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ambiguous_juice/r/seduction27/08/18 09:10 PM
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ambiguous_juice/r/seduction01/09/16 11:21 PM
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You used the word scrote so assuming you’re apart of the FDS subreddit. Dude isn’t doing anything wrong. He’s been upfront with what he is doing and if the woman is getting attached that’s on them. I’ve met plenty of women who are cool with a casual fling. If that’s not your thing fine but don’t try to vilify this man for how he chooses to live his life.
/r/seduction03/11/21 10:05 PM
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For sure I’ll write up a post later today and include a few of my field reports
/r/seduction10/06/20 05:29 PM
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I agree with everything you said consistency is everything. Also the fact that he is documenting every approach helps a ton too. I’ve been tracking 3 things I did well and 3 things I can improve on during my virtual dates and it’s helped elevate my game and make me feel more confident during my interactions.
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:27 PM
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Just binged read all of your field reports. Good shit man you’re getting better. Continue to learn from your mistakes as well as what went well and you’ll be unstoppable!
/r/seduction09/06/20 01:02 AM
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You hit the nail on the head with this comment, amazing article shoutout to op
/r/seduction23/05/20 12:49 PM
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As a guy I'm on the other side and this happens to me a lot. Most of my convos are bleh though and outside of sex I'm not interested in the vast majority of women I meet up with. Working on improving my flirt / seduction game though
/r/seduction16/03/20 09:01 PM
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I saved this and this is the exact mind state I want to achieve. I had a similar question awhile back and I believe I have my answer now.
/r/seduction10/03/20 11:44 PM
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Thanks for the breakdown. As for the chat I could have added more details but it wasn’t anything special so decided to omit it. Goal was just to meet up and see if we vibed or not wasn’t trying to sleep with her on the first date since logistics weren’t the best. Judging from the comments I still have a lot of work to do so will reflect and get some more practice in. All of this shit is just annoying to me so will take a step back for a bit. I’ve been going on a lot of dates recently and I’m bur…
/r/seduction24/02/20 01:26 AM
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Fuck off 🖕🏽
/r/seduction23/02/20 11:12 PM
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This makes sense and I just posted an update containing the details of my date. I’m trying the whole sober thing out this year and not drinking has made dating even harder for me. Take a look any advice is appreciated. As for my game I just try to be an authentic and fun dude but realizing I’m acting like a clown sometimes for their amusement. Right now I figure I just need to do some self reflection and go on a lot more dates and undergo a trial by fire and figure things out as I go. What I’m c…
/r/seduction23/02/20 08:43 PM
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Trying to seduce mainly but open to dating if I meet someone I connect with. I’ve been relying on online dating for years because outside of me getting pretty drunk I don’t have success with women out and about and also kinda over the bar scene. Also just posted an update containing the details from the date. I have an idea of what is going wrong but this is all just really frustrating.
/r/seduction23/02/20 08:39 PM
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Agreed I had the same cringe feeling from watching this. I cold approached a girl outside of a coffee shop and it certainly wasn’t the smoothest interaction because I was incredibly nervous. This shit isn’t easy and you do have to put in the time and effort to get better. Edit: Hell the girl I talked too wasn’t even giving me eye contact so props to homie and the rest of you for putting yourselves out there. This has motivated me to get back out there and make moves.
/r/seduction20/02/20 06:55 PM
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Long but quality post, good stuff dude I definitely related to the piece about not learning from your mistakes that took me awhile too but better late than never
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:18 AM
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Good stuff dude I'm recently single after only a 6 month relationship but already frustrated with the dating process, then again I never enjoyed it in the first place. Live it up though I'm hoping I can have better experiences like you eventually as well but for now I'm taking a break because I don't think online dating is for me.
/r/seduction31/08/19 05:52 AM
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I like bars I just was never really comfortable approaching women unless I was pretty drunk but I've been working on that. Tinder was more of a clutch for me but there are definitely pro's and con's of both though. Great photo's would definitely make a bit of a difference but I'd never want to invest that much into online dating. Just go out and do fun things and if you have a friend tagging a long just ask for them to take a photo. More photo's you have the more control you'll have over your on…
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:13 PM
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Exact opposite for me I landed a ton of dates through online dating specifically Tinder but struggled with night game
/r/seduction23/08/18 06:58 PM
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Totally agree with your pov on Tinder. I've used it as a clutch the last two years and I went on a ton of dates and slept with 6 girls. The thing is I've only managed to go out with one girl that I met in real life during that same period of time. Also besides my ex all the girls I have had sex with / dated have been from Tinder. I've been tempted to go back on there lately but this post reminded me to stay the course and to continue to work on myself so thank you for that.
/r/seduction13/08/18 09:38 PM
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Outfit wise I'd go with some nice jeans, dress shoes, and a button down shirt. As far as approaches I'd just go in looking to have a good time and don't just approach girls but also guys as well who knows you may make a new group of friends. Just bring some energy with you and let it carry you throughout the night and you'll attract plenty of people
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:03 AM
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Another quality post today has been a good day for this subreddit. I choose what information to really listen and apply to my life but I should put myself out there more. I identify with a lot that you read though and I'm sure we all will get to the place we wish to be at if we continue to work towards our goals.
/r/seduction04/08/18 12:22 AM
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Quality post my friend I'm saving this article!
/r/seduction03/08/18 06:59 PM
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My bad just fixed it now
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:01 PM
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Hmm I see yeah you might just want to stick with one approach for awhile and hone in on that. If you flip flop between strategies you probably won't improve in either one. I say stick which ever one fits you more naturally. I'm a pretty direct / say whats on my mind person so I prefer Mark's approach to dating. Whenever I've tried to be cool and use a line the woman immediately picked up on the fact I wasn't being authentic and it turned her off. Regardless just stay at it and you'll improve. De…
/r/seduction02/08/18 05:00 PM
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Have you read Models by Mark Manson by any chance? Personally I'm not a fan of all the canned lines PUA techniques. No offense just trying to give you honest feedback but from this post you come off as a bit of a try hard / needy dude. My advice is to read that book and ease up a bit on the approaches you gotta have more of an outcome independent mindset. It appears that you are looking for a positive reaction from these lines and women can pick up on that.
/r/seduction01/08/18 09:51 PM
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Any more advice on eye contact? I overthink a ton but I do notice I maintain constant eye contact for an extended period of time which can be off putting. Then my brain starts to churn and I wonder how long I should look a person in the eye before I look away, how to not look away in a weird / awkward way, etc...
/r/seduction01/08/18 08:31 PM
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Glad you enjoyed the story I like sharing these little experiences and I feel like it's a good way for me to learn lessons as well. Added the tldr didn't read as well thanks for your feedback
/r/seduction24/07/18 02:24 AM
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Dude this is my Tinder dating experience in a nut shell. Date will be going good initially then all of a sudden the mood changes. I tend to say what is ever on my mind so I probably said something crazy / offensive. It's annoying though because I feel like with women I have to walk on egg shells in order for them not to go cold all of a sudden like you described. Date can be going good for well over 1.5 hours and yet you can ruin it all in 5 minutes smh.
/r/seduction20/07/18 09:11 PM
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I've read a few of your posts and just wanted to say keep at it man. I've come to realize I have a fear of rejection and I only ever really talk to women when at bars and I'm pretty buzzed / drunk. I'm not ready for this type of challenge at the moment but hope to do something like this on a smaller scale in the future to overcome that fear. Also had no clue you were British until this post.
/r/seduction16/07/18 10:47 PM
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Yeah I want to focus on making real connection with women. For the most part my dates are all very superficial and they all kinda blur together because there is not much substance in the subject matter. I have noticed when I'm in a super good state and feel like joking around a ton my dates are better so just gotta find a way to channel that energy consistently. Thanks for the feedback though its appreciated.
/r/seduction11/07/18 07:15 PM
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I dig this my new approach to dating is just going in with no expectations. I've come to realize I have a fear of rejection so when I went out on dates I'd either try to hard and not be natural or not give a fuck and put in little effort. Both screwed me over and seems the casual / being yourself approach is the best way to go from what I've read recently just gotten have the right intentions.
/r/seduction11/07/18 07:08 PM
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Thanks for the advice I've struggled meeting women at bars and Tinder has been my online option to set up dates with women. It's worked pretty well as far as landing a ton of first dates but my 2nd date percentage is really low. Looking to no longer rely on Tinder instead focus on meeting and connecting with women in person and just use online dating as a supplement.
/r/seduction11/07/18 02:36 AM
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I ended up making out with 4 of the girls in the first half of my dates. Towards the later I just stopped giving a fuck and was feeling super pessimistic so my energy was off. Didn't really have the chance to escalate on every date since sometime the chemistry was just not there at all.
/r/seduction10/07/18 10:06 PM
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I've been focusing on self growth for the past few months or so but had a recent set back when I went on a date with this really cute and awesome girl. I've been doubting myself for the last few days ever since. Just wanted to say thank you I needed this.
/r/seduction13/02/18 12:15 PM
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Being cool is nice but at the same time you need to demand respect. You being "cool" has probably just landed you in the friend zone. You should not tolerate behavior like that. Since you are the same social circle try to keep the conversations as minimal as possible. Continue to date and talk to other women you'll forget about this one soon enough.
/r/seduction15/10/16 03:01 AM
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Maybe to make you jealous or just to be spiteful who knows really. Regardless you should have kicked her ass out immediately. I'd drop this one dude that is not cool at all. Cease all contact with her.
/r/seduction14/10/16 11:30 PM
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Yeah man I've experienced this quite a bit as well. I'm curious are you meeting these girls via Tinder? Also like another poster suggested coffee dates are pretty bad. I've started to grab drinks instead.
/r/seduction12/10/16 03:34 AM
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First off do not be needy. Just play it cool and ask her out sometime.
/r/seduction01/10/16 04:15 PM
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No problem dude. Yeah the key to kino is to start of slow and slowly ramp it up. I usually start off by doing some teasing and once I get the response I'm looking for I'll put my hand on her shoulder and just be like its okay. I do that a few times then place my hand on her back and continue joking. From there can do what you want. There is no set method that works just do what you feel. Once you touch her enough if she is interested she will reciprocate.
/r/seduction28/09/16 01:26 AM
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Do not be needy. Judging from the post you come off as very needy. Be yourself and just play it cool also use kino. Good luck with your situation dude.
/r/seduction28/09/16 12:50 AM
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I'd say something like "Who said I was looking for a relationship? Let's just enjoy each other's company". If she just wants to be friends cut her off though.
/r/seduction28/09/16 12:32 AM
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First off that is a small sample size dude I would not trip about this at all. She might have just thought you just wanted to be friends. Anyway no use in worrying about it you'll just stress yourself out and be more insecure moving forward. Just continue to meet other women and be more direct with them about your intentions moving forward. Look at it this way she saved you time that would have been spent on a pointless date.
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:42 PM
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How many times has this happened to you so far? Same thing happened to me last night with one of the girls I'm talking to. From my experience if they say they are busy and do not make an attempt to reschedule they are not interested. I've been relying on Tinder so far for all my dates but before you get the number make sure you've built a strong connection. Chicks will give their numbers out to dudes to just avoid having to reject you upfront.
/r/seduction27/09/16 08:25 PM
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^ this. I've dealt with women like that in the past I'd advise you to stay away dude.
/r/seduction27/09/16 02:47 PM
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Yeah man I feel you on this. Has that worked out well for you though? I was taught growing up that the guy should always foot the bill so it is has been a hard habit to break.
/r/seduction27/09/16 06:00 AM
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Yeah she was interested in you. The first signal was that she approached you. Most women you'll encounter you will have to make the first move. The fact that she said she was single was a clear flag for you to make your move. It's all good dude I was the worst at picking up signals for the longest. Just focus on her and look for various signs of attraction. If you have been reading the various articles on here you should know a few already.
/r/seduction25/09/16 03:20 AM
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Thanks dude. Yeah one of the biggest thing I've learned here is not to feed into oneitis and always talk to other women. In the past I'd fantasize about how perfect she is then come off as needy and desperate.
/r/seduction25/09/16 12:14 AM
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Pretty much. Always be on the hunt, this will enable you to come across as more confident since you've got options.
/r/seduction23/09/16 10:18 PM
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I hate POF but I love Tinder. For online dating it boils down to two things: Having good pictures (no selfies, cool backgrounds, action shots) The city / state you live in You cannot do much about #2 but travel somewhere with a buddy and take some good pics while you are out.
/r/seduction23/09/16 03:14 PM
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Dude this was all really solid stuff you played it well. From a PUA standpoint you did everything right to be honest at least in my opinion. I'll give you this advice though, never get hung up on just one chick. Always be talking to other women so you have options. This way in case she does all of a sudden lose interest it's not a big deal. Secondly, women are weird. You can have a great date but all of a sudden they can just ghost you. Do not take it personal and like I said just continue to ta…
/r/seduction23/09/16 03:07 PM
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Honestly dude if she is into she will no matter what you say. You have to put in the work prior to getting the number and the date. You've already did that and as long as you made a great impression you should be solid. In general I'd advise you to never wait that long to message a girl again. You guys have prior history so you are good but if this was a random she would have forgotten about you a long time ago.
/r/seduction22/09/16 03:30 AM
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I'd keep it simple like "Hey I talked to you in awhile how are you" or "Hey was just thinking about you, what is new". Do not overthink it dude. Your line would even work tbh.
/r/seduction22/09/16 03:16 AM
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If it happens once I'd let it go but since it has been multiple times I'd just drop her.
/r/seduction21/09/16 10:10 PM
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Like I said before it's always better to be direct so she knows what your intentions are. I've screwed myself over in the past by coming off as friend instead of as a potential lover. You can ask her for lunch just make sure she knows you are interested in her and it's a date. Otherwise she may end up just seeing you as a friend then it's into the friend zone you go. Being direct saves time too. If she rejects you just move on and find someone else. The key is to always be talking to other girls…
/r/seduction21/09/16 06:13 PM
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Rejection is part of the game dude. The sooner you learn to accept that the easier it will be for you to get girls. It is better to state your intentions because hiding them will send you directly to the friend zone more often than not. Personally I'd say something like "You are cute put your number in my phone". The last number I got I could clearly see she was into me so I just pulled out my phone, opened it up to the contacts page, and put it in her hands. You could also do a variation of my …
/r/seduction21/09/16 05:57 PM
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Red flag for me is why is she sending her friends pictures of this dude. That shit is strange also does she ever tag you in the videos / posts you mentioned? My ex every now and then would tag her guys friends in pictures but one was gay and the other she knew for years, he was cool. How long have you too been dating for? There are two ways for you to handle this. One be honest with the way you are feeling and just talk to her. Trust and communication are the cornerstones of a good relationship.…
/r/seduction21/09/16 01:40 PM
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I've had the same problem with my dates I always am too nice and come off more as a friend a lot. After studying game my new strategy is to take them to a bar and offer to buy the first round. They can buy the second one and from there it is just about kino and eye contact. From there just isolate her and go for a kiss if it seems right or just more kino. That is my new strategy I have a date Friday and plan to test it out.
/r/seduction21/09/16 02:53 AM
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Dude sounds like you got it made. You need to just be happy with what you got other people are dealing with a lot less. It is great to strive for better but this post comes off as whiny and entitled.
/r/seduction20/09/16 11:41 PM
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I struggle with the following: Consistent eye contact - I struggle with this one the most for some reason. Picking up IOI's - I've gotten better about this but I still have some work to do Escalating - also gotten better at this but I still feel hesitant touch women got a long way to go
/r/seduction20/09/16 10:26 PM
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^ this
/r/seduction20/09/16 10:09 PM
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Just because a chick is hot by societies standards does not mean she is a complete bitch. I've met some very beautiful girls that are super cool. They are getting harder to find with the advance of social media and dating apps like Tinder, since thousands of thirsty guys put them on pedestals. Nonetheless they are out there and I'd encourage you not to judge a book by its cover. You definitely sound a bit bitter so I suggest you take a breath and reevaluate your belief system.
/r/seduction20/09/16 10:06 PM
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You messed up with the " Geez I thought you..." to me that came across as pushy / douchey. I would have either teased her about her makeup applying skills or asked her what the occasion is. Plenty of ways to handle it from there but I'd avoid calling chicks out like that if they are just busy.
/r/seduction20/09/16 09:51 PM
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Online dating is all about having grab pictures. If you have some ones with good lighting and nice scenery you will be fine. Regarding approaching women I find it best if you do not go out with the intention of meeting them. Go out for a specific reason if you meet a cute girl just stop and introduce yourself. It is not what you say but how you say it. Also you can slowly work your way into it. I've been trying to talk to a different girl everyday, first I started out with cashiers and today had…
/r/seduction20/09/16 01:08 PM
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Agreed this sounds like how a chick would treat her gay friend.
/r/seduction20/09/16 06:34 AM
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Good stuff dude! The last few days I've been thinking about going out by myself. I live in the suburbs so I usually drive 25 minutes to party in the city with a friend, nightlife is much better there. I want to give the downtown life here another shot though. What has been your experience going out solo so far, and do you like that compared to going with a wing?
/r/seduction19/09/16 04:11 AM
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Well the reason for the down votes on this post might be the way you downplayed the make out. Some guys on here have difficulty approaching women, much less making out with one. To others that would be a great night, just a hypothesis though. Yeah dude I just keep it simple with the openers. It's more about the energy you bring. If I'm having a fun time and energetic when I approach women they feel that and it rubs off. Also sometimes the girls are just not interested like the 1st approach. In t…
/r/seduction19/09/16 12:03 AM
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For your 1st approach after her friend came up I would have just ignored the first girl and focused on the second one. Regarding basic conversation I usually just ask them how their night is going, where they have been so far, or what they are drinking. It's less about what you say but how you say it. Friday night I was a bit off my game and the sets in general were lame but I've had success with that the past weeks. You can tell when a girl is interesting with the first minute or so of talking …
/r/seduction18/09/16 07:32 PM
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I really enjoyed the book I've read it twice so far and there is definitely some great value in it.
/r/seduction18/09/16 02:06 AM
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Yeah they do that all the time dude. Which is why it's important to build a connection with a girl before getting a number. You can get a number in 5 minutes but if there is no connection she will most likely not text you back. Check out Mark Manson's Models. If covers a lot more than small talk but it is a highly recommended on this subreddit.
/r/seduction18/09/16 01:29 AM
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Honestly she just might have gave him her number to get rid of dude, especially if she thought he was shady and might cause a scene. I wouldn't worry about it these things happen just keep it moving and try to make a move next time. Plenty of hot chicks out here man.
/r/seduction18/09/16 12:49 AM
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Good stuff man. I was the worst at kino until I started reading some stuff on this subreddit. Still working on getting better at that as well as maintaining eye contact but you are right those two things are super crucial.
/r/seduction16/09/16 07:57 PM
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They wanted to make out with you dude. It's weird that they did that to you, that is normally my go to move when I'm about to kiss a girl. They were probably giving you IOI's earlier and got tired of you waiting so they made the first move.
/r/seduction16/09/16 07:38 PM
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Hey dude sucks to hear how it went down but on the bright side at least you are good at escalating. I had a similar experience with a date a month or so ago were we just clicked. I just sat there like an idiot smiling and not making any moves while she would occasionally laugh and touch me. You live and you learn though, just keep going on dates plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction14/09/16 09:07 PM
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Were all these rejections back to back? To avoid flakes try to schedule them ASAP. A lot of people on here recommend not texting your date after you guys pick a date/time. However I've discovered if I text them a bit up until the date it helps them want to follow through. For example if your date is like 5 days away if you ignore her throughout that entire time period by the time the day rolls around she may have lost interest. On the flip side I've texted girls for 5+ consecutive days and had t…
/r/seduction05/09/16 04:41 AM
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First off do not date a chick that cheats on her boyfriend with you. If cheated on him she will cheat on you. You are on the right path though you know that your problem is neediness. To combat that just work on yourself (meditation, gym, hobbies, etc..) and live life. Also while you may lack abundance at this point in time never put all your eggs in one basket. Even if you are talking to just one girl continue to meet and seek out others. At the end of the days there a millions of women out her…
/r/seduction04/09/16 05:09 PM
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As the saying goes with great power comes great responsibility. If that really is your bro I'd just be honest and tell him. If he is truly happy with this new girl and knows how you feel / felt about Chloe I'm sure it will be all good. In general though pulling girls for fun is fine with me but I'd advise you to do it outside your social circle.
/r/seduction04/09/16 01:32 PM
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Yeah man it happens like that sometimes but do not worry about it there will be plenty more girls in the future. You did a great job of escalating though, my advice would be just to have isolated her sooner and continued to escalate from there. You guys were having a moment and the friend being thrown out ruined it. Not much you can really do in that situation to be honest.
/r/seduction04/09/16 01:24 PM
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Yeah in the case just move on. Who knows what happened but your energy is better spent elsewhere.
/r/seduction03/09/16 11:17 PM
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Good job dude confidence is key. Also do not be needy just have fun, be yourself, and continue to meet other women.
/r/seduction03/09/16 05:10 PM
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You were doing pretty good the only thing I could think of is she was just acting shady because her friend was there. I'd wait a few days to see if she contacts you, or you could text her, to get her alone and see how the vibe is. You have the right mindset though do not be needy and just continue to meet other girls in the meantime.
/r/seduction03/09/16 04:39 PM
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Hooking up with them I assumed that was your goal.
/r/seduction03/09/16 12:15 AM
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How often do you close? I've plenty of success getting numbers, not quite as fast as you get them I tend to message them a bit more first, but my closing rate is ridiculously low.
/r/seduction03/09/16 12:11 AM
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I would say that is none of their business but if reading your reply to another post those are pretty big numbers. Why not just take a month off from approaching. It's fine to want to get rid of the anxious feeling that comes with approaching women but clearly you are not getting the results you want. Women can sort of pick up on the vibe we put off and I believe you come off as trying to hard. My best successes came when I was just having fun and not taking it too seriously. Chill out for a bit…
/r/seduction31/08/16 09:27 AM
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Dude slow down. The women will be there it's more important that you are focusing on improving other aspects of your life. Family and friends are vital try to rebuild those bonds. In general just focus on building up your "inner game" in other words creating a life that you are happy with. Of course you can approach women and work on yourself at the same time but in order to truly find fulfillment you need to be happy with yourself first.
/r/seduction31/08/16 08:16 AM
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