you nudies/showing interest in you when you had an ex-girlfriend was her way of getting unatta… | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 05:21 AM |
| 4 | [poll] How would you guys feel about a weekly opener/routine challenge?I am TimPartendale and I approve this post. | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 12:41 PM |
| 7 | A note on confidenceBasing your happiness on others is a recipe for disaster. Instead, you should pursue activities that you enjoy and are passionate about. This is gold. go to any Jay-Z Youtube video: you will see tons of people hating on him even though he is the top rapper out right now. Some of them make the stupidest criticisms. People are naturally haters (to make themselves feel better) so you have to know which criticisms to take seriously and which to ignore. Jay-Z doesn't even give a shit either; that's t… | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 05:57 AM |
| 1 | A note on confidenceShe doesn't owe you shit Exactly, and so I don't owe her shit either (i.e, my valuable time, wittiness, and just overall pleasure to be around). I think the post is more about realizing your true value and not basing your judgments off of others; nowhere does the author mention anything about being a "cocky prideful cunt" | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 05:46 AM |
| 8 | A note on confidenceThis is an unjust comment for the author covered this under his second point. Even if you have a high dating value, women will reject you for a million reasons: they may be shitty people, they may have emotional/mental problems, they may be trying to get over an ex, they may have just gotten out of an abusive relationship, they may be lesbians, their grandfather may have just died, they may not like the way your face looks, they may be bigoted against your race/religion/etc…, they may be too stu… | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Any help for somebody who is Forever alonehaha thanks /u/Udar13, I love you too man | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 05:27 AM |
| 11 | Any help for somebody who is Forever alonebut I caught her smiling at me once and I fell in love Why did you fall in love with her yet? You know NOTHING about this girl; which is even more of a reason for you to go up to her and introduce yourself: "Hi my name is ___. I see you here a lot so I just wanted to get to know you a bit more..." blah blah blah nonchalantly get her # before you go and set up a date in person so you can see her again. Tell her you'd like to see her outside of the gym, ask her to go on a run with you, idk be a li… | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Any sedditors over 40?This is my life goal, 6-pack abs and a ferrari. Hellllooooooooo Brazil | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Any sedditors over 40?By seducing her all over again? | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Any sedditors over 40?Exercise is the elixir of youth. I do 12 mile runs and I'm 21; I hope I'll still be running strong when I'm older ;) | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Any sedditors over 40?I'm surprised you took the time to do the math... Seddit is more about inspirational information over step-by-step mathematical; do x receive y. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 11:38 PM |
| 3 | After the age-old debate, and first-hand experience, "calling vs. texting" - this is what I've found.I always call to make sure the date is still on and then if she misses my call then I just text her "I'll see you tomorrow" or something stupid like that. Usually if she misses the call then she'll call/text back before I have to text her anything. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Best ways to dance?Your dancing is BAD ASS, just had to say that.. thanks for the share | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 01:10 AM |
| 8 | [FR] I was approached, **me**The problem is establishing that it's only casual sex you seek. I'm not trying to sound shallow but a young single mom is probably looking for someone to help take care of her/her kid(s). It's just human nature. My 23 year old friend is dating a teen mom; the original father abandoned them. My friend is getting super attached to her kid; now on facebook I see the gf posting things like "__ would be a great father for __ " with a picture of my friend and the kid, as well as " is the man of my lif… | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 07:45 PM |
| 0 | What's the best way to pick up an air hostess on duty?"Do you know where the mile high club seating is located?" "Does the FAA permit you to help me unbuckle my pants?" "American Airlines? I thought this was Virgin America!" I crack myself up sometimes | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Are you stuck in a rut? Read this article and get some good wholesome Dating Advice - For Women Only...You submit a "For Women Only" post on a male-oriented seduction forum? That's like marketing Dr. Pepper 10 as a for-man-only soft drink and then knowing all the women are going to purchase it! I think this would be more suited for /r/fPUA | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Followed HappyJerk's advice on how to handle flakes/no response. Worked like a fucking charm.Thou shall have one god: TimPartendale, master of seddit's AFC's No but seriously, I'm about to send this out now! I wonder though if it'll work on a girl who flaked a week ago. Oh well, time to find out | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 12:07 AM |
| 2 | What to do next?Alright, yeah I'm not saying you have to forget this girl completely, just don't worry about her for the time being. You're right that most high school relationships don't last very long. I'm in college and I had a girlfriend and this one girl had a boyfriend. We kept things on a professional level (I was her tutor) but I still showed interest in her. One year later we are both single and just this last week we went out on a date together/she came to my place. Even if she wasn't so receptive, li… | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Best place for day gameI live in a huge college town so finding young, attractive women is cake. I would say my favorite location would be the local coffee shop but I do game women just while walking on campus | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Best place for day gameduring the day, right? | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 01:56 PM |
| 4 | What to do next?What I'm confused on is whether she is trying to hang out so we can be more than friends, or if she simply felt bad at turning me down and wants to make up for it. Neither. She suggested the alternative hangout not out of pity but because she wants to be friends with you, nothing more. She'll chat with you all day: tell you about her problems, emotions, and feelings, and then she'll go to her boyfriend's place and bang his brains out. That's how it works. So you ultimately have 2 moves. If you'r… | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Being a PUA without hitting bars or clubs?Typically I go out to the bars/clubs Thursday, Friday & Saturday. My mother once warned me that somebody who is destined for Medical school shouldn't frequent bars because you'll only get slutty women, but then I reminded her that I go to them all the time BECAUSE IT'S FUN. I love having fun and I like to be surrounded by social people who can have fun too. 1) You don't need to drink at bars/clubs. I've done a few nights 100% sober or just 1 beer. Just tell people you're a designated driver if t… | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 05:47 AM |
| 1 | How many of you fat guys out there actually game?But negging doesn't necessarily mean being an asshole; there's a fine line. I like to play Devil's advocate a lot to spice up the conversation | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 05:26 AM |
| 1 | How many of you fat guys out there actually game?We never really hear from the fatties of /r/seduction To be honest though most field reports mention nothing about the OP's weight/height. Not to mention, muscle weighs more than fat so by giving that information we still don't have a good picture. I'm ~160, 5'10" and sometimes I feel uncomfortable about my weight (it depends on what I'm wearing) so I think this is a good thread to generate a bit of discussion. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Asking for her number VS offering your numberWhile I do prefer to get her number in every instance, giving her your number isn't a bad thing if you make her text/call you while you're in her presence. You'll still wind up with her number. An easy way to get a number is for you or her to take a picture of the 2 of you and then one person sends it to the other. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 05:11 AM |
| 10 | Imagine the awkward silence during a conversation. What topics or facts would bring the conversation right back up?Agreed, you don't have to do all the work because a conversation is a 2 way street! Last night when our hour-long convo stopped for about 5-10 seconds it became slightly awkward because the environment was dead silent. Rather than say anything I waited her out and she started it back up again | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 05:00 AM |
| 4 | [FR] My stupid frases, that usually works, for funny introductions in the gameThanks for the write up. Honestly your English isn't bad and we shouldn't bash non-native speakers because they also should be able allowed to freely express themselves on /r/seddit. To play devil's advocate though; it's not that hard to toss your post into a free online spell checker. I semi-like the idea except I typically don't buy girls drinks. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Why girls like guys who don't give a shit about themI think most of my saved posts/comments are from HappyJerk; he's been quite helpful | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How to get over your body not living up to the hype?Bodies are just the vessels which house our intelligence, emotions, and personality. | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Scientific evidence - EYE CONTACTMy thoughts exactly. Is it the eye contact that made the increased attraction or the fact that they were told they were compatible from the start and then justified that statement. | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Seddit, what is the one physical feature that a woman may have that is a deal maker for you?Freud said a lot of fucked up shit; I wouldn't idolize a psychologist from the 19th century | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Probably just another wave on the beach but I had to say thanks...Well, I'm sure you matured a bit since 16. Good job btw | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What to follow up with upon rejection?Her: I have a boyfriend. Me: So do I. They probably don't get that response very often! | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:36 PM |
| 1 | What to follow up with upon rejection?I see part of your theory (Can't two people talk without an agenda) but I would just let a girl go even if we talked a bit after the rejection. If she places me in the friendzone then sure her guard will be down, but she'll also won't see me as fuckable material. It seems like too much extra time & effort being invested into somebody who's less receptive. | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:35 PM |
| 1 | What to follow up with upon rejection?Never thought about it this way, maybe I'll try that during my daygame on the street. It'll be amusing to see the confused look on her face as I stand there until she moves on hahah | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:32 PM |
| 8 | "You could have had sex with me twice by now and it wouldn't have been rape"Exactly, the fact that since OP stopped when he did shows immense amounts of needlessness and a lack of desperateness. In turn (because he wasn't a dick about it) she'll want him even more. He now is even more of a challenge to her | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:28 PM |
| 18 | "You could have had sex with me twice by now and it wouldn't have been rape"She's fucking with you. OP realized that and he's the better person by showing that he won't take that shit. Flirting is one thing, not wanting to look like a slut is another but honestly if you want to have sex with this guy then just have sex with him. Why do people engage in needless drama? | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:21 PM |
| 7 | Approach timeThe results of what a bold and confident approach/interaction gets you. Good job /u/Alexbass96 | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 01:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm a girl who wants to go out, but I need help getting over my approach anxiety!Why? You know the friendzone is the bane of many AFC's; why is it you're friendzoning them? Girls rather make her guy friends stay friends but most guy friends are willing to bang their girl friends. The paradox is real and it is made fun of by popular youtube videos. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 11:53 PM |
| 0 | I'm a girl who wants to go out, but I need help getting over my approach anxiety!Yup, where are the moderators when you need them...? | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Is this a good method for Daygame?I'm an EMT. I probably wouldn't do this. What I do like to do is share the gruesome/life death stories I've witnessed on the ambulance with people I know well; they're interesting. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 04:39 AM |
| 1 | The aloof barrier. Why mine goes up.I wish more women would put up their sides... Well there are people who wish otherwise. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 04:28 AM |
| 5 | Any tips for dealing with the rain?I think you missed the point: smaller umbrella = girl latching on to your arm and snuggling close = kino. Not to mention your big umbrella logic. Take one for the team; so what if you get a little wet..? It'll make her feel some sort of gratitude that you took the bullet. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 03:01 AM |
| 2 | What are your experiences picking people up in a foreign languageI have some great experiences picking up women in a foreign language. In fact, I wanted to make a thread discussing it on /r/seddit in the near future. You typically speak slower in your second language than your first, most people think this is bad but it's actually really good. First it allows you to think more critically, choose your words, and let your emotions fuck you up less because everything you say is filtered. Not only that but because you're foreign then people really pay attention t… | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Show me the evidence: Why I don't care as much about your personal opinions or resultsRolling off what /u/HappyJerk said: Even if somebody gives you a field report or runs through some personal anecdotes as "evidence", you still won't know if they're real. Do you want everybody to stat recording and video taping their interactions....? I assume everybody here is telling the truth unless what they've done is incredibly improbable. Why do a bunch of bros have to lie to one another? Not to mention in psychology we run "experiments" with more than 1 or 2 subjects. Scientifically spea… | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Oh look, science proves everything we've been saying all alongWe already teach about attraction and love, just nothing deep enough to be considered PUA. However there are psychologists working on attraction, sex, etc as we speak | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone had a girl found out about, well...this?Patched it up? If she has a problem you don't have to justify yourself/actions to her. All you say is: "bye bye!" | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 02:49 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone had a girl found out about, well...this?Mystery? Why would I want him there? My desktop background is just topless chicks | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How I ask girls out5th grade vocab bro | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 02:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Sent the same text to 4 different women, and got 4 different responsesJust one? | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 02:11 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Sent the same text to 4 different women, and got 4 different responsesExactly, I've started using this method because 1) it shows my intentions are more than just being friends 2) if they reject me or don't respond then I know where they stand (whether they like me or not) and stop wasting my time with them. Often, I'll delete the entire text conversation from my phone so that unless she texts me then we won't text, ever. | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 02:09 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Sent the same text to 4 different women, and got 4 different responses"OOooh I like that." This is my surprised face but I'm not surprised at all; girls like when guys take the lead. Heck, there are so many indecisive people out there that it makes you stand out. | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Hot Babe + Cockblocks = NopeThanks for sharing your field report, sorry to hear about the cblock Something similar happened to me this weekend: I kicked it off with this girl, but her roommate was also at the bar. The roomie eventually starts making out with this dude so I make moves on the girl I want. The bar is closing and I can tell the dude wants to take her roommate home (which would have left me with the girl coming to my place) except they were hell-bent on leaving together. If just one of us isolated well enough t… | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 08:52 PM |
| 6 | How many girls a year do you approach?Hundreds; but don't get caught up in the numbers. People who make spreadsheets or define success by how many girls they made out with last night are in a shallow stage of the game. I don't approach women to say "Yes! I approached my 1,000th girl." but rather so I can try to add some spice to my life and possibly meet somebody worth meeting. You never know unless you approach ;) | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Peacocking at its finest....Pussy Eater 69, classic | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 02:32 AM |
| -3 | Suggestion I found has helped me as a beginner: Follow the advice of ONE person at first.Follow the advice of ONE person at first So why should I follow your advice, I'm already getting advice from someone else? There are different styles of seduction. I'm a person-to-person kind of guy who only texts when needed and avoids online dating. I think it's beneficial for beginners to get a sample of everything and just see what works for them, that's how I got started. Your post has merit, don't get confused and don't get overwhelmed but how would you know that your one guy is even givin… | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 02:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you not look for validation? I mean its simple, but I can't seem to not do it.Easiest way to combat the "I've never had a girlfriend" problem is to say something along the lines of "I was waiting for that special someone" or "I was waiting for someone worth my time." This instantly turns the tables to you having standards and not just wanting to waste your time on anybody. She'll then start trying to qualify herself to you. P.S, you're looking for the word confident not confidant. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl constantly switch from being playful to being moody?Plan with this one is to get to class early next time and sit near the usual spot and see if she makes the effort to sit next to me instead, if yes I'll ask her out again if not I'll just assume no interest and cut it loose. That's a good strategy for next time, but overall this girl's moodiness/attitude would be too much drama for me. I'd pass | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Great socially, bad with girlsHey /u/datinginfo! I try to help people out as much as I can here, but I'm no Dr. Phil hahah I'd recommend reading "Models" by Mark Manson; overall the book is very through and can do a much better job than me brainstorming for the next few minutes. So, at what point in the relationship do you consider that you "crash and burn"? Obviously you're out there meeting people but do they lose interest early on (as acquaintances), or at later points when they become friends/girlfriends? If you're fit, … | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Had trouble with AA today during day game. I couldn't approach a 2 set by myself, anyone have some experience to share?Approach them with the expectation that you'll succeed (assume attraction) but don't expect anything from the interaction! Why are you thinking about number closing before you even approach them? Before you approach your chances of a number close are 0%. I find that if I go into a conversation just to chat with someone and have fun then the interaction is a lot more genuine. The more fun a conversation is, the better your chances become that they'll want to see you again. So, a 2-set solo? I pre… | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Great socially, bad with girlsI'm surprised because you're confident, healthy, and social; these are the key ingredients to be an attractive person. Are you coming off as too needy? Are you escalating interactions and showing interest? Do you dress to kill? I think we need more info. Before I used to think girls didn't find me attractive, but once I realized I had a hot girlfriend and now I have girls hanging around me then I figured maybe I'm just not gaming them correctly. Take it to the next level, keep reading /r/seducti… | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Great socially, bad with girlsExactly, otherwise she's saying "He's not interested" just as much as you're saying the same thing about her. | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Counterpoint from a guy: I’ve been a good boy, a player and everything in between: Man to Man from a really generic dudeI always wish I could up vote posts like these twice. Thanks for taking the time to do a thorough write up from a guy's perspective. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveTrue, I need to get better at all that push & pull stuff.. I won't treat people like shit but I've stopped being the nice guy. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Request: A basic phone wallpaper that will motivate us if we happen to look at our phone before approaching someone.Quick internet search, maybe use this as your background...? | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 10:33 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveThen they're attracted to the prospect that you'll be rich and successful. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 10:21 PM |
| 0 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveUpvote for the toilet paper comment, downvote for being a girl spy on a male seduction forum | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 10:20 PM |
| 22 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveIt sucks living with 20-year old women because they're soooo messy | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 10:18 PM |
| 39 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspective[make] you feel like a queen I appreciated the post but every girl I gave the royal treatment to eventually just breaks my heart. I'm done making girls queens for a very long time; I broke the pedestal with a sledgehammer. And you're not seeking approval at all, you're giving the man an honest answer. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 10:16 PM |
| 1 | People will hate youThe people who criticize me usually eat horribly and barely exercise; they probably want me to be like them so they can feel better about their lifestyle. Once my friend told me I'd outlive him by 30 years because of how much I run then the other two speculated that I had immense amounts of self-control. These aren't bad traits to have, but I don't run for others, I run for myself. | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 09:59 PM |
| 25 | People will hate youProbably something along the lines of: You'll be bending over backwards trying to please everybody and each interaction will need a personae tailored to please different people. In the end of the day, everybody will love you except you won't be free to express yourself. Imagine if you had to change yourself to be liked by group of friends A, then for group of friends B. Imagine being another person to please only your GF, then one for your parents, one for your boss, and one for your acquaintanc… | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Guide To Making, Nurturing And Maintaining Female Friendships: Any good advice out there?True, you don't seduce women to just be friends, but it's still a good question for the sub | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm a young guy and really want to meet 40/50/60+ year old women for casual flings. Any specific advice on how and where to startjust want to have crazy sex they realized they missed out during their younger years by playing hard to get ;) | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 09:57 PM |
| 5 | How do I approach checking if she's clean?I always use a rubber, but it doesn't protect me when... ehem (SFW) | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Tips, hacks and universal lessons for verbal and non-verbal communication.There's also a "save" button under every post or comment. As long as it's not deleted then the content remains for your personal use. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 09:36 PM |
| 5 | How to escalate correctlyOut of pure experimental curiosity, how would you phrase asking a girl for a kiss during the day? | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 09:04 PM |
| 1 | I'm so tired of oneitis.The thing is this girl never walked into his life; you can't get caught up on those types of girls then | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 08:59 PM |
| 4 | I'm so tired of oneitis.I agree with /u/HappyJerk, OP is in a state where having 10 girls just means he'll be looking at his phone 10 times as much. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Bring a girl to your place after first date when both of you drove?I was in a similar situation; the girl was going to drive to the venue and I told her to just park her car at my place and we'll go together. No point in wasting twice as much gas, right? 1) you can get her inside your place and not even end up go to the venue 2) you can drive together, interact, and in the end of the night you'll have to go back to your place. Have her leave her keys in your apartment/house for the added effect ;) Another way around this is by having her pick you up. You won't … | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Bring a girl to your place after first date when both of you drove?But it still gives her a convenient way to weasel out of doing something. It's similar to guys who have AA and come up with excuses as to why they shouldn't approach; well this girl could be coming with a predetermined excuse. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 08:49 PM |
| 16 | Epiphany I had while travelling in China10/10, relevant reference | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 08:30 PM |
| 2 | How much does appearance matter?I agree. Unless by appearance he means race/ethnicity then unfortunately you can't do much for that. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Always Pick OneI mean, I have friends that are so close I call them my cousins hahaha so it's cool that you have an extra brother in your life You got started at 13!? Kudos! At 15 I was still an ugly turtle bursting out of my shell; it wasn't until I was 18 that I felt some attraction building in women. So going on that theme, I'm about to show my little bro this subreddit and give him my seduction books I've read. He's now a freshman in college and I wish I was armed with this stuff when I was his age. (My on… | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 02:17 AM |
| 0 | How to sext?True, playful and responsive are all fine if it's ambiguous enough.. Idk, I personally just leave this stuff to the face to face interactions because emotions, jokes, and sarcasm are all toned down over online interactions But hey, everybody has a different style that works for them :) | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 02:11 AM |
| 3 | How do you stay motivated after a bad/embarrassing rejection?Let us take a moment of silence for all the virtual men and women we've lost today. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How do you stay motivated after a bad/embarrassing rejection?now everyone thinks I'm shit with girls... But do you think you're shit with girls? Honestly, you're not trying to pick up girls for them and you shouldn't try to pick up girls to impress anyone. Never feel pathetic for desiring somebody, those are YOUR feelings. You're entitled to them. If your circle of friends are giving you a hard time then lose contact with them for as long as you see fit. Brush yourself off, reset and go make some new friends in the meantime. They may gossip, they may teas… | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 01:18 AM |
| 13 | Always Pick OneDang, I guess that threesome is going to have to wait then.. But in all seriousness, it sounded like a good situation if you targeted girl A and then used girl B to take your attention away from A. This lack of neediness would have drove one of them crazy by now and one girl would've tried harder to get into your pants, competition style. As Marie Antoinette once said: Suce ma bite pendant qu'j'regarde le foot... which loosely translates to "let them fight to the death." No wait, I'm mixing up m… | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 01:11 AM |
| 3 | How To Compliment CorrectlyTrue true very good points posed by both you and /u/zach84 | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 01:03 AM |
| -5 | How to sext?Don't sext If you have to sext then don't send anything you wouldn't want your mom/dad, best friends, and future employer to see. That's my rule of thumb. You can say something to a girl and unless it's recorded then words come and words go, but text messaging conversations remain for days, months, years after it has been typed. Some guys like to get really descriptive and then forget that it requires 2 parties to delete a conversation. I would even stray away from sexting your girlfriend becaus… | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 08:44 PM |
| 6 | How To Compliment CorrectlyThis isn't a steadfast rule but I heard you shouldn't use looks as a go to compliment because that girl did nothing to have those incredible eyes... she just has them. Instead, compliment her on something she consciously decided to wear or do | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 08:37 PM |
| 2 | How To Compliment CorrectlyNot according to my favorite rap artists ;) | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How does escalating look like for more quiet, low-energy, intellectual guys?A wise man once said: just do it. | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 02:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Went after the girl, got her, fell short of F-close possibly due to her ex.I'm sorry the Ex mystically cock blocked you. It's happened to me once. Take a note from Seddit's top post: Okay, but just so you know tonight is your only chance with me ;) | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 02:32 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First try, F-closeTrue and False but there are uglier guys out there right now doing the same thing so I'm leaning more towards false | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 02:15 PM |
| 1 | PUA film starts production in UKMy only qualm with this film would be the fact that it's scripted and staged. Sure, we may get some information about being a PUA but in the end everybody is just acting with a predetermined dialogue | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 02:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Xanax, Molly and MFFFCongrats on your foursome, living the fantasy | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 02:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Xanax, Molly and MFFFIdk it's easy to go overboard with drugs or even become addicted to something, for example cigs. Alcohol is known as a social lubricant, but it's also a crutch. I've practically stopped drinking when I go out and I wouldn't condone drug use for those I'm helping become PUA's | /r/seduction | 30/03/14 02:32 AM |
| 1 | [Day game] - Using "I'm seeing someone, so we're meeting as friends" to "pre-counter "I have a boyfriend"...?but a way to signal to her that you're not trying to get in her pants. Well, are you actually trying to get in her pants? Because if you are then the problem is you're trying to hard to play it cool. You're trying not to show them you're interested in more than being friends. Having friends is cool and all but it's not if you're trying to become more than that. By disqualifying yourself as sexually interested then you're needlessly shooting yourself in the foot. Like /u/RandianHero said, just ro… | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 11:54 PM |
| 1 | The Most Useful Quote I've found on ConfidenceI certainly can't control what others think of me Really? I do it all the time ;) | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 11:36 PM |
| 4 | 21 y/o virgin (yeah, another one...)Lost my virginity when I was 21 to my girlfriend of 18 who was also a virgin. We were in a hotel with my parents one room next to us probably doing the same thing. It was amazing, but it probably has something to do with her being a girl I cared about. I'm sitting here typing this and I feel no different than I did 214 days ago... Don't do anything rash that you might regret. Escorts for example will do the deed but you'll feel no emotional connection or attraction really. Then you'd witness sex… | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 02:47 AM |
| 1 | F'n OneitisYour TLDR is unjustifiable, I don't think your an idiot at all. Feelings come and feelings go. I think the fact that you know a relationship is unlikely only makes letting her go more difficult than it needs to be. As you said, she's an HB6, but an HB100000 in bed? Just tell yourself you can do better, get that HB9 in bed and work her like an animal. Besides, I heard that slightly "older" women are more experienced in that department ;) so if you like a 28-yr old then imagine a 30-something year… | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Club gameClubs are one of the few places you can get away with making out with a chick you just met and haven't said a single word to... Confirmed. Happened to me last night lol | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 12:24 AM |
| 1 | What are some alternatives to saying "sorry" and "excuse me"?Well for me it depends on what I'm apologizing for... I think the first step in being a good PUA is to be confident about what you say and do. Just today I was able to approach a girl and say "nice ass" and get away with it. How? It was the confidence associated with it, most guys wouldn't ever dream of saying that. If she found it offensive? Sorry to not be sorry, but I meant what I said. Minor things that don't require an apology, I don't even say anything. Try not to apologize for opening on … | /r/seduction | 29/03/14 12:14 AM |
| 3 | A short anecdote on how inconsequential texting isI loved your comment, your text game is pretty good. Not only that, you're not wasting time with long drawn out stuff. If I want a conversation I'll forgo the carpal tunnel and just meet up in person over a cold brew. I've been an advocate of only texting to meet up but now you've added an extra element to that, the mystery element. Have a great day | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 10:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Thursday Night; should I see her again?No offense taken, I was going to put this on /r/askseddit but I figured there was enough "field report" substance to put it here. Although my question was initially a moral one, I figured out I'm not going to hang out with her. What I am asking is whether or not I should text her anything about the fact or just flake and somebody below took the time to help me out. That would be a legitimate seduction question because other guys might find themselves in a similar situation as I and then they'll … | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 10:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Thursday Night; should I see her again?Hey thanks for your reply, Yeah that's what I'm leaning towards, I'm definitely not going to screw with someone's relationship. What I'm really wondering is if I should even text her about not going out tonight or just flake on her. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 08:22 PM |
| 2 | An AFC's Guide to Texting, Part 2Only person I would ever give good morning/good night texts to are my ex-girlfriend. Since we broke up I never do it anymore. Another situation is if you're talking to somebody late at night and they say they're going to bed, then that would warrant an "Alright, good night" or "Alright, see you tomorrow." depending. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss's 30 Day Challenge - Anyone ever try it?I'm not familiar with this challenge; is there a way you can tell me 1 or two days worth so I can get an idea? | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss's 30 Day Challenge - Anyone ever try it?Oneitis is a problem, healthy relationships aren't. If you're in a legit, healthy one then more power to you :) | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 02:34 AM |
| 3 | What mindset or advice enabled you to start cold/street/day approaching?He looks like Johnny Depp | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 06:20 AM |
| 3 | What mindset or advice enabled you to start cold/street/day approaching?"President /u/Cray_for_the_Day ! The Iranians just launched nuclear warheads at 11 major U.S cities! What should we do Sir!?!" – Fuck it. | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 06:18 AM |
| 2 | What mindset or advice enabled you to start cold/street/day approaching?Her loss because I'm sure you're a fun guy | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 06:14 AM |
| 3 | I don't like the way she smells... yet?Aren't we all? | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Am I conveying my intent well enough?Fast forward to today: she asks me to come to a school speech thing... she didn't want to be alone... I had homework up the ass,... I decided to go. NOOOOoooOOOoooOOOooooOOOOooOO That was your moment to show you weren't needy and to show that you have a life outside of her. Sure it's human nature to be supportive of somebody you're beginning to like, but a simple "Sorry, I can't, I'm very busy." OR "Sorry I can't I have homework." would have saved you. Think about it, you wouldn't have wasted yo… | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 05:55 AM |
| 2 | GUIDE: Kino (touching a girl) [Thijs Quality Post]My bad!! I completely forgot; I hope nobody is losing their job over this | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you guys use the "I can't resist you/I can't say no to you." method?Thanks for taking the time to share this with us | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you guys use the "I can't resist you/I can't say no to you." method?You lucky dog hahaha My year is going pretty average, hopefully it'll pick up in the summer once I graduate and am surrounded by foreign chicks ;) | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 10:48 PM |
| 14 | GUIDE: Kino (touching a girl) [Thijs Quality Post]NSFW What OP deserves | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Fast Seduction 101 Player Guide Intro RewriteMy prediction is he's running it by us and then he'll put it up for sale | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 02:02 AM |
| 1 | On Plausible Deniability and Library PickupI wish I could give two upvotes for the Johnny bravo reference | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 01:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] OKCupid Date went great according to me, got dumped for the 2nd one. I'd love some feedbackI'm not the type of guy who gives false hope, but go and see some other people and lose contact with her for a good amount of time. It doesn't sound like you burned any bridges so she may go on another date with you, you wouldn't have much to lose by asking. Just my two cents, move on for now and play it by ear. Just tell yourself you learned something from your interaction and it wasn't for nothing | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 01:37 AM |
| 5 | How I picked up a model in the mall (Infield Audio)If the club or bar plays loud music then it would be hard to hear what's going on.. at least I'm assuming because there was a lot of background noise and they were in a mall | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 12:43 AM |
| 5 | [FR] OKCupid Date went great according to me, got dumped for the 2nd one. I'd love some feedbackEven though I like a girl or two, I can go days without texting them. After that first date I wouldn't have really contacted her until a day or two before the next weekend date. That's just me though Also I commend you for all the kissy-kissy action on your first date, but maybe you took things too quickly for her | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 10:03 PM |
| 7 | How can I 'store' girls for later?Use a pokeball | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 07:49 PM |
| 13 | On Plausible Deniability and Library Pickupstarts the slow clap That was entertaining to read, I really like your prose. I'm now curious what you wrote on your notebook.. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 07:45 PM |
| 3 | I am a 22 year old beta virgin loser and I am going to make it.You have a way with words /u/HappyJerk | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Advice on getting out of my head when contemplating whether or not a woman is in a relationship?The best way to get over this is to approach first and ask questions later. Besides the one case where the dude kissed her, you honestly don't know if a random girl is dating anybody. To prevent over-thinking your approach, when you see a girl you want to talk to then start moving towards her and ready yourself. The opener doesn't even matter: "Hi my name is (Tim) and I came over because ____." Boom. This video was very popular on here a while ago and it'll explain everything about approaching, … | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 05:34 AM |
| 3 | I am a 22 year old beta virgin loser and I am going to make it.Live everyday like it's your last, so that once that moment does come you (hopefully) have no regrets. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Found a great opener for text game, Tinder, online dating etc.Only one way to find out if it works. I could see how this could work with online dating, but I'm not sure I'll find success via text. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 03:32 AM |
| 27 | I am a 22 year old beta virgin loser and I am going to make it.The first step is turing that title into: "I'm a 22-year old unique and interesting guy that every girl should want to be with and my job is to simply make them wonder why all those other girls didn't take the opportunity to fuck my brains out." So you're getting started on your quest tomorrow, right? Promise us you'll make an approach and turn your life around. Just remember, you don't need women to be happy and fulfilled, but it's not bad having a interesting, fun people in your life. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Observations resulting from a conversations I had with a HB 9.5 (after we hooked up)If he's fucked 50 women, he's doing something right. It means he's pre-selected. He's desired. I'm not sure women would find this sort of information attractive in and of itself. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Observations resulting from a conversations I had with a HB 9.5 (after we hooked up)Sure you want an attractive girl, but how a girl acts around me is also very very important. A "9.5" with an inferiority complex could be a good lay but I'm not sure how much value there is after that. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Escaped the Friend Zone?Are you asking why she's now attracted to you? It's probably a multiple of factors. You're showing more confidence in general and you probably matured in appearance/physical attractiveness. Likewise, you're not succumbing to her like you were before; you're not her "yes man". Chatting with other girls does help peak her interest with you. I'm intrigued by your situation because I'm in a similar one right now. You see, this girl friendzoned me about 2 years ago. Since then I had a girlfriend. Now… | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Escaped the Friend Zone?This is the right sub. Can I ask what you're looking for in this girl? A quick lay? Friends with benefits? Girlfriend material? Regardless, from reading what you've provided, I'd say she's attracted to you, sexually. Rubbing crotches? Pantsing? It's only a matter of time man. The ball is now in your court. I would break contact with her a bit to build attraction and try to get some more 1 on 1 time with her. Now this doesn't mean ignore her texts or anything, simply go on with your life and cont… | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 02:00 AM |
| 1 | X-Post from Lifeprotips. How to accentuate a great jaw-line in your photos! Great for online-dating apps!Different strokes for different folks. This sub is about helping people and I think the OP posted this video with good intentions. Everything doesn't work for everybody all the time. That's fine, you can always express your disagreement with something or with others. It's how you do conduct yourself which matters. Be classy boys. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 01:52 AM |
| 1 | A clever joke from weird twitter.Hence, I said "All speculation of course." Maybe you guys don't know what the word "speculation" means? That's speculation as well but hey. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 01:40 AM |
| 2 | How to develop an escalation situation? (college student)It's getting nicer outside, maybe ask her if she'd like to go for a walk around campus. I like running or playing frisbee so I ask girls if they'd be interested in running with me (which is usually followed by them telling me about how bad they are at running and me teasing that I'll walk if I have to). Ask her to do some physical exercise with you and work some kino/conversation into it. If either of you aren't into that then ask her to dinner or ask her if she wants to watch a movie with you a… | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Being an Extrovert with an Introvert WingmanMy roommate was an introvert and then he realized how much fun I was having by being social and going out. He improved. What confuses me is why you used this person as your wing for 6 months if it wasn't working out.. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 01:27 AM |
| 3 | The Art of Charm Reviews?I'd rather invest some time and find a good friend/wingman than pay a couple of thousand dollars for some short term help. 3-5k is enough money for you to travel the world for a long ass time (whilst picking up foreign girls). It's enough money for you to buy suits, ties, and look sharp every day. It's enough money for you to put a down payment on a new car. If you buy me drinks for a night, I'll wing and help you with anything, I'll even be your personal guinea pig. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Buying Girls DrinksLike /u/RedSunBlue said, the best solution if she asks is to make her buy the first round. I can think of two reasons why this is good... 1) It quickly shows your her interest levels in you and it makes her more invested in you. Likewise, if she turns down your offer to buy the first round then the logic is as follows: She just asked you to buy her a drink but she won't buy you one? What type of person is that? 2) She'll hang around and get to know you more whilst waiting to get her drink from y… | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 01:13 AM |
| -4 | A clever joke from weird twitter.Funny post. My assumption is this person got burned by a PUA, maybe she got attached and realized he wasn't sticking around. All speculation of course. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Friendly reminder for young and older CasanovasI'm more of a Durex kind of guy ;) | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 12:15 AM |
| 28 | [FR] Met a girl in the afternoon, hung out later that night, f-closed.I didn't care if I got laid. Beautiful, if you engage in every interaction like this then the appearance of neediness is reduced and you think with a straight head. Overall this was a very descriptive field report. Bravo for remembering to leave on a high note, I had that problem 2 days ago. My only qualm is you should stop smoking cigs, but hey, that's just the healthcare provider within me talking | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 09:23 PM |
| 1 | I've never got more attention from women than when I wore a similar shirt. So I made some for you :)Anybody else find it amusing that the website is called BETA brand? Wearing this shirt seems like a mild form of peacocking, but I would much rather look like a boss than wear this. That's just me. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 09:14 PM |
| 2 | What to do when meeting people at a dance party?Hahaha alright /u/BlueIsStylinOnYou is keeping me honest because he's right, reverse grinding can be perceived as non-alpha. He actually has some good technique which I'm going to cop for next week, I'm loving the whole whisper in her ear, "not too dirty.." aspect. Listen to him when he says, grind with her but don't give her the whole shabang at once, escalate things naturally. If I was a girl and some guy got behind me and instantly started feeling my breasts and easing his way down my crotch,… | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Your approach to "Sorry, I have a boyfriend"I didn't realize you were on Reddit, I love reading your articles. I agree, for her to say these words even if she doesn't have a boyfriend is a big sign of disinterest. There are plenty of fish in the bar, don't let rejection ruin your night and just move on. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Your approach to "Sorry, I have a boyfriend"This is what I would say. On Saturday night I watched as some poor dude tried to dance with my single friend and she just turned around and said those dreaded words. He left and I felt bad for the guy. But, do you know how many "boyfriended" girls I danced with? A lot. But that's really as far as I got. At the time when I started using the statement you proposed, I did have a girlfriend and I really just was looking for fun girls to dance with. I haven't used it since, I don't really like lying … | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 03:33 PM |
| 1 | X-Post from Lifeprotips. How to accentuate a great jaw-line in your photos! Great for online-dating apps!Because humans are biased. Here, have an upvote. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 03:29 PM |
| 1 | X-Post from Lifeprotips. How to accentuate a great jaw-line in your photos! Great for online-dating apps!Only guys with double chins and fat should find this useful? I just ran 12 miles yesterday, I'm not fat at all. Nowhere in the video does he say "MAKE YOUR FAT CHIN DISAPPEAR," he's just trying to accentuate your jawline and make it pop. I'm going to use these techniques and do you know why? Because I don't online date, the extent of my online dating is my facebook profile where I simply put pictures of the amazing things that happen in my life from traveling the world to partying with bitches. … | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Easier way to meet hot girls than cold approach? Help!?Hey man, when life gives you HB6's, you bang her brains out then move on to her HB9 friend. But honestly, you don't need women in your life and you don't need to bang girls you don't want to. Try being successful and independent and it will show. To get women, you first need to survive without them. I know you said no philosophy but it looks like you need it at this point. If you don't want to meet online or do cold approaches, that's fine. I'm not a fan of online dating either, but dating is an… | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 07:53 AM |
| -2 | Had an epiphany today I thought I'd share: Women don't want a guy who gets them, they want a man who is attractive and exciting.I'm pretty sure many guys don't think that sex is enough | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 07:46 AM |
| 3 | Had an epiphany today I thought I'd share: Women don't want a guy who gets them, they want a man who is attractive and exciting.Damn, so cooking/preparing a romantic dinner with a gal at my place isn't masculine enough...? Uh-Oh. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 07:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach strangers?This whole subreddit is about approaching strangers and talking to them. First off though, if your intent is mere friendship and nothing else then you're job is easier compared to all the guys trying to get into a girl's pants or trying to find girlfriend material. However, my advice for you is to NEVER friendzone yourself, especially in the opening interaction. Guys try really hard to exit the friendzone and you're perfectly fine waltzing right in? You can make friends while keeping sexual tens… | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 07:31 AM |
| 2 | What's the best approach on a bartender?The best approach for this situation is no approach at all. But since you asked, I would attempt multiple approaches on two separate nights. The caveat is you should be relatively sober. This will be a change of pace because mostly drunk guys engage her at work. Make your intentions clear from the start when asking for her contact info, or ask her if she's doing anything after her shift ends. Chances are if she works at a bar then she likes to drink so ask her out to go drinking for some later d… | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 07:19 AM |
| 3 | What to do when meeting people at a dance party?When it comes to approaching/dancing with groups of girls, I find the most success when going in with at least one wing and working groups of 2–4. You don't even need a "professional" wing, you can take any drunk AFC dancing by himself and ask him "hey do you want to dance with girls tonight, or by yourself?"... obviously he'll say "hell yeah!" to which you point at your targets and tell him to follow your lead. But don't ever let not having a wing stop you. Engage the group solo and get them co… | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Rant: The only way to get good at the game is practice.I do agree that the generic comments and the "just go practice" stuff weaken the subreddit. However people also cross the line by asking for the step by step by step, play by play by play details. For example, just today I read a post where the OP said he would watch a movie with a girl and start with kino. The comments which followed asked when he started the kino (he said ASAP, as quickly as possible), what type of movie he would play, if he let the girl pick the movie, what genre the movie wa… | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Rant: The only way to get good at the game is practice.I'd stand on the street in freezing cold waiting for girls to walk by so I could talk to them... and this was the only way i'd ever get a girl in a new city. Sure, if you're homeless and broke. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 06:30 AM |
| -2 | X-Post from Lifeprotips. How to accentuate a great jaw-line in your photos! Great for online-dating apps!I seriously doubt a girl consciously scans your picture and says "Man, what a jawline he has!!" then meets with you and is disappointed. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 06:25 AM |
| 0 | X-Post from Lifeprotips. How to accentuate a great jaw-line in your photos! Great for online-dating apps!How about you watch the video and not get chewed up garbage from /u/tombstone31.. I don't have a double chin and I'm not trying to "trick" anybody.. following the video will simply make your front or side shots look more attractive, you're just playing around with the lighting it's less harmless than photoshop or any of your picture editing software. | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 06:19 AM |
| 2 | X-Post from Lifeprotips. How to accentuate a great jaw-line in your photos! Great for online-dating apps!This information is great, now I'll finally get some headshots that I like | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 12:56 AM |
| 1 | This needs to be reiterated, because sometimes the only way to convince people is to sound like a broken record.I know, he's playing up the fact that the GYM is representative of exercise, but if he truly meant GO EXERCISE then he would have said GO EXERCISE. You don't need the gym to achieve anything he said, you only need to exercise, eat right, and feel completely confident in what you do! | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Closing the deal on Facebook?For next time, maybe help your wing improve at distracting a group because if he was better they wouldn't have been so quick to get you both to leave. Also try to open the set but then shift your focus to the girl you want. I agree with /u/BlueIsStylinOnYou that she probably isn't worth your time, but from a short interaction we don't know for sure. If you still want to give it a go out of curiosity then find her. Worst case scenario she doesn't add you on Facebook or rejects your date, and then… | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 03:44 PM |
| 1 | This needs to be reiterated, because sometimes the only way to convince people is to sound like a broken record.I disagree, I don't need the gym. I run 150 miles a month and do P90x/insanity ;) | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 03:35 PM |
| 2 | This needs to be reiterated, because sometimes the only way to convince people is to sound like a broken record.http://i.imgur.com/oZJd6.gif | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Country differences?I once picked up girls in France, it's mainly the same tactics as the US except they get more interested because an American is fluent in their language (which is not common) | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Don't ever overthink when to go for the kiss.That she made out with another guy? I mean if you think about it yes, but at the time I was drunk and it was getting late so meh | /r/seduction | 20/03/14 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Hacking your brain: using cognitive behavioral therapy to defeat AAthis | /r/seduction | 20/03/14 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Being a young man who is a father - Keep it quiet or be casual about the fact?Just my opinion, people in their early 20's don't really want to hear that kind of stuff (probably because it reminds us about getting older and getting more responsibilities while we're just trying to be loose and have fun). So, for casual encounters or girls you're just trying to game, I wouldn't mention that to a girl unless it's a more serious relationship. If the subject comes up then it comes up... but don't bring it up. | /r/seduction | 20/03/14 06:26 AM |
| 5 | Don't ever overthink when to go for the kiss.Friend (very drunk): "I just made out with this random dude when you were in the bathroom." Me (my body language revealed an unintentional frown) "Oh." Friend: "You wanna make out?" Leaned in for the kiss, I didn't even fucking hesitate. We made out. It was okay; her breath didn't smell that good. Whatever. Good advice, I'll try to use it Friday | /r/seduction | 20/03/14 06:19 AM |
| 5 | Every "nice guy" or guy who exhibits "nice" tendencies should read this. It's a great explanation as to why "nice" doesn't work on it's own and how to balance it with attractive actions.So what I got from this article: too much niceness and you're boring; too much primal instinct and you're a creep/perv. | /r/seduction | 20/03/14 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Just realized I'm THAT guyThat's actually a good question because at the bar/club they can get hounded by other dudes looking to pick up girls. Really, I just like going out to those types of venues, getting a drink or two, dancing, and talking to a lot of people. If I want to talk to her exclusively then we'd switch venues and take it elsewhere (most likely closer to a "sex" location). | /r/seduction | 20/03/14 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Just realized I'm THAT guyTrue, I'd say the guys who hover are at a disadvantage because I initiated the date and have spent more time with the girl, but anything can happen. Sometimes I'm off my game, I'm not perfect. What happens is that the extra guys can cock-block you more so than swoon her from her feet. For example once a guy who was hovering was able to pry the girl from me when I went to the bathroom (there was a long ass line). I knew him because I usually go to the same bar/club every weekend and so does he. H… | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 06:23 AM |
| 2 | How do I try to talk to a girl long-distance (not in relationship)?My ex was Italian from Italy and I'm American. I saw her 2-3 times (I went there twice, she came here for a summer) and had the most amazing sex, ate a lot of GREAT food, and spoke Italian with her family. We ended it because of the distance but we still talk and are friends... I texted her today actually. I'll be in France for a year and she said she'd come visit me (probably so we can bang). I skype her 2-3 times a month just to keep in touch, but now I've been spending more time on prospects … | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Is Pick Up a Science?Thanks this is a step in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Is Pick Up a Science?I understand psychology is a science, I just don't see pick up as part of psychology. I'm not trying be the bad guy here. Can you find something to make me believe they should be associated? | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 03:07 AM |
| 20 | Things I wish I knew years agoDude, I run 5 times a week, I barely lift weights. I eat healthy. But let's be honest, an easy way to build confidence and feel good about yourself is get out there and exercise! I don't get the same high from eating an apple as I do from coming back from a good run. I'm just flabbergasted that you got so worked up over a generic comment. | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Closure Is BullshitIt's not a "terrible" post, I wish I knew this shit last week when my gf broke up with me. Unfortunately I showed her my emotions... | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Things I wish I knew years agotrust me, you will | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Should really attractive guys escalate quickly?Attractive men have slightly more options than dudes lower on the scale, it's just the way things are because the first thing a girl sees is a hottie with a nice smile. Being attractive and well dressed/kept is an amazing opener in itself. Just like how guys here say you have to make a HB8, 9, 10 girl prove herself to you; you should make any girl work a bit to get you, no matter how attractive you are. I wouldn't say women are immediately sexually attracted to hot guys, it really depends on her… | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 08:49 PM |
| 142 | Things I wish I knew years agoGet to the gym boys, it really helps | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Can't seem to seal the dealHonestly, if a girl is naked right next to you and she says something, just just back off a bit, but continue the foreplay and she'll be begging for it. Now, if she's yelling "No! Stop!" and it's borderline rapey, back the fuck off. I've never had a girl go back once the foreplay started, so maybe improve your foreplay also. If you get a girl back to her place and you make out with her then the chances are she wants to bang you. When? Most likely that night and the "we're not having sex" is just… | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How to ask out the cute girl at your coffee shopGood luck man, don't blow it hahhaah | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Is reading seddit daily a bad habit?I started reading this daily, it's inspiring to just get out there and try my hardest. | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:54 AM |
| 63 | I encountered on of you fine gentlemen today.Girls have infiltrated our man cave! Abort mission, I said ABORT god damnit! | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:50 AM |
| 1 | My Favorite Way To Approach During The DayYou run with you phone (that has your ipod on it) and have her type her digits for ya. | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:43 AM |
| 1 | My Favorite Way To Approach During The DayRun on campus, a park, or downtown where there are people walking... preferably girls! If it's got 1 o 2 old people running then you're out of luck man. | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:43 AM |
| 7 | My Favorite Way To Approach During The DayWow this is gold. I run 1,500 miles a year, 5 times a week on a college campus. I WILL DO THIS EACH TIME. Hopefully they don't mind my short-shorts ;) | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:41 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/11/14Well I'm not saying devote your time to stupid shows you have no interest in, but maybe if you watched an episode or two of the most mentioned ones on netflix then you could contribute to the conversation? Yet, talking about a show can only go so far. It'll show you guys watch something similar but outside of that there's not much substance to attract someone. If studying Japanese is your thing then you can make it interesting for any conversation. This is a good idea because you're genuinely in… | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 05:28 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/11/14Work on your conversation skills and don't talk about boring shit. Be spontaneous, say whatever the hell comes to mind. Don't be a smart ass yet be confident in what you say. Also, if you're noticing that your longer convos are getting shut down then keep the chatter to a minimum, build interest, leave and work on some other prospects then return to them later on a good note. If girls are acting "annoyed" then you have to neg them somehow, because that shit isn't okay. There are plenty of ways t… | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 07:25 AM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/11/14Take her out to the bar, as a friend, then ask her to help you pick up other women. If she's a good friend then she won't mind being your wingman ;) It's a win-win on your part; she notices you have a way with women and girls want to be around you. She also may become a bit jealous for something she can't have. Your social value with the girls you talk to will also increase (why is this girl hanging with this guy --> he must be cool/interesting/attractive). Essentially, friendzone the shit out o… | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 07:12 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/11/14Exactly, escalate to the point where you know. If they're not onboard then don't waste precious time trying to make them into you. Friendzone/ignore them and move on to other prospects... I've wasted my entire adolescence chasing 1 or 2 girls, don't be like me. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 07:07 AM |
| 23 | My experience approaching a true 10And you sir, had the balls. Balls deep into her | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Talking deep?...They're called ellipses... and he's clearly using them incorrectly... | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 05:17 AM |
| 5 | How would I know the difference between a hard no and a soft no right before sex?Saying "no" in between moans is excessive and you do have every right to make her feel bad about that. But not seeing her again will only teach her a lesson for the NEXT guy; I say ride that easy P. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 05:15 AM |
| 3 | A simple idea when setting up dates and establishing frame.It's not a bad way, but make the tag question stronger by using a statement: "I'm going to club X on Saturday (with some friends), you should come." The with some friends is an optional part, but if you do have friends going with you then mention it because it shows social proof as well as the fact that your night is not dependent on her coming. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 04:01 AM |
| 3 | First #close of all timeCongrats on the # close, but don't go thinking it'll result in a booty call just yet! Unless you work things right, a number ≠ poo-tang | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 03:46 AM |
| 1 | 17 trying to pick up older women.Advice??Amen, I was happy I got with a girl who was 18 when I had the chance, soon I'll be 22 and I don't think it'll happen again. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With Womenwrong subreddit bro | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Im confused between "be confident, be yourself and do not be sorry for who you are" vs. "do these things to learn how to be attractive"Sometimes I do the same thing as you, however I've conditioned myself to not say things out loud unless it contributes to the conversation. I'd say the best solution is to try and find people who appreciate you for you and get your sense of humor. Otherwise, if you don't want to change and you fake your personality then people will get accustomed to the fake you. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 03:34 AM |
| 3 | How would I know the difference between a hard no and a soft no right before sex?Here are the definitions of LMR / Freeze Out and ASD for those curious, lazy sedditors out there. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 11:21 PM |
| 49 | This shit is GOLD -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To CloseUsually titles like "This shit is GOLD" are overrated, but this is actually pretty good. Thanks for the share. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl said she broke up with her bf, I went in, next day her bf comes up to see her...?My suspicion is they're dating from what you've told us. Don't feel guilty about what happened in the bathroom, you really didn't know, but proceed with caution. She's definitely not girlfriend material, but if she's still down to fuck/cheat then play it by ear. If you're going to feel bad about doing some dude's GF then I'd ignore her (which may backfire because she'd want you even more...). Personally I'd abort mission because I and wouldn't want some dude banging my GF | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 08:09 PM |
| 11 | My dating experience from tinder. Please fill in the blanks and add your own tricks.Like this? | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | My dating experience from tinder. Please fill in the blanks and add your own tricks.yup, unfortunately | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Women with their mothers/grandmothers. Is there a tried and proven method to approach in this situation?If MILF: approach the two ;) If ≠ MILF: avoid the interaction or politely separate the girl | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 04:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I go out alone?I go lone wolf so many times now because my friends don't really like going out. I would say, just go to some bars and clubs and befriend everybody. Don't make the mistake of only going for girls, build up some social proof with dudes too, it's easy to go from a lone wolf to the guy everybody knows. Honestly, after an hour in a packed place, I would've introduced/talked to 30+ people. Here's my thought process, if they're in a club then they're probably easygoing/fun people who are willing to go… | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | "Let's have a sleepover".I think you can still salvage this. Like /u/leogura said, meet up with her once during the day, then be suave and ask her to come over to watch a late night movie or something at a specified later date. Don't apologize for your text (don't even bring it up) because that's still how feel. You're semi-lucky she's playing it off, despite her responding with a BS text it means she is still interested in you. From your stage in the relationship I would have built some more interest, at least physical… | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else go out to the bars with a serious gameplan, only to black out?I agree, usually my number is 2 drinks. And if you finish a beer that's in a can, you keep it with you for a while rather than toss it right away (looks like you're still drinking even though you're not). You need to be in control for picking up chicks, sure loosening up helps but you can't get too loose. | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 09:05 PM |
| -4 | PSA: Seduction isnt a hard science. You learn more from one days hands on experience than you do from 6 months of sitting at home reading about it.OP called PUA a science, LMAO Although a peer-reviewed journal by/for professional pickup artists on certain techniques, openers and statistics would be a good start. | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 08:59 PM |
| 7 | Did no-bullshit daygame for the first time, approached 4. I got a couple of questions.3) you might find out she's not that into you but some other people in her group are. | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Did no-bullshit daygame for the first time, approached 4. I got a couple of questions.Wow, never thought about this.. I think subconsciously I would do it, but it's true that whenever they hear statements (as opposed to questions) then they'll be curious as to why you thought that, which can lead to more interesting conversations.. | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 08:53 PM |
| 1 | 1 Day, 5 approaches. College DAYGAME [Part 6]You're 26th approach could be salvaged at a later date with a number. Alternatively, you know where she works (in a non-creepy fashion I mean, if you went back in a week to browse maybe she'd be there). Anyways, thanks for sharing your approaches | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 07:15 AM |
| – | I have realized that I do not do anything that is not boring during my free time. What new things can I try?Bah tu habites où parce que actuellement je travaille en France et peut-être on peut SEDUIRE des filles ensemble!! woohoooo Take him up on his offer boys | /r/askTRP | |
| – | How would TRP handle demanding female friend?Thanks, I'm going to shamelessly steal that line, it comes off as less butthurt than saying "you're rude" and she'll probably take it as less of a personal attack Although I've had success by telling them like it is | /r/askTRP | |
| – | How would TRP handle demanding female friend?Nothing bothers me more than when people don't value my time. Time is one of your most precious resources in this worldly life, her sucking up your time is an obvious sign of disrespect. Since you talked about driving her to the bars the most, I'll address that. How do you curb this behavior? "I'll pick you up at 10." "Sorry that won't work for us, come at 11" You can do 1 of 2 things, simply tell her that won't work tell and to find somebody else to drive her OR go at 11 and if she's as much as… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Why do so many white guys lust after/relationships with Asian girls?This is the same question white girls ask because they see a few interracial couples (white man, other race girl) and lose their shit.. People have preferences, some dudes care about the race of their partner and others don't. Quite frankly - what is race? A different culture, language, family background? In the end of the day WE are all humans, I don't see the race interaction I see a boy and a girl having a relationship. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | What do you do when American women just aren't good enough?This seems more like a rant than a question, you already know how to solve your problem. I'm an American living in Western Europe. I've hooked several girls, but they play just as many games as our American counterparts. The only difference is that much less of them are fat. Heck the "fat" girls here are "curvy" or "chubby" in the states, I'm not exaggerating. With that being said, there are high quality American girls out there, you just have to find them. If you spend less time bitching here a… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | How do I be myself in a group of men who compete with and talk over and correct me whenever I show my intellect?He wants validation, but not just any validation - TRP validation, right? Because we eat nails for breakfast and shit standing up. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Texting to ask a good time to call?Most smart phones show that there was a missed called, I'd just call her at a time you think she'd be able to pick up and if she lets it go to voicemail – don't leave a message and don't panic. Give it 10-15 minutes then just shoot a text with the proposal (or wait for her to call you back but that could be never). The reason I say give it a few minutes is because the last few times I called girls, they wouldn't pick up... then they'd call me back 2 minutes later like clockwork hahah | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Did i handle this shit test alright?If someone says "I don't have friends" twice, being completely serious, they're either: New in town, crazy clingy, crazy depressed, crazy in a way that people avoid them, low status, or flatout cray cray, so in my book, as we say in France, à éviter. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Did i handle this shit test alright?She sounds insecure; changing the subject was a good move. This girl and i have been seeing each other lately Does that mean you're sticking your penis inside her? Never stick it in crazy bro | /r/askTRP | |
| – | [23 m] dating [18 f]. she's not as intimate as she should be.Don't respond to being upset, she knows something is up. SHE KNOWS you just went down on her and she fell asleep, that's why she made your friends text you etc.. She's your girlfriend but over the next 3 weeks I'd keep it minimal contact. After the break she'll either come back and fuck you like a rabbit because she missed it or you'll realize this is a problem and start making maneuvers to end it. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Manscaping?Good question, yes they all give me dome. It's not like hairs are tickling their faces or are being ingested. It doesn't smell or anything either. Really I feel like this is an aesthetic choice more than anything; I like being hairy and the idea of a man (to me) is hairiness. I should've stated in my original post that that shaving the bush is a personal preference. I know that not everybody will agree with my outlook, I'm just trying to speak up for those who go au natural and maybe dissipate a… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Replies to "I miss you" text?Respond with, "Then come over"... and when she replies, "I can't until/yadda/yadda/you're so far/okay soon/etc.." Hit her back with a, "(Well,) you know where I am" OR you can forget everything I just said and respond with a ";)" although I don't care for emoticon use. I'm sure there are better suggestions out there so let's wait and see. | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Fucked?Huh, usually if you kiss her a few times she'd react or say something along the lines of "let's take things more slowly" if she wasn't feeling it. Maybe: She's on her period and didn't feel like telling you? She secretly wants to keep you as BB/boyfriend material and her girlfriends told her "no sex until date 3 or else he'll think you're a slut!!" You admitted to missing IOI's so maybe she just wasn't feeling it after a bit You suck at kissing She's a robot sent from the government to spy on yo… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | [Update #2] How my night ended up going.This probably isn't the scenario for you but the last two times girls told me "sorry I fell asleep" between 3pm and 9pm... Well, they weren't actually sleeping but banging some other dude. I'm not even fucking joking you, one of them told me she was lying and I figured it out for the other. So what am I trying to say? Girls lie. Or she could've actually been sleeping. Either way, you played your night out without her and you probably had more fun going out than she did at home. Your text respons… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Red piller since yesterday, in a situation and need a primer ASAPFor your benefit I think this scenario could've been prevented. Instead of sending her a picture of yourself you could've said "you can take one with me when I see you in person/on our date/etc". Sending pictures and shit is what happens if you use texting for reasons other than strictly logistics (planning the next meetup), I mean... this girl was driving and texting you. She's using you for attention. If she really wants to get to know you than she'll do it face to face. Wait 2-3 days and if y… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Red piller since yesterday, in a situation and need a primer ASAPOne does not simply become redpill in one day. That's hard to believe. She said she looks like crap herself, so I don't believe her for a second that she's actually offended. She's just trying to see how you respond to her calling you an asshole. I wouldn't respond to this, at all. Her response is the type they'll backpeddle from in a couple of hours. If you had to respond, I'd go with "okay" or "I'm just getting started" (to the asshole comment) If she never responds again then what does it mat… | /r/askTRP |
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