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Marriage/ChildrenEcstatic-Flounder-48/r/MensRights03/09/21 04:42 AM
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ConversationEcstatic-Flounder-48/r/seduction21/10/21 07:43 PM
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ComprehensiveEcstatic-Flounder-48/r/seduction28/09/21 08:28 PM
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Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!) Ecstatic-Flounder-48/r/seduction04/10/22 01:55 PM
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LifestyleEcstatic-Flounder-48/r/seduction27/09/22 03:02 AM
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Honestly the number one thing I’d like to see as a 26 year old male from my female peers is effort. I can’t think of any scenarios that don’t involve a relationship but for example, if someone is sick you make them soup. If someone needs a pencil, you help them find one instead of just saying you don’t have one, stuff like that. It’s showing a bit more authenticity in your day to day than every other person that puts about 3 seconds of thought into their actions for someone else. Although you mi…
/r/MensRights20/03/26 11:07 PM
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Thank you. I’ve always heard people referencing this type of bias with women and I always thought it would be really useful to use in a debate if there were studies to back it up.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 09:45 AM
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Where’d you get the stat on the 4x preference? I’m genuinely interested in reading that type of behavioral study
/r/MensRights28/10/22 08:55 AM
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Then just find a way to jokingly ask her if she’s offended. That way you’re not biting the bullet too fast.
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:06 PM
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And does she usually reply faster?
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:01 PM
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Well it depends on the speed of your texting. If she’s texting you back relatively quickly after, that could just be her sarcastically feigning being hurt to get a better conversation with you.
/r/seduction05/10/22 05:54 PM
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OP you gotta keep updating us on your approaches. This stuff is probably the only quality content I’ve seen on this sub in a long time. Rooting for you, man
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:43 PM
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The reaching you’re doing here is palpable.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 04:09 PM
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I like you. Even if this is fake, I like you.
/r/seduction12/08/22 07:56 AM
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I get fact chicks. Or chubby chicks. Or minorities. It’s because I’m white, over 6ft but a 4/10. So I cross off 2/3 and women tend to date/fuck up and across. But I’m talking strictly women that approach me, not women that I approach. And that’s not to say that I have a problem with minorities, it’s just that I’m fetishized cuz white and 6ft+
/r/seduction12/08/22 07:14 AM
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They’re not shitty. They’re wasting his time. He doesn’t want his time wasted. Whether through women with good intentions or bad intentions. Just like women sometimes want men that will fuck them silly in a one night stand and sometimes want to date a reliable husband-esque man, men can have different tastes in the short term and act according to those tastes. You’re allowed to want what you want and drop someone who isn’t on the same page.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:37 PM
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I’m glad you have that level of self respect. Most men would follow the advice listed above
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:50 PM
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If you’re the type to juggle men without a second thought the way that you’re currently doing, I dont doubt that many of these men would lose interest in you. Respectfully
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:37 AM
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Go earn a stupid amount of money. You got your 20s to set up the rest of your life. 30-50s to get women and then 50+ to start a family. Sure it’s not the traditional setup, but it’s the one with really minimal downsides (besides less time to grow old with kids).
/r/seduction20/05/22 04:11 AM
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That’s not a woman. That’s a child. Just stop talking to them. If you’re sufficiently confident in yourself and the effort you put into yourself, eventually women will act better towards you. That’s not to say avoid women entirely and focus on only yourself. That’s to say that you should just get someone who appreciates you more than this half assed arrogant bullshit behavior.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:35 PM
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Dudes asking for 30$ to wing with him. This is bullshit
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:03 PM
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Don’t text her till your back home. Pretty simple. Ignoring her probably makes her wonder if she’s good enough for you anymore. Which makes her want you more.
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:15 AM
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You didn’t have enough time to even process my comment if that’s how fast you responded
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:59 AM
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Men don’t give a shit about your degrees or programming. Hell sometimes it’s a negative if it makes you act entitled as to the type of men you should get. Fat ass/abs is fine if you’re not a massive butterface. And if you get attention, just not attention from the men you think you deserve, odds are, those are the men that you do deserve.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:58 AM
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This comment is underrated
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:44 PM
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They are right.
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:01 PM
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Username checks out
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:19 PM
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My pics kinda suck but I get matches because of my bio (it’s cringe Af) but feel free to take what you want: 6’1 Pornhub promised me MILFs and I’m here to collect My star sign isn’t cancer but it might as well be I have an executive membership at Costco 5’11+ women swipe right 😜 ^ literally copy/paste of my bio
/r/seduction12/04/22 10:31 PM
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Everybody dates to marry. Nobody realizes it.
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:00 PM
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What you need to do is tell women that you’re potentially interested in a relationship, go on a few dates while trying to make a move. If they say no, tell them physical intimacy is something you value before relationships and that if that’s not something they’re into, then maybe you guys aren’t compatible. -THAT IS NOT TO SAY that you give them an ultimatum. That is to say that you’ve told them what you want and expect and if they cannot fulfill that for you you will find someone who will. This…
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:54 PM
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I’d start insulting her personal choices. “Are you really this pathetic that you can’t get the message and get anyone else to like you?” “Do you need mental help?” Might be too much for a lot of people on here but I’ve never been one to mince words. Especially to people who talk shit like that
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:03 PM
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You gotta specify that. Because greetings, the way it was used here, sounds robotic. I still would’ve asked in person. But it doesnt sound too bad then. It just looks weak because you haven’t approached in person.
/r/seduction09/04/22 11:28 AM
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Shouldn’t have said greetings. Should have approached her in person. Probably with a pie or a casserole or something. Because that’s what people do when they move in. If she asks you to come in for coffee, just slide from there. Otherwise you leave.
/r/seduction09/04/22 11:25 AM
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😬
/r/seduction09/04/22 11:22 AM
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Trust me when I say that it’s easier said than done. But you have to start somewhere.
/r/seduction08/04/22 08:17 PM
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What’s the worst thing that could happen? For men, it’s getting kicked out for being a creep or potential sexual assault allegations (I’m talking absolute worst). For women, the man will let you down nicely (or harshly but the odds on that one really are slim to none). There’s no inherent risk in a woman approaching a man in the gym as long as she’s respectful and brief about it. If he’s uncomfortable, and he lets you know, it literally can’t be interpreted as sexual assault or harassment. So th…
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:34 PM
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“Hi, I’m interested in you.” Need I say more? Why do things have to be a song and dance. If you want something, go do it. Don’t ask about how to get him to do it
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:25 PM
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You tell her outwardly the truth once. And then you stop talking to her. If she comes to you there’s your answer. If she doesn’t, move on. You’re not some pawn for some girl to choose over someone else. You’re the prize. Treat yourself like one. Don’t get into her frame.
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:58 PM
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She doesn’t see you that way. Just soft next her and if she texts you first, then continue conversation but if she starts again just make yourself more distant
/r/seduction20/02/22 12:01 AM
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Difference is you pay for your kids. She’s not expected to pay for yours. If you marry a woman with kids, you also pay for hers. So men can be selective because in both cases they pay
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:18 PM
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Stop dating baby mommas lmao.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:28 PM
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American girls are some of the ugliest lmao. Speaking as an American. They’re getting spoiled rotten when they look worse than most other populations
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:44 PM
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That’s not what your post is saying. Quite frankly you’re just rubbing salt in a wound with the double standard of this post in and of itself.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 11:07 PM
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Because you’re the only ignorant one here. And you’re not realizing it.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 11:03 PM
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I hope for OP’s sake that’s all it is…
/r/MensRights30/01/22 09:40 PM
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Wtf did I just read
/r/MensRights30/01/22 08:18 PM
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I mean not really. If you leave when she says no it won’t make her uncomfortable.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:02 PM
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OP one of your main problems with this interaction is that you gave her a way out. If she doesn’t want to give you her phone number she will just say no. Deliberately giving her an out makes you look less confident in yourself. If there is an awkward pause while she thinks about whether or not she’s gonna do it you could just hit her with a sly grin and say ‘time’s ticking on that offer’ or ‘I’m quite the gentleman when I want to be’ etc, you get the point. Also don’t ask if they’re single. They…
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:24 AM
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If she’s not the one texting you constantly, you drop her. Eventually you will get to the point where you find women that text you constantly. If shes not texting you constantly you’re not her top priority
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:22 PM
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That doesn’t entitle OP to shaming language. Calling it a feminine trait? Fine, whatever. But calling them little boys? Fuck off lmao.
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:02 PM
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I text a lot but the girls I text with enjoy it. And when inevitably something happens in my life that requires my full attention and I can’t text as much, they get upset and start drama to keep my attention. Ironically a few times it’s been them wondering if I’m upset with them because I’m NOT texting that’s actually led to the end of the relationship. Because I can’t hang around with people who don’t understand that I’ve communicated bluntly that I am currently busy.
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:01 PM
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Is a woman that texts too much a little girl? OP’s point aside, I don’t approve of the shaming language. It implies entitlement and narcissism like OP thinks she, or women of her caliber are entitled to ‘real men’ whatever that means
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:58 PM
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“Leave the texting for the little boys” Sorry OP but if you need to shame men because they don’t follow your exact specifications as no longer being even men, then I wouldn’t be interested in dating you.
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:32 PM
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So threaten to sue lmao. Get ahead of the situation. Inform the police that this girl is making things up about you and then when they investigate and talk with the school, the school has to act
/r/MensRights28/01/22 04:07 AM
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I’m not sure which examples you’re referring to. Toddlers are easy to train (well, easier than older people). Spoiled rich kids (Of which unfortunately I was one) never truly learn the discipline to do something great in their lives. It is very difficult for me to study for hours at a time and it is a constant mental battle for me. While it might be like that for many, I have seen people have immense discipline towards their goals (and it is usually those who currently do not have access to luxu…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 02:13 PM
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If you look at childish behavior (I.e; the child that throws a tantrum at Walmart over a toy or the spoiled rich kid) you’ll realize that a lot of women (particularly attractive women) are being similarly raised and conditioned by both family and the men in their lives to not reek the true consequences of their actions. As such they tend to act more spoiled, like have illusions of grandeur and fail to truly see the struggles of others. It’s also why women can be more brutal in the dating scene a…
/r/MensRights20/01/22 04:09 AM
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Like maybe lose weight idk 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:55 AM
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Women want equality in the glamorous jobs. But I have not yet seen women go protest that working as a garbage truck driver is a male dominated field
/r/MensRights18/01/22 12:30 PM
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You know why? Men work more. Men work higher paying jobs. Men stay in the workforce long enough to get employed. That’s a fact. There’s statistics backing up these claims. Hell even google had to increase wages for men because they were being paid LESS than women. Get your head out of your ass.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 12:24 PM
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There is no wage gap. Fuck off.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 12:20 PM
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I mean dude do you really want to just tell people to go and blame everyone else for their problems? Or would you rather tell them to fix something for themselves that will objectively increase their chances? The advice I gave has a point. Yours doesn’t besides smile more. Oh nobody approaches me because they’re all scared to. I’m just gonna live my whole life like there’s nothing I need to change about myself. It’s not good advice. Maybe it’s not her weight but losing weight helps irrespective …
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:37 PM
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Maybe. Idk what you look like. But based on the information you gave us and my past experiences, that’s my best answer
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:35 PM
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OP. If you want the honest truth, your weight is probably holding you back. I’m not trying to offend you, just telling you how I think things through. And I’ve dated someone with your exact proportions and decided after the fact that the attraction just wasn’t there.
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:32 PM
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Billiards has 3 balls and no holes. Pool has all the holes and the stripes and the solids, etc.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:35 PM
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Billiards or pool? Because there is a difference. You don’t find too many people that actually enjoy billiards.
/r/seduction05/01/22 01:14 AM
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“Lucky you I’m such a great cook” Learn to cook. Dig yourself out of this hole. And bring her over and cook for her. And then dig yourself into her hole.
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:44 PM
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This guy fucks
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:43 PM
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I will never pay my first dates. And largely will never pay most dates. I will always split, to a fault. And on the rare occasion (read: one a month) will spontaneously pay. If a woman asks, she pays, full stop. It’s 2021 and women have jobs without a wage gap. They abandoned traditionality. Can’t have your cake and eat it too. They still expect engagement rings worth 1/3rd a yearly salary, they can cough up a little cash for a fucking date.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 08:30 PM
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Nobody here actually takes you seriously. That’s the irony. Get a fucking grip.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 08:14 PM
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You’re the one being downvoted for making anecdotal claims without any tangible evidence. And you want to ask me about a solidified argument lmao.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 08:06 PM
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Bruh how much mental gymnastics do you practice in a solitary day? Have you considered applying for the olympics?
/r/MensRights30/12/21 06:58 PM
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There’s something wrong with you.
/r/seduction26/12/21 10:23 AM
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Username checks out
/r/seduction29/11/21 05:26 AM
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OP the sad part is that in my experience dating as 22m, I want to believe everything you just said but there’s still a part of me that doesn’t. That’s how deep this type of thing goes. I hope everything works out.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 12:37 PM
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If she put him in a position where he might have needed to defend himself (because some of the commentators are saying he blocked her from leaving), and this woman was clearly doing something that would severely financially cost the individual (and even be defamatory), and this male reacted violently, it wouldn't be abuse, it would be assault.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 09:20 PM
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The guy also committed a crime? He should also be in jail. ​ Dude, you're just toxic. Leave me alone lmfao. I'm not here to argue over something this pointless. If you're this butthurt, thumb through my post history. Most of my stuff is noticeably anti-feminist...
/r/MensRights23/11/21 09:17 PM
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Dude. You got more game if you tell a girl “I don’t use Snapchat just phone numbers”. If she says no, you gotta be willing to walk away. Every girl w/ a snap has a number. And usually girls sticking you on snap aren’t that seriously interested in you so it’s a better screening tool anyways.
/r/seduction23/11/21 08:45 AM
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Honestly if you just develop a strong, unwavering persona, you’d go farther with women. You probably have the same problem I had. I had principles I believed in but I never held true to them. When a girl was interested in me I would drop everything and would be quick to forgive her. I recently had a girl hurt me in a way that almost broke our ‘situationship’, but I decided to keep it going. I did however put her through a large trial period to make sure that she fully understood that what she di…
/r/seduction23/11/21 08:22 AM
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I’m insulted that you call me a feminist. Just because you disagree with me here doesn’t mean I’m a polar opposite. Nude photos of people, especially high profile people are way more dangerous than photos of your average Joe. It’s tenfold worse for women in that regard compared to men as well. Did she make the smart choice in beating the crap out of someone? No. But is it abuse? No. It’s literally just assault. Abuse is prolonged and unwarranted. Was this warranted? Probably not. But was it unwa…
/r/MensRights23/11/21 07:54 AM
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Idk man. I’m as MRA as it gets but if he really did just snap photos of her naked without her consent, he kinda had it coming. It’s not like she’s abusing him frequently. She beat his ass for something he did wrong. Was it probably the wrong reaction? Sure. Does it make it abuse? Not really. It’s not continued and at minimum there was a legitimate (maybe not justifiable) reason for her behavior. If she doesn’t make it a habit, I wouldn’t feel it’s appropriate to call it domestic abuse. Assault? …
/r/MensRights23/11/21 04:28 AM
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Damn straight
/r/seduction20/11/21 02:50 AM
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That's a question better asked for someone with more experience than I have in that field. The way I do it is move the conversation into something sexual and see how they reciprocate. Saying something like "I bet I can rock your world, (First Text) and your bed ;)" (Second Text) is harmless enough that you can just watch the reciprocation. If she's like "oh really, can't wait," just start coordinating. Test the waters. But most really attractive people can be blunt af. I know there's a guy on yo…
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:11 PM
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OP this is probably the first and only time I'll ever have to give this advice but have you considered maybe they just want to hook up? It's tinder. I've met city girls that will match with guys and expect to get an address in the first 3 messages because they want to bump nasties. MAYBE (and I say this because you claim to be attractive), you should just offer to bump nastiest in a really direct way and see if the outcome changes. I look like a frat guy but don't act that way and a lot of girls…
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:26 PM
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Thumbing through your post history: you're a narcissistic nut. This post screams entitlement and lack of self-awareness.
/r/seduction17/11/21 10:00 PM
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if instagram was enough, women wouldn't be using all these other social medias for validation too lmao. Not to mention you got women that just use tinder to see how many matches they can get whenever they're upset, not to actually date or find FWBs or whatever. It's all validation.
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:47 PM
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It’s because you’re not focused on your fears or what to say. You’re focused on being a troll, which is amusing enough that it gets rid of your fear in the moment and makes you forget the stakes Edit: I appreciate your kind words
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:46 PM
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Honestly, I just try to see how like I can go with talking but saying absolutely nothing. For every serious question that you get asked, think of the right answer and then go left.
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:31 PM
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Reread his PS, OP. Seriously
/r/seduction09/11/21 11:22 PM
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2 options. 1. Make a move. Might be a dick, but no judgement here. You’ll get your answer real fast. And some women don’t leave their boyfriend unless they have a sure fire plan B. Be that plan B. 2. If she’s texting you first and shit, then you could go cold turkey. If she’s into you, she’ll wonder why. If she nags you about it, you tell her that you wanted something besides friends and that it’s not worth it to keep entertaining a fantasy. Make sure she sees you talking to other girls and move…
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:10 AM
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Go watch Entrepreneurs in Cars on YouTube. You’ll get your answers. Just don’t take it really seriously. The overarching themes help you understand the questions you’re asking
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:40 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:26 PM
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I told OP that two weeks means a date probably isn't happening and he said that it probably doesn't happen for me in particular. That's the implication. An insulting implication. So don't tell me I've been condescending from the start when I've just been throwing it back.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:20 PM
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Move on. You lose frame when she doesn't text back. If you see her in person at another party, then you take the shot.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:58 PM
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Either you're really good in bed or she's a typically insecure girl who perceives her only value as being what she can provide in bed. If you want her to want you even more, pull away a bit, or act just as indifferent even after you had sex. If she asks you about it, just say it was good and don't get into detail. But that's also somewhat manipulative. If you want to be proper, just tell her she's being too clingy for your tastes. If you don't like her, dump her. Either way, she's got some bagga…
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:55 PM
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Facts.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:50 PM
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If she follows you on the gram, you should be posting photos of you having fun in group settings, preferably with hot women. If you're in a situation where you don't have hot friends, take a few guy friends out to bars/parties/social settings and ask groups of hot girls if they'd be willing to take photos with you for your dating profile (because all women want to feel attractive and they think you're using them to flex on other girls on tinder/bumble/etc so they're gonna go all out for those ph…
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:43 PM
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For someone asking for advice on a seduction subreddit, you got a fat ego. I got 4 degrees at 22. Whoop dee fucking doo. It's grad school, not prison. If you're not working to assess your own flaws and realize that you're using your own pride to dictate what you do rather than fucking logic, you won't get far. Instead of listening to a bunch of people on a forum giving advice on the exact same topic that you are asking advice on, you'd rather discount their advice because it doesn't agree with y…
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:33 PM
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"I bet you say that to all your girls?" - "Obviously. what makes you think you're special?" When she compliments me: - "I always knew that but thanks for letting me know." Playful "shut up" - "Literally shutting up. But I have to warn you the rest of the evening is gonna be pretty boring. And I don't like boring" (You say this, you don't actually shut up). When she says "make me" - (Say this really sarcastically) "I won't make you do anything. You're a strong independent woman that don't need no…
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:23 PM
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You do you. But that's extremely weak game. If you had an abundance mentality, your attention span would be so short that you would have a date with a better woman lined up before those 2 weeks are up. But instead you're simping so hard you're willing to wait 2 weeks for a girl you barely know. But try to attack me personally.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:07 PM
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2 weeks? that's not happening, lmao.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:04 PM
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and I respect your right to believe in a lie.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 01:55 PM
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It won't work. But if you keep doing it, eventually that won't be your approach anymore. Is that what you needed to hear? walking up to a girl like a nervous stuttering fuck won't help you get that girl but it'll help you be less of a nervous stuttering fuck the next time.
/r/seduction28/10/21 07:11 PM
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Patriarchy is a blanket term women and simps use to explain anything and everything that they disagree with. It doesn’t exist. The sad thing is that you can even funnel recent changes that have actually helped the feminist movement as a result of the patriarchy but women are so quick to discount that progress as well. If you wanna claim that politics consists of a bunch of old white men, then every law that has helped feminism in the last 50-100 years is the result of that patriarchy as well.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 12:55 PM
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There’s a reason the best you can do to debunk my post is to project hardcore. Crawl back under your rock and die. You’ve provided nothing productive to this conversation. What a waste of a comment.
/r/seduction23/10/21 09:15 PM
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You drop this girl. She’s a joke lmao. Find someone that has her shit together and has respect for the people she drags into her life
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:23 PM
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You should read what I wrote here. Don’t have to agree with it. Just read it once or twice and think about it. There’s no blame on either gender. It’s just life.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 06:14 AM
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It’s more about signaling to women that you’re not a social outcast and that you have options. It’s giving off an impression that you’re not a serial killer and that you have experience with women. Or at least that other women have vetted you as an approachable guy. Which is half the battle honestly.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:27 AM
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3B, 4, 5B. Even then most of these are not dating profile material. The one on the countertop is great tho. Get some photos with a bunch of friends. You’ll look like a loner if you don’t. Before you say you have no friends: take one guy out to a bar with you one night and literally ask groups of pretty women if they’d take a photo with you for your dating profile. That’s all. They’re more than happy to, and women always want to look good so you know they’ll be smiling and looking hot in your pho…
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:22 AM
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If she’s on your Instagram, make a story about you doing something with another girl. Keep texting her like everything is completely normal. This is only if you two are not exclusive. You’re allowed to date who you want. It’s about giving the impression that women value you and that you’re not attached to her.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:00 AM
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Honestly OP. Most younger men’s loneliness stems from a pretty vicious cycle. Because women stereotypically (relative to men) have an easier time getting access to sex from the other gender (regardless of experience, sometimes even looks, etc), they become a lot more experienced, have a lower likelihood of being lonely, and get to be more picky when they date. To men that are raised believing in traditional values of dating and finding the ‘right one’, these women will not go for them or help th…
/r/MensRights05/10/21 11:54 PM
1

How’d you learn about using other women to make women jealous?
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:30 PM
4

Then why r u even posting. You have it all figured out…
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:52 PM
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OP there is a tendency for both men and women that struggle in seduction to act like everybody else is the problem. This is the impression I get from your post. I suggest you go back and objectively evaluate your problem areas and come back when you’re honest with yourself. It might suck, but it’s always the fastest path to success.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:29 PM
1

I always make it clear what I want. Hints, nonetheless, but I point out I’m a guy and I’m looking for some particular thing, nothing else.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:19 PM
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OP what you should’ve done is asked once if she wanted to hang out. She said she’s busy. Ask one more time. After that stop texting her entirely. Then post a picture of you with a girl where she will definitely see it. Just so you know her starting that conversation about that song reminding her of you was literally just her texting to see how you felt and if she could jump right back to you if this guy didn’t work out. Never be the plan B.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:41 AM
3

JUST. DO. IT.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:29 AM
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First you say the action we claim doesn’t exist. Then when it does, you justify it. This is what’s wrong with the feminist movement in general. No such thing as equal rights there lmao
/r/MensRights29/09/21 08:14 PM
1

The reason why I have confidence approaching women is because I still go to a very large college. So I know when one conversation ends, even if it went south, the next opportunity is literally ten feet away. But I've noticed sometimes i'll struggle to make eye contact, i'll lose frame in situations where I'm in the spotlight, i.e., presenting publicly in class (my classes are more conversational oriented), and I can tell everyone's opinion of me has gone down as a result. So my question was more…
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:03 PM
1

The 2-3 minute conversations have been my highest flake rate, by far. I'll get the number, and they'll never text. Which is why I went for longer conversations. You have any tips for making shorter conversations more enticing to women? Any conversational topics you tend to stick to? Thanks for all the advice. I'm going to try inviting them straight to my place. What's the excuse though? I offer to cook dinner? How do you get someone you've talked to for a grand total of 3 mins to want to meet yo…
/r/seduction28/09/21 08:58 PM
1

At that point you slam a book down on your table, get up, get real close to her and stare her down and tell her to gtfo. You can't hit a girl, but you can make her scared shitless. Especially if adults aren't doing anything. WTF are they gonna do, punish you for being intimidating? lmfao.
/r/MensRights28/09/21 07:39 PM
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Can here to say exactly this. It’s why I take what she says with a grain of salt. Cuz she does some sus things regardless. And when she was making some video response against him there was a lot of misandry, generalizations about men, etc. the exact contradiction to some of the things she was against in her main videos.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 04:39 PM
1

Off to the streets with her, man. She’s blatantly disrespecting you. That’s a woman that will never see you seriously. Be glad you caught this early. She’s feeding you horseshit while keeping her options open. I had a girl that did this sus shit and I never cut it off but trust me when I say I do now.
/r/seduction22/09/21 11:06 AM
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But here you contradict yourself: You say the child is the shared responsibility of both parents once it is born. Hence why no man should be allowed financial abortion. However you allow one or even both parties to choose to relinquish their responsibility of that child even after it is born. Therefore, you don't fully agree with the principal you stated above... Do you think parents should have the right to give up their children for adoption? \^ Because if so, men should have the right to fina…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 09:09 PM
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Then by extension, you're telling me you'd have problems with any parent that gives up their child for adoption because they feel that they cannot support them?
/r/MensRights21/09/21 09:01 PM
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So then why are you against the concept of financial abortion for males? Particularly in situations where a woman knows while she can still make the decision to abort. Therefore she is also fully aware that she would be raising the child on her own while still having the option to make a decision.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 08:58 PM
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Yes, I agree with you, men have no moral right to decide what a woman can do with her body. I am not contesting this point. What I am arguing is that this woman should not have the capability to dictate the direction of my life based on the choices that she makes with her body in the aftermath. If both I and her made it visibly clear that we did not want children, and she decides to have the child after the fact, the responsibility is on her to raise the child, unless I decide to raise the child…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 08:51 PM
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But it takes two to tango. If the woman wanted to have sex, and she gets pregnant, why is she allowed to abort the child? For men, having sex is a risky proposition, but given abortion, women take no risk if they have sex. That's the unfairness we're eluding to. You say men should take responsibility and avoid sex if we don't want children but don't extend that same standard to women. If a man is expected to avoid sex FULL STOP to avoid having children then a woman should be expected to avoid ha…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 08:31 PM
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The time is now. We need to retaliate with a preemptive struck on r/Feminism. Divide and conquer, men. I'm gonna go post about men's abortion rights, brb. /s But in all serious, OP, we can grieve, but we can also let them bore themselves to death while we start newer cooler groups. We're not dead, just smaller in numbers.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 08:06 PM
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It's better to reject someone for something they can't control than something they can control. Women do it all the time. Hell, some men even do it. Nobody tells you you're a narcissistic cunt, you're just "not their type".
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:32 PM
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OP, 9/10 times the women are rejecting you for other reasons and just saying its your height because it won't make you feel as bad. Ignore them and work on everything else. Yes, height discrimination is real. But it's also a cop out.
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:29 PM
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my father mocks me for crying. I've dissociated from him.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 07:28 PM
1

So stop texting as much. Make your personal close shorter and more assertive. Yes, it might lower your chances of getting a number/socials, but it increases your chances of getting a date. Because you're more bluntly communicating what you want, so women will be less likely to string you for validation.
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:53 PM
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I asked the question under the premise of a thought bubble. Even I know this will never happen lmao. But men need to defend other men when women start calling them incels or asking them "who hurt you?". The problem is also equally that men are too isolated or afraid to call women out on their bullshit when it happens, especially on reddit. Not saying incels are correct, just that the term is thrown around at normal people as a shaming tactic way too often.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 06:45 PM
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Women need to take more accountability for some of the double standards they blindly promote in society for one. And stupid group shaming tactics like "Who hurt you?" or calling someone an incel when the topic doesn't call for it needs to be stopped. And women need to stop framing everything as a problem of the patriarchy. If Stacy is responsible for being a misandrist, it's because she's a fucking misandrist not because the patriarchy made her act like trash.
/r/MensRights19/09/21 11:12 PM
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Dude, I'm saying you should be living life trying to get to the best point possible, not for women but because why the hell not? Why wouldn't you want to do all these things? Do you need to be some greek god or some tech billionaire? no. But if in the process you put on some muscle and built some financial independence, you could one day look back and be like "wow, I made this. This was all me." And IMO, that's the point of being a man. Is to build something for yourself. All the external perks …
/r/MensRights19/09/21 07:23 PM
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OP, they're just trying to sell you a pipe dream, lmao. Keep in mind someone screwed them and dipped. So, i'm not saying that 100% of the time they were those same 20yr olds that were only after hookups like you claim to experience but a damn high percentage of them where. Most of them are wolves in sheep's clothing. So be careful, because a lot of them are putting on more of a performance to get you roped in. They've subconsciously lowered their standards because their dating pool is substantia…
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:15 PM
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OP, as u/Liberal_On_Guns pointed out, it's just the way life steadily remains unfair. The burden is on every man to perpetually better themselves. But you're getting lost in the reasoning. If you ignore the fact that women can more easily get dates and sex and etc while remaining 'mentally broken' and not working on themselves, you'll start to realize that working on yourself provides significantly more benefits than simply making your dating life better. Having a physique commands a presence. M…
/r/MensRights19/09/21 07:05 PM
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Could've been a power trip. She talked to you, maybe you gave the impression that you weren't into her, so she bit and tried to get you interested. Now you messaged first so she's all like "oh wow, he's into me after all. (here comes the ego boost)," and then she ghosts, because conquest achieved. Before you guys say I might be wrong, realize so many women are on tinder, etc just to boost their egos whenever they feel ugly by looking at who they matched with...
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:46 PM
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Teach her to play pool at a bar with a pool table
/r/seduction14/09/21 09:14 AM
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OP, keep approaching just stop focusing on purely sex. I want to get my bodycount up, same as you, cuz i’m a vain POS. But my main focus talking to women is to have a fun time talking to that woman in the moment and then have a fun time with the very next experience I invite her out to, nothing more, nothing less. Because they see that loose cannon energy, they know i’m not planning two steps forward with everything I do, i’m just doing it. That’s how you need to act.
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:15 AM
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OP these are all the things you need to do. Not even for women but for yourself as a man with a purpose. The majority of these things will either directly increase your testosterone or will increase confidence and decrease stress, which increases testosterone. I started doing all these things and dress more confidently and now I literally feel people look up to me when they talk to me or guys look at me like they’re intimidated by me, hell I inadvertedly cock-blocked a guy today without even rea…
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:43 AM
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Especially when the advice is “temper your ego” but she calls herself “ridiculously hot” in the first line lmao. OP, Do not take advice on how to fish from a fish. Take advice from a fisherman.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:36 AM
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1: You gotta realize that it’s your job as a man to take care of 4 things, not just one (chasing girls). A. Physical health: You gotta lift weights consistently from here on out. - it regulates your testosterone (literally what makes you a man), your stress levels, your hormones, it mkaes you look and feel younger longer, and it makes you live longer. So, no excuses. Fucking lift. And you look and feel a lot more confident in tighter clothing -women notice, it’s a positive feedback loop. Also ta…
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:11 PM
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If she’s not interested or just pretending not to be interested its better imo to just let it go. You don’t want to take that gamble and you could always find another girl that won’t give you as much shit
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:41 AM
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OP you’re running down a pretty tricky rabbit hole. You have to be a seriously dominant male to have a woman want you more after you’ve cheated. Even then it’s not a good idea in general. Making her jealous by showing all the attention you get from other women is fair game. But imma get downvoted to shit for saying this stuff
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:47 AM
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This changes nothing.
/r/seduction12/09/21 02:11 AM
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Little bit of liquid courage. Find a bar without a dance floor. Ask locals what drinks they recommend. Tell the cute girl next to you about the bar fight that just happened. When she asks about it, just tell her you were kidding and needed an excuse to talk to her. Thats about it.
/r/seduction12/09/21 02:10 AM
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Look absolutely fire. I went from not talking to any girls and thinking i waa royally screwed to talkingg to like 20 girls in one night the other day
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:47 AM
1

OP how old are you?
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:43 AM
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You’re reaching. Let this guy and other redditors enjoy the story. Why you gotta rain down someone’s parade
/r/MensRights11/09/21 08:01 PM
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Im a fit man and i only get overweight matches on tinder, lmao. I wish i had even half of their confidence.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 02:39 PM
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That woman will never get a man who knows his worth. And in ending up with some garbage man, she’s gonna end up with a shitty marriage. So she won’t win.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 06:26 AM
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Just cut contact wirh her. Don’t explain why. She’ll come running
/r/seduction11/09/21 03:55 AM
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You can have any opinion you want, mate. Women that get upset with you over it aren’t worth dating anyway. Live your own life lmao
/r/MensRights11/09/21 03:53 AM
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My eyes will never recover from what I have just read
/r/seduction10/09/21 06:36 AM
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You should keep lifting. That arm could use a bit more beef. You should learn to talk to women too. Even if there’s no interest, learn to make them laugh. The grind keeps going. Besides, you’ll look better than others as you age if you keep working at it. So you’ll get more women as you get older
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:36 AM
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Fashion is important. You don’t need to be a brand whore but you need to look good. Well fitted clothes are ridiculously important. If you want style tips, walk around and look at well dressed men. Go try on everything you can in stores, even if it’s not typically you. Buy one new type of item and get comfortable with it. Find what you like and stick to it. I was never a polo, or casual collared shirt over t-shirt type of person. Now I have quite a few. Chinos too.
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:55 PM
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You’re not wearing earrings are you? I am. And very questionable ones. And i feel that this may be the reason why i encounter the same problem you do. You also get this if you wear unreasonably tight shirts.
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:49 AM
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100% with you. I’m never getting married because I don’t want to put that kind of risk on myself to a woman that will leave if she finds someone better. I’m not saying all women are like that I just have absolutely no faith in my judgement after my last few relationships
/r/MensRights03/09/21 04:07 PM
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I just went through that rabbit hole, myself. I think she called men ‘mutated women’ in one comment somewhere. I’m really losing hope for the direction the world is going, tbh.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 06:13 AM
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Could be trying to make you jealous. You should make up another scenario about a girl hitting on you in public and watch her reaction. If she looks salty, really milk it in her face. Because she’s doing the same to you. F you do it right it makes you look unfazed and it makes her crave you just a bit more. Then, the next time you see her you ask her to coffee or a date and make it obvious its a date. Obviously do something punny like an inside joke: You: “Hey what’s today’s date?” Her: gives ans…
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:45 AM
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Without ANY OTHER CONTEXT. Usually means she doesn’t care about you. Replies when she’s bored and needs quick validation. Or she just replies because she doesn’t dislike you and sometimes you happen to ask a question that interests her and she wants to see how you respond. Best way to fix this is to be a lot better at your text game and ask consistently fun questions back to back. Makes her smile while texting you and actually want to come back for more.
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:49 AM
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So I suggested that OP slowly make himself scarce and busy and by extension do a bit less chores so that hopefully his family appreciates him more when they have to find a way to pick up that slack. As a temporary thing. Sure it’s not the best solution. But he stated he couldn’t express himself. I thought it’d be the best way to show his effort if someone else had to walk a mile in his shoes. That comment was the response I got.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 04:44 AM
2

You build repertoire and tension but you do not ask her out until grades are in and class is over.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:02 AM
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OP, this might be an unpopular opinion but you didn’t need to get so personal with how you attacked this guy. His first comment was kinda dumb, sure but your reply was overkill. And then your reply with the porn addict stuff was kinda extreme. Like I get the guy is blatantly wrong, but insulting him isn’t going to help him listen to you.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 01:00 AM
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RIP BTS 😮‍💨 Edit: above is a joke and i think this is a step in the right direction
/r/MensRights02/09/21 11:17 PM
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Work on yourself, work out, style, whole 9 yards. Go out get drunk, meet drunk people, and vibe. You’ll get confident after a few gay guys hit on you, lmao. RIP.
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:38 PM
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AFC = average frustrated champ
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:32 PM
3

This is the way.
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:29 PM
3

Yeah I have the same problem. I also attract gay men way too often. You need to approach the girls you want yourself, unfortunately
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:21 AM
5

Just respond with: Do you have a better idea? And roll with whatever she suggests. Don’t be her yes man in the future tho.
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:21 AM
2

Tilapia with lemon. Just add some extra zest and decorate the plate. A side or two. Pretty simple to cook. Tastes good. Cheap. And really healthy.
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:29 AM
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Could just ask her to lunch and see yow she responds. If she’s approached you, chances are she says yes. If she says yes, you have your answer. If she’s dodgy, you also have your answer.
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:11 PM
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The gym is the person you talk to. It’ll never judge you. When i felt like a shit for the same reasons you did, i just got angry and spent 2+ hours at the gym everyday. 6+ months later and women actually approach me.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:46 PM
3

Obviously i’m exaggerating
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:32 PM
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OP you’re 15. That means the girl is also a teenager. You probably didn’t do anything wrong, women are just bipolar while they figure themselves out at that age. I’ve had stuff like this happen to me many times when I was your age. They go hot and cold because they don’t know what they want. Either ignore her or talk to her unpopular friend like the other poster was saying.
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:22 PM
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Bruh you made 27 posts about this in the last 3 hours. Maybe take a breather, wait a day or two when you’re not irrational and then talk to your gf if this is troubling you so much. You could just try getting sexual through text if you wanted and build the mood.
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:08 PM
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You forget California girl. Dude, that is some distance. Unless you spent a literal year getting to know her in Hawaii, you will come off as though you have no options regardless. The only way women are super interested in an LDR like that after barely knowing you is if you’re a millionaire chad
/r/seduction27/08/21 10:53 AM
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Sorry. I meant a billion* not a million. I get your point though
/r/MensRights26/08/21 06:24 PM
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Its because kids that grow into money end up being lazy shits. I don’t think how much both wives received is fair but I get why they should get at least a million because they were there since the beginning.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 06:09 PM
1

I get the most attention when my traps and shoulders have clear peaks and separations. Usually 17% or less bodyfat. Sorry you asked for weight: Im 6’1, 194
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:08 PM
2

Don’t ask. Just call her one night and be funny. If you casually and assertively progress without addressing the elephant in the room you got a higher chance. But imo, it isn’t worth it.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:06 PM
2

Blunt and bold. I just started a tinder conversation by telling a girl she looks dead inside in her third photo. That definitely got me a better response than: “Hey :)”
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:36 PM
1

Honestly that’s the one thing i don’t understand either. That’s why girls like that are only meant for short term fun.
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:44 AM
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So, question for you. Why do you want to bother yourself with a heartache? She’s already comfortable with fucking with you. Find yourself someone more down to earth that won’t demand the sun and the moon from you
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:29 PM
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Bruh. I too only skimmed this, because the title is pretty obvious on it’s own. You’re a high value man, why tf would you go back to someone who ghosted you. I had an ex with the same shitty commitment style. She was a narcissist. It was a short relationship and she knew all the right things to say. But none of it was real. She told me she loved me and out of the blue dumped me and was completely fine with ghosting and NCing tf outta me. I’m not saying this girl is doing this, but it sure smells…
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:19 PM
4

Best piece of advice i can give you is to listen and take for gospel the words of advice that pros give you. Im not talking about Dbag pickup artists, i’m talking about your friend that is good with women, etc. i was helping my neurodivergent friend and i gave up simply because he refused to change his mindset. Learn to think like the pros do. And tell yourself your handicap isn’t as bad as you think it is. Because I have shitty emotional regulation and ADHD and while yes, I do encounter problem…
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:08 PM
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OP as someone that didn’t date to improve myself, I can tell you that’s the worst thing you can do. Because a lot of my exes were idiots that needed to improve themselves and they never bothered. But they had experience with dating. If nobody else is gonna give themselves the time of day to better themselves for their SOs, why should you? Obviously keep improving yourself but you din’t need to be a finished product while someone is a work in progress. In terms of how you should start dating, my …
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:55 AM
1

Bruh. You met him once and you’re this clingy? Find someone else.
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:35 AM
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Bruh it’s not meant to be rocket science. You wake up in the morning, do your workout, come back and shower. You’re already on your way for coffee so you stop by, ask her how she’s doing and ask her if she wants to get coffee with you. She says no? You say ok, have a nice day and move on. I’m not trying to hire nuclear physicists to plan out the exact quantum theory of how to get a girl interested in me. Edit: if you’re her neighbor, knocking on her door isn’t crazy. If you live halfway across t…
/r/seduction20/08/21 09:40 PM
2

You make a fair argument. But have you ever seen a good looking dude in a club? It’s usually girls that always approach. He can say the dumbest stuff and still do fine. So it’s a 50-50 on whether you actually need social skills (depending on looks)
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:12 PM
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Man told her from the start the answer was no. She let herself develop feelings. Thats on her. Besides she told him she wanted a relationship day 1 and he said no. So she didn’t have to stay
/r/seduction20/08/21 03:07 AM
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You could also just bring up the fact that you like to bake in a conversation with her and then show up to her house with homemade sweets. If she doesn’t invite you in after that, she is 110% not interested in you. Life advice: learn to bake.
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:52 AM
1

How close r u to the GW bridge?
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:27 AM
0

Why don’t you just make some small talk with her about XYZ one day. In a few days you nonchalantly knock on her door with coffee because you went out for coffee and bought her one. Few days later you just ask her if she wants to go get coffee with you. Neighbors for me are straightforward because most of them don’t like being alone in their house. So just showing up when they’re alone in their house gives you a serious advantage
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:24 AM
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Hey OP, i commented earlier but I came back to tell you that you’re probably one of the least simpy posters on this subreddit for sticking to your guns in this situation. Keep doing what you’re doing 💪🏻
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:10 AM
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She’s got an ego and thinks nobody would resist her lol
/r/seduction19/08/21 11:57 PM
3

More sets in the gym and more sets with women and you’ll be good to go.
/r/seduction19/08/21 11:54 PM
2

I'd smash, but I'm probably not your type. Jk, lol. Play on your strengths, bro. We're not meant to be perfect in every way.
/r/seduction19/08/21 10:24 PM
2

Get muscular af and then your sweat becomes a power move.
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:28 PM
3

Download MeetUp - iphone/android app. Have fun.
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:08 PM
2

OP, might I recommend that your confidence seems temporary? If you’re doing all this as a bald man with a beard (and i’m not judging you in saying this), that does in fact mean that your confidence is insanely high if you can get women to make out with you on a cold approach. Because as you said, your niche look is not everyone’s cup of tea. So what is? Your confidence. But that’s the thing. You just set a really high bar and an expectation of what the date will be like. So if you don’t maintain…
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:01 PM
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Honestly, if you’re hot, nothing is creepy. And im not trying to phrase that in a creepy way. But if you were a stud and cold approached, all the girls walking by you and your interaction with a girl would stare envious. If a fat, bald, short guy did it, everyone would be kinda mortified. It’s the way the world works
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:44 PM
4

Bruh this one’s a goddamn reach lmfao.
/r/MensRights19/08/21 02:11 PM
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🧐
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:01 PM
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You. Don’t. Tell her. Took me a fat minute to rip off that bandaid because so many girls changed their minds after hearing that one. And in the end I lost it to some vain, sensitive, POS. And yes I understand that came off heartless but she was a truly awful person. Moral of the story: if she’s blunt enough with you to suggest FWB in this type of way, be blunt enough to ask her exactly what she likes and how she likes it in bed with her. Even if you’re bad, she’s gonna see that you care about he…
/r/seduction19/08/21 12:54 PM
1

Sexual innuendo, my friend. I recently reconnected with someone in much a similar way and I found ways to spice up our standard reconnecting conversation. It was dead until i started sprinkling things in. We talked about work and I told her she’d make a hell of a sexy secretary but we both knew she was too smart for that kind of job. Stuff like that. Don’t overdo it. Don’t underdo it. But get comfortable with it
/r/seduction19/08/21 12:47 PM
1

She’s not intentionally making anything up tbh. People inherently do things to avoid getting blamed if shit goes south. She made an excuse for why she doesn’t want to initiate so that you can’t get angry if she decides she’s not interested and just stops talking to you. Women do it all the time. But some women do stuff like that on purpose because they like your attention but they don’t need more from you. That’s a tease. If you keep giving her attention, she won’t give you more because she does…
/r/seduction19/08/21 12:39 PM
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This might be a toxic mindset but here goes: Some girls (and I speak from experience), especially girls with parental issues (and by extension self-esteem issues) go to great lengths to ‘find themselves’. And in doing that process, they learn how easy it can be to get men. When that happens and happens relatively easily for certain women, they compound both their personal issues, their affinity for drugs and sex, and their capability of getting multiple suitors who will generally be nice to them…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 12:09 PM
3

You don’t validate a tease. She wants you to think she likes you so that you can keep validating. That fuckboy excuse is something women use to absolve themselves of blame. Think about it, if you want her to reciprocate so you stop talking to her to see if she does, she doesn’t have to. Why? Because she told you she’s just gonna assume you’re a fuckboy. So she’s already made up an excuse to make you feel bad for being the one that doesn’t reach out while absolving herself of needing to be the on…
/r/seduction19/08/21 11:54 AM
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If she follows you on social media just post a photo of you out with another girl. If you're not exclusive you don't owe her anything. Put the ball back in your court.
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:35 AM
2

As long as you know how to escalate properly. - This doesn't mean escalate if the first time you meet up is to study. This means you should be asking her for lunch, or coffee, and verbally escalating, some kino. If she's receptive, go study with her and then try to escalate (if it's an appropriate setting). But ideally, you should be testing the waters and seeing how she reacts.
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:32 AM
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Well, listen, man. I had an ex exactly like this, in my naivety I was like: oh hey, she likes me and she’s willing to do all this crap for me. Don’t mistake her enthusiasm for love because she sees you as the new toy and her eyes are glossed over. Whats to say that the minute a potential relationship between you two starts to have growing pains that she won’t just leave for the next knight in shining armor? Women like this need to crash and fall by their own sword before they learn (and thats no…
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:54 PM
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You don’t m8. She’s a whole fruitcake. You’re not her plan B. You are your own person
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:33 PM
1

Bruh you got the best of both worlds. I want a kid but never want to get married. You got married, got a kid, didn't get entirely cucked on your divorce and now you're free to do what you want. You're free, my man.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 05:25 PM
3

It might not work for changing facial structure. But coming from someone who has stress induced TMJ that actually pushed my midline out of alignment and literally skewed my lower jaw (google Tom Cruise's smile), I have found mewing to be the only exercise to give me relief when that muscular pain tends to flare up from clenching my jaw. Can also mention that certain postural exercises meant to strengthen the sternocleidomastoids and sub occipital muscles within the neck (AKA the same ones that c…
/r/seduction18/08/21 05:20 PM
1

Chief, you're in a great spot because you're thinking about this in high school. A lot of us lost ourselves and are trying to take back what we can in our later years. Keep up the grind and listen to some of the advice people mention here.
/r/seduction18/08/21 05:13 PM
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You could call it cheating or you could call it lying about loving you. Either way it’s some dumb shit. And i’m telling you this from coming out of literally the same position as you. She lied that she loved me and left. Edit: stay strong man. She was a waste of your time. Best thing you can take away from this is you know what to avoid in the future. And that’s goddamn invaluable
/r/MensRights17/08/21 09:42 PM
7

For all you men out there that don't believe in lifting for vanity. Just a little bit of context for how lifting helped change my life: I was under and currently am under an extreme amount of stress to finish my undergraduate course load (I'm trying to get 4 degrees). It messed up my first relationship because that stress literally caused hormonal imbalances and my performance in bed suffered. What I can truly say is that lifting helped re-regulate my hormones. Of course she was already gone by …
/r/seduction17/08/21 09:37 PM
16

Does it matter? Do you really want to even associate with a girl that tells you she loves you yet sends another man her nudes? This girl doesn't even know what she wants.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 09:25 PM
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I’m proud of you OP. See the person beneath the hot outer shell and then make the judgement of whether you’d be interested. You have your value and she has yours. And neither of you should be valued solely on how you look on the outside but how you are on the inside.
/r/seduction17/08/21 02:47 AM
4

Pickup artist
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:50 AM
1

Mine shrank until the 7th shot too so maybe you just need two more bro
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:18 PM
1

I’m on my 7th dose and my peepee grew to 11 inches flaccid, no joke
/r/seduction16/08/21 10:51 PM
2

Ok, fuck you lmao.
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:30 PM
23

Bruh I don’t doubt you one bit lmao.
/r/seduction16/08/21 08:01 PM
59

UK is about the most western european company out there. I’m american with family in balkan countries. Women there are not full of themselves but some are outright sociopathic
/r/seduction16/08/21 07:54 PM
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European women are 100% less full of themselves.
/r/seduction16/08/21 07:48 PM
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Bruh i’m just respectfully telling you that this is a very nuanced thing that makes you seem extra. And men only go extra if they seem like they don’t have options. Which means she doesn’t know if you’re pushy, will get mad when/if rejected, or if you don’t understand social cues. Do what you want but this will fail 9x out of 10.
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:59 PM
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Yes because women definitely want extra and adorable on the first date… /s
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:56 PM
25

This is something you don’t do on a first date.
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:52 PM
3

If it’s legal then go for it. But i personally draw the line at 19 always.
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:10 PM
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Can you give some context as to how you built a “reliable pipeline.” I agree with all the points you mentioned and i’m currently trying to establish my system for constantly finding girls. So I was wondering if you could give some tips on how you did it.
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:11 AM
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I think learning seduction is better for marriage. When divorces happen to 50% of marriages, and women start 85% of those, I’d like to think that I chose my wife because I learned how to choose rather than I was chosen and took what I could get. I personally really hate feeling that I was used. And i’d like to internally feel that I seduced my future wife, not the other way around. This mindset will also give you internal confidence and peace of mind in your decisions while you are married. Bit …
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:44 AM
1

Bit off-topic OP, but how do you get back to trusting the universe? I used to have this vibe that some invisible hand was always steering me in the right direction even if I messed up and I haven’t felt that way in years. You got any advice?
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:31 AM
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You exert dominance. You don’t overtly and consistently show it. Take the difference between an alpha male and a domestic abuser. Both are dominant, but one does it in an unwelcoming way (unless the woman is a nut). Women say they love the ownership thing, but imho it’s always been a bit of a lie. Just be controlling/dominant in bed, and give her the impression you’ll flip that switch off and leave if she doesn’t treat you with respect. You need to give her the impression that you are ALWAYS com…
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:09 AM
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Could be women trying to approach you by saying that you look familiar
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:46 AM
2

Women don’t want protection, they just want to feel protected.
/r/seduction15/08/21 01:21 AM
3

Bruh what kinda beta male bs is this. The secret to love is to stay on your craft and make her second and make sure she knows it. Stay high value
/r/seduction15/08/21 01:16 AM
2

Now I understand where you’re coming from. I’ve never watched that channel but I’m assuming he’s using that line to poke at her ego. Women often feel like they’re hot shit because of all the matches they get in OLD. So the best way to stand out is to do the complete opposite. Best analogy I can give you is that the guy that walks up to a pretty woman in a club and tells her she’s pretty will usually strike out. But the guy that tells her she has something stuck in her teeth, has a higher chance.…
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:37 AM
1

The way you rubber-band in this conversation is a turn-off. In the first text you’re fine for the most part. The second one you wait 9 days for? And then you ask if she’s nervous? Bruh that’s creep energy to women. It just gives her the impression that you don’t get the social cue that she wasn’t into you. And then she messages back because she’s either a. Bored or b. Toying with you. And literally the only way to save face in that situation is to write something blunt and moderately offensive. …
/r/seduction14/08/21 03:04 AM
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Honestly, best approach I do is to chat up gym regulars. Sometimes these are girls. You ask how they’re doing, complement their work ethic, smile and nod when you see them on the day to day. Eventually you ask if they’d like to get coffee. Slow game
/r/seduction14/08/21 02:52 AM
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Honestly? I might get downvoted for this... You exchange your social medias while talking early on, and if they start to pull away, you post stories that make it seem like you're on a date (restaurant food, carnival, beach, ice cream, etc.) This does two things: Makes the woman see it and question whether or not you're on a date, which puts you on her mind. And, if you back away from texting a little bit, it makes her wonder if she was wrong about you and maybe you are truly a high value man aft…
/r/seduction13/08/21 11:34 PM
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OP you can try the direct approach if you're casual about it. It's a balance. My line for my first few opening sets is always: "Hey, hate to interrupt you, but I thought you were really cute. How about I get your number and take you out for a coffee sometime?" If they give you shit for it, just say you're in a hurry and it makes you look a bit more unavailable while avoiding any typically embarrassing small talk. Obviously introduce yourself while she's putting the number in.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:53 PM
2

Plenty of fish. Apparently it’s a dating site
/r/seduction13/08/21 09:44 PM
3

Hop off social media for a while. Tell your friend to kick rocks. Best way to get over something is to distance yourself. I was being too political so I took my own hiatus
/r/MensRights13/08/21 08:01 PM
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My ex pushed me to be exclusive after she saw my phone buzz with a new tinder match. It pushed her to act because she knew that I could leave and I had options. Honestly, this is one of the best things that could happen to you.
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:34 PM
12

Bruh. You just discounted literally 95% of potential ways you will meet women. Get better at doing these things if you want to meet women…
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:15 PM
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Stupid question but what does pof mean? And this is better for you cuz she knows you got options and you don’t sit at home inside all day. You’re no simp.
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:14 PM
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Because women are just as bipolar under stress inducing situations as men are. Think vack to your approach anxiety. Sometimes you’re gassed af and sometimes you wanna crawl into a corner and die. They probably get the same thing
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:50 AM
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Well here’s my question for you. Are you looking for something long term? If so, don’t. You just increase your odds that the women you talk to is superficial and that is a rabbit hole that i’ve personally been through and really nailed me. If you’re just trying to mess around and see what this planet has to offer, putting doctor increases your match likelihood and the foot traffic you’ll get. But the quality goes down.
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:36 AM
3

You look her in the eyes, assert dominance, unleash a primal battle cry, bash her with a rock, and carry her into your man cave. But realistically, you just show up and say some stuff...
/r/seduction12/08/21 11:36 PM
12

It’s not real seduction if you don’t walk away with the father’s number too
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:17 PM
2

Make small talk about random junk and then close. My favorite approach is to make an assumption. “Oh, hi. You look fun. Are you fun?” They’ll either stare at you funny or say something like yes, no, maybe and then qualify. You ask them about the qualifier. And then small talk, “my favorite coffee here is X”. And then say you gotta get back to work (usually chill at shops with a computer) but ask for her number. Or if you got balls ask if shes in a rush and if she isn’t have her sit with you.
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:47 PM
2

Coffee shops/supermarket. Mall. Out in public city places
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:32 PM
12

Complement mom on her looks first and then say, you might be a bit too old for me and then put your attention on the daughter or some shit lol. If her father is in the picture, you don’t
/r/seduction12/08/21 02:30 PM
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Bruh maybe just ask her what shes working towards. Say you see that shes a regular and shes dedicated. Complement her work ethic and introduce yourself and then say his the nezt few days when you see her. Eventually jhst walking up and asking if she wants to get coffee after your workout or some shit seems natural
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:19 AM
2

If you’re trying to do things right, go post on social media spending a day with another girl and act shady af if she asks questions. You’re not exclusive, you don’t owe her shit lol. Even if she doesn’t pine for you, you’re still gonna earn your dignity and her respect back for doing this
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:59 AM
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If you do that, you come across as though you have no better options in your life. This comes across as weak. She's gonna be wondering why u bothered to remember one approach and a 5 min conversation with one girl for a few months
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:15 PM
2

could be worse, man. At least she had the decency to tell you she's taken rather than just ghost you.
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:12 PM
2

This is facts. 30 days sober, friend
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:56 PM
3

I’d honestly just be straightforward and tell him. The poly thing might be a serious dealbreaker for some people though so be prepared for that
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:13 AM
6

First lifestyle change you should make: stop spending so much money on girls. Thats more than 85$ a day. You should be doing free or near free for the first few dates. Otherwise you look like a beta provider and women will use you for free meals.
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:53 AM
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Literally just listen to him. Ask him whst he wants. Compliment him. And be enthusiastic. As long as we know that you’re willing to work with us and won’t be easily offended, you’ll go miles. Most of my exes couldn’t even do that tbh.
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:17 AM
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Personally I don’t know how we can change the support system. The main problem with society is that humans get progressively more offensive/racist when trying to be less so. In this push to fight for total equality, we separate everyone into a group or demographic. And then we choose to fight for the groups that need/needed the most support at the expense of other groups. This is why people find it so awkward and hard to stomach when both men and typically white people complain about societal is…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 08:06 PM
2

It’s not a path. Its a forced coping mechanism. All men that are MGTOW/redpill/Incel/MRA are not this by choice. They become this as a result of external factors. If a man lived a good life where he didn’t encounter many toxic women, where he felt heard and where he could speak freely and get the appropriate emotional support, I think a lot of society’s issues and male violence would go down. The problem is that a lot of men are told one thing and shown another. As kids we’re sold on the idea th…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:50 PM
3

I think this question and your findings might be a bit biased. I don’t think the question is asked with bad intentions but you have to understand that many individuals here have been hurt or have had negative experiences that will naturally affect their personality type. For example, as a child i was an extrovert. But seeing what happened when I gave people too much attention (both genders, but more heavily women), I learned that it was too much of a hassle to invest as heavily as I did in frien…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:05 PM
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Not particularly because explaining or conveying that sounds like an excuse. Unless what you currently have is equally sufficient for attraction (i.e., the job you have is still pretty damn good), it’s only going to hurt you.
/r/seduction07/08/21 11:54 AM
2

Or you could just say: cause you sure know how to raise a cock
/r/seduction07/08/21 05:54 AM
1

Theres a strong difference between confidence and arrogance. For successful tech entrepreneurs, you don’t have the value that you claim you do. Good school, good GPA, etc doesn’t matter to them because they can hire ten of you to work for them, which means they can find someone to replace you. Men don’t look for a laundry list of accomplishments. They look for relatability. Maybe if you genuinely tried to care for them and seem interested in the things they worry about, etc they’d want to have y…
/r/seduction07/08/21 04:23 AM
5

Your short height means you need less muscle mass to look jacked af. So you can spend less time in the gym to look as big as the 6ft+ that spent 4+ years
/r/seduction06/08/21 11:34 PM
2

Probably talking to someone else at the same time and just replying to your stuff to see where that goes. Don’t waste your time on that
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:11 AM
1

When I drink I pretend i’m Jack Sparrow. I started doing some of that when I was sober and the humor comes more naturally
/r/seduction25/07/21 11:06 PM
5

I’m still in the beginning stages of my game. But I just wanted to write that this was impressive and inspirational. So thanks for that, man.
/r/seduction25/07/21 10:17 PM
3

She left lol. Her choice. She met the new guy. Her choice. She asked me for help? I said no. My choice.
/r/seduction25/07/21 12:54 AM
5

Bruh. Im not one for throwing logic out the window. But if she’s leaving anyways, might as well shoot your shot and double text. Worst case scenario: you look like a simp to a girl that won’t be around anymore. Best case: you smash.
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:31 PM
2

Just make a bold assumption about something about her. Watch her react via text and bounce off that energy to break the ice.
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:21 PM
4

That explains so much
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:29 PM
7

Mate, you sound like a literal simp calling someone garbage because he’s not about to bend over backwards for someone that may not respect him in the first place.
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:25 PM
2

I was you minus the prestigious university. Now i’m a year older and have been with a girl that used me in a relationship for all the wrong reasons and i’m on this subreddit trying to get on my feet after all that’s happened. Grass isn’t necessarily greener on the other side. Honestly, you need to do things that make you feel powerful and use that confidence to learn how to approach/talk to girls (for me this was completely fixing my diet and my weightlifting goals). At the point you’re at it’s …
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:59 AM
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Take it from someone who has been there, not a good idea bro.
/r/seduction19/07/21 10:41 AM
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