Justifiable Oneitis?

fnordsnord · 2018-02-22T16:26:45+00:00

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firewaterdirt · 2018-02-22T18:21:11+00:00

Lmao she didn't game you bro. She saw you for the pussy creep you were and blocket your ass for getting too obsessed. She is out there sucking dick. You are here on reddit writing a post about her. Wake up bro.

abdada · 2018-02-22T16:19:51+00:00

GFTOW

ReddJive · 2018-02-22T18:02:30+00:00

You thought you saw a unicorn

You are not doing some good introspection into what happened. You are throwing it back on her saying...wow my game was good but she was just better.

No. Your game was non-existent and she sounds like a down girl. Women who know they are desired shit test hard. In fact they are the easiest to work with because there is no pretense. They just throw up the shields. They are sarcastic, fun, and pretty much they are looking for the same. They've seen all the lines, all the players. They want a real man who is authentic in himself to man up.

You. You played games. AA, AM....ugh they all tools but with no frame they make you look like a childish asshole as best, at worse a clueless loser. Then you proved it to her.

I don’t think classic game works on super smart girls.

No it absolutely works. works like gang busters but you have to adapt and you can't run a script. women smell your lack of emotional authenticity like lions smell blood on the Serengeti.

Take your lumps. Admit to yourself you fucked up. and move on.

newflame97 · 2018-02-22T17:00:53+00:00

Once you break frame and apologize, AND get blocked, there's really not much you can do to salvage the girl.

That looks like a hard next from her. I'm curious what exactly happened that made you feel like you needed to apologize?

Ricklogical · 2018-02-22T18:24:26+00:00

Sounds like you became too crazy for her at once and started to overload her.

Have you seen Rick and Morty? Do you remember when Morty became able to do everything and anyone he wanted so he finally took that big tit chick out to dinner and he was ranting at her?

She said something that changed my life "Oh, I see, you would just get bored with me." Morty accepts this and boom, she's gone.

Check it out. If you overload a woman too often, she gets pissed. She's got things to do and you are getting in the way of them.

No matter how attracted she is, if you are in her face all the time it is like rubbing a rash, it breaks and bleeds and infects and she freaks out.

She chokes the whole thing off with a band aide and tries not to touch it.

I would say leave her alone, maybe acknowledge her existence in passing but do not try to engage her. Learn in the meantime how to control yourself around women that don't suck like air headed bimbos.

Gratz on finding a woman that excites you. Good luck learning how to keep it cool.

I've gone crazy for a few women in my life. They always act like they love it, even encourage it. But soon enough they get sick of it. A good crazy intense interaction is never good in words but in actions now and then.

The woman I was crazy for was a solid 9. One of the few I have ever known. The the level that when I took her places everyone around me was constantly looking at her in awe.

In person I kept it cool but my text game was too much shit. She cut me loose. Something about her just makes me rant insane shit.

She's sick of it and honestly, even if I run into a woman like that again, I'll never give it all like I did with her, she didn't deserve that tidal wave of garbage and I hated the result.

Some things are better left unsaid. Lots of things. Take action, talk less, don't be too serious, do not worship them.

Better than a bimbo, great. Still has to earn her part, is still just another human being.

Good luck.

RAiderNat88 · 2018-02-22T17:16:25+00:00

I start spending a lot of time with her

Did you ever close? If not she immediately put you in the beta orbiter category.

ThickDickWarrior89 · 2018-02-22T18:22:06+00:00

You’re not ready yet. Go ahead and relentlessly pursue her. You need to get crushed so you can swallow the pill. All jokes aside.

quicklogaccount · 2018-02-22T18:28:24+00:00

Justifiable Oneitis?

Well, that shit kind of happens. Oneitis most often steams from scarcity, you associate the chick with being sexually fulfilled when you're used to be unfulfilled. How can one not fall in love deeply with that?
If you had been picking lots of other chicks, you're on a whole different level. That's a lot harder to solve.
BUT this is not your case...

I don’t want to settle for anything less than her.

Well, that's a terrible line. How about, you want to settle for yourself?
You see dude, this is matrix. "Your mind makes it real". You did something teens make ALL the time, you lent this chick some traits and a imagery that you enjoy and the only thing she did was not acting in a fashion that proved you wrong: You IDEALIZED the chick and crushed for the idealization. Here:

Met this HB7.5 in class. (...) At this point she is an HB10 to me.

You managed to change opinions on her LOOKS, which is a remarkable objective thing (for each one);

I’m seeing this as an LTR in the near future. Never been in an LTR.

You GAVE HER A ROLE. This is a bad move man, when you do give someone a role of fit someone in a stereotype, you get caught in confirmation and accessibility biases: You'll only see how they're FITTING to this role because you'll be looking for these proofs, and evidences of otherwise will slip from you, AND you'll romanticize your memories and remember the good stuff far more promptly.

So I feel the need to tighten up my game and make zero mistakes.

This is where you fucked up, I'll bet.
You sought to tighten your game but you ended up hesitant and overly conservative, both remarkably low value behaviors. She's a woman like all others. Keep this in mind.
Your hesitation and failure to escalate, also probably allowing the window to close, was what caused her to "see through".

I don’t think classic game works on super smart girls. Genuineness is one’s best bet.

mmmm. Depends on how you define game.
Trying to be an attractive and valuable dude, but reckoning women perceive things differently and enveloping your traits and conversation in order to make it more appealing to women? Well, this is how you'll pick up EVERY girl, because awalt.
Trying to envelope your shitty self and see if she'll buy it? Well, it won't work on more seasoned chicks, I wouldn't think of it as a case of intelligence or not.

I’m listening to punk rock and hoping for someone to give me some direction.

mmm. Here's what I'd do.

1 - BREAK the idealization: Mental exercise, remember she's a chick like all others and look for the ugly shit, the shit that makes her unsuitable for a relationship.
2 - FORGET she exists and go fuck other gals, you'll remind just how much dumb bimbos are FUN. The most dull women still end up being fun as they moan man.
3 - Work on liking women and not your idealization of them. Church gave you one imagery, feminism tried to give you another, both are fake and both allow you to be exploited by worthless gals. Good way to do this is try to get in touch with your natural self as a guy, turns out amalt too.

redpilledprince · 2018-02-22T16:28:13+00:00

So I feel the need to tighten up my game and make zero mistakes.

This is where you're going to fail 9 times out of 10. Your game will naturally improve when you're outcome independent and have two in the kitty.

Zanford · 2018-02-22T21:57:12+00:00

You're overthinking this. Your oneitis is all over your post. She could smell your desperation, I guarantee it. She got creeped out, blocked you etc.

You have thoroughly fucked this one up. You just need to find other girls. The only scenario which ends with her is if you are with hotter girls and that piques her interest in you. Unlikely, but if that thought helps you game other girls, then all to the good.

TheStumblingWolf · 2018-02-22T22:29:04+00:00

So I feel the need to tighten up my game and make zero mistakes.

This is where you trip over yourself.

max_peenor · 2018-02-22T22:33:05+00:00

Also known as: Justified Self-homocide?

Kill the beta.

Kratos74 · 2018-02-22T19:24:45+00:00

I’m so confused, your game has to be way off course if you got her to block you. Need more details about how you got from point A to blocked to figure out where all you fucked it up.

As far as oneitis, no forget about this girl. She’s a nobody now capiche?

Title	Justifiable Oneitis?
Author	fucksupermanwoman
Upvotes	3
Comments	35
Date	February 22, 2018 4:16 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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