I recently moved to a new city where I know no one, left my LTR in the last city, and am really starting to get lonely.

The move was work related, so I maintained the same job and am already up for a promotion. I hit the gym and read fairly regularly throughout the week.

So the question is, how do you guys balance making personal progress (i.e.staying on the grind) with going out and socializing? I like to go out during the week with some of the okay-ish friends I've made here, but it always kills my productivity the next day and I feel behind again.