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Why doesn't being yourself work?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:57 AM
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but feel guilty afterwards Do women even feel guilt for hurting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:42 AM
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If “just be yourself and you’ll get the hot girl” isn't true, then what is? And what about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:42 AM
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Since when? I can't imagine frat bros and hot girls use Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:54 PM
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Ohh I see. So Obama also turned a % of the population liberal too? If “just be yourself and you’ll get the hot girl” isn't true, then what is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:53 PM
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Those are normies. Reddit is filled with normies because of smartphones. But wouldn't a normie think Reddit is "weird" because "it's for nerds"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:41 PM
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There is no bluepill What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:40 PM
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is the number on par with men who kill their wives for their mistresses? I've rarely heard that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:40 PM
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Can you elaborate on the significance of the dates and Obama I'm Canadian so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:34 PM
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Look up the women who sent all their money to some Nigerian prince Did the scammers pretend to be Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:26 PM
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HOW did a place like Reddit become full of liberal blue pilled guys? I would imagine Reddit would attract redpillers, but if I comment anything redpilled anywhere, I find an army of blue pilled guys commenting "OMG how can you say that!?" Wouldn't one expect blue pilled guys to be touching grass?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:16 PM
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How far would a woman go in betraying her man for Chad? When a woman cheats with Chad, she is betraying her husband romantically. That is bad enough But does it get worse? Can Chad make her do even more things like hurting him emotionally/physicall, killing him, giving all his money to Chad etc? Or will she at the end of the day say "I lust for you Chad, and it's bad enough I'm cheating, but I won't as far as doing all that because he's my husband and I love him"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:11 PM
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amazing women Do these even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:08 PM
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For sure, men are stupid for hot women, I never simp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:13 AM
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For sure, men are stupid for hot women, I never simp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:12 AM
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Giving "less fucks" really makes women want you more What are ways to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:07 PM
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The trick is to actually apply the stuff you read about lol, take what works and discard everything else. What things from Redpill do you like best?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:08 PM
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Fortunately, I have a number of female friends who aren't running around doing this shit, and I realized I was being an asshole by fucking around, so when I met the right person I got back to bluepill normie space. I need some reason to be bluepill :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:07 PM
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You accept women for what they are Hypergamous, bored easily, monkey branching I guess all men need to internalize: She ain't your's, it's just your turn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:17 PM
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just like men More than even
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:16 PM
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I see What are ways a boyfriend can do this with a girlfriend? And do women stay attracted from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:52 PM
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From the comments so far, it does work just don't lean too much into it In which ways does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:50 PM
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All the bad emotional things l've experienced has been over my bluepill thinking Like what blue pill things?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:50 PM
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Sometimes women use us as venting boards. Have you ever noticed that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:24 PM
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Their all different, and no codes, cheats, skills status, or money is ever a guarantee with woman What percent of women do you think will be tempted to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:23 PM
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They don't want to fix their issues, most of the times they just want to vent. So it's better to let them do it even if they are actually speaking to a wall. So it's attractive to girls when guys let them vent right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:21 PM
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What was the experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:18 PM
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Oh yeahh I've heard many guys try to find solutions So what happens when a guy gives a solution versus just listens?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:16 PM
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So what are some actual truths about women you have noticed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:15 PM
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I had success by applying the RP principle that says to treat/consider women as the oldest teenager in the house instead of a fully adult human being. This is interesting. What are some examples of this? Basically not taking her super seriously right? I heard women like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:14 PM
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The in 12 years the only thing RP has done is gotten perpetually online dudes to talk about the red pill online. Ngl I waste hours reading about this stuff and make no progress in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:56 PM
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Good, wbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:13 PM
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Hello
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:03 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:58 PM
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Because it is all or nothing in terms of men women choose. Hence the top 20% of men topic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 07:06 PM
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Can we men even tell what an attractive man is? Most of the time when straight men talk about a guy being good looking, we just find him cool looking. Hunter eyes, cool beard, abs etc. We judge certain guys as "ugly" when they don't have certain "cool" features. In reality, we don't know what makes an attractive man. Only women can answer that When we see: "Ugly guy, hot girl", we get surprised. But it's because we aren't attracted to men, but are attracted to women. So of course we see the woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 06:11 PM
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Then why do women leave their man if he looses his job?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:58 AM
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So do most women marry for love or money/status?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:36 AM
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However, it may be a good start to ask yourself why you don't believe it in the 1st place. I think it's social media mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:30 AM
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Okay my question is: Did you stay with him for true love or because you knew you guys will get back on your feet and he'll have money in a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:29 AM
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POLL TIME: A woman meets the love of her life, and they marry and become homeless together What would most women do: Be homeless with the love of her life Leave him and become rich (let's say a Chad offered to date her)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:24 AM
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And the guy doing stuff for her. When the guy needs something (either emotional or practical) female friends just sorta disappear Exactly!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:21 AM
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prey Prey?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:18 AM
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But I don’t think they ever truly loved that person. I can’t imagine intentionally hurting or destroying the imagine of someone you love just so you can get over them. Yeah but I don't think women can love men like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:12 PM
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couples become more attached to each other than even their parents. Women can be attached to their man THAT much? What if he looses his job, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:08 PM
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Traditionally, women are taught to value men higher than themselves and bow to the men's needs above their own and that a woman can not be whole without a man's love. But they would hate that. And that type of worship is more so conforming to society's rules. So women in those cases will hate men too ​ What socialisation have you seen that men are treated only as money and status? Doesn't all the "hate all men", "don't date brokies" count as socialization?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:07 PM
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I know but women will just use the guy as a source of entertainment, rather than see his humour as a part of him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:06 PM
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I see. I didn't expect that. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:05 PM
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I don't assume that most men do anything. If a man DMed you "Heyyy", what would you assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:05 PM
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It's possible. I have a friend who is a bartender at a fancy country club and the women there hit on him a lot. Just for sex though right? Would they date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:04 PM
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How do I make myself believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:02 PM
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But don't women move on from breakups more vindictively. Like they start hating all men and wanting to see men suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:02 PM
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Do women even want to get to know men? In every instance of a male-female relationship for friendship, it's always the woman venting to the guy, the guy asking HER questions, and basically her getting a buddy who understands her fully But why don't women ever care to get to know, understand and support a man in the same way? When women call their partner their best friend, it's usually one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:01 PM
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I want to ask a question but I don't wanna sound rude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:58 PM
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You ain’t ever mourned the loss of something? Could answer this yourself. I have, and I mourn the actual woman for who she was But I'm wondering if women miss men the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:57 PM
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Yess, it can happen . About 30% of of low income men in the US are married. It's not the norm, but not out of the realm of possibilities either. But are those women with those men for love or because of something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:57 PM
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everything a man can "provide" a women can either get herself or doesn't need. Yes but it's not easy to become rich for example. You don't see men lining up in queues to date rich women, it's the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:55 PM
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women are human and deal with heartbreak in similar ways to men as heartbreak is non gendered. I'm not saying they're not human lol but due to socialization (which is a thing), do women overall care less about men as humans? Rather, their bf / husband? Or do they see them as a replaceable human with X money and Y status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:54 PM
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Do women mourn the actual person himself, fully detached from his money, status and abilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:53 PM
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Oh I see So then if a person is able to insert themselves into another socioecon domain, they can get with those people? For example, can a poor man work as a janitor at a resort and have women like him? Or no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:52 PM
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I see. So you missed HIM as a person, fully detached from any money / status he had right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:51 PM
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The woman gets to enjoy jokes Basically she sees the guy as a source of laughter / entertainment. But she doesn't really care about HIM as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:50 PM
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So you're saying a woman will date the poorest 0 status dude out of pure love?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:49 PM
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Damn :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:48 PM
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There is a phenomenon relating to the in/out group bias. It's the "I know you are a part of group X, and I don't like group X, but you are different" Why do people adopt this in relationships. They assume their bf/gf is suddenly immune from all of the bad things the opposite gender does?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:45 PM
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So can woman miss a man for who HE is Or if another man with a similar vibe comes along, will she forget about her ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:44 PM
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Where are you getting this crap?? So many reddit and real life stories If you look at stories on reddit about a woman's bf / husband having poor mental health, she will always mention how it affects her and she may need to eventually break up. Like women don't really make sacrifices towards men in these cases. I mean that's 100% their right. I'm just saying And secondly, so many girls hate their ex's and would love to screw them over
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:43 PM
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people within similar socioeconomic situation Why? Due to commonalities? Or due to social status?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:40 PM
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Can a woman love a romantic partner like we have love for our family members we love? A positive familial love feels very close to unconditional. Rather, there are soooo many conditions needed to be violated before that love falters Can a woman ever feel that way for a romantic partner who is a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:38 PM
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And is the companionship and sex tied to the man himself, or just as concepts alone? For example, does she miss the companionship with HIM, or just the idea of companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:36 PM
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So did you mourn the loss of the person himself, or the stuff he provided you? Like his status, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:35 PM
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So you're saying a woman would even marry the poorest guy with no status if she likes him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:32 PM
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Oh I see And the idea of the man - does the idea include the man himself, or just the things he provides?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:30 PM
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I mean do they desire the actual person back, or just the things he brought like money, status, a cuddle buddy etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:30 PM
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Not everyone who wears a bikini does so for attention. There is a small percentage of us who are allergic to elastic. The only swimsuit I can wear without breaking out in oozing welts, is a cotton string bikini that ties. Same for undergarments. It's either that or I don't go swimming. I didn't realize that. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:42 AM
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99.95% of women in the western world aren't posting thirst traps while in a committed relationship. That's too big of a number
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:33 AM
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Women fight in armies now though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:33 AM
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Do you see it as "microcheating" when dudes follow and like all these hot selfies posted by women who aren't their partner? Yeah I do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:48 PM
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Yes, but who commits the vast majority of crimes? Who have made up 99.9% of all fighting forces in human history? Who has made up 99.9% of all police and security forces throughout history, or the majority of rebel forces and terrorist groups? The answer to all of these is men. Men make up the overwhelming majority of groups that engage in violence, whether it be for good reasons or bad, legal or illegal. Couldn't that just boil down to women not being allowed to? Also that boils down to countri…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:44 PM
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If you want to live your life the way others tell you to, be my guest. It's just annoying when women tell me my biases are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:14 PM
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If she posted them before you started dating why would you ask to stop posting them after? I wouldn't date her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:13 PM
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So… if she wants to stay in touch with her friends and family, she should only post pics of what… her armpit? Post modest pics Not bikini pics or pics showing off her ass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:08 PM
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None of the examples I gave are legally unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:02 PM
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If a man can’t trust his girlfriend he doesn’t need to be with her. Yes. And posting hot selfies is untrustworthy behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:01 PM
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Women justify each other's micro-cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:57 PM
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Yeah I get what you mean But I do think womens' voices are heard more these days, so their opinions contribute alot to what is socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:57 PM
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Sorry I mean the act of being biases. Each act of having a bias should be seen as equally justified
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:54 PM
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men having lots of requirements will narrow their pool of eligible partners too. Yes but if saying "don't post hot selfies" narrows down the dating pool, that is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:49 PM
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How so? It's a known fact that men post gym selfies, fishing selfies and car/bike selfies on OLD apps with the direct intent to attract females. Most men don't even post anything when in a relationship. Women continue to post hot selfies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:48 PM
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All biases should be accepted is what I'm trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:43 PM
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And these biases are not socially accepted Everyone is entitled to their biases
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:42 PM
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mundane Posting bikini pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:38 PM
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By hot selfie I just mean the woman posing in a way to show her beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:36 PM
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So a married man must not post selfies of himself with the fish he caught (thus signaling to all females what a mighty provider he is)? That's not how men get women in the first place, so it's not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:35 PM
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The issue is that a boundary is about your own behavior, not about trying to control or change someone else’s. Sorry would you elaborate on this. I didn't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:29 PM
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You're right but by socially acceptable I mean both genders agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:26 PM
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Yes very true There's too much anti-man propaganda that makes mens' views seem unacknowledged
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:20 PM
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That you’re insecure, and that insecurity will continue to sabotage your relationships until it’s addressed. Actually if I'm not insecure, then I won't pick up on cheating behaviour If my gf acts super loyal, then my insecurity won't trigger If she does sus behaviour, then my insecurity will trigger So actually only the cheater would sabotage the relationship, not the insecure partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:18 PM
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And in your mind those threats are equally significant? Both people should have their biases. I am not saying women should drop their biases But why can't men have their biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:16 PM
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And it is ridiculous Are you agreeing that microcheating is wrong? Or are you saying there shouldn't be such a word as microcheating? I can't think of any examples of men not being condemned for behaviour that is not microcheating at the moment. Can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:11 PM
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Unfortunately you missed the entire point. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:09 PM
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Like, your first thought automatically when a girl posts a selfie is “she’s going to cheat on me”? Yes because many times posting one's physical beauty on social media is the conduit for a relationship It's like saying if a person is holding a gun near me - will I assume they are just there to show me how cool their gun is, or will I be suspicious of their actions Same way, I will always look at women posting hot selfies while in a relationship as suspicious behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:08 PM
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I understand your point of view The way I have formed my debate position is by looking at biases as equal to each other. I am saying all biases are justified. I am not saying one bias over another should not be a bias. I am also not comparing the consequence of not keeping the bias I am saying: All biases should be accepted. When women have biases, they are usually always accepted. When men have them, they are not accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:06 PM
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Is your girlfriend supposed to stay in the house under lock and key 24/7? That strikes you as “logical”? Nope. However, a monogamous relationship has certain expectations and based on that, certain places are banned. If she doesn't agree to the ban, she can leave the relationship with full free will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:02 PM
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If you can’t trust your partner to go dancing with her girlfriends once in awhile, you have an inherently unhealthy relationship. So then can men in relationships go to strip clubs? If they promise their girlfriend that "I am just dancing with my men friends, NOT the strippers!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:01 PM
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Actually I'm talking about cross gender judgement. The examples I listed in this post are those
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:00 PM
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I am not comparing selfies to rape I am saying everyone should be entitled to their biases as we have biases for certain reasons There is no free will being taken away. Women have the free will to leave and enter monogamous relationships anytime. The man also has this right. Men are saying that in order to have a relationship with me, you need to do XYZ. There is no free will being taken away
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:59 PM
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Like, if your lady posting a selfy is causing you to have jealousy and control issues, you have deeper problems than your girl taking pictures. Fine let's assume I'm insecure But why is it assumed women just post selfies for their woman-friends. Why are they given that benefit of the doubt? This is the point I'm trying to make in this post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:57 PM
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Oh ok I see. How many top guys do this when they are in relationship? By top guys do you mean guys who get alot of female attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:55 PM
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Which nobody whose sane would do while in a relationship Exactly. It's like men going to a strip club and claiming "It's just women dancing and it's their choice they don't wanna wear any clothes. But it's not cheating baby"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:52 PM
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Judging by when my lady does it, it’s all her friends talking about it. Case in point, she just got a haircut and dye job last week, and posted a selfie. Most if not all of the likes were from other women, not men. Well I can't say anything about your relationship because it's not my place However, I would not want my gf / wife doing that I still can't comprehend why women feel the need to post their beauty when they have a man who can appreciate it for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:50 PM
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A hot selfie meant to induce attention For most women it would be hot selfies they post for male attention They love it when guys reply to their posts on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:48 PM
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This sub is the first place I've read the word "gynocentric" and I understand why I've never head it before. Ironically, the same men that complain about gynocentrism care a lot about the opinions of women. If you criticize them, they'll call you out and insult you. I just searched up what gynocentric means, and this makes alot of sense So many guys here act as if they have no value in this world unless women approve of their actions (at least somewhat). They see women as perfect beings who can …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:45 PM
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Or she thinks she looks good in that top? Or the lighting is great, or her hair and makeup are top notch. Or she’s buzzed and feeling herself. So what does she get by sharing it? If not male attention It's like if a guy in a relationship goes to a club and takes off his shirt in front of all the ladies. If he says "it's just because I look good", that will not be seen as acceptable by many girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:42 PM
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But women can also use weapons and use strategy to hurt others, instead of brute force
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:41 PM
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Women’s complainants are about their safety where as men’s complainants are about controlling women at least based on the ones you listed. I said both biases are fine. People have a right to their biases Why can't men have their biases? And it's not about controlling. It's about acting in accordance with a monogamous relationship. A monogamous relationship is not something that is forced
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:40 PM
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In my experience it's pretty normal for women to call each other out for shitty behavior during a relationship. Like going out clubbing and what not I've noticed women justify each other's behaviors. As a form of "girl-code"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:39 PM
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Taking selfies Taking hot selfies - it's for other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:38 PM
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Women really only want what's best for them. And their biases show that. When a man expresses biases towards them, then women get defensive For example: posting thirst traps when in a relationship. If any guy tells his girlfriend not to do that, she sees it as an attack
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:30 PM
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If a feline approaches me looking for food, I'm gonna react differently depending on whether it's a tiger or a housecat. They are different species though. And one is domesticated and one is not. Men and woman are not different species, and they are closer to the civility of a domesticated animal than wild animals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:39 AM
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I meant baby boys aren't born with the disposition to commit crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:30 AM
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Well I don't believe in using track records to judge the next person Because in that case we can use historical data to have prejudice against certain ethnicities. "Your country did this in year X, and thus I think Y about you"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:09 AM
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Strawman alert! None of your examples involved pointing a gun at anyone and your complaint was about men’s behavior being regarded as creepy. So what's the threshold where men and women's same actions are seen with the same level of threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:03 AM
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But those are much rarer as well. MUCH RARER. But why does being female make a human less likely to be crazed and less likely to use weapons to get their will?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:02 AM
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I would perceive both the same. I would be wary of both - man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:00 AM
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But what if she has a weapon. She can get one as easily as a man can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:57 AM
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it is not really surprising that behaviors are interpreted differently, is it? In this case, if both a man and woman are pointing a gun at someone, then the woman should be seen as less of a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:52 AM
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You analyzed it perfectly!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:51 AM
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You're right about that. Would you say that a woman passing a sexual comment towards a guy is less dangerous than a guy doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:18 AM
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Then that is one of the reasons why men are perceived in a bad light at first
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:17 AM
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People tend to be more scared of random lone men in the wilderness than a random lone woman*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:15 AM
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As with anything, context is key here. My examples were the context. No matter the context, men will have to pass certain tests before they are deemed safe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:15 AM
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as women love to do reputation destruction as much as possible. Maybe this is another contributing factor. Women battle more via "reputation assassination"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:14 AM
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But in all these scenarios both the man and the women are complete strangers and you don't know if the person is introverted or extroverted there just a stranger doing an activity. Exactly. Their quite behaviors are seen differently Women are called introverts Men are called creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:13 AM
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I do not believe that men are more likely to be criminals by birth. I believe it boils down to strength and risk taking. Men have more strength and are higher risk takers So men are caught for crime more often as they take the risk to commit it. Their strength gives them more courage, and thus increases their risk tolerance However, what I am trying to debate is that due to these stigmas, men are perceived as threats/creeps before anything else. Women are given the benefit of doubt more often If…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:12 AM
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If you think this is true, where do you think this comes from? “For some reason”, you say…but what reason? Because society hates men? Context is everything. I think it comes from women not being perceived as having a potential to be a threat. I believe with technology and weapons, women can pose an equal threat a man can However, when it comes to unarmed combat, mostly men prevail, and so they are still seen as more of a threat, when in reality women just have to work slightly harder to become a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:09 AM
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That is where the real double standard exists. And honesty it exists for a very rational reason. Men and women are just different. We behave differently. We perceive things differently. But don't many women say they lust over men the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:07 AM
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Favouritism to women is well established at this point. You can read actual scientific literature about it. What does it boil down to? Looks? Physical danger? Or due to extreme feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:06 AM
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When you keep yourself to yourself, people don't know your intentions, and can fill in the gaps with something bad. Men are seen with the bad light. Anti-social women are seen as being modest ​ Basically if you emulate a classic boomer socially, it will mostly put people at ease. Boomers tend to socialize randomly with strangers. Women on this subreddit say they don't want to be talked to by strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:05 AM
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Actually it happens alot where men are seen as weird for all of those actions. There are alot of anecdotal experiences which women don't experience as much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:03 AM
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Actually in my experience, alot of people do care. People tend to stay away from random lone men in the wilderness, but if there was a random lone woman in the wilderness, people would assume she may need help I'm not saying people don't have a right to be scared of whoever, however I do think more people than half would see a lone man in the wilderness as creepy, and a woman not so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:03 AM
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I am just worried they are trying to determine how much money I make, or to determine how much "respect I deserve" based on my occupation Because many people are status driven
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:41 PM
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they can only take advantage of you if you let them, you'll be fine But sometimes these women set up blackmail traps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:31 PM
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I've realized over the years, true love like in the movies doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:15 PM
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Women like guys who are not desperate. Ohh I see Could you give me an example of being: desperate, not desperate and ignoring a woman Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:46 PM
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That's how you see ugly poor dudes with hot girlfriends. This gives me hope. Basically I don't really put too much thought into my looks as long as I looksmax. But I won't obsess over it because I know women are usually the more attractive gender anyways So what really makes a woman sexually desire a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:45 PM
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So I'd never win over a woman's love just by being her best friend right? I gotta ignite some primal feelings in her - mostly via status right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:42 PM
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I'm talking about when women ask men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:41 PM
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Yeah true :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:53 PM
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Software Engineer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:53 PM
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Tech is low status?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:39 PM
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But rich men are afraid too. So are celebs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:39 PM
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But don't women like guys who lowkey ignore them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:34 PM
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Why do women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:33 PM
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Oh yeah I saw the video and wanted to talk about it He has a very chilled out attitude and he just has fun What are some starter examples as to how men can adopt a more IDGAF attitude? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:32 PM
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Yeah, but it proves my point. A man's money is something women want. Which women want it depends on how much money those women have
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:31 PM
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Yeah, most women are indeed gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:10 PM
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If you were attractive enough and smooth enough, you could be broke and homeless and still get laid. I wanna be like this. How can I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:09 PM
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So women discriminate against plumbers and mechanics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:09 PM
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Is there any way we men can hold the keys to physical intimacy? And yeah thanks for the rest of the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:08 PM
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Okay but it's not like gold diggers are just those who go for men who already have the money People invest in stocks too. So gold diggers can "invest" in a guy aka wait for him to get rich
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:07 PM
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aspiring tech bros But some could realize my video game can make me millions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:05 PM
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All girls want handsome, tall, with lifestyle. A medical profession job is online verifiable so they can look you up and know they’re not wasting their time with someone trying to look rich, but aren’t. Most all girls are going to try and find you online after you ask for the date, if she doesn’t like something she’ll prob bail. Do women really investigate that deep? ​ Every girl wants to be with a guy that got some sort of cool life. Oh I see. Sorry I'm confused, are you saying that your house …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:03 PM
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True LOL Also what percent of women like bad boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:00 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:52 PM
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Sorry I missed that part lol And what if both their activities match up? In terms of ability to do them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:52 PM
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No, I'm saying that we men are stuck. Women are gold diggers, so we all have to have money to attract them. We have no choice but to attract gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:51 PM
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No one gold digs “potential”. Then no one invests in the stock market Of course people dig potential gold So many girls joke and say "Get with the medical student" cuz he'll be rich one day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:50 PM
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then lie and say you are in debt Then women might say ew and run
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:49 PM
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"Why are you paranoid? You have no gold" -Says the Women here that will either ghost or reject you based off of your occupation alone. Factss bro ​ Have a boring, status job and you'll be met with the "we're not compatible" "I can't brag about your occupation to my friends and family" script. Even more facts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:48 PM
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No what if the jobless person never asks his gf for money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:47 PM
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Don't women like those bad boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:46 PM
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Oh okk, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:46 PM
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Factsss
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:45 PM
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I don't have one right now, but whatever money I do have - some women could perceive it as alot Also, what if I get rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:45 PM
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What about stuff like game dev where the potential for riches is high
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:44 PM
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Okay what if he's a guy who doesn't ask his gf for money, but he's a "hobo"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:44 PM
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Yes I know, but it's a matter of nuance The woman I'm dating is more likely to be aware of my finances and thus more likely to have greed for them And she is more likely to convince the cops of her false accusation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:44 PM
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Ouuuu this is good Would this also make her chase me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:38 PM
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met another husband and asked them "what do you do for work?" I'm not interviewing them to see if I can mooch off them. But the thing is, we are men and we don't gold dig like that But I feel like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:38 PM
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Idkk loll but I know I'm pretty smart, pick up on alot of patterns, but then also overthink irrationally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:37 PM
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How did they react?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:37 PM
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> Like fake blackmail etc how? "Gimme money or I'll tell the police you hit me"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:33 PM
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No because men don't gold dig
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:25 PM
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Some women might find 70k alot. That's what I'm trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:21 PM
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But then doesn't that again boil down to how much a man can provide - aka knowledge in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:21 PM
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Wait why do some women date broke guys if women are usually attracted to money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:09 PM
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If you’re wasting your potential by staying in a minimum wage job, then that’s not very admirable nor fun to be around since you’re not living life to the fullest. But someone has to do those jobs, and it's unfair if they aren't liked for that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:04 PM
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What if I get rich
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:58 PM
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I mean for some women that might be alot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:58 PM
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I used to be a software engineer, but now I might go into sales I don't earn more than average, however both jobs have alot of earning potential, and I'm worried women will want to gold dig based on that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:54 PM
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:(((( Will they try to scheme to take the guy's money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:49 PM
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I’d assume you’re trying to freeload off me But it's not like the man is asking the woman for money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:49 PM
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You seem obsessed with this. Why do you think women on a first date are trying to get your money? I think there's too much propaganda out there telling me that women are gold diggers. I need a new perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:48 PM
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It's still weird because women go for these things before personality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:47 PM
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And a lot of us also want that from a man. So what happens when a man refuses to provide? Does he have to worry the woman will turn vindictive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:47 PM
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That's the scary part. What if she tries to steal from me by trapping me into something? Like fake blackmail etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:42 PM
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I see. Well it's a double fear I obviously want women to like me, but I don't want them to gold dig If I tell them about my job, then if women are attracted to money they will like me But if I don't tell them, and if women are attracted to money, they won't like me So it's basically that women like guys with money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:42 PM
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Oh I see And what's the reason women chase doctors? Do they want their money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:41 PM
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No but if I become one, I don't want to tell ANY woman that I'm a millionaire unless she's been with me while I was not one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:40 PM
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then you might not be ambitious enough for her. So basically they want money right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:40 PM
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Do you think they were attracted to the status or they lowkey wanted to take the General Surgeon's money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:34 PM
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Usually they just call my career cool No one has asked about money yet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:32 PM
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It’s probably not a gold digger question as you don’t need to explicit ask to figure out what economic bracket someone is in. It’s normally pretty easy to figure out from their dating profile Some rich people don't buy expensive brands and live modest lives though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:31 PM
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Maybe I should keep it vague and change the topic right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:30 PM
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So then it's about money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:29 PM
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Yeah true. Sometimes they push to find out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:27 PM
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I see. I understand the status part as women are very status driven Do you think they form plans to try to steal the guy's money? Like screwing him over or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:26 PM
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70,000 CAD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:25 PM
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make sure he has the ability to provide Whaaaa- why can't women provide themselves their own resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:19 PM
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:((((((((((((((
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:18 PM
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and men's paranoia about it is baffling Is this a common paranoia among men? I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:18 PM
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I get what you mean though.. Sometimes you get the feeling the question is asked with an ulterior motive or like they're working out how much respect to give you. Yaaa exactlyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:17 PM
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They don't make enough money to compensate for the other issues For THEIR other issues you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:12 PM
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I'm just scared they are trying to find out how much money I make
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:11 PM
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How do I know if it's a convo starter or gold digging?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:10 PM
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Yeah you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 PM
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But isn't it a justified fear?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 PM
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Nahh I never wanna talk about my job with women. But they keep asking and it makes me uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 PM
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So is it just establishing status on a human to human level, or are these women expecting to get money from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 PM
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I always want to respond "I'm not comfortable telling you that right now" when they ask about my job
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:08 PM
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What if I have all three
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:07 PM
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What if a guy posts both?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:04 PM
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But wouldn't they like them since tech bros have alot of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:52 PM
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I don’t think it really has anything to do with the game developer himself. It’s more that video games are cool as hell. But even from non-gamer women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:44 AM
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OP is saying that women who don't seem to like games were interested in game development videos Yeahh exactly. This made me think, do they just want the game developer because they think he will get rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:43 AM
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Because people light up and appear enthusiastic when discussing it. Ohh true But how can they see my passion if someone doesn't post their face when they post their game dev videos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:54 PM
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As long as you're not into some creepy shit LOL trueee Do girls find nerdy stuff creepy though? Like LEGOs / video games? Because sometimes girls have weird standards and think all men are creepy for everything they do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:53 PM
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But since they are non-gamers, how do they know it's hard? And is it impressive in a sexually attractive way or just a cool way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:52 PM
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Yeah I'd find it attractive However, the girls responding to my game dev progress aren't into games themselves. They are just aware of what I'm doing. And they know what video games are. They are non-gamers though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:52 PM
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Like I don't see why it's romantically attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:07 PM
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Why is passion attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:31 PM
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Usually super hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:30 PM
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Yaa that's true. I've noticed people (both guys and girls) being more sexually conservative at non-party schoosl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:22 PM
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I mostly know girls from YorkU and TMU Maybe that's why right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:02 PM
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men being intelligent and pursuing a craft or a passion is attractive. In a sexual way or a platonic way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:30 PM
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Ohh. Because sometimes they used to reply to my videos of doing actual workouts But they NEVER EVER replied to pics of my abs. Even though I expected girls to go crazy over my abs They only responded to things I did
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:17 PM
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Shouldn’t you do the research as a developer? Lol I know, but more guys than girls play video games
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:11 PM
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but it's also the fact that you ae interested in something How come girls didn't "chase" me when I used to post gym selfies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:11 PM
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Ohh okk I've never really gotten female interest before, so it feels so weird (in a good way)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:10 PM
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But they never gave me attention before. Like when I posted other things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:08 PM
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this But do most girls even care about video games?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:04 PM
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Oh actually they were not from CS They are like typical hot girls. I never expected to get attention from them What could be the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:02 PM
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It's still in the development stage, but it looks cool to me. And I'm showing my code and the behind the scenes drawing on paper etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:01 PM
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Why does social media make it seem like women have body counts in the multiples of 10, but in real life it's so hard to find a woman with a body count over 2? Despite being from Toronto, Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:00 PM
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Why do so many girls like that I'm developing a video game? I post about my game development journey everyday on my social media and it shows that I work hard on it So far girls that didn't talk to me are asking me about it Is this based in girls finding ambition attractive? Or do they think I will get rich and are "gold digging", not realizing that most game devs don't make any money Or is it just an interesting thing I'm doing and they like it on a human to human level?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:59 PM
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Why do so many girls like that I'm developing a video game? I post about my game development journey everyday on my social media and it shows that I work hard on it So far girls that didn't talk to me are asking me about it Is this based in girls finding ambition attractive? Or do they think I will get rich and are "gold digging", not realizing that most game devs don't make any money Or is it just an interesting thing I'm doing and they like it on a human to human level?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:58 PM
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