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With coworkers it can get creepy really quick. How do you manage?
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:44 AM
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All of them. Most of the job of a psychologist is to find a practical solution to the problem. The OP is not unstable, he is depressed cause he's sexless. Also tinder is famous to be a hook up app among the people who don't know anything about tinder, so that's the first thing any psychologist would do.
/r/seduction19/09/22 09:28 AM
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I've seen this happening a few times to my friend who is a great natural PUA. His reaction has always been looking at me and smiling in a way to say "look...who knows what's wrong with this girl. I don't care". A second after he forgot about her and he's looking for the next prey. You don't know why she did what she did. As a woman she's got a lot of pressure on her. 99% of times is about her, not you. The first rule of game is not taking it personally. The only thought you should think is "next…
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:22 AM
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This made my day!
/r/seduction02/01/22 07:31 PM
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Thank you for your reply! So you think foreigners are easier to approach? I'm Italian and live in the East Midlands and before the pandemic I had a mate who was great at that. We went out every weekend and, doing as he did, I managed to pick up 1 or 2 girls per weekend. My friend is back in Italy for good now and without him in not even able to say hi to a stranger in a club. I lack the motivation and the confidence and my friend was inspiring. That's why I want to find a good method and start f…
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:58 PM
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I'm glad I read your words cause every time I see a pretty girl I think she wants to mind her business and not being annoyed. They keep saying women are approached constantly, also in inappropriate ways, they made cat calling illegal and, even tho I wouldn't be inappropriate, it hinders me a lot!
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:19 AM
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Meditaton helps a lot
/r/seduction22/11/21 08:33 PM
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In this case you could do it with the first message. The only objection to that being the fact that a man would think it's a scam. Talk a bit, say a few jokes then ask straight away.
/r/seduction09/11/21 05:49 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:53 PM
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I'm really interested in what you say and would love to talk about it. Are you in the UK? Where do you normally go to hunt? How do you approach? How would you suggest me to start?
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:36 PM
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That's a good idea and I've been thinking about it. I will take some action. Thank you.
/r/seduction07/11/21 03:46 PM
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Thank you for your point of view on seduction. I am trying to work on myself at 360°, from going to the gym to being more socially active possible. Regarding dating apps I've got all of them (tinder, OkCupid, hinge, happn, bumble, feeld, hud) and daily use all of my swaps. I can get a few matches but the women are all too serious (except on feeld and hud but on those it's super difficult to get a match). I hear stories of friends of friends who get laid a lot with dating apps, I would like to kn…
/r/seduction07/11/21 03:45 PM
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Thanks, I have more or less the same view.
/r/seduction07/11/21 03:00 PM
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Do you have any books that worked for you and you would recommend? I've tried saying I'm not looking for anything serious and I can't get any matches but also it's not true that I don't want anything serious. I am open to any developments in facts, also a serious relationship, but I want to start easy. Lately I'm saying I'm not after a one night stand but I won't jump into anything serious too quickly and I don't know how that come across because they seem to understand but then become super cli…
/r/seduction07/11/21 03:00 PM
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I understand your point of view. I think daygane is more difficult tho cause approaching a girl in a club is a lot more socially accepted than in the street or in a pub where she's maybe sitting with her friends. Do you go on your own usually or you have wings? I don't have company and I have to win the fear to be at a club/pub on my own and looking creepy. Do you have books that worked for you and you would recommend? Thank you very much for your reply.
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:49 PM
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Just message him. I don't get where's the problem. You want to talk to him and instead of messaging him you ask around why he isn't messaging you? I'm a man and I would have done exactly what he did. That your friend gave him your Instagram doesn't mean she served you in a gold platter. In his shoes I would be very suspicious. You want to talk to him, so message him. it's simple.
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:14 PM
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Please tell me how do you do that. I only get the ones who want me to show commitment before sex .I can get loads and I'm desperate for some not committed sex.
/r/seduction02/11/21 08:46 PM
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And I respect that. That's why I have never approached a woman at the gym and I feel self-conscious myself doing that. Your opinion is appreciated and I will remember it. The way you replied tho deserved my reply in that way. I would advice you not to complain tho if they're polite and back off when you make clear you're not interested. After all they're not trying to do anything bad. It's 100 times more creepy the guy who stares without approaching than the one who talks to you. P. S: but if I …
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:43 PM
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I would do good use of your advice. I will probably try that sooner or later. The gym is probably the scariest place for me to approach a girl in this country. So I will get there.
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:22 PM
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Very tipical! I remember once someone asking in a group the difference between harassment and hitting on a girl and someone had the best reply: "if you're hot you're hitting on her, if you're not it's harassment". Thank you for scaring me off even more and for keeping ugly boys from talking to girls. They definitely need to be punished if they do! Keep complaining! 👍🏻
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:19 PM
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Thank you for your reply. That's really interesting. I live in England and while I can cold approach a girl on a night out I'm just super scared at the gym. I always thought in the USA girls are more approachable at the gym because of what I read but in England they look super focused on themselves and don't want to be bothered. Also if you do something wrong everyone will see and maybe hear. Your approach is of encouragement for me. Keep going and keep us updated.
/r/seduction01/06/21 12:19 PM
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Well done man. Can I ask you which country do you live?
/r/seduction01/06/21 12:07 PM
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👆🏻This
/r/seduction16/04/21 05:29 PM
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I was raised by both parents and have your same problem. I personally have friends who were raised by just the mom and who are very good at flirting. Be cautious when you think you've identified the causes of your behaviours. It is a too complex subject to be simplified to a few simple causes.
/r/seduction14/03/21 10:44 AM
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Is there really a skill set to learn? I have read a lot of books about transforming yourself from a loser to a pick up artist. I have to say some of them contributed to lower my self esteem cause I started trying to look more confident and cheeky, thinking what I really am is wrong and needs to be hidden and it never took me anywhere closer to date a woman. for then having some (modest) good results when I gave up trying to improve who I am. Is it really something that can be learned? I honestly…
/r/seduction14/03/21 10:41 AM
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