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im on this guy’s side. as a woman it is very annoying being constantly badgered for sex. men who want that should just go to people who are offering it consensually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:00 PM
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its just a ploy by the patriarchy to keep women insecure and keep their standards low, and its very effective. the goal behind telling women that no one will want them past 30 is so they’ll willingly baby trap themselves with any half decent scrote they come across at 27 because they think “their time is running out”. it also works to keep women from leaving shitty partners after marriage because “who’s gonna want a 40 year old divorcee with kids?” but once you reach this age, if you are still d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:30 AM
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love this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:35 PM
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i understand now thats what they mean , but what they SAY is “do you smoke? wanna match?” and my innocent ass was like “hell yeah and do you mind watching anime during?” now i realize they try to smoke you out or bring you alcohol to lower your inhibitions to make you likely to agree to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:40 AM
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i literally never invited guys to my house. im mature enough now to realize i had really low self esteem and i was entertaining guys who’s intentions didnt align with mine. now, if a guy asks to come to my house i just tell him im more comfortable meeting in public. even for a coffee date or a stroll on the levee. i actually agree with you about guys expecting sex when they come over. it makes a lot of sense, i live alone and we both know that we’re attracted to each other. and my dad actually t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:31 AM
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im definitely afraid of violence. when i let guys come to my house for the first hang out, 90% of them would sexually assault me or attempt to. now i only meet in public and i always tell people where and who im going with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:23 PM
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some things that are specific to me: 1) PATIENCE. im an annoying person, i know. someone who wants to be with me would have to put up with how generally exasperating i can be, just as im sure i’d have to put up with their faults as well. im also late to everything so they would have to be cool with waiting on me. 2) communication. i just CANT be with someone who shuts down when they’re stressed or angry. and im someone who routinely has to take breaks from conversations to calm myself down or or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:32 PM
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this is so disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:01 PM
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i’m happy that he’s being supportive but this is not HVM behavior. this is being a good person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:32 PM
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spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 10:23 AM
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i want to see the rest of this post :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:10 PM
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RELATABLE CONTENT ‼️‼️‼️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:04 PM
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the way that this video is so CRINGE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:43 PM
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thank you!! i’m still learning how all this works :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:26 PM
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but then you guys won’t be able to see it? i don’t care about stupid scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:29 AM
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i always wonder what these girls see in these scrotes....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:50 AM
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when he seriously allowed me to spend over 2k on him for a vacation for his birthday only to tell me a month later that i didn’t deserve to get a $20 sims 4 game pack for my birthday..... and then he proceeded to buy himself a brand new iphone ON MY BIRTHDAY. he ended up getting me nothing and justified it with “you should’ve been grateful and took what i wanted to give you, now you get nothing” because i told him getting me a teddy bear (i’m fucking 23 years old wtf do i want a teddy bear for) …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:53 AM
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i agree with you sis!!! i’m 23 and i want to be MARRIED. i don’t feel interested being single and sowing my wild oats at all, i’d much rather settle down and start experiencing life with a dedicated partner by my side. since i feel like that’s extremely unlikely to happen (none of my peers want to get married) i’m still going to allow men to court me and spend money on me but remain happily single! i don’t want to have a stupid boyfriend that’s going to prevent me from focusing on finding the ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:36 AM
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damn i really did need to hear this today. i started to doubt breaking up with my ex but i’m so glad i did. i’m not going back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:51 AM
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thanks so much for breaking down your reasoning for me! your point is a lot clearer to me now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 10:40 PM
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i dont get point 3. can you explain some more? i understand the outrage about the girl that wanted to join the boy scouts, i thought that was stupid too. but are you saying that women shouldnt be allowed to participate in sports, video games, certain careers, or go to gyms?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:01 PM
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they can probably tell that you hate them and leave
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:58 PM
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this is so cute !!!!! i just really loved the lil quirky ™ facial expressions <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:43 AM
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i fucking know, that’s the whole joke
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:49 PM
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be honest with yourself . what you really mean is involuntarily celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:48 PM
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men don’t realize women are capable of this too. let y’all tell the story, feminism has destroyed women to the point where we’re all just sluts sharing the same chad. which, according to y’all is DISGUSTING behavior. but y’all would still fuck us? and it’s fine? but y’all don’t, so now we’re the villains bc we ACTUALLY get to fuck chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:46 PM
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i wish i wasn’t so poor, i’d give you an award for making me actually laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:40 PM
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that’s honestly what it’s sounding like! the other day, there was a post about how almost 40% of women 18-35 or something are overweight, and everyone was like doesn’t matter they’re still fuckable. but i see so many posts about how undesirable women over 30 are because they’re more likely to be fat and so 30 year old men deserve hot & supple 18 year olds? but now today there’s a post about why 30 year old men shouldn’t settle down with 30 year old women because obviously if a woman was single t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:38 PM
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i can get this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:25 PM
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so you would be willing to sleep with someone you think is a horrible person?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:25 PM
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right???? then they won’t have to deal with all of the sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:10 PM
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that makes YOU a shitty person tho.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:09 PM
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omg, your trauma is jumping out! this is exactly what i mean. right now you’re projecting that hurt that you feel other people have caused to you onto this conversation. i said—and i meant—that you dont want to be like those guys, implying that you aren’t like them. i’m actually trying to reach out to you and just start a conversation with you, but you’re too afraid of getting hurt. i think it’s strange that you’re quicker to assume that i’m someone who wants to ridicule and shame you, rather th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:12 AM
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that’s just life man. you can’t let that get you down. one of the cards that you’ve been dealt that puts you at a disability is having chronic mental illness, and you’ve gotta accept that. that’s not a brutal life prospect. it’s just life. you don’t wanna be like most guys in this sub that cry all day because they’re short and stacy won’t date them because stacy only likes 6’6 chad. and you see where that gets them? whining forever. or, you can continue your therapy, working on improving yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:46 AM
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it it unfair to expecting people to be compatible with you. you can’t expect that. all you can do is continue doing what you are, just finding people who accept you for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:33 AM
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this is the problem with people who have untreated mental illness. your depression doesn’t only affect you, but everyone around you. people can be more gentle and accommodating for you, but nobody is going to chose a mentally ill partner when there are people who are mentally sound out in the world. you don’t really know how hard it is to love someone who’s constantly hellbent on destroying yalls relationship because you don’t have the power to convince them that they deserve to be loved. or som…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:14 AM
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heck yeah!!! guys aren’t the only people who wanna see nice tight asses! that’s why girls slap ass too!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:00 PM
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he just had the audacity and confidence to ask and nothing else. he got really lucky when he swiped right on my naive and impressionable ass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:09 AM
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actually i agree with you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:03 AM
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why would i ask the question if i didn’t want to know the answer .... why would you waste my time making me open this notification when you could’ve answered the question
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:31 AM
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well maybe you should! have you ever thought about that?! you don’t know that your ass wouldn’t look like..... maybe we wanna see it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:27 AM
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i’m only speaking from personal experience, but i was stupid as shit as an 18 year old. second guy i ever had sex with somehow conned me into a threesome i was vehemently against. how’d he do it? he literally said he wouldn’t be my friend anymore if we didn’t. and that worked!!! my mind is still blown to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:21 AM
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you give 18 year olds way too *much credit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:14 AM
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so u would have sex with a 17 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:59 AM
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your comment is missing the point as well. the men “sluts” are having sex with and the “you” this post is directed at are still two different groups of people. if she’s fucking you, she is choosing to be with you in SOME way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:49 AM
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i was literally just about to comment this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:09 PM
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people really be getting on here saying anything huh ? now sir ..... you know you ain’t got a SINGLE woman “trained” .... stop it .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:10 PM
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N O ! she should do that on her own time! not only is it rude to LITERALLY DITCH HER FRIENDS when she promised she'd hang out with them, but also its dangerous! clubs are verry dangerous environments for women. i know guys don't get it but we can be sexually assaulted, kidnapped, drugged, stalked... a number of things can happen to us! me and my friends have a rule that if we go out together we all have a shared responsibility to make sure we all get home safely. like others pointed out, if she …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:33 AM
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we're cockblocking because it was supposed to be GIRLS night and she's totally flaking on us by dicking off with some random at the bar and we're pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:09 AM
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i guess it would be easy to always be the good looking one if you dont have any friends lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:07 AM
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i agree. that’s why i don’t involve myself in casual sex only relationships. been there done that, and you’re right. women only lose when we have casual sex bc guys who don’t have an emotional attachment to us don’t care about getting us off. this is why i don’t think it’s settling to go be with a guy who is a 5 but is very generous in bed, amongst other things
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:55 PM
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your posts are always so spot on!!! please start a blog, i’d love to follow you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 05:05 AM
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where are you from? i’m wondering if maybe it’s a culture thing, because here people do realize what you pointed out in your comment. that’s why people who’s primary concerns are to get sex will not bother with a relationship (or shouldn’t). guys who put themselves out there and look for sex only casual hookups eventually find them, but people who are like OP who think they have to manipulate people into fucking them are constantly surprised when they get dumped instead of evaluating their motiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:47 AM
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right ??!! imagine how shitty it would feel to be with someone who was just waiting for you to leave them and doing nothing to make sure you stay. sounds like a horribly one sided mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:52 PM
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it’s because they view relationships as the only way for them to get sex, and to these people the value of a woman is lies solely between her legs. unfortunately they’re so bitter and scorned that women pick up on it immediately so they probably can’t go out and just have random sex with consenting adults like they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:38 PM
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NICE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:12 PM
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obviously. and my response will depend on if i would want to have sex with them in the future as well. this is just one person’s particular preference, but i DONT like the topic of sex being brought up abruptly. i get the point of this sub is to try to get a girl to have sex with you as quickly as possible, but i just think that with most girls you would have more success if you tried more subtle methods and used more finesse to get the girl you’re approaching warmed up to the idea of sex. it’s …
/r/seduction18/03/20 04:07 PM
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no. i just don’t appreciate being approached under the guise of trying to get to know ME as a person if the person’s reason for approaching me is different than that. and also, nobody wants to feel like a damn flesh light. you can’t just go up to people saying “sex now” and expect that to be well received....
/r/seduction17/03/20 03:00 PM
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i have an explanation for the lowering the standards thing. when i only want sex from a guy, attractiveness is all he has to offer me. so obviously i would want to try to find the hottest guy possible. but when i look for someone to settle down with, the value of a good partner is unmeasurable. women build attraction through emotional connection, so if average guy is a 4 or 5 but he's literally everything else i'm looking for then i'd be a dumbass to pass him over. i'm not actually lowering my s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:39 PM
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this is such good advice. recently a guy just randomly came up to me and started talking and he was actually doing a great job and i was seriously considering going back to his place with him until randomly after asking me about my goals and how i hope to achieve them, he leaned over close to me and said “i’m gonna make you sleep like a baby tonight.” nothing that would make me call the cops, but i told him i liked where our conversation was heading before and didn’t appreciate the sudden switch…
/r/seduction16/03/20 08:12 AM
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it’s not making sense !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:09 PM
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she believes it was only one time ? she’s dumber than we thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:08 PM
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you don’t have to be funny to be well liked , and if you’re not funny then don’t really try . it’s not everyone’s strong suit (although dry and dark humor is pretty popular now and is really easy) . as far as having a personality , the most important thing is to focus on the things that make you you and build them up . if you sit at home all day on reddit or only go to school and to work , that doesn’t really give you or anyone else much to work with
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:08 PM
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this definitely reads like a man wrote it , but ladies can i impose on y’all for a brief moment ? i don’t get why wanting these things is wrong . i think this way(not having a job is too far , i would be bored stuck at home ALL DAY) as well and where i live , it’s seen as empowering to choose the sort of life you want to live . what’s important is not being forced to any sort of role by a man . but i genuinely love the feeling i get when i clean the whole house top to bottom and cook and my room…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:41 PM
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if she said he’s never made her feel wanted or told her she’s pretty then what was the appeal in dating him in the first place ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:27 PM
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THISSSS !!! so a popular tv show i watch said it’s essential for every modern empowered woman to have a hoe phase to figure out what you like best in a sexual partner . so guess what my impressionable , fresh out of hs living on my own 18 year old ass did ? had a hoe phase , and it was one of the worst decisions of my life . every single encounter , my partner used me to catch their nut and didn’t give a shit about my pleasure . but i didn’t learn how gross it was and dangerous until one of my o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:54 PM
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i used to think sending nudes was just harmless fun but this post definitely opened my eyes . i’ve been single for a while so i haven’t had to evaluate my feelings about sending nudes but i’m so glad i came across this post before i met another partner because i certainly would’ve sent them nudes if i hadn’t seen this . i love being in this sub so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:43 PM
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