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Ok thank you.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 12:34 PM
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You did. But this is life bro, i can judge ur a similiar age to me. You need to cut out all contact or go pour all you heart out. Thats what i did i had been friendzoned and the recent one i had like you say and i would say. It's a "unicorn. She's perfect this and that. But no man there are others and it's hard it's not easy but u need to cut all contact or pour your heart out. Go do it and then come back here when ur ready to learn. I poured mine out, took her on a date was the biggest Bluepill…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:25 AM
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I've walked this path, you'll get with her maybe when shes drunk ull fuck her. But if u want a relationship and the way your feelings are for her. It's not gonna happen. You have put her so far on a pedestal that shes done. Maybe the party was ur test instead of saying "goodbye kiss" and just went for it if she was caressing on you then maybe story would be diffrent. It's not shes not into you it's like she says ur now her best friend you either live with that or move on. Or stay like this for m…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 01:16 AM
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Now let me be straight forward with you. I would have written a post like this word for word what you have written and ask trp for advice. But no instead read the sidebar and understand the way I did what you have is a disease.... I was same as you if not worst. Like word for word. Except mine would kiss me and let me escalate but heres the breaking point for you: she said no (full stop) it's not gonna change and the more clingy and the more you message and the more stupid shit you ask like "goo…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:56 AM
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yikes sounds bad but fair enough they didn't kick off any major drama. thanks for sharing
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:13 PM
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Wise words, Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:47 AM
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wow how did you react to that?, People must have been looking and saying like wtf. Did you just hold frame and carry on? Thanks for sharing
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:46 AM
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I have given speeches and talked in front of people, It's not more the fear like I said this post was just to hear some of your personal shutdowns or failed approaches you had, but I will take that advice thanks
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:50 PM
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no one cares if you fail man, and until you try you will never know. Read some sidebar tips and just approach nice and simple first then slowly build it up. I was similar to you. next time you see one and she catches eye contact or you think she's good looking, before your mind talks you out of it walk straight to her. good luck and tell us how it goes, hit some FRs
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:41 PM
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Man good job keep it up, good stuff man, same days since I found the trp as well but I haven't jumped as much as you. good shit man any tips to share ;)
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:49 PM
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will do man, space it out and section it?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 12:02 AM
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I love this, thank you next time I see an opportunity, I will remember this statement and do it. thank you
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:56 AM
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Thanks for this, I will let you know how it goes, I will approach next time
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:56 AM
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Let me speak from experience of being a beta orbiter. She wants validation she want's to be known that she' worth or pretty. Because every time anything goes to shit the beta orbiter will comfort her or make her feel on top of the world and be the "emotional tampon". It's her own little motivation button to put it into simple terms, as boys sometimes think I'm not good enough or attractive enough but have a tougher frame and can improve on it, girls have their very own validation/attractive butt…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:37 AM
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I'm in High school and it seems like you are chasing SMV and just want to get laid but I mean aren't you gonna go to uni soon?(im UK). High school is full of immature people and friendship groups. The way I look at it you do something stupid or try and pull someone you'll get shit for it but it dies down soon. You need to just go out and socialise and just talk to new people. Getting into friendship groups is hard but there are open friendship groups in all schools. I have had to change schools …
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:49 PM
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Thanks man and ye maybe I will approach more and post this on trp further down the line as this was my starting point to just approaching because I wanted to, and build some natural trp instincts. Thanks for your advice and I will carry on approaching :)
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:13 PM
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Na trp has taught me a lot and one is not to apologise, If I apologised I would have been the biggest beta and would have failed everything as she legit was testing me to be honest and If I apologised that would have looked the worst. I think she admired and it and If I asked for her number who knows maybe she would have given it, till the next one!
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:12 PM
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What flair would it fall under then, I'd edit and explain in more detail my past and how trp has helped me and show how in this example it proves trp but ye might not post it yet maybe put it to a full test in town someday or next party and see how it goes with kino and so on. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:24 AM
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The girl on the bench was something else tbh, I had no idea who she was and the mate I was walking back with asked me what I was doing, so I told him what I said to her and he just laughed and went fuck off man no way would you do something like that and I just laughed it off, It was just something spontaneous that happened so naturally.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:49 AM
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Thanks I will watch his videos and do you think I should post this on trp as a FR?
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:48 AM
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haha I only did that cause it was so late at night, she was older than me and it was so dark I doubt she saw the wink and just did it without thinking. Rest aside do not worry won't do it again :)
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:47 AM
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Agreed tbh I'm going to Leeds fest this year and I can see this being the best pick up line or engage to use. But at the party next week not to sure as people won't be that fucked any others for the party this weekend?. But 100% sure and thank you for that one to use at festivals
/r/askTRP23/03/18 07:08 PM
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I like that one and I would use that. It's my sort of engage but my issue is holding her hand there?. Wouldn't that freak her the fuck out. I get the hi five part and also what if she just blanks you or looks away or her friends jump down your throat for trying?. Maintain frame and blank?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 05:40 PM
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Thank you for the advice and yes, my plan is to approach as many girls a possible and just get better. Thanks
/r/askTRP23/03/18 05:39 PM
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OH, ah it makes sense now, I kept repeating them in my head until I said it out loud and now it makes sense to use an opener. If she's waiting for something, In a sort of enthusiastic and flirty way I could say, "wow well look at you!" then let her giggle then use a line opener or carry on a conversation?. correct me if I'm wrong
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:18 PM
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So just casually and calmly use these lines and blend them into a conversation or open with them as well?. Thank you I can see how I can use them but seems difficult to put them into a context or when would they best work?. Thanks
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:03 PM
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If she's ruining your life, fucking it up and distracting you then ignore her. I had to do this for a week with my oneitis, cause it's not healthy and was affecting me. After I read TRP read, understood what to do, I don't blank her anymore and can handle myself as friend to her without getting to clingy or replying and getting caught in her web again. YOU need to make the decision. If you can just keep small talk, be happy as friends talk about the "masters degree" and not start getting attache…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:06 PM
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what would you say if she directed a shit test towards your height?. Just wondering as to what you'd reply to it or would you ignore the comment? or just laugh it off and walk away?. thanks in advance. Just wondering cause I'm unsure as to how I'd take a insult/shit test from a girl towards my height. Boys I'd be fine
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 06:09 PM
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Ye, after reading TRP, I just want to go and talk to any random girl that looks decent. But I got to learn to control it cause 2 girls I talked to yesterday clearly weren't interested, didn't give me eye contact. I was just being stupid. I'm working on the idgaf attitude and learning to tease but just being a nice guy teasing doesn't come naturally to me(reading no more mr nice guy already).
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:00 AM
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Read the sidebar on that one as well bro, If you still think shes giving you IOIs. Tell her a location X and a time Y and tell her to meet you there or considering she basically wants your D, Drive to hers and take her somewhere.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:57 AM
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I see your point and my parties are very similar as well, and due to the fact, I have locked myself into once social group, every time i try to pull or flirt. I get shit from my mates or people around me give me looks. First off, stop giving a fuck is what I've learnt. The reason why they look at you is cause they are jealous and insecure fucks themselves and when they see you pulling. They're blue pill knowledge is to put a hammer into your works. I've got a party next week. My personal plan is…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:19 AM
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Ok thank you for the advice. I was more doing it as to to the fact of meeting new people everyday. Cause not in a way to hit on her, cause I probs don't have a chance and she has a bf but it's to just improve my social skills. "your error by behaving like every other guy out there." any personal tips or recommendations to stand out?
/r/askTRP11/03/18 10:08 AM
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any personal recommendations for convo starters?. and ty for the advice
/r/askTRP11/03/18 12:19 AM
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Interesting read. Just keep approaching. I approach anyone I find interesting these days, boys or girls. It does also get easier as you talk to more and realise people aren't always out to judge you. as for all the girl advice and stuff. I'm only learning and beginning the ways so I hope someone gives you some advice as I'd be interested as to what you do with that girl. imo give her the D, if you think she still wants it. other than that hope someone more experienced could hopefully help you as…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 12:00 AM
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I love that one, next time I get eye contact and see one intrested I'm gonna try that, gotta meet a new person everyday. ok thanks man. but like I normally jsut say excuse me and ask for her name then see if they shake my hand and then... but I'm gonna try that one.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 11:04 PM
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so then what else can you use as convo starters?. I normally say she looks cute or something
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:24 PM
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I will work on this, thank you. hold abundance mentality even if you succeed or fail.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 09:15 PM
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It's not about the ugly one rejecting me, It's yesterdays that dawned on me cause, I had basically done all the steps properly and read her wrong, but today the opposite happened and the ugly one just walked away. but yesterdays wanted to me ask for her number.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 09:07 PM
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maybe you stumbled here too early or haven't hit that point yet, I think I had read trp a few years back when just surfing the web. But back then i was naive and skipped it without giving too much attention or believing all the things written about women in the sidebar. fast forward a few years and I accidentally stumble upon it again, re read it all again and it saves me this time. Gets me over onetis, stop beta orbiter and wakes me up to the reality of it. Makes me look back through my experie…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:10 PM
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ok thanks for the advice, I will do this next time and just give it a 100% solid effort and see how it goes. thanks!
/r/askTRP09/03/18 07:47 PM
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It was sorta a weird experience cause when my eyes locked, I don't think I was doing a face or anything it was just a Mesmerising experience and then she snapped out of it and looked away. and ok Thank you so lead more and ask her more questions? or go straight with I see your busy atm but after wanna grab a coffee or can i get your number to carry on this convo?
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:30 PM
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another question when holding eye contact, when is it ok to wink or smile? cause our stare was just me looking straight into her eye and holding it.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:36 PM
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sorry bro. short form read the last 2 paragraphs.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:30 PM
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thank you, would u recommend to wink or smile? or to just hold the stare?. Cause thats the first time I was matched with the stare back and held eye contact. (you will see a lot of field reports soon I'm just gonna hit any good looking girl I see :) )
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:29 PM
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At my gym, I know what you mean. The hot girls are always older but this one yesterday seemed to be a year younger than me tbh. But I reckon to work on your frame and mindset. Personally I'm bery tempted to go tell this 20/22 year old who seems to look at me occasionally that she is gorgeous and she how it goes. What have I got to lose? she comes with another guy sometimes (not her bf i think) but even if I'd probably deck him. :). not a trp god but to learn and improve my game I'm thinking of g…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 07:39 AM
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I will keep this in mind now
/r/askTRP09/03/18 07:36 AM
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She seemed intrested but when she gave me one word answers and didn't ask me anything about myself I though, this is my cue to leave. the eye contact and holding it was what made me do it in the first place plus she blushed and looked intrested. also Did i start the convo the right way? and yes I'm learning and will take that advice on. thanks
/r/askTRP09/03/18 12:22 AM
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ah ok well this girl didn't seem that type but I see what you mean, but to play tennis or racket ball, U have to book. but my normal gym is right next to centre of town. and cafe downstairs. and I will approach others and try often. especially party next week 100ish people and I dont knw about 50 of em so gonna try then as well. I have some more questions to frame related but I'll ask em later ty for ur advice
/r/askTRP08/03/18 11:50 PM
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ye she didn't look away and blushed plus I did it just to test myself out tbh, cause I'm probs not gonna see her again. So ok thanks for that, I'll keep trying and learn and improve and stuff. what would I ask her to do with me at the gym? coffee downstairs after?
/r/askTRP08/03/18 11:22 PM
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She wants you in orbit, She will give you IOIs like crazy, go out with friends and stuff like that and she'll pull you back in orbit without you realising it. I was n the same place as you trp saved my fucking life, instead of blocking my onetis, because same as you it used to be gut wrenching and I had huge beta traits back then( still working on them) and I'd pour my heart and shit like that. And just like you I have to see her and go to parties and blocking doesn't work for me so instead I ke…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:49 PM
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This is what I needed to read, sorry If I'm interfering here but I guess I didn't type my post properly. But thank you this was a what I needed to read to get my head back in the game. Thank you
/r/askTRP05/03/18 10:05 PM
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Alright thanks for that, needed to hear it from someone I guess, cause like I said I'm not the best looking or model or some shit but, I've pulled before and I can talk to girls and stuff and now reading sidebar and trp has helped more as well, but it's just a recent thing thats developed in my head that my baby/chubby face is gonna destroy my chances before even trying.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 03:31 PM
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No I'm not someone that bigs myself up loads, I have got with decent people and can pull, It's more so at parties and stuff I just have this thing in my head(recently) my chubby face is gonna fk my chances up before I even try, rest of my body is fine, gyms built me up well
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:17 AM
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Ill edit it but it's mainly as the title says, Looks matter but due to my baby face, I'm worried that girls have already judged me before i speak to them
/r/askTRP04/03/18 11:34 PM
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and btw if u do please tell me how u got over it, im struggling here as well xd but I'm holding my ground
/r/askTRP22/02/18 10:47 PM
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this is legit so honest, I pursued and chased until I realised I'm hitting a brick wall then came here and swallowed the pill and now, I'm slowly improving and learning. hope you get through this bro and I feel for ya, (fucksuperwoman)
/r/askTRP22/02/18 06:36 PM
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I don't know what advice to give here but I'll try, first time. I was a beta orbiter and had massive oneitis, for a whole year. Since discovering and reading TRP i have managed to ignore and blank her and trying to move on. He seems to be stuck like me mine as well seemed to be like the best one I can get but mine changed her mind back and forth went off me on and off. It's like this reddit says. She seeks validation and wants him(me) in orbit to be there when she needs and support and pick her …
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:00 PM
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ah yes that is some advice I need to imply on, I guess I get a bit nervous and want to give a good first impression so I do think before I speak but when I walk away, I always think back and say, fuck if only I said that or teased her with this"". Thanks
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:20 PM
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thanks it's more like I don't choke or anything its when im walking away i realise, oh god i said that, that was stupid or I should have said this instead but by then it's too late.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:08 AM
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Ye ok thanks and ye i have read the sidebar and taken a lot on board from it, was just wondering if anyone has any personal or their own tips thats all :). And ye I'm going to just have fun and chill out. Plus I was reading the sidebar and there was this line, that was saying tell her to turn around and when she says why tell her " I didn't see your ass the first time you walked in" is this a good one to use?
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:29 AM
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i will remember for next time
/r/askTRP17/02/18 11:15 PM
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alright thank you, ill do it next time i see her and let you know how it goes, I'll start casual and just ask her hows shes being and stuff and then ask im walking away say that?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 08:21 PM
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can i ask how should i ask her out for a coffee without sounding too creepy or something?. "When are u done?, I'm going to town to grab a coffee u free to come?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 06:55 PM
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oh ye don't worry I didn't change or do anything different just for her being there. but ye LIFT. cheers
/r/askTRP17/02/18 04:14 PM
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it wasn't awkward when i saw her again but ye i see what you mean. but i saw her and I had to couldn't throw an opportunity and ye i lift hard anyway. thanks for the advice. never say sorry ye i fucked up step 1. thank you
/r/askTRP17/02/18 03:17 PM
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i never realised and though of it like that, thank you and I'll work on it
/r/askTRP17/02/18 03:15 PM
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thanks for this and ye next time i see her I'll ask her for a coffee straight away after her gym
/r/askTRP17/02/18 03:15 PM
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