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Why doesn't being yourself work?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:57 AM
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but feel guilty afterwards Do women even feel guilt for hurting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:42 AM
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If “just be yourself and you’ll get the hot girl” isn't true, then what is? And what about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:42 AM
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Since when? I can't imagine frat bros and hot girls use Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:54 PM
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Ohh I see. So Obama also turned a % of the population liberal too? If “just be yourself and you’ll get the hot girl” isn't true, then what is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:53 PM
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Those are normies. Reddit is filled with normies because of smartphones. But wouldn't a normie think Reddit is "weird" because "it's for nerds"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:41 PM
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There is no bluepill What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:40 PM
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is the number on par with men who kill their wives for their mistresses? I've rarely heard that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:40 PM
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Can you elaborate on the significance of the dates and Obama I'm Canadian so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:34 PM
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Look up the women who sent all their money to some Nigerian prince Did the scammers pretend to be Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:26 PM
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HOW did a place like Reddit become full of liberal blue pilled guys? I would imagine Reddit would attract redpillers, but if I comment anything redpilled anywhere, I find an army of blue pilled guys commenting "OMG how can you say that!?" Wouldn't one expect blue pilled guys to be touching grass?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:16 PM
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How far would a woman go in betraying her man for Chad? When a woman cheats with Chad, she is betraying her husband romantically. That is bad enough But does it get worse? Can Chad make her do even more things like hurting him emotionally/physicall, killing him, giving all his money to Chad etc? Or will she at the end of the day say "I lust for you Chad, and it's bad enough I'm cheating, but I won't as far as doing all that because he's my husband and I love him"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:11 PM
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Men love personality more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:23 PM
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What if ur with Chad counting his money Then women will be satisfied, unless another Chad comes along and she gets tempted cuz she might get bored with / take her current Chad for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:17 PM
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Men go for true love more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:12 PM
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if you hookup long enough someone catches feelings eventually Women catch feelings due to what the guy provides Men catch feelings for the woman herself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:49 PM
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If they are attractive, they probably aren’t incels. Yeah they can be. I've seen so many
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:43 PM
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What if a friendzoned guy glows up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:43 PM
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Ohhh I seee Basically you have to make it so the key to your attention is sex Simps freely opens the doors to their attention just from a smile But we should make it so our attention is locked behind a door that can be opened with sex These are actually the guys women chase the most I've noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:42 PM
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If she’s up on you: cuddling you, spending sleepy time with you then shoot your shot. She’s probably into you. She's into the cuddling and the sex, but not ME as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:39 PM
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Hey bro can you do us all a solid and stop schizo posting? You seem like a nice guy but uh… it’s a bit intense. Ok sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:36 PM
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"Women aren't a monolith!!" - Said every woman ever, while cheating with Chad and counting his money LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:36 PM
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Most couples I know closely seem to be pretty content with their lives and they're affectionate towards each other. So I have no idea what you're talking about. But women enjoy the IDEA of a relationship. They don't actually truly love the man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:35 PM
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LOOOL that might just happen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:34 PM
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People here claim that not showing sexual interest in a woman makes her chase you more, sooo then why don't women chase guys who are in the friendzone? Aka guys who never make a move? Wouldn't women be like "Omg he doesn't like me" and try to get his attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:32 PM
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Yeah if she’s cuddling up to you she’s probably not gonna be like “oh you met someone else! Cool, I’ll just high this pillow while you take her into the back room and have sex!” Wait I'm confused
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:29 PM
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Neither gender is “more” cold hearted. People are individuals But why do more women act cold hearted towards men, than men act towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:29 PM
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Pretty sure it’s the opposite, women get attached from all that stuff Yeah but it's because they are attached to the act of cuddling. They don't care about getting to know the man for who he is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:28 PM
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This, right here, is why us extroverts say “the bar is on the floor” or “just go talk to her” I get shyyyyyyyyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:28 PM
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I'm a 6.5/10 in looks How can I make it so my future gf doesn't think of cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:27 PM
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Why are even so many attractive guys incels? I've noticed these days, it's only the Chads who get the girls Even guys who are 7's don't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:26 PM
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Is it true that women are less likely to get attached to men they spend time with, cuddle with, sleepy with etc? It always seems like women are cold hearted and just use these men for their body, time, money and emotional support I'm genuinely asking - are women the more cold hearted gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:08 PM
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It’ll get worse before it gets better. So like next level mega-simps? That's actually sad tho. Can't even blame guys who simp But I'd rather chill alone than EVERRRRR simp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:06 PM
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veggies Yeah veggies are very important
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:00 PM
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Would simping ever stop or will it just get worse? Will simping eventually stop? Or will simping get worse as women take over the dating market and essentially become the rulers where the currency is simping?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:00 PM
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amazing women Do these even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:08 PM
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For sure, men are stupid for hot women, I never simp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:13 AM
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For sure, men are stupid for hot women, I never simp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:12 AM
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Giving "less fucks" really makes women want you more What are ways to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:07 PM
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The trick is to actually apply the stuff you read about lol, take what works and discard everything else. What things from Redpill do you like best?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:08 PM
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Fortunately, I have a number of female friends who aren't running around doing this shit, and I realized I was being an asshole by fucking around, so when I met the right person I got back to bluepill normie space. I need some reason to be bluepill :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:07 PM
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You accept women for what they are Hypergamous, bored easily, monkey branching I guess all men need to internalize: She ain't your's, it's just your turn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:17 PM
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just like men More than even
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:16 PM
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Most women don't have a high ego, quite the opposite Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:56 PM
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And yes she might get more attracted if you put your foot down( boundaries) What's the reason? And thank you for the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:55 PM
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I see What are ways a boyfriend can do this with a girlfriend? And do women stay attracted from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:52 PM
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From the comments so far, it does work just don't lean too much into it In which ways does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:50 PM
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All the bad emotional things l've experienced has been over my bluepill thinking Like what blue pill things?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:50 PM
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Sometimes women use us as venting boards. Have you ever noticed that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:24 PM
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Their all different, and no codes, cheats, skills status, or money is ever a guarantee with woman What percent of women do you think will be tempted to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:23 PM
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They don't want to fix their issues, most of the times they just want to vent. So it's better to let them do it even if they are actually speaking to a wall. So it's attractive to girls when guys let them vent right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:21 PM
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Validation on OLD, male thirst, men with low standards including Chads just looking for a fuck, over a decade of social conditioning from media that every woman is a 10 and don't need no man or deserves a 10. Treat yourself, live your best life, get it/go off girl. Will this bubble ever pop? Or will it continue
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:21 PM
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What was the experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:18 PM
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High ego or just basic self esteem And does the high ego come from the Chads or the simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:17 PM
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love to fuck a lot Yeah but they act like they don't even like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:16 PM
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Oh yeahh I've heard many guys try to find solutions So what happens when a guy gives a solution versus just listens?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:16 PM
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So what are some actual truths about women you have noticed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:15 PM
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I had success by applying the RP principle that says to treat/consider women as the oldest teenager in the house instead of a fully adult human being. This is interesting. What are some examples of this? Basically not taking her super seriously right? I heard women like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:14 PM
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:((( It's okay bro, just keep working on yourself. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:12 PM
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Why so? I'm genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:11 PM
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TO MY FELLOW MEN, TELL ME IF YOU RELATE!!! You're talking to a woman, and she's very lowkey and a "good girl" You think "Wow I finally found such a great woman" You also think she doesn't talk to other guys, and she doesn't even know what sex is And THEN you find out that she IS talking to other guys, and she LOVES and GIVES sex freely to other guys It's just a shocker. Every woman is talking to a guy at some point. Sometimes we men just think women go about their day without thinking of sex and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:11 PM
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Who actually makes women have high egos? Is it the Chads that give her attention? Or is it literally the desperate white knight simps who comment below her pics like "Baby you're so hot I'll let you do anything to me. I'm all your's" I'm genuinely wondering now I know Chads like hot girls too, so obviously they would pursue them But which demographic of men actually give women their high egos The Chads that give them attention Or the 1000s of simps being desperate for an ounce of her attention
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:05 PM
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Damn bro :( that sucks I applaud you for saying “are you fucking serious rn?”, because a simp would have just consoled her further
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:03 PM
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Honestly at this point, I want her to chase me hard
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:02 PM
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Yaaa thanks When did you realize your situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:57 PM
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The in 12 years the only thing RP has done is gotten perpetually online dudes to talk about the red pill online. Ngl I waste hours reading about this stuff and make no progress in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:56 PM
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Why are some girls like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:54 PM
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Women, except to their family (minus husband), don't have as much innate loyalty as men do Men fight wars together. We have battle buddies. Only soldiers know how strong that bond is Men used to hunt together Men always make up the ranks under leaders, and show loyalty. Sure we don't have to agree with this, but it's still loyalty Women gossip about each other Women wouldn't fight for their country. They just want their money and comfortable life maintained. When men go to war, women cheat. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:54 PM
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Okkk thank you Also sometimes I used to lie to her and say I'm going on a date, and she always asks if the girl is pretty And one time I posted a selfie with a female friend, and this best friend girl got jealous and called her a hoe Girls are weird And you're right, I'll ignore her and let her think I'm going on dates Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:49 PM
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What are ways to make her chase me and beg me for attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:47 PM
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never Yeah :( When guys like me simp, we learn this the hard way What's the reason girls simply will NOT have sex with non-Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:46 PM
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Full no contact. Block her on everything and never reach out to her again. For my sake or in order to make her beg and chase?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:46 PM
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Ignore her she doesn't know what she wants or trying to manipulate you Will she get attracted to me if I ignore her, or is ignoring her for my own sake and time saved?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:40 PM
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I NEED ADVICE I AM BESTFRIEND ZONED SHE HAD A CRUSH ON ME THEN SHE BLOCKED ME FOR 3 MONTHS BECAUSE I ADMITTED MY FEELING SHE UNBLOCKED AND FOLLOWED ME BACK ON INSTAGRAM AND NOTICED I AS DISTANT SO SHE STARTED FLIRTING TOLD ME SHE WOULD BE DOWN TO LET ME TAKE HER VIRGINITY I SAID NO AT FIRST BECAUSE VIRGINITY IS SPECIAL SHE STARTED GETTING DESPERATE WHEN I GOT SEDUCED AND SAID I'M DOWN, SHE THEN STARTED TO GET DISTANT AGAIN AND SAID "LET'S NOT TALK ABOUT SEXUAL STUFF ANYMORE IDK WHAT I WAS THINKI…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:37 PM
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When women say no man wants to commit to them - are they talking about Chad? Or even their simps eventually leave them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:34 PM
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Good, wbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:13 PM
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Hmm okkk Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:04 PM
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Hello
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:03 PM
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Maybe tell her this. Different people like being consoled in different ways, you gotta let her know she's using the wrong strategy. Yes I get it, but I would want her to initiate. If I tell her to do it, I won't know if that would have been her consoling method in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:00 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:58 PM
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Hi, I'm a man I am violent I'm unhygienic My opinion doesn't matter I am only valuable in the eyes of other fellow men Women don't care about my feelings I don't have emotional needs because the only emotion I know is anger I am replaceable in a relationship I'm just a beared, hairy ape that women hate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:55 PM
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Yes however, I would want it so she gives me a hug to console me, without me having to ask and wonder if she's just obliging Now since I'm a man, and my views don't matter, you might make fun of me now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:50 PM
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Maybe you could ask her for a hug then? Is this a female friend or a girlfriend? Gf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:43 PM
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Yeah you're right :( I've heard women in relationships eventually use the venting against the man aka make fun of him and use his weaknesses and insecurities against him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:19 PM
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Do women not care?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:48 PM
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Like traumas I told my ex about a trauma I never told anyone before, and she just consoled my for literally 10 seconds and went on a rant about herself -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:16 PM
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I want her to hug and console me. And feel bad for me. Not her tell me a story of how it happened to her. There's a time and place
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:03 PM
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I wanna be consoled and have it be about me since it's MY venting time And no, not everyone goes onto talk about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:48 PM
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Are frat boys and cheerleader hot girls using reddit at a significant amount?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:41 PM
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Anyone else notice that when you vent to a woman, she slowly makes it about her again Man: Hey I'm feeling really sad because of XYZ Woman: Hey I'm sorry you feel that way. I know how it feels to have XYZ. You know what I hate when people... *all about her*
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:40 PM
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Authors' demographic is correct if you're talking about multiple authors. Yeah. I basically am saying the demographic that is represented by the group of authors. The demographic isn't male author, but it's men who have experienced the things in their stories. Good?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:20 PM
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WHY are guys such simps: If an anonymous man messages anyone - a man or a woman, everyone will be a little wary If a woman messages a man - THESE SIMPS ARE GONNA THINK THEY HIT THE DATING LOTTERY
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:13 PM
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If Reddit is full of incels, then who are all of the people that write stories about sex There are so many examples of guys writing stories of how they had sex with women. Even multiple women. And the women initiate too It's so confusing. Are those stories false? Because the authors' demographic doesn't fit with the general demographic of Reddit (Also is " authors' demographic" correct grammar?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:12 PM
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Because it is all or nothing in terms of men women choose. Hence the top 20% of men topic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 07:06 PM
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Can we men even tell what an attractive man is? Most of the time when straight men talk about a guy being good looking, we just find him cool looking. Hunter eyes, cool beard, abs etc. We judge certain guys as "ugly" when they don't have certain "cool" features. In reality, we don't know what makes an attractive man. Only women can answer that When we see: "Ugly guy, hot girl", we get surprised. But it's because we aren't attracted to men, but are attracted to women. So of course we see the woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 06:11 PM
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Then why do women leave their man if he looses his job?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:58 AM
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So do most women marry for love or money/status?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:36 AM
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Okay if a woman can provide herself her own money - will she date a homeless dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:35 AM
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However, it may be a good start to ask yourself why you don't believe it in the 1st place. I think it's social media mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:30 AM
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Okay my question is: Did you stay with him for true love or because you knew you guys will get back on your feet and he'll have money in a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:29 AM
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POLL TIME: A woman meets the love of her life, and they marry and become homeless together What would most women do: Be homeless with the love of her life Leave him and become rich (let's say a Chad offered to date her)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:24 AM
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What if a woman has two choices: Be homeless with the love of her life Leave him and become rich
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:24 AM
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And the guy doing stuff for her. When the guy needs something (either emotional or practical) female friends just sorta disappear Exactly!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:21 AM
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prey Prey?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:18 AM
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But I don’t think they ever truly loved that person. I can’t imagine intentionally hurting or destroying the imagine of someone you love just so you can get over them. Yeah but I don't think women can love men like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:12 PM
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couples become more attached to each other than even their parents. Women can be attached to their man THAT much? What if he looses his job, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:08 PM
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Traditionally, women are taught to value men higher than themselves and bow to the men's needs above their own and that a woman can not be whole without a man's love. But they would hate that. And that type of worship is more so conforming to society's rules. So women in those cases will hate men too ​ What socialisation have you seen that men are treated only as money and status? Doesn't all the "hate all men", "don't date brokies" count as socialization?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:07 PM
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I know but women will just use the guy as a source of entertainment, rather than see his humour as a part of him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:06 PM
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I see. I didn't expect that. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:05 PM
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I don't assume that most men do anything. If a man DMed you "Heyyy", what would you assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:05 PM
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It's possible. I have a friend who is a bartender at a fancy country club and the women there hit on him a lot. Just for sex though right? Would they date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:04 PM
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Yeah exactly, so women don't stay in relationships for just love. They need other things like money / status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:04 PM
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Yeah but women are investing for selfish reasons. Like trying to get his money or show off his status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:03 PM
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How do I make myself believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:02 PM
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But don't women move on from breakups more vindictively. Like they start hating all men and wanting to see men suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:02 PM
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Do women even want to get to know men? In every instance of a male-female relationship for friendship, it's always the woman venting to the guy, the guy asking HER questions, and basically her getting a buddy who understands her fully But why don't women ever care to get to know, understand and support a man in the same way? When women call their partner their best friend, it's usually one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:01 PM
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(at the moment , anyway). Yeahh basically women are just investing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:59 PM
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I want to ask a question but I don't wanna sound rude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:58 PM
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You ain’t ever mourned the loss of something? Could answer this yourself. I have, and I mourn the actual woman for who she was But I'm wondering if women miss men the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:57 PM
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Yess, it can happen . About 30% of of low income men in the US are married. It's not the norm, but not out of the realm of possibilities either. But are those women with those men for love or because of something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:57 PM
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Basically it's because women don't like poor men with low status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:56 PM
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everything a man can "provide" a women can either get herself or doesn't need. Yes but it's not easy to become rich for example. You don't see men lining up in queues to date rich women, it's the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:55 PM
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women are human and deal with heartbreak in similar ways to men as heartbreak is non gendered. I'm not saying they're not human lol but due to socialization (which is a thing), do women overall care less about men as humans? Rather, their bf / husband? Or do they see them as a replaceable human with X money and Y status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:54 PM
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Do women mourn the actual person himself, fully detached from his money, status and abilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:53 PM
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dump him if he remains homeless Exactly, so it does boil down to money and status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:52 PM
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Oh I see So then if a person is able to insert themselves into another socioecon domain, they can get with those people? For example, can a poor man work as a janitor at a resort and have women like him? Or no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:52 PM
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I see. So you missed HIM as a person, fully detached from any money / status he had right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:51 PM
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The woman gets to enjoy jokes Basically she sees the guy as a source of laughter / entertainment. But she doesn't really care about HIM as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:50 PM
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If he doesn't have a mental illness, and it's just an ideology. Would women date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:50 PM
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So you're saying a woman will date the poorest 0 status dude out of pure love?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:49 PM
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She expects him to make ok money (he’s planning to join the military), but her family is rich, so she doesn’t really need it. From what I can tell, she does truly love him. Wow. I truly didn't expect that. She's a good one then But this is super rare right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:48 PM
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Damn :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:48 PM
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Why does he want to remain homeless? It's a part of the hypothetical. I will not say he is lazy Let's say it is his ideology. Basically he doesn't want to become a capitalist cog The reason I say it's his ideology and not his laziness is because I don't want this question diverging into: Lack of ambition is unattractive. I want to figure out if a man has no money and society looks down on him, will women even date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:47 PM
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There is a phenomenon relating to the in/out group bias. It's the "I know you are a part of group X, and I don't like group X, but you are different" Why do people adopt this in relationships. They assume their bf/gf is suddenly immune from all of the bad things the opposite gender does?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:45 PM
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So can woman miss a man for who HE is Or if another man with a similar vibe comes along, will she forget about her ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:44 PM
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Where are you getting this crap?? So many reddit and real life stories If you look at stories on reddit about a woman's bf / husband having poor mental health, she will always mention how it affects her and she may need to eventually break up. Like women don't really make sacrifices towards men in these cases. I mean that's 100% their right. I'm just saying And secondly, so many girls hate their ex's and would love to screw them over
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:43 PM
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I said he is homeless He's taking care of his own expenses. Wants to remain homeless Now what
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:42 PM
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This makes me sad :( Women act like they're the less judgmental gender, but a man's value to a woman is literally tied to his socio-econ status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:41 PM
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people within similar socioeconomic situation Why? Due to commonalities? Or due to social status?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:40 PM
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A friend of mine has been dating a guy who lives in his car for the past three years (though he spends most of his time at her apartment). So yes. Is she expecting he will get alot of money in the future? Or does she truly love him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:39 PM
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I believe the stats say that job loss (in the man) is the leading predictor of divorce. Wow. That honestly sucks lol. No point in getting married then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:39 PM
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Can a woman love a romantic partner like we have love for our family members we love? A positive familial love feels very close to unconditional. Rather, there are soooo many conditions needed to be violated before that love falters Can a woman ever feel that way for a romantic partner who is a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:39 PM
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Can a woman love a romantic partner like we have love for our family members we love? A positive familial love feels very close to unconditional. Rather, there are soooo many conditions needed to be violated before that love falters Can a woman ever feel that way for a romantic partner who is a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:38 PM
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Okay I wanna split this into two parts. Please answer both, thank you If he didn't ask her for money, and refused to mooch off her, but remained homeless, would she leave him? If she did let him mooch off him, is it because she is essentially investing in him to bring her alot of money and hoping he ups his status?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:37 PM
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And is the companionship and sex tied to the man himself, or just as concepts alone? For example, does she miss the companionship with HIM, or just the idea of companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:36 PM
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So did you mourn the loss of the person himself, or the stuff he provided you? Like his status, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:35 PM
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Some would, the majority wouldn’t. Just like with men. A minority of men treat women badly, but the majority are fine. But do you think women have less empathy for us men? Like would they laugh at our expense or feel bad for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:34 PM
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Let's say a woman is physically, mentally and romantically attracted to a guy However, he becomes homeless. Let's say his hygiene and grooming are perfect, so there're no concerns there Would she date him? Or would she not because she doesn't wanna be seen with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:34 PM
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So you're saying a woman would even marry the poorest guy with no status if she likes him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:32 PM
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Oh I see And the idea of the man - does the idea include the man himself, or just the things he provides?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:30 PM
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I mean do they desire the actual person back, or just the things he brought like money, status, a cuddle buddy etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:30 PM
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Do you think women would hurt men physically, mentally and psychologically if they had the ability, legal power and lack of karmic fear to do so? Mostly since women don't really care about men as humans and due to historical oppression done by men to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:29 PM
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Not everyone who wears a bikini does so for attention. There is a small percentage of us who are allergic to elastic. The only swimsuit I can wear without breaking out in oozing welts, is a cotton string bikini that ties. Same for undergarments. It's either that or I don't go swimming. I didn't realize that. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:42 AM
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Lol yaa. The player can get a wanted level, but it's too much coding to make it so NPCs can get wanted levels if they run a light
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:39 AM
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99.95% of women in the western world aren't posting thirst traps while in a committed relationship. That's too big of a number
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:33 AM
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Women fight in armies now though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:33 AM
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I’ve tried. It doesn’t work that way So you'd only feel horny cuddling with a man right? Not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:49 PM
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So there is no place for true love in the equation right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:49 PM
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Do you see it as "microcheating" when dudes follow and like all these hot selfies posted by women who aren't their partner? Yeah I do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:48 PM
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i find women hot but feel zero sexual attraction for them. the idea of kissing one weirds me out Ohh okkk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:47 PM
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It includes a quite distant genetic past that's irrelevant to modern society where the rate is much higher. And by modern I mean past 2-5 thousand years. So why does hypergamy still exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:46 PM
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Yes, but who commits the vast majority of crimes? Who have made up 99.9% of all fighting forces in human history? Who has made up 99.9% of all police and security forces throughout history, or the majority of rebel forces and terrorist groups? The answer to all of these is men. Men make up the overwhelming majority of groups that engage in violence, whether it be for good reasons or bad, legal or illegal. Couldn't that just boil down to women not being allowed to? Also that boils down to countri…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:44 PM
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I might add an alcohol mechanic, but nothing too intense cause I want it to be PG-13
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:43 PM
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Are women consciously looking to upgrade or will it be more of a in the moment thing where they realize they found a "better man"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:20 PM
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So is going out of one's home. People put in effort to look good. A selfie is more targeted towards a specific audience Looking good when going out is for the general population. Not opposite gender attention
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:15 PM
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If you want to live your life the way others tell you to, be my guest. It's just annoying when women tell me my biases are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:14 PM
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That's most women. That's most women. That's most women. Most women are 100% straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:13 PM
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If she posted them before you started dating why would you ask to stop posting them after? I wouldn't date her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:13 PM
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The energy is a manifestation of the environment, the actions of other people, the knowledge as the what people do at clubs, the sexual songs, the desires of that patrons etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:12 PM
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Do you don't see women irl Yeah but I don't know about their long term loyalty in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:11 PM
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I am wondering how women would act in this regard if there was no law Like would a woman be purely loyal to a non-Chad simply for the sake of morality and love
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:09 PM
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I mixed up nightclub with strip club However, even dancing clubs have sexually charged energies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:08 PM
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So… if she wants to stay in touch with her friends and family, she should only post pics of what… her armpit? Post modest pics Not bikini pics or pics showing off her ass
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:08 PM
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Like could you answer each part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:07 PM
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No, I'm trying to figure out how most women work. That's the point of this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:07 PM
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A selfie is purposefully and mindfully showing off one's beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:06 PM
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Ohh I see Basically women jump from guy to guy, but are monogamous while with one guy. But they are always open to upgrade right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:06 PM
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where a Chad wants the woman to harm or sabotage her SO somehow to be with him. And how often would the woman agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:02 PM
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None of the examples I gave are legally unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:02 PM
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If a man can’t trust his girlfriend he doesn’t need to be with her. Yes. And posting hot selfies is untrustworthy behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:01 PM
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Like not even one little ounce of attraction to other women. Not even one second of being turned on. Even if they are cuddling in bed together What about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:01 PM
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So in the end, a man has to maintain a certain social status for his girlfriend to like him right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:00 PM
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Point is nightclubs aren't set up to look at anyone naked or for any sexual purpose They literally ARE set up for that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:00 PM
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Okay, then are women closer to the bi section of the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:59 PM
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But is it OK for a man relationship to go to the gym, wearing shorts and a tank top? Yes because he's not there to show off his muscles But the act of taking a selfie is done to show a visual
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:58 PM
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Women justify each other's micro-cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:57 PM
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Yeah I get what you mean But I do think womens' voices are heard more these days, so their opinions contribute alot to what is socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:57 PM
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Sure— my high school teacher told us about a woman who cheated on her husband with her personal trainer and they came up with a plan for the trainer to kill her husband. WTF That's scary asf What about less extreme examples. Would women screw over their man for their dream Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:55 PM
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Sorry I mean the act of being biases. Each act of having a bias should be seen as equally justified
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:54 PM
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I see Do women believe in "The One" and a soulmate type of love? Aka there is only ONE man for me - who doesn't have to be Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:54 PM
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Women who were not attracted to powerful men ended up mating with the social outcast of the tribe, and then when he was exiled she was either forced to go with him or endure life as a single mother with less resources Can women even be attracted and loyal to these guys? Or would they leave them if they find the same type of man, but richer and with more status?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:53 PM
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I mean, I could leave my man and get ten more but when it comes to live it’s quality over quantity imo Yes but with more quantity, there is a higher chance of finding more quality Since the dating pool is bigger for women They can easily replace their man in a week
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:51 PM
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Also, incels always existed too tho not to the same existent. Keep in mind throughout history only 40% of the men reproduced when compared to 80% of women. Could you tell me more about this 40% / 80% stat. That sounds interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:50 PM
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Alright, sounds totally reasonable. Why are you being mean? I've literally been so polite And the poll can be on some other subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:50 PM
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Yeah exactly. So men can also say "Don't post hot selfies or go to the club if you wanna date me"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:49 PM
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men having lots of requirements will narrow their pool of eligible partners too. Yes but if saying "don't post hot selfies" narrows down the dating pool, that is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:49 PM
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How so? It's a known fact that men post gym selfies, fishing selfies and car/bike selfies on OLD apps with the direct intent to attract females. Most men don't even post anything when in a relationship. Women continue to post hot selfies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:48 PM
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I wonder what will happen if women were incels instead of men. I have a feeling that most women will just be with each other instead lol Does this mean women are naturally bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:47 PM
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The natural attraction probably comes from pragmatism. Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:46 PM
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Okay, no strippers, no money being thrown But they both lie above a certain threshold. The environment is the very similar and both have sexually charged energies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:46 PM
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Would a woman let her man suffer in order to get her absolute dream Chad? Like if Chad said, screw over your man and you can get with me Or would she show loyalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:44 PM
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All biases should be accepted is what I'm trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:43 PM
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And these biases are not socially accepted Everyone is entitled to their biases
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:42 PM
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So based on this, does love come anywhere in the equation? Or is love a result of civilization?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:42 PM
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Anyone notice how women point out grammar mistakes in men all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:40 PM
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mundane Posting bikini pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:38 PM
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It's about recognizing the suspicious aspect in behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:37 PM
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By hot selfie I just mean the woman posing in a way to show her beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:36 PM
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Probably early in human history when we were hunter gatherers. Shacking up with a guy who was gonna be exiled would be a death sentence Wait so it is based in utility or pure sexual attraction arouses from high status guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:36 PM
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You can’t close them off from the world, so you have to build a relationship of trust. What if a woman goes to a male strip club?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:35 PM
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So a married man must not post selfies of himself with the fish he caught (thus signaling to all females what a mighty provider he is)? That's not how men get women in the first place, so it's not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:35 PM
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So they won't wanna do anything sexual with them right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:34 PM
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Your comment is what you think most people feel. You don't know them or their opinions. We can make a poll
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:33 PM
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Honestly I might not even include sexual stuff in the game
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:33 PM
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Ohhh I see So when a woman has a man, a man who is currently her best option, would she ever be in a mode where she truly thinks he's the best man in the world aka her soulmate? Or are women constantly open to upgrading? As in they are aware they can do better, but not at the moment And yeah that's true about the dick on demand technology of today
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:32 PM
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The issue is that a boundary is about your own behavior, not about trying to control or change someone else’s. Sorry would you elaborate on this. I didn't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:29 PM
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Well, people aren’t going to agree to be in a relationship with you if you’re going let your insecurities dictate their every waking move. I certainly wouldn’t. I have a question, what boundaries do you think men should place in a relationship then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:29 PM
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Do 100% straight women even exist? Like not even one little ounce of attraction to other women. Not even one second of being turned on. Even if they are cuddling in bed together
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:27 PM
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Feeling so emotionally and socially well-nourished from constant attention and validation from two nights out Facts. And from social media All women know they can leave their man at anytime and get 10 more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:27 PM
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You're right but by socially acceptable I mean both genders agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:26 PM
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Oh I see So when did it start that women were themselves attracted to high status men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:25 PM
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No person, woman or otherwise, wants to live in a cage of rules built by your insecurities and jealousy. There is no cage. A relationship is a building with the door wide open for anyone to leave anytime How is it a cage?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:24 PM
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Many women go to strip clubs and don't care about their man going to them too. Not all men care about girls going out with friends. There is no men or women think this way. Well that's not my form of monogamy lmao And those people are a minority of monogamous relationships. My comment is talking about the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:24 PM
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Are there gonna be strip clubs in your video game LOL Maybe 😂😂 But if I have a gf, I won't go into strip clubs even in video games
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:22 PM
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Well not every dealbreakers has to be stated For most relationships, a man doesn't need to explicitly tell his girlfriend "You cannot sleep with other guys". It's implied If we had to start stating every dealbreaker, then that's very inefficient
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:21 PM
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Yes very true There's too much anti-man propaganda that makes mens' views seem unacknowledged
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:20 PM
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Since when is a club the same as a stripclub though Both are full of the same stuff. A club just has a better gender balance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:19 PM
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You didn't acknowledge my analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:18 PM
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That you’re insecure, and that insecurity will continue to sabotage your relationships until it’s addressed. Actually if I'm not insecure, then I won't pick up on cheating behaviour If my gf acts super loyal, then my insecurity won't trigger If she does sus behaviour, then my insecurity will trigger So actually only the cheater would sabotage the relationship, not the insecure partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:18 PM
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And in your mind those threats are equally significant? Both people should have their biases. I am not saying women should drop their biases But why can't men have their biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:16 PM
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Women couldn't chase Sir Chad the Tall if he's already in a marriage with Stacyshire. In the past did women even want to chase Sir Chad? Or is that more of a thing in the modern day? And did women not cheat in the past because they genuinely didn't want to? Or because it was way more socially unacceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:14 PM
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Hypergamy is just a term used to refer to women's optimal mating strategy, in contrast with men's optimal strategy being polygyny. Both have been employed since forever What do you mean by strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:12 PM
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And it is ridiculous Are you agreeing that microcheating is wrong? Or are you saying there shouldn't be such a word as microcheating? I can't think of any examples of men not being condemned for behaviour that is not microcheating at the moment. Can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:11 PM
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The whole point of hypergamy was to “marry up Is marrying up a result of women being attracted to higher status men, or is it a result of people wanting to escape poverty?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:10 PM
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Unfortunately you missed the entire point. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:09 PM
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A lot of women like going strip clubs for the very reasons you listed. Just saying I would not want my girl going to a strip club And do 100% straight women go there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:09 PM
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Like, your first thought automatically when a girl posts a selfie is “she’s going to cheat on me”? Yes because many times posting one's physical beauty on social media is the conduit for a relationship It's like saying if a person is holding a gun near me - will I assume they are just there to show me how cool their gun is, or will I be suspicious of their actions Same way, I will always look at women posting hot selfies while in a relationship as suspicious behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:08 PM
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I understand your point of view The way I have formed my debate position is by looking at biases as equal to each other. I am saying all biases are justified. I am not saying one bias over another should not be a bias. I am also not comparing the consequence of not keeping the bias I am saying: All biases should be accepted. When women have biases, they are usually always accepted. When men have them, they are not accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:06 PM
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Would you alter your argument if it were about men in a relationship jerking off to porn rather than going to strip clubs? If the woman in a relationship does not want her man watching porn, she is justified in telling him "I consider watching porn a dealbreaker in this relationship"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:04 PM
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Um, if there are naked men at nightclubs, they get kicked out. I'm being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:03 PM
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Relationships are a privilege. There are certain places a man shouldn't go(club, strip club etc) and places women shouldn't go. Exactly. And both parties can leave the relationship anytime if they don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:03 PM
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Is your girlfriend supposed to stay in the house under lock and key 24/7? That strikes you as “logical”? Nope. However, a monogamous relationship has certain expectations and based on that, certain places are banned. If she doesn't agree to the ban, she can leave the relationship with full free will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:02 PM
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If you can’t trust your partner to go dancing with her girlfriends once in awhile, you have an inherently unhealthy relationship. So then can men in relationships go to strip clubs? If they promise their girlfriend that "I am just dancing with my men friends, NOT the strippers!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:01 PM
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Actually I'm talking about cross gender judgement. The examples I listed in this post are those
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:00 PM
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I am not comparing selfies to rape I am saying everyone should be entitled to their biases as we have biases for certain reasons There is no free will being taken away. Women have the free will to leave and enter monogamous relationships anytime. The man also has this right. Men are saying that in order to have a relationship with me, you need to do XYZ. There is no free will being taken away
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:59 PM
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Like, if your lady posting a selfy is causing you to have jealousy and control issues, you have deeper problems than your girl taking pictures. Fine let's assume I'm insecure But why is it assumed women just post selfies for their woman-friends. Why are they given that benefit of the doubt? This is the point I'm trying to make in this post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:57 PM
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Oh ok I see. How many top guys do this when they are in relationship? By top guys do you mean guys who get alot of female attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:55 PM
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Literally that’s where it came from, young poor women getting scooped up by rich land owning lords. Did women back then try to compete for the lords?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:54 PM
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Women going to the club when in a relationship is like a man going to a strip club and saying: "I just went to see the amazing dancers performing their dance as I am a connoisseur in the beautiful art of dancing. Who cares if the dancers are female and half naked, that's their choice and we can't discriminate"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:54 PM
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Which nobody whose sane would do while in a relationship Exactly. It's like men going to a strip club and claiming "It's just women dancing and it's their choice they don't wanna wear any clothes. But it's not cheating baby"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:52 PM
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Judging by when my lady does it, it’s all her friends talking about it. Case in point, she just got a haircut and dye job last week, and posted a selfie. Most if not all of the likes were from other women, not men. Well I can't say anything about your relationship because it's not my place However, I would not want my gf / wife doing that I still can't comprehend why women feel the need to post their beauty when they have a man who can appreciate it for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:50 PM
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A hot selfie meant to induce attention For most women it would be hot selfies they post for male attention They love it when guys reply to their posts on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:48 PM
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Did hypergamy exist in the distant past too? Like ancient and medieval times?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:47 PM
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This sub is the first place I've read the word "gynocentric" and I understand why I've never head it before. Ironically, the same men that complain about gynocentrism care a lot about the opinions of women. If you criticize them, they'll call you out and insult you. I just searched up what gynocentric means, and this makes alot of sense So many guys here act as if they have no value in this world unless women approve of their actions (at least somewhat). They see women as perfect beings who can …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:45 PM
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Or she thinks she looks good in that top? Or the lighting is great, or her hair and makeup are top notch. Or she’s buzzed and feeling herself. So what does she get by sharing it? If not male attention It's like if a guy in a relationship goes to a club and takes off his shirt in front of all the ladies. If he says "it's just because I look good", that will not be seen as acceptable by many girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:42 PM
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But women can also use weapons and use strategy to hurt others, instead of brute force
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:41 PM
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Women’s complainants are about their safety where as men’s complainants are about controlling women at least based on the ones you listed. I said both biases are fine. People have a right to their biases Why can't men have their biases? And it's not about controlling. It's about acting in accordance with a monogamous relationship. A monogamous relationship is not something that is forced
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:40 PM
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In my experience it's pretty normal for women to call each other out for shitty behavior during a relationship. Like going out clubbing and what not I've noticed women justify each other's behaviors. As a form of "girl-code"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:39 PM
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Taking selfies Taking hot selfies - it's for other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:38 PM
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Women really only want what's best for them. And their biases show that. When a man expresses biases towards them, then women get defensive For example: posting thirst traps when in a relationship. If any guy tells his girlfriend not to do that, she sees it as an attack
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:30 PM
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If a feline approaches me looking for food, I'm gonna react differently depending on whether it's a tiger or a housecat. They are different species though. And one is domesticated and one is not. Men and woman are not different species, and they are closer to the civility of a domesticated animal than wild animals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:39 AM
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I meant baby boys aren't born with the disposition to commit crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:30 AM
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A weapon can be anything. From a gun to a pencil
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:28 AM
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Equalizer weapons don't care about the size and strength of the user
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:11 AM
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Well I don't believe in using track records to judge the next person Because in that case we can use historical data to have prejudice against certain ethnicities. "Your country did this in year X, and thus I think Y about you"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:09 AM
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Strawman alert! None of your examples involved pointing a gun at anyone and your complaint was about men’s behavior being regarded as creepy. So what's the threshold where men and women's same actions are seen with the same level of threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:03 AM
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But those are much rarer as well. MUCH RARER. But why does being female make a human less likely to be crazed and less likely to use weapons to get their will?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:02 AM
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I would perceive both the same. I would be wary of both - man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:00 AM
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OP, are you more scared of men or women? Or maybe it doesn't matter to you? If both a man and a woman are being aggressive towards me, I'll be scared of them both. Gender doesn't dictate their fighting skills or what weapons they have
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:00 AM
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But what if she has a weapon. She can get one as easily as a man can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:57 AM
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it is not really surprising that behaviors are interpreted differently, is it? In this case, if both a man and woman are pointing a gun at someone, then the woman should be seen as less of a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:52 AM
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You analyzed it perfectly!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:51 AM
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You're right about that. Would you say that a woman passing a sexual comment towards a guy is less dangerous than a guy doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:18 AM
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Then that is one of the reasons why men are perceived in a bad light at first
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:17 AM
2

People tend to be more scared of random lone men in the wilderness than a random lone woman*
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:15 AM
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As with anything, context is key here. My examples were the context. No matter the context, men will have to pass certain tests before they are deemed safe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:15 AM
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as women love to do reputation destruction as much as possible. Maybe this is another contributing factor. Women battle more via "reputation assassination"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:14 AM
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But in all these scenarios both the man and the women are complete strangers and you don't know if the person is introverted or extroverted there just a stranger doing an activity. Exactly. Their quite behaviors are seen differently Women are called introverts Men are called creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:13 AM
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I do not believe that men are more likely to be criminals by birth. I believe it boils down to strength and risk taking. Men have more strength and are higher risk takers So men are caught for crime more often as they take the risk to commit it. Their strength gives them more courage, and thus increases their risk tolerance However, what I am trying to debate is that due to these stigmas, men are perceived as threats/creeps before anything else. Women are given the benefit of doubt more often If…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:12 AM
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If you think this is true, where do you think this comes from? “For some reason”, you say…but what reason? Because society hates men? Context is everything. I think it comes from women not being perceived as having a potential to be a threat. I believe with technology and weapons, women can pose an equal threat a man can However, when it comes to unarmed combat, mostly men prevail, and so they are still seen as more of a threat, when in reality women just have to work slightly harder to become a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:09 AM
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Men who are physically diminutive in size, stature, build and appearance still suffer from this automatic stigma as long as they are still visibly male Yeahh. Women even admit men they are attracted to scare them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:07 AM
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That is where the real double standard exists. And honesty it exists for a very rational reason. Men and women are just different. We behave differently. We perceive things differently. But don't many women say they lust over men the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:07 AM
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Yes and I am debating that society doesn't perceive the danger women can create. Women can get a hold of weapons and use them the same as a man can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:06 AM
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Favouritism to women is well established at this point. You can read actual scientific literature about it. What does it boil down to? Looks? Physical danger? Or due to extreme feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:06 AM
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When you keep yourself to yourself, people don't know your intentions, and can fill in the gaps with something bad. Men are seen with the bad light. Anti-social women are seen as being modest ​ Basically if you emulate a classic boomer socially, it will mostly put people at ease. Boomers tend to socialize randomly with strangers. Women on this subreddit say they don't want to be talked to by strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:05 AM
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Actually it happens alot where men are seen as weird for all of those actions. There are alot of anecdotal experiences which women don't experience as much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:03 AM
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Actually in my experience, alot of people do care. People tend to stay away from random lone men in the wilderness, but if there was a random lone woman in the wilderness, people would assume she may need help I'm not saying people don't have a right to be scared of whoever, however I do think more people than half would see a lone man in the wilderness as creepy, and a woman not so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:03 AM
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I am just worried they are trying to determine how much money I make, or to determine how much "respect I deserve" based on my occupation Because many people are status driven
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:41 PM
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they can only take advantage of you if you let them, you'll be fine But sometimes these women set up blackmail traps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:31 PM
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Oh lolll yes you're right Especially c) Thank you again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:21 PM
1

Thank you! I wish I can become like him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:15 PM
1

I've realized over the years, true love like in the movies doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:15 PM
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Women like guys who are not desperate. Ohh I see Could you give me an example of being: desperate, not desperate and ignoring a woman Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:46 PM
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You're right Every once in a while I always get stuck on one girl and think there is no better girl out there Why don't girls experience the same lack of abundance mindset that many gusy do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:46 PM
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That's how you see ugly poor dudes with hot girlfriends. This gives me hope. Basically I don't really put too much thought into my looks as long as I looksmax. But I won't obsess over it because I know women are usually the more attractive gender anyways So what really makes a woman sexually desire a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:45 PM
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So I'd never win over a woman's love just by being her best friend right? I gotta ignite some primal feelings in her - mostly via status right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:42 PM
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I'm talking about when women ask men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:41 PM
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Yeah true :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:53 PM
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Software Engineer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:53 PM
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Tech is low status?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:39 PM
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But rich men are afraid too. So are celebs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:39 PM
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But don't women like guys who lowkey ignore them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:34 PM
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Why do women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:33 PM
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Oh yeah I saw the video and wanted to talk about it He has a very chilled out attitude and he just has fun What are some starter examples as to how men can adopt a more IDGAF attitude? Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:32 PM
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Yeah, but it proves my point. A man's money is something women want. Which women want it depends on how much money those women have
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:31 PM
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What do you think happens? However this world is getting more expensive to live in and a person with a job has a better chance of getting a relationship than a jobless person No because relationships are based in love, and love transcends all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:10 PM
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Yeah, most women are indeed gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:10 PM
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If you were attractive enough and smooth enough, you could be broke and homeless and still get laid. I wanna be like this. How can I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:09 PM
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So women discriminate against plumbers and mechanics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:09 PM
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Is there any way we men can hold the keys to physical intimacy? And yeah thanks for the rest of the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:08 PM
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Okay but it's not like gold diggers are just those who go for men who already have the money People invest in stocks too. So gold diggers can "invest" in a guy aka wait for him to get rich
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:07 PM
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aspiring tech bros But some could realize my video game can make me millions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:05 PM
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All girls want handsome, tall, with lifestyle. A medical profession job is online verifiable so they can look you up and know they’re not wasting their time with someone trying to look rich, but aren’t. Most all girls are going to try and find you online after you ask for the date, if she doesn’t like something she’ll prob bail. Do women really investigate that deep? ​ Every girl wants to be with a guy that got some sort of cool life. Oh I see. Sorry I'm confused, are you saying that your house …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:03 PM
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What about software engineers in startups, which have the potential to earn millions And many people including women are misinformed about how much software engineers make. They assume it's ALOT
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:02 PM
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True LOL Also what percent of women like bad boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:00 PM
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Not many are rich, but games do blow up from time to time and make millions. Many people who don't know about game dev would think this is the case So that's why I'm worried girls will gold dig if they know I'm into game dev
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:00 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:52 PM
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Sorry I missed that part lol And what if both their activities match up? In terms of ability to do them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:52 PM
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No, I'm saying that we men are stuck. Women are gold diggers, so we all have to have money to attract them. We have no choice but to attract gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:51 PM
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No one gold digs “potential”. Then no one invests in the stock market Of course people dig potential gold So many girls joke and say "Get with the medical student" cuz he'll be rich one day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:50 PM
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then lie and say you are in debt Then women might say ew and run
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:49 PM
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"Why are you paranoid? You have no gold" -Says the Women here that will either ghost or reject you based off of your occupation alone. Factss bro ​ Have a boring, status job and you'll be met with the "we're not compatible" "I can't brag about your occupation to my friends and family" script. Even more facts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:48 PM
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No what if the jobless person never asks his gf for money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:47 PM
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Don't women like those bad boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:46 PM
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Oh okk, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:46 PM
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Factsss
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:45 PM
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I don't have one right now, but whatever money I do have - some women could perceive it as alot Also, what if I get rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:45 PM
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What about stuff like game dev where the potential for riches is high
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:44 PM
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Okay what if he's a guy who doesn't ask his gf for money, but he's a "hobo"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:44 PM
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Yes I know, but it's a matter of nuance The woman I'm dating is more likely to be aware of my finances and thus more likely to have greed for them And she is more likely to convince the cops of her false accusation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:44 PM
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Ouuuu this is good Would this also make her chase me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:38 PM
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met another husband and asked them "what do you do for work?" I'm not interviewing them to see if I can mooch off them. But the thing is, we are men and we don't gold dig like that But I feel like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:38 PM
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Idkk loll but I know I'm pretty smart, pick up on alot of patterns, but then also overthink irrationally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:37 PM
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How did they react?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:37 PM
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> Like fake blackmail etc how? "Gimme money or I'll tell the police you hit me"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:33 PM
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No because men don't gold dig
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:25 PM
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Some women might find 70k alot. That's what I'm trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:21 PM
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But then doesn't that again boil down to how much a man can provide - aka knowledge in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:21 PM
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Wait why do some women date broke guys if women are usually attracted to money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:09 PM
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If you’re wasting your potential by staying in a minimum wage job, then that’s not very admirable nor fun to be around since you’re not living life to the fullest. But someone has to do those jobs, and it's unfair if they aren't liked for that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:04 PM
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What if I get rich
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:58 PM
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I mean for some women that might be alot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:58 PM
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I used to be a software engineer, but now I might go into sales I don't earn more than average, however both jobs have alot of earning potential, and I'm worried women will want to gold dig based on that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:54 PM
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Wouldn't they want a rich man though in the first place just to date within their socio-econ bracket?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:50 PM
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:(((( Will they try to scheme to take the guy's money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:49 PM
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I’d assume you’re trying to freeload off me But it's not like the man is asking the woman for money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:49 PM
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Wouldn't super rich women be more interested in dating rich men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:49 PM
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You seem obsessed with this. Why do you think women on a first date are trying to get your money? I think there's too much propaganda out there telling me that women are gold diggers. I need a new perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:48 PM
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It's still weird because women go for these things before personality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:47 PM
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And a lot of us also want that from a man. So what happens when a man refuses to provide? Does he have to worry the woman will turn vindictive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:47 PM
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Ya ure right Like girls used to lock eyes with me and smile and stuff but I didn't have the guts to say hi lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:46 PM
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Then would these women try to trap the guy by fake blackmail etc? Like how some women do with male celebs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:45 PM
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That's the scary part. What if she tries to steal from me by trapping me into something? Like fake blackmail etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:42 PM
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I see. Well it's a double fear I obviously want women to like me, but I don't want them to gold dig If I tell them about my job, then if women are attracted to money they will like me But if I don't tell them, and if women are attracted to money, they won't like me So it's basically that women like guys with money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:42 PM
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Oh I see And what's the reason women chase doctors? Do they want their money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:41 PM
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No but if I become one, I don't want to tell ANY woman that I'm a millionaire unless she's been with me while I was not one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:40 PM
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then you might not be ambitious enough for her. So basically they want money right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:40 PM
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Yeah you're right It's mostly that I don't put myself in a space where girls are When I put myself in that space, I am able to get girls interested in me, but I don't believe they like me Like they get interested but then I self sabotage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:39 PM
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Do you think they were attracted to the status or they lowkey wanted to take the General Surgeon's money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:34 PM
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Usually they just call my career cool No one has asked about money yet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:32 PM
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It’s probably not a gold digger question as you don’t need to explicit ask to figure out what economic bracket someone is in. It’s normally pretty easy to figure out from their dating profile Some rich people don't buy expensive brands and live modest lives though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:31 PM
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Maybe I should keep it vague and change the topic right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:30 PM
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So then it's about money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:29 PM
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I have those three, but I don't have a super masculine and assertive personality. That's why girls don't like me (I think lol idk)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:29 PM
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If a woman knows a guy is rich, and she is attracted to him, will she try to steal his money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:28 PM
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Yeah true. Sometimes they push to find out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:27 PM
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I see. I understand the status part as women are very status driven Do you think they form plans to try to steal the guy's money? Like screwing him over or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:26 PM
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70,000 CAD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:25 PM
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make sure he has the ability to provide Whaaaa- why can't women provide themselves their own resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:19 PM
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:((((((((((((((
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:18 PM
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and men's paranoia about it is baffling Is this a common paranoia among men? I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:18 PM
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I get what you mean though.. Sometimes you get the feeling the question is asked with an ulterior motive or like they're working out how much respect to give you. Yaaa exactlyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:17 PM
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No Smart, abs, hot face What if I have those 3 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:15 PM
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They don't make enough money to compensate for the other issues For THEIR other issues you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:12 PM
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I'm just scared they are trying to find out how much money I make
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:11 PM
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How do I know if it's a convo starter or gold digging?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:10 PM
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Yeah you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 PM
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But isn't it a justified fear?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 PM
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Nahh I never wanna talk about my job with women. But they keep asking and it makes me uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 PM
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So is it just establishing status on a human to human level, or are these women expecting to get money from me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:09 PM
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I always want to respond "I'm not comfortable telling you that right now" when they ask about my job
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:08 PM
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What if I have all three
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:07 PM
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What if a guy posts both?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:04 PM
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But wouldn't they like them since tech bros have alot of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:52 PM
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I don’t think it really has anything to do with the game developer himself. It’s more that video games are cool as hell. But even from non-gamer women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:44 AM
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OP is saying that women who don't seem to like games were interested in game development videos Yeahh exactly. This made me think, do they just want the game developer because they think he will get rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:43 AM
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Because people light up and appear enthusiastic when discussing it. Ohh true But how can they see my passion if someone doesn't post their face when they post their game dev videos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:54 PM
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As long as you're not into some creepy shit LOL trueee Do girls find nerdy stuff creepy though? Like LEGOs / video games? Because sometimes girls have weird standards and think all men are creepy for everything they do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:53 PM
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But since they are non-gamers, how do they know it's hard? And is it impressive in a sexually attractive way or just a cool way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:52 PM
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Yeah I'd find it attractive However, the girls responding to my game dev progress aren't into games themselves. They are just aware of what I'm doing. And they know what video games are. They are non-gamers though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:52 PM
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Like I don't see why it's romantically attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:07 PM
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Why is passion attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:31 PM
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Usually super hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:30 PM
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Yaa that's true. I've noticed people (both guys and girls) being more sexually conservative at non-party schoosl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:22 PM
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I mostly know girls from YorkU and TMU Maybe that's why right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:02 PM
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men being intelligent and pursuing a craft or a passion is attractive. In a sexual way or a platonic way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:30 PM
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Ohh. Because sometimes they used to reply to my videos of doing actual workouts But they NEVER EVER replied to pics of my abs. Even though I expected girls to go crazy over my abs They only responded to things I did
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:17 PM
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Shouldn’t you do the research as a developer? Lol I know, but more guys than girls play video games
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:11 PM
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but it's also the fact that you ae interested in something How come girls didn't "chase" me when I used to post gym selfies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:11 PM
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Ohh okk I've never really gotten female interest before, so it feels so weird (in a good way)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:10 PM
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But they never gave me attention before. Like when I posted other things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:08 PM
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this But do most girls even care about video games?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:04 PM
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Oh actually they were not from CS They are like typical hot girls. I never expected to get attention from them What could be the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:02 PM
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It's still in the development stage, but it looks cool to me. And I'm showing my code and the behind the scenes drawing on paper etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:01 PM
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Why does social media make it seem like women have body counts in the multiples of 10, but in real life it's so hard to find a woman with a body count over 2? Despite being from Toronto, Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:00 PM
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Why do so many girls like that I'm developing a video game? I post about my game development journey everyday on my social media and it shows that I work hard on it So far girls that didn't talk to me are asking me about it Is this based in girls finding ambition attractive? Or do they think I will get rich and are "gold digging", not realizing that most game devs don't make any money Or is it just an interesting thing I'm doing and they like it on a human to human level?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:59 PM
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Why do so many girls like that I'm developing a video game? I post about my game development journey everyday on my social media and it shows that I work hard on it So far girls that didn't talk to me are asking me about it Is this based in girls finding ambition attractive? Or do they think I will get rich and are "gold digging", not realizing that most game devs don't make any money Or is it just an interesting thing I'm doing and they like it on a human to human level?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:58 PM
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