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MALE DEPRAVITYaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:03 PM
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RANTaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:03 AM
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DISCUSSIONaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:13 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:05 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:36 PM
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DISCUSSIONaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:44 PM
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LVM LOGICaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 07:37 AM
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NAH, SISaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:58 PM
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NAH, SISaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:24 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:44 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:23 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYaneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:59 PM
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QUEEN SH*Taneverconfusedbeing/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:33 AM
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Please do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:58 AM
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I suppose should’ve been flattered since he said it was his “favorite pornstar” /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:42 PM
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Once I matched with a man and he immediately told me which pornstar he thought I resembled. She didn’t even look like me at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:36 PM
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I think my concern is a man putting his desires before mine. If your desire is to have a football watch party, then enjoy! No reason to force yourself to do something you don’t like. There will be plenty of other opportunities for vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:34 AM
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A LV man I dated told me that men gain weight during pregnancy too because it’s “stressful.” Apparently that’s his brother’s excuse for why he weighs 40 pounds more than he did before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:23 PM
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Why don’t you try not using a guide and just being yourself? Girls can sense when you’re being inauthentic
/r/seduction26/12/21 06:13 PM
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Coffee, ice cream, movie theater, free local events, not free local events, sports game, theater performance, picnic in a park, bowling, arcades, parties, etc.
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:51 PM
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Is it not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 03:13 AM
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Where’s part one? I need the laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 10:11 PM
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Or even the dry cleaner’s. I used to do that in college
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:45 PM
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In my experience (and a few of my friends’) engineers and software developers should be avoided. God complexes abound. They think they’re better than you because they’re “smart” but then they start to tear you down because they’re secretly insecure because they know you’re too attractive/cool for them. They put minimal to no effort into looking nice so they resent you if you wear nice clothes and get attention in public even though they pretend that they don’t care about appearances because it’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:55 PM
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Women get attacked for doing that. She has no way of knowing if he’s the type to overreact and hurt her or not
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:07 PM
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The fact that she shared this with the world …. Omg how is she not embarrassed?!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:24 PM
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That’s powerful 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:18 PM
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That’s horrifying omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:14 PM
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I’m not the OP. This is copied from relationship advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:39 PM
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Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:51 PM
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Great point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:41 PM
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Social media is so much more personal. I’m much more scared to share my Instagram than my number because there’s so much more info on my Insta. I can use a Google voice number and feel completely safe.
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:10 AM
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I’m in my early 20s lmao
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:27 AM
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Woman here. If a guy asks for social media, I immediately quit talking to him. For me, my social media is for my friends and family. It’s so common to exchange socials, and then the conversation just fizzles and I’m left with a virtual stranger watching my stories. It also feels childish. If you’re really serious about dating, you’ll exchange phone numbers. And if the dates go well, then you’ll add each other’s socials. Also we know that you guys aren’t being genuine with your openers. And the w…
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:44 PM
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Use condoms. And don’t call women exotic
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:03 PM
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It’s not a good idea. She’s too young for you.
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:02 PM
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Good bathroom doesn’t equal HVM Bad bathroom equals LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:29 PM
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Say the word date. It makes it clear that you’re interested in a date, not to “vibe” or “hang out.” She’ll appreciate it.
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:59 PM
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No.
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:20 PM
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At least he’s honest. Makes it easier to swipe left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:36 AM
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Yeah I’m really surprised I didn’t get downvoted to oblivion haha
/r/seduction09/08/20 01:57 PM
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I think a good first step is ditching the idea of “game” and the sort of things PUA preach. Respect women and be nice to them. Be an active listener. Take risks. Don’t be afraid to talk to new people or approach people (maybe not during a pandemic though). Express interest through eye contact; don’t stare at their assets. Don’t try to play mind games. There’s nothing more annoying than the guy who will purposely wait hours or days to text back just to play games. If you’re interested, it’s okay …
/r/seduction08/08/20 06:39 PM
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Women aren’t going to pursue you. If you want to date women, you need to ask them out. At least try dating apps. Don’t be scared. Confidence is key. If you have to wake up every morning and say “I am awesome” out loud, then do that. Fake it till you make it. I believe in you!!
/r/seduction08/08/20 06:26 PM
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I see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:07 PM
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No. You leave her alone.
/r/seduction26/06/20 05:21 AM
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What if we started dominating men? 😂 There’s plenty of them out there that want to get pegged who will worship women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:19 PM
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r/casualdatingadvice
/r/seduction23/06/20 05:19 PM
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Notice he says “I know that might not be what you are looking for” Also “Thought you might be into it I guess” Pick one. The audacity of this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:05 AM
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Man can’t even spell. As if he needs to breed and fill the world with more idiots 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:24 PM
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I honestly didn’t understand why he sent that. It was out of the blue and just plain weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:10 PM
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Thank you 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:13 AM
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With everything going on, is it too much to ask that my text message inbox not also be filled with white men trying to be woke? I tried to be nice, but this isn’t the first time this man hasn’t respected my boundaries (although it was unrelated to this). He’s been sending me messages like he’s the news source for all things African-American for the past two weeks and I’m sick of it. He is in no way more educated on the subject than I am, and I have the life experience of racism on top of it. I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:08 AM
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I wish I could upvote this a million times. This is so powerful.
/r/seduction11/06/20 04:57 AM
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Can’t yuck his yum! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:59 PM
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Barf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:52 PM
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Caution against the “we” and “us” statement: it gives the impression of a partnership and will make many women assume you’re after more than just sex. So if you’re not looking for a relationship, don’t do that.
/r/seduction08/06/20 09:50 PM
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Wow, this is such a great post. And it shows how different it can be for two women with the same background (and genetics!). Twin B needs to take notes from Twin A and drop the LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:25 PM
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He shut down and started giving shorter answers. Couldn’t handle it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:46 AM
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I once texted a man “that’s cute” after he told me about his microelectronics project and it was such a nice role reversal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:41 AM
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Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:50 AM
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Wow! I didn’t even consider that he could’ve lied about the other woman. No wonder he was upset when I said I was talking to another man at that point. Now I’m extra glad I said that. Thank you for the link! This is great info! I won’t be fooled by the mind games in the future hopefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:09 AM
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That’s a really important lesson I’ll take with me for the future. I’m never going to let myself be in that vulnerable position again with a man I don’t even know. Thank you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:39 PM
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I’m a woman. If I’m inviting a man out to the mall with me, it’s because I like him and want him to see if he’s willing to do things I like to do with me. If I wanted to hang out with gay friends or girlfriends, I could just invite them instead. If what you’re saying is true, I will refuse to watch sports with men because that’s just making me one of the “bros” and putting me in the friend zone.
/r/seduction25/05/20 12:21 AM
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Block him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:31 PM
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The friend zone isn’t real. You can’t get out of it. If someone doesn’t view you romantically/isn’t attracted you, that’s unlikely to change. If she’s inviting you out, that’s a great sign! Take her up on her offer and show her how much you care.
/r/seduction24/05/20 05:27 PM
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Yes. But say something engaging. Ask a question. And next time you say goodnight, add “talk to you soon,” or “talk to you tomorrow” so she already expects you to reach out again. And it shows you’re interested which will make her like you more.
/r/seduction22/05/20 01:22 PM
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Nobody: NVM: “WoMeN’s AsShOlEs ArE tOo ClOsE tO tHeIr VaGiNaS. gRoSsSsS. tHeReFoRe I mUsT hAvE sEx WiTh ThEm AnYwAy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 12:34 PM
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I think you should say it however is most natural for you. If you’re making an effort to text a girl and paint a story for her, you’re already ahead of 99% of the guys messaging her. And I’m a woman, so I know.
/r/seduction14/05/20 02:48 AM
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Don’t pretend to be busy. Go out and actually do something productive! Women will be more attracted to busy, successful men.
/r/seduction04/05/20 12:56 PM
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I hope that when you declined her invitations, you gave legitimate reasons and offered to reschedule. Otherwise, many women would assume you’re not interested and move on.
/r/seduction04/05/20 12:05 PM
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Worst part is people in the comments were telling her it’s cute and she should be flattered he loves her so much to photoshop her face on the black women he fetishizes 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:01 AM
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This!
/r/seduction20/04/20 10:41 PM
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If a man left me on read, I wouldn’t be wondering what he’s up to. I’d just move on. If you’re interested in someone, don’t treat then like that. I’m not saying you have to answer immediately, but don’t open the message then.
/r/seduction18/04/20 03:55 PM
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Is this a joke? You’re not automatically LV based on your ethnicity
/r/askFDS13/04/20 07:50 PM
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This may be an unpopular opinion, but I think that if the woman is into rough sex, there isn’t an issue. I think the problem is when women do it solely for male pleasure because they’re pick mes. But if the woman is genuinely into it, she shouldn’t feel ashamed of her sexual preferences. In short, do what makes YOU happy, not him happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:20 AM
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I’ve never had a guy text me to ask if I’d gotten home. They normally ask me to text them when I get home at the end of the date, which forces me to text first, confirming my interest. I don’t think it’s a bad idea to text her asking if she made it home. It’s a very traditional, gentlemanly move. Not all women are the same, so if the woman you’re dating is very traditional she may appreciate the gesture more than a more modern woman. You don’t offend anyone either way by doing this. I wouldn’t s…
/r/seduction10/04/20 03:07 AM
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Don’t forget his harem. He calls them his polycule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:49 AM
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That means she wasn’t interested in the first place. I suggest waiting until the next day and texting before evening. You don’t have to say much, just something like “It was a pleasure to meet you and I had a great time last night. Let me know when you’re free to do it again :)” This conveys confidence but also shows you’re interested, which is very attractive.
/r/seduction09/04/20 02:44 AM
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That’s immature. You shouldn’t want a woman who’s prone to act like that. A decent woman won’t do that if the date went well.
/r/seduction02/04/20 01:17 PM
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ThredUp is an awesome online thrift store
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:54 AM
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As a woman, I will not text after the first date unless I was asked to let my date know that I got home safely. Texting a woman after the first date (preferably within 24 hours) doesn’t seem desperate, it just reassures her that you’re interested.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:39 AM
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Haha I actually love it. It’s a great way to weed out the ones who aren’t interested in something real. If they try to convince you to break quarantine, you drop them. If they’re patient and actually try to get to know you, they might be worth talking to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:55 AM
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Honestly. The man is 30 years old. Time to grow up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 06:11 PM
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Recently made this mistake. I know better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:47 AM
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