Scared about aging

incogneatolady · 2021-07-19T01:32:44+00:00

If it’s never been an insecurity then don’t start letting it be one now.

Men don’t age better than women, they’re just allowed to age. I’ve always liked that old adage and it’s true. Sure you may not like 20 anymore but why does that mean you’re not beautiful or attractive? Also don’t forget there’s a billion dollar industry build on the insecurities of women when it comes to aging.

I’ve seen my mom and her friends, well in to their 50s and 60s get attention from men. The one thing they all have in common is they’re a fuckin riot to be around. And I think they’re all beautiful. I hope I look like my mom at 60+ because she is stunning.

Anyway my point is be kind to yourself and don’t buy in to the bullshit. Confidence is much more than half the battle.

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arcaenis · 2021-07-19T01:30:35+00:00

its just a ploy by the patriarchy to keep women insecure and keep their standards low, and its very effective. the goal behind telling women that no one will want them past 30 is so they’ll willingly baby trap themselves with any half decent scrote they come across at 27 because they think “their time is running out”. it also works to keep women from leaving shitty partners after marriage because “who’s gonna want a 40 year old divorcee with kids?” but once you reach this age, if you are still dating you’ll see just how untrue the narrative they try to push is. people are desirable at any age.

AceOfBlacks · 2021-07-19T01:32:00+00:00

Take accountability for your self-sabotaging and stop doing it.
Work on your personality daily, treat people with dignity, be kind to strangers, don't be entitled, enjoy what life has to offer, don't take people for granted.
Your age will keep worrying you unless you fix the previous two points, and it will only get worse.

Title	Scared about aging
Author	sterlingrose616
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	July 19, 2021 1:26 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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