I don't know why, but the coolest girls I meet always end up being single moms. I'm in my mid 20s, and all the super mature, down to earth and inspiring girls I meet, the one's I can see myself with long term, always end up being single moms. Which for me, as a 25 yr old, I can't see a relationship with a single mom lasting too long. All the girls I meet in my generation, seem to me obsessed with social media, partying, clubbing etc. The one's I meet that are all about self development, ambition, and are super easy going, always have a toddler lol.

I'm not saying it's black and white, like every single mom is cool, and non single moms aren't. Ik there are plenty of cool girls out there with no kids, and single moms who are basic.

I dated a single mom a couple yrs ago and she was amazing, and if it wasn't for the kid, I probably woulda been with her still. The past couple months I met two other single moms, also extremely cool and down to earth. The regular chicks I meet that are 20-25 yrs old seem like all they want is to hook up. All they do is post pointless stuff on socials and they don't have any interesting opinions. All they do is party and the most interesting things is where they vacationed. And even in those vacays, they did nothing interesting. Who tf goes to greece, and only hits the club lol?

Anyone else have a similar experience?