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| 1 | The Issue is MenI agree with the last sentence you said that as men we need to adjust to the modern sexual market place. In the western world, the likelihood of having some trade virgin wife who’s a stay at home is rare unless you’re both from some small religious community. The issue is, even though modern men should adapt to the market place, in terms of how women view men, the harsh reality is that women haven’t actually adapted. Women have adapted in the sense of how they have broadened the amount of identi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 04:38 AM |
| -1 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyBro it’s because as a Bulgarian, you’re Eastern European girls niche. As a black man, whenever I to a black area or South America I clean up aswell. You have to accept that the western world is primarily best if you’re a western white guy. | /r/seduction | 19/09/23 09:47 PM |
| -2 | I fumble girls by being too honest.I agree with you. It’s no even a desire to impress, I have and ego when it comes to certain topics and I’m aware of it. I gotta work in keeping my cool | /r/seduction | 06/09/23 05:09 AM |
| 19 | A Man Who Knows Himself Very Well Is Naturally Very SeductiveYou’re correct. The woman wants a man who takes away her anxiety. Women have a natural anxiety due to evolution because they’re more at risk. At the same time, a man needs a women to have a purpose and depression is a lack of purpose. Depression is self aggression. So when a man has strong self-identity and purpose, he’s more secure, and confident in himself. When a woman can sense this in a man, he lowers her anxiety. She intuitively knows he’s either got his shit together or he has the potenti… | /r/seduction | 07/07/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?I don’t have nearly that much, but from my experience and from friends of mine who have triple digits, it seems to me that if you have a super high body count as a guy the reality is that most of those are one night stands from clubs/bars and most of those girls are not even that attractive. There’s a point where’s it’s really just an ego thing. All of my sexual partners except for one 1night stand were girls I was actively talking to/dating and the experiences were good, and they were girls I w… | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 12:15 PM |
| 6 | For the boys going through a break up: How to cure oneitisGo through a mini hoe phase. Summer is coming up so it’s perfect. So get on the apps, and cold approach chicks, and get some dates set. You honestly don’t even need to have sex with any of them, just go on dates, get to know other girls, and you’ll internalize an abundance mindset. This means you will truly know there truly are plenty of fish in the sea. Now i do no suggest getting into another relationship just yet. Just go out there and date so that you can understand you have options. This wo… | /r/seduction | 19/04/23 02:06 AM |
| 1 | How to display dominance with a girlDude this isn’t something you can just do. Basically, if a girl truly likes you and is truly attracted to you, she will embrace her feminine side and display a more submissive demeanour around you. This is of course if she’s the feminine type of chick. All you need to do, is pass the shit tests. This is basically when she’s testing to see how much of a coward you are and how easily you fold. I don’t wanna go deep into shit tests cus this response would be a damn essay, so just search that up | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s?Dude I’d say by 22, it will get 100x’s easier. But only if you do the right things. Start weight training now and if you’re consistent by 22 you’ll look decent. Grow facial hair. Get consistent haircuts. Get a decent job, get a car, move out of your parents home. All that can be done in just a couple yrs. So Imagine how it will be if you improve at all those things I outlined for 11 years. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 12:11 AM |
| 16 | How can I (22F) get more male validation/attention? Do guys like girls that dress slutty?I will tell it to you with harsh honesty. You can dress however you like, but if you decide to dress very provocatively and that leads to you getting attention from a guy, the chances that he only wants sex and not a relationship is very high. Now if all you desire is just sex, that’s ok. But you mentioned how you want your first to be a bf. Since you’re a virgin, I’m warning you right now, there will be assholes who convince you they want a relationship but only want sex, and since you lack the… | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 11:43 PM |
| 0 | How to not get friendzoned by a girl?Express your intention. Tell her you wanna see her look at her in a romantic way and wanna date and deal with the consequences. The earlier you do it the better. If the friendship gets too real she’ll lose respect for you that the entire time you wanted more | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | The time an escort didn't charge meLoool you’re prob right | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 09:57 PM |
| 41 | I’m talking to a chick who has a BFHere’s the thing man. Preferences are a real thing. I’ll give you an example, there’s this chick I wanted for a while. She’s mixed race super hot, my exact type. She’s rejected me like 3 times. She has a BF and he’s literally exactly what you described and I can tell she’s all over him. So believe it or not, you’re definitely a lot of girls type. I know chicks that don’t like too much muscle and don’t like black guys lol. So just focus on those who like you | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/22 05:58 AM |
| 9 | I’m talking to a chick who has a BFMan here’s the thing. This girls a huge fitness enthusiast and so am I. That’s a huge part of our chemistry. I see her looking at my physique when we talk and those girls are always into guys that train. I saw him and he was extremely skinny snd the way they were moving was weird. It seemed like she was leading him everywhere and he was just following. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/22 05:56 AM |
| 12 | I’m talking to a chick who has a BFMan also, the feeling of having a successful cold approach where you get her number, you two flirt and then hook up is amazing. Prostitution ruins that. Its like the difference between studying for a test and getting an A compared to cheating on it and getting an A. Just the fact that my looks, charm, charisma and game, which are all things i worked on led me to pulling a 9 I met randomly and hooking up with her is rewarding. Paying for it seems lame and takes away that feeling | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/22 05:53 AM |
| 3 | I’m talking to a chick who has a BF-The guy is white -I’ve met, known, know and have been with girls who are into Tyrone’s. As far as into Arabians, I have no idea because I’m not Arabian. -not intro strip clubs, and I’m not interested in escorts because frankly, I can only hook up with chicks that I have an actual connection with. Even if the relationship is just sex, I prefer it to be with a girl who actually enjoys my company and I enjoy hers. I simply have an issue with entertaining people I don’t enjoy talking to and who don… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/22 05:49 AM |
| 15 | I’m talking to a chick who has a BFI’m pretty new into the RP stuff. I have only had one serious relationship which ended august 2020. I became hoe pretty much summer of last year and from then up until now I been having short term FWB type relationships. So frankly, I am pretty new to all this stuff to be completely honest, so when a situation like this arises, it’s kinda weird and shocking | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/22 05:42 AM |
| 20 | I’m talking to a chick who has a BFThat fast food analogy was amazing. Background, I’m 26 and she’s 23 turning 24 this year. She strikes me as one of those girls that has had a lot of fun back in college and isn’t much of a relationship type, but has been in one during covid and is now reverting back to her previous more free lifestyle. Her and many other girls. She told me she had a lot of fun in college and partied alot and she graduated right before the pandemic and moved back with her parents. I’ve noticed that alot of girls … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Most girls have no hobbieUsually we just vibe and have good conversation. The attraction combined with the chemistry leads into something. But as I get to know them more I start to realize that they’re not passionate about anything they say they’re into. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Most girls have no hobbieI meet girls in person more | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | What's the truth about height?I think it matters for women the same way it matters for guys. For example, when a girl is too tall, I’d say 5’10 and up, it’s harder for her. It’s not impossible, but shorter girls have more options. Now obviously if the chick is extremely attractive, this overpowers the heigh issue. So for guys it’s pretty much the same thing, but the qualities that have to overpower the height thing is more than just looks because girls care about more than just looks. For example, Kendall Jenner can get away… | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 12:19 AM |
| 8 | How should I approach a girl at the gym?Just go strike up a convo. The first convo should not be with the goal of getting a date or a number. Just strike up convo and see how the vibe is. That first convo could start off by you asking how many sets she has left. Then be like “how come I never met you before? I mean I see you everyday and I’ve spoken to everyone else.” Then flow from there. Basically get acquainted and the next time you’ll have another convo but it’ll get more real. Then eventually ask her out maybe the third time | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | As a nerd how does one go about "Just be yourself" ?I’m a nerd here man. I’ll you how much of a nerd I am to start. I went to school for creative writing cuz I wanna write fantasy and sci fi. Teens and early twenties consisted of gaming with my friends on the weekends, watching anime, nerdy movies, reading. That’s still an ideal weekend for me. At some point in my early 20s I got better with women. I didn’t change my interests for anyone, but I simply got forced to leave my bubble. You see, I was an always guy like yourself, and I wasn’t awkward … | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 10:50 PM |
| 30 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub?Game doesn’t actually exist. There’s no amount of finesse, tricks or tactics that can somehow make a girl want you. The reality is that if she’s physically attracted to you enough, all the shit you’re telling her seems more interesting. For example, you could have the exact same conversation with two different girls. The one who thinks your ugly, will think your jokes are obnoxious while the girl who is attracted to you thinks your jokes are charming. Another example, the difference between cute… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?Fitness, but I’d say it’s more of an obsession than a hobby. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Should i ask a girl straight up is she is not interested?Yes. If a girl is into you, being straight up will not ruin your chances at all | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 08:09 PM |
| 91 | A girl that ghosted me after the first date is now going to the same gym as I am. Should I say anything the next time I see her again?Nahhh never ever. Don’t even look at her. Just workout. The exact same thing happened to me a Yr ago. A girl I was seeing that dumped me and blocked me on everything started going to my gym and was always there same time as me. I would catch her starring at me so hard and she would even hover around me. I ignored her and acted like I didn’t know her. A few weeks later, she sent me a random novel of a text explaining why she left me. I didn’t even respond. Felt so good dude | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 12:01 AM |
| 10 | Me and a couple friends were having a conversation, honest question( I’m not trolling) but is being a manwhore/ player really what’s it’s to be hyped to be or I’m not missing outIt’s really a nice self esteem boost the first time you realize you’re attractive enough to juggle a few girls at once. But after a point, it’s just overwhelming. You realize you’d rather have one meaningful connection and even start to miss the days when you didn’t care about getting laid entirely. I’m actually burnt out from this stuff rn. The second half of 2021 I was dating new girls all the time. I went from a guy who had only been in a couple relationships in the past 6 yrs, to a guy that … | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Don't be this guy (RANT)I’m also a good looking black man and I can relate. But I’ll tell you something brother, once I started dating more girls of my own race, the game changed. I go for black girls and mixed girls and not only is it way easier for me, but I actually feel more comfortable around them because of the culture | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Don't be this guy (RANT)I love this idea tbh | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Don't be this guy (RANT)I’m not implying that. This was a response to all those guys who think race matters. I’m a black guy who had friends of all races and this is something that I noticed is believed by many minority guys | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Don't be this guy (RANT)They like good looking guys, but they like fun guys even more. Women hate boring men no matter how good looking the guy is | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 03:37 AM |
| -2 | Don't be this guy (RANT)Man, I swear the ppl on this that think like this have actually never spoken to real girls, or don’t have broke friends that get pussy. Yall live in a simulation. Stop think women are all these baddy type you see on IG. Go to university or talk to normal girls. You’ll learn this IG stuff isn’t the majority. It’s all about compatibility and chemistry. Be a man of character. Be confident in displaying who you are, and have ambition. You don’t need to be a millionaire or be a 10/10 looks wise. Y’al… | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 01:34 AM |
| 33 | Don't be this guy (RANT)I love this response. You really understand this | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Don't be this guy (RANT)Here’s the thing about money. Women that date guys just for their money are not women I even wanna attract. These women are shallow and superficial. On top of that, these women aren’t even happy with the guy the got with and end up cheating or having a midlife crises. So I always tell guy, do not chase mine to attract women. Just get on your grind for yourself. In fact, don’t even flex your money cus it will attract the wrong chicks. Personality isn’t that difficult. The reality is, once a guy t… | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 12:35 AM |
| 22 | How does one attract a "baddie" type?Man don’t let preconceived notions based on their style and appearance affect you. Just put yourself out there and be yourself. You might be surprised. Because I will tell you this, while many girls of certain areas and culture may be known to have a type, every girl on earth I attracted to confidence. Be 100% and unapologetically you and if she doesn’t like you then it’s ok. Just actually approach them in person. None of that Dm be. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Have you ever been rejected multiple times by a friend but eventually come out victorious in the end? Or is no a forever no?I once got rejected by a girl i met at the gym 3 times in a row in one day. This was back in October. I saw this sexy black girl doing peck deck and her form was trash, so I thought it would be the perfect excuse to strike convo. We hit it off and i asked her to hangout and she said shes busy all month. I askwd for her number, she said she doesnt give it. 20 mins later she was at the smith machine and i was near. I asked her for snapchat instead and ahe said the same thing, that she doesnt give … | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 09:10 PM |
| 5 | What girls think of short menlol ikr. I will say this. Every short guy I know that gets girls, has a lot of charm, personality, charisma, and humor. I literally have a friend who's 5 ft 5, good-looking and well dressed, and struggles so much because he lacks personality. On the other hand, I know guys that are pretty much just tall versions of this guy, who have chicks flocking to them. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 03:34 PM |
| 24 | What girls think of short menThat’s true. This girls also half black and is more immersed with her black side. As a black person i who’s dated black, mixed, white, Latin, I can tell you black and mixed girls care about height the most. It’s a culture where the girls really want nba and nfl player type guys | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 02:19 PM |
| 11 | What girls think of short menYe my best friend is 5’5. This guy gets girls just Cus of how charming he is and he jacked | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | The girl I like is a bottle girlWill do. Thanks for this, I really needed a no bs answer bro! | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | The girl I like is a bottle girlSo I disagree. I think she's into me and want me to fuck her but tbh. Because dude you gotta understand, I'm a pretty masculine dude. I'm jacked, decent height, noting feminine about me, and we flirt. She's invited me over to her place for the weekend twice already. First time she flaked cus it was thanks giving, second time was this past weekend and she flaked cus she was at bday. I thought she made the bday thing up, till that night she blew up my snapchat with stories of her and friends twerk… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | The girl I like is a bottle girlNah I talk to alot of chicks and been with a good amount in the time span between the time I met her and now. I genuinely just grew feels for her tbh. It's a conflicting situation | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | The girl I like is a bottle girlShe's never told me she hooks actually. Not even once tbh. I just suspect she gets around like that. Our vibe isn't like that. She invited me over a couple times to and flirts alot but those times always flopped because of her. And I didn't pursue earlier cus I don't go for classmates | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Gay men are interested in me, but women aren't?Ok I'll give you the run down on why this is happening to you. It's happening to you because you're simply a good looking guy. If you're a good looking guy, you're going to be approached and hit on by gay men, because at the end of the day, they're still guys. They're very visual and they will let you know. I'm a stray man who works out alot and this happens to me too. Now the reason why this is not happening with women, isn't because they aren't into you. Women are into you aswell, but they sim… | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Anyone who got fit and saw huge difference with women?Ye man, getting fit makes a huge difference with woman. Anyone that tells you otherwise just doesn't understand. Most women are just attracted to guys who are muscular. But don't get me wrong, most aren't into guys that overdue it. But If you have a muscular physique and you're decently lean, you're probably gonna be more attractive to women. I noticed for myself, literally every girl I been with since getting in shape loved it. They may not say it off bat, but once you start hooking up with her… | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 03:51 AM |
| 6 | How often do women approach men?They usually give you signs so you can approach them. Most guys just never notice these signs. Even at 25, I misread them all the time. It's hard to know the difference between a girl just being kind and actually being interested. To be completely honest with you, this the element of game that is slowing myself and most guys back. It's really risky sometime to go for a chick and it turned out she wasn't interested. You may have just ruined a friendship. Ik at the moment I'm going through somethi… | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 12:43 AM |
| 0 | for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than goodI recommend that men never ever ever take dating advice from any woman. Straight women don't date women, so they don't know anything. Period. I think the moment I stopped taking advice from my older sister was when I actually started pulling. The type of a guy a womans asks you to be when you ask her how to get girls, is not the type of guy she ever dates. She'll literally make you into an overly agreeable, passive, overly complimenting and gift-giving guy, because she wishes the guys she dated … | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once.I don't do great on tinder. But I kill it on hinge for some reason | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 07:34 PM |
| 2 | The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once.Thing is, I NEVER do dinner dates ever. My go to is coffee. Always coffee. Or bubble tea. I'm not sending more than 12-15$. Plus, I don't like eating food with girls I just met | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once.2 consistently, another one was a only a couple times, one of them once. So 4 of them. The 5th only made out, but she was really the hottest one and wasn't the type to give it up easily. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 07:14 PM |
| 16 | The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once.There was a point, I was talking to 5 girls at once. Two from cold approach, 3 from apps. On top of that, I was crushing on a girl from school. It was just tiring man. I had to really take a break lol. I was girl crazy, and when you're talking to alot of girls, it gives you this swag to your step that makes more girls like you. It's like they can tell your elevating in the charts, so you end up developing this momentum making it easy to flirt. I was cramming for exams and sleeping super later cu… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:05 AM |
| 21 | The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once.I got a few pictures of me hiking, where I'm wearing clothes that show my physique, but they don't come off as douchey because of the environment. A gym selfie, one of me smiling at the house and another I'm just sitting on the sofa. The three hiking pics are really good and place them in the beginning. In the past, I only had the home selfies and gym selfy and got way less results. As far as cold approach, i don't even think I'm good at it. I don't even believe anyone can be good at it. PUA stu… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 01:55 AM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]The reality is, you're only boring to a person when you don't have chemistry with them. That's honestly it. If a girl thinks you're boring, it just means there isn't much of a connection. The criterias of being a boring person are not universal and not objective. What really matters is, are YOU BORED in life? You could be doing something that is seen as boring by someone else's standards every single day, but if you're enjoying yourself that's all that matters. And when you find a girl who vibes… | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Does she like me or what?I get what you're saying, but I was never needy. I never msg her first. Not even once. I actually come off as cold to her. So what you're saying doesn't apply to this situation | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Does she like me or what?The thing is, I never showed any signs of being insecure or timid, because frankly, I'm not insecure or timid. The vibes I get from her, even from the start, didn't show that she was interested. Sure, she would text me alot and talk to me alot, but it never came off as flirty or anything. And I'm just not the flirty type in general. I usually just girls chase me first and go with the flow. The thing is, I'm starting to think because she's really attractive, she's the type that simply outs hersel… | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 01:20 PM |
| 0 | Is height really that important?Thing is, idk why or if this is actually true, but I've noticed that most girls don't even know height lol. I'm 5 ft 11, and girls always think I'm 6'1. I never correct them btw lol. I mostly date girls 5'6 or under. Not opposed to tall girls, but it just happens that way, and these girls always boost my height. I personally think that for most avg height women, 5'9 and up is prefect. I think that the reality is, alot of these girls might just think what actually 5'10 is 6ft. So if you say you'r… | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How many rejections in a row is too much?you're going about cold approach all wrong. Don't ask for her number first 5 minutes. Go up to a girl not with the purpose of getting her number, but for the purpose of finding out if the two of you have any chemistry. During the convo, if you feel a vibe, go with the flow. When you get to the point where the convo is coming to an end, ask for her snap or number, but it should be because the two of you made some kind of plan to see each other again. The way you're going about this seems to me li… | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labelsI wouldn't say they're complete bs. At the end of the day, they're just man made labels with definitions, and there are men who describe each label. I'll say what is complete bs about this concept, is the belief that they are absolute and essentialist. For example, the prototypical man who fits the role of an alpha male, is not an "alpha" 24/7. For example, Jeff bezos is seen as an alpha, but you put him on the basketball court, or in the octogan, and he's a total beta lol. Also, If a person is … | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Is this a sign of attraction?I'm not gonna go for her. She's attractive, but she's also 6 years older than me and just got out of something. I like another girl rn. I was just curious about what this means | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:32 PM |
| 12 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?Watch something on TV. Something that's easy to watch can inspired good conversations. My go to is How I met your mother. Crack jokes. The way I got my ex, was after we watched a few eps of the show I slowly held her hand at some point, towards mid way of the final episode we were viewing. The moment the end credits started I paused the show and turned to face her as I was still holding her hand. Then I said "you know you're might type right?" She said "I like you too." Then I just went for a ki… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Me loool. | /r/seduction | 10/11/21 04:39 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I'm a 25 yr old man, and to be completely transparent with you, until I knew I was good at sex, I cared. Once I realized I Know how to satisfy a girl, the number didn't matter. I think prior to that, I had a slight insecurity that I didn't even notice. What I care about more isn't the number of sex partners, but how those partners came about. For example, I wouldn't date a girl who was a sex worker or a girl who Is know for cheating and gold digging. Also, I think that most guys that care alot, … | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | What, in your opinion, is your biggest challenge with women?🤔. You might be onto something. I'm talking to this girl rn and we're linking tomorrow for the first time. I'm gonna call her tomorrow and see how that goes. This one simple idea might change my game 4ever lol. I always just thought it would come off as weird if I were call a girl I just met, but fuq it I got ntl. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 40 | What, in your opinion, is your biggest challenge with women?Communication that's no in person. I can go up to a a girl and have a convo and pull a number easily. What's screws me up is the communication that happens vis text or Snapchat etc. Even tho I'm 25 yrs old, I have zero game when it comes to text. I suck at displaying my personality vis text. I respond too fast because I don't care about waiting. I prefer using text just to tell someone I'm coming to the location, I'm there or I'm not going anymore. I don't have full convos through text or snap. … | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 12:04 PM |
| 9 | Most Effective & Creative Quick Openers?Just have a convo with a girl based on something that has to do with the environment and observe how she reacts to you. You'll be able to tell if a chick is attracted to you just by the way she lights up when you talk to her. From there, escalate the conversation. Here's an example of a pull I did last week at the gym. So It was chest day and I saw this beautiful girl that I never seen there before. My type exactly. I knew at some point I was gonna talk to her and I was just waiting for the perf… | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 12:40 AM |
| 3 | She asked me for my number and never messaged me ever. What's going on?She ended up messaging me | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 01:15 AM |
| 5 | She asked me for my number and never messaged me ever. What's going on?So I went to the gym td. She walked by me and smiled, and then 3 mins later she texted me her name. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Why is being social media inactive a huge turn on for womenMan tbh, I don't know if this is true. I don't have social media, and no woman has ever cared lol. But I will say this, a beautiful woman who has no social media really stands out to me. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.Bro the quality of partnerd.is way more important than quantity. Those ppl who have a lot, most of those are one night stands that lead to serious case of post nut clarity that make you regret. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 07:40 PM |
| 33 | Sex With 1 Girl A Day Doable?It's doable. Just a waste of time and an std waiting to happen.. | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 03:27 PM |
| 7 | why do so many dating books recommended you just approach random girls?Most issues guys have when it comes to girls, is being comfortable. This issue they have with comfort comes from fear. Approaching alot will overexpose you to failure and rejection and lead you to being comfortable really easily. So in summary, approaching alot of girls will make you stop taking rejection too srsly, and make you approach more in general. Making you have more results and Bette results | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | This girl said she ‘doesn’t do this often’ but said she on the pill when I drew for the rubbersUse projection for disease prevention, even if she's on the pill. Also, don't even worry about her experience level. It's a waste of time | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Depends on the girl. Don't ppl are just touchy with everyone. My advice, just observe how she acts around others. If she does this to everyone, it means nothing. But if you notice it's only with you, then she's probably flirting | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You just need to be in an environments where talking to girls is necessary so that it doesn't feel foreign anymore | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???The harsh truth, most women can't handle rejection. They're usually never doing the chasing and I wouldn't be surprised if many have never done it before. So it's just scary | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday?This is why you don't try to date a coworker. | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with?I'm not saying if your reasons are not religious it means they are invalid. What I'm saying is, when a man is out here obsessing over a girls body count and virginity status, and it's not because he's religious, most women are just gonna think that guy is insecure and they won't want that guy. I'm not saying you won't find a virgin gf, but unless she's celibate for religious reasons or comes from a certain culture, it's gonna be difficult to find this type of chick. As for where you can find the… | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with?What I mean is, if you happen to meet a girl you really like and she likes you aswell, and there's a strong connection, don't let her virginity status stop you from exploring that relationship. Once you get more experience, you'll realize virginity and body count doesn't matter as much as you think it does. Sex isn't that serious. If your reasons are religious though, all power to you. Aside from religious reasons, I can't see why virginity matters that much to you. I can tell you this tho, if y… | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with?I'ma be honest, it's gonna be hard to find a virgin gf. Just date who ever the universe presents to you and be real about your lack of experience. If she's cool with it then that's perfect and it if it's a problem, then she's not for u | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How can i, a virgin man, find a virgin woman to have a relationship with?Christian mingle | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Does "heyy" really mean she's interested?Man ngl, I literally just went through a bunch of convos with girls I date and tried to date. And my ex never used more than one Y ever. This other girl that flaked always used 4 ys. One that approacher me never used musltille Y's but would use multiple E's. So idk about this man lol | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Does "heyy" really mean she's interested?Man I think my ex only used one Y lol. Even when we were first only talking. I think how fast she responds and how frequent, and how available she is is a way better indicator | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If you're the Eminem type of white guy, it's possible. As a black guy who grew up in a poor neighborhood around only minorities and black ppl, I can tell you that these type of girls are more into guys that are of a certain culture. Which isn't exclusive to race. There was always those few white guys who were like.eminem in 8mile that would get these girls. But the avg joe shmoe, usually can't pull them. But don't it twisted, being of that culture doesn't mean you sell drugs or anything. I know … | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I break small talk with a girl?Over text, we have only spoken about our school content. This is all in person. I feel like she's attracted to me, but she's shy. I can tell by the way she looks at me that she's physically attrcted. I just want us to be fully comfortable with each other when it comes to our convos, and move from there. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 06:25 PM |
| 2 | What do they really mean by having "Game"Most people refer to "game" as essentially being so charming that you are able to seduce a woman. I personally believe that game doesn't actually exist, because it doesn't matter how objectively charming you are. If you and the girl have zero chemistry or she isn't attracted to you, it doesn't actually work. You can also have no charm at all, but you and the girl have chemistry and she's physically attracted to and it'll work. I'd say just ditch the word. Forget about it. Because the truth is, i… | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Once you start attracting women purely from your looks, you'll learn that game is a lie lol. If a girl is attracted to you, she'll think something dumb you said was funny, something corny you said was cute, and will be thinking more about you in her spare time. Just like men, women are finessed by looks. It's a harsh reality. So you'll notice, you won't have to try as hard to charm a woman when she's attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 12:46 PM |
| 1 | I keep falling for single mothersGreat point | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 11:01 PM |
| 5 | I keep falling for single mothersI agree 100% man. I met a girl who seemed damn near perfect at my school. She even invited me over to hang. Then at some point, she mentioned her toddler and I knew it wouldn't go anywhere. Don't get me wrong, if there's a vibe and she's attractive, I'm down for casuals, but I'll just never cuff. Thing is, these single moms I've run into, aside from the baby they have, they seem to have all the qualities of a prospect. While the regular chicks are usually so boring | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 06:16 PM |
| 11 | I keep falling for single mothersI think for most of them, the process of raising a kid just made them more enlightened. They are past that party phase of their life and focused more on self-development, which makes a person overall more attractive. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 02:34 PM |
| 9 | For guys, what's one dating advice that never worked for you?There's nothing wrong with being friends with a girl. It's a bad idea to pretend like you want to be only friends with a girl, when yout intentions are actually sexual or romantic. If it's true friendship, that's great. But the advice that you should try to just be friends with a girl you like romantically and sexually, is terrible advice because it leads to a disingenuine friendship and a broken heart. It's also manipulative. If you like a girl, be upfront about it from the start. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 08:57 PM |
| 16 | For guys, what's one dating advice that never worked for you?"Be friends with her first." This never works. All this does is lead to the friendzone, and wastes alot of time. The worst is when you become her friend because you think it's the smart thing to do, then you later learn that she wanted you from the first time you guys met, but now she doesn't wanna ruin the friend ship. This was something my sister taught me, which leads to my next piece of advice. Which many will hate to here but it's to NEVER take dating advice from women lol. I used to listen… | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Virgin dudes, please stop identifying yourself as an incel!Wrong. I'm black. I'm a dark skinned black man. I'd say I'm pretty attractive, but I wasn't always. I'm around 5'11, 185lbs, 14% bf. I workout alot. I also gave a beard. But I uses to be 215 lbs of pure fat, a big unkept afro. Uneven stubble, yellow teeth, baggy eyes from all the late night gaming. I used to wear the same long sleeved black shirt everyday and would shower twice a week. All I did was come home from university and play call of duty and Destiny all night and smoke weed and jerk off… | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Virgin dudes, please stop identifying yourself as an incel!Man ik guys just like you. The got looks and success, but still get no women. Then I realize, they literally never ever approach them ever. If you lack the guys to actually go up to a chick, you will not be successful with women. Sure I guess you can use apps, but apps really suck. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Virgin dudes, please stop identifying yourself as an incel!5'11 | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Virgin dudes, please stop identifying yourself as an incel!Just stop feeling bad for yourself. You missed out on some experiences and you're a introvert. GET OVER IT. Just observe your situation and do what needs to be done in order to improve. It won't be easy. You'll hate trying at first and it'll be scary, but it's worth it. This whoa is me mentality is useless and doesn't get you anywhere. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 03:42 AM |
| 5 | Virgin dudes, please stop identifying yourself as an incel!man fitness isn't just for looks. Do it for your health and well-being and to avoid disease. Not to mention the mental health benefits. You don't even need to lift weights. Eat healthy and go play a sport or do any physical activity you enjoy. Fitness is very broad and people always assume it's purely aesthetics when it really isn't. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Virgin dudes, please stop identifying yourself as an incel!bro tbh, I pretty much have all of this covered already. This post was more so for those guys that feel hopeless. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Why are men so persistent?To begin, there are women who are persistent. I've had women approach me and keep on trying after I rejected, and many men are in the same boat. For the most part though, there are more men who are persistent than women and I think that just has to do with the fact that in general, men approach more often than women. As far as why men are so persistent, there are different reasons. But one major reason is that, believe it or not, but persistence sometimes actually works. I've approached a girl b… | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 11:52 PM |
| -1 | Is online dating a waste of time for guys?If you're fully relying on online dating to get girls, it is a waste of time. But if you're actually putting yourself out there every chance you can get. Meaning you are able to go up to the girl you like in person and have a convo, then dating apps aren't a waste of time. Because you really have nothing to lose by being in them. Just don't use online dating as your only source to meet women, because unless you have insane clout or are the best looking guy ever, it'll be difficult to get dates. | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your MasculinityWe live in a culture where humans are praised and respected for resisting their nature. A man is demonized for being masculine, assertive, action-oriented, and hyper-sexual. But if he's, agreeable, effeminate, flamboyant he's loved. Meanwhile, women who possess these prototypical masculine characteristics that I mentioned are praised. At the same time, women who are traditionally feminine feel about it. It seems to me that when we were in a time of scarce and we needed our population to skyrocke… | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | The number one trait you need to get laid.I don't necessarily disagree with you, but you are missing some stuff. While being a good listener is crucial for overall good relationships with humans, it is not what will get you laid. IMO, the number 1 trait is compatibility and chemistry. We all need to focus on talking to girls who aren't a challenge. This means that communicating with her feels natural and I don't have to constantly worry about what I'm saying. It's best to just talk to a girl who you genuily enjoy hanging out with even i… | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls is EASIER than ever during the pandemic. Don't believe the lies.Kate Hudson is beautiful. I'm not a player, I don't PLAY anyone. I like dating and improving myself. I don't treat women badly at all. I didn't even intend to make you feel bad, I was just responding to the combative energy you brought. Lastly, if some response on Reddit makes you feel bad about yourself, the problem is you. If you have issues with people responding with the same energy you brought ONLINE, then I can't imagine how you would react in person. I wish you the best truly. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls is EASIER than ever during the pandemic. Don't believe the lies.Also, in your response you asked me if I have a job and what my career is. So when you meet guys, that's what you think of right? What they do for a living? So you can find out how they can provide for you. If you ask me, it sounds like you also "objectify" us. You meet a guy, he's handsome, tall, has a good job. Then you go back to your girlfriends and y'all go into detail about how this hot guy with all this money treated you right. WOMEN DO THE SAME FUCKEN SHIT. It's not objectification to ca… | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls is EASIER than ever during the pandemic. Don't believe the lies.Loool | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls is EASIER than ever during the pandemic. Don't believe the lies.I'm 25, and I'm in post-graduate school. I don't go hunting for women, but I enjoy starting conversations with women when I find them attractive to see if there's chemistry. I have been rejected many times, as well as the opposite. And I'm always myself. Let me tell you something that should be obvious to you, GUYS ENJOY TALKING TO GIRLS THEY'RE ATTRACTED TO. There's nothing wrong with that. By the sounds of your reply, it seems to me like you're some unattractive bitter woman who is projecting … | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 2 | I’ve given up on searching for hookups and getting laid because it is so damn hard. Instead I’ll be going to brothels from now on lolNothing against brothels..not my thing tho. But you need to improve yourself. If you get used to hookers, you'll get complacent. Also, look for connections instead of hookups, and the sex will come along with it. When you go out, think of finding a girl you can have amazing conversations with that come easy and I promise it's easy money from there. When sex is on your mind, women can really read that and it comes off as lame and creepy. When you are a guy who's looking for genuine convos, you st… | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 4 | I need to love myself moreYou need a life of abundance other than female desire. Don't love yourself just so you can increase confidence to be able to attract women. That's an empty life. You sensationalize that idea, when In actuality it's not that great. Give yourself a reason to live. Live out your passions and your purpose. Set goals and achieve them. Lastly, self love is an action. Take care of yourself. Why do so many of us love our car, and spend money on it and keep it clean, bur fail to treat ourselves right? Fe… | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Guy here, What do i do if i catch feelings too early and too intensely? how to stop idealising women?Don't resist the feelings. Just understand what those feelings are, which are infatuation. Once you understand it's just infatuation, constantly remind yourself and make sure you don't act in a way that throws you off. What do I mean by this? Don't exit your masculine frame. When guys have feelings, we tend to become so immersed into them that it make us think about her too much and it triggers the provider in us. Now If she was actually your wife or baby momma, that's ok. If she's just some gir… | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Any gym goers with tips?I got to know one girl that trains at my gym recently. She was scheduling her workout after training and I was walking out at the same time. On the way to the parking lot I was telling her the best way to schedule workouts is to call first thing in the morning at the start of the week and schedule your entire week. Next time I saw her she approached me and thanked me. Since then, she's always making small talk with me. I'm not particularly interested in her and idk if she is aswell. Nothing pers… | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Any gym goers with tips?You just need a convo starter. For example, ask her if she can spot you. Say she spots you on dumbbell shoulder press or something. After your set, say thanks. She'll say no prob. Then just ask her name and go from there. This one is easy, but it won't work for everyone girl because not all of em can spot heavy weights or they don't know how. If she's a real fitness chick who knows what she's doing and can tell she can actually spot you it'll work. Don't expect this to work if she's a newbie or … | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 10:52 PM |
| 3 | To those that used to have a hard time holding a conversation, how did you fix your problem?I fixed it by becoming over exposed to beautiful women. How did I become overexposed? Work. A few yrs ago when I was 20-21 or something, I got this job at fitness facility. Since the nature of the environment was about fitness, everyone that worked there was fit. So the girls I worked with were all attractive girls who were into fitness. Everyone who worked there was between the ages of 18-25. My manager was the oldest person and he was 25. Since we were all young, we all formed friendships and … | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Don't pursue women who don't want you, focus on the ones that do want youThing is, sometimes persistence really does work. If it's worked for you a couple of times, you are always gonna remember those moments and they'll keep you committed. Also, women are really weird at times. I've been in situations, very recent ones, where girls blatantly are interested, and then they aren't anymore. Or vice versa. I had a girl tell me she's interested but has a bf. Then flakes, but still hits me up. I've had another tell me she's interested. Gave me the number after snapping eac… | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Talking to girls is EASIER than ever during the pandemic. Don't believe the lies.I'm just being descriptive | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Talking to girls is EASIER than ever during the pandemic. Don't believe the lies.Lmfao. First of all, I ain't got no type. And both of them bad as hell. The black chick looks like lauren london in ATL and the ginger is a cutie with nice blue eyes, pretty smile and she's fit. She's an easy 8.5 | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls is EASIER than ever during the pandemic. Don't believe the lies."let's go on a hike" was just an example of something I said a couple times. You could also ask her if she wants to hit up a beach, patio etc. From my experience, girls really like those casual setting much more than the dinner dates you know. Plus there's way less pressure. Something about just going for a walk with a girl and talking about life defeats classic dates way more. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Talking to girls is EASIER than ever during the pandemic. Don't believe the lies.Where I live, everything is closed lol. But also, I tend to meet girls who are in the fitness/health lifestyle. So they're really into things like hikes. If it was a girl I met in the street i would invite then to a bar, if they were open | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why do many modern women desire a stereotypical husband, but refuse to be a stereotypical wife?I am not stereotyping. I clearly said "many modern women." In addition, alot of women love the IDEA of sharing responsibilities. But when it's actually time for this stuff to happen during a relationship, they LET the guy do all of the bill paying. | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Why do many modern women desire a stereotypical husband, but refuse to be a stereotypical wife?I agree with you that cooking and cleaning services can be outsourced and career women are too busy to do these tasks. That is not an issue. The issue is when a woman makes 100k a year and has a husband/boyfriend who also makes 100k a year. But still expects the man to use his money to pay all the bills. On top of that, she expects him to fix everything, spoil her with romantic dates and gifts and treat her like a prize. Bascially act like the typical husband in a nuclear family. Yet, as soon as… | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Should I go for this girl? (I'm 21 and she's 16 turning 17 in December)The age of consent is 16. And if someones 16 they can't be with someone more than 5 years older. She was born in 2000 and I was born in 1996, so technically there's a 4-year difference. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | How to text girls?Bro..... You're a fucken genius! how tf did I not think of using snapchat before?! It's perfect. Texting is only helpful when You've already formed some type of relationship with the girl. Like if the two of you are friends and she's comfortable with you. Definitely not the best platform when you've got a chick's number from 1 face to face convo. Thanks alot my dude. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok for a 20 year old to bang a 17 year old girlSee that's part of the issue. I feel like she would cling. And usually, I would just avoid her. But she works with me. It'll be really awkward to pipe her consistently for a period of time, then stop and see her everyday at work. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Is it ok for a 20 year old to bang a 17 year old girlNot at all. She's still part of the same generation. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok for a 20 year old to bang a 17 year old girlI entered the lunch room at my work and saw her sitting there on here phone. I sat I from of her and just said what's up. From there I do t remember the exact conversation, but there was chemistry. Then I had to leave because my lunch was over and I was getting late. The next day I sat with her again and we talked for 45 minutes and then and i was gonna leave but she made sure to have my number. So she took my phone and put it there. I don't think people would care and I don't care what they thi… | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Is it ok for a 20 year old to bang a 17 year old girlWhy wouldn't you? | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 02:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my teachers assistant?From what I wrote I can see where you're coming from. It's hard to describe why someone would think a girl is attracted to them without mentioning her flirting. It's more so I can tell she doesn't seem as a student and her face lights up when we talk. And how should I go about it when going for her? | /r/seduction | 22/10/16 08:32 AM |
| 1 | How to hook up with girls I meet at university without going to social events?i'm saying in environmets where people are drinking, girls that are really DRUNK are dtf. But not really when they're sober, and I don't wanna fuck a drunk chick. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I noticed different races of girls respond to different things.I know they are whore because those girls are always the ones that have the most body counts. I know from girls I went to school with and etc. These asian girls i'm talking about have done crazy shit and are always openly promiscious. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I noticed different races of girls respond to different things.-I'm friends with alot of bengali and indian girls. SO many fine brown girls, but unfortunately they never date outside their race. They are very flirtatious but will never actually date or be down to hook up. They straight up tease and always date other brown guys. I know one girl who's a mutual friend who's this thick bengali girl who exclusively dates black dudes however. -As for asian girls they only ever date asian guys. The ones that date black guys are always the biggest whores i've notic… | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 08:40 AM |
| 1 | I noticed different races of girls respond to different things.I will be honest. What you said about white girls being caught up with expectations is very true. However, this does not apply if you are a black guy. I will explain to you why. Most white girls already are attached to the idea that they will settle down with a white guy. SO they look at us black men as just guys they can have fun with and hook up with. I will give you an example. Almost every white girl I've flirted with or talked to that was attracted to me only really wanted to fuck and was n… | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 08:31 AM |
| 3 | How do you ask a girl for a date over text? Direct and very specific, or indirect and ask for a free day first? Was I too direct?I'm gonna be honest with you. It seems like she is not interested. Maybe she actually is busy, idk. But most of the time, when a chick responds by saying she's busy, she really doesn't wanna go, but doesn't wanna come off as rude. I'm sure she doesn't dislike you or find you unnattractive, but the subject of a date might just be too early. She probably isn't too comfortable with you yet. Next time, this is what you do. You don't ask. Just say "come with me to (insert location)" The reason you sh… | /r/seduction | 12/07/16 11:28 AM |
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