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Blue Pill Exampleamerryunbirthday/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 03:02 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction30/09/13 02:37 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction26/09/13 11:19 PM
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amerryunbirthday/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:44 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction15/11/13 09:37 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/askTRP30/10/14 06:51 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction15/09/13 09:57 PM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction09/09/13 05:37 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/askTRP03/04/14 05:01 PM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction05/10/13 05:08 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction16/09/13 07:37 PM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction15/09/13 03:57 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction29/10/13 10:06 PM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction06/10/13 10:52 PM
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amerryunbirthday/r/askTRP13/03/14 10:13 PM
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amerryunbirthday/r/askTRP21/03/14 04:44 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/askTRP10/10/14 08:01 PM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction05/10/13 05:35 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:52 PM
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amerryunbirthday/r/askTRP19/03/14 07:58 AM
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amerryunbirthday/r/seduction15/10/13 04:00 AM
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I agree. This is pretty childish
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 01:23 AM
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I still think lifting is overrated in this sub. The proper term should be "strength training" to include bodyweight stength training (calisthenics/gymnastics/etc).
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:28 PM
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Yeah I could definitely see that happening. I'll cross that bridge when I get there.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 06:04 AM
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I got mine a couple months ago for my 22nd birthday (december 2014). Obviously i did it for the whole no kids thing, but i will say blowing your load into a girl is so fucking awesome.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 05:54 AM
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I like the message you are communicating, but injuries should not stop you from personal growth. Injuries will happen to all athletes, hopefully there frequency will diminish if we learn from our mistakes, but you cannot prepare for everything. You should be using this time to develop other aspects of your personality, read a book, pick up an instrument, pick up a new skill. Huge facepalm when I read you used that time to play COD for 4 hours a day. The reason you felt like shit is because lifti…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 12:04 AM
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I just turned 22 and I have mine scheduled early next month.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 02:14 AM
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My current LTR hasn't explicitly identified herself to me as a femists, but more frequently than any other girl I've dated, she says silly remarks to me that are right in line with feminism. I actually kind of enjoy it because I find it hilarious when she says those things then turns around and absolutely hates doing any kind of leading or decision making and loves being dominated.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 07:26 PM
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I wish you mentioned what "the issue" was in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:01 PM
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Why are you being downvoted? Nothing against cardio but everyone should be be doing some form of strength training
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 05:20 AM
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Well your right he is just holding frame. OP just referred to it as asshole game and I didn't think passed it.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 07:06 AM
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This has been one of my favorite field reports so far. Asshole game is great.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 10:09 PM
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I still don't really understand how having sex with a girl isn't a relationship. Sure you might not be doing anything else outside of sex, but that definitely looks like a relationship to me. All I'm saying is I'd don't get why traditional Red Pill is so okay with having sex with plates that are fucking other dudes but as soon as you do something outside of sex with her it is considered beta. Personally I prefer manogomy so I hop around in short term relationships, picking up a new girl when I g…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:49 PM
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Honestly I don't understand the difference between plate spinning and an open relationship. They look identical to my me.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 11:14 PM
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Wow what kind of cake are you eating?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:55 PM
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First of all, great post. I am curious what you mean by this line though 'a woman is disgusted with herself for experiencing an orgasm'. For example, my LTR masturbates a lot more often than I do, so I think she is pretty comfortable having an orgasm. Can you explain what you mean by this?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:20 PM
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'I want to eventually settle down and have kids'.... I'm not sure why your even considering the procedure if your still thinking you might want kids. I'm interested in getting the procedure done, purely because I don't want kids.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 05:35 AM
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Right. Guys like Isaac newton, Beethoven, Michelangelo, Thoreau, and Jimi Hendrix are all beta male failures...
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 06:01 PM
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Has to be one of the best posts I've read on TRP. Golden
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 04:19 AM
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This list really threw me off the edge. 'Defining manhood as dominant and sexually agressive' Fuck, I don't even know where to begin with this
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 04:22 AM
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Ha, great read.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 10:53 AM
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Thanks. I'll give an update after my appt. Really, I don't have anyone to blame but myself. A year ago I had sex with a friend of mine who told me she had herpes beforehand. I did use a condom but I also gave her oral sex beforehand (really bad move in hindsight). Edit: Everything you guys are saying is totally true. It was really poor judgment on my part and I regretted it immediately after I left
/r/askTRP09/05/14 07:07 PM
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Seconded. It just helps me eat cleaner/less processed food. Not much more beyond that.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 06:27 PM
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not clear what happens on the 6 days leading up to the day >you see her college/work/fitness I personally don't understand how you have more time for >more plates when school and work should trump having >more sex Some truth I needed to hear. I shouldn't make girls such a high priority
/r/askTRP04/04/14 04:06 AM
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Great advice man. Really like the practical advice about cutting down contact. Thanks
/r/askTRP03/04/14 06:32 PM
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I basically unsubscribed to seddit as soon as I found trp. Most are trying way to hard to impress they're potential princesses
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:39 PM
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If I wanted average grades id study like everyone else, compulsively checking Instagram, Snapchat and Tindr. I'm guilty of this with my redditing. Any tips for cultivating better study habits?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 06:10 AM
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Yeah that's probably true. I was horny at the time but not sure I wasnt sure if I really wanted to go through with it. Like I said 2 fingers hurt for her. I felt like sex would just be me listening to 'ow, ow, ow, ow, ow, ow' the whole time
/r/askTRP19/03/14 04:28 PM
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True. Normally I would wait a until the girl brings up the exclusive thing to tell her that I'm dating other people. But I feel like I should tell her right away. I would be a lot more comfortable with this if she knows what she's getting into beforehand. Agree/disagree?
/r/askTRP19/03/14 03:37 PM
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This man gets me. Its not even the bad sex that gets me (though it is a factor), its that I'm dating another girl right now and not about to do the boyfriend girlfriend thing (which I know she will expect because of the virgin clingyness). I can't help but think she's just hurting herself by hooking up with me
/r/askTRP19/03/14 03:18 PM
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This is gold right here. Haha I can't wait to try the mother shaming
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:01 AM
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Also, night game generally means less talking, and much more rapid kino/escalation. If you find yourself in a night game situation focus on kino and everything else will work itself out from there
/r/seduction17/03/14 04:23 AM
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I just very recently turned 21 (a few months ago), and night game has been 100x easier than it was before. Its very difficult to consistently practice it not being of legal age. Keep working on day game for now, it is a lot harder and will make you much much stronger when you transition into night game.
/r/seduction17/03/14 04:21 AM
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Dont be too bummed out man. Its not game that's wrong, its bad advice like 'make sex your ultimate goal'. I'm sure it wasn't explicitly stated like that, but it was still bad advice, which is common in this comminity. The only way to sort out the good advice from the bad is to go out and actually test it for yourself. Make mistakes (like you just did) and keep learning from them (it sounds like you have). That's all that game is.
/r/seduction22/11/13 08:23 PM
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I think you should think about what you would want instead of what girls would want out of you. You can make a great lifestyle without a car if you are in the middle of a city that has a lot going on. However, you can also have a great lifestyle if you have the option to go where you want, when you want. It really depends on what your tastes are.
/r/seduction17/11/13 02:02 AM
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You don't 'need' to have game at all. We live in a world where you can go to work, come home, watch tv, get fat, isolate yourself, never improve yourself, and no one will give a flying fuck. If you want to be in a place of sexual abundance (for me, 1 girl every few months isnt bad, but it doesn't sound like abundance) than you have to work harder than the average guy interested in pickup. But yeah... College first
/r/seduction15/11/13 09:16 PM
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I'm a computer science student at a community college. We don't have girls in my classes, not the kind I'm looking for anyways
/r/seduction15/11/13 09:10 PM
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I agree with most that 7 nights a week is probably not smart giving that I'm still working on my degree, but I can't believe so many of you have not heard of people going out 7 days a week. Many of the instructors from RSD did at some point. Yad from daygame.com basically had no job and went out everyday for hours (ok probably not the smartest idea). Most instructors I have heard from have put in an absurd amount of time into this.
/r/seduction15/11/13 05:31 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. Your probably right about this
/r/seduction15/11/13 04:52 PM
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Your probably right about this. 2-3 nights is probably best
/r/seduction15/11/13 04:51 PM
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You don't need alcohol for game. I actually think your better off to learn this sober. My best advice for any 'night game' type of situation would be to work on kino. It's going to take some trial and error, but a simple hand grabbing and or shoulder touching can make a very boring interaction into something very subtly sexual. I don't want to bog you down on theory here but if you push/pull going 2 steps forward, one step forward, you can escalate incredibly fast. One thing you might need to wo…
/r/seduction10/11/13 10:44 PM
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I'm still trying to figure out if this is a joke, but either way your post if fucking hilarious. Upvoted for lolz
/r/seduction05/11/13 05:14 AM
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I respect your insights. I have to admit there are way too many times where I am learning or thinking about pickup when I should be hitting the books. However I don't think cold approaches need to completely stop just because you are on a college campus. You might have to be more tactful, sure, but you don't need to give it up completely. I'm a computer science major and if I didn't do cold approaches I would never meet any girls, and be missing out on a lot of good friendships. One thing that h…
/r/seduction08/10/13 04:36 AM
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I just read this article last night and when I saw your title I thought, 'Yes! I can put this article to good use'. Ha well it looks like you beat me to it. Anyways, good article. I just discovered his blog and there is a lot of good content there.
/r/seduction07/10/13 08:41 PM
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I get what you mean. Sometimes I feel the same way about dancing though as girls probably do. If I'm listening to great music at a great location with great people, sometimes I just want to dance with the girls I find attractive to have a bit of fun and I really don't give a shit if it doesn't lead anywhere. That being said, I'm taking your advice to heart and next time I will try speaking with girls outside of the dance floor and leading them in instead of jumping in straight away.
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:00 AM
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This is awesome. Going to give this a shot.
/r/seduction07/10/13 12:44 AM
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Thanks that helps. I might be over thinking this but when you say 'hold on to her' how close are you. Holding hands? Hand on her elbows? Hand on the small of her back? Pushing out and pulling back to escalate? Tell me like a 5 year old because I am that clueless when it comes to this.
/r/seduction07/10/13 12:05 AM
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20 Year old here. Though I'm a couple year older than you, were are in the same boat man. I was in a 4 year relationship during highschool, and I'm still catching up for all the socializing and meeting people that I missed out on. These next few years are for you to learn how to excel at daygame. A lot of the guys in the community still only do night game and still don't approach during the day. At first I felt like I was missing out not being able to go to bars and stuff, but I have totally fal…
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:49 AM
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Has anyone tried his other book on daygame? I picked that one up as well. Seems very different from the first but it came at a small $4 price tag.
/r/seduction03/10/13 10:08 PM
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I have been looking for a new book and bought this last night on a whim after reading your post. Have to say its a great read so far. I love how he can make average pickups seem so incredible (probably closer to how most guys actually feel).
/r/seduction03/10/13 05:36 PM
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Great content, the audio really does add value. You have great game man. Hope to hear more in the future.
/r/seduction01/10/13 05:08 AM
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I second this. I know you don't want to right now but making new connections is the only thing that can really help you get over your ex.
/r/seduction30/09/13 06:05 PM
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Ultimate confidence
/r/seduction29/09/13 11:40 PM
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I'm going to put this into the context of approaching during the day because that is what I have most experience with. To me, being honest and stating what you want means direct approaching. Basically If I think girl is cute girl I walk up and tell her that she looks cute. If I think she looks really sexy that day, I'll walk up and tell her that. If she looks interesting, creative, fun, whatever, just say what caught your attention to her. This is different from indirect approaching where you wo…
/r/seduction27/09/13 04:18 AM
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I have definitely been in your shoes. Tons of self-improvement, never used it for approaches. I would tell myself day in and day out that I would do a cold approach and never live up to my word. It wasn't until I met up with other guys who were interested in day game that I got over my AA and formed a habit of approaching. I have met a lot of cool guys through this forum. http://www.simplepickup.com/forum/find-wingman/ But there are tons of communities out there for this sort of thing. Another t…
/r/seduction27/09/13 04:10 AM
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Does anyone here cold approach other dudes? I have nothing against making friends with women. In fact I usually have more girl friends/acquaintances than guys (from cold approaching). But its a different energy hanging out with guys and I think its an important part that I am missing. I know it sounds lame but now that I don't smoke pot I wouldn't even know what to do if I hung out with a guy.
/r/seduction27/09/13 04:01 AM
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Agreed. You will bomb your first approaches. You will probably look like a trainwreck. But you will need to do it anyways. The more approaches you do the more you will not give a fuck about rejection. Getting over AA is a numbers game. It was the hardest hurdle for me when I started learning about game. Good luck man
/r/seduction19/09/13 09:29 PM
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the first image that popped up in my head was that you were taking a girl to like gem and mineral kind of 'rock show'. Had to reread that a few times.
/r/seduction19/09/13 12:14 AM
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Thanks. Would you have any advice for getting a girl to invest more? And how can you tell if a girl is invested or not?
/r/seduction16/09/13 09:47 PM
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Just something to consider, but women have been learning to attract men their entire life. From a very early age they are bombarded by social pressure to dress well, know how to use make up, act appropriately in social situations, etc. Just look at any women's magazine and you'll see what I mean. Most guys don't ever learn this stuff. Its no requirement or anything. But learning a few things about 'game', and more importantly, actually practicing game, can slowly make you a more charismatic pers…
/r/seduction16/09/13 05:43 PM
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Nice man. This kind of confidence os something I would like to cultivate
/r/seduction16/09/13 04:30 AM
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Well one girl did ask, which is why I brought it up. But thinking about it now, I probably have been the one to bring it up most of the time -.- Lesson learned
/r/seduction16/09/13 12:35 AM
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Your taking risks making mistakes. Which is exactly what you need to do to get better. As long as you learn from them (it sounds like you are) and adjust accordingly, you are in the right place. That being said, you nailed it when you said you should have just approached her in the first place. Keep it up man.
/r/seduction10/09/13 11:10 PM
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Its hard to judge honestly. It may just be a placebo, because I wasn't raging to bust a nut or anything (its only 1 week in), but just the knowledge that I can only get off on real girls was enough motivation for me to get off my ass and get out there talking to girls.
/r/seduction09/09/13 10:04 PM
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