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Bro. Even if I desperately wanted a girlfriend I would never do any of that shit. Title should be “don’t act like a needy child and become a girls errand boy” If you want a gf badly go get one. Just don’t do this.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 10:36 AM
2

You’re delusional, yes they do. Hank moody drives a Porsche and is very wealthy
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:26 PM
2

Applies to having nice car, expensive clothes, nice house etc.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:40 PM
2

Yeah cuz nba players can’t spin plates due to status…smh
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:28 PM
6

:( what happened to this sub
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:24 PM
13

Jesus this is autistic. How is that playing hard to get? She basically said she wants to fuck
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:23 PM
2

okay then get a different one
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:52 PM
35

A 6 who thinks she’s a 3 is a ticking time bomb. Get yourself a confident secure woman
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:41 PM
2

Get a pull-up bar. Tempos are your best friend.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:02 AM
3

That is a horrible workout my man, but still infinitely better than nothing. Focus on compound movements (squat, bench press, deadlift etc...) and do 2-5 sets at 7-12 reps for hypertrophy. Although, as a newbie lifter you can pretty much get away doing anything as long as you focus on compound lifts and implement progressive overload. Keep researching man
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:35 AM
2

Hopped on a cycle?
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:33 AM
0

She’s tryna get pregnant, wants last taste before she leaves you
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:47 PM
3

Almost always a good thing.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:36 PM
1

Running sucks way more than lifting
/r/askTRP10/05/21 07:04 PM
1

People have very different definitions of friend.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 03:55 PM
1

Depersonalization sucks. Mindfulness meditation cures that shit for most people, ik it did for me
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:02 PM
1

Is she living in the dorms next year? If so she won’t be around her mom as much
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:59 PM
3

people say delete, it’s common slang.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:07 PM
6

why don’t you try reading what he said it’s only a few sentences
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:05 PM
1

Look into stoicism. Negative visualization is supposed to help a lot. You basically picture losin everything you care about in your head and learn to be okay with it.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:02 AM
2

Don’t try an be witty over text unless it’s a sure fire bomb of a joke. I did that for a while and it’s kinda fun but it’s high risk of bein cringe and girls ghosting you. Use as few words as possible and try and set a meeting up,
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:19 PM
1

It seems like an impossible amount of shit to change I’ve been there. Start with simple goals, lift 5x a week, meditate every day, stop jerking off, read a book, eat healthy. You’ll be amazed how quickly your mindset changes, new ideas and opportunities will pop up everywhere and you won’t even recognize who you were.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:46 PM
0

Huh?
/r/askTRP22/04/21 12:43 PM
12

Get one of those blowup sex dolls, fill it w sand and bring it to your gym. Throw that Shit around like you would in bed. May get some weird looks but don’t worry those are just bitches givin you iois cuz they know what you can do in bed
/r/askTRP21/04/21 10:14 PM
5

You’re autistic. Not enough information to say why he’s asking him to do things. Maybe he actually just wanted him to do something and it wasn’t calculated.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:52 PM
12

Why tf would you want a bunch of kids with random women. You can’t be a part of their life unless you talk to the woman, have to pay a Fuck ton of child support. Struggling to see the upside...
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:58 PM
2

Don’t you have friends?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 07:07 PM
1

take an English class before you learn any bio. But no, it’s not unconditional, I don’t believe in Disney love either bro.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 08:19 PM
1

about what lmao, just speaking facts
/r/askTRP13/04/21 07:52 PM
1

Saying a feeling is just chemicals is a cop out because we experience the entire world through electrochemical signals
/r/askTRP13/04/21 07:30 PM
1

You’re not hungry, you just produce chemicals in your brain and like the fact that food makes you feel that way
/r/askTRP13/04/21 07:08 PM
4

Get better friends bro. Don’t ever gotta say the phrase red pill but you should be able to be open w them
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:16 PM
1

Meditate every day and stop smoking weed
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:54 PM
1

He’s 21 it’s all mental, if anything a therapist.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:53 PM
-6

I think tattoos are hot
/r/askTRP12/04/21 02:47 PM
2

you’re sick in the head
/r/askTRP11/04/21 10:39 PM
13

Top 1%
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:06 PM
2

Jesus dude, who cares who she’s fucking. This post made me sad
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:18 PM
2

Average height is 5’4 so it’s more like a 6’1 guy sayin he’s tall
/r/askTRP07/04/21 10:34 AM
3

Lifting with poor form isn’t for anybody
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:45 PM
1

Never watched it, no nothing about him except that he was an amazing bbvall player. Replace MJ with any top athlete. bozo
/r/askTRP04/03/21 07:03 PM
77

Passion is bs. You gotta do a lot of hard shit you hate to get where you're goin, that's why being goal oriented is so important. You think MJ liked running sprints? No, but he went through it because he loved the game and wanted to be the best at it.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:43 AM
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Redpill is amoral. Only advice is don't make a decision that's gunna weigh on your conscience. I personally wouldn't do it because it would make me feel guilty and I don't enjoy feeling guilty. Lack of abundance is also not a great reason for it imo
/r/askTRP01/03/21 12:08 AM
3

How is that a red pill dating strategy?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:53 PM
1

I just watched the movie, he says he was only happy with his wife. That’s not redpill
/r/askTRP12/01/21 05:52 PM
3

But in the movie he was only truly happy with his wife and said multiple times he didn’t deserve her
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:24 AM
6

John Wick blue pill af
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:58 AM
1

Yeah but without the inherent risks that come with it. I think prostitution should be legalized
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:23 PM
1

Because it’s easy money and they don’t see a downside. Ever since Christianity fell off there’s no reason to hide your body.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:22 AM
1

Fr, it’s just Easy money
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:22 AM
1

If you think stoicism is a blue pilled belief idk what to tell you
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:11 AM
1

Cicero held on to the same beliefs his whole life. The Román factions were the ones flip flopping not him. Cicero was one of the few senators who had the balls to stand up to Caesar’s authoritarian power grab, and that’s why he died.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:40 AM
6

Little off topic but interesting nonetheless. Men who have been convicted of murder get tons of pussy, fan Mail nudes etc.. obviously most women don’t go this far but it speaks to their nature. Women are attracted to dangerous men because they will produce dangerous/strong offspring and/or protect his offspring. It’s all evolutionary biology
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:26 PM
7

That last sentence is utter bs. Cicero is a beta? Sign me up chief
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:22 PM
3

Just act normally, it’s just added ethos. ASAP Rocky doesn’t go up to girls and say “hey I’m ASAP rocky”, he just talks to them normally and they are more attracted to him because they know he’s a famous rapper.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 07:54 PM
1

Awful advice. He should act according to his nature, not according to his girl’s. You cheat because your gf cheats? Get out of her frame
/r/askTRP09/01/21 01:56 AM
2

Stop watching porn man
/r/askTRP05/01/21 11:30 PM
2

How many jacked 6’1 dudes have you seen with average gf. Get shredded dude why wouldn’t you.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:49 PM
1

If you feel like you have a good foundation you can switch to a lean bulk or a cut for lower bf%. How cut you look only depends on two factors, muscle mass and body fat percentage. If you have the mass then get the bf% down.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:47 PM
2

No contact bro she’s obviously out of her mind
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:02 PM
6

Family oriented hot ones aren’t though. Maybe throw religious in there unfortunately
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:21 PM
15

Why do you want high n count?
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:11 PM
2

It’s a good thing to have such distasteful enemies. I’ve dealt with this breed of wealthy LA brat many times, and if they like you after you’ve had any real talks with them, you’re doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 07:09 PM
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It’s more than missing, you’re consumed by it. You post multiple times a day about how much you miss her and how you’ll never get anyone better. That is not healthy behavior. It’s not getting you anywhere, you are just wasting your days away obsessing over something that is long gone. I don’t know anything about you and am not trained to give you any psychological advice. All I recommend is that you should talk to someone who is.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:08 AM
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You’re not even beta at this point, you’re mentally damaged. You need to seek professional help for your mental state to get better. Please see a therapist. I am genuinely rooting for you.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:50 AM
2

Postem here brother
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:57 AM
3

I don’t understand why people on Reddit think everyone is looking for them. Tell us the country no one is gunna find you from just that
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:51 PM
7

It’s not BS. It’s not a perfect measure but it’s the single most effective test for predicting career success.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:47 PM
4

If he’s your friend
/r/askTRP02/01/21 07:14 PM
1

yup but it’ll make her think you’re better than her which she doesn’t right now. Don’t do it before sex if you don’t want blue balls. Just an example anyways. Anything that lowers her self esteem is a neg.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:55 PM
1

Like when she takes off her shirt look down at her stomach and make a grossed out face for example. You gotta be careful though depending on the girl, don’t wanna neg too hard.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:52 PM
1

No that’s so desperate bro. More subtle. That’s not even a neg
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:43 PM
1

Not about where she’s at, about what she can get. Idk man you know her insecurities better than i do. Lotta sidebar content on it. Specifically the “how to train a bitch” section
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:34 PM
1

You’re bein bossy without makin her worried you’ll leave if she doesn’t listen. She’s too comfortable, you gotta neg her or something. That or she has a new high SMV option and has a branch swing in the back of her head. Or she’s already fucking some guy, always an option. Gunna be a tough one brother
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:31 PM
4

Stop texting her so much, shouldn’t be weird for you guys not to text all day. Maybe she wanted to get dressed up for you or relax a bit after work, chill out. Show up at 7:30 and stop bein so thirsty for her time, find shit you wanna/have do so badly that it’s borderline annoying/inconvenient to spend any time with her at all.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:22 PM
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You can be a beta with women and be a CEO. Bezos for example. Don’t ever doubt fake it till you make it though. It’s an insanely effective technique for almost everything. Lotta people think our actions are products of our thoughts, but it’s a two way street. Pretend to be who you wanna be. Easiest example is that faking a smile actually makes you happier.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:12 PM
3

I would recommend distancing from your parents (wear a mask around the house) and goin on dates with girls if possible. But Yeah that’s a tough one man. Seems like your just gunna have to deal with it until you can afford your own place. Read meditations if you haven’t
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:07 PM
2

I think that’s a misapplication of the quote. That passage is saying that you should expect adversity and not be surprised or troubled by immoral behavior. That doesn’t mean you should actively seek it out, and it is not against stoic principles to cut off people who are acting contrary to your nature. A lot of people think that because stoicism is about accepting worst case scenarios it implies we shouldn’t take actions to improve our lives. This is not true. Stoicism simply prepares you for su…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:04 PM
2

Im not telling you not to cheat. I don’t cheat because I would feel awful if I did. TRP is an amoral toolbox you can apply however you want. Not cheating is me living according to my nature. I’ll keep being social and talking to people I want to talk to, but I won’t go out of my way to talk to women I wanna fuck. If my girl breaks up with me then I can find a girl in a few days or week. don’t see the point of putting in all that effort constantly just to have pussy a couple days earlier. It’s li…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:57 PM
1

Why can’t you try and spin plates in your hometown?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:49 PM
2

Im sure he would if he could
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:48 PM
2

This is some branch swinging woman behavior right here. I like 1-3 but if I’m in an LTR I don’t have to be juggling orbiters like a girl, I don’t have that time or energy to spend. Why would I spend time talking to random women I’m only gunna sleep with when my LTR ends. When the relationship ends then I can go get some new pussy. The main benefit of an LTR is that you don’t have to put any effort in for sex, why would i be putting in effort with other women while I’m in one unless I’m planning …
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:46 PM
2

This comment is the equivalent of “This car is amazing, but it breaks down every few minutes” Use your logic man she’s got you in her web.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:41 PM
3

That’s just our lot in life as men, we take shit and deal with shit alone. It’s also powerful. You don’t need anyone to feel or do anything. That’s why “you are the man” is an expression, you do what you think is best for your tribe and because you continue to provide value for them they will stay by your side. Women need a man. She may be relatively comfortable now but she won’t be when she’s alone. She won’t feel that same power and responsibility you do when you take charge of your life. It a…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:37 PM
1

All of those men could get 99.5% of women
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 07:26 PM
9

He’s probably the one who broke it in the first place
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:18 PM
1

If you’re three standard deviations to the right on any one of those though you get a lot of leeway in the other categories
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 01:45 AM
0

I disagree with you that pretending to be someone you are not leads to lower self esteem. You’re coming from the romantic assumption that we have a “real” personality or “spirit” deep below the surface level persona we present but that’s simply not true. The brain is extremely plastic and adapts to cues very quickly. If you pretend to be something, chances are you will eventually become that thing. Fake it till you make it.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 12:46 AM
2

Yes, but intelligence and many other non-physical skills have as much of a genetic component as looks.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:05 PM
17

More focused on what can be done than lamenting what can’t be changed.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:36 PM
1

Be pretty easy honestly. 95% would be “next”
/r/askTRP29/12/20 09:18 PM
2

You just gotta ask yourself one question. Is she worth the headache? It’s gunna be a pain in the Ass to deal w her after you change your mind like this. She’s always gunna doubt and second guess and challenge you, it’s going to be a battle that will probably end poorly. Don’t answer the question emotionally, be rational, use logic, think long term.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 08:55 PM
1

That doesn’t make him a “blue pill beta” it makes him human. We all fuck yo sometimes
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:27 AM
1

The fact that you’re this insecure makes me think you aren’t ruining anything. you need to stop being so insecure about that shit. If you think you can change yourself and stop your pussy BS within the relationship then go ahead. If I was a betting man tho, I’d put money on you not being able to change without leavin
/r/askTRP27/12/20 10:22 AM
1

Man, why does she matter so much. If it’s causing you that kinda stress, leave.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 10:18 AM
9

Social media posts are inherently cringy, but since everyone else is doing it they can’t judge you
/r/askTRP26/12/20 07:39 PM
5

Bro. Just leave if you’re lookin for a reason. You don’t need any reason except because you feel like it
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:27 AM
5

They probably are, It’s not that hard
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:39 PM
6

If you’re in a LTR you gotta make it happen regularly
/r/askTRP25/12/20 07:22 PM
1

Whats your question
/r/askTRP24/12/20 09:25 PM
3

Yeah his YT lectures, I haven’t read any of his books, though they’re on my list for sure. It wasn’t anything of his specifically either, more the general that masculinity could be a good thing.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:06 PM
6

It’s because of COVID. Lotta people had time yo raise puppies. I kinda got caught up on that for a bit too
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:03 PM
3

As long as your one of the men she’s fuckin I don’t see the problem
/r/askTRP21/12/20 09:00 PM
1

I was in this same situation. Just tell her she looks better without makeup. Is it early in the relationship? If so she’ll stop wearing so much makeup around you when she feels more comfortable.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:42 PM
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Yeah. For a while I fell into the trap of men/women are essentially the same and the “strong stoic man” was just a harmful stereotype. I would look at girl-girl relationships and think that’s what my guy-guy relationships should be like... Jesus Christ that’s sad to even say. It even felt unnatural to act like that and I started feeling pretty weak bitchy feminine and powerless, always lookin for others approval and falling into the frame of whoever I was with. I finally realized how fucked up I…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:29 PM
1

So sad but so true. This is the hardest pill to swallow. A lotta guys want an LTR for emotional support and advice etc... but that’s what women get out of LTRs. In some scenarios you may get passive support, but it’s very rare for a man to constantly be asking his girl for advice and telling her about his emotional problems and self esteem issues etc without her pussy drying up. You should never put any of your problems on your girl, that’s not her job. I don’t think it’s a bad idea to just tell…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:22 PM
2

It’s a balance. Don’t be a cocky dick all the time, nobody wants to be around that and it can come across as desperate and fake if you push it too hard. Just be likable and confident and don’t adjust your opinions/ actions for others unless it’s absolutely necessary (that’s where the douche part comes in).
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:16 PM
1

She has a music box? Yeah bro you're fucking a ghost. Bonus is you can have threesomes and the other girl will just think its you and her.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:23 AM
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need more replies like this on this sub instead of just "sidebar", "lift".
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:53 PM
2

he was just being a dick don't trip
/r/askTRP23/11/20 03:17 AM
4

yeah I think even taller, he's a big boy.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 03:14 AM
2

To each his own but I value my close male friendships more than anything. My boys ground me and we can blow off steam and just be idiots. During quarantine when I couldnt hang out with them as much I felt myself getting really out of touch and being overly serious and introspective. If you feel like you don't need those relationships then do you.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 03:14 AM
2

hes sayin you don't seem like the type of person who would have a lotta friends
/r/askTRP23/11/20 03:12 AM
3

I can see where you are coming from but let me try and put it into context for you. A lot of gen z (more than any other generation) lack masculine male role models in their lives, (fathers are either absent or feminine) and look outside of their circle to find that. In an information society where we can check up on the daily activities of famous people and have hundreds of hours of movies interviews and social media posts to look at its often the easiest place to go to find a role model or just…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 03:10 AM
3

then take it easy. they can't force you to commit. All girls want guys to commit to them, just the way it is.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 09:20 PM
1

jus lean in for the kiss idk, you can't fuck up too bad and even if you do its just practice. sidebar has a lotta shit about escalating kino. which is basically just touching, check it out.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 09:18 PM
14

thats a bad take jose. Rich people get falsley accused of rape because the accuser is trying to get money and/or attention from it, has nothin to do with his game. Patrice was a master at gamin, just watch the black philip show. He was red pill before red pill was a thing. Look at how Bill Burr talks about him, even before he was famous he was gettin with gorgeous girls on a regular basis
/r/askTRP22/11/20 09:17 PM
6

no. She'll know when you make a move.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:22 PM
26

yeah but even before that, its cuz hes funny and confident and a fuckin g. But yeah its tough, try to get your friend to lose weight. IDK what kind of person he is but in my expeerience its not best to shame him because most fat ppl already think they are a lost cause, just encourage him and keep him accountable.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:21 PM
1

not abnormal. Girls get turned on by guys initiating. Doesn't mean she isnt attracted to you or anything. Never denies is fantastic in an LTR dude, count your blessins
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:19 PM
1

most girls go through a hoe phase so high end count could be good meanin she got it out of her system, but don't LTR this girl up right away bro ehatre you doin
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:18 PM
7

No no no. When you go to break up with her she's gunna use that as justification (both to you and herself) to act like a psycho and take a shit on your car or spread rumors about you. You want the break to be clean when it happens, this is just gunna make it messy and painful. Dont think thats worth the story of that time a girl got your name tatooed on her, although it is a good one lmao
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:16 PM
1

thats like saying you aren't hemingway so you're not gunna turn in an essay for class. You can't be the best at everything, but you can strive to be the best you can be at everything. Give up on life if you want, but you'd miss out on a lot of good times. You'd be surprised at how mych you can change.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:14 PM
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not true tho. Patrice O'neal was morbidly obese but he had a new dime with him like every day. It helps for sure, but its not necessarry.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 08:11 PM
3

what the deck does that mean bro
/r/askTRP22/11/20 07:28 AM
2

Yeah cuz 6 is ugly and being modest ain’t bad
/r/askTRP24/10/20 09:35 PM
4

Any positive effects though or just the lack of reliance?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:26 PM
4

Rationalize? You said he said she was super into him , but he never said that. That was my entire point. You misread the post. What are you even talking about I’m flabbergasted.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:18 PM
6

He means percent. I hope...
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:06 PM
2

Some people like being a bitch, they feel uncomfortable making decisions
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:04 PM
0

Check out ajelqforyou subreddit, I tried linking to it but It got removed
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:03 PM
6

That’s not what he said even a little bit brother. You’d know that if your reading comprehension game was strong, which is apparently not the case
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:02 PM
4

How has quitting caffeine affected you? I’m thinking about it
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:16 PM
1

This is only good for mass gains if you max around 12 reps, if you can do a lot more than that then you’ll improve your muscle endurance but won’t really gain any size. You can increase intensity by elevating your feet. Also get a pull-up bar.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:26 AM
6

Fashion models are thin because they are supposed to show off the clothes. You want your clothes to show you off, which means get jacked.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:12 AM
1

What did you weigh before and how much do you weigh now?
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:11 AM
2

What state or country do you live in? I’ve never heard of someone getting so much hate because of where you live except at surf breaks.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:00 PM
1

You’re not introverted, you have social anxiety
/r/askTRP22/10/20 09:18 PM
1

no, based on medical science you walnut. Just cuz I don’t have a degree doesn’t mean shit, look it up Jesus Christ. You’ve failed a lot more tests than just turing haven’t you bud.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:42 PM
1

Fuckin Google it. It’s very common
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:27 PM
3

That’s what I’m sayin. Performance anxiety
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:08 PM
1

But he can get hard. He gets soft when he’s about to have sex.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:07 PM
1

Yeah it does mean it’s not medical actually. He gets soft right when he’s about to put it in, meaning that having sex is a mental trigger that gives him ED. He doesn’t have this problem when he’s jerking off I bet.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 02:06 PM
2

well if we want legislative change we have to enact policies so ofc it’s political
/r/MensRights22/10/20 05:34 AM
2

Sounds like run of the mill performance anxiety, look that up there’s a lot of possible solutions.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:05 AM
16

I don’t think so. He said he went soft right before he put it in, which means he was hard.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:04 AM
1

There’s no such thing as creepy, that’s just a lack of confidence. I’m sure you’ll stop feeling that way if you keep doin it.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:26 AM
1

this was somewhat funny the first time.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:24 AM
1

I also have many OCD symptoms and social anxiety (much less severe than when I was 17) but you have to treat them independently. How can you be so sure your anxiety is a product of OCD?
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:20 AM
2

This sounds more like social anxiety than OCD.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 03:03 AM
1

You’ve got a case of ye olde performance anxiety. Best treatment is exposure. You’re scared of interviews? Apply to 100 random jobs and go to as many as you can. Eventually your brain will make the connection that it’s not a life threatening ordeal and it will stop inducing a panic response. Also do you meditate? If not just do 10min a day for two weeks and see how that changes things
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:25 PM
3

Get a dog when you settle down, they are a lot of work, you don’t seem like you’re at a stage in your life where you can handle it. Trust me it’s a lot more work than you think. For the first month you can’t leave for more than 2h at a time. Your hobbies will suffer, your career will suffer, keep that all in mind. Maybe if you get an adult dog it’d be easier.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:04 AM
1

Your math is wrong. Let’s say I was 190 at 10 percent, that means I have 19lbs off at on me. If I then gain 30lbs of pure muscle and still have only 19lbs of fat, I’ll be 220 at 8.6 percent body fat. But it is going to be more than 20lbs of muscle for 220 you’re right.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:05 PM
1

I said 220-230lbs which is 20-30 from my current weight. I think I can do it since I gained 35 in one, I appreciate your doubts though, they’ll serve as motivation.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:46 PM
1

No, 20lbs total, so less than 20lb of muscle in 2 years. I know 2lbs a month is how much you can gain with perfect everything as an intermediate lifter so I think 0.8lb a month is realistic. My whole team had body fat percentage professionally calculated last year and I was at 12. You’ve been very helpful thanks. From what you’ve said I think I’m going to keep bulking more cleanly to lower bf%.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:39 PM
1

Will do thanks
/r/askTRP20/10/20 02:19 PM
1

okay this helps thank you. I was accounting for my gains slowing down by half. You think it will slow more than this? Keep in mind I was really skilnny before and only lifting twice a week with my team for 6 months of that year in a strength based program, not mass based. I’m also 19yo, idk if that makes a difference
/r/askTRP20/10/20 02:19 PM
1

I know it will take time. Given that I’ve gained 35 in about a year, I think it will take me about two years to get to 220 at 10 percent if I do everything perfect. If I cut now though it might set me back a lot. I guess my question is, since I want to gain mass and lose fat, which should I focus on first? I could also theoretically super clean bulk to 220 and end up at 10 percent without ever cutting, but gains will probably slow down then too.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:13 AM
2

bro don’t respond if you didn’t even read the while whole thing. It takes like 30s
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:03 AM
9

Don’t inject any emotion into your arguments except conviction. Don’t get angry at all especially when you do it comes across as biased and defensive
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:02 AM
1

Well I want to gain weight so yeah. I do eat high protein high veggie but at a caloric surplus which is why it’s a bulk. Thanks for the vids btw I’ll check em out.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:59 AM
3

“Lemme get your number then”
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:57 AM
1

Lmao how’d that call go. “Hey i hooked up with your friend”, “okay...”
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:57 AM
4

Why not just get a hooker
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:14 PM
1

No lmao. Ofc both genders have to pick and get picked, but bc men’s tastes are so broad, women are the ones who usually make the relevant decision. Men try and impress women so that they’ll pick them. Women just sit around
/r/AntiFeminists19/10/20 02:58 PM
1

Not at all, it’s more intricate but women pick and men get picked in general. Reproduction is a huge commitment for a woman because of ho Kong human gestation is as well as how late kids become self sufficient. Because of this, it’s important that whoever they reproduce with has the very best genes possible. Men can spread there seed far and wide with very little commitment so most women are potential sexual partners.
/r/AntiFeminists19/10/20 01:36 AM
0

Yeah that’s actually true tho. This is the case with almost all animals in nature
/r/AntiFeminists18/10/20 05:00 PM
2

It’s very prevelant in certain circles and among the administration, but I have had no problems finding chilled out guys and even girls to shoot the shit with without worrying about them going on any political tirades or catching offense. You definitely have to test the waters with girls though as they can start screeching at a moments notice.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 04:43 PM
1

wtf are you on about lazercock
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:14 PM
3

How old are you?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:10 PM
95

It’s because when women think “muscular” they think world champion bodybuilder who’s been on T for 5 years and been lifting for 10 I guarantee you very few natural lifters are too muscular for any women. It’s also hard to quantify muscularity, It’s easy to quantify height, I want a guy over 6ft, 6ft5 is too tall though. Also, women feel feminine when they are with a guy who is taller and stronger than them, some girls are taller than some guys, but it is rare for a girl to be stronger than a guy…
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:08 PM
2

It’s a lot easier to pass from male to female. Most people who have it are on medication that makes it harder to spread. It’s also not that big of a deal if you have it, plenty of people have it and only break out once or twice.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 05:13 PM
16

He’s a 9 in his computer science class lmao
/r/askTRP16/10/20 04:41 PM
2

lmao thanks let’s get coffee sometime ;). That isn’t ideal for strength or mass, but leans more mass. If you want to get stronger you should do 2-4 sets of 3-5 reps at around 90 percent of your max.If you just wanna get bigger you should be doin more sets.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:43 PM
1

Ah okay. It’s harder to lift if you are taller, I’m 6 4 and I’ve always had a harder time than my friends who are shorter. How many sets and reps do you tend to do and how many times a week?
/r/askTRP16/10/20 02:36 PM
1

The fact that you’re worried makes people bring it up more, just act like you don’t give a fuck. If you can’t get over it internally, start meditating, ever since I’ve started I let go of shit way easier. They say the best qbs have the shortest memories, and that applies to all aspects of life imo. On to the next one chief
/r/askTRP16/10/20 04:43 AM
2

And more likeable and people want your respect/approval. No one wants the approval of someone who doesn’t even approve of their own thoughts
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:44 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:43 PM
1

How do you flaunt it?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:41 PM
7

It’s a spectrum. I know a girl who came out as Lesbian a few years ago to her family and her based dad straight up told her “no you’re not, you’re just confused”. She was super upset at the time but sure enough a few years later she got some dick and now she’s “bi” but only dates guys.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:26 PM
74

That’s how R.Kelly got started
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:24 PM
4

This is why I don’t trust people on this sub when they say they bagged a 9
/r/askTRP09/10/20 08:48 PM
7

Patrice says you always gotta leave with chivalry. Never let her know she’s upset you, next time just say super nicely that you have stuff to do and you gotta leave. She could tell you were butthurt, that’s the opposite of amused mastery
/r/askTRP09/10/20 08:29 PM
2

The scale is a normal bell curve with a mean of 5 and a standard deviation around 1.4. People act like the mean is 7 though. Everyone should practically use a binary scale imo though. 0-1. It’s a lot easier to narrow down who you find attractive like that. The binary scale is also situation dependent, if you are drunk or particularly horny there are more 1s. If you are tired and just want to sleep there’s a lot less.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:17 PM
1

I see where your coming from. We are allowed to have different takes on it. Personally I don’t see why you’d disqualify a plate for being immature like that. For an LTR it’s a deal breaker but for a plate I wouldn’t care.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:29 PM
1

If we had total abundance we would ghost any girl who wasn’t 100% perfect but that’s not realistic. For me abundance is just not tolerating disrespect or sacrificing your goals for a single person that can be replaced. what would you say instead I’m curious?
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:04 PM
-1

I don’t see how, I mean it’s clear that she consented if she texted you that.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:13 PM
-1

If the risk is that she’ll like you less yes, but if you have abundance mentality shouldn’t be an issue, especially since she’s not your girlfriend. You could say it like “speak for yourself, the other girls loved it” or nicer like “weird, I’ve only gotten compliments on it before. I won’t do it to you again tho”
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:09 PM
2

lmao she probably liked it and felt dirty. Then she told her friends it made her uncomfortable to feel better and they were all like “yeah omg that’s gross”. Just say “you’re the first one who’s complained” or find some other way to insinuate that you do it to other girls and they love it.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:01 PM
1

If you want to marry then yes. That’s one reason why so many men choose not to. If you do decide to though, I assume you’ll also want kids, then they are the most important.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 02:37 AM
2

nah man, ive had the best times of my life surfin and drinkin at the beach w the boys without one. This is where this analogy starts to fall apart tho so please don’t take it any further
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:51 AM
1

You said a lot of retarded things.first and foremost of which is that you think no woman is smart enough for you because one woman annoys you.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:26 AM
1

I misunderstood you*
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:16 AM
1

Don’t think she was playing mind games. She said yes because she wanted to in that moment. Then she found someone better or something more fun and forgot.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:13 AM
3

You won’t ever not give a shit. I have a shirt I really like, if I were to stain it I would be upset, I might never find a shirt that I liked as much as that one but I would find other shirts and they would be good enough. Maybe I even find a shirt I like better. At the end of the day it doesn’t really matter though because my happiness doesn’t come from shirts, it comes from within myself.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:10 AM
1

You have a lot more information than we do. Don’t make a huge decision like what country to live in solely for pussy. You can get pussy anywhere.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:07 AM
1

You misunderstood him
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:06 AM
4

Oh boy you’ve got the early symptoms of oneitis. Even if you really like her and want to start an LTR with her, you can’t move to be near her. Nothing dries up a pussy faster than a man dropping everything to go be with a girl. If she wanted to be with you that bad, she wouldn’t have left. Follow your mission and the pain will lessen over time.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 03:27 PM
2

Nice question. I would say yes.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 03:21 PM
1

Even in primitive times man was only responsible for himself and his tribe of maybe 50-100. These “important decisions” are unnatural. You don’t have to be the one making them to find satisfaction. Also You’re thinking too materially. Peace and joy come from within. They still haven’t found a way to control our ruling faculty, although they’re certainly going to try. Do what is in your power. The rest is not worth worrying about.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 03:19 PM
1

Off the top of my head? Ben Shapiro, Gavin Mcginnes, Brendan Schaub, Michael Schermer,
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:10 PM
2

I read the first part. This dudes a bitch. He told his girl what you said? wtf. Then she probably nagged him about it, he fell into her frame and agreed with her emotional horseshit.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:01 PM
3

I disagree. He is goal oriented and driven, has a ton of hobbies that make him happy, isn’t afraid to confront someone. Rogan does whatever he wants and asks questions because he is genuinely interested and that’s what attracts people to him and his show. Contradictions don’t make you less alpha imo. Talking as much as he does, it’s going to happen eventually.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 04:24 PM
5

The red pill is amoral. You gotta decide this for yourself without using trp. All I can say is it’s not worth your life or your freedom even though it’s in men’s nature to sacrifices ourselves for women. Whatever you do, wether that be going to the police or kicking his ass, act from a place of logic not emotion.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:44 PM
5

If he had only read the sidebar and lifted we would be a lot wiser as a community.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:41 PM
8

Joey Diaz, Patrice O’Neal, Joe Rogan in a less traditional way. There’s a lot of others that appear to be but idk how they treat their women so o can’t say. Def check out Patrice O’Neal though. Man was a savage.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:23 PM
5

Saying sexual strategy is amoral doesn’t mean you have to be amoral to use it. Sexual strategy is a toolbox, not a philosophy. I have my own personal morals though, and would never cheat on anyone because I don’t enjoy causing pain and would just end up making myself feel worse. You do what you want but it doesn’t make you a billy beta if you don’t cheat on your girl.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:19 PM
5

The only way to get over it is to do it. Start in a parking lot, have a trusted friend with a license in the passenger seat and just keep doin it and moving on to busier and faster roads. You’ll get over it.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:16 PM
2

She just wants to feel like she is being careful but fuck you. Tell her you are being careful and just hang out with her, not your fault if she doesn’t say anything.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 08:46 PM
1

I disagree. Maybe at first but I’d argue that most women don’t like it if anyone comes up to them in public at first. It’s as you talk to them and pass their shit tests that they start to like it
/r/askTRP24/09/20 04:53 PM
1

no you can’t
/r/askTRP24/09/20 04:26 PM
2

Are you their mentor all year or just for the first couple months?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 04:01 PM
1

I thought incels were people who swore off trying to get poon because they realize no one wants them. That’s different from involuntary celibacy, it’s a little of both. Quitting early more like. It’s like mercy rule.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:04 PM
2

Eat raw caribou
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:45 AM
1

I have very engaging hobbies but they take more effort than checking my phone. My caveman brain wants to save calories and chooses easier route. As for the kitten(weird thing to call a girl imo), in an LTR.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:21 PM
1

I was on concerts for a while and hated that shit. I’ll check it out. Appreciate you takin the time.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:01 AM
1

I need to work on my schedules. I’ve never used one before and it’s such a hard habit to get into cuz I always forget shit or put way to many things on their so that it’s unattainable. Like everything I just have to do it practice it.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:00 AM
1

What vitamins do you take? I also have ADHD (although I kinda grew out of it) and take Omega 3 and D3 plus creatine. The creatine is for lifting but I’ve heard it helps cognition as well.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:54 AM
2

Nothin to do but stop I guess. Don’t know why I even asked. Maybe hoping some Chad would come through my window and slap my phone out my hand
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:31 AM
6

I don’t know if I have the willpower for that strategy. I’m generally a quit cold turkey kinda guy. Maybe I’ll ban certain categories tho like no social media, no news, couple hours a day max of science/philosophy podcasts or something related.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:12 AM
1

Spent a lotta my tween years in west Chester. It’s weird. One one hand it’s just like an East Coast suburb. On the other hand it’s right next to Inglewood and the airport. It’s very close geographically to West La (had a friend who went to school in Santa Monica and lived in WC) but Lincoln is the only street to get there and traffic is Baaaad.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:41 AM
7

Why’d you invite her over then?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:12 AM
3

Focus on that. Train so that you can be a better boxer not to bag better bitches. I played water polo all through highschool and into college and had the best time of my life doing it, learned a ton about teamwork goal setting etc. Focus on that and the physique and girls will come.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 04:54 PM
2

Idk what you’re protein intake is man. Look it up online it’s like 1gram per pound of body weight. Do you play a sport?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 04:24 PM
7

There’s no perfect replacement. Pull-ups and push-ups with added tempos, leg raises. Legs are a bit tougher. Jump squats?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 03:47 PM
1

Okay you got me. What hidden meanings?
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:34 AM
1

There’s a threshold for sure, no 10s Gunna be fucking a deformed guy. Jonah Hill fucks 10s tho and not even because he’s paying for anything. Just his status is a turn on for girls. Not so for women. You couldn’t pay me enough money to fuck Hillary Clinton for example, even tho she is high status.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:25 PM
2

45 in 3 months is insane! Good shit man. I’m coming to the end of a bulk in a couple months and am just lookin to cut around 10lbs but I’ve been hearin great things about Keto so I might get on it
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:32 PM
2

I’ve heard you gain weight back pretty quickly with this diet though. Have you ever stopped and maintained weight?
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:10 PM
1

I’ve struggled with anxiety all my life. The best advice I’ve ever gotten is to run towards your anxiety every chance you get. If something makes you (unreasonably) anxious go and do it. You have to start seeing anxiety as opportunity for growth. Anxious to go to the gym? Good. Go to the gym and be anxious, you’ll live and after a few sessions your brain will realize it had no reason to be anxious and it will stop enacting fight or flight. Easier said than done but it does get easier every time.…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:08 PM
0

Nobody ever said women don’t care about looks but they are certainly less visual than men in the scope of sex. Women only care about looks when it comes to themselves because they know that’s what men care about. How many attractive men do you know that can’t get laid because of their personality? I can think of a few. How many hot girls can’t get laid because of their personality? I’ve certainly never met one. It certainly helps to be good looking as a man but it can be counteracted to a certai…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 07:04 PM
2

Sounds like an absolute nightmare
/r/askTRP19/09/20 06:22 PM
1

Jesus Christ bro you should be on a watch list somewhere. Read Meditations. All your suffering comes from you not them. Why are you giving them so much power over you? Ironically you caring so much about what these random bitches think is probably why they aren’t into you
/r/askTRP19/09/20 05:08 PM
1

Prenup
/r/askTRP19/09/20 03:08 PM
3

I feel like this is misunderstood though. All women love conditionally but not all women will cheat. Some women with good morals/upbringing will always break up before branch swinging.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 04:31 AM
23

Somehow that obviously makes it less obvious
/r/askTRP19/09/20 04:29 AM
0

Lol hilarious
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 06:20 PM
1

Why is that? I see my gardener as only a gardener because that is what he does for me. He also has a family and friends but I don’t know about that and it doesn’t affect me so I don’t care.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 05:23 PM
1

You’re right, generalizations are always accurate
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 05:06 PM
2

Calling employees assets objectifies people also but it simplifies things as well. If you are “spinning plates” you are using people for only sex and there is nothing wrong with that. Yes these people have dreams and ambitions and families but that’s all beyond the scope of your knowledge, you simply want to have sex with them. Just because my boss sees me as an employee doesn’t mean he’s denying other aspects of my life as a son or a brother or friend, he just doesn’t care about them.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 05:03 PM
-1

What other philosophy discouraged putting women on a pedestal? Mainstream idea is you need to get her roses and dote on her for her to like you which is obviously false.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 04:58 PM
3

yes but the 1-10 scale is physical
/r/askTRP27/08/20 09:44 PM
1

4/5 is an 8
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:56 PM
2

I had been vaping multiple times an hour for 3 years. After even a couple of hours without it withdrawals kicked in hard. I just felt like a fucking loser and kept shaming myself in my head over and over calling myself a failure and telling myself that if I can’t quit I will never accomplish anything and should just kill myself. This seems brutal but it actually helped me a lot, it gave me the motivation i needed to quit cold turkey. It fucking sucks though I’m not going to lie. The key is in sw…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 06:45 PM
1

Depression does lower sex drive so it could just be that man. Not every change in sex has to do with bp rp. I know when I’m depressed I don’t want sex as much.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 04:25 AM
2

Actually that’s Marcus Aurelias’ shit take
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:53 PM
3

Date n time
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:51 PM
1

Perfectly normal man. Read meditations if you want to hear another perspective on death. Have no regrets.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:32 PM
3

Everything becomes a whole lot clearer once you do trust me. Hobbies will start coming naturally once you realize how empty your life is without it. You will become more driven, your testosterone will go up, and you will find actual peace instead of just numb pleasure.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:38 AM
14

Username checks out
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:36 AM
3

Stop drinking
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:35 AM
3

You coulda just said, oh I didn’t even think about it and unfollowed the first time. Now it’s too late tho.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:41 AM
1

Whenever you start thinking like that do 20 push-ups or start reading or some other distracting activity. Sounds like a mild form of depersonalization/derealization. Maybe read into that a bit, but don’t obsess over it because it only ends up making it worse. I suffered with this for months.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 01:46 AM
1

yes just go no contact. Maybe she’s legit just stressed about exams. Maybe she lost attraction. Only time will tell.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 10:23 PM
4

Just don’t respond
/r/askTRP25/08/20 09:12 PM
7

Only read first paragraph. Learn how to use parentheses man. Shit gave me a fuckin stroke
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:41 PM
17

What the fuck is this sub
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:40 PM
1

Idk about all that but y’all did acid while she was on lexapro? Psychedelics don’t work when you’re on SSRIs
/r/askTRP25/08/20 02:57 PM
7

Lifting. Meditation.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 04:29 PM
1

You’re about to be gone for a while, get your perfect body after your service cuz you’re about to lose a fuckton of weight.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:08 PM
1

. I recently quit nicotine and what I told myself was if I consume any nicotine after today then I have to kill myself. Obviously I wouldn’t have killed my self but I just kept saying that. This made not relapsing wayyy easier because then I would have lied to myself twice and felt like a little bitch first for relapsing and then for not killing myself. I’ve been clean for months, cold turkey. Maybe try something you’ll actually do though, like “If I don’t stick to this diet I have to sign up fo…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 04:32 AM
1

All checks out to me
/r/askTRP24/08/20 04:28 AM
2

This exactly. Has to be Horchata also. Tried this with a lemonade once... that was not a fun month to say the least.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:02 PM
19

Nah, it’s someone who gets sex and then is called low smv by the girls he ghosted after obtaining said sex from them.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:45 PM
2

Sure but my point is that it’s a lot of money.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:25 PM
4

as a bachelor with a three million dollar trust fund though I would feel pretty damn comfy
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:12 PM
6

That’s amazing if true. Any anecdotes of a girl realizing like 6 months into dating that she doesn’t know your name? I bet they realize during sex when they can’t think of a name to scream huh
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:09 PM
16

I call bs. You took her on vacation. Presumably you had to give a name to check into a hotel or get on a plane. No Starbucks stops or fast food places you guys went to? She never asked?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 03:54 PM
6

Just do what you want to do. It’s only approach anxiety if you wanna but you’re too scared to do it. If you don’t want to, then you just don’t want to. Do what you want to do
/r/askTRP23/08/20 03:11 PM
7

You have her a fake name?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 03:09 PM
9

Habla inglés?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 03:07 PM
3

That’s not blue pill. Easiest way to end the situation
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:58 PM
1

Your arguments don’t make any sense. Why don’t you address and disprove my claims that I’ve actually backed up instead of correlating unrelated things to try and disprove me. For example, why do hormonal changes occur when you have children? Why have these hormones been linked to motherly behavior, sacrificial care, and bonding ?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 08:01 PM
1

In some cases. But generally parents care about their kids, it’s just human nature. Same way Lions teach their cubs how to hunt. They don’t debate the pros and cons of it, it’s just instinct.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:58 AM
1

Look into some studies man. Oxytocin spikes when a mother holds her baby, you think all that feel good bonding serves no evolutionary purpose? Why else would it exist? Groupthink happens because everyone has these same chemicals. What does contraception have to do with it exactly?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:57 AM
2

Yeah but you’re using it in a way that devalues feelings. There are no emotions beyond our genetics, that’s where all of our neurological pathways come from. So why do you say that you can’t trust someone who loves you because of their genetics and your genetics? That’s the truest form of love.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:31 PM
7

Qualifying and bragging will end it for sure. Just stop doing it. You say you can’t but you definitely can unless you have some rare condition I’m not familiar with.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:28 PM
2

no, it’s chemicals. Morals have very little to do with it. Parents care about their kids because it’s the best way to ensure their genes are passed on successfully. This is why family is so important, they’re love is less conditional because no matter what you are carrying their genes, whereas a romantic partner could just find someone else and spread their genes that way.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 07:19 PM
0

Yeah he doesn’t want to lose his gf, I don’t think anyone does or they would have broken up. Do what to his bro exactly? Ask him not to hook up with his GFs friends? Yeah Its pretty fuckin gay of him but it’s like three girls out of 3 billion. Wouldn’t be a friendship ended for me.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 08:30 PM
-3

Nobody here value male friendships over random bitches? Yes he’s being dramatic, but if it’s gunna affect your friendship just don’t do it. Okay she’s a 7.5 big deal, go find another 7.5 who won’t steal a friend from you.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 07:25 PM
7

Stay in hostels. Really easy to meet people in their early 20’s lookin to party, but I don’t know what the COVID situation is like in Eastern Europe. Before the 2020 pandemic DLC this was the way to go though
/r/askTRP12/08/20 08:59 PM
3

Read Meditations, it talks about this a lot.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 07:58 PM
2

There’s a pill for that actually
/r/askTRP07/08/20 08:02 PM
3

Introduce her like you normally introduce people, it’s not that deep.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:15 PM
1

If he didn’t want to get rejected he wouldn’t go after hot girls. This is retarded.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:37 PM
2

Body language, tone of voice.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:05 PM
1

Just be proactive. Apply to a ton of places online and go in person to the ones that really interest you. Ask to talk to the manager and introduce yourself
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:04 PM
1

Of course no single individual designed “society” but many aspects of the way in which we are organized were designed. Our financial systems, legal codes, governmental powers etc... have all been designed. Let’s take our laws as an example because it’s the easiest one to understand. It is “human instinct” for some people to rape, our laws provide incentives to fight against this instinct or else you might be put in jail for the rest of your life. Of course you can fight human instinct with “soci…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:52 AM
1

That would for sure help. Also low sugar/simple carb diet and consistent sleep schedule.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:11 AM
1

To talking about advertising?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:09 AM
2

It’s a process man don’t loss hope, just keep at it and you’ll start seeing results trust me.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 09:38 PM
0

The entire purpose of society is to provide political solutions to human instincts. But I agree that on an individual level whining about how mistreated you are for being a man won’t solve anything and only creates a scapegoat for people to excuse their failures.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 09:36 PM
3

Meditate for 10minutes every day, up that as you feel more comfortable with it.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:40 PM
11

you sometimes need business partners. It’s just that they can’t also be your friends.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:25 PM
2

No
/r/MensRights14/02/19 12:25 AM
1

You think like a victim
/r/MensRights13/07/18 03:39 AM
3

No they can't, they need to follow title 9. Even a private school will receive some type of funding
/r/MensRights12/07/18 09:46 PM
1

I agree. But feminism is standing in the way of men's rights. If we really want equality we have to challenge the feminist narrative, although posters may not be the best way to do that.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 01:19 AM
2

I don't know about all that. Definitely in popular culture in America they are.
/r/MensRights07/05/18 01:12 AM
1

yeah but it's more mean if he has one
/r/MensRights06/05/18 03:28 PM
2

Well if you are socially awkward you are going to get made fun of. That's why it sucks to be socially awkward. I had bad social anxiety for a while and know this from personal experience. But no it doesn't excuse their behavior completely. Usually you get made fun of behind your back.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 03:02 AM
-2

partially
/r/MensRights06/05/18 02:58 AM
15

Jesus. that's a little extreme.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 12:15 AM
13

well to be fair they probably didn't know he was autistic. Also guys talk like this about girls constantly, at least my friends and I do. We don't say it to their face though, that's a real cunty thing to do.
/r/MensRights06/05/18 12:00 AM
4

Yes but there is more to men's rights then anti-feminism. Feminism is a barrier to men's rights but when we bring up real issues like men's suicide people instinctively claim "you don't care about women suicide" instead of listening to what we are actually saying.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 10:49 PM
2

That's fucking crazy. How can they even claim any objectivity with that in the sidebar. Technically I did violate community guidelines then haha
/r/MensRights03/05/18 10:47 PM
1

I'm "left wing" on almost all political issues, and it is truly embarrassing to be associated with that movement.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 10:34 PM
1

yeah that's what I thought. I don't know why it's such a commonly accepted theory.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 10:29 PM
8

It's actually not that well documented. I mean, personally I haven't delved into the literature but psychology classes teach that it's unsupported by science and most "repressed memories" are just projections of expectations.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 06:52 PM
3

Second wave craved open discussion, any acknowledgement was welcomed. Now anything other than unanimous support is spat on.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 06:47 PM
2

It really is. You're probably going to get banned for posting that though, lol.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 06:37 PM
3

I didn't know mansplaining was ever used in a serious way tbh
/r/MensRights03/05/18 06:31 PM
4

I explained why the wage gap wasn't real and a mod responded with "do you know what mansplaining is, because you just did it." To which I responded "yeah ik I'm not allowed to talk because I'm a man. Sorry about that. Because having a vagina automatically gives you authority on policy issues." I was banned within 10 minutes
/r/MensRights03/05/18 06:29 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/8g7a2a/jacinda_ardern_having_a_female_pm_doesnt_mean/?st=JGQT5AEM&sh=a96c43a1 Pretty sure I was banned in this thread after a moderator accused me of mansplaining.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 05:58 PM
15

It's just hard to advocate for men's rights in the shadow of feminism. It's like everything we say will be perceived as anti-feminism and misogynistic.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 03:40 PM
26

Yeah honestly. What's next? Sloppy syntax ban?
/r/MensRights03/05/18 01:52 PM
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