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I take your point. My initial thoughts were to put a buffer in place whilst he addresses these issues, however his wife may think he's mate guarding afterall. It's unusual for me not to think of a fix in this scenario, however it's probably down to exactly what you (and others) have said. DNGAF, lead and she should follow. Can't help thinking this one is not going to follow though in this state.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 03:42 PM
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Avoiding Chad to work on some deficits I think you'll find my post advises
/r/askMRP30/09/19 02:30 PM
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My point was to remove Chad from your life while you work on yourself. Damage limitation I know, however the rot has got pretty far by the sounds of OP.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 01:32 PM
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Why are you blaming him? He's on his path and being the AMOG, which is attractive to women, while you continue down this path where your wife can't stop thinking about him, rather than you. You seem to blame him for this, just as much as your wife. You have a covert contract whereby you think if they were alone, he wouldn't be able to stop himself...is this the case - do you have an evidence to back this up? The only solution is to either become the AMOG or at least work on yourself to be first …
/r/askMRP30/09/19 12:09 PM
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ess money, but I really don't feel the difference in my bank account but I feel a whole lot different in my life Same employment for me. The difference between my pay and my manager's pay is about $300 per month. He loses a weeks holiday too.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 10:09 AM
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bitter dude who hates his job and complains about it. I think if you are making bank and you hate your job, there's scope to come to some kind of peace in your own head. Sometimes, the pain is worth the reward, especially if you have higher or different goals later on. Making bank now, while you can, is a great strategu for building wealth to draw upon in later years. Talking about it in front of your girl is another matter, there's no excuse for doing that. STFU and lead. The 1st officer doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 10:07 AM
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Paying for the room. That’s pretty sweet. Now don’t go thinking you owe her something because of it. You remain on your own path. I feel a oneitis thread coming soon without decent prep.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 11:06 AM
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Sure about that? Everyone has a tolerance that can be broken in the end, even if you are a slayer.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 09:26 AM
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I understand it pisses you off, it would sting for me too. It’s a massive shit test that I think you’ve failed there. Laugh it off, she’s trying to get a rise out of you. Any emotion elicited is good in her mind if you’re not inclined to give much emotion to her freely in an exclusive relationship.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 07:23 AM
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Do you actually want them to become addicted? Hopefully in the end they see that they will continue to be a plate and get sick of it and leave without a scene?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 07:20 AM
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What is the actual problem of beating the house. Shouldn’t we be congratulating anyone who is successful in navigating what can be a tricky part of life. Women likes to keep Billy Beta where she can see him.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 07:12 AM
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I see your point but your swift comment to her sounds too much like butthurt to me.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 09:48 PM
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Not correct. Men’s desire is to have access to unlimited women and therefore to plate is natural. A woman is to find the right one and begin nesting.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 08:20 PM
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Multiple children with multiple partners only happened if the men left or was killed. At no point in history was it customary or typical for a woman to have two providers.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 08:08 PM
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Honesty. That’s exactly what is needed. I guess a plate can then stick around or bounce based on an accurate reflection of the circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:53 PM
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I definitely wouldn’t say I’m careful with my feelings, that’s compounding the issue with a lie. I agree with dangle carrot comment, I’d feel like I was stringing someone along, which in my view is worse.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:52 PM
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Quite interesting. I would personally interpret that differently. You told her the non-exclusive agreement and to prevent embarrassment she switched her story to be on the same page. I don't think she ever thought that she didn't want to catch feelz for you. I think she had already, but she was saving face. It was a test all in of itself.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 03:08 PM
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The go plan is the same as the stay plan. Overused term at the moment, but still apt considering.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 03:05 PM
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Give her attention when together, make her feel like you actually enjoy her company and there will be more positive That's exactly what I mean. I think you clarified nicely that too much attention lavished is not the right move either.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 01:42 PM
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She ran across a dude so hot earlier in the day that her vibrator wasn't enough and she needed a real dick - though didn't have the time to get a real dick - and yours was nearby. My first thoughts...actually my first thoughts are more sinister. She has actually started dicking someone and this is the guilt f**k.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 07:56 AM
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I would perhaps look behind the reason she suddenly felt the need for sex, especially after the drought years.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 07:54 AM
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Thought so. Typically one of the first moves is it remove affection, hence why I asked. Why do you think affection from you is the key? Are you an asshole?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 03:56 PM
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Thought so. Typically one of the first moves is it remove affection, hence why I asked. Why do you think affection from you is the key? Are you an asshole?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 03:55 PM
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Rather than looking at your own affection, perhaps working on your wife’s behaviour as a result of your inaction will snap her into line. Assuming you’re dreading her?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/19 09:57 AM
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Ooo shit she rattled your cage didn’t she?
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:48 PM
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“Stop shit testing your wife”. That comment to me in one of my OYS is still ringing in my ears. I needed the ridicule.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/19 08:02 PM
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Rise early. Get shit done whilst the house is quiet and the world isn’t awake yet.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:50 PM
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Jeez OP, your post history is like a broken record. Are you middle aged and struggling with self-sabotage?
/r/askMRP25/09/19 07:33 PM
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How can you make good progress when you haven’t started from an appropriate base line. You have chains around your neck. You know what to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 04:18 PM
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A few things jump out at me. completely possible that if her value improves to align with mine in the future Yeah, but what if they don't. You're pissing your life away waiting... weak as that is that’s the truth, it’s a weird feeling when it’s just a relationship breakup to you but a life altering event for the other person (her) So you're going to sacrifice your quality of life because you don't want to hurt her feelz. Gimme a break. am I ready to be that bad man who ruined (what is perceived …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 02:11 PM
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It was a mistake. When she first started, the conversation came up about holidays, she fell into the trap thinking that everyone had that perk...turns out they didn't. I don't think she'll fall for that one again.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 02:03 PM
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Need to be more affectionate. Who needs to be? Getting turned down for sex is not typically due to your lack of affection. Probably the opposite.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 11:08 AM
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if she died how sad on a scale of 1-100 would I be? Without any thought I answered 20 Holy f**k, that's low. Get out.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 11:07 AM
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Struggling to want to be fun and flirtuous when I have no positive feedback No wonder if your wife is giving you a load of s**t. What stage of Dread are you on? Chances are if you are just sorting it, being fun and flirtatous is probably not the more pressing tactic. Try to just remove affection for now and see if she notices, wait until she comes to you, then turn on the charm when it feels more natural and not so much of an act. I am still very unattractive to her Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 11:04 AM
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The benefits footnote completely made sense. My wife negotiated a killer contact which included an extra weeks holiday than most of he drones there. Drones found out and instead of negotiated theirs up they negotiated hers back down. Wife kicked off and threatened to leave, cost the company $15k and a company car to keep her. Got the holidays back after a few years anyway.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 06:41 AM
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Property. A handful of renters to see you good in retirement is as good as a full time job. Remember, at that point you should have made bank to the point you should have little overheads yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 06:39 AM
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Firstly, don't respond to things like this via text. Texts are for logistics only. Next, stop s**t testing your spouse with stupid comments like "I find that creepy so I told her it was creepy". Why would you think that anyway. Next, stop the tit for tat clothes war. You're a man. You don't get sucked into things like that. Start exercising STFU.
/r/askMRP23/09/19 02:46 PM
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Why am reading this in the voice of Rex Kwon Do from Neopolian Dynamite...it's like boot camp for betas baby! For those not familiar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hzh9koy7b1E
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 12:49 PM
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What's looksmaxx?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:42 PM
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I could cry in front of my woman, and still fuck her 2 times later, leaving her begging for more (true story). If you think you will be called a fag because you cry, it is not because of the tears, but because you are afraid of yourself and weak inside Why would you even do that? That's not owning, that's vomiting. You can own your s**t without crying your eyes out.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/19 10:01 AM
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I’m tempted to say she’s bluffing, but I don’t know your wife. How long have been dreading your wife? Have you done this too fast? I will add that I’m in the same position as you; my wife is the high earner. I do feel vulnerable myself. One thing I have started to do is never talk about money running out...nothing dries up a pussy as fast as a man out of cash...it’s evolution that I should provision.
/r/askMRP22/09/19 04:10 PM
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High status in the fact that with a wide vocabulary you’re probably something like a IT engineer and in six figure. She was hunk about riding your beta ass to the ATM.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 10:13 AM
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Interesting. If I read correctly, the more we conquer fight or flight, the more we settle on an average reaction from women. The knowledge of that gradually improving reaction actually helps feed into your fight or flight response. Essentially like densensitisation but not so much the actually amount of approaches wearing out its anxiety inducing properties, more that we learn more from each one this reducing anxiety further.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 06:10 PM
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No I did it a lot easier. It’s like the stakes aren’t that high.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 05:06 PM
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Trust yourself was something I was going to add but thought it was getting too long. The Inner Game of Tennis talks about this, the ‘two selfs’ - one is the automatic self (breathing, blinking etc.), the other the inner voice, the inner critic of you will.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:26 PM
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Congratulations you idiot
/r/askMRP20/09/19 12:58 PM
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Are you serious. You sound like a White Knight. We all know she’s a person dude, stop moralizing, you’re in the wrong fucking subreddit. You’re commenting on a guy trying to get laid you autist.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:14 PM
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Don’t be so defensive. You look like a liar and a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:10 PM
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Somewhere where being alone isn’t weird. Gig, comedy, bar. Somewhere fun. Forget dinner at this juncture; a few cocktails and a good band to loosen up works wonders.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:09 PM
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Yeah don’t wait too long. Text her a couple of hours after saying something like “don’t you go losing my number now”. Playful, funny and assertive. Top it off with a off the cuff text later in the evening, maybe a topical question or something asking her opinion on something wait for reply. Then wait. 7pm the next day. Just come back from the gym, heavy day at work, and reply. Wait for reply and then escalate to “I’m going to x, it’ll be fun, you should come”.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:17 PM
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Yep. I caught a whiff of this too. Nothing says Billy Beta than some guy that doesn’t own his shit. OP the shit tests are there for a reason, stop sperging against the tide.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 04:35 PM
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“The Total Money Makeover” Dave Ramsey Forth on the list. Dave Ramsey is for idiots that should have known better, not leaders. It's car crash TV. The fact that it's forth on his list speaks volumes of the quality of the 100 books I should have read rather than being on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 03:50 PM
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You’ll see that 90% of it all was a product of strategy and learning power. If you read a few hundred books and get your ass of reddit, you’ll see what I mean What a vague-ass answer. I smell bull. A few hundred books, yeah that'll sort me out. Jeez. I'll start with the Book of Mormon.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 02:03 PM
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Right. If you are going to do this, you need to be serious. You are playing with a person's life here so tread carefully. First of all, make sure that if you are going to spin plates, that this does not affect your relationship in anyway. No getting emotional because some hot plate is irresistable. These are business trasactions only. The time with your wife is the time with your wife. Plates fit around this. Burner phone or sim. Keep your other phone in your work drawer. Use a different Sim if …
/r/askMRP19/09/19 01:34 PM
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Hmmm. Bit of mixed bag here for me OP. First of all you only started to implement Dread a few months ago. You're still at the point where she's lashing out. You are doing some of right things, however there hasn't been enough time to pull your 1st officer back in line. That said... Are you sure you really want to pull your woman back in line? I'll be honest, I would burned the entire thing down Summer of 2018. Okay, you're behind the curve because you were Blue Pill AF, but now...why the hell ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 01:23 PM
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she has no other hobbies/interests Nearly every woman I've had the pleasure to know has not had any hobbies compared to a man. Men are interested in things (part of the reason they join STEM industries, buy fast cars and have an interest in gadgets). Women prefer people and emotions (film, photos, TV and gossiping), part of teh reason they do caring jobs like nursing and teaching. This is normal bud, no different in my household. I agree with the points made by the others. You are responsible fo…
/r/askMRP19/09/19 11:38 AM
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Don't be scared to get sexual around women. Heavy innuendos, outright dirty jokes, flirtatious touching. Our society will tell you that even gazing at a woman is wrong, but I've learned just how silly that is. Escalate, escalate, escalate. I spoke to one of my BP best friends the other day. He said about a chick that messaged him the other day about how buff he was looking nowadays and said after giving him loads attention "I bet you get loads of attention don't you sorry". He said something lik…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:06 AM
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Totally understand. I appreciate the contributions from them all. Just wondered why such a savage take down? Unless I'm missing the point, I don't see why there's so much of drama when it comes down to it. I think that one side is perhaps thinking the other's 'crimes' are far worse than they actually were, or were crimes at all. Looking at the evidence I've seen, admittedly one side has presented a lot of their 'evidence' while another has more or less STFU, it does seem that there are multiple …
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:23 PM
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Dude I second what the other guy said. You have definitely not made it abundantly clear she died. Sorry for your loss, but my comments still stand. No such thing as a unicorn. There's good ones and bad ones and there will certainly be another good one out there bud.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 11:15 AM
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Put that you're looking to start a family, I'd be interested in seeing the results of that !
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 10:15 AM
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I found my unicorn and I will never meet another You're not Red Pill at all. You've learnt nothing.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 10:10 AM
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I recommend working part time alongside your degree There we a few points, however this stuck out to me. I worked terrible jobs alongside study to make ends meet. A supermarket (dogsbody) and fish factory (physical slave). I met adults, I mixed with people from the wrong side of the track, I met bullies and managers and push overs. I was told what to do, not asked. All in all, I learnt that I DO NOT WANT THAT LIFE...I was determined never to do that piece of s**t work again.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 03:41 PM
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I'm glad she stopped me Oh god please... You're too afraid to stand by your own actions and Chad haad to do it for you. Then you come on here and pine after the one that got away. Either s**t on your doorstep or don't. At the moment you're a giant human-sized flip flop. You're hot and cold I bet and she has no idea where you stand because you don't have the frame and your boundaries and frequently and visably challenged by her. Only good thing - you dodged someone who's riding the CC...missing o…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:53 PM
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Got arrested when I was 15 for minor offence. Not even on my DBS check.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:49 AM
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Even flops are experience gathered. The best still get flops. ​ Positives I take from this: Motorcycle - check - excitment DNGAF - remains to be seen whether or not your truly believe in this. At least you know - at 19 you're way ahead of the curve. Kino - see above ​ Negatives Always be escalating. If you truly did not give a f**k, you would have gone for that kiss.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:29 AM
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You just failed the most easiest of shit tests. In future: “Your duck is small” “You wanna see it grow larger?” You just got butt hurt and took it out on a solid promise you retard.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:47 AM
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Two things I read chimed with an experience my brother went through. Single girl on the scene wanting all his wife’s attention. They started going out all the time to bars and clubs. Bro’s wife got a taste of the single life again and began the process of separation. Also, friend moves in and it’s difficult to have sex without it being obvious. It’s a toxic combo.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 06:36 AM
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It's a phase, well documented and frequently talked about on here. My solicitor once described me as a monkey with a machine gun...this is you right now. You wouldn't know what to do if it landed on your plate. If you want the result but don't want to hone your skills to get there, go to a brothel.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 12:04 PM
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Re-read your first sentence. Bro, she’s calling the shots here. You’re paranoid she’s up to something. You’re jealously guarding her.
/r/askMRP15/09/19 08:12 PM
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Your main point aside, you sound like you’ve fallen right into her frame. Text all day? Call time? You’re mate guarding at best. She may well have cheated on your blue pilled ass.
/r/askMRP15/09/19 06:56 PM
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This lower quote really hit home
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 03:24 PM
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She’s got the boyfriend in the house. You ignoring and carrying on your mission? WTF. The most beta thing I’ve read. Her sister says stay in house for kids, so you do. Beta again. No divorce proceedings, why not? You’re a cuck. As soon as this boyfriend has gone you’ll be on here asking whether or not you should take her back. Operation Scorched Earth here my friend. Actions, not words. House is going on the market, it will be sold from under her and she’ll be given her share. You move into your…
/r/askMRP14/09/19 11:24 AM
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Totally agree with travel. I know some pretty successful people who don't travel because a) they don't see the value and b) they would rather spend their money on a flat screen TV. Each to their own, however these people seem pretty stunted to me. People who don't travel are just plain odd.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:10 PM
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Before marriage it’s financial split is mostly based on who put in what. Usually who put the deposit in gets at least that. Then probably 50/50. Marriage is instant 50/50 unless there are kids, then kiss goodbye to the family home (at least for a bit). The UK is not as bad as the USA, it’s reasonably fair. Access to kids is a bit iffy though.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 07:10 PM
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Yes. I did. Quite typical here in the UK for my generation (mid thirties).
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 05:26 PM
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“I truly believe in?” That question mark dude. Who you asking me or you? Kinda underpins what I said... She already knows if she acts that way she gets you to do what she wants. Call it what you want but you’re ‘acting’ in her frame. You’re putting her wishes before your own. My point is don’t. Act the best version of yourself and she’ll follow. And if she doesn’t, juice is not worth the squeeze as they say.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:07 PM
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Straight away you sound as if you are worried about losing her. This is a place of weakness. You need to not care about losing her. This would be a place of strength. You’ve not falling into her frame, you’re in her frame. Where does it end? She hasn’t applied Dread to you, she’s shit tested you and you’ve failed immediately. Trouble is, now you’re a beta, you’ve got the uphill struggle of becoming alpha. You can’t do this fast, because you’ve already set pathetic boundaries, too much of a chang…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 04:37 PM
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But the biggest mistake you can make in this scenario is to say nothing. Precisely. Many men exercise STFU to the extreme thinking "that'll show her". Nah mate, you've got a covert contract, you need to be upfront on why or this Dread stuff just turns into your being an asshole in her eyes.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/19 03:48 PM
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I think sleeping with other women engages the thought process that they could potentially lose support and provisioning. At least that's what used to happen. I suppose this is less and less nowdays as the feminine imperative and the white knights ensure that the courts are set up in favour of the feminine.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 03:46 PM
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Never a finer example of watch what they do not what they say. This act is meant to turn on the feelz, despite her knowing the blatent contract of 0 exclusivity from the get-go. Won't stop them trying though...they can't help it, if you're quality like you say you are, it's exactly what they want. They'll tow the line as long as they can but ulimately most women want exclusivity in the end. Keep fighting the good fight.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 03:19 PM
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Use a credit card as ID. It’s about 60/40 split at your age of who can drive in he UK. Is this the same in the US?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:40 AM
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Hit a cheap hotel (travelodge) and wear a waking coat and backpack. Go alone and check in. Use short story of travelling to see aunts and uncles. Keep story purposely short and don’t use it unless you have to. Say you are 19, everybody who lies about their age tend to say 18 or 21. Check in go out and return a couple of hours later with your girl. Use quick check out (the postbox you post your cards through) in the morning. Head high, don’t stop when going and returning. Remember you don’t have …
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:43 PM
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Well. Lots of people have herpes. Does it flower often?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:23 PM
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Depends what it is.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:35 PM
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You are in her frame. You probably don't think that you're in her frame because you feel superior to her. You look down on her because you pity her. Really, you're too scared to live your own life because of her. You need to get out of her frame and start living in your own. You can take her with you, but the truth is you don't really care for this chick, which is fine, she'll soon get the message as soon as your start living in your own frame.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:34 PM
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Is it just me or back in the day there wasn’t a single father at a birthday event for someone who’s not their son/daughter. This is women’s work.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 12:37 PM
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She’s probably re-written history on her head to believe that she said they were bad all along so you’ll hit a wall going in that direction. I would probably ignore. Those comments don’t really need to concern you, you’ve made up your mind that your son will benefit, and that’s good enough. Once when we had a dinner party, we all played a game. In this particular game, one person is the centre and has some tasks to do. My wife shit tested me in front of everyone with a stupid question, something…
/r/askMRP09/09/19 08:39 AM
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Interesting. So you’re saying the White Knight can be the Chad that knocks up a chick and then falls in to be the plough horse. “He’s such a good family guy, he provides everything they need”. MILs love him. Meanwhile the wife is two shakes of a lambs tail from going back to the alpha after the kids are reach school age.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 05:23 PM
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The ‘players’ are playing the game wrong. According to the WKs, the players have the cheat codes and play too aggressive. The WKs play by the rules, in their minds anyway.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 04:42 PM
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No I haven’t. It’s going on the amazon list.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 03:15 PM
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Your Dread game is fucking outrageous my friend. That could have gone spectacularly wrong.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 03:05 PM
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Our mothers are to blame. They turn boys to nice men. Possibly due to not wanting us to really be successful with women. They want to keep us as boys.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 03:00 PM
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Aren’t White Knights boring? They’re safe and wholesome - the picture they paint is anyway. Deep down though, they’re conniving and a predator.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 02:46 PM
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Not only does that strategy seldom work, when it does boredom creeps in the women’s mind and the White Knight becomes an insufferable suffocating soy boy.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 02:20 PM
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Like everything to do with men being men : diluted by the female imperative.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 11:29 AM
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They can be flat out cunts about it. It’s mate guarding in a way, even though they’re not getting any. Mate guarding fits quite well, as ‘mate’ is also a word frequently used for ‘friend’ in the UK.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 11:28 AM
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White Knights are dangerous to themselves, men with a decent sexual strategy and the women they seek. The friend zone they continually find themselves in is progressively toxic to them. They are heartbroken by the fact that they are a good guy, a nice guy, but don’t seem to get any pussy. This makes them resentful and then they lash out... They are dangerous to men. A friend once turned on me in a club all because of jealousy. White Knights want to crush your attempts at hooking up. They see wha…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 09:44 AM
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I’ve seen too many guys say “I trusted her to do x” with some Chad that’s clearly out of their league. Mate guarding I suppose, no shame in being tactical.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 05:57 PM
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Remove attention for amounts of time. She texts at 9am, you reply at 6.30pm. She replies straight back, you text at 10pm after the gym. Don’t hide what you’re doing with other women. Confidently bring up plates (obviously not tell them what you did) “hey how was your weekend?” - “cool thank you had some drinks with Stacy, nice and chill”. Make sure that you offer a play date only after she offers twice. Blow her off for something else occasionally. Sport is good one. Go dark for a half-week. On …
/r/askTRP07/09/19 03:15 PM
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7 figure salary? Pity fucks? You sure...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 06:43 PM
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The key issues you highlighted : she feels pressured into more sex. This is the nub. She’s still no way near in terms of submissive. She’s doing it for you, not because your RP behaviour is making her. She’s going through the motions because she hasn’t quite made her mind up what she wants to do (stay/leave) yet. She’s complying AT THE MOMENT due to uncertainty. She probably never initiates - am I right? I don’t think you’re much past baby step one really. She isn’t begging for you because you s…
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:26 PM
1

“Really? I’ve just matched with your skank ass”
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:00 AM
1

Don’t even demote. OP needs some damn respect for himself. Next and move on.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:28 PM
1

“Here, me and my buddies can’t agree on something. What’s your view? Is it okay to sleep with someone on the first date”. Overt communication about interested in sex - ✔️ Keeping it light hearted - ✔️
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:15 AM
1

Interesting point. I’ll change my view to 99% perhaps to reflect the fact that in some cases whatever you do to prevent this happening, if the situ, time and the Chad is right, it’ll happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/19 03:24 PM
1

I’ve always had a bit of an issue with that statement. I firmly believe that you can ‘extend’ your turn indefinitely with good game and being the best option. Takes work of course.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/19 03:11 PM
3

Only if you don’t game effectively though. That’s what this place is all about.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 04:13 PM
1

The never ending cycle. Woman wants alpha, gets alpha and turns him into beta by a thousand concessions. Beta no longer satisfying urges, woman branch swings to alpha. Rinse and repeat.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 08:15 AM
1

If you love her, it’s cool to tell her but it’s be way too early for me. Maybe 9 months/year. Does she really want you to be exclusive?
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:00 PM
1

Do you love her? Can you love someone after a couple of months? Surely it’s affection at best mixed up with lust?
/r/askTRP29/08/19 04:34 PM
1

I wonder if there’s Team Woman behind this. Any female friends on the scene?
/r/askMRP28/08/19 08:30 PM
1

Classic show-all-your-cards-last-ditch-attempt-to-drag-you-into-her-frame-permanently-shit test. And it totally backfired. At least at be moment should you play your cards right. I’d be surprised that she hasn’t already got options on the hypergamy front for her to vomit it all out before a wedding.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 08:00 AM
1

Are you wishing to save it to save the upheaval it will cause, rather than any other bigger reason?
/r/askMRP28/08/19 07:57 AM
1

My natural action is to react, I understand that now. The more I do it, the more I realise. I am breaking this habit down one deer at a time. I find that I when I can't help but react, I react with AA. Gets it out of my system, plus I look like an unflappable wizard.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 09:36 AM
1

"there is a big pile of ironing" I said do something manly damn-it, not just chores. Even I might consider knocking sex back if my wife offered to wash and polish the BMW... Get a spine.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 10:11 AM
1

There's a tipping point where a guy goes from stud to scary - that's what women mean. Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do. Ever see a ripped guy with anything less than a 9? No, I haven't either. Those women who say they don't like ripped guy are lowering their sights and making excuses for why they can't get a man like that. A 6 woman can't get a 9-10 guy...therefore "I don't like muscles anyway". Course you don't, love.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:43 AM
1

All initiations were rejected with firm nos. I then proceeded to leave the room for at least 20min by saying something along “OK sweet dreams” in a calm voice. I did not have the energy in these instances to go to the gym or take the car somewhere. So maybe that “withdrawal” backfired. I think you're haeding in the right direction here. Is there a hobby at home you can do for a couple of hours? Maybe go to the garage and work a bit of DIY - something that confirms your manliness and means you're…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 09:31 AM
1

Reckless and carefree people get tattoos. Do you want reckless and carefree, or conscientious and traditional? I know what I’d like. Tattoos are a gateway choice that leads to other questionable behaviour.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:58 PM
1

The forth captain was shit tested by the 1st officer for potentially making a bad decision. The captain thought about it, then agreed with the 1st officer. After this the 1st officer questioned every decision and eventually took over the ship. 1st officer didn’t have the experience but styled it out best they could until it crashed on the rocks. The captain went down with the ship but 1st officer took the only lifeboat and sailed away with cabin boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/19 02:01 PM
1

You want someone to say “stay with her, but start to have fun yourself”. Do that if you want. I’d go steady on calling her out on it if you want the relationship to remain intact. Your wife sounds like she may burnt to the ground before your eyes and leave through guilt only to shack up with USB Chad. If the only way to square this away is be unfaithful yourself you probably got to ask yourself : have you been waiting for something like this to get you off the hook?
/r/askMRP18/08/19 08:00 AM
1

I’d love to be able to talk about RP to other men in my social circle, but I find that I can’t. I hit a brick wall when they say “they all can’t be like that”. The white knights are very frequent too.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:13 PM
1

Yeah I used to be like this. Some slut that looks like fun comes on the scene, smelling nice, looking like a good time and tempting you away. To be honest, I got oneitis after the sex not before in your case. Either way, you’re getting the amazing version. You don’t live with her, haven’t seen her on a bad day or when something goes wrong on holiday. You get this one snippet that’s amazing. For me, it never went away, I still get these emotional connections with women. Having been tempted and ju…
/r/askMRP17/08/19 07:15 AM
1

You sure this isn’t hypergamy? Sounds like Chad Thundercock has got her picking at a wound.
/r/askMRP15/08/19 12:02 PM
1

Women can’t argue about feminism the same way a man can argue about he patriarchy. Women cannot help but take it personally. Their emotions will not allow them to discuss both sides of the coin dispassionately. You only have to look at the comments on YouTube by women on videos of Red Pill info. Typically, an exchange goes something like this: RP: “so as you can see, 70% of divorce cases are instigated by women” Women commentator: “you bald bastard, you only say that because you’re not getting l…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 02:50 PM
1

I heard a phrase by Dr Shawn T Smith, I think he called the dark before the light an ‘extinction burst’, in that a toddler or wife will test your resolve like fuck to see if you’re fucking around or you are actually going to see the RP changes through. My god will she test you.
/r/askMRP11/08/19 08:19 AM
1

Much of what Peterson says aligns Elbert well with RP. It’s a diet version which I think people on here is a bit low level.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:08 AM
1

Women don’t know what they want. As soon as they get, the goal posts move.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 07:56 AM
1

Stockholm Syndrome as in cooped up in the same department for too long alone. Probably why I had a crack at her.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 08:27 AM
1

Exactly. My point is that we hold some of the blame.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 01:48 PM
1

On autopilot - edited. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 11:39 AM
1

Dude you probably look amazing. Just be friendly and actively try not to be scary. Remember to smile.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:52 PM
1

I’ve mentioned it before now but there’s a tipping point where you go from super-fuckable to scary as you continue to add gains. This is compounded by the lack of talking. You’re mysterious and by the sounds of it unapproachable. If you look like a fucking Viking, youre going to scare off all but the seasoned women. Young women are usually inexperienced, you probably look like you’d split an inexpericed girl in two, hence the MILFs now interested. If tone down the gym (unless you want to get bum…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:37 PM
1

Why would you though? How can you be captain when your ship morphs into a octopus and the sea is ice cream. You need to get a grip man.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 09:06 AM
1

Was she smoking roll ups or pre-made? My brother who’s a store manager watched a piece of work shout at her kids that they couldn’t have specific candy because it’s too expensive to then buy 40 cigs. I think she bought some scratch cards too...
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 10:06 AM
1

My pint exactly. We knew the tattooed and the smokers were easy targets, but also red flags.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 03:33 PM
1

Part of my point was that in a post about red flags, this one gets overlooked. Of course, being fat is another as you’ve mentioned.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 03:29 PM
1

Someone I knew was the attorney for someone who tried...
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 02:09 PM
1

I’d be the same with the roiders. They are sacrificing their future for today’s gains.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 02:05 PM
1

Whiskey or Porn Star Martini. Or other such names fruit cocktail.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 11:48 AM
1

When you start to master RP you begin to be able to hands down deal with people who think you are crazy. You’ve got to see it from their point of view. You have the keys to Pandora’s Box, the knowledge and understanding on a higher plain. It’s powerful stuff and people a) don’t want you to have it (aka the feminists); b) don’t want you to believe it and c) don’t want you to live by the beliefs and live a better version of yourself due to it. It’s jealously pure and simple. Like those outside of …
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:23 AM
1

I suppose you passed that test but failed the most important ones. First of all, clearly you’re not happy that wife bitches about this in he first place. It’s on your mind and needs addressing, especially if this is just a holiday thing. Fucks sake, you’re on holiday and taking a break from routine. The fact that you offered for her to join you and she didn’t is another red flag. She’s not bothered about you going out for cigars, she’s not even bothered about leaving her with he kids. She wants …
/r/askMRP01/08/19 01:55 PM
1

“Would you wait for me if I were in a coma.” Of course, in the brothel waiting room.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 01:46 PM
1

Nice analogy: sex in USD or Pesos
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 11:57 AM
1

Smoking - Any girls that smoke are a hard next for me. Smoking, like tattoos but worse, show a certain degree of recklessness. Reckless with your health? Perhaps then you’ll be reckless with me and our relationship. Tattoos - Again, only reckless, careless and carefree people get tattoos. I have one, it was a mistake when young and I don’t show anyone or tell anyone about it. I was an asshole when young, everyone else who has a tattoo was probably or still is an asshole. Only sensible people don…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 07:48 PM
1

I understand your thought process in essence, however it’s controlling you. Someone with oneitis would say exactly what you are saying. You haven’t got abundance yet clearly, as you’re bothering to entertain this one.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 12:58 PM
1

It’s sounds a bit like oneitis here friend. Perhaps it will be good for your training to purposely let his one slide...
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:19 AM
1

Nothing is more attractive to a women than a man with abundance. You haven’t got this (yet) so you’ll have tor fake it. Best way of proving you’re knee deep in pussy and have abundance is to pretend (hopefully in the future you won’t have to) that girls are not a scarcity for you. She thinks she is the only line of credit, she’ll make you work for it. You’ve got a line of credit everywhere, she’s going to be jealous and think that you must be high value. At the moment, you’re bargain basement. R…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:36 PM
1

6 months since you’ve known each other or decided after an 18 month vetting process to stop spinning plates making that a two-year process? Depending in the answer, possibly work on your vetting game going forward.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:53 AM
1

STFU is key here. Your silence means a whole lot more. It takes practice though to stop that hair trigger response. It’s a habit that you can easily unlearn. Think that your woman is he oldest child in the house. Would you one-up-manship a child? Would you fuck, you’d humour them at best.
/r/askMRP28/07/19 12:51 AM
1

Slightly different point but, ever hear about the experiment where they have a load of children iPads with internet connection. The boys played online games with each other competitively but nicely, the girls went on social media and started to character assassinate each other.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:52 PM
1

Know your mind. To his day I fuck someone and then start to think fondly of them. I acted on these emotions once around 12 years ago and burnt it all to the ground over some “feelings”. I found out I feel this all the time with chicks, maybe it’s a hardwired thing that’s passed through genes. We’re programmed to commit and then provision after selection so makes some sense. Basically I completely ignore what I think I feel in this way, because it’s a trap. It hasn’t gone away, I now control myse…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 03:50 PM
1

Hey OP, keep us updated on this will ya? I kinda agree with the comment on saying nothing and watching the whole thing blow over. Although it seems like a main event, I think after a night’s kip she’ll be crawling back like a naughty little girl absolutely dreading the punishment to come. Who the duck barricades you out of your own house? That’s pretty big escalation. If you go back, full of smiles and with a “baby finished umber tantrum”, she won’t know where to turn. Her hamster will be spinni…
/r/askMRP24/07/19 01:02 PM
1

Try cycling. I do 30 miles per week and then jump at the chance to cycle again when the wife wants a bike ride. It’s addictive as fuck, at least when the weather is good. Better on the old knees until you weigh less.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 03:07 AM
1

Time is the only true vetting system, even then bad behaviour can pop up late. 18 month minimum, not like I did mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/19 11:05 PM
1

She’s doesn’t
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/19 11:04 PM
1

Totally agree. The ace card is literally the final defense. Her selection process is tested at the this very point and shown either to be good or garbage. And garbage ducking stings. I feel a RP theory post coming on about the ace card.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:35 PM
1

Absolutely. This is a great way of her moving into a supplicating role. Why not surprise her with it. Honey, you’ve been working so hard, I’ve been working so hard and these are the rewards. My LTR would bite my hand off if I said stop work to become a domestic goddess. In fact, when she was between roles she had about three months off and the house was immaculate. She fucking loves it.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:32 PM
1

Three fucks and you know. Oh boy you know.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:17 PM
1

Those texts sound retarded but I’m tired so I’m going to cut you some slack. First, why did you feel the need to explain why you’ve been missing. Apart from losing frame by spilling your guts, you’ve lust the mystique there and then. Then when she clearly nexts you, you want explanation like a little lost boy who’s in wuv. By asking what she meant, you slid right into her frame. She knew this and then dealt the killer blow, met someone else. This is the hook she wanted you to swallow. I think yo…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:40 PM
1

The fact it’s on your mind says to me that you’re frame is, at least, being leaned on. Little micro thoughts chipping away at you. Like a male hamster if you will.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:59 AM
1

She thought that your frame was quite strong by the fact that you’re sending short replies/treating her like a plate. So, naturally she wants to test you, check you’re the worthy dick swinging Chad you’re trying to imitate. As soon as she tested you, you failed as she dragged you into her frame. You think a RP guy would come on here and ask about this blatant shit test? Nah. He’s keeping her at arms length and only calls on her when he’s in the mood or has nexted her by now. The good point of th…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:14 AM
1

The way I read “come what may” was that Army Ranger Rambo FIL was fully backing up your wife and you’re about to be chewed up by the divorce machine fully funded by pops. That or he’s going to kill you in your sleep.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 07:12 AM
1

Number 4 - the alpha widow.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:09 AM
1

Because you’re a attention giving beta orbitor. She gets lavished with your time and does not have to have sex with you. Your time is free of charge, Chad Thundercock’s is not.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 03:10 PM
1

All depends OP. Is the problem you or your wife?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 05:06 PM
1

People like him tend to see it through to the bitter end out of sheer embarrassment. In for a penny, in for a pound. I love her backtracking as she realises that the cash machine is choking up.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 02:51 PM
1

Christ. I haven’t seen this one. So much cringe in one YouTube video I thought the internet might have collapse in on itself.
/r/askMRP09/07/19 09:31 PM
1

I think pornography has an influence today.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:38 PM
1

I’m stuck in the limbo between cardio and lifting. It’s great to see someone who’s done it too. I’m seeing gains but it’s not fast, but your post serves to remind they will but it’ll take time.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 08:23 AM
1

Being a prick for warning someone? Sounds like you don’t want to own your shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 06:55 AM
1

I would literally walk over broken glass to have my own space. Worth the premium even if you don’t get laid (better sleep, safer and less likely to get robbed).
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:07 PM
1

I’ve found that some take offence at RP knowledge. Comments I’ve received range from “they’re not all like that” to a friend confiding in their LTR about me calling their relationship’s imminent demise on a boy’s night out saying “how dare I speak to him like that”. Two weeks later, she left him.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 05:55 PM
1

Pharmacy. As a locum pharmacist charge $120 an hour. That or the oil industry, particularly deep sea diving. Think $1000 a day.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:36 PM
1

Women don’t tend to do this, which again supports the typical lesser notch count. They don’t tend to do this as dick is one of many facets they are looking for in a man. In their view ‘quality’ or SMV comes from not just dick. Vetting for quality men by testing dick results in a slut.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 08:38 PM
1

Start cheap and in a place it’s easy to dive out of, for example a coffee shop. If it’s not working, you can make excuses and leave. If it’s going well, escalate to a walk after coffee and find a pub for the next stage. You could even use the “reaching over to open the car door” test by asking her to spot you for a drink. If that goes well, maybe a more vibrant place.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:24 PM
1

Check out Rian Stone’s thoughts on escalating during a date. Start off with coffee shop, if it goes well, move to pub. Don’t waste time and money if it’s going nowhere. If you mean you are spinning plates and get what you need, how to do keep up financially? I would say, if you’ve got a good plate and that’s doing everything you want and need, they should be splitting bills etc. just like an LTR anyway.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:31 PM
1

A man’s primal drive is to fuck as many women as possible and spread seed. A woman’s primal drive is to sort through the riff-raff and find a quality man for reproduction. It’s against nature for women to ride the cock carousel and those that have done are unusual and come with the associated damage. Men are programmed to fuck where and whenever possible. When women do this they are going against the grain, which affects future relationships and social operation.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:23 PM
1

Can you turn neutral into a carefree DNGAF attitude and assess results?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:11 PM
1

“When I’m nice, I’m the nice guy”. Don’t be the nice guy. Women say they want the nice guy, but watch what they do, not what they say. Women go for the bad guy. In the UK we have a saying “treat them mean, keep them keen”. Honestly, just for my own amusement I tried this to the extreme with one girl and she just wanted it more.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:53 AM
21

“Oh, you’ve noticed? Must be working then”. Cue shit-eating grin.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 03:08 PM
1

I had a stalker once. I wish I knew some of the RP stuff then, a lot of the Dread game would translate into dealing with a stalker. They feed off your misery and fear. Remove that and they are pretty much powerless.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:48 PM
1

Christians are the same.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:48 AM
1

Shit test response. That’s my Achilles heal. Needs more work.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 05:41 PM
1

Drunk Captain = fear of the future with you, the seed to hypergamy or at least exploring the options. Doesn’t clean up after himself = the first and easiest way to start OYS. From her point of view how can a man do any of this list if this isn't addressed sharpish. Fat and lazy = linked to the above. How can she invest in you, if you don't invest in you. Finances a mess = linked to drunk captain. Is she secure in your leadership? Or does she bail the sinking ship for a better option. Oneitis fol…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 01:01 PM
1

6th Post. It’s been a good couple of weeks since my last post while I settle into using what I’ve learnt so far. Finance Holiday this year has wiped out a lot of my savings. I’m planning to put a new car purchase on hold for another year (post Dec. 2020 now). I’m aiming to consolidate my finances after the holiday and start to tighten my belt and replace my savings spent this year. Fitness Had a little bit of wakeup call this past month after a blood pressure test identified that I am in the hyp…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 12:46 PM
1

She knows you’ll do nothing and therefore behaves like there are no consequences. From your posts it’s sounds as if she thinks YOU should be grateful to HER for her to be in her life. Let her max out the card and burn her bridges down to the ground. Stop all other lines while she does this. Revel in the fact the credit will be shrinking and she’ll be worrying what to do next. Drip feed the dread “might have to lose the horse if you’re not careful”...etc. This is an expensive gamble but shit, so’…
/r/askMRP15/06/19 11:29 PM
1

This!! I thought I was the only one. Works a treat...most of the time...
/r/askTRP14/06/19 03:17 PM
-2

If we’re not careful we’ll turn into the lefties we hate. We must not close down people for having a difference of opinion.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 06:58 PM
1

You don’t have abundance. You need abundance so you don’t feel the oneitis. Having oneitis is a reflection of no options. Build abundance first, ignore these Jedi mind tricks, then see how you feel the next time. I know my own mind nowadays, it tells me one thing, but I know from experience to do the opposite.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 10:25 AM
1

Never a truer word said
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 02:03 PM
1

1 - Work finds out - this is the worst one but would be manageable. The three D's...deny, deny, deny. Non of their business, just don't admit it. Rumour and conjecture, that's all boss!! 2 - Wife finds out - probably a good confrontation in the end. I understand, I'd be in the same position. 4 - STDs - also always a consideration with any women. I probably should wrap up, but am not planning to. Then you get what you deserve. It's all well and good until you actually get one and then you've got …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 10:46 AM
1

You're seeing results? Don't go into this with your size 12 jack boots thinking in four weeks you can turnaround 10yrs of sleeping on the job. Study the sidebar, including Dread and take it easy, otherwise your RP attitude will go down like a cup of cold sick with your wife. Take it from me, I'm about a year into this. It's a rollacoaster of a ride. Two steps forward, one and a half back.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 10:36 AM
1

Those 4’s tend to make up for it in other days...
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:27 AM
1

What was he actual real reason Rich Cooper bailed early? He certainly called it on the 21Con shit-show. I heard it was security, however since then he’s remained pretty stoic on the issue.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 07:15 PM
2

Can you remember the guys at school who would join the group late and then make up for it by being completely submersed and thus becoming a bigger character in said group than any of the ‘elders’. That’s Dream for me. Just something about him screams dodge.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 06:20 PM
1

She’s a plate. You’re a plate. End.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 07:41 AM
1

You’re messing with the resources to provision, it’s having an affect on her perception of security. I think you should stick to not talking about that decision, as you’ve made it and that’s that.
/r/askMRP07/06/19 08:16 AM
8

I think it’s just a way of like-minded men to finally meet. RP can feel a little like a one-man struggle at times
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 05:35 PM
1

Definitely the latter. It’s chest beating to layout the terms of our future relationship. In the past, before the Red Pill I would have chalked it up to him being an asshole, now I’m determined to understand how to manage things like this more effectively.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:08 AM
2

Great man. Thank you. It will be test of what I’ve learnt so far. Only around six-months in and as soon as I think I understand, I’m back to square one.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:08 AM
1

Manage the person is probably the wrong term, more manage the situation.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:07 AM
1

He hasn’t out Alpha’d me. Yet. He’s positioning by being super confident, saying dumb shit about how to doesn’t care about shit. Fluffing his feathers – can spot it a mile away as a man. The women spot it but love it, as usual. No I probably couldn’t take him. I’ve heard some shady shit about his past, which the women love, of course. I’m more brain than brawn so I’d like to be smarter about it.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:07 AM
1

Just read Rollo’s blog on AMOG – very interesting. Not my strategies for deflecting. Maybe the DEER strategy would help in these kind of situations but then again I’m keen not to escalate. I want to be cool as custard while he unravels himself (if that’s what he wants – it would be kind of amusing).
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:06 AM
2

Completely agree. I run away and refuse to play in the sandpit, I look weak in front of all.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:06 AM
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Double dates possibly into the future, so I’m preparing. Maybe it’s my ego here as well. The girls like him, I can his game and am threatened slightly. Perhaps I need to not worry about others and focus on myself. Just wondered everyone’s thoughts as this kind of thing tends to pop in life for everyone at some level and at some point. I’m off putting my foot down with my LTR and saying “no”, however I go back to my points, am I the loser then?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 11:06 AM
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I’m trying to be civil - it’s important I at least I try to play nice (at first). Don’t want to look like it’s sour grapes.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:25 PM
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No not afraid. More not make an ass out of myself when the dick measuring begins either by being dragged into his frame or by me throwing the toys out of the pram refusing to play ball. I’m keen not to be dragged into it - I see being forced into the competition as a lose. I feel that by being nice and rising above it is supplication and going hard ball in the alpha stakes against him is showing I cannot handle the alpha jester - either way I lose, hence my post. Nick Sharp discusses the very sa…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 02:13 PM
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Maybe. Like I said, he’s using all the tricks in his effort to command. We all know the tricks work their magic.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 11:52 AM
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I see your point, however this guy is over-egging the alpha to us all. I just don’t want to be dragged into a dick measuring contest because I can see me calling him out on some of it. I want to be the oak the stoic - unaffected by it all.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 10:23 AM
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It can be. But if you join in there’s scope to ‘help’
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/19 08:53 AM
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Yoga ain’t so easy. I’m knackered after an hour. There are MILFs. Many.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/19 09:33 PM
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I’m seeing that all roads lead to me. The fact I think that is a reflection on me, not them.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 07:10 AM
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I’m on it now. Just finished RM and this is next.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 07:08 AM
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Man, my friend was in the same place six months ago. Blue Pill, “they’re not all like that” mentality. I wish I knew what I know now, then. At least your friend still has a relationship to potentially fix with your RP guidance. Assuming he listens of course, they tend not to until it’s too late. Even then, they may not learn their lesson.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 04:36 PM
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5th Post Something I’ve noticed happening. Anyone care to swap notes? I think it’s my ego that getting in the way of my path. As I start to digest the sidebar and books, forums etc. I’m starting to see the way women work. The further down the rabbit hole I go, getting truth bomb after truth bomb exploding in my face, I beginning to lose a bit of respect for women. And I think this is why my game has stalled. Because I’m losing respect and I’m seeing women’s true nature, I’m finding it hard to ev…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 10:13 AM
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Yes my reply to u/LongRoad_518 has made your point above quite clear. I really think that getting these thoughts down in black and white really focuses my attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 02:02 PM
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So, typically a day goes - 8 until 5 at work, followed by 5 - 7 gym (every night Mon to Fri usually - except band night). Dinner is ready when I arrive home, followed by relaxing together watching TV. I would imagine 2 hours per day. Fri and Sat are usually date nights either in or out. If we're in, we'll probably cook together and watch a movie, out is at the pub or restaurant.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 02:00 PM
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It’s more those times where in the house you can switch rooms or something, however when your both walking through a parking lot to the same destination, I feel it takes a split second more to think about the response.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 06:40 AM
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It’s because I find it difficult to read texts like RM with the missus around. Does anyone else have the same issue?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 06:39 AM
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Your first comment back was a DEER. Roll over and ignore. End.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 12:27 PM
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4th Post As requested; a more focused plan, less bullshit blog. 36yrs, 13st. 6”1. Suggested focus on two areas of improvement that will eventually facilitate a snowball effect of more areas of improvement. My two areas are: Fitness: Those how have been reading, I have been given advice by my gym instructor friend and I’ve completed one full week of the regime. Last week was difficult due to the holiday, this week it’s going to be just as bad as I have work commitments both on Mon and Tues evenin…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 10:03 AM
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u/firstlight777 Do THIS
/r/askMRP12/05/19 05:14 PM
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Christ. I know I shouldn’t be surprised but when you see it black and white it hits harder. In the UK, if it’s shared parenting there’s no maintenance, however mother tends to get the house which can’t be sold until youngest is 18. Makes moving on and buying elsewhere difficult. In rare cases, the wife gets a stipend so she can live life to how she’s accustomed. Frigging bullshit.
/r/askMRP12/05/19 03:55 PM
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Is that 50% of income even if you split the kids evenly?
/r/askMRP12/05/19 01:04 PM
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She’s going to grind this sucker to dust
/r/askMRP11/05/19 05:57 PM
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Won’t OP get divorce raped because of the ages of the kids. I’m UK based but I’ve heard it’s particularly awful in the US. I heard of someone giving up 70% of income for twenty years.
/r/askMRP11/05/19 05:55 PM
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I think being debt free on such a valuable asset is a big drive for me. It means I no longer have to worry about if a tenant leavs as it'll cost me pretty much zero. Also, having a small patch of land that's mine and generating an income is huge plus...I can then put funds towards my main residence and have that paid off in no time. Together with my pension, I'll probably have close to my monthly wage in retirement (well before hopefully). I do want to look for another renter though and build th…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 08:27 AM
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Okay - I'll look into it. Cheers for the heads up.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 02:18 PM
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It's funny you should mention it, it's in flux at the moment. But I don't fully follow you on why it would be prudent to pay my own home off first. It used to be 100% tax deductible, then last year it was 50%, this year it's 25% and then next year the new rules come in. These are based on tax band, so 20% here for me - I receive 20% relief on my interest.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 01:08 PM
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I hear you. I need to focus rather than puking all over the forum. More focus for next week. I suppose I’ve made the decision to do things but life has got in the way. Focus is on lifting at the moment - I want to get this new routine down.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 10:53 AM
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3rd Post Relationship This was the weekend that we all found out that Chad Thundercock was the person Gym Bunny left my friend for (see first post). Now, I’ve been warned that I’m probably focusing on this rather than myself, however there is a point to this as I’ll explain. STFU was going so well until this point. I started well and avoided DEER quite successfully, however towards the end of the week I began to slip. I think when the shit tests sneak up on me, I react before I think. I suppose …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 08:49 AM
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My mission is to develop my leadership further in terms of the idea of ‘The Oak’. I want to be the stable stoic, the dependable and unshakeable captain. I also want to become more assertive in life, specifically regain more frame at work and gain the confidence I once had in terms of skills to move on. I feel like I have some of the qualities needed, but everywhere needs a good sharpen.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 09:34 AM
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Yeah I know. I just don’t want to abandon something I know works for something new and unusual. I just wanted to expand on my lifting to see if there are any results and then transition.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 05:27 PM
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2nd Post Lifting Sat down with my personal trainer friend who introduced me to a few more lifting techniques. I have since tried this out on Friday and are pleased with the results. I feel that I was probably taking far too long between sets – I have reduced this and feel, well tighter, does that make sense? So, I intend to stick with the cardio Mon with half the lifting regime. Tues is a hobby night for me. Wed is a Tai-Chi class so Thurs can be become a full lifting day, with Fri being cardio …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 09:08 AM
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I think the UK Crown Prosecution Service has a lot to answer for here. Lost count of the times they’ve gone after someone with scant evidence. Particularly if they are a man, particularly if it’s due to a alleged sex offence.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 06:03 PM
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Yeah I'm probably being too much of a hardliner. The point was that OP needs to re-frame his thinking into empathy being harmful in this context. His partner is suffering due to his overly empathetic response. Feeling like an asshole? Yes OP probably does but it's medicine that's hard to swallow. The lesson is tough and the pill will be bitter.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 03:12 PM
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Jordan Peterson talks about empathy NOT being a virtue. That understanding is tantamount is one step away from feeling sorry for a person and that's not good for you or them. By being constantly empathetic, you are not helping your partner and therefore not helping yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 02:26 PM
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Any chance of her then opening her own line of credit and going full-blown-mentalist putting OP in a worst position?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 12:40 PM
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Or, could you pay the balance less $1000 so that she only has $1000 to spend (within the overdraft) and has to get used to actually budgeting to pay off the bill? Reward could be for financial maturity that she gets to spend what can pay off - a balancing act so to speak. For example, she spends $750 this week, she has room to spend $1250 the next. I suppose interest fees would have to be taken into account, however you don't sound particularly stretched from your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 12:38 PM
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Go to the gym. The workout will distract your mind and you may make new friends. Join a spin class or something or ask people to spot you.
/r/askMRP27/04/19 11:02 AM
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I am DEERing, I can see that. I’m coasting, money is good and I’m basically terrified of moving to something less cushy. Because I’ve been doing the job for so long and effectively it’s my first and only job since graduation. I think I need to start looking seriously. Asked trainer friend for some guidance this morning when I’m in the gym later this afternoon and they agreed.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 11:55 AM
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Post No.1. 37yrs, 6"1, 13 st. First, bit of background. Was first turned on to Red Pill material after stumbling across 21 Convention and Richard Cooper around one year ago. Prior to this I’d consider myself Purple Pill at best (more Red around my mid-twenties) but slipped into Blue as I had grown older. I am now late thirties. As I began to digest the material and unplug, I started to recognise the signs in my LTR (now my Wife – this is recent) and watching my friends and family. The dots were …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 10:16 AM
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