I met this girl on tinder and she played the innocent church girl. Her words are the polar opposite of her behaviors. I acted like a bad boy and she ended up talking about sex throughout the first date and I played it sexual until we fucked that first meet up.

She went through the craziest indecisiveness over the next few days I’ve ever seen and convinced herself she didn’t want to get involved with me. (I’m too bad for her) Basically rejecting me with her words but ready to meet up the next day still. She threw me through a loop that I accidentally got caught up in but she eventually said she wants to be friends without fucking.

I usually have success stating outright that I don’t want to be friends, so it’s understood we have a sexual relationship. I said “i want to have a romantic relationship or nothing at all”. I feel like she took that as if I want to be bf/gf or I’m out. She basically rejected that idea and said she doesn’t want romance with me and is sorry that won’t work with us. I feel like I should have accepted her “LJBF” because I can tell she still wants to fuck but wants to give us a G-rated label. Like she’s SAYING we’re only friends, but we’ll fuck when we meet.

After that weird fuck up where I said I won’t just be friends I ghosted her and she came crawling back texting me about meeting up and fucking. I know she wants sex but insists I accept her statement: “we’re meeting just as friends ok? No touching no fucking. Ok?”

It feels wrong to accept that shitty deal, but its only “words”. She’s notorious for saying things that don’t line up with her actions. Do I pretend to accept? Or set a boundary? I’m confused here. If I say “hey we’re fucking or I’m out” she’ll say ok then, goodbye.

Like she’s so “Christian “ she can’t verbally accept my terms. Do you have to play along with LJBF sometimes?