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"Sounds good. See you at 4!"
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:28 AM
2

Bunch of fake RP answers by keyboard ninjas here. If there is a mismatch -- then you are either a one in a billion genius or are simply delusional. If you are mentally high value then you should be accomplishing things in real life. People like to fool themselves that being lazy is a good thing when it's not. Hard work always triumphs. RP is not about women. Who the fuck cares if you're getting laid or not if you are not doing anything for society?
/r/askTRP16/05/21 09:13 AM
1

The best way to make friends is to not look for them.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:15 AM
1

Yup this could be it too
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:09 AM
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This is the answer. Not saying anything sounds like what a highschool kid would do.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:08 AM
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Run!
/r/askTRP07/05/21 12:26 AM
1

True that. The chick I was seeing cheated on her boyfriend and later told me she just always felt guilty whenever we hung out even though she really liked me (somehow thinking I'm a player -- which in hindsight is not a bad position to be in) As per her response as well, she still had feelings for another dude too (besides self esteem and trauma issues) and was literally alpha widowed (dead ex) and just isn't ready for a relationship (and probably never will be). Totally understandable, and I ca…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:50 PM
1

Have been in same boat as you but I think you could have made your exit better. Same situation, didn't fuck close but made out with the chick when she had a boyfriend (so she cheated on him w/ me). Told her many months later when we reconnected that we should give it a shot sometime and then more or less received something like what you posted. The best way to reply is with something more elaborate and gentlemanly (to show her what is class): "Hey! Thanks for getting back to me with your thought…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 06:59 AM
6

This is the answer.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 01:12 AM
5

High values and leading by example. Lots of people here think alpha giga chad is being a total dick. Wrong. You have to have charm, be empathetic, trust others, know how to listen, and ultimately put in all the hard work to truly excel in your craft and not just be all talk. There is no work around for hard work, that's the true test of leadership: great leaders are willing to sacrifice nearly everything (without losing fundamental values) to achieve what they want to become in life. Men and wom…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:26 PM
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This is the answer
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:33 AM
1

Likely the woman likes you too much, so instead of going for a relationship too soon or just having sex off the bat, she'll rather keep you as a friend (she doesn't want you ever to leave her life). Move here is to still leave her, move on, and thank her for her honesty (you sent her the right response) She'll come back.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:10 PM
1

+1, This is the answer.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:03 PM
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Yup this is the answer
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:35 AM
2

Other answers falsely play "too cool". Example: "wow, I heard you girls move fast but I wasn't expecting it this fast". This is some bullshit that works if you're 16 or in college, but if you're a man and are over 30 (or even 25) then you'd get a bunch of weird looks. Answering "No" also works, but gives on an off-putting vibe. "Only on Tuesdays" playfully gives an ambigious answer. You don't have to explain yourself (hence fall in her frame by answering the question with a Yes or No), and you d…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:37 PM
1

"Only on Tuesdays" All other answers here are wrong and cringey.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:14 PM
0

Partially disagree. Does OP actually want a relationship? If so, it's okay to be honest and upfront. If not OP will get dumped in a week or two.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:08 AM
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Contrary to many of the bullshit answers posted for this question, the reality is you have to ask yourself and consider the fact that you truly could not be good enough. Maybe you are fat, jobless, insecure, have zero ambition, are broke, live in your mom's basement. If that's the case then YOU SHOULD feel like you don't deserve high quality women because it's true (lots of clowns posting here that you can trick yourself that you do). Now picture a reality where you are fit, have a high paying j…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:05 AM
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This is the answer
/r/askTRP15/04/21 10:36 PM
0

+1. Plot Twist
/r/askTRP14/04/21 07:41 AM
1

Unpopular opinion: why the fuck would you want to bang a random hot chick you just met at the grocery store?
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:41 AM
1

Well plot twist. I had a chick go full hamster explaining to me in an apocalyptic 5 paragraph text why she doesn't want a relationship with me (in the context of a branch swing). The long text gave it away and she does, but is scared (girls who don't want anything text small or don't bother to respond). But even if she says no, or in your case she "is confused" , the best thing to do is to make things easier for her and disappear, and tell her "sounds good, thanks for your honesty, looks like it…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:28 AM
1

+1 Friendzone implied
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:48 PM
5

This. And Top 1% of Men aren't really thinking about banging Women, they're too busy pursuing their dreams. Top 0.001% kind of already made it; so their success speaks volumes for themselves and they don't really have to go on dating sites, the women they want in their lives naturally gravitate towards them, and they really don't care if they're banging someone or not (almost as if they knew that having a woman around them is not worth it).
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:15 PM
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Your question reminds me of this great quote from Batman: "Peace has cost you your strength, Victory has defeated you" - Bane.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:06 AM
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Because it's not about YOU dying, it's about OTHERS getting Killed BY YOU through irresponsible viral spread or lack of honest communication. I've been telling this to 'friends' I see getting hammered and banging chicks in Tulum in festivals and then crying 1 month later because their Grandma died. They just don't get it until tragedy strikes
/r/askTRP11/04/21 03:29 AM
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Agree and Amplify. Close thread please Mod. This is a recurrent question with a recurrent answer.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:12 AM
5

This is the answer
/r/askTRP10/04/21 06:09 AM
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No. We prefer to be single than to be with a women who we feel will not bring much to the table in terms of life.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:40 AM
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Sounds like a Femme Fatale Also some women just love to be hit on only to say no. It shatters there world when a man gives them the finger. I mean look at Johnny Depp and Amber Heard -- most of these women are damaged and usually have (unfortunately) been victims of abuse, and they somehow shift from the abusee to the abuser as a way to subconsciously overcome their trauma. Stay away from women who lead you on. Make a move quick, and if things don't work out, move on. Women like these are troubl…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:37 AM
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This. Exactly
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:16 AM
8

The ultimate plot twist.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:26 PM
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Yup, I'd say just take it easy and imagine there are no labels even if there is one.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:50 AM
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This. I think OP just has commitment issues and that's it. If he really likes her, she's hot and the sex is epic I'm not sure what the problem is here.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 03:49 AM
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All terrible comments by high school posers here. You have to follow your passion because that's the only way you'll be world class at something, and thus as a consequence (and if you are actually exceptional) -- have you make more money than 95% of society. "But My Is PaSsiOn wAs mUsIC aNd n0w I is BrOk3". No you dumbass, that was your hobby, not your passion. Your Passion is something that you can do everyday for 10 hours a day for the rest of your life because you think that achieving mastery…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:31 AM
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Artist here. Lots of miscalculated comments, so thought I'd put in my perspective. They're perceived as high value because they don't really care about what civilization thinks of them and what they do (true artists; not the clowns who play weekend gigs at bars or sell paintings for money). Their confidence in their own vision and reality is what lures women to them. And also you have it wrong: Assholes attract women not because they treat them like shit, but because they also approach life with…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:37 PM
1

"More than you"
/r/askTRP04/04/21 09:21 PM
1

Happened to me once. I did not respond the text. She just wants to get back at your buddy through you. In general, the alpha move (as a high value man) is to know when to say No to sex.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 07:44 AM
1

I would just next this woman.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:53 AM
1

😂
/r/askTRP04/04/21 01:49 AM
1

My favorite one is: "Ya, sounds amazing! Till next time!" Congratulate her (ambiguously) on detecting the bullshit, then leave.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:40 PM
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10000% this indeed!
/r/askTRP02/04/21 05:13 AM
2

Under rated comment right here! +1 for OP
/r/askTRP02/04/21 12:23 AM
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This one time I told a girl I pretty much was always the "other guy", not necesarily something I was proud of, but that's how my life played out. Then she was like "I've only been the other woman once, and you're the first and only man I've seen that made me cheat with my boyfriend, but all my other relationships were stable. Anyway, I don't know why I'm telling you this ..." Me: because you like me. Her: No I don't, and I will never be in a relationship with you. (proceeds to rant 15 mins on th…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:58 AM
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Yup, this and them thinking having a high body count is a good thing , sighs in womanese.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:43 AM
1

Nope. Instant make out success has been rare these days but definitely still happened in the pre-covid era (so yeah essentially the rule is to get her number at the end of the night ONLY if something physical/sexual has happened). I guess the main point here is that I have no interest in asking for a girls number if I don't get to that point with them. I value my time too much to play games with random girls, or to be put on hold. The irony is that girls pick up on this, and if they feel the int…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:11 AM
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Wrong, I do. But you just gotta know when things flow or if the chick is being polite. Saves time for everyone.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:02 PM
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The older you grow you realize that everything is easier alone: meeting new people, picking up girls, having fun. Going out alone > going out with buddies (Of course you should still go out with your buddies, but the goal should be bro-fun, not some masqueraded pick up strategy to meet women)
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:51 PM
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This is the answer
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:48 PM
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My rule is to not ask a girl for her number unless we've at least made out. Usually if you're playing your cards right, they'll give you their number.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:41 PM
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Yup learning to let go here is important. Been there done that. +1 to you OP, you got this!
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:58 AM
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Best is to just play it cool as if she's missing out on you. Important to not act but hurt and do what you want. If you want to hang out with your friends do it, if no then no. If it's too awkward just slowly leave your friend group. Life's too short to feel uncomfortable or awkward when there's a bunch of (new) awesome people who want to hang out with you. If you feel too awkward ghosting the girl and want to be a gentlemen go with the classic: "You know what, I'm also not feeling it right now …
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:05 AM
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Echoing many comments here: She likely had a boyfriend, is engaged or has a husband. Been there done that. You played all your cards right OP. +1 for you.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:17 AM
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+1 for this. If OP went on a 15 km walk with a chick and didn't get a kiss then it's almost over for him unless he doesn't go full send in this upcoming date!
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:12 AM
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Agree and Amplify. Never fails for these situations.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:57 PM
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I achieved top 0.001% after 15 years in the making. Started young (at 15). Truth is, at the end you don't really care about getting laid, and only want to leave a legacy that is larger than life and help others do the same.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 06:11 AM
1

All wrong answers here. The right answer: It doesn't matter. High value men will probably be too busy shooting the shit between each other, that banging one chick does not make a difference in their life.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:23 AM
2

Under-rated advice right here
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:29 AM
1

"Hey, had fun with you the other day! You should stop by on Wednesday for dinner and a movie! I'm making pasta" And then go all the way if she says yes. If she doesn't respond or is flakey: abort mission and don't respond to her in a month, or ever really.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 03:56 AM
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Dude you are actually right. This is the best answer. Bitches go crazy when they can't figure out why you're not butthurt -- as if they made this huge mistake.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:11 AM
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This one is actually pretty good haha
/r/askTRP09/03/21 08:10 AM
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"Coming over and not having sex is actually a red flag. It means that she's comfortable with you but that she is also thinking about using sex as a control mechanism to get what she wants (rather than being truly attracted to you). So as I said, one more chance and if it doesn't escalate, just next." My dude, this has to be one of the best advices I've ever heard in the community. Has happened twice and those chicks were nutjobs, while the others who put out first night were actually super cool …
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:53 AM
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Confidence and arrogance are orthogonal to each other. Arrogance shows insecurity. The Optimal sweet spot is to be charming, confident and humble.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:24 AM
2

You'll never make dream-like money if you just think about money. Most high earning people earn as much as they do and are in the top 1% because they love what they do. Money is not the goal, it is the consequence.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:33 AM
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This is the answer
/r/askTRP13/02/21 11:43 PM
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Incorrect. You are assuming being an 'alpha man' implies that the number one priority is to get laid at all costs (the view of a high schooler). Getting laid is the consequence/side-effect of personal and professional realization -- which in the context of the pandemic is where most time of intelligent men should be spent on. In RP terms: monk-mode now, women later.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:12 AM
-4

No, you've officially failed as a red piller if the only thing you're thinking about is getting laid during a pandemic.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:21 AM
0

The fact that many of you are thinking about getting laid during a pandemic shows that you have failed as TRPiller in not caring about women and being needy.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:15 AM
1

If you're attracting trash girls, it's likely because you're trash. Best piece of advice is to stop thinking about chicks and work in yourself for a couple of years
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:32 AM
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Plot twist: By trying NOT to be funny
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:29 AM
3

Congratulations, Welcome to Adulthood 👏
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:50 AM
20

Nailed it. True Alpha are usually calm and poised.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 08:03 AM
0

100% this!
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:16 PM
0

+1
/r/askTRP19/09/20 10:53 PM
15

As much as I'd want to say you're wrong, you are right
/r/askTRP16/09/20 08:23 AM
1

Text next morning (if sex) or that night if just a date that you had fun. Some bitches be crazy like my baby girl Amber Turd, so better to play safe, than to act all cool and get the girl insecure leading her to make up twisted shit if she feels used.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 07:47 AM
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The real MVP right here
/r/askTRP03/09/20 07:43 AM
7

If you can't solve the problem or ignore it, then walk away with her (from the teens) in a playful manner
/r/askTRP02/09/20 10:39 PM
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This is the answer. Been there done that.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:43 AM
1

Yup, long post = oneitis
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:41 AM
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My dude this is the worst, this has actually become a thing now! (Also with girls who cheat on their boyfriends) Eyes open my friends!
/r/askTRP28/08/20 06:12 AM
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Some of these girls have low self esteem. It's possible you do as well. Stay safe out there and be careful!
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:38 AM
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Oneitis
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:48 AM
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Under-rated advice right here!
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:35 AM
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"Only on Tuesdays" You're welcome.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:25 AM
1

But how about HIV?
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:13 AM
5

"Only on Tuesdays"
/r/askTRP15/08/20 08:49 AM
-5

We are in the middle of a pandemic for fucks sake, and here you are posting about traveling to try to bang chicks...
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:52 AM
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This is the answer
/r/askTRP27/07/20 10:42 PM
1

Actually guy B. Guy A goes to jail for harassment.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 07:45 AM
2

The goal is not to become a douchebag. That is not alpha, that is douchebag. The goal is to become someone with a strong personality who follows his goals and has high levels of respect towards himself and others. This community is plagued with a bunch of poser Chad's who think being a douchebag gets you laid. It might (and usually with 6's), but it won't take you anywhere in life. The guys who score 10s and 11s are actually really fun and nice dudes.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:48 AM
1

Damn dude, that wisdom right here
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:59 AM
5

Lots of wisdom in this comment. Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:11 AM
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"Run, run Simba, and never look back!"
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:10 AM
5

OP does this, and 1 month later we hear about him on the news with a new #justiceforOP hashtag
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:04 AM
1

Well, we're in the middle of a pandemic so you should really not be putting all your eggs in a basket!
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:48 AM
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'Nice' is a terrible expression/misnomer. You can be nice and are supposed to be, what you can't be is a pushover. Everyone on this sub thinks that they should flat out act like a dick on purpose and screwover their friends, backstab society as a whole, and disrespect women just to get laid. And if that works, congratulations 🎉, you just hooked up with a girl with low self esteem! The whole: "I iz m0ar alpha the more of a doUchebag-Chad I Am". Wrong, these people end up alone, in prison and with…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:35 AM
1

Hey man I'm all for following dreams. You should study the paths other DJs have also taken. Look at what Steve Aoki did, he DJ'ed at college as a starting point too, then went pro. But whether you drop out or not -- interioirze that you will have to give 200%, not 100%. Not just dicking around an hour a day, but staying up till 3am and not going out on weekends because you have to work on your music P.S.: Don't pay attention to all the clowns who tell you to play it safe here and live the rest o…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:59 AM
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Orthogonal point: computer science and programming are not the same thing. I could argue that many of the best computer scientists don't know how to program, and many great programmers never took a CS class.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 08:01 PM
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The real problem would be if you lived forever. THEN your life would actually have no meaning.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:51 AM
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This is the answer
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:22 PM
3

💯
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:29 AM
3

"That's what all the crazy girls say. Ttyl!" You're welcome
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:41 AM
-1

This isn't highschool. The 1 line summary of both is: Don't be a pushover and stop being a dick.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:40 AM
3

This is the answer
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:26 AM
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You've missed an important insight which is that friendship should never be looked for (like girlfriends/relationships) , they should be developed organically. You'll make friends on your way to achieving your goals. The other lesson here is: talk to people, but don't make any acquaintance your friend. With regards to reaching the top alone: That is the reality of things. You will have to leave many friends along the way and create new ones as you accend -- not because you are better than your p…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:19 AM
1

Yup, good perspective, just wanted to give a word of caution for readers who think RP is about screwing ppl over to get higher in the social latter (or to make friends to prove you have status, vs make friends because you actually care about these people). The latter (you care for them and they care for you) is how it should be!
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:39 AM
1

This is the answer
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:24 AM
1

"my main goal is to build my social proof" -- Red flag for OP. Social proof is built optimally when you don't care about it. This isn't highschool (hopefully) where people go around bullying and one-ing each other up. Find your community of people that you genuinely enjoy spending time with. Social proof is a consequence of social mastery, which itself is a consequence of being around people -- ideally those who share the same values as you.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:21 AM
1

Haven't read the entirety post but I feel like you are confusing actually "not giving a fuck" vs making it look like you "don't give a fuck". Trying to be someone you are not is usually a turnoff or comes off as bizarre.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:11 AM
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Unpopular opinion: People who want to retire early usually hate their job. Why would you want to stop doing what you love, be the best in the world at it, and try not get paid as soon as possible? Just to 'relax forever in the Bahamas'? -- You'll get pretty bored from that after a month
/r/askTRP14/06/20 11:17 PM
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No. What is up with this whole highschool mentality of: "I is alpha male the more of a narcissist douchebag I am lolz. All nice guys are bEta and finish last brO."
/r/askTRP14/06/20 10:45 PM
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Investing as other people have commented is a good idea, but in general I'm against the whole: "I want to make as much money as possible with minimal effort (because I'm a lazy fuck, rather than because I want to be optimal)". I read a bunch of people here talking about "this is the alpha mindset: screwing people over and getting rich and fucking bitches". Are you guys like in high school or something? Become a professional athlete, start your own business, become an artist, become a lawyer. Cho…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:12 PM
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Btw, going from web development to AI without knowing mathematics or statistics is a big leap of faith. To OP: don't confuse being a programmer with being a computer scientist, they're two different things. Programmers get paid up to 50k a year. Computer scientists (who happen to know how to program) can get up to 200k easy.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:31 AM
1

Oneitis. Move on. Don't be the first to express feelings unless it's obvious she likes you and you guys are banging for months.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 07:13 AM
1

Wrong answer. You pick a martial art that endures you mentally not physically. Testosterone is nothing without a strong mind.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:31 AM
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Exaggerated example: you bang 10s in high school, are prom king, but are unemployed and in jail due to drug abuse by 30 vs banging 10s at your late 20's being in shape, making 6 figures and overall being a nice well-rounded person. This shit happens.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:35 PM
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All good advice here, but overall be careful and don't peak to soon. Men are supposed to peak by 30 not 21. So make intelligent long term and short term decisions.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:07 PM
1

Unpopular opinion: Don't shit where you eat is actually a terrible rule. I'm all for RP mindset in general, but most happily married couples: overlapped or met at work, school or through mutual friends. Don't shit where you eat really only applies if you're looking for one night stands or quick fixes. You have to be an idiot to bang your best friends sister just because you got hot headed vs actually developing a relationship over time where you're both mature enough to give things a shot knowin…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:03 PM
2

Siddhartha by Herman Hesse Also side note: RP is neither optimistic nor pessimistic, it is realistic. One can view this reality in a positive or negative way
/r/askTRP30/05/20 09:42 PM
2

I think you should just talk to your buddy only if you're really close. Just to give him a "heads up". If not too close, then not worth it. Talk will backfire specially if he's BP or not mature at all.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:58 PM
2

Been there done that. Best is to do no contact for ~ 3 months and check up with chick to see what's up. If she confronts about cheating and "wants to be friends", you tell her that's exactly what you had in mind as there's a lot going on with life. She usually gets jealous/upset as her plan backfires since she expected you to go all emotional over her when she tries to friendzone you, and you warp it into what you actually wanted. Be careful with 'confused' chicks, they're Amber Heard level dang…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:33 AM
2

Nothing better than texting her the good 'ol: "Ya was about to text you the same thing! A big hug! " The pain in her soul will be unbearable. She'll text back in a Month
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:42 AM
1

That wisdom!
/r/askTRP22/05/20 07:45 AM
3

mAh dude this answer wins
/r/askTRP20/05/20 09:12 AM
2

Texting is for boys. Calling is for men.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:09 AM
1

This is the answer
/r/askTRP17/05/20 03:05 AM
3

Probably true. Have met many couples who've had threesomes, the sex is epic but the relationship never ends well. (Even if you're one of those retarded poly hipsters)
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:29 AM
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Those who travel alone travel faster. The reality is that the top 0.01% is doing what nobody else is. They're not playing video games or getting drunk every Wednesday. They don't really care about getting laid either, they just work to be the best at whatever they do everyday. The new group of friends (and the girls) will come naturally if you do what you love. Just don't do the whole " I'm joining a book club or going to bars every night to get laid or make friends'" thing. You'll only waste yo…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 07:26 AM
3

I wouldn't go that far. But maybe add something around the lines of " I don't want to have to talk to the land lord about this. Thanks for understanding man" and say it in a calm tone.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:09 AM
4

By telling stories, but by having them too!
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:43 PM
5

I love it when women say they are "confused", it's the expression they use these days for "rolling balls deep in the feels for a dude".
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:41 PM
2

Extreme of alpha is not violent, it's diplomatic and having charisma. The violent alpha is a high schooler misperception of manliness.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 10:10 PM
1

Damn dude this is the best analogy I've read in TRP in the last year. +1.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:44 AM
3

"Improvise, adapt, overcum."
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:41 AM
1

This, but also could be that she had a BF and didn't tell OP. Regrets "cheating".
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:50 PM
1

Child support is coming for OP!
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:20 PM
1

Ya sounds like OP is a bit insecure. Yo, you got this may dude!
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:18 PM
2

This answer wins
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:16 PM
17

By the end of the night there's a high expectation of "something happening"-- Which in turn increases the pressure and the likelihood of failure and for her to fling. Most of the times I failed it's because I waited too long that the window of opportunity had already closed and going in just felt un-natural or too forced. On the flip side there's girls I pulled in and stole kisses from while we're laughing half way through the night (which is borderline inappropriate these days but I honestly do…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:15 AM
1

Practice, and being yourself.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:08 AM
7

Always go for it. But never at the end of the night! Even if it ends in a rejection (gives you the cheek) it shows you have balls and you usually get an easy lay the next time you see her if she agrees.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 08:03 AM
1

Amen brother
/r/askTRP02/05/20 08:24 PM
1

Da faq. Be yourself. If you're going to pretend someone you're not just to get laid' you're going to come off as a try hard loser. I've acted like a goofball without losing frame most of my life and pulled dimes. The key thing here is to not be a pushover. There's nothing wrong with being funny. Girls dig that shit.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:11 AM
1

If there's something I learned too late in life it's that you should ask a girl out "on a date". You just ask her if she wants to hang out. No pressure, you keep it ambiguous, and you go in for the kill if the mood is right.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:05 AM
7

+1 and Same. I had a friend who hated going down on his girlfriends. Don't mean to sound like a dick to my buddy: but I later realized why: they were all 6's or below. I hope OP doesn't have the same problem.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:59 AM
1

Plot twist: She could have the Corona.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:52 AM
2

This right here
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:02 AM
1

Being an asshole 'because this is the way to get laid' is the game of those of inferior intelligence and lack of confidence. It works on fat chicks and 7's and below and only up until you're in college, or 24 max. Look at the guys who pull 11s, they're gentlemen. Be a gentleman.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:02 AM
1

"only on weekends"
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:56 AM
1

Plot twist: LTR material's reply would have been no reply.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 08:27 AM
1

If your only definition of success is banging hot chicks, something's wrong.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:09 PM
1

+1: The advice we need but don't like to hear.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:49 AM
0

Hahaha
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:43 AM
1

Asshole game is the way of the uncivilized and uneducated. Be a leader. Assholes don't have friends, don't get anywhere in life past college and only bang 6's. Leaders bang 10's without even trying. Plot twist: you can be nice without being a pushover.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:00 AM
1

That's why you say 11
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:54 AM
1

If you have balls you can say anything you want. You fail the test if you tell her any number between 1 and 10. By giving her a 1 it shows no confidence. 10 means she's got you. It's a lose lose situation unless you say 11. Sometimes saying a "probably a solid 8" or "8.5" works too. Only say 11 if she's a 10 btw! #stayindoors
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:53 AM
1

11
/r/askTRP22/03/20 12:45 AM
1

Yes, it's called working on something you like and being the best in the world at it so that work becomes play and you do it everyday because it's become your life
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:14 AM
1

When the wave of your life comes your way -- be sure to go full send and take it even if you wipe out
/r/askTRP15/01/20 07:19 AM
1

This is the answer.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 06:48 AM
4

Yup, she's confused and might swing to you. Be prepared
/r/askTRP22/12/19 01:12 AM
1

This right here!
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:48 PM
15

Made my day
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:19 AM
8

This may actually be one of the most wise comments in the thread.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 10:53 PM
1

Protip: If you have to ask yourself if you should ghost her, you probably should.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 10:50 PM
1

"Nice"
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:54 AM
2

Last line is gold.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:48 AM
1

Hahaha. This guy!
/r/askTRP28/11/19 07:25 AM
1

This is the answer.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:03 AM
2

A moment of silence. I hate when this happens.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:23 AM
1

This is the answer
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:14 AM
2

Interesting alternative scenario all the keyboard ninjas haven't considered: Jasmine does indeed like you. Whether this is true or not, when asked by other colleagues what you think of her you say "she's aight"(indifference) or "11/10" (exaggerating playfully). Can't emphasize this enough but: DON'T TELL OTHER PEOPLE AT WORK ABOUT HER. PRETEND SHE DOESN'T EXIST AND FRIEND ZONE HER. IF SHE WANTS THE D SETUP SOMETHING PRIVATE, or even better: have her set it up and move fast in a night. When you b…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 07:08 AM
12

Been there done that. The painting naked game doesn't work. You have her over, tell her to have drinks at your studio and smoke a bit. Talk, make a move, bang her. You paint her the next morning.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:57 AM
1

This guy gets it 💯
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:04 AM
8

There is also an option D: when they tell you they have a bf in a challenging way to see if you know how to play your cards right. At that point you still go in for the kill as she's ready to branch swing.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:04 PM
2

This is the answer
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:37 PM
4

This is the answer. Put her in her place.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:24 AM
3

My man right here.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:43 AM
2

False premise. You have to sacrifice time and put in the effort and sacrifice to be world class. No Easy way like that passive income bullshit. You really have to find something you really like and be the best in the world in it -- not half way. Money, women, travelling, experiences and high quality life and friendships comes as a side effects of excelling in your craft.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:41 AM
2

+1 but still disagreeing here. You also don't want to seem as someone who always seems to be overly dominant. Do 80-20 or 70-30. Give them the benefit of the doubt.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:37 AM
2

Disagree. There will always be someone better. Self confidence is more important.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 06:34 AM
2

Why does your LTR shit test you 3-4 times a day? That sounds like an unhealthy relationship. I have zero tolerance for bullshit, I'd dump her. The other dude isn't the problem, your LTR is.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:06 AM
2

Exactly. Wingmen should be of equal to similar ranks.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 12:57 AM
1

I read the first paragraph and I'm surprised by all the bullshit responses from everyone here. It seems obvious that your buddy gropped your other buddy's gf. Why did he do that? I have no idea. Is it innapropriate? Yes. Should he be exiled? Yes. Should he be considered back in the group? Only if he apologizes. All you pricks not taking action/responsibility if the same thing happened to your gf are the reason women came up with this whole toxic masculinity bullshit. Imagine if your best friend …
/r/askTRP07/10/19 04:43 AM
1

This is the answer.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:32 AM
-3

I'd just start by pushing him. Then when it's on you do your BJJ.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:15 PM
2

There's no shortcuts in life. To be world class: you have to put in the hours and be willing to sacrifice other pleasures and aspects of the mundane that normal people have.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:40 AM
2

Twist plot: it's easier to get a taken girl than a single one.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:58 AM
1

Oneitis
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:57 AM
3

There is also something inmate about people biological clocks. Some are night owls and some morning birds. You can't force one into another.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:51 AM
1

Correction: Fullfillment vs Happinesses
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:32 AM
1

"I'm 'aight"
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:30 AM
5

My man!
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:29 AM
0

This guy gets it. +1
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:25 AM
5

True RP is about being a person of higher purpose in life, not being a douchebag/asshole who pretends he ignores women or treats them like shit just to get laid.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:37 PM
1

The problem is you are good with hanging out with ok-ish friends. Life is a winner takes all game. In my opinion I'd rather not go out and read a book, or fly solo, rather than hang out with "ok-ish friends"
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:11 PM
1

Some people's biological clock are just different. The whole wake up at 4 am to be feel like a marine high on testosterone is bullshit. People's natural productivity timeline varies. For some it's mornings, for others it's nights. Find yours. I wake up at 10 am everyday and go to bed at 2 am.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 05:52 AM
6

This may be one of the most epic things I've read in this entire sub.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:02 AM
1

But do you know she gets sexual? I mean I'm no expert, but in my experience it's usually the girls who talk a lot who aren't that sexual (or are just trying to play) -- and the shy ones who pretend they're Virgins which are actually the kinkiest/most horny.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:30 AM
2

Sounds like the girl might be a first timer or has a boyfriend. Reminds me of this one girl I went out with when I was 21 and she was 19. She had a boyfriend. Always lots of foreplay and sensual kissing and touching but no sex.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:13 AM
6

Exactly. You're reafirming it's her the one that doesn't know what she's doing, and that you are actually playing the right move.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:11 AM
6

Her: what are you doing? You: what are YOU doing?
/r/askTRP01/09/19 11:53 PM
1

This is the answer.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 05:25 AM
0

No such thing as hb6. Hbs are 8 and above.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 11:46 PM
7

"Best friends stab each other in the chest."
/r/askTRP08/08/19 12:15 AM
1

Shit test. Been there done that.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:37 AM
3

Same reasons they like snowboarders and surfers. They are in a state of constant flow and master their body by pushing the limits during risky activity (doing jumps, getting barreled) -- which is correlated with risk taking behaviour/confidence. I don't buy that whole bad boy drug-addict bullshit. Guys like that are for low self esteem women. The attractiveness in this group of people is that they're usually very relaxed, are in peak physical shape, and show prowess/connection with nature.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:51 AM
0

Have no idea why the BJJ and being ripped part at the beginning was included ...
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:40 AM
1

What's up with all this 'get into sales' bullshit, (because that's what risk takers do?). Do what makes you happy man, join an improv club if you want to be more chatty, or join a club/hobbie but don't switch jobs just to get laid or rich.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 06:14 AM
1

Try literally just going out to a bar by yourself just to make friends and not bang any chicks. The female pull will surprise you.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 05:57 AM
1

Never settle down or be a conformist, that's the true attitude of losers. Keep going hard!
/r/askTRP26/07/19 04:14 AM
1

It's a good one but sometimes can come off as insecure ( depends on your frame). Another personal favorite is "more than you"
/r/askTRP26/07/19 02:32 AM
5

Crabs in a bucket. People hate seeing other people progress. As long as you are respectful with them all good. Keep doing you man!
/r/askTRP14/07/19 01:04 AM
6

Damn so much wisdom in this post
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:13 AM
0

WTF, why would you want to be a dick? You can be aggressive and dominant without being disrespectful.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 01:19 AM
3

I second this. I went through exactly the same. Text her after a week or something and pretend nothing happened. Just don't beg her for sex or to hangout. Be like the frog in the pond and wait for her to come around and then strike again -- although ultimately I'd recommend you see other girls. She'll show up again. Keep her as a plate max.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:15 PM
1

Took me 10 years. Just treat them like regular people.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 07:09 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:42 AM
3

Went through similar boat with a girl once. Deleted her number and stopped talking to her ( I actually did reject the friendship proposal which in hindsight is easier said than done). At first was win-win for both of us, but after 3 months she started coming back ironically around the time I started seeing someone else. Just move on, find another girl and then wait for the moment to have her invite herself over to your place or to go out for drinks and strike again if that's what you want. Plate…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:27 PM
43

Going with a friend is a trap. No motivation exists to meet new people. Flying solo also shows confidence.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 03:55 PM
3

Been there done that. You have to realize that paying for sex is like using cheat codes in a video game and winning. You're truly not and deserve better. Cut full contact on strip clubs and brothels and try making female friends without the need to look for a girlfriend (probably the most anti RP thing to say but I think it applies for this case). This will teach you about how to respect women and not purely treating them as objects. Girlfriends will come naturally later.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 05:19 AM
1

You just say what's up and smile confidently. Pretty simple but takes years to master.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 05:14 AM
34

Stare at him awkwardly whenever he says something stupid. My other favorite is calling him out on being a dick in a playful way. Something like "it's ok dude, there's no need to be a dick, you can be polite, we're all adults here-- this isn't high school". Then just giggle and talk to him in a respectful tone. In general you don't want to seem as you're competing with him. That makes you weak. Your frame should be that you're both working together and that's he acting all juvenile for whatever r…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 05:09 AM
2

Flying solo generally better at a bar, although you could pull it off at a club. Just literally have to have a good time on your own and talk to strangers in a casual way and you should be fine. Don't get trapped by your phone though!
/r/askTRP12/06/19 11:24 PM
1

Paragraph 2 and 3 are good. But 1 is off. If you're not working everyday on something you truly believe will make a difference in the world then you are just existing, not living. Ex: People always say " when I retire I will finally be able to travel the world". Sure but flying solo at 20 vs flying solo at 60 is beyond comparison ( both with pro's and con's).
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:55 AM
2

This line is money
/r/askTRP05/06/19 05:24 AM
1

Be the best than anyone else at something. The rest follows naturally.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:16 AM
3

You're doing it wrong. Go there regularly but have a good time by yourself whether that means eating/working alone or just saying hi to a stranger ( I rarely talk to strangers there but once in a while great opportunities happen. Don't be the creepy guy who tries hard to make friends). Don't force friendships. These things take time. Experience: knowing all the owners, baristas and art curators of the coffee shops I go to and being friends with them. I mean for the owner it literally took me abo…
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:09 AM
2

Asking a girl kills the mood and rarely works
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:44 AM
1

100 percent this
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:40 AM
1

Super deep
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:22 AM
5

Dude, you smooth bra
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:25 AM
1

Oneitis
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:08 AM
1

Hahaha
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:57 AM
6

Damn son you win the internet today.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:20 PM
3

OP also failed to understand that SMV is much more than height, facial features and bank account balance Haha my man!
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:57 AM
3

Brace yourselves, 'the talk' is coming.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:55 AM
1

Good analysis and points. Hmm maybe suggest to meet up but not immediately. Something like " hey I'm wrapping some stuff at work, busy week, but we should hang out next week!". Do this ONLY if you like her. I've encountered a fair amount of crazy chicks that bombard my phone and I'd rather not bang them because I know how they get if I did, and I hate drama. But it's true -- going full send after a one night stand is kinda surreal and fishy after the radio silence. Tough call. Would you say she'…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:13 AM
1

Op don't fuck it up: She's clearly interested and you already banged her. There's no point in playing hard to get after you guys have had sex IF you like her. She wanted to meet and you're like " yeah whatever". I mean you only have the luxury to say that if you just wanted to bang her once, but it seems like you both like each other so no point in confusing her or yourself more. My suggestion would be to meet up again and keep banging her. But don't sound over-invested when you invite her for r…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 02:00 AM
1

"Nice! Yeah just don't be late, see you at 8!"
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:28 AM
2

Real MVP 👌
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:58 AM
1

She has a Boyfriend
/r/askTRP15/03/19 02:24 AM
1

The dude's 15, let him make mistakes. If I were you I'd lead by example.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:50 AM
7

The problem here is you are trying to become successful/get laid/get jacked/look good/have money/have status/be smart/ be charismatic/ to get OTHERS people approval rather than your just your own. I'm disagreeing with all the answers saying that it's about continually working on 'self-improvement". That's bullshit if your mindset is still to find other people's approval rather than your own. Self improvement is a necessary but not sufficient condition for self fullfilment and realization.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 12:07 AM
1

Amazing first sentence
/r/askTRP01/03/19 05:11 AM
1

Yes you do get paid to study/ do research. It's called research assistantships vs teaching assistantships.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:33 PM
4

A PhD is free, in fact, You get paid to do one. Answering here as someone who has one. Do it if you like learning. A PhD is literally getting a degree by getting paid through studying. It will take you 5 years though. Also contrary to most of the uninformed answers here, there are two degree routes: clinical ( essentially diagnosing people as a doctor) and research/academic (making discoveries and theories about the brain and mind)
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:38 AM
3

" Ah, I see we share the same misfortune" . Give her a wink.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:44 PM
2

I've got too many plants, too many art supplies, too many instruments, too many books, a done deal if a woman comes over now. Dat confidence
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:31 AM
2

She's crazy. Don't respond.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:30 AM
1

Having an extremely tidy or extremely messy room is a red flag. If you think you need to wash the sheets wash them independent of outcome. You room should look like things are happening
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:45 PM
3

It is what it is. Happened to a friend of mine who is a model as well. Happened to me a lot too when I was starting out and in retrospect it was because I came off as desperate. I think your approach might be the problem. Just walk in confidently and smile. Practice going to bars alone instead and make small take with strangers while you have a beer. It'll help you spot what's off.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:31 PM
2

Had her naked but I wanted to take things slow Dafaq
/r/askTRP29/01/19 02:08 AM
1

Gloryseeking is dangerous if you determine that your value depends on other people's perception. The most revolutionary and brilliant individuals did things because they loved doing it not because they wanted to be famous. Take scientists and athletes for example: They can work 10 hours a day everyday because they enjoy it and can't imagine any other goal other than discovering a phenomena or winning a world title. It is a consequence of this unmatchable passion that eventually leads them to bei…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 09:10 AM
1

Said that once. Girl went bonkers.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:39 AM
1

You become alpha the moment you stop hunting for women and men come to you for advice.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:32 AM
1

She already had you one the phone for 2 hrs??? You’ll be lucky if she picks it up again Haha damn son. That wisdom.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:30 AM
1

My bad. I still think it still creeps girls a bit specially if they're seeing someone in parallel ( as you could post it on social media). Some girls also in general don't like getting pictures taken of themselves even if it's with a guy they like because they're super sensitive about how good/bad they look. This has happened to me twice with cute 9's who had boyfriend's.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:26 AM
2

I like to stare at them and smile in a playful way until they ask 'do I know you?'
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:23 AM
1

1) Never take pictures with a girl before sex. 2) Have girls take selfies with YOU instead. Just saw the edit. Even if you already banged her ,she should upload and take the pics, not you. It makes you seem desperate if you take pics early on. Or is seeing Chad on the side /has a boyfriend
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:20 AM
2

Solid answer right here 👌
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:16 AM
1

My first one night stand happened my first week at graduate school. I walked into an undergraduate co-op house party with some friends and we were all having a good time and getting hammered with all the girls. We started pairing up and dancing with the girls and I made out with one of them 1 minute into the dance. 5 mins later we we're making out heavily outside, and then she told me we should go back to my place. Banged her twice that night. Solid 8. I'm a pretty average looking guy, but my ga…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 03:07 AM
1

I wouldn't do that. That's kinda sketchy. If you're 23 have her over and just cook for her. No point in pretending you are someone you are not. That's a pretty obvious weakness. I've had a lingerie model at my place when I still lived with my parents. I was around 20 she was 19. Just do your thing and then take her to your room. It's actually easier because you have an obvious excuse to take her somewhere else where no one else is watching (vs just not knowing how to move from dinner table to be…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:45 PM
1

The whole problem with this is that MANY times, even VERY hot women don't see themselves that way and have serious self esteem issues. True. Which is why my definition of 10 goes beyond pure physical/sexual appearance but other factors as well such as confidence & personality. I've seen stunners who are just boring or rude that in my mind I don't consider them a 10. I actually have a joke with some friends about girls like that and we assign them negative numbers '-9' for example. Beautiful but …
/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:49 PM
2

The whole problem with this is that MANY times, even VERY hot women don't see themselves that way and have serious self esteem issues. True. Which is why my definition of 10 goes beyond pure physical/sexual appearance but other factors as well such as confidence & personality. I've seen stunners who are just boring or rude that in my mind I don't consider them a 10. I actually have a joke with some friends about girls like that and we assign them negative numbers '-9' for example. Beautiful but …
/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:45 PM
2

While being alpha makes you attractive to women, you do not need to fuck women to be alpha. Deep and true.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:37 AM
2

Nine and a half weeks. Don Juan de Marco. Casanova.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:35 AM
67

You do exactly what you're thinking you should not do.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 09:33 AM
1

no, chick... "you don't want to LIVE alone!" Very well put!
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:15 AM
1

Exactly. Stalling and pulling in the barrel.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:11 AM
2

Suppose the question was how to ignore the fact that a man in a social setting is highly intelligent (let's give it a number like an equivalent 10). You dont. They know they are smart and don't need to prove it unlike insecure 7's who are condescending. When talking to a highly intelligent man you realize in the first minute he is of that level and you don't try to put him down because you usually can't, and even if you try it doesn't matter because he knows how smart he is. The best thing to do…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:10 AM
1

Art Museums my man. You're Welcome.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 03:26 AM
-3

Protip: You must embrace her beauty rather than ignoring it.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 03:23 AM
3

So it seems to me that you're too worried about what 8/10 might think if you did what you should have done, which was tell Miss Piggy to step off. I'd have stopped her, asked if if we knew each other, asked her if I had invited her to sit down with us, and when she answered "No" to both, I'd have said, "Then perhaps you should get up and leave, by which I mean 'Leave.'" This. It's actually optimal to be agressive in these situations
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:32 PM
2

Figure out why you get nervous. Its commonly because you run out of things to say. Learn to enjoy being silent and staring at each other in a charmful way. Usually smooth eye contact and smiling helps a lot.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:55 PM
2

They're usually nervous because you're nervous
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:27 AM
2

Source: -> Happened to me once Happened to me today bra
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:21 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:18 AM
2

If I had a dollar for every time I've seen a fella doing good with a women while early in the night only to absolutely blow it up like the fucking death star because he kept pouring the alcohol down his throat, id be rich. My past self included. This
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:03 PM
1

The Demon Haunted World by Carl Sagan
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:35 PM
1

Hahaha this
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:23 AM
1

I'm still worried about somebody taking my idea, since you can't patent an idea. Easiest way to spot a novice in business and academia is reluctance to share ideas.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:22 AM
1

I just read somewhere in the comments that your real passion is robotics. As someone who has a PhD in robotics, my advice for you is to not dropout from high school. Get a PhD and then start your own company. Look at the CEO's of Deepmind and Boston Dynamics.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:51 AM
12

Leave her on seen
/r/askTRP24/01/19 05:53 AM
2

You really just have to practice. Challenge yourself to always make the other person look away first for both guys and girls, friends and strangers
/r/askTRP23/01/19 11:13 PM
1

Remember that time as a kid when you believed in Santa Claus?
/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:46 AM
1

Shit test.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:44 AM
1

Wisdom right here!
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:03 PM
4

Didn't read, I'm guessing oneitis. My man!
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:20 PM
1

Can you internalize that mate guarding makes you less attractive and makes what you’re trying to avoid more likely to happen? Can't agree more. This backfired to me once from personal experience. Had I just ignored the chick and gotten hammered with my buddies things would have continued as if nothing happened. Girls getting all flirty with other dudes/even your buddies is the classic shit test.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 06:40 AM
2

My own personal opinion, RP theory aside is that these types of women make great plates but shitty LTRs Wisdom right here.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 11:11 PM
1

Either way this will all come full circle to one question and one question only. 'Do you want to fuck a girl that initially nexted you?' You want us to answer this question for you. I'm not answering it. Can't agree more. +1
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:05 AM
2

An LTR is always about you being HER best option, so she keeps trying. It's about you knowing your self-worth and goals so you END the relationship when it doesn't achieve them Solid advice right here.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:01 AM
1

There's a fly in your ointment, and I suspect that you don't have your eye on the prize, you're content with getting the digits. Give your nuts a tug and go for what you want. This right here.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:56 AM
1

Reply with: "Do you know the story of the scorpion and the frog?" She says: " huh? No" You: " Cool, I'll explain it to you when I see you :)" Bang her. Tell her the story after sex. She'll get the hint of what you mean with the story ( look it up btw).
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:48 AM
1

Anytime a girl rejects a kiss (for whatever reason), the best thing to do is literally laugh at her like she's making a big mistake and to pretend it didn't happen and to KEEP GOING AT IT. Pull back and then escalate again and see how much you can push until the end of the night.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:02 AM
1

Or option d) she's two-timing you with Chad and testing who the more aggressive male is. Other reasons: She also might have a boyfriend you don't know of ( flirty and all that for fun but no sex implies no cheating in her mind) or could also be a virgin.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 03:15 AM
3

I always answer with my age. Ex: "25 years ago". Works like a gem as they start laughing when they get the joke.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 06:46 PM
1

I have seen this many times in academic settings and it goes only one in one of two ways: 1) you guys end up married and live happily ever after Or 2) your professional relationship gets completely destroyed as well as a remaining unhealthy shared office space with common friends/colleagues ( been there done that unfortunately) You must honestly ask yourself if your oneitis is worth marrying ( sigh, all oneitis are worth marrying for the naive observer). If not, purge your feelings. Keep the tal…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:08 AM
2

Wise words right here
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:56 AM
1

Agreed
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:51 AM
1

Throw parties at your place/dorm.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:48 AM
2

Damnson you right and cold.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:46 AM
1

Minimalist clothing
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:42 AM
1

Agreed! It's usually those that try to be popular that end up not being popular at all. The real word is about competence. Yup. Popularity is usually a side effect of being highly competent.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:38 AM
5

I can't even look at those pictures without picturing them sucking dick. Can confirm. Have a friend who bangs and gets head because of his (parents) yatch. He's 26.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:28 AM
3

You don't
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:26 AM
1

Never trust Facebook
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:24 AM
1

Agreeing with what you say. Though undoubtedly I would do this for a hard next . Soft next by definition are small punishments to re-establish frame around you, and with the end goal of keeping the LTR/plate. Pretty sure any self respecting man (after being turned down for another dude) would know how to say no to a chick who wanted to fuck all of a sudden when she can't find the D. It's the ultimate punishment: excluding her from your/the tribe.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:17 AM
1

T
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:28 AM
-2

Big fan of your general replies Vasily, but wanted to chime in. Mark Zuckerberg is a deca-billionaire and he married an HB5. Wrong. Priscilla is an 11, she played a pivotal role towards making Mark a billionaire by providing an actual stable relationship. Jeff Bezos is a centi-billionaire and he decided that hooking up with some 49 y.o. tranny-looking chick was worth 68.5B. Correct. That said, I enjoy doing what I do, banging girls in their 20s, traveling where and when I want, etc., etc. That c…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:30 AM
1

I'd like to help you out with some advice as per your previous post. I think you should put your hand on your chest and be as honest as possible with yourself and ask yourself: if you were to succeed at either one or the other ( but not both), which one are you willing to do such that the pursuit of greatness is worth the following: 1) Sacrifice time away from your friends, family, and relationships. 2) work 8-10 hours a day including weekends. 3) be willing to fail consistently as the stakes/co…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:45 AM
2

Response: " I thought you were a strong independent women who could do things on her own". Add a smirk.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:26 AM
1

True. If OP fucks up, then all the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays will be ruined for him in the next 20+ years.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 06:53 AM
1

Her flaking is a shit test, you responded and failed. Correct. Unfortunately, been there done that.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 06:51 AM
1

Treat her like a single girl. Can't be more true. Pretend the other guy does not exist.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 09:36 AM
1

"truth and time tells all"
/r/askTRP15/01/19 08:12 AM
8

Feels like she might want to make someone else jealous. Maybe she has a boyfriend you don't know of? Bang, but don't get attached. This is a tricky one.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:06 AM
4

All I can say is things will get better and it's not worth hanging out with people who treat you like shit( they are not your friends) Keep working on yourself, and focus on studying this semester. You'll meet new people on the way! It is natural to feel like somewhat sad when change is necessary.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:31 AM
1

Completely agree. Have done the same thing.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:12 AM
10

"Wait until you see me penis"
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:08 AM
1

Engineer here. Don't follow the herd unless you are absolutely convinced that a specific frat strongly resonates with your identity. Being friends with people in the Greek life is always a positive thing though. But back to square 1: if your goal is to join a frat just to get laid, you are doing it wrong. Join a club with a group of people who enjoy doing what you do (not just getting laid, though I understand it's college). Meeting women from there happens naturally -- and you will usually have…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:45 AM
2

I was in the same boat for painting, piano, acting and engineering when I was your age. I have a PhD in a STEM field and could not have picked better. There is a catch though. I enjoyed studying and staying up late every single night for the past 10 years (college + grad school) Do not pick you mission or profession based on money. You always hear people say: be a lawyer, doctor or programmer or get into the software business to make 6-7 figures. That is unfortunately incorrect. Only the top 0.1…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:25 AM
2

Just go sit at the bar alone and have a drink. Don't think about getting laid and conversations will happen naturally.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 07:06 AM
1

Sounds somewhat ironic but true
/r/askTRP12/01/19 07:04 AM
1

Then he's either extremely good with girls or gay . Rarely somewhere in between.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 07:00 AM
1

True.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:49 AM
2

You the real MVP man haha
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:46 AM
2

Chad is like Jesus. Nobody knows what he really looks like. Amen my friend
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:08 AM
4

Bad news, buddy. You are alone. Everybody is. My man right here.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:17 AM
1

Pheromones. Girls who like you will release a natural hypnotizing scent as a biological mating call. Whole those who don't will unconsciously smell like shit because they might not be into you if you're getting too physically close
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:10 AM
6

She hangs out with guys because she can't be friends with women, which usually means she isn't feminine (which is a loose term these days), can't be trusted (slut who fucks around) or is a giant bitch. Probably a combination of all three. On top of that she's either a fag hag (only able to keep around gay dudes as pets for her amusement), or all her guys friends are trying to bang her (orbiters) or she has banged them and friendzoned them and will fuck them drunk once and a while. Lots of widsom…
/r/askTRP10/01/19 12:55 AM
1

Just came here to post and say that I like your username lol
/r/askTRP10/01/19 12:50 AM
47

Most of my lays are solo bar trips, wing men only slow you down. Experience my friend, it takes time This guy knows what's up. Going bar solo shows massive balls and is not for the I'll hearted. Started doing it myself and have gotten naturally approached by guys and girls. Always had a good time.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 09:45 AM
2

"aye come ova now" Stealing this shit
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:49 AM
1

Or he does, and then moves out ( also a good outcome)
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:45 AM
1

Good call my man
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:42 AM
80

Tough one to get around without breaking the frame as she's pulling out the big one with a boyfriend card. I wouldn't respond after her upset rebuttal, and wait for her to call you. Invite her over casually when she calls.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:48 AM
1

You the real MVP
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:30 AM
10

The obvious one: Talk to them. Make mistakes. Get messy. You're young.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 09:25 AM
7

Agreed. Could actually work out on your favor
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:45 AM
6

Irrelevant. She could have HIV. Or you could and not be aware of it.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:26 AM
7

mah dude you should always wrap up.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:19 AM
0

I agree, but somehow the tone makes it read as if getting laid makes you 'the better man' in this situation and I disagree.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:35 AM
2

Not an expert, but: 1) sounds like you are getting emotionally attached. Nothing wrong if you guys already banged. 2) she likes you but might not be down to go the frat date as she doesn't want other people to know you guys are seeing each other. Don't think it's a shit test, she's probably thinking about it, or potentially evaluating other options/guys. I'd say keep hanging out/banging for another month and wait for her to express her feelings. Slowly start doing boyfriend things like making he…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:34 AM
5

An alpha is a leader, not a bully.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:24 AM
-20

You are unfortunately centering your vision of supremacy on who is getting laid. Respect both your mother and father. One day you might be in similar position to understand the decisions they made as well as their behavior.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 09:23 AM
20

Super deep and true.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:13 AM
2

I've been on the same boat. Continue working on you, spend less time with them. As you progress, they will notice and slowly join your journey, or stay where they are. Friendships never really officially end (vs relationships), it's just time spent that make friendships more or less intense. Sometimes spending less time with them is better " less is more". That's what I did, and they eventually starting growing up too. Look for other friends, or just spend more time in solitude -- a huge plus, b…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:45 AM
1

Lead through example and turn your friends into alpha
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:35 AM
1

" the balls will be in your court" haha literally my man
/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:30 AM
1

Dude you the man!
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:05 AM
1

Trust bro
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:02 AM
8

You win the internet today fine young man!
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:49 AM
2

Met a girl from in same situation once. Super hot French chick, and made out when we met in South America. Went to my hotel room and blue balled me and told me no sex. Indeed nothing happened. She then messaged me 1 month later to visit me while she was in the west coast. Just responded with a plain 'ok, but just for one night. I have some work to do that weekend.', because I knew nothing was going to happen. She came over, and I told her she could sleep on the couch. She asked me to show her my…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 08:27 AM
1

Stand up straight. Hold strong eye contact. Smile.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 07:26 AM
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