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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP26/04/18 10:06 PM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:14 PM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP14/06/17 08:28 PM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:44 AM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:56 AM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP20/04/18 08:58 PM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP10/08/17 04:14 PM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:24 PM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP25/06/17 07:11 AM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askTRP25/06/17 08:26 AM
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PreOrgasmGroanLness/r/askMRP10/08/17 04:15 PM
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Red Pill TheoryPreOrgasmGroanLness/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 08:45 AM
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finally ready to settle down and be a housewife lol @ the ideal
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:08 AM
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You don't "choose" a passion
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:01 AM
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My point is, you don't need to be funny with women, only know how to make them smile, which isn't necesserily the same thing.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:09 AM
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Why do you want to be funny? You don't need to be funny to get girls if that's what you're asking.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:30 PM
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Leechblock NG for Firefox (or else). Block all subs that are non-useful permanently, allow yourself for 10-15 minutes per 3 hours for all the useful subs - that's my recipe.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 03:51 PM
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I'm striving for more a "smooth" and cocky&funny game
/r/askTRP26/04/18 10:26 PM
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The notion that you'll be unhappy alone old is a pre-programmed one. I wouldn't take anything that's pre-programmed to me as granted.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 09:44 AM
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Bisexuality is a neurological defect Either link bunch of studies that prove that or it's broscience.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:31 PM
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I don't know. I've been reading Feeling Good instead, because I live in a shithole where there are no male CBT therapists available, or even women CBT therapists.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:56 AM
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She could be a submissive woman on INTJ/INFJ personality speectrum, which are the more rational women out there. They just don't give drama, can be often more rational than your male friends, often are quite aware of their own AWALT early in their life. Contrary to popular TRP belief, their rational & somewhat masculine mind that takes interest in sciences doesn't necessarily make them any less attractive, be it personality wise or looks wise, not at all. They will still like girly things like p…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:53 AM
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Then take massive action. Or get overwhelmed with feelz you can't manage. Just saying this out there because often people don't have the mental tools to deal with what's inside them. CBT helps
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:38 PM
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You'd have to do the same whether you break up with her first or not. Not really, coz if you don't break up with her, then you have a +1 on your rotation. But that's just me, I'm not looking to argue. Good luck on your journey
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:45 PM
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Coz you can achieve the same result (sleeping with other women) without the negatives the cheating brings (drama, screaming, loss of time & resources invested in acquiring women and covering cheating, double life).
/r/askTRP18/04/18 04:52 PM
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Everywhere? The whole blog is about the poly, independent alpha lifestyle. If you're looking for a particular step-by-step guide he has a book about it, but I haven't yet read it.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 04:51 PM
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blackdragonblog.com explains this
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:19 PM
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So my question is whether it's better to be driven by positive reinforcements and reward based goals in your life than focusing on the possible negative consequences and using the desire to avoid them as the source of motivation? Have you tried both?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:18 PM
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There's a book teaching you exactly how. It's Feeling Good by David Burns
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:19 PM
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You're not cucking yourself if you don't raise someone else's child. That's the definition, it's impossible to cuck yourself in XXI century cause of paternity testing. Anything else is preference, although preference can be born either from emotional response (feminine way) or rational thought (masculine way). Men here like to praise over their rationality. However, most men's preference of monogamy over nonmonogamy is based on emotions and social engineering, they can't give a rational thought …
/r/askTRP09/04/18 06:55 PM
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Are you living that close to him that you can observe him? I envy honestly
/r/askTRP07/04/18 10:45 AM
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How do you know?
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:38 PM
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Im not even sure what the rest of redditors are here for Guys, Im fucking shocked by these replies. Hearing "be yourself" basically "stop progressing and give up your dreams of becoming Chad" is the least thing I've ever expected to hear. So an invtrovert should just needs to stop trying to express himself, an asocial dude should stop going out and lock himself in the room and a weak with a squeaky high voice should never visit gym because it's doesn't fit his character? What the hell. You misin…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:41 PM
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That guy's worldview can change your life. It certainly does change mine.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:54 PM
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she's offering her (literal) ass up every time now because she thinks it's what you want It's not the food that I desire, m'lady... It's your ass "What Do Men Want", 2018, USA
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:40 PM
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He made a good point, I'll add to it. Myself I didn't like when my GF used to go with me to parties or festivals, because she was very clingy back then. As in, there was this situation: she went to a trance party with me saying she'd take half a tab of LSD. I go to such parties to just enjoy myself, not spend time with a particular person and I made it clear to her. Yet when I took a whole tab during the party she took a whole one as well and I was too late to react. Turned out she wanted to spe…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:38 PM
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Also stop taking LSD it's bad for you mkay. Not sure if sarcasm or genuine ignorance
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:28 PM
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Regardless of whether he needs validation or not, his point is right. For the people who do enjoy birthdays, wishes, presents and validation (I'm not one of them), the whole point is to grant wishes, presents etc. yourself.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:25 PM
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I also stopped viewing her as a slut so I fucked her less roughly and eased up on the choking and slapping. Never do that tho. The mistake many people on this sub make is to differentiate "sluts" from "women marriage worthy", which is cringy. How do you keep fucking her like a slut when you start viewing her as not a slut since you're dating her? Why do you stop viewing her as a slut in the first place? Look at how she behaves when you fuck her wild and tell her she's a whore. Are you saying her…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:18 PM
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What if she brings up "is it because of no sex?"? Just keep doing my thing?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 10:56 PM
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What if she brings up "is it because of no sex?"? Just keep doing my thing?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 10:55 PM
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This has been difficult for me because I tend to go on "unnecessary" intellectual rants You will soon realize why it's not worth it; in my experience (as a reforming ex-ranting person) you put a lot of emotions into it and most likely push too much, therefore people go into defensive and stop listening to your arguments. There's a lot of energy wasted in putting those emotions into the rant, that's one thing. Second thing is to realize most people aren't ready to have a rational discussion, most…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 05:56 PM
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You mean black-dragoning?
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:04 PM
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So instead of pushing, I'd say I understand her point and that although I'm a relaxed guy, we can simply choose not to meet. That creates a push/pull mechanic that you want. Suddenly she has space and because you step backwards, she feels as she is ruining the chance of a meetup. This is smooth as fuck. RES-saving.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:22 PM
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You're still BP about marriage
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:20 PM
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Wow, this girl has a stick in her ass. She can decline ,lol
/r/askTRP01/04/18 10:35 AM
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Test your T dude. Also do use this calculator: https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8EbfzFB0mBrMGJ6V2N5QWNfeTg/view I'm a hardgainer like you. You have to use this calculator. The guys you will read about on the Internet or make friends with in the gym, they can eat like 3500 calories at 90kg and be gaining since it's already a surplus for them. But you and I, you'll soon notice why you've been skinny all your life, it's because your body uses almost twice as much food. For example my TDEE at 70kg …
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:22 PM
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promiscuous chicks are looked so down upon by men and women alike Your kind. I enjoy promiscuity. You must enjoy ASD and LMR.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 12:17 PM
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As soon as this girl was exposed to someone considered to be an alpha, the blue pill dude she had kept on the side was immediately relegated to a stranger. Well but you just said It’s clear to me and everyone else around that she is just using this dude for the attention So I don't see how is it rocket science when clearly the guy is just an idiot
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 12:14 PM
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Nah, I don't think you or the researchers understand oxytocin well. This one is the most important quote from the article you're quoting: In another study, published in PNAS in 2010, men were given a dose of oxytocin and asked to write about their mothers. Those with secure relationships described their moms as more caring after the hormone dose. Those with troubled relationships actually saw their mothers as less caring. The hormone may help with the formation of social memories, according to t…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 11:49 AM
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Not really; Google being exceptionally PC is a fact that you can read on the Internet.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:10 AM
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Depends on you. As for burning muscle, if your calories in > calories out then you're going to build muscle lol although in that case I'd rather eat some casein during the eating window. I don't do IF because I get some really bad reactions due to blood sugar I believe. Too bad.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 12:45 PM
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The anxiety = attraction theory is just a theory, it's not proven despite its author citing studies those studies say none of the things the author claims
/r/askTRP25/03/18 12:40 PM
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Even if he does that, he'll eventually come to realize it's not making him happy. Whereas if one learns to follow other's advice above his own heart's desires at all times, he'll just keep doing what the society tells him for a lifetime. I'd rather make my own mistakes instead of trusting someone else's judgement and never get to know what would have happened if I did my own thing instead. It's the only thing I think about later when I've followed someone else's advice despite feeling like I sho…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:36 AM
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OP Cybercurrency LLC legit name op write it down
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:33 AM
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Depends on your character. I couldn't sell shit if I didn't genuinely believe it was valuable. I can only sell my own stuff. I don't feel good and authentic trying to get people buy shit they do not want, need or that I don't honestly believe is good for them. If it works for you just do it. There isn't any "ultimate red pill job". What's red pill for you might not be for me and vice versa.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:27 AM
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If she freaks out sshe isnt that into u. That's dumb and did not happen to me, in fact the opposite happens
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:36 PM
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Little bitch U-M-P, 2018
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:59 PM
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I feel the same whenever i am getting sober and don't do drugs bro. You don't need them Choose one
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:55 PM
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If you're 140lbs, but eat properly, you can easily get 15lbs of muscle noob gains by doing whatever workout routine. It matters little
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 07:29 PM
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He didn't say anything about juicing. TRT has letters T, R and one more T. Juicing has letters J, U, I, C, I, N, G. It's a different word that has different meaning.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 07:18 PM
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He's not on steroids, he's on TRT.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 07:16 PM
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Care to support your point with an argument?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 06:56 PM
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Dunno. Have you read No More Mr Nice Guy? Are you a nice guy? Honestly if you can't answer this question yourself and rely absoutely on girls' opinion then noone can do answer it for you here
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:15 PM
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All women do this. Not true. There are varying degrees, including (the best) when a woman is so into you that she shuts any advancements from the get go.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:09 AM
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holy shit did how good was what ive just read
/r/askTRP15/03/18 02:06 AM
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Flood method = approaching with no defined goals besides approaching and hoping for the best His recommendation, I quote "Progressively expose yourself to your anxieties in a controlled manner over the course of weeks or months!" meaning first you approach women just to say hi, nothing else. No expectations. No numbers, no pickup, nothing. Then when you are comfortable with that, you approach women, say hi, and do some small talk, even a couple setencens is just fine. Then when you're comfortabl…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 02:10 PM
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OP, this is the answer you're looking for: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/12rn3g/i_am_mark_manson_former_pua_coach_self/c6xl0z3/ The guy ran 100 bootcamps. What kind of authority other guys have comparing to this guy? none.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:05 AM
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Don't marry anyone without a prenup anyway. lol
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:25 PM
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I have no resources, but let me tell you that I haven't done achieved this deliberately, i.e. in 6 months or so. It took me about 1-2 years of mixed, random effort, effort that in the beginning I didn't even know I would later use in this manner. If you want some deliberateness in this, I'd start with doing this on your own, so start with edging (google it) without finishing. Just edge and go on with your day. Secondly, I've developed awareness of how orgasm affects the rest of my day, for examp…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 05:27 PM
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lmao. That's exactly how my girlfriend talks about it. "I'm gonna suck your energy off you coz I need it"
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 01:57 PM
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It's a biological impossibility for women to be hornier than men. It's not an opinion or something you experience. It's a fact and it does not matter what your experiences on the matter are, or mine for that matter. No it's not a fact. I don't see it proven anywhere, only theories. If the woman in question hasn't conceived yet, then tell me what exactly stops her from being more horny than the man she's having regular sex with?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 01:14 PM
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I do not either. What is your point? What's Mandrake?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 01:09 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/product-reviews/098622202X/ref=acr_dpx_see_all?ie=UTF8&showViewpoints=1 unchained man
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:01 PM
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Well you didn't make up a new physics theory by this post. Nothing equals happiness. But a lot of many small things together make happiness.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 11:31 AM
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2 years ago I thought that deciding not to orgasm/ejaculate during sex with a woman is impossible. 1 year ago I was doing it without any effort. Nowadays, I enjoy just the act and usually I don't orgasm. Didn't meditate either, but I've restarted the practice lately. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 11:26 AM
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The women I meet all have higher libidos than I do... They'd fuck everyday, 3 times if they could. My male friends consider me high libido, meanwhile I consider myself pretty average, I want sex maybe 2-4 times a week. What gives?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 11:23 AM
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Seems like you're on a personal crusade because you've got offended by a comment that wasn't disagreeing with you or offending you, then you jump to search my comment history to find something that you believe is going to bother me. It doesn't, I own my kinks. Cheers mate, I wish you chill evening
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:16 PM
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Yup no problem at all. Did you get offended? Do you identify as dumbass tradcon or just a tradcon?
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:07 PM
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You put your penis in her ass and she says it hurts
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:04 PM
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Slut shaming comes primarily from other women (as a competitive measure) and from men who can't get the women they wish they could. And from dumbass tradcons.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:01 PM
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Don’t listen to depressing music to feed your depression and not-so-well being. You're avoiding art then... You should be balancing the art you "consume". If there's too much depressing stuff, balance it with something upbeat and happy. I don't think most people are consuming depressing art. There is some really depressing stuff out there, but most people don't know this kind of art. The rest of art is amoral, and neither depressing nor happy. A good approach is to appreciate the craft instead o…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 01:03 PM
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implying he didn't cum during the fatality
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:45 PM
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I recommend Blackdragon. For some reason he isn't that well known here, while being top writer
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:07 PM
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wanting to worship your cock OP, the only successful LTR is when she worships your cock. If she doesn't, the dynamic is substandard
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:27 PM
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There is no way you are telling the truth anyways. You serious, mate? If we talk this way we might as well not say anything at all. You never see a hot woman on the street and feel lust for her? I do sometimes. But the argument back in your post was that if she was the absolute worst human being you ever met in your life, that I'd still be attracted to her; person on the street I don't know. So, answering: nope, it would cease attraction. Perhaps it is an evolution level above the lizard brain, …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 01:42 PM
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with a smirk Makes anything you do alpha
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:19 AM
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Oh lol. I didn't know such thing existed. Amazing
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:17 AM
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Just a note that some people like me are sensitive to caffeine in a way that green tea won't make them sleepy at all, ever.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:57 AM
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How does caring about sex imply caring less about her?
/r/askTRP05/03/18 11:09 AM
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AlfredKinsey TRP et al. I lol'd
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:56 PM
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I really don’t care about people seeing my tinder profile, but it’s annoying that someone is bringing my private life into work Choose one
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:53 PM
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In men, romance and attraction are almost completely separate. You may think that a woman is the absolute worst human you ever met in your life, but still have the desire to bend her over and plant your seed in her. Disagreed. At least not in me. Am I an exception?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 11:11 AM
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He's a tradcon
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 11:09 AM
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He said system, not organism.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 11:06 AM
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Horseshit. Men desire companionship and monogamy from women. They have zero desire to promise monogamy themselves. This. The only reason men are monogamous to women is because they want the same in return from women. Other than that men do not want to be monogamous.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 11:03 AM
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I don't think so. Try reading the descriptions; and I bet most people have at least one friend of each type.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 10:48 AM
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Nah, I think I'm still on topic. I simply disagree with the idea that women are morally inferior. Perhaps morality in itself is not the biggest of my concerns. People can discuss morality endlessly, I have no opinion on it, I only realize the different stances people take on it. That's all I need to navigate in the world. I'm in no way offended by your opinion, by the way. I value sharing of beliefs. I wanted you to get to know mine and vice versa. I think if we were to judge women to be morally…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 10:48 AM
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sounds like you want oltr
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:38 PM
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filthy tradcon detected
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:44 PM
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It depends. Manson appeals to those who find themselves unwilling to play games. I'd rather not have a girlfriend than play constant games with one. I'm a person who gets very conflicted whenever I play someone I'm not. Have you ever done a MBTI test? I bet a lot of men here test on the ST side (hence the overwhelming belief that "men are more rational and less emotion-driven"). Meanwhile I get ENFP, which is, personality-wise, a typical woman within TRP's descriptions. Seriously, whenever I rea…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:13 PM
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I'll be speaking from the POV of Eastern Europe, since this is where I'm from, it is not as feminized as the Western world. I would disagree. I see as many and as severe examples from both men and women. However, it is necessary to say that those examples often happen within context of where the abuser/demoralized person is corrupted by power made available to him/her. Therefore, men in power sometimes abuse this power in demoralized ways. As well as women in power sometimes abuse this power in …
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:57 PM
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I definitely would blame OP for being confused, as the book explains the meaning for which the book uses the word in great detail. Manson means abundance mentality and outcome independence. If someone reads the book and doesn't get it, I'd say he has reading comprehension skills below high school.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:56 PM
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For starters, I see the same lack of morality in men. If it's not uniquely women's trait, then they're not inferior morally.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:43 PM
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I have nervous tics when I remember stupid beta shit I've done with women, and not just women. They're physical representation of the shame and guilt I feel towards what I've done. Here's how to deal with it. Imagine your best friend. It could be your dad. Someone who you value a lot and would forgive him his wrongdoings, he's just a human. Now imagine that person instead of yourself in the situation you feel guilt and shame about, since the very beginning. Go through each step, every detail. Ob…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:27 PM
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Is this a must read? yes Also I only want to read books that are verified as must read books by community members here who actually have experience with many women and relationships This is good at beginning but dumb after a moment, because no book works for everyone and only you can deduct the proper understanding and desires out of the books you read. If you read only the most often recommended books, you'll become part of the echo chamber that is often seen here. You need to read books that a…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:20 PM
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this, op
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:19 PM
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commitment My problem is with definition of the word commitment. I don't consider monogamy commitment. Commitment is commitment. Are swinger couples non-commited to each other? Are people in OLTRs not commited to each other? These questions are irrelevant, though. You've got your own standards. Although, I wouldn't go as far to say she "cheated" on you. She didn't, because she didn't promise you anything. Your standards being monogamy implied in "commitment" say she's not worthy of a LTR, I find…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:08 PM
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It's a covert contract, that doesn't fare well As for LTRs, I'm non-monogamous, so I dislike covert contracts more than anything else. I don't want women to assume I'm mono with them just because they're mono. I don't want them to be surprised either. I think those covert contracts are bad coz they hurt people who have a different worldview than yours since you're projecting your own upon them. It's akin to your gay male friend who hangs out with you for whatever reasons, meanwhile expecting you…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 11:27 AM
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She did not cheat because she did not promise you anything. Monogamy isn't some implied default state of the world, dude.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 11:12 AM
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Dunno man, I think if you don't say you're exclusive, you're not exclusive. In fact, it is that way and none other. I don't assume you're Christian just because I'm Christian. I don't assume you're gay because I'm gay. Et cetera.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 11:11 AM
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Awesome read
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:41 PM
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Phenibut is nowhere close heroin and meth
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:36 PM
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I agree with two parents But marriage itself is redundant
/r/askTRP22/02/18 11:50 AM
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This Every time someone interrupts you, repeat that you haven't finished speaking. It kinda gets under their skin
/r/askTRP22/02/18 11:45 AM
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Yeah, but doctor prescribed TRT or Adderall is okay. Shouldn't a true alpha have his testosterone levels high at age 40? lmao
/r/askTRP22/02/18 11:42 AM
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How did you let yourself get addicted physically if you knew it was addictive?
/r/askTRP22/02/18 11:39 AM
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Yeah, but the only marriage we've got is the one that is now. I don't really care what it was 100 years ago, coz it was 100 year ago. I've always knew marriage changes nothing. If two people are responsible, marriage doesn't change that. If two people are irresponsible, marriage doesn't change that either. I'm talking kids. You don't need to marry to have kids. Where does that idea even come from?
/r/askTRP22/02/18 11:37 AM
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So many butthurt wannabe better than everyone else alphas here. Do whatever the fuck you want. Just don't overuse phenibut, because you can get addicted. I disagree with that you won't be able to cycle it. Thousands of people use it and cycle it no problem. Is TRP saying that all those alphas can't cycle a drug? Jeez. You can take it 2 or 3 times in a week. No reason to cry over, it is what it is. I can recommend piracetam, phenibut and Ashwagandha. I strongly disagree that it is a "crutch". If …
/r/askTRP22/02/18 11:35 AM
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I don't think so
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:55 PM
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Not to mention you could marry a very low sex drive woman. Those men that believe in these kinda ideas have close to no imagination to see how ironic their proposals are. So you've married a prude, now what? You're going to cheat on her? That's hypocrisy. Seriously, the tradcon trend on TRP is plain stupid. I wish those guys to get over with it already so they can move on to their awesome lives.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:42 PM
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What point is there for marriage if your wife is not monogamous? That sentence should end right here
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:39 PM
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I never ask about n-count. This right here. When man asks about girl's n-count, it is obvious she is going to lie about it, because the sole act of asking is manifestation of man trying to judge her on this particular basis. If we have sex the first night she's not eliminated from gf consideration. If we don't have sex by date 3 it's not the end of the world, assuming there's still some sort of sexual progression. Healthy approach.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:37 PM
1

That's why I don't do such doses anymore. I only dose what I'm absolutely sure I'm comfortable with. Which is <130mcg, and not in all S&S. I hear you too. I've got a rare illness because of a bad trip (my nick)
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:35 PM
1

He does have children, and he does answer questions regarding OLTRs and children. I don't see why wouldn't it work. Obviously you don't jump right into children with a woman you've known only for a year or so. It takes time. Enough time to judge her motives. Why would she weaponize children against you? I think that's the thing with OLTR. You don't rely on her for sex. You two are only required to cooperate on the children level. Does monogamy help with that? It doesn't do anything. If anything,…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:30 PM
1

Yeah, they don't have the answers and they're not happiness. My attitude to psychedelics is use them for fun because I like them, not expect anything. Ironically this approach gets the most out of them. To treat them dangerously seriously, and not seriously at the same time.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:49 PM
1

That's basically the argument. Is he a person who would benefit more from trying LSD or not trying it? You can't know, and advocating that he shouldn't try it, especially in small doses which are safer isn't best. I am a person with whom LSD fits perfectly. Somehow it is very suited to my personality. Can't say that about anything else. A light trip here and there shouldn't hurt. I'm not really pro microdose though, more like light trip.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:46 PM
1

Little without an "a", as in not enough. In my opinion there are drugs that help and those that do not. Good therapy is beneficial though. I wish I had someone like this, unfortunately shitty town.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:43 PM
1

You’ll be more aware of why you fall into certain destructive patterns This I can account for. On a microdose it is much easier to change your habits.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:35 PM
1

Seems like you have little experience with drugs.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:35 PM
1

Blackdragon's OLTR model. Refer to his blog, I've never read him screening for low n-count, IIRC he believes it to be bullshit. Either you rate the woman in question good for children or not.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:29 PM
0

Dunno about that. Blackdragon says OLTR with children would be fine. I lean to this direction as well, although nowhere in near future do I want children. If the time came though, I definitely wouldn't go monogamy route as it doesn't work for me coz of my personality
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:29 PM
1

Depends. I'd argue those can have more fire in bed. Which translates to infatuation.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 01:34 PM
2

wrote a 30 page long letter Holy shit man I think you'll enjoy RP
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:22 PM
13

Just a quick question to fellow TRPers: don't you think you have contradictory desires when it comes to LTRs? You want a girl that'll be a slut and sex-positive for you, but you won't LTR a girl that doesn't make you wait for sex. Don't you think the girl who makes you wait for sex will in turn be not so great in bed, thus you're acting contradictory on your desires?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:20 PM
1

I was never authentically like this with women, but the way things ended with my ex changed me. I honestly don't give a fuck what any woman thinks about me or my situation now, and so far it's like I can do anything I want and they'll be nuts for me. This guy gets it. Read this thrice, boys
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:15 PM
11

Fuck at least she was honest when he confronted her. Probably this saved them more months of unhappiness
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:14 PM
3

So in conclusion, any high n-count woman should avoided like the plague for any serious relationship. What about BD's OLTR model? Seems like it completely bypasses this.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:45 AM
1

I've tried gently telling her to relax and she says she'll try but she still acts the same. Don't tell her to relax. Stroke her head gently instead. Also. Say stupid shit yourself. Lead her that it's fine
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:52 AM
3

None of those are facts, though, all of those are emotion-driven beliefs. could be troll too
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 04:05 PM
1

I think you're framing it wrong, you could keep them for longer for sure, all while not lying to them. By saying if this isn't enough we'll have to break it off you're already implying this isn't enough for her and that the relationship is inferior or something. Instead, eventually when the talk comes, just say that you like her a lot and love to spend time with her, and that you want to continue seeing each other as you've been doing so far, however you'll never become monogamous for her. You d…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 02:42 PM
2

Depends what kind of relationships those are You can do polyamory and it's not casual sex anymore. Get over it
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 02:32 PM
10

lmao u told her that ure both not exclusive then u think she owes u exclusivity or anything what the fuck
/r/askTRP20/02/18 02:31 PM
2

Cigarette "trick" is really great. I don't actually smoke them, I just go out where all the people smoke and chill with them. My biggest trouble here is my conscience for them, seeing them falling hard for me and knowing I will have to break their hearts at some point. How do you break 'em hearts? I enjoy everything about it except for having a door bell. Worst invention ever. Lmao
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 11:48 AM
4

missionary position + throbbing on her clit = you don't have to worry about vaginal orgams
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 11:22 AM
1

promiscuous women that sleep around with alot of people dont make good girlfriends or wives or mothers Dunno, that depends. If you're judging the woman solely on whether she sleeps around then surely yes.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 11:18 AM
0

rather they did because it makes them feel superior and confident and gives them a sense of self satisfaction. If you believe this isn't subconsciously closely tied to man's knowledge that it will get him more and more quality women, you're naive
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 11:16 AM
18

I could classify myself as HSP, inherited after both my mom and my dad. I am a feelz guy basically, it isn't attractive to most women. You can't change who you are, but you can mitigate the effects of who you are in life areas you deem important. You also can't change what you feel, but you can change how you behave and/or react to these feelings. Sometimes the feelings readjust themselves to aling better with your behaviour, sometimes they do not. Eventually, I had to organize my life in a mann…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 11:12 AM
9

Well it all depends on what you're looking for. I want genuine connections with women, for as much as it's possible with women. Paying her will never do it for me as I'll always know she's with me for money. I'd also rather work on what I love to do and earn frugal-living money than earn lots of money and do some shit that isn't me. This would make me unhappy. You're basing your point on the belief that engaging in relationships with women is somehow less rewarding, fun, meaningful, etc. than it…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 10:37 AM
1

Then you've just perfected faking it.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:21 PM
1

Not if you've tried that route of thinking 1000 times as an introvert in your youth and eventually gave up on trying to have fun with something you do not enjoy
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:00 AM
9

make your own fun this op you need to find what you want to get out of those parties. For example my frame during parties is usually observing human social behaviour... And because the best observation can be done from the closest proximity, I get involved and see what happens. But without that frame it bores me
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:25 AM
7

He's probably not going to find fun in it as an introvert
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:24 AM
5

This is why lying sucks. Now you have to create more lies to maintain it. Do whatever the fuck you want, but next time when asked about something you don't want to admit, change topic or answer nonseriously. Just don't get fucking serious and lie lol it all goes downhill
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:22 AM
2

Keep thinking. I believe you will not find answer on this sub. But keep that thought in your mind, don't settle on an answer immediately. Analyze every relationship. They all have something in common, and some differences
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:11 AM
2

I can't answer this for you, but ask yourself questions: what do I offer them? What do they get from me? What do they seek? How do they benefit?
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:40 PM
-1

Part of the problem with this place is that too many people think something is either black or white (especially alpha vs beta), when the reality has always been shades of grey. Well maybe it's because nearly everybody writes like it's black or white and not many people write useful shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 11:36 PM
1

Unfortunate but it's the truth OP, you can't soft next when you are living together. I was living with my GF for a while (about 1 and a half year) but eventually told her to move out because I wasn't even 1% ready to handle living together. I'm 23. You cannot soft next her if you live with her, like I told you in your previous thread. There are a few things you can do, in my opinion. Don't get to it too quickly, but surely you should go somewhere quiet where noone will disturb you and think abou…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 07:02 PM
4

No, what he said is that he dumped her, i.e. never talk to her again.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 06:52 PM
1

I'd argue you can be attracted on intelligence level as well. But like you said, it's not something to look for, because it's very rare.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 04:49 PM
0

Not sure why are you getting downvoted... Oh wait, yes, drugs are frowned upon. Still what you've said is true. Drugs can quicken this "opening up" process, I think people just didn't get your sense of humour lol. I do
/r/askTRP18/02/18 04:48 PM
1

I used to assume that hotter = stupid, or bitch and it set me back a few years coz I assumed this early in my life. Only recently I've been having fun!
/r/askTRP18/02/18 04:42 PM
1

oh well eastern europe winter is no joke! we used to get as low as -30C.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 04:40 PM
1

Well religion then. Look at how people are repeating some of the "truths" found here, no matter whether they apply to the particular case or not. It often looks like subreddit simulator really. If you don't see it on asktrp then I don't know what to say.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 02:20 PM
2

I dont feel like showing her any affection right now. Good, in many cases we men rly feel (know) what we should be doing to have success with women but we're taught to supress this stuff. All we have to do is unlearn and follow the feelz rly. At least that's how I see it, my intuition towards women has grown big since discovering TRP, and not because I've learned stuff it's rather because I've unlearnt the bad stuff and let my intuition do the work. cheers
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:50 PM
2

i'd do at least a week soft next, not because of her but because of myself getting too serious about a single situation, it doesnt do good to my mind and how i perceive things and frame. Then after 1-2 weeks set up another date and escalate and see if there's progression. No need for sex, just progression compared to 1st date, so if I manage to undress her, or get a BJ that's good in my book because its better than 1st date. If u have other dates then u can do whatever u want. I think 2nd date t…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:47 PM
3

tried to deal with her hamster by saying things such as “You should be happy that I show my desire to you physically” and after that I “accidentally” told her “I like you because you are feminine. Why do you think I’ve chosen you over those other girls?”. I tried to make her open sexually by telling “I really like when women don’t repress their sexual desire” Don't verbalize this stuff, it always sounds like you're explaining yourself, you don't need to do it because women see through most your …
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:20 PM
6

Honestly I have no idea what you should be doing if you're living with her. It's the reason behind why I don't live with a woman and will not until I'm very experienced. Thing with living together is you can't soft next her whenever she does drama (silent treatment). My main girl I've been with for years gives me almost no drama ever, and never a silent treatment, but she's an exception to the TRP rules as she's pretty masculine in her brains and I'm her opposite. I do more drama than she ever d…
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:08 PM
20

This. What the fuck is that title
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:58 AM
2

meaningless sex When is sex meaningful and when is it meaningless?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:57 AM
28

Dive headfirst into it and give yourself no safety blanket. Reluctant to go to the gym? Instead of doing a 1 hour workout, do a 3 or 4 hour workout, and a intense one. Make sure you are gasping for air afterwards. Quit your job and go after that business idea all-in. Disagreed. Never worked for me. I get overwhelmed and overworked and fall easily into emotional headspace. Better approach that has worked for me is to do average effort but be consistent. Exceptional effort makes me feel great and …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:44 AM
2

If TRP was a 'cult' or a just a bunch of bullshit, then there wouldn't be 250,000 people here. That isn't a good reasoning. Many big religions are cults. And many people here indeed behave cult-like. You can't avoid that in the context we're all in
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:37 AM
2

Not sure why are you getting downvoted. He's talking about job as in working for someone sense. I.e. your own bussiness/work being infinitely better than having a job I don't want to have a job ever again. Don't go to work.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:35 AM
2

There are rare girls that do get turned on by deep convos. They're rare though, I wouldn't bother myself with deep convo until I was sure later after fuck that she is this kind.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:30 AM
1

Care with these, them gold diggers
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:28 AM
-2

Except that "Chad" is so overused and used in so many different contexts it doesn't have a meaning anymore
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:26 AM
29

Justgrabthembythepussy™
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:24 AM
-5

Dunno about you, but I'd rather have all women be sluts and completely forget sex as weapon approach. Let everyone fuck whoever she/he wants. We have condoms, we have dad tests, what else do you need for a promiscous society? Slut shamers, you included, are responsible for every single woman that holds off sex from you until 3rd date despite them actually wanting it. You create your own problems. Except that, oh, I have to suffer and work through those problems because of slut shamers.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:17 AM
8

Prove it Take an example of strychnine, rat poison. In low dosages it is not poisonous and can be even used medically. Cocaine is used in medicine as anesthesis. Too many or too few wolves in an environment can be devastating to the environment because of coexisting deer populations becoming too small or too big. Therefore wolves aren't inherently bad, but too many or too few of them can be cancer. Same with deer. If your statement was true: Taking poison is bad (it's either harmful or a waste o…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 12:33 PM
1

The research is correct no matter whether OP knows his shit or not and you can find it online
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 12:19 PM
10

You're factually incorrect. Dose makes the poison, which is what you don't understand. It is a rule of the universe proven numerous times in science in various fields. You need to have time off, you can't be working 24/7. It is a fact that time off improves productivity. One cannot have no recreation or he'll go insane.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 12:15 PM
1

I just came to say hello. Ooo-ooou.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:28 AM
2

The whole culture of casual sex has taken away from any real connection that a person can have and I'm not necessarily interested in having casual sex as a means to becoming emotionally void as an answer to the harsh reality of living. Who says you can have non-casual sex with only one person?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:17 PM
1

Been there done that. You can't just leave it at that. Story time!
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 08:07 PM
7

giff noodz nao
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:43 AM
3

She'll associate sex with her other needs (such as validation), so you're essentially giving her what she wants during sex and benefit from it
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:42 AM
8

This. Took me a while to learn this. Actually, unlearn - coz it's a 21st century habit to keep answering texts even when you have nothing to say.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:40 AM
0

As long as you don't act on oneitis, it's not oneitis. Feels/thoughts aren't oneitis
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 07:32 AM
1

u're taking this too seriously. If u want to do stuff do it, if you dont, don't. But don't do or not do shit for the sake of being or not being nice. That's what ure getting caught up in. This might sound dumb but in your case it's valid: be yourself.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:52 PM
1

yeah lol OP you don't need to acknowledge that it's your behaviour accept it or bye every 2 minutes. Just enjoy your time, ignore what she's saying and watch what shes doing. Btw: shes there WITH YOU. If she hated the time spent she'd go somewhere else
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:50 PM
2

That's good. Get more plates for sex multiple times a week + your LTR as emotional/hangout chick.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:46 PM
2

It's -5C here
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:55 PM
1

Fuck her in different places, don't be so predictable that you always fuck in the bedroom. Where do you fuck a girl in different places if you live in a town and all you've got is your room since you're in college? Genuinely curious.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:43 PM
1

Not necesserarily . You can take care of your plates/MLTRs/whatever, but have boundaries on it. Know what you'll do and what u won't. What u can do and what u can't do. What u should do and what u shouldn't.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 06:00 PM
3

No harm in having feelings for them. The harm is in allowing those feelings to degrade your own current and future quality of life.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:59 PM
2

Alright then. I suppose I don't care that much then. Sorry for kneejerk reply.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 06:44 PM
1

Well for starters he advocates monogamy is the be-it-all endgame for relationships. As much as he's intelligent, he has zero clue about non-monogamy and whenever he starts talking about monogamy and marriage I just cringe.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 06:25 PM
5

if you do not reproduce, you're the weakest link in your genetic line. Horseshit. There are multitude of ways to contribute to the society without reproducing. Have you ever heard of research? Creating things? Building things? These things stay after you die. Would you say Tesla, who had no children, was a failure?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 06:23 PM
2

Cocky funny is not a technique, it's a lifestyle
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:13 PM
2

How do you define confidence? Read W. Anton's "The Manual" and Manson's "Models"
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:11 PM
9

If she was into you she would give sex like at the start all the time. This is correct.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:08 PM
1

No. Should I become one? :)
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:59 PM
1

How is it not healthy? Just use a condom.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:57 PM
2

Manson's approach is not anti-RP. It is RP. Does faking a persona make you happy? Does using other people make you happy? I'd say being happy is RP as fuck, whereas the "fake it" approaches such as Roosh's Day Bang are ingenuine and feel wrong. I want to improve myself, not fake someone I'm not. Being dominant (for men) and submissive (for women) isn't wrong either. It is not inherently wrong for women to take men's lead. It is wrong however, as a man, to use that advantage to hurt, lie to anoth…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:54 PM
1

You wrote this because you wanted to vent, not because you need advice on the haters. You don't need it
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:54 AM
3

Not everyone can do it, though. Those free, addictive online games such as DOTA, LoL etc. have been worse for me than hard drugs, and I've tried many of them. They're free. They're easily accessible. They're very addictive for the right personality. I've had many more regrets regarding playing these games than I've had about drugs, a multitude more. I was addicted to both drugs and online games, yet now I can go to a party, get high on whatever I like, go to sleep then the next day go on with my…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 12:32 AM
2

Day Bang by Roosh V Would not recommend. Feels very fake and ingenuine to do this. Not for everyone for sure.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 12:24 AM
4

Yeah, with an OLTR.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:09 AM
2

I think if it benefits you then go all the way (for as long as it benefits you). I can't drink adrenergic stimulants too often, so no caffeine for me unless with l-theanine. However if you're drinking it everyday, to really compare you'd have to quit caffeine completely for like a month or two. I only drink a very weak coffee or tea 2-3 times every two weeks, and it's usually a social thing for me than a performance enhancer. I know that only because I've experimented with it a lot.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:47 PM
4

You need to balance shit. I lift because I want to polarize more. I want to polarize more because my personality is extraverted, emotional and somewhat feminine, childlike. Therefore even when I eventually get jacked, the way I carry myself, my personality and my colorful clothes will do all the "friendly" work without me even trying. My personality has stayed the same throughout. You most likely haven't adapted your behaviour to your new external traits yet. Look at this as a chance to make eve…
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:33 PM
2

Hard to say. Look at how many people are drinking coffee. If you were selling it, would you allow any study come out that'd say coffee is bad for health?
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:24 PM
1

BD's book gives ways on how to deal with sexual jealously
/r/askTRP05/02/18 10:22 PM
4

I know. Yet every couple days I read some guy here saying he lifts everyday. I find this ridiculous. How?
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:21 PM
3

What this sub gets wrong is that it believes you over-invested in her, whereas it could be just as likely that you just don't know how to handle sexual jealously, which is biological. Most likely it is both.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 02:54 PM
2

sex has different rules
/r/askTRP04/02/18 08:29 AM
64

Once you meet women who are in that " Fuck Yes " group of interest you see how pointless it is to chase the " Fuck No " or " Meh" responders . Most of this sub wastes way too much time chasing the "Meh" group. So much effort wasted, the "fuck yes" group shit tests you only every so often coz they can't afford for more. Why bother?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 11:19 PM
1

I still don't get what you're talking about. For example, I don't get how lasting 30 seconds in bed or not being able to get hard would please me. I'd rather enjoy the time spent with a woman well. I don't have nearly as much experience as you do though. Different ways have worked for me so far but I'm still curious. I guess I'll just save-RES your post and come back to it someday.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 11:12 PM
1

Can you elaborate? I can't wrap this around my head. My current girl always comes but that's what I expect her to do because I find it feeling incredibly good, so I tell her to come for me, to scream for me, to do it loud enough so that I have to keep her mouth shut with my hand. I often enjoy giving her pleasure, but the underlying dynamic we're both aware of is that I enjoy watching her pleasure. Most of the times I don't even care for my own orgasm. Are we talking about the same thing?
/r/askTRP03/02/18 10:00 PM
1

Thanks man.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 06:54 PM
2

What do you mean reduce reward in? I still don't get it
/r/askTRP03/02/18 05:56 PM
2

attack everything you craved 1 issue at a time Attack meaning what?
/r/askTRP03/02/18 05:46 PM
0

it's not like I can hover around high schools Why not lol
/r/askTRP03/02/18 04:48 PM
0

"You have to move out"
/r/askTRP03/02/18 04:40 PM
1

Does 90% push only apply to outside the actual meetup? What about meetup?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:14 PM
1

I find it interesting how you seem very similar to me in this case: I don’t know if it’s a blue-pill oneitis feeling for multiple women in my life or whether it’s feeling my relationships are too shallow, or maybe i’m more emotional than i realize, but the idea of deeper relationships interests me while I also cling to my newfound feeling of freedom while having access to intimacy. I am definitely an emotional guy and able to develop infatuation to multiple women at the same time. I thought it's…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 07:09 PM
2

In your case with MLTR's are you being explicit and telling the girls you're seeing others? or do you keep it ambiguous and implicit through your actions? The consensus from manosphere writers that write about polyamory is that the best way is to start with implicit/ambiguous, and when she eventually starts to push for relationship/defining it/answers and you can't dodge it (never lie!) anymore, you do The Talk once. Both Rose and Blackdragon have The Talk very similar, even though I don't think…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:24 PM
1

I was in Białystok twice, including once this summer. I wonder how much the city-ness is influencing the women there in contrast with the eastern influence. By eastern influence I mean that since Białystok is so close to Ukraine, Russia and Belarus, more women there would be doing a pattern that those eastern countries have, where a woman finds herself a husband pretty early (<25 yrs). I've talked with some Ukrainian women and in their culture if you're a woman and 25 yr old you're an old miss, …
/r/askTRP31/01/18 03:51 PM
1

One thing that I learned from theredpill is some of the advice that is great in america, would fuck you up in Poland or in China. This. And I live in a small 40k polish town. I presume you're from Poland as well :)
/r/askTRP31/01/18 12:17 PM
5

Which country are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 10:30 AM
1

They often don't want to be helped. Just do your own thing and you'll see who is truly interested in how you lead your life, and who disagrees with you so utterly that it's pointless to argue with them
/r/askTRP31/01/18 08:47 AM
1

This isn't exclusive, but you have to notice the difference. SGM author treats them like multiple LTRs (MLTRs). Plate is a FB. I don't do fuck buddies. I always aim for MLTRs since deeper sex satisfies me, unlike just fucking which is masturbation for me, which I don't do either. Rose isn't doing FBs either. He's doing polyamory (MLTRs), and he's genuine in what he's doing and feeling while still having RP back in his mind. I believe there's a misconception on TRP about showing your emotions to …
/r/askTRP31/01/18 08:46 AM
3

Just like there are men who like an executive v.p.. This isn't rocket science
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:24 PM
1

It's the equivalent of men sending dick pics. I wouldn't say women are stupid, though. Like you said, only some women do this, just like only some men send dick picks.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 08:23 PM
3

Thing is I view the world as betas and alphas. it isn't about being a bully, it's about putting yourself first because noone will do it for you.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 03:37 PM
1

If a woman is still young GL with "come netflix" 0.16 messages per day i lol'd
/r/askTRP30/01/18 03:35 PM
2

It doesn't stop surprising me, considering how the opposite message is so often heard.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 03:31 PM
1

This is my biggest issue. Well, everyone is starting to do it. Birth rates are declining. Most people have a roommate that they fuck, but not a partner for children. Marriage is not about love. Marriage is about children. And while due to the Coolidge Effect, love and conjugality will wane, children still need both their parents. Just a note though, what you (and this sub) are describing is mostly taking place in USA. I have noticed that EE countries such as Ukraine, Czech Republic, Slovakia, Ru…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 10:12 PM
1

Is it bad if I'd rather live the illusion ~~of monogamy via marriage and likely end up cheating and experiencing that heartbreak with my spouse than participate in something like an open marriage? ~~ Anything beyond "live the illusion" is obsolete IMO. I prefer to live no illusions and no lies. I like how open marriage is honest.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 09:36 PM
1

Read Mark Manson's "Models".
/r/askTRP29/01/18 02:54 PM
5

This. Being a guy leaning to more emotional/sensitive side of the spectrum is not incompatible with TRP.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:44 PM
1

No marriage does not equal single motherhood. Marriage doesn't prevent this, as you can clearly see, because you can get a divorce. Check out point 5. here. On top of that, monogamy is not required to raise children properly. What's good for the individual as an individual is not good for the individual as a being in society, a being with purpose, a being with a higher calling than the crowd. If one believes the group identity is more important than the individual, that's feminism, that's commun…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:12 PM
0

This guy speaks truth. If any of you actually read the fucking books that were written 100 years ago, 200, 300, 500, etc. you'd notice a pattern. In every single of those books there is a new generation of people/new society standards emerging/new elite climbing the top, and the old guys are saying how this is the downfall of the society, all the virtues and how this is going to bring the world to an end. That's why those "West is collapsing! Look how bad it is!" whiny posts are always funny to …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:09 AM
3

Why do you cling to marriage so much? It has no value in of itself. A responsible couple can marry or not marry and it'll not change the outcome of the relationship. An irresponsible couple can marry or not marry and it'll not change the outcome of the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:06 AM
23

I just feel like I'd be disrespecting my parents if I did fuck her while they were here. You'll be disrespecting your dad tenfold if you don't fuck her you dumbass
/r/askTRP29/01/18 01:15 AM
2

when she consistently asks why you don't let her see it? Because it's yours lmao do you guys have no sense of ownership or dignity and would let your dog fuck you in your anus if it asked you why won't you let it fuck you in the ass
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:55 PM
5

Don't cheat, don't lie. If you go into a mono relationship with the premise that cheating OK it's the same as admitting of being too pussy to frame the relationship as open or polyamorous from the start
/r/askTRP28/01/18 09:53 PM
11

Compare facts with your thoughts
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 04:24 PM
1

Just a quick question, is it normal for me (6'2 as well) to require 4400 cals as 500 surplus to gain? It sounds insane but that's what TDEE 3.0 calc shows me, and well, the gains. I'm just 72kg
/r/askTRP28/01/18 04:12 PM
1

lmao
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:20 PM
2

I will put my faith in science, not the random musings of poets from a millennium ago, even though their poetry is often intriguing and beautiful. I don't put more faith in science nor philosophies, but the most into my own experience. In my experience you can reduce sex to a once or twice a month event even in your early 20s, as long as you let the "urge" (energy, hate to use that word coz it's overused) flow through you and expend it on other things. I wouldn't have to ever be terrorized by th…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 10:04 PM
2

Have you looked up any eastern texts on transforming the sexual energy? Some western people have written about it as well, IIRC Ferriss. Sure it's not "official" theory, but do I care what's official? It goes back to Freud's view on libido, on which I agree. No, it's you who are saying that you're addicted to sex. I've never said I'm addicted to sex. You can go and focus on all your other passions. Are you addicted to them though? Seems like it's your argument. I don't get it. Can't you just enj…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 05:02 PM
3

Is that mindset is wrong I don't know if it's wrong but it's pretty dumb
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:38 PM
2

There are quite some pills you can take to eliminate libido if you look deep enough. Still disagreeing with you. The people you're talking about still have the libido, they've just chosen to express it in different ways than we're given. Also through sex you can enjoy both your energy and the feminine. It's a waste of resources if you prefer another thing over sex. If you prefer sex over something else then that something else is a waste of energy and resources. It's a choice, but you're trying …
/r/askTRP27/01/18 04:19 PM
2

Strongly disagree Libido equals creativity and drive. The more libido you have, the better. You don't need to spend it on orgasms, but you can still have sex. If a big part of life isn't about enjoying it, then I don't know what life is.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:40 PM
15

Excuse me? You seem to be uninformed like if you hadn't done any research. What about squeezing the halves' juice onto your dick? Doesn't ring any bell?
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:27 PM
3

And exercise.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:26 PM
8

Yup. I guarantee you though that once you get this situation straight (i.e. you fuck her or you get rejected and you don't fuck her and you move on), any outcome you'll get is going to set you free
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:25 PM
8

Exactly, just as you said. A woman won't automatically go after the most alpha dude like a fucking robot. She has brains, the dude has options, he does not guarantee that he'll take care after her. Women have brains too. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 03:14 AM
17

I will search for the source, as I'm curious too about the study itself. The percentage though isn't that relevant IMO. The point is, the humans are even more diverse and varied than monkeys. Even men have varied tastes and one man's 10 is another man's 6, appearance-wise. I presume it is the same for women, not appearance-wise but in general. That's why some women will prefer a jacked sports guy, some others an artist, some others a bussinessman dude etc. ofc more than 1 "archetypes" will often…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 04:06 AM
7

Ah yeh. I can't imagine living in the same place for too long. It's like an echo chamber of low esteem because you never get a new opinion.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:56 AM
1

I'd say the looks but mostly the confidence from having a new body is drastic change
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:55 AM
8

My point is paying for something takes no effort
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:27 AM
3

Ah shit you won't have the chance to check the shorter hair. Those girls have unconscious beliefs on what defines a man, or a worthy man, or an attractive man etc. instilled in them in early days. They won't even know why they find long-haired man attractive or not. Try it, dig the why and you won't get true answers besides those that state learned preference. IMO you should cut yourself bald right now. I found it liberating. I had long hair at the time, but had all kinds of before, just never c…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 01:42 AM
3

Falling in love with a girl could definitely distort her physically for me. I think in of itself it's not a bad thing (you get to enjoy her more) as long as you don't do oneitis stuff. Thinking oneitis isn't oneitis, feeling oneitis isn't oneitis, acting oneitis is. However when I met my GF,, now a MLTR, I'd rate her as HB6 at the time I've met her, I knew she wasn't HB10. So fuck me, I don't know. I had oneitis and still have to a slight extent, but even back then I've always knew that relation…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 01:37 AM
5

You are searching in the wrong places. Y'know, what you're doing is akin to going to an electronic music concert then complaining why aren't you hearing any rock. No shit dude, you're in a wrong spot. You don't need to go to the church explicitly to find the girls you're looking for, but consider what kind of girls are going to be looking for men in the places you visit. If you're dating Tinder, do you want a girl who would install Tinder? Think of the multitude of women who believe the sole ide…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 01:05 AM
5

These things are better than the existential hell of a LTR - where you're faced with breaking up or death eventually. You're taking LTRs too seriously
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:55 AM
1

Quality partners are just as temporary as hoes. You'll learn and better yourself more with a quality partner than with a hoe you don't respect or even like
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:55 AM
1

The point is, though, that some people - I and presumably OP included - don't want to play such games. We will just move on to another woman.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:52 AM
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Wish those kinds of comments were upvoted more. People here tend to think one size fits them all but it doesn't and it's also been proved in animal studies. There are females that never go for the most dominating male.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:47 AM
5

No, no, no, you get it wrong. Just a little, though. The point is that personality/game distort your looks in her eyes in your favor. It's not just looks & wealth & game. If you're on a mission you have a spark in your eyes and that'll gravitate women towards you and keeps them close. They'll find things in your body they adore because they need to manifest their love in the physical world. Lift tho
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:45 AM
11

He never said he has zero SMV.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:41 AM
7

Just wondering what the general demographic is for long haired dudes. The best way is to try it out. Experiment with your appearance.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:39 AM
5

Escorts and strippers are paid for, bro
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:38 AM
4

I don't think he meant "place" as in physical place but rather a mental state
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:36 AM
3

Welcome to TRP, where statements like this are made once per minute
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 06:26 PM
2

took me a sec to understand but this is deep
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 06:05 PM
2

Find a flaw in the hotter ones. For example, is her nose crooked or does she dress weird? Look for anything. Don't bring this stuff up in conversation. Just acknowledge it. It'll help you to take them off the pedestal you're putting them on. This is a good tip. I'd like to add, acknowledge that she 100% has noticed the flaw about her appearance or behaviour a hundred of times before and she most likely has insecurities about it. We pedestalize beautiful people because we think they have no insec…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:44 PM
5

That's some diplomatic answer to the problem.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:34 PM
5

That siad, being jacked is overhyped in this sub. No, it is and isn't at the same time. If you are a man that is unconfident because you believe you need money and a car and expensive clothes to get girls and you haven't those things, then you get those things, you'll go to /r/TheRedPill and preach how money is the pathroad to success with girls. If you are unconfident because you're skinny/skinny-fat/fat and you change it for the better, the 80% of the job attracting women will be the confidenc…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:31 PM
4

Couple that with some non-verbal action that implies feelings for bonus points.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:23 PM
0

It is a myth that you must exchange commitment for pussy. Also, sustaining this myth sustains situation where women are whores. If you guys want to have a society where a man and a woman can enjoy each other without paying woman for sex like if it were the only thing she has to offer - be it paying with money or commitment - don't sustain the myth.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:22 PM
1

I find most of this stuff funny. You get to know how people function
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:18 PM
3

That's the classic angry beta TRP newbie reply so I'm not surprised
/r/askTRP24/01/18 02:00 PM
7

Really goes smoother if you're mentally in a good, fun, happy place. Which is kinda rare when you're a more emotional guy.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 09:08 PM
1

I knew I couldn't disagree with you, lol. I may repeat myself but your contribution is on point.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:22 PM
1

Username checks out lol
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:01 PM
1

Soft next means no replying. If you reply it's not a soft next. If it's not a soft next, it won't work its magic. Period.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:40 PM
2

You too bro. The definition of Chad is ambigous. In my eyes, a Chad isn't someone everyone should aspire to be, simply because of conflicting personalities Chad and some men embody. What is Chad? TRP doesn't define shit.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:00 PM
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Become Chad. Not everyone want, can, or should become Chad.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 01:26 PM
2

Good tip. Work up to it.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:50 AM
1

to be like back in prehistoric times. We are not in prehistoric times. There's abundance of options for both men and women. There are paternity tests, therefore there's no need to fear having someone's child. There are condoms, therefore there's no fear of pregnancy in the first place. As for sexual jealously, it's an issue but it's workable. There are resources on how to deal with it, namely BD's blog. His techniques have helped me a great deal. Ironically when you give a girl free will to fuck…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 01:25 AM
2

I have always feared being cheated on or even the slightest disinterest (or her interest in someone else) by someone I have developed feelings/attachment to. If you don't imply or expect monogamy, you can't be cheated on. Take a while to think about it.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 10:29 PM
2

This is the most accurate reply ITT. That's exactly what the unicorn is. You're being a couple SMV points above her - for whatever reasons - and she treats you like a king and does everything to fit herself into your life. She does that unconsciously; or even if she's aware of what she's doing she doesn't want or can stop it.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 01:23 PM
6

and then when you lock her down and marry her Why would you do that? I don't see the point of this argument.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 01:12 PM
2

There's just one mistake in the OP, and that is Deep work is not being in the ‘flow’ state No. Deep work does not need to be flow state, but flow can happen within deep work.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 01:08 PM
1

Ah, you're right. It's not a long-term solution though.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 03:59 PM
2

OP: https://www.thundersplace.org/mens-sexual-health/how-i-cured-my-severe-premature-ejaculation.html This is a good resource
/r/askTRP19/01/18 11:49 AM
1

Tip 3 - Detach your mind from the situation and focus on the ugliest male classmate you ever had, with all his pimples. If you play videogames, think about organising your inventory, or a better strategy for your MTG deck of cards. That's not a good tip. It takes all the enjoyment out of the window.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 11:49 AM
6

You can have feelings for a girl and not let them cloud your judgement/actions. Feelings are okay, they're good, they're very good even. Letting them rule your life is not.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:15 PM
1

You can get with them for the time being and enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:50 PM
1

Nah, I was wondering what is it that this sub (people) gets wrong. It's always interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 01:18 PM
5

It's a viscous circle... Or a bloody good circle to be in. Either you're unattractive and that makes you unattractive, or you're attractive and that makes you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 12:36 AM
2

Some men are blissfully simple creatures. I strive to be a simpler man every day. It's a beautiful life to be simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 12:34 AM
0

Then you're more woke than most people on this sub. I can already tell there'll be at least one person here who'll try to tell you otherwise. Don't listen to them; they're wrong, you're right. What do you mean? Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 12:31 AM
1

No, I didn't write anything about counter argumenting her. My issue is, I quote You say something funny in a Dick head way and move on. I'm unsure if that's a good thing for a 45 y/o if he wanted to be taken a little more seriously (say he owns a bussiness or two)
/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:28 AM
16

If you already know the answer, then why the fuck you come there asking? Fuck off
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:35 PM
2

That negging isn't for newbies should be sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:33 PM
2

Great as always OP you should take the advice and date younger women coz they have less ASD, requirements, lists, rules and whatnot... less bullshit
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:28 PM
2

You say something funny in a Dick head way and move on. I'm going to argue whether that's good for a 45 y/o. Doesn't it depend on his persona?
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:26 PM
1

No one should be getting in LTRs unless they're going to be scaling it up to MLTRs. I agree. I so do not agree with that. The novelty is great, but I'd rather have a balance between novelty and knowing my sex partner. To each of his own
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:17 PM
16

Not in my city (or any near). I meant not cumming though, which in context of your reply is kinda funny. My endurance is okay
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 10:15 PM
3

Funny how my mom & her mom described this. "When a man is behaving like a pussy... It just evokes anger in me. I don't know why, but it's making me mad"
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 10:13 PM
5

Women can cum multiple times during sex if she learns how to do it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 10:09 PM
20

Yeah it's such an exotic concept, isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 10:00 PM
1

Some girls don't change thorough their cycle tho.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 09:52 PM
14

The best example I can give you is my current girl. It takes me about half an hour of rough, whore-like fucking Sorry dude but I'm not buying it. How do you keep up with rough intense fucking for 30 minutes? I understand if you do pauses or switch for lighter fuck, but pounding for 30 minutes?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 09:51 PM
0

Depends whether one is looking for meaningless sex or is looking to create a longer term relationship that saves him time from looking for new sexual prospects all the time. Not to mention that sex with a longer-term partner is better than sex with a new partner, simply because you two don't know each other. I agree that most of those questions are hardly important matters.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:59 PM
1

I guess LewisCross answered you there. 23% isn't statistically insignificant, but it is absolutely miniscule in the context of genders, which are 50:50.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 04:03 PM
2

I can't imagine how that would extend over to all questions concerning women. But that's me.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:01 PM
1

Trust me I get your point more than anyone else. I go to the gym and find it funny to lift some artificial weights. It always looked ridiculous to me, it still does and it will for the rest of my life. Nevertheless I still have to go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 03:44 PM
1

Nope, it's not "always" the right answer, but it definitely is the right answer if one's operative mode is not to indulge in thinking and assessing a situation individually.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 03:42 PM
1

Depends on the dosage. It wasn't the godsend on 200mg. Or 100mg. Or 50mg. I gave it up, coz it sucked. I felt weird, wired, or was tired after 2-3 hours. Wasn't even helping with attention that well. Then few months later I've tried 25mg and it's fucking amazing. I wanna take it forever. Fixes my attention problems and helps with lazyness.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 03:40 PM
1

How big doses did you use?
/r/askTRP08/01/18 01:28 PM
2

Eat 25-50mg modafinil daily
/r/askTRP08/01/18 01:27 PM
2

That's BS. Not every woman gets off with the same technique.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 01:27 PM
7

'touch yourself bitch I wanna hear you' RP in one sentence
/r/askTRP08/01/18 01:25 PM
1

What? Why?
/r/askTRP08/01/18 01:24 PM
3

I've read single mom 31 yr old. okay
/r/askTRP08/01/18 01:21 PM
2

Instead of LOL'ing you should GO FUCKING LIFT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 01:21 PM
2

you had 12 years of mandatory education to learn social interactions That mandatory education is trash. It teaches nothing. If I weren't raised by a single mom and could go back in time, I wouldn't go to pub school at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 01:04 PM
1

Came here to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 01:00 PM
1

Upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 12:57 PM
3

You mean that miniscule 23% times a man divorces the woman? Let's find out. I don't personally know any man that divorced a woman. I have no idea what their motives are. Women motives in US seem pretty obvious though: lack of attraction to the husband and divorce rape opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 12:55 PM
1

Jesus christ guys, just get over that stupid Hitler argument. Yes it wasn't a perfect example. Go on with your life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 12:49 PM
2

Why would you want to stay though? The compromises to your mission are never worth the person, because the mission is the most important thing in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 12:42 PM
2

That's because incel women are in fact men. Their lack of beauty makes them have same responsibilities as men, but with cons of being women as well (gender roles, physical weakness etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 12:32 PM
1

you'll be having to reiterate points you already made in the OP cause people didn't read it properly Ahh, public forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 11:53 AM
1

Yes, but those extremes are sometimes such that two people are just splitting their paths, having different goals or so. It's something you can't really control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 11:45 AM
1

there ya go http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/10/03/relationships-downgrade-upgrade/
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:12 PM
2

I want a woman that is feminine in her being and can take care of herself for the most part. That works on her qualities instead of just relying on the SMV she was born with. That has genuine interest(s) beyond being a mother, I don't consider that interest. Women whose only life purpose is to be a mother are dysfunctional. I'm not interested in mainstream women. If your musical taste is "rock, metal, EDM" or "oh well, just some old bands... nowadays music suck" (translated to: I don't have a ta…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:55 PM
1

Don't talk about your job. Just mention in in one, two sentences and have another sentence ready to change topic.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 02:28 PM
1

this also you meet them too often
/r/askTRP06/01/18 02:22 PM
1

iirc that's correct. Huge Jackedman.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 02:20 PM
1

Can't agree to that view. Some men just don't see a difference between a woman being attracted to them and a woman attracted to them.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 02:09 PM
1

You shouldn't care. She's a FB.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:46 PM
1

That's why you work on your skills that take care of your relationship with the McDonald's. This way you'll keep getting your burgers for a long time
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:38 PM
1

You're essentialy favourizing one type of music over another. I don't prefer writing "songs" anyway. I prefer to induce trance. No thanks
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:34 PM
1

It's not that single-dimensional. I want to provide value. I want others to enjoy my music. Not necessarily super mainstream, but still find my niche. Same as, when I enjoy sex, I want the woman to enjoy it as well. It gives me joy to see others have fun because of me. In context of TRP, I don't fully agree with "you do it for yourself" philosophy. That's coz humans are social creatures and you barely do something for yourself. Yes, you should be top priority (otherwise it's chaos), but I dare t…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 12:47 PM
0

It's just a click away tho
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 08:34 PM
2

I want to share it as well. I want to go out there with my controller and play some well-thought, hypnotic dance music that will put me and my listeners into deepest trance they've ever experienced. Not sure what are you trying to say. I sometimes use my voice to make melodies.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 05:45 PM
4

you do not need to use your laptop for music production. wat I don't have any equipment, bro. I only have my laptop, a guitar, Focusrite Scarlett 2i2 and a Korg nanoKontrol2 I bought for like 25$. I can't just switch to using some equipment because I do not have the money to buy it all. What are you trying to say? Are you saying I should compose on paper and later just implement the ideas into a track?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 04:24 PM
8

How would you go about when you need your laptop for music production? I can't ever seem to manage my Internet addiction.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 03:52 PM
14

This. My issue is I don't recognize neediness before it's too late. There's a lot of posts on how you shouldn't be needy, but there are very few examples on what is needy behaviour or texts. For example it seems to me as if all my Tinder texts are needy. I have no idea how to do it differently and no idea what am I doing wrong
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 12:12 PM
1

This. Idea of "hobby" is flawed, never bought into it. Either it is part of your life, or you're just doing it to fill up your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 12:05 AM
2

No prenup? wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:45 PM
46

"not everything is about blowjobs" and "love isn't just bjs". "They're important to me." Then reduce attention and increase dread
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:01 PM
2

She has self-harmed (cut) in the past and has done so at least twice since we've been together. In the beginning however, she showed much less affection, causing me to question whether she truly liked me or not. Low self-esteem socially awkward girl detected. Proceed with replacing your shit/comfort test detector with a newer model. My advice is enjoy your LTR, but don't hesitate to eject when you start feeling like you want to try other girls. Or pull off an open relationship. Your girl seems s…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 12:35 PM
2

Sarcasm to me sounds weak and childish. I guess you could say defensive, and critical in some cases. It comes across as though what the person said bothers you. Sarcasm can be used to ridicule stupid behaviours. It has its uses.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 12:27 PM
2

Watch movie "Don Jon". It's a movie about YOU, and it's funny, you'll enjoy it. You have no idea what is sex about.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 12:20 PM
9

Last night I drank too much of vine so today I was hungover. I went to train and almost threw up in the middle of practice So that got me thinking, is it worth it? Is it worth it to drink alcohol or is it worth it to get so drunk that you get a massive hangover the next day that interferes with your goals? Or maybe is it worth it to be addicted to alcohol so that despite knowing hangover interferes with your goals you still decide to harm yourself and just can't stop drinking before it gets too …
/r/askTRP26/12/17 10:46 PM
10

the only sane response
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:58 PM
5

Go to voice emission lessons Speak from your diaphragm (you'll learn that at the lessons) Hold your head pointing a little higher when you speak - imagine as if you were to throw your words like a ball, it needs a little curve. You can try it now and you'll see an immidietae difference It's about "locking" your diaphragm. Think of it as a fundament to your voice. Try recording yourself with a microphone - first just close. Speak quietly, clearly and slowly, but don't mumble. Then move away 1 met…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:21 PM
3

Roses not. But I like a good scent, dim lights, a couch and a bottle of wine once in a while. Just do whatever you like to do, but not out of spite that you need to do something coz u "saw it in a movie". What the fuck is "conventional romance" anyway?
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:16 PM
2

I don't know man, you seem like you're overthinking this, and it's exactly the reason you should not be doing any negging just yet. Also WAIT A SECOND if she's overweight why the fuck do you care about negging her in the first place? You want to feel better about yourself? Do you want to fuck her? Just ignore her. Her life is already enough miserable as it is. I'd say if you're focusing on her misery you must have too much free time and not enough mission in your life, coz you invest into such a…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:13 PM
3

Some people on this sub have said that it's better not to neg and just be more indifferent instead, because negging can, and in most cases will backfire. Only if you're very experienced should you neg. "Forced" negging will almost always insult her instead, and you'll get some backfire and look like an idiot.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 03:05 PM
14

Nice tip on how to make your plates/LTR break way quicker, thus putting you in a position where you need to exert full-on effort finding new plates so often. Genius OP, make her orgasm at least once every time you meet her. That'll addict her to you. If she says noone has ever made her cum, be the guy who works on it. You'll be her sex god if you succeed. You don't need to go over your head to try, be relaxed about it - it may work or it may not. But make an effort every time, as in, one step cl…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 02:56 PM
2

read bd's blog. I'll say that everywhere.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 04:06 PM
1

she's aware of the attention and is trying to stop it Funny how I've never seen it work out.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 03:47 PM
3

They need that danger, excitement, rush. They? I need that rush. It makes me feel alive.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 04:08 AM
2

A prostitute will sleep with you for your money, but that does not mean she is attracted to you. Some men just don't see or care to see the difference. It's the same to them
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 01:58 AM
1

lol if u didnt commit how can you be judged for not committing? where's ur logic?
/r/askTRP21/12/17 07:02 PM
5

She doesn't want to improve your (couple) sex life, therefore she needs to be replaced with someone who will I don't see the point to put up with someone who doesn't fit my needs. I will never understand people who write "She's amazing, but sex sucks". I see this "problem" on askTRP or some relationship boards couple times a week. NO. She is NOT amazing. If she were, your sex life would be amazing. But it's not! Coz she's not amazing in bed and she doesn't want to become amazing! Even if sex suc…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 05:56 PM
1

What about soft nexting. Soft next any time she starts drama and doesn't want to stop, she'll learn
/r/askTRP21/12/17 04:18 PM
4

he basically kept yelling until the bitch shut her mouth. not a good strat
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:13 AM
2

Mark Manson's "Models" Anton's "The Manual"
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:25 AM
1

Dude. Single motherhood is NOT good for a child. Would you want to have no father? No? Then YES you're being delusional
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:22 AM
2

Alternatively, just mess around w/ her. This sub needs more advice like yours instead of consistent hard nexts and "I'm upset and I'll put my foot down and set rules" man-childs
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:21 AM
1

I agree, though - I'm not saying that one should need women. Just that if man listens carefully, he can make use of women's advice as well. I think it's important to be well-rounded and be able to examine and sometimes also take advice from even a homeless person. If the advice is legit, that'll make you flourish. Cheers
/r/askTRP21/12/17 12:45 AM
1

It's one of the most interesting and concise blogs, to me at least. Glad it helps you. Cheers
/r/askTRP21/12/17 12:42 AM
0

Don't cheat. Lying is weak.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:48 PM
1

Hey man, this is how at least 50% of TRP sub is. Can't do anything about it except noticing it and not reading
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:47 PM
2

Nice hierarchy bro. I'll do my own! I love how you put things like food and water on the same list as sex and work. Also, Greyskull LP is a better version of Stronglifts
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:29 PM
1

Yes, and they're more effective than SSRIs: http://slatestarcodex.com/2015/04/30/prescriptions-paradoxes-and-perversities/ This is a blog by a psychiatrist btw. I'm an anti-fan of SSRIs because I've got a bunch of friends dealing with SSRIs sides. Firstly, a man in his 50ties I think. He was given SSRIs since very early childhood (like 7 years old) until his very late teens. He developed severe sadistic tendencies, and no, not just in bed. He's incapable of normal human relationships. Another is…
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:24 PM
1

I don't understand the question either. Manson stated: the point of pickup is to make women reciprocate your increasing investment. You will be invested whenever you're picking up a woman whether you like it or not. What's important is to not be invested too much
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:53 PM
2

By the way, some women do tell, and they're honest. Those women are rare, but I've found they exist. They genuinely work on their man to be more alpha, in a way.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:51 PM
1

MAOIs are more effective. Get MAOIs.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:50 PM
4

Don't talk about your job or future
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:48 PM
14

we'll just make it worse thank god this sub exists
/r/askTRP20/12/17 03:12 AM
1

No... Basically you sign up and then,after a month or two, suddenly something comes up/you've gotta move to another city/whatever. This kind of shit happens and in my country there's most often 2 weeks time in which you need to announce that you're leaving before you leave. So read the deal thoroughly and there should be written how early you need to announce this so you don't face any repercussions.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:03 PM
2

I find the job that will have the easiest time training me and finding a new replacement... Then lie.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 08:58 PM
1

the fuck is DM
/r/askTRP18/12/17 08:55 PM
2

Nah, just had it once, it's definitely possible to learn . I even bought Eliason's book about it (Come Again?) but I haven't had circumstances to learn it because my PC floor is too tense.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 08:54 PM
1

lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:16 PM
2

Look up nateliason.com multiple orgasms. True. And I've had an orgasm like this once accidentaly, without ejaculation, therefore if you can division ejaculation and orgasm, you can have multiple orgasms.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 04:04 PM
1

I don't celebrate birthdays and I never give or receive gifts out of birthday. Out of choice
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:50 PM
3

You can't "find" source of BP ideology. Blue Pill, social conditioning, social programming, call it whatever you wish. BP ideology is whatever you were taught to believe in without questioning. Anytime you can't find rational thought behind your beliefs, or any time you find yourself getting emotional when defending an idea and can't find rational reason on how did you acquire this particular belief, it's a tell-tale sign of conditioning/programming.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 06:08 PM
1

The Superior Man I didn't like the book.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 04:45 PM
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I dont want to be on the lookout all the time, I dont want to see my partner as the "enemy" with whom I have to strategize. You don't have to. More on this in a second a really great girl again Ive known for many years and she is really cool just don't "there's this one girl...", keep your options open Don't make a big deal of dating/relationships or you'll be scared of it Apply all TRP that is about yourself: work on yourself, have interests, enjoy yourself. Read Mark Manson's "Models" (obligat…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 01:09 PM
5

I'd agree with another comment saying that if she doesn't worship you in a LTR, that LTR isn't worth the hassle. It means that for whatever reaeson (which doesn't matter) she's settling for you. Perhaps therein lies the answer: GF is 36 btw 5 years older than me. She's an alpha widow. You're never going to be good enough and you're not going to get the best out of her, what she can offer. If it were me I'd end this, out of those reasons and that you need to have your game extremely tight to main…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 12:52 PM
1

Don't forget u shouldn't take it more often than 2 times a week
/r/askTRP13/12/17 10:16 PM
1

Try Phenibut (dosage: 1-1,5g) or a neutral strain of powdered (best in pills) Kratom (dosage: 3-5g).
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:42 PM
4

1 calorie to be exact
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:37 PM
20

She doesn't need to deepthroat per se, she only needs to take the dick deep enough when you're cumming so you shoot it right into her throat. Obviously you should be having your hands on the back of her head to help her with the right positioning.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:37 PM
1

Can't grasp how other people's minds work? Ain't that solipsism, baby?
/r/askTRP05/12/17 01:44 PM
0

Right, everything that escapes your narrow view on the world is gay.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:04 PM
3

Of course, you have barszcz flowing through your veins. Golden
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:17 PM
4

This. Control, jealously, outcome dependence, suspicion, checking e-mails and whatnot. This is all very weak
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:11 PM
-7

Not for everyone though. There are some personalities (and I mean men) that need to develop attraction also through emotional connection and through an intelligent debate. Sorry, but if the girl can't talk at my level, I'm not genuinely attracted to her
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:09 PM
8

While I am looking to make good money, I'm not looking to be any woman's provider. It's 2017 ladies, two thousand S-E-V-E-N-T-E-E-N. You wanted equality, there it is. Go work your ass off, I don't give a shit.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:25 PM
1

This is a great post. It's crucial to know what does the other person see in you that she perceives you as valuable.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:24 PM
2

Yup. Welcome to my life. That's why I rather exercise lighter but 6 days a week rather than 3-4
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:13 PM
3

lol you guys overthink this so much. do whatever you want. Want to fuck her? go do it. Want to fap? tell her you're busy.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:10 PM
2

As /u/menial_optimist marked. Notice how it's generally men exploring new areas, whether it is research, or a new science, or art, or some other ideas. When there are (men) pioneers in some particular field already, only then women and less bold men get into that field. Therefore my conclusion is creativity is masculine. I don't mean that women cannot be creators, it's just that if they are, they usually have more masculine traits as they're more congruent with a creative personality. Again, not…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:52 PM
7

Creativity is masculinity.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 03:34 PM
1

You sure? "because ego" is not an explanation. When I looked deeper I saw that I am just very insecure and anxious well you gotta find all out yourself anyway. Jealously is often irrational but has its reasons
/r/askTRP10/10/17 07:37 PM
1

I see few possible reasons: you're worrying about a child that could be someone else's. in that case, this is obsolete fear because there are paternity tests you're jealous, as in you want her for yourself because ego you're insecure and identifying insecurity as jealously. You do not want others to have her, because they could "steal" her from you
/r/askTRP10/10/17 07:15 PM
1

She should test herself regularily and you should use a condom everytime she had sex without a condom with another person until she tests herself Most people here use condoms anyway
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:56 PM
1

Move out. Then you decide when you want to meet her. Anytime she behaves bad, do long term soft next.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:41 AM
1

Everything a man does is for women. And everything a man does is for men. I don't believe one does anything for oneself. There's no life in isolation. There's no life without relationship to one another.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:28 AM
1

Define cuck.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:45 AM
1

Why do you care so much about some betas fucking her in a mutually open relationship?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:26 AM
1

High natural t is around 1300-1600. Do you have a source? I value anegdotal info, but I've been looking for this particular statistic for a long time. The studies on average testosterone levels are done on a population that has been being emasculated for several decades now, I don't believe 1k is high either
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:28 AM
1

lmao
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:14 AM
1

Even cheaper if bought illegally, by the way. Turns out I only need 70mg/week to be in 1k range TT
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:12 AM
1

So, how did you buy your car if you don't have a job?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:11 AM
2

Of course now the next question, because she is still a girl: what if I tell her I'm "taking" her to dinner (even an idiot knows that's a date), she accepts, I buy dinner, we have fun, and then she shoots down anything remotely physical? Walk and say "it was nice catching up with you?" I've never took a girl to a dinner date, so I don't know about the dinner - but tbh I wouldn't pay for it, just split the bill. In case of splitting bill you have to tell in advance though and it can't be like you…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 09:24 PM
2

I should have read your post. I've been to ego-driven lately. Why you ignored them? In my opinion, you want to play games with her, so she plays them with you. Therefore my answer to asking her out is to just ask her out. No games. I may be frowned upon, but I don't have time for games. If a woman tells me she's busy or whatever I take it at face value and go hang out with someone who genuinely enjoys hanging out with me. In my life the percentage of people I have to deal with regardless of whet…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 06:15 PM
4

I'm not even reading. Decide on this one thing that you'll do to show her your interest in her, but it must be a decisive, open and honest thing... Not "let's go to a movie". It must be something that cannot be interpretated in any other way than that you're sexually interested in her. And while deciding on the action, promise yourself that if she doesn't agree OR doesn't reciprocate interest during the date/hangout/whatever, then it means she is not interested and that you won't waste any more …
/r/askTRP08/10/17 05:58 PM
2

A bit dark triad (not fan of), but if you take her virginity and be fantastic man (like in, showing her what does it mean that she's got such an amazing boyfriend, lol) then she may get widowed and will agree to anything you ask her. At first I didn't want my girl to sleep with others, but eventually, now I think that I don't want to give a fuck about some beta dude trying to "sleep" with my girl. Srsly looking at how my men friends don't express their sexuality fully I highly doubt my girl woul…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:29 AM
2

Well it's other people telling you that you have the cake or eat it. I've been in a relationship for 4 years now and the girl has only became ever more submissive to me. I don't live in US, but I think you might find a good girl for yourself as well. if you aren't sure if relationship is gonna hold you back, try a relationship, all the time knowing what you really want from it. For example I lived with my LTR for over a year. And then I saw how it didn't benefit me. So I told my LTR that I'm not…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 12:58 AM
1

This may sound newage, but it's true. You need to look deep within. And keep looking and watching even if you don't see anything. Observe without judging. Ignore what you've "learned".
/r/askTRP08/10/17 12:35 AM
2

Manning up - getting to know your own desires and thoughts and following those. Eradicating any desires that aren't yours but are put into your mind by external beings: society, other people. Ask yourself if what you want to do is truly your idea, then answer it honestly, by yourself. Take it slow if you need to. That's manning up
/r/askTRP08/10/17 12:09 AM
2

You should look onto blackdragonblog.com and read his stuff on non-monogamy. You'll get best of both worlds. You don't need to commit that hard (and you shouldn't at 20). I'm 23, I have a long-term 4y LTR and I'm only happy that she doesn't push commitment and agrees with my views on relationships. I've lived with her before and trust me, you don't gain shit living with your girlfriend at one apartment, IMHO never do it. It's not in your favour. It's okay if you live close to each other and see …
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:43 PM
2

This. Idea of manning up (coz that's the short of "grow up and become a man") through getting into LTR sounds immature to me, regardless of whether you posted this on TRP sub, /r/relationships or said that to your friend or mom.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:38 PM
2

I've managed this kind of relationship with my LTR. We lived together for over a year, then recently we moved away from each other. Now we live in the same city, have sex often and enjoy ourselves. It's not FwB, however she's never pushing me into any kind of commitment because she knows if she did I'd consider getting out of a relationship that is trying to chain me in some way. The only commitment we get for each other is the emotional support, having fun together, live help/advice and obvious…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:35 PM
29

Consider continous flaking as the ultimate indicator of disinterest. There will be people theorizing why she's doing that, but honestly that matters very little (to me at least). I'm not into playing games. Either she's interested or not, in this case she's not, I wouldn't waste my time.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:31 PM
1

Obviously invented as a counter to toxic masculinity, however if I were to define what does positive masculinity mean, I'd say it'd be man focusing on becoming aware of his nature, acting to become one with it and thus maximizing his happiness. This maximization of happiness leads naturally to giving others. If you are very happy then you'll want to share happiness with others, that's what humans are programmed to do.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:14 PM
1

What were the circumstances? Could you go further?
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:10 PM
2

Btw I've always had more success solo, not just with girls, but socially in general. YOu might be different, but when I'm with friends, my brain goes lazy mode and wants to just comfort itself within my social circle and never expand it. That's why even when I go to festivals with friends I don't put my tent too near them, I barely hang out with them (unless I meet them randomly at the event), I do my own stuff.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:56 PM
1

This. Modern Roosh, Heartiste, etc. is angsty teen Disney crap (just as the most of this sub's people are). I'd say the most thoughtful, insightful stuff is on The Rational Male and Blackdragon's blog. Obviously read everything through your own lens, since you're not going to do what you don't believe in anyway.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:54 PM
15

Oh so basically you summed up why 80% of this sub's posts are absolute trash. There's no discussion and no inquiry, instead there's antagonism all over the place
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 07:02 PM
2

Yup. Don't wanna be a pseudo enlightened douchebag
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 03:59 PM
1

Yep. And when the girl has oneitis in return, it can kinda balance each other. I know it's an unpopular view here (although I saw an user or two saying the same), but that's just the way it is IMO. Obviously TRP still applies, but if the girl has oneitis for a man and is a somewhat self-aware woman that at least tries to understand her instincts, there's lower (not: no) chance that she'd cheat on you. Oneitis passes for her faster than for him though.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 01:50 PM
1

You're right, I failed at reading
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:45 PM
2

I don't think it predicts anything, if you're predicting, you're stereotyping and making your chances at a particular girl lower because you see shittests where they're not, and you see other behaviours that you expect from a particular "level of beauty" when these behaviours aren't present. I rather treat each person individually. This doesn't contradict any TRP principles btw I don't want to rate as most would... I am too proud of being an unique snowflake to do this, lol. /Half-joke/. I alrea…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 01:43 PM
1

Funny how you have no idea. I don't care though, keep being bitter and insecure, bro, if that's what makes you happy.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 01:36 PM
2

You think the drugs also made both of you develop deep emotions for each other? Oh yeah definitely. In the very beginning (first month) we took a small dose of shrooms. This was my first sexual experience with someone I deeply desired (and was in love with at the same time) and so was her, shrooms opened us both because we were both very reserved, introverted and shy back then. The shrooms "spiritually married" us to each other, that's what we always called it. Obviously I don't consider this "m…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 02:29 AM
1

My "trick" would be to leave the conversation. I don't need to hang out with people who intentionally don't respect me.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:41 AM
1

Didn't read post, but yeah, obviously man. Treat stuff individually. TRP is hugely based on what's happening in 'Murica. I've found quite few TRP principles being way less common (i.e. too rare to be principles) in Eastern Europe than it is described to be in America.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:39 AM
3

"Thousand Cunt Stare" I wonder whether that looks attractive to some women.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:32 AM
0

However, if men sleep around then they need to have women to sleep around with. That's first. Secondly, we give an example this way IMO.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:30 AM
1

Learn to say no to women. This shit is gonna be important
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:27 AM
2

The second paragraph is beautiful.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:22 AM
1

Unnecessarily difficult and also higher chance for regrets on the side of the woman, which may make her not see you again
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:17 AM
3

Move along you must
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:16 AM
2

We were both drunk as fuck at this point, but she told me she thought I was amazing. I told her "your face is amazing" This is gold. Am I the only one reading it in tone like if she were insulting him and he insults her back?
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:14 AM
0

I disagree with the studies. Yeah, they "do better", but they end up being the ones that create dysfunctional relationships because that's what their parents have taught them As for the old age, eventually if you and your partner are old enough you give up on leaving people because that fear kicks in
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:10 AM
1

Polyamory
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:07 AM
6

I don't care if she appreciates it. I appreciate not having drama. Every time you lie you have to lie further to cover the original lie, and so on and so on. Then when everything comes out, you get drama way bigger than if you just told the truth in the beginning. I agree with you by the way, not sure if/why are you trying to counter my point?.. Omission isn't lying. And one can convey things indirectly. Change topic humorously, or amplify. Tone and body language matter there a lot. You don't sa…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:18 AM
8

We number so other men can make a picture. Huh? But your 10 is another man's 5. The scale doesn't do shit. I hear my buddies telling oh how sexy or good looking their girl is and I'd give them a 5 at top if I were to use that kinda scale. On a binary - 0 obviously. It's too subjective man. I even saw a post on Blackdragon's blog on his top 10 hot celebrities. Guess what, 9 out of 10 were NOT attractive for me. Not my type. There are types that are attractive to more people than not, however it d…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:06 AM
7

A shitty personality can turn me off completely. Can mask beauty 100%.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:03 AM
2

Yup. Binary scale. Honestly the 0-10 scale just complicates things, pedestalizes the pseudo-ideal body types. It's poison for your mind.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:02 AM
4

I agree with omarieleo. When I was your age, I was at my GF's house (I was 18, she was 16). I've started dating her 2 months prior and she knew I was into drugs all along, nevertheless she didn't reject me and was even interested. So basically I brought some quasi-LSD blotter that I thought we are gonna use. However her parents were extremely paranoid about drugs. While GF was downstairs, the mother asked me if she could search my backpack. And I fucking obliged dude, hoping for the best. I was …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 11:56 PM
4

Never lie. Unless you're a manlet drama king, then lie all the way.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 11:35 PM
2

"And now the only thing you can wrap your fingers around are donuts." lol
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:06 PM
3

This shit right here as a skinny guy I agree wholeheartedly. Do you have any tips on how to eat enough everyday? We skinnies have those tiny stomaches and eventually food can become a chore. I find using bigger plates helpful, and also having a smoothie that's very calorie and protein dense everyday helps a lot.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 09:57 PM
12

And it's such a lie that people tell that I don't even want to start talknig about this
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 03:06 PM
1

Isn't long dick painful to women because you hit their cervix?
/r/askTRP16/09/17 07:42 PM
1

He linked studies IIRC, btw why not?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 10:00 AM
1

Also this means you can do a lot on just bodyweight exercises. I've read up somewhere (I think it was skinnyfattransformation) that the optimal time for an exercise (i.e. tension) is between 40-60 seconds. So if you're doing like 2 reps that take 15 seconds, it's probably better to do a lighter exercise that you can do for 3-4 times longer that targets same or similar muscles
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 10:49 AM
3

I like this answer. Underupvoted.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 08:20 AM
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Some would say he wasn't a good friend that I should cut him. Wow, never. He came back and admit his mistake. Unless some people have idealized version of friendship in their minds (which makes them probably a very bad friend)
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 08:21 PM
7

Sums up my experience well.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 08:08 PM
7

Yea lol. I am surprised you are considering LTR with this woman, OP It's like you're watching a 24/7 drunk taxi driver crash into trees and other cars over and over again and yet you're there sitting and thinking that maybe you should hire him, he seems good, yeah.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:08 PM
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My pet theory is that living with a woman exposes you to all the female hormones and lowers your T. It's not a theory and you've both right and wrong. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sociosexual_orientation#Hormones "Individuals who are partnered typically have lower testosterone levels than individuals who are single. However, this was found to apply solely to individuals possessing a restricted sociosexual orientation. Partnered, unrestricted men and women’s testosterone levels are more similar …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 01:49 PM
1

But the chick must have a way to provide for the child.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:56 PM
2

imo this is the only actionable advice out of all repleis if you want to both keep the girl and have sides once in a while
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:18 PM
1

thundersplace dot org
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:05 PM
1

I get where you're coming from but I doubt this. I suppose you're right. I find it kinda awkward not to pursue girls, even though this LTR is 4 years old (or rather: especially that this LTR is 4 years old). It just doesn't feel right. I like and love her, maybe I'd have kids with her one day if the time's right, but it doesn't feel right. I am not into one-night stands or very casual stuff, I am not into having a harem. I only crave a little variety, my girl plus a girl that doesn't mind meetin…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 03:25 PM
13

Aaaahh, the dreaded tabasco blowjob revenge. At last.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 03:21 PM
1

You never actually commit to not seeing other girls, but you are willing to answer her honestly if she asks. You don't see other girls because your girl satisfies you wholly. Huh? That looks contradictory. I'm interested in how you approach this because in my current LTR I am free to see other girls. Though, when my girl is so generous and devoted, I don't even give a shit. However I wouldn't (and she wouldn't) mind if I randomly pursued some other girl just because I thought it'd be a good expe…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 01:19 PM
1

This, and imo it doesn't apply to just Europe but all world
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 01:08 PM
2

What is this piece of shit post "Exercising manliness" what the actual FUCK more like exercising your little petty ego and distracting yourself from the fact that you're a pussy with no mission and that your life is piece of shit
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 01:07 PM
1

Yes, UGLs are cheap and it's not that hard to find legit sources. NP
/r/askTRP09/09/17 08:07 PM
2

So, you're righy about that, however I still wonder why women rated almost all of the men on OKcupid as below-average. IMHO biology. Women are prepared for sexual selection. Meanwhile for a man it doesn't matter that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 11:13 AM
2

BBJ What's this? I've tried googlin it to no avail
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 07:38 PM
1

Are some martial arts useless for purposes of fighting yourself off? Are some more or less useful?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 07:34 PM
3

What actionable advice would you offer to not allow such situation to arise, prepare it should it arise and do should you be in it?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 06:56 PM
5

He'll say name something we can't do with my gf around. "Guys night" She's not a guy, therefore you can't do it with her. Truth in a jokingly manner
/r/askTRP30/08/17 06:18 PM
2

There are tons of people who know the social skills but don't have fun. On the other hand, there are tons of people who don't know the social skills and have fun. Whether or not you truly enjoy the bar is heavily dependent on your personality and not your social skills. Yup. I hate bars 95% of the time. They're loud, they're exhausting. There's a lot of shitty music going on and I'm not even that picky. There are shitty sports screaming from the TV or some other BS music videos. No, just no, I r…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 10:18 PM
1

There was another guy who dumped his GF when she was turning 30 after 8 years of being together. Did she deserve it? Because if yes then They know what they are doing. Is false :D Just kidding, you're right, I am curious whether she deserved it though
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 10:03 PM
1

Keep it outside of your house.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 09:47 PM
1

Yes op. Look up blackdragon blog.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:38 PM
38

Yea looking at your frame OP i'm not even sure why u post this as being "dumped" when you prove sentence after sentence in your post that 99,99% she'll be back in a few days, unless it's sarcasm then i didn't get it.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 09:12 PM
1

As for first case, I dunno Kate Upton but I'll just put my subjective 10 here. I'd try it and, fulfilling my curiosity, move beyond as that just wouldn't be fulfilling. As for fake tits, like I said in previous reply - it's about emotional connection. If I found the girl attractive, then that'd be cool. I haven't met anyone with fake tits tho. I don't live in the US.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 01:21 AM
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Not sure where you got cohabitation with a woman out of my post but whatever. My point is when your "new partner" is a sex-doll, then it is never joyful sex and it starts and stays as maintence sex. Why choose that over joyful sex? I agree with you on lifting part - but that's just the way it is. In fact I despised the gym a few years ago because of that exact reason. Lifting artificial weights seems stupid. However I wouldn't compare that to artificial partner situation. Same with the Oaks (I s…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 01:05 AM
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Yeah I don't smoke every day. I get myself a gram every few months and it lasts me all this time. I myself am surprised how does this work so well because I do have strong history with other drugs. I guess I could say that what's learnt from parents is learnt, lol... My parents had strong IV speed addiction, yet my mom when she smoked weed she'd use very little, almost never got "stoned" and she smokes less and less, claiming reverse tolerance hah. So do I. I hope this clears it up
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 12:27 AM
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But you said it yourself. The people buying the fakes do not know they're buying fakes. Whereas in porn you know it's fake. I know that thousands are addicted to pornography. So was I. However when I deeply and truly understood that it's fake, I haven't watched it for last 3 years. So do drugs. Drugs are enjoyable, but do not put me into blissful states anymore. It's like you've seen behind the curtain what the magician is really doing. The trick still amuses you on an intellectual level, howeve…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 12:15 AM
3

This is beautifuly written.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 10:32 PM
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I disagree. Just knowing something is fake takes like 90% of the pleasure from doing it and leaves you with a bad aftertaste. Source: doing drugs over the years makes you realize that the perceived pleasure isn't happiness. Provided you haven't created tolerance, drugs still remain pleasurable, release dopamine, etc. yet you know they're fake and cannot experience them like you used to before. Same as when you take the red pill, you can no longer look at sexual relationships the same. You just k…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 10:22 PM
1

I am unsure what post are you answering coz it surely isn't OP's post.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 08:54 PM
1

How big of a toke are we talking about here? Did you read my post that I meant micro tokes? I don't even any change in consciousness. Smoking occassionally I've noticed only benefits and I've been doing it for years. The insight, the drive to organize my living space, the exit from thought loops, it's all there. I used to think I should never use anything external like this because somehow it is worse. But I can't see why I shouldn't use micro doses of LSD and weed here and there when there are …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 07:21 PM
6

Can work as part of seduction in a LTR
/r/askTRP21/08/17 10:20 PM
2

Holy shit, man. I feel for you
/r/askTRP21/08/17 10:19 PM
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Don't go rambo on your current relationships, i.e. trying to change the whole relationship dynamic all at once
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:36 PM
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And she'll keep telling you that it's good that you've opened up, that now she feels better connection between the two of you, et cetera... By the way sex quality (or quantity) got a nosedive? "Oh must be my libido cause of the depression..." or some other BS It's not that she lies, she might, most likely, not realize what's happening. It's kinda the weirdest thing since I've got to read TRP (a;though I don't agree with a lot of stuff). Situations which prove one by one, another after another th…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:32 PM
2

You guys smoke too fucking much and then keep on wondering why is it working bad for you, then go cringe on forums on how weed is bad. Not everything directed at you
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 11:32 AM
2

However life is meaningless so whatever is worth for you, go for it. Why bother being unhappy?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 11:29 AM
2

Even if you just consume a little bit in the evening before bedtime. Disagree. Micro toking weed is one of the best things happening to my mental state
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 11:28 AM
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But do relax sometimes, or you're going to go nuts. Even if it's 5 minutes. IMO that mindset can be otherwise dangerous
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 11:26 AM
2

But you're dating her, i.e. taking her out and doing some stuff together. This is the message she's getting, the rest like not talking about each other etc. doesn't matter coz she just understands that as you being mysterious and that she wants to open you. That's my opinion
/r/askTRP21/08/17 10:13 AM
1

Ive read in another trp thread that hes gay and wife is a facade
/r/askTRP21/08/17 10:12 AM
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I think that if she asks to be exclusive then you're not treating her like a FwB, you're treating her like a girlfriend. But you may not have noticed it, that's why you're surprised. Did you take her out for dinners? What were you doing with her (dating stuff?) and how much of it? She may have taken it as a boyfriend-signal.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:53 PM
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Huh, if you were treating her as FwB truly, she would not do that
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:19 PM
1

With another woman, are you serious? Lol, I'd never give a single fuck even if I were completely blue pill 16 y/o. I don't think women who are mostly straight treat encounters and relationships with other women the same as they do relationships with men. In fact it is an entirely different category, independent of relationships with men. I would not give a shit because it is not the same type of attraction.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:16 PM
1

I agree with this. I'm not saying you should trust everybody you encounter with your money and whatnot. But completely and absolutely not trusting people is just incredibly lonely and drives me nuts & depressed everytime I try to "implement" it in my life.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:09 PM
2

Hugh Jackman Wasn't he gay
/r/askTRP20/08/17 01:54 PM
1

Or raising your ass to the washbasin.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 07:01 AM
3

Kwisatz Haderach, obviously. What a question.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 06:45 AM
4

The OP posted tips on how to handle when your mind still does the comparison
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 07:35 PM
1

Unfortunately solo it doesn't work 100%. It is a part of a greater plan, tho. Looking forward to LDN therapy together with ketamine for depression, although TRT on its own is already doing a (very) decent job
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 04:43 PM
2

I don't drink that much milk, my stomach reacts badly to it. I used to be even lighter dude, I used to be 123lbs at my lowest. For over 3 years I've tried to train however I've never sticked to it due to getting easily overtrained and the very slow results would vanish whenever I got randomly overtrained doing 10 pushups a few days in a week. Few months ago I've tested low testosterone, went TRT and here I am. Eating protein powders and chugging as much food into myself as I can. I want to get t…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 04:19 PM
1

I could fast a single day, only eating a single last meal (and I do, though I haven't made it a system yet) a dozen times in a year.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 01:45 PM
1

Okay then, a naturally thin person - I am not a believer in somatotypes, what is true though is that I am very thin person naturally. Right now I am 139lbs at 6,2ft and I can't imagine doing IF, I eat a meal once every ~2h Besides, are you gaining weight? Coz that's the point of my post.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 01:28 PM
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I don't lucid dream. I only write down my dreams in the journal first thing in the morning. This alone allows me to do what Juan-San says, maybe to a little less degree, but still
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:59 PM
5

That's why if you're not objectively attractive, you should only be doing indirect cold-approach
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:54 PM
1

You establish a different frame in the relationship between two of you.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:42 PM
1

on that. Your diet is only viable if you can imagine yourself eating that way your whole life. With the exception of tool-diets like elimination diet that are purposely time-limited.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:32 PM
0

Hi, two things regarding on when you should NOT do intermittent fasting: You are thin and/or tall ectomorph (like me) who wants to gain weight. Sounds obvious, but wasn't to me for some reason. You have too small stomach to do both of fasting and bulking at the same time. You have diagnosed/undiagnosed sugar issues... I know I have something wrong with my blood sugar because if I exercise in the morning before eating breakfast, I get huge fatigue and need to get to sleep. Plus if I am stressed w…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:30 PM
1

Just saying, I can hold eye contact but am not confident with women.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:23 PM
2

It's at the top you've got the best of rational male and year one pops up. here's direct link https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:28 PM
1

I take my life as seriously as I can. I find though that if I try be serious on everything, I become miserable. I have yet not found my own perfect balance for this. I've found that despite my journal being fun activity that I crave (I literally sometimes crave my time with the journal - time with myself - when I don't have it, and can't wait until I get back home) and that I spend little time on it, I get immense benefits. I often compare times where I write and where I don't. The times during …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:34 PM
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First go to therationalmale.com and start with The best of Rational Male year one. Just go through every article. Then go with year 2, then another etc. My most honest tip is DON'T READ THIS SUB until you've consumed Rational Male and gained some distance. A lot of the advice in here appears to be good but is bullshit and is going to drive you into anger and hate versus women. This is not good. Love women for what they are, no need to hate. Women will be women. And don't read this sub's sidebar …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:21 PM
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The second recommendation is pretty good IMO. Try to schedule a first date that is pretty short (as to not waste time), ask her questions, let her tell you more about her; be sexual but don't push too hard, just make it known. Leave date when she's still in good feelings about you and her interest is tops. Then on second date escalate hard
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:16 PM
1

Yeah, I just don't see how journal is "fucking hard" to maintain. If you're half-assed about it, then yeah. See how mechz21 and I have completely opposing perspective on this, journal is not unequivocally fucking hard to maintain. I write for fun solely which makes me able maintain it easily. I sometimes do various kinds of thought exercises when I come up with any, or write down my feelings, or write some story, or write down my dream. I let my journal be what I am at the time. As much as I'd l…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 02:52 PM
1

Is it hard to maintain? I write first thing in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 10:09 AM
1

I value what works. I don't care if he were selling tiny colorful ponies marketed for extraterrestial aliens, if his lifestyle ideas work, that's good.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 05:39 PM
11

Never he said one basket. Check out Blackdragon. You guys on TRP here are really old fashioned.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:28 PM
-1

SYIHBIMIMF Lol just ctrl+c ctrlv buddy
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 02:21 PM
5

Don't hangout - talk to new people, find out their interests, and ask them to do smth together, create smth preferably, not hangout but create or do bussiness together, ask for a favor or do a favor for the other guy
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 07:01 PM
4

Gotta upvote this shit. There are way more insecure girls than TRP admits
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:55 PM
1

None. I don't do hobbies. My life needs to be thought of as one, not as "what I have to do" and "what I do in my free time".
/r/askTRP05/08/17 06:52 PM
5

According to the title, I was hoping the argument ended with you fingering her. I am deeply disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 06:44 PM
2

What he writes about could be achieved with no-ester testosterone (test suspension). I've read wild shit about its effect on sex drive btw.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:55 PM
0

PUAing usually happens at bars or clubs so alcohol is heavily implied. That is a fucking stupid conclusion out of your ass.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:31 PM
1

That's high IMHO. Not that I would not take it.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 06:29 PM
1

Just keep on doing what you're doing, you'll eventually 1. stop giving a fuck 2. learn to deal with it 3. turn it around to your favour 4. know what you want, which is both result of previous things as well as the cause and ps if you're pissing people off solely just by changing yourself you're probably doing it right
/r/askTRP31/07/17 06:14 PM
3

wonderful, i hope you stay here
/r/askTRP31/07/17 06:11 PM
0

Yep. And he still could have gotten those thoughts.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:01 PM
-1

You can't do meditation right
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:01 PM
4

Go, find out and learn
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:52 PM
2

Hey man, I did this a few months ago. Was thinking of it months beforehand, but had no balls. Eventually did it and it was one of the best things ever (I had longer hair for previous couple years). Interestingly, opinions were very mixed. Some people that I thought would react badly actually said I look awesome, which buffed me up. And the people who said I look shite I didn't give a shit about.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 03:56 PM
2

Ah, you're right. I meant 5,5 inches. I've found this btw: http://brobible.com/life/article/average-penis-size-study/ I am totally in average for my country, lol.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 03:51 PM
1

I have a very average 6 inches The average is 4,5 inches IIRC.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 08:18 PM
1

I mean estradiol (E2). That's what causes the sides usually. I had low testosterone for some time. And with it, low estradiol. The combined effects were pretty bad emotionally. I was very sensitive. I suppose too high of E2 can be just as bad. By the way, what dosage were you doing?
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:20 AM
2

It's good that you're posting here, man.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:18 AM
5

I came in her mouth without warning (knowing that she didn't like it), and after finishing me off like a champ she even said "I guess I'm going to have to get used to that now". My mistake was apologizing profusely afterwards, Vomit and now I think I've fucked myself over. I didn't say anything in response to her comment and moved on with my day. Normally I would say something along the lines off "...aaaaaaand my desire to eat you out just dried right up!", funny, but clearly showing butt hurt. …
/r/askMRP24/07/17 09:17 AM
1

blast
/r/askTRP23/07/17 08:10 PM
1

My aggression and rage made my romantic relationships so dramatic and not fun for anyone. care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP23/07/17 08:07 PM
1

Did you test your E? If not... why blame
/r/askTRP23/07/17 08:06 PM
2

With an army better trained than a spartan army yet bigger than a chinese army.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 08:03 PM
1

Does this kind of replying come naturally to you? have you learned it?
/r/askTRP23/07/17 08:02 PM
4

And thus the arrogant confrontational douchebag wins the girl while the warm faithful beta stays home and faps into his sock ... For a short term relationship.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 07:39 PM
1

I'm new to TRP, but from both what I've read and what I've experienced with my LTR, confronting sucks 95% of the time. Better to just get it: https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/
/r/askTRP19/07/17 09:40 PM
2

She usually declines my invitations because she is not in the mood. Maybe she's doing the same thing as you are doing, except she's not stressing about it too much.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 09:23 PM
1

I feel frustrated by this. It's obvious that I want her more than she wants me and she has the power. I'm not enlightened, but how is it obvious?
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:48 PM
1

You don't need to lead a life of a James Bond to generate attraction. Something that needs to be internalized in my head, lol.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:37 PM
1

Honestly, I have no idea why isn't blackdragon's blog (and his non-monogamy guides) advocated more on this sub. It fixes the issues this sub has.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:33 PM
1

If there is any way I could have persuaded her to have sex without actually raping her, please tell me. Really wanna know as well what happened
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 03:23 PM
1

Not from what I've read, and I've read a lot on the subject. Karezza is not even approaching arousal level that'd signal to the brain that you can get an orgasm and thus fire off the desire. What you're describing is tantra and is not the same as karezza. In karezza there
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 03:12 PM
2

this shit right here, my life is always better when I keep to 9pm-to-bed and 5am-to-rise schedule
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:37 PM
2

Too much melatonin. You only need 0.3-0.5mg You sleep too late. The greatest stuff that helps for my adrenal whatever is having a steady sleep schedule that consists of getting up very early and going to bed very early. To bed 8-9pm, to rise 4.30-5am. Try using a sleep mask, too. What is your sleeping pattern?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:36 PM
1

Do u do animal/dominant sex as well ?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:07 PM
1

he said about women too tho
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:05 PM
1

He has a mind of a scientist if you haven't noticed. He wants to experiment. He wants to see it for himself. I understand.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:05 PM
1

Karezza misses all the domination/animal stuff though that I really enjoy. Which is why it wasn't that interesting for me to pursue it
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:02 PM
0

You don't need to bust every time. I often have an orgasm from a blowjob and later on I don't orgasm during/after sex. I don't need it.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:00 PM
2

Yup. Plus if you have any kind of lucidity in your dreams by using a dream journal, you can stop wet dreams when they happen. I have post orgasmic illness syndrome so it was a real issue to me. I've started noting down my dreams and made a commitment to myself that I'd become lucid in a sexual situation in a dream and that I'd stop it right there. It works
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:58 PM
1

This is not BS. Any pleasure dulls the mind. I have "post orgasmic illness syndrome", which is basically exagarrated version of what you're experiencing. I did not want to go your route though. I do not seek enlightment.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:53 PM
3

Yes, definitely. My LTR was always reacting almost badly to game. Seduction, very well, but game? She just needed to be taken and understood as a woman, therefore feelz before realz and that's it. Betaization still occurs if you let it slide, just keep that in check.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:34 PM
1

You mean the book, not the site? Thanks
/r/askTRP18/07/17 08:47 AM
2

I live in a small town right now (25k people). Is it still applicable (plate theory)? Also I've been reading up on blackdragon lately a lot and this is something that really clicks with me moreso than purely plating, although it's gonna be a long road before I get this looking even barely any good, I'm new to TRP and pickup. I get confused about plating though as on how to not imply shit through my actions. If I am to spend time with the girl, isn't that basically a date? Let's say that in an id…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 08:49 PM
1

This. I am naturally skinny, take 250mg cyp a week and I don't have any estrogen issues
/r/askMRP17/07/17 10:02 AM
1

There is also fun in mutual growth. And knowing each other really deep and well.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 07:35 AM
1

lmao
/r/askMRP16/07/17 07:26 PM
2

Double enter for new paragraph is all you need
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 06:26 PM
2

The difference is that women are largely unaware and follow their instincts, but we can choose to. Wouldn't be so sure about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 05:33 PM
5

How is 6 and 4 months "long" term relationship tho
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 05:28 PM
1

As for me, I feel kinda ensnared in a LTR. It's my first girlfriend and I wonder whether I could do better. But it seems to me like some kind of validation issue. I don't know, man. You bring a very good point. At the same time, I know that even if I ignore it now, I will want to have sex with someone else than my LTR gurl. Or rather, a relationship, short one, cause I don't feel too much for just plain sex. I don't want to lie to a person that it won't happen coz it will, and then I don't want …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 05:17 PM
1

Jeez man, OP, I feel exactly. The same. I've been sabotaging my LTR for months, maybe longer, because I feel like breaking up. She's done little to no wrong to me. She's loyal and submissive and would give all her money to me if I commanded her to. Yet, I don't know. And there's nobody to tell me or advice. The only issues I ever get in my relationship is the one I create subconsciously by sabotage.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 05:11 PM
2

btw what does that mean
/r/askTRP15/07/17 05:30 PM
3

There are your boundaries crossed... How you gonna play that?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 05:21 PM
1

So basically you've listed all the points that most of the people here, out giving "advice" to the newcomers, are guilty of
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:09 PM
-1

I don't get why you guys are getting downvoted. Here are the arguments and no ad personam trips yet the downvotes. Is discussion and difference/challenge of views unadvocated? Enjoy your comfort zones, alphas™
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 10:12 PM
12

Because depression and anxiety are caused by chemical imbalances in the brain. Sometimes. These clinical cases are rare if you consider how many people are diagnosed with anxiety or depression. Depression and anxiety are not caused by chemical imbalances in the brain. They can be caused by the imbalance, and they're most often correlated. But are rarely direct cause. If you look deeper into depression studies you'll find out that it has only been correlated with each other. It's complex and not …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 10:09 PM
2

I've read mixed opinions on it, regarding mental effects. Some say it made them feel really good and confident, some say it made them depressed, some say it made them very jealous, secretive and untrusting to the point of screwing up their relationship.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 10:01 PM
1

It is for life, however I've read up on stories of people who were on TRT for a year or two, got off with help of meds, then after testing they'd have increased their T levels 2-3x fold. This only happened to people who had their T very low (i.e. some problem), so me and you. Not all hope is lost, however, I've been on testosterone for past 2 months and I can tell you this is one of best things I've decided in my life
/r/askTRP14/07/17 09:34 PM
2

I know, I've found humour in this
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 08:52 PM
1

Dota gaming was seriously fucking up my relationships with people in general, not just LTR. Right now, no problems, people even join me in my RPG gaming because I engage into playing like if it were real world and somehow people find it cool.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 08:08 PM
3

I was an ass. You did good job on leaving that game. It does no good. IMO, try and find out. Experiment. Just don't give it up because of girls. Challenge the views you find here on TRP, especially if they're stated as truth. It's a useful resource.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 07:25 PM
6

Change the C to a T in "medication" and we might see quality change.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 07:20 PM
3

Both true. Funny how the norms/standards also get changed (read: lowered) every some years so people don't think we're too far away from quality.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 07:19 PM
1

Doesn't mean I meant that they haven't included the Science publication piece.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 07:17 PM
4

Okay. People around here can tell not to game at all. I disagree. I was addicted to games. I spent a lot of time. Whole days. My whole teenage years. Addicted to Dota for almost 10 years. I haven't been playing since last December and I'm happy with that. It was messing with my life and emotions because it is so competetive. I love that game. But I can't play it, I cannot handle it. Once I start, it gets me sucked in because there is tons of stuff to learn about, try, compete in, plus the social…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 07:15 PM
1

Yes; and thanks for clarifying, I did not realize.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 07:01 PM
0

I'm not even reading. Decide for yourself, that's being a man
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 06:58 PM
3

They've included the Science publication piece though https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nHCDR94V7Fs
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 06:53 PM
8

You'd speak differently if you had 200ng/dL testosterone levels in your 20s I don't want to be dependent, but what other choice do I have (in case of testosterone)? Be dependent on anxiety, low self-esteem, dead sex life and lack of results.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 06:53 PM
3

IMO, that's already happening, conscious effort or not, when I think of the combined causes of testosterone levels going down across the globe every year. It's like a blue world.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 06:28 PM
9

I agree. Though, that pill will be researched regardless, with our knowledge or without it. If you were at the top, you'd definitely put your effort into such research if you had resources for it. Think of the additional power you could create in your soldiers or whatever. I'm not big into transhumanity, but it is going to take over eventually. We (I, at least) are already using substances to enhance our lives, be it LSD or coffee, or not substances - be it artificial light or skills. It's all a…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 06:18 PM
1

It definitely does if it keeps killing your mood, which it can.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 06:02 PM
25

Hopefully that'll researched to be a red pill in a literal pill.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 05:55 PM
2

I like Victor Pride's article on that. https://boldanddetermined.com/how-to-be-without-remorse-or-apologies/ Essentially, be unapologetic. Admit your mistakes but don't be sorry for them as you do them, lol
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 04:05 PM
4

Transfers well into sex too. Makes me laugh. Dayum, man :D
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 10:57 PM
2

Keep finding out and realizing what makes YOU and ONLY YOU happy. Write it down sometimes if necessary. Writing down takes 10 seconds but can sprout into a journey that has helped me more than anything so far
/r/askTRP03/07/17 02:12 PM
2

Viagra does not resolve sex drive
/r/askTRP03/07/17 09:43 AM
1

I had tested for very low T (245ng/dL) but in Poland testosterone treatment is very rare and I was basically sick of the life I was leading for the past 2-3 years which consisted of worrying why can't I put mass above 60kg and why do I overtrain so often so easily and why do I feel like emotional mess all the time. So I took the matter in my own hands and I've been on 200mg prop weekly for the first few weeks and now I am on ~250mg cypionate weekly. This is mainly for TRT purposes, I haven't tes…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 09:43 AM
1

Not from America. Is that really how black people interact with each other? lmao
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 06:53 PM
1

Was about to call that, lol.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 11:17 AM
5

circlejerk commences in 3... 2... 1...
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 03:42 PM
3

Hey man, here in Poland 15 is the age.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:22 PM
1

You are an animal. Yes, we have evolved as animals to be able to think and form ideas. Yet, we are still animals. All this nonsense about higher beings, souls and whatnot is an excuse for ego to think higher of itself. Higher being, higher ego. Better than an animal. Yet acting like an animal all the time. Even more, often those lesser beings animals behaving better than that human that thinks so highly of himself. Will stand my ground on this.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:09 PM
-3

you don't really want a woman for sex, you are not an animal, you are a higher being BS. Humans are not some above-animals higher beings.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:51 AM
1

You owe yourself though. And yourself can become really fucking greedy and perfectionist if you let it.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 06:35 PM
3

This is some solid advice btw
/r/askTRP25/06/17 06:32 PM
2

If this is a common thing between them, he is going to fuck her right after you leave. Does this kind of shit even exist what the actual fuck
/r/askTRP25/06/17 06:30 PM
3

Depends on the girl IMHO. My girl has this weird ability of not being affected by her cycle almost at all. Fucks whenever, everytime That being said, important is that neither of us is ashamed of put off by the blood. Some girls (and men even) are disgusted by the period. What the fuck, pussies?
/r/askTRP25/06/17 06:27 PM
1

Start with every time you get a compliment, just say "Thank you". Just that. Observe how you feel during that and if you want to feel different. Let "thank you" be the action that'll be followed by emotions you choose. You'll know what to do
/r/askTRP25/06/17 06:23 PM
2

When my first GF wanted me to spank her, beat her up, call her trash et cetera while I was 18 at the time, damn sure I did not feel that being right, it felt awkward, it felt odd, and I was hesitating with every scream that came after a spank. Got used to it and started liking it and thriving in it, seeing how happy she was with it.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 06:20 PM
3

are you trolling sidebear
/r/askTRP25/06/17 06:16 PM
1

but I had a voucher for a free drink There’s an outside seating area with four girls, all moderately attractive, sitting around having drinks. I approach and ask them about my voucher for a free drink I see this shit working great with a fictionary voucher hehe
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:45 PM
2

I saw a good video from Julien recently tackling a bit of this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4zhbqj9WFU Basically, take what he said about having your own fun. Make the list of what is funny to you. And make another list: what do you like to talk about and why. Perhaps it's not "what" do you like to talk about, but how it is being delivered to each other in a conversation. Only you know, make 'em lists, and have fun on Ozora. I wish I could go there but hey, I'm going to polish Goa Dupa inst…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 01:55 PM
1

I haven't noticed any sides as of yet. I will have blood sample drawn in a few days to see how high I can go. I want to go as high as possible without an AI. Could need reducing, yes.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:23 PM
1

I don't. I have low testosterone due to an illness. Went onto TRT to help myself. Soon found out that you can also be infertile during TRT. Might as well use that as a benefit, not a problem.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 09:43 AM
2

Thats what I felt like when I had 245ng/dL
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/17 09:37 AM
1

Ain't as unsafe as you think. Could get decent drugs my whole life, so can get testosterone. Plus I can follow my own protocol and be independent of a doctor, who would not prescribe me TRT anyways. Also it is extremely cheap. TRT on my own costs me about 20$ a month TOPS.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/17 09:36 AM
1

That's why I follow my own TRT protocol and stay in upper natural range. The lab "range" is based on people across all age spectrum and also most likely sick, not healthy, because why they'd get tested otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/17 09:34 AM
2

I am 22 and had T levels of 249ng/dL. About 2 months ago I've started testosterone and couple weeks later I've found TRP. What a combo
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/17 09:31 AM
1

defensive, aggressive
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:23 AM
3

As always, concentrate on your mission, and the women will appear. Study game, and lift so you are prepared to take advantage of those opportunities. I am sexually starved right now but I've been through sexless periods before, I can do it again. Ty, yo
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:11 AM
2

Wow, would you elaborate?
/r/askTRP23/06/17 07:20 AM
1

It's tight and it bears a lot of similarity to oral sex, dominating the other person.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 07:14 AM
2

I'm not skinny fat, I am also very skinny bro, high five! lol. We're all working on it aren't we. I don't know my current metrics but I bet they're around 62kg. Not that I care, it's just measurement of progress or lack of it. Yes, they're good option. For my next 3 months I have very little money to spend and I consider myself still too skinny to put money into a gym. So for those next 3 months I am going to keep working calisthenics and see where it takes me, and in 3 months I may go to the gy…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 07:06 AM
1

I have 2 friends that are skinny fat and they started with lifting and instead of looking better they looked like a bigger skinny-fat version of themselves. Which is exactly what the guy on that website explains. Basically, if you are skinny-fat to begin with, your testosterone to estradiol ratio is messed up because it is based on your muscle to fat ratio. Your lean mass gains are based on that ratio. If you have little testosterone and above average estrogen (and those are skinny-fat qualities…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 06:40 AM
3

I say definitely yes. Don't listen to people who tell you otherwise, the advice on this sub regarding this is suboptimal.. ESPECIALLY if you haven't build any strenght yet and are underweight. And if you're skinny-fat then definitely DON'T do lifting. Do squats for ur legs/ass, do pushups, do leg raise and buy yourself a bar to do chinups. Check out skinnyfattransformation.com . Myself I am not skinny-fat, I am skinny. But this site saved me tons of time. The dude has very simple approach that s…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 06:05 AM
1

Then, you can only define success of the game solely on that ability.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 09:25 PM
0

Why do you pursue it then? The sole act of pursuing is always motivated by ego.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 11:51 AM
2

Isn't that hypocrisy, though? If you're pursuing stoic principles, you're essentially doing what other men do by pursuing pussy. It's just that you've judged the idea of pursuing stoic principles higher than idea of chasing pussy. Both are ideas though and both you do to increase your sense of self-worth, make your ego happier. Reminds me of the irony of chasing humbleness as a virtue. If you're chasing it then you're no longer able to be humble, because you want to wear it like you wear a shiny…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 11:41 AM
8

Going further, you don't need to lift, you don't need to create art, you don't need tasty food. I see this kind of attitude forcefully making sex less of value than it is to conversate. But you don't know what you get out of a situation until you do it. As for value in-before the act, one gives value based on previous experiences and/or beliefs about the activity.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 08:12 AM
5

Funny how over past couple years I've really started to hear those kind of sentences in my head without conscious effort and know they're true.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 05:27 AM
1

Thank you. I behaved very stupidly and mindlessly in my LTR, but that was not my fault at then. I was fed bullshit and did not know. How old are you now btw?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:16 AM
19

Reading the replies in this thread it looks like people on this sub are on a circlejerk train when it comes to value of sex to a human being. People pretend they're more enlightened than they really are. This makes for a narrow amplitude of type of replies.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:00 AM
1

Zachorowałem parę lat temu na POIS, nazwa jest żartem z tego
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:46 AM
16

Okay squad listen up if u kill that tiger you'll get a dopamine cake, but if you take that city we have some dopamine baths prepared... Keep working fellas
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 04:53 AM
1

Holy shit. When I had testosterone result of 245ng/dL a couple months ago I couldn't sustain bodyweight working out 4 days a week for longer than two weeks because I'd get overtrained immediately.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 04:33 PM
7

Krishnamurti says, there is no psychological change, there is only ending. In this case, ending a beta trait.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 03:09 PM
1

Also psychiatric drugs choice is extremely long and painful process. Could not fix the root cause. I had no problems with libido despite really low testosterone for 3 years (245ng/dL at age 22) so no meds helped me
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 11:37 AM
3

What's OI?
/r/askMRP15/06/17 04:17 PM
1

What do you think of straius's post? I am strung between plating and cutting completely. Is there anything more I can say.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 02:42 PM
1

I am split between keeping her as a plate and completely cutting ties. I am clinging to sex. I think you're right. I appreciate others' advice as well, it seems though that I fear losing sex the most. In fact a few weeks ago I've got a text from her that made me go furious - what was in the text is irrelevant, what's relevant is that I wanted to break up with her right after, I was looking for an excuse. Somehow I am conditioned that leaving women is not allowed, bad, unmanly, and that I can't d…
/r/askMRP15/06/17 02:39 PM
1

act accodingly What you mean?
/r/askMRP15/06/17 02:30 PM
1

Gonna do this boys. Feelz hurt but in a good way, like a warrior. Gonna keep her as a plate coz sex's good but definitely not gonna let myself be used.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 02:08 PM
2

What about keeping her around if she calls for sex? Obviously focusing on dating, not her
/r/askMRP15/06/17 02:06 PM
1

Nah, visiting only TRP now. This site has been an enlightment more than any spiritual stuff I've ever been through. I'm not sure if she's cucking, but do I need to be sure? As I've read, watch her actions not her words. And her actions speak that she isn't into me as a man anymore, she's only into sex with me, she doesn't worship me as much as she used to, except for when she wants something from me. It hurts but it has to. IMO i'll use her for sex now if occassion presents but not let myself be…
/r/askMRP15/06/17 02:05 PM
1

She moved out because I was stating one after another time during previous months that I want to live alone. I had no balls to tell her to move out so eventually she said she's moving out before I tell her to do so.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 01:02 PM
2

My guess is she wants to spend more time with her boyfriend but kind of wants to keep seeing you on the side. I haven't thought about it this way... Perhaps I live in the past. If that's true this shit's gonna hurt as fuck and it definitely does now if I imagine that, but that's just the way it is we've never defined ourselves we've only ever set boundaries as to what's allowed and what's not I'm deeper in shit that I thought
/r/askMRP15/06/17 01:01 PM
1

Thanks I needed this.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 12:15 PM
1

I am, although I'm in a very early stage (still approach anxiety etc.). I was thinking that I have enough time during following 3 months, I should make daily game a commitment. I hold myself back because no car, no money, average body (I guess I am just not fat). I have mission tho. Do I care about SMV too much ? Should I just go get rejected? I know it was shitty, only recently I've realized what is it that women want from me. Either she really increased the shittesting or I've only started to …
/r/askMRP15/06/17 11:58 AM
0

If your work isn't your life you're living in duality and conflict with yourself
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 07:43 AM
1

I know you've already answered about comfort tests below; can you elaborate or maybe link to what comfort tests are in a LTR?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:26 PM
4

The person receiving oral sex in a relationship is the one controlling the relationship. This implies a bad rep of giving a woman oral sex. Why would I listen to that? Would you rather get a blowjob by a woman who loves to do it or a woman who just likes it? Even going by your logic, obviously in the former situation the woman is going to be more submissive. It's a positive feedback loop - more enjoyment, therefore better blowjob, therefore more domination, therefore more enjoyment. Except that …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:20 PM
4

You misread my post. She does enjoy it. I want to make it even more enjoyable.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:14 PM
2

She wants to pleasure you. She is aroused by arousing you. I'll just whisper those words to her ear the next time I see her. It's the without coercion part in familyalpha's post that got me. Does he mean like the blowjob is not initiated by the man at all, rather, it is initiated by the woman completely? Is "suck my dick" or a fistful of hair coercion? I get off when I see her initiating
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 08:33 PM
2

Do I expect her to drop to her knees or what? Wondering about that coz she does like to do the blowjobs but I feel they're the best when I don't force them, too. I've always wondered what is it in a man that a woman sees that makes her blow, it baffles me because I don't understand it, despite (ha, ha) being in a LTR for 3,5 years.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:54 PM
2

I'd also add that I'd rather get involved with a chick that does more of LSD at psytrance parties than sniffing cocaine in the bathroom of some club. That's just my preference though. Cocaine girl could be fun shorter term, not a long term material for sure
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:35 PM
1

Then a higher energy person will just use you
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:07 PM
10

8/10 girls are not generally at the party doing LSD. They are in the bathroom doing lines of coke. Not a rule. Go to some open air psytrance festival bro, if you're into the music/culture.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:03 PM
1

Thanks. That's what I thought would be best for my LTR girl.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:00 PM
2

Name checks out but terrible spam.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:44 PM
1

Why is it better for them mentally?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 09:12 AM
1

I am 22 and my GF is 20 (3,5 year LTR so far). Recently a couple months ago she moved out of my place (because I couldn't stand living in the same flat with a woman) and I've kinda opened the relationship a few months ago because I felt doing myself a disservice and disrespect by staying attached and in somewhat ONEitis state. She's on the introverted side as well and isn't interested in other guys however obviously I don't exclude that this may happen. I have one question as to sides in an open…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 09:05 PM
3

What you described is exactly what puts me off in this sub (I'm new). I agree on that AWALT, however saying that a woman will cheat on you is just straight BS. Having such "rules" in one's life only proves that one cannot think for himself and must resort to his made-up "lifetime truths" everytime he should be doing actual thinking. I mean!, thinking's exhausting, why treat a situation as unique (as every situation in life is unique), that requires you to sit down on your ass for 3 minutes and r…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:36 PM
0

Definitely my own tracks.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 08:03 AM
2

Yeah that's why I mention it like that. I don't understand it anyways. I don't quite get the paradox
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:19 PM
1

I am in a 4-year LTR with a girl, I am 22, had no dad or any male example to look up for whole life, she's 20. We lived together for a year and a half during my 1st, 2nd and 3rd semester on my studies (I am now ending my 4th, so she recently moved out). I couldn't live with her as we lived in the same room, so she had to move out eventually or she'd hinder me. She was upset for a while; we've also come to an agreement a couple months ago that this isn't an exclusive relationship anymore because …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:41 PM
1

I meditated with approach that it'll fix my problems outside of meditation and obviously it was a disappointment
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:49 PM
10

Hey man, it's an unpopular opinion right here. Why don't you get aboard the generalisation bandwagon like everyone else so you don't get downvoted?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 04:55 PM
4

Some people take the advice and the ideology of TRP-likeminded sites too literally and behave like women are not human and aren't capable of thinking, they're just like animals. Whereas adopting the advice and ideology without thinking and questioning for oneself is very alpha.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:52 AM
1

Brain surgery not, but a shitload of other stuff - yes
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 06:10 PM
-4

The same way you should listen to your doctor No, you should grow some balls and brains and educate yourself on the medicine topics which concern your health.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 06:08 AM
5

I disagree. Don't stay busy for the sake of it. Just do stuff you want to do. Being busy leaves you miserable, but most importantly you waste time just for the sake of being busy. I rather do something in one hour than let it take three and pretend I'm busy. Fuck that, I've had too much of it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 05:49 AM
1

Yo, I'm new. I was lied to. All my life I believed in being nice, intelligent. And only recently during past couple years (I'm 22 now) I've started to realize my masculinity and what my woman really wants. Interesting is that she began as delicate and shy, me pushing the envelope developed her sexually and made her realize that despite being one of the most shy people I know, in bed she loves to be devastated, spit on, used and treated like a sperm bag. Later doesn't even talk about it because s…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:44 PM
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