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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Functional, but unhappyHappy to hear this! Wishing you the best | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/22 10:53 PM |
| 19 | How to save face during a divorce?Every time I consider marriage, posts like this smack me back into reality. Hang in there brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/21 04:08 AM |
| 15 | Functional, but unhappy1) It sounds like you’ve already made your mind that you’d be better off (happiness-wise) alone 2) Nothing voluntary in life should make you feel unhappy and trapped | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/21 03:28 AM |
| 7 | Free workouts, PM meFirst off thanks for doing this. I’m in my early 20s and in alright shape but nothing impressive. My goal is to be built one day like Chris evans in the 2011 avengers. I’m taking this seriously and want to go as extreme as possible. What workout and diet plan would you recommend I do to get me there? I have nothing at home workout wise outside of a 25lbs dumbbell, but I have access to anything food wise. Thanks again, I appreciate it | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Need help with my failing marriage.It’s ok to make jokes but at least try to keep the bottom line as constructive. He’s here bc he knows he fucked up and we’re here to guide him in the right direction | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 22 | Need help with my failing marriage.I swear anytime I consider getting committed I read another one of these sob stories and I immediately get red pilled again. But as for your story 100% move on man. It’s gonna fucking suck so bad but in the future you’ll be so happy you did, trust me | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Friend zoning womenThey get angry bc they’re humans too. Rejection is one of the worst feelings a human can feel. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here taken antidepressants?It absolutely does help. It keeps you afloat while you can fix the issues in your life that got you in that situation in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 08:28 AM |
| 8 | Why does contemporary culture embrace a lack of personal responsibility and adopt a victim mentality?Yeah, and there’s a whole lot of suffering | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 05:55 PM |
| 92 | Why does contemporary culture embrace a lack of personal responsibility and adopt a victim mentality?It feels so much better to not feel responsibility or accountability aka blaming any one else. A classic example is weight, where instead of saying “it’s my fault for being obese, I need to lose weight” it’s infinitely easier to say “it’s societies fault, they need to stop being mean” | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 11:58 AM |
| 2 | What’s the end game with women?Really needed to hear this | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 06:31 AM |
| 7 | Do you guys agree that male and females cannot be "true" friends?No, males and females can absolutely be friends. You don’t need to think about fucking everything that walks. Half of my friends are female and they’re honestly great friends. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 06:04 AM |
| 19 | How to get bitches to pay you for your time?I’m doing it rn Be so far out of her league that she needs to compensate YOU with money | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 09:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with my ex-girlfriend telling people lies about me?Hey bro I’ve dealt with this and I completely understand the frustration. However, the reality of the situation is that people will only believe it if it’s believable. For example if someone were to claim I’m gay, but the person they tell this to sees me dating multiple girls and being touchy with girls on my insta it’s literally just not believable. If someone claims I only date a certain race of girl, but my past girlfriends are of different races, it just cripples the allegations. Understand … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | OneitisShe studied in my country as a study abroad | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 02:53 PM |
| 11 | Pros and cons of plating a girl from your college?Here’s a very serious answer as I’m assuming you’re looking for one. I’ve experienced attempting to get with a decent amount of girls in my college and the honest answer is that it’s been a double-edged sword. When it goes correctly I have girl on campus (who will always have many connections on campus) spreading positive things about you, not to mention the obvious positives of getting with a girl. When it goes poorly is when you’ll really have to decide if it’s something you want to keep tryin… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Getting shit on more than usual at schoolSounds like a textbook example of crabs in a bucket | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Have you found your passion after finding trp?Absolutely, for me it came in the form of learning a new language. I can allocate however much or little time according to my schedule. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Please talk sense into meYeah I’m an adult but I’m dependent on them financially :/ | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Please talk sense into meShe doesn’t have it as far as I know | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Please talk sense into meAka the corona risk? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Please talk sense into meIf I don’t go see her I don’t think I’ll ever see her again. Is that still the right move given how high interest she is? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 11:17 PM |
| 21 | Anyone else lost the desire to chase girls after a certain n count was reached?I’ve had 5 post RP and I’m honestly content. I’ve stopped chasing and started spending all my time improving myself | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 03:14 PM |
| 0 | Rebuilding burnt bridgesGonna do it tmr and let you guys know how it goes | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 05:16 AM |
| 0 | Rebuilding burnt bridgesClose friend from high school and a couple years in college until we ended up stopped talking to each other, due to changing interests and him being jealous of me having a dime (which I got through red pill improvement) when we both previously weren’t successful with girls. The reason I’m considering reaching my arm out is to create a powerful connection that could benefit me through opportunities. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Rebuilding burnt bridgesIt was a close friend from the last 6 of 7 years that fell apart. Having a connection, especially in a college setting, would bring both us more connections and opportunities tbh | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 05:09 AM |
| 6 | Rebuilding burnt bridgesI don’t even mean girls, I mean male friends | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 05:06 AM |
| 5 | Asked a girl to hangout this weekend. She said “sure! How about Sunday?”That’s facts. I’ve hanged out with her like 4 times so I feel like I’m not of value to her. What would you do if it was your call? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Which girl/approach would you take?Sounds good | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Which girl/approach would you take?How is it not beta bux when she’s compensating the lack in smv through monetary compensation? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Attitude hasn't changed with increase in smvMy smv went up too, except for me my attitude went up so high and it was all natural. Getting girls whilst being attractive versus trying to get them while I was ugly are two different worlds. Nowadays I literally just assume girls want me until proven otherwise. It was impossible for me to not switch my attitude. Maybe you aren’t as attractive as you think? | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Should I vacation with 6/10 plate or spend the week grinding?When I have free time (for example now during winter break) I’m studying 5-6 hours a day. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Should I vacation with 6/10 plate or spend the week grinding?I’m studying a foreign language that I really enjoy. I don’t know if that qualifies as a purpose. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I vacation with 6/10 plate or spend the week grinding?It’d be the latter | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with anger?This. I feel the same feelings as op, with a lot of people jealous/envious of me they channel that into straight anger making me feel some anger back. I only tap into when I’m at the gym and when I walk out of the gym I let go of everything until my next workout. It’s a good example of channeling my anger for positive without letting the anger control me. I’d recommend you do the same. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 11:12 AM |
| 3 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?Looks are infinitely more important than TRP would like to admit. You literally play the game easy as opposed to veteran | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 05:06 AM |
| 29 | Machiavelli says get attention at all costs. How?Put yourself out there, but don’t be retarded | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | How subjective are looks?But like I got a roster of plates so does that mean I’m good looking but some girls just say I’m ugly and are lying? | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Claims she doesn't like drinkingShe’s interested in you but not that crazy into you. She giving you a chance, you got this bro | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 07:55 PM |
| 10 | How do you find meaning to your life?Try new shit, get out of your comfort zone, and let your purpose find you | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 06:58 AM |
| 1 | EX LTR asks to grab lunchI’ve lost a lot of fat and gained a bit of muscle and picked up two solid plates since then. I kind of want to make her a plate, but I don’t wanna fall into being an orbiter or going back into a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 07:23 AM |
| 2 | I'm out in the "party zones" of my city. First time solo. Don't know how to approach.If you’re in a “party zone”, chances are there are good reasons to, you just feel out of your comfort zone. Not much more advice I can give other then go for it. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 07:48 PM |
| 4 | What 5 activities or resources benefitted you the most in your journey of self development?1) Lifting 2) Personal hygiene/style 3) Purpose 4) Being social (friends and females) 5) Abundance mentality (with everything) | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Does being in a relationship with a girl automatically betafies you in her eyes?Personally speaking, I’m not sure if there’s a difference in the short term, but the guy in the relationship will naturally be complacent and the guy who’s single will be working much harder to be a better version of himself, in the long run being way more attractive. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 04:08 PM |
| 2 | If a girl isn’t pursuing you, does that mean she definitely doesn’t have high interest?She agreed to go ice skating and seems pretty interested, but she’s not texting me first at all | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 04:38 AM |
| 4 | If a girl isn’t pursuing you, does that mean she definitely doesn’t have high interest?The reason I ask is because I feel like whether she’s high or low interest changes how much I try to see her. I had dinner with her today and I offered to take her ice skating this Saturday. Not sure whether I wait until Saturday to talk to her at all, aka just text for logistics | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Are there any unicorns or am I being deceived?Is it bad enough for me to completely avoid her or just move carefully? | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 01:18 AM |
| 5 | Are there any unicorns or am I being deceived?👍 | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Are there any unicorns or am I being deceived?👍 | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with school club disrespect?How would I turn it around, acting soft/nice to them? | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 11:38 PM |
| -6 | Didn’t fuck when I thought I couldBecause I want her consent | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Time to see new girlFirst time we went skating and second time was amusement park. Both were group settings, no alone time, held hands and that’s it | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 02:49 AM |
| 0 | Taste testing alcoholWhat do you mean get in writing? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Taste testing alcoholIt’s just us two lmao | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 12:47 PM |
| 1 | I found out I’m driving a girl that curved me. What to do?Thanks man, I’ll do that and update you guys with how it went. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Can someone give me a summary of the main arguments against TRP?TRP is brutally honest and doesn’t make you feel fuzzy on the inside at all, and pressures you to work on yourself/take responsibility. Not even an hour ago I asked a question and got straight roasted, but sometimes tough love is what you need to be better. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 07:53 AM |
| -1 | I found out I’m driving a girl that curved me. What to do?What do I text instead? Ok | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you lads balance making personal progress with having a social life?I try to keep a balance between the both, cause both are important to me. Sure if I invested all my time into my grind, it could be way further, but I’m also human so I need time to relax with or without other people | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Leave LTR or notMoral code isn’t very strong, already chatting up a couple girls. I feel the same way, she made the decision to go to a big city and even once asked me if I would be ok not seeing her for a while because she would be busy with “work” once she gets there. How soon do I pull the trigger? Do I just save myself time and rip off the bandaid or do I wait for her to actually go before I do it? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Depression? Mental HealthA lot. I could try to cut back, but I don’t know if it’s too late to make any progress. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Depression? Mental HealthIf you stay strong and push through can you get back to a point of being normal again? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Any ideas for a productive hobby beyond work, girls and health - that doesn't require commitment?I enjoy language learning | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Those who got into a LTR/Marriage with a HB8/9/10, tell me your story.I can relate to what your saying, you feel like you got lucky (which translates to her smv is higher right now). Currently in a 6 month LTR. When we started seeing each other her smv was objectively higher than mine. You should be doing several things. One of which is to never fuck up on the easy shit like validation, giving attention, being busy (or faking it). If your smv is lower then you really have 0 room to fuck up here. Secondly start bringing your smv up to her level. So many problems va… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 04:57 AM |
| 3 | How to be ok with being alone?Try making new friend groups so you won’t be so dependent on one group. (Just like girls). Also question if you guys hanged out because you guys were genuinely interested in each other, or because you had no one else to talk to. Nice name btw | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 03:55 PM |
| 53 | Does anyone else find it excruciating to further interact with a woman who rejected you?Don’t shit where you eat. Got curved by a girl in my dorm earlier last semester and had to see her 3 times a day everyday for the rest of the semester. Don’t ever do this to yourself. Or do it and you’ll learn for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 01:36 AM |
| 52 | How do you guys still maintain your game while in an LTR without cheating?As someone currently in an LTR and gotten a lot of TRP advice over the last few months, the two most important things, is to always be increasing your smv and secondly be able to walk away at anytime. If you bring up your smv you’ll go from “ This girl is the best I can do” to “ I think I can do better” to “this girl doesn’t deserve me, where’s the next one” | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 05:18 AM |
| -3 | No sex. UPDATEShe’s on her period | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:09 PM |
| 7 | No sex. I left.What do you think I should do? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 06:06 AM |
| 2 | No sex. I left.Got it | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 04:59 AM |
| 2 | No sex. I left.Oh ok thanks again. If it reached that point and I asked what’s wrong I’m not sure if she would even answer the question. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 04:35 AM |
| 3 | No sex. I left.How long? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 04:11 AM |
| 6 | No sex. I left.I agree | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 04:10 AM |
| 2 | No sex. I left.Thanks for the advice, I agree. Next time I see her do I still escalate as usual or do I wait for her to initiate? Also if next time I get denied do I just hard next aka never text back/block? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn’t she suck dick anymore?Yes | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | If you could cut out one of food addiction, porn addiction, or video game addiction, which would you cut?Also, what copes do you have or do you not need them because of how amazing of a life you have? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 05:37 AM |
| 1 | If you could cut out one of food addiction, porn addiction, or video game addiction, which would you cut?I’ve cut out most of my gaming, some of the food, and none of the porn. The reason I’m here and the reason most guys are here is because we’re not there yet. If you’ve cut them all out yourself, what copes do you have or do you not need them because of amazing life you have? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 05:37 AM |
| 1 | If you could cut out one of food addiction, porn addiction, or video game addiction, which would you cut?Hypothetically that would be perfect. Cut out video games and I have so much free time that’s been filled with a lot of productive energy. Recently have been better about food, mainly just not binging anymore and have been seeing my weight go down because of it. The porn part seems scary to me because of how different I am on and off a ‘no fap’. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | I have an absolutely awful diet and I can't stop myself. What can I do?Make small steps, and be consistent about it | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Need advice nowIt’s impossible to fuck a girl who literally refuses to talk to you. I left and am moving on. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Need advice nowEnded up meeting up with her, acted playful and she still doesn’t wanna talk. Gonna leave and hard next. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Need advice nowShe said she doesn’t want to see me but she’s hungry lmao | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Need advice nowThanks for the honesty and I agree with everything you’ve said. I also have both of our bus passes still and some clothes of hers. Does this change how I act or do I still not text her in the mean time and be at the bus station later with or without her? | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Need advice nowYeah I’m aware I fucked up. What would you do in my scenario now after the fact? | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Need advice nowLooked in the museum and she’s not here | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Need advice nowDo I fail the shit test by going in though? | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Need advice nowAt this point I’m waiting outside the museum | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Leading the RelationshipThanks man, will do | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Leading the RelationshipI thought what I said was clearly sarcastic. I'm also not looking to collect any of those points. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Leading the RelationshipI realized I needed to re-evaluate my mindset and that's what I did tonight where I was like nah I wanna do x, we can still do y at some point, but I ultimately want x. While if I let her pick everything she's not acting in my frame, if I pick everything she's probably gonna get annoyed, given she is a human too like you say. Going forward, I feel like there's a balance where I can genuinely do the stuff I enjoy and allow her to pick sometimes as well. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl said I shouldn't lose weightBy "been into" I mean interested in, but was never consistent due to my laziness, until recently. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend potentially moving in with male roommates.Quick update, when I was with her we talked about it and I calmly said to her I wasn't ok with it and she said she'll keep looking to find a place with exclusively female roommates. On one hand she's following my frame now, but the fact that she would consider it in the first place makes me want to demote her to nothing more than a plate. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend potentially moving in with male roommates.Besides looking at other women and temporarily disregarding what's already been said, what would you do in my scenario? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend potentially moving in with male roommates.After thinking about it you're right man. Keeping in mind AWALT there's nothing I can do to stop her from being a thot if she ever chooses to. I feel like I really should just not give a fuck and if anything work towards finding more plates, so when I next her I'll be ready to go. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 05:02 AM |
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