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Honest question, do you mentally judge others while they're speaking? I do this too sometimes, but the truth is that we judge others in the same way that we judge ourselves. If you're speaking to her and all you see are flaws then you may want to honestly look in the mirror and ask yourself these hard questions. Here's a challenge for you: Make yourself cum without watching porn. That wasn't a typo. Feel all of those built up tensions and sensations throughout your body and masturbate in a whole…
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:34 AM
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It's a skill man. Definitely stop complimenting them so much. It's ok to appreciate someone after the connection has been built but at this point you should be focusing on teasing them, playing games, and having fun with them. Compliment them on other things if you must, but by overdoing it they're going to think of you as their submissive. Like you're there to serve them, and what you want is for them to respect you as a man. Also, I'm noticing that you're belittling yourself a lot. Is everythi…
/r/seduction08/11/14 03:11 AM
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Answer these to me honestly, how have you been relating to the rest of the class? not just to those three girls. Do you feel comfortable showing your personality when you go to class? What have your conversations been like when you talk to them. Right now you feel like being rejected by them is the worst, most devastating thing that could happen. And honestly if you think of it that way, then you probably will be rejected! So does that mean that you should hide from the class for the rest of the…
/r/seduction08/11/14 02:33 AM
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Think of a memory you two have shared together, maybe something cool that you two did, share it with her. Just say "Remember that time..(..) Lol. That was so much fun" It's honest, and it's something you both have in common. Be real yo
/r/seduction28/10/13 04:41 PM
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5 hours of banter
/r/seduction21/10/13 05:24 AM
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shadddupp
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:48 AM
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Should I just back off a it? What would you suggest?
/r/seduction26/08/13 02:28 AM
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She texted back with " I love them, I moved here from Florida". I felt like it would be better to just call her so I called her like 20 mins later. It was kind of awkward, she seemed kind of busy and she said her friend was on her way over so she had to go. I made it quick and told her that my friends were going to the beach those days, and that she should come join. She responded with "I don't really make plans that far in advance" and i said "Next week, Tuesday and thursday." Long story short,…
/r/seduction26/08/13 02:20 AM
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Right, that's what I've heard was best... I just messaged her ":) How do you feel about beaches?" She'll most likely respond positively so I'll say "Great, I'm taking some friends to explore the beach tues/thurs. Come join us!"
/r/seduction26/08/13 01:54 AM
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In my experience yee yeee. But I have to agree with /u/SpikePUA, and that goes for any new thing that you delve into. You have to be the one who sorts through the useful information and finds what works for you. A mindset that works for me might be the end of something for you. In general though, when you start to make positive changes in your life and you learn more about how to give value you're going to see that the hotter girls will "get" you.
/r/seduction25/08/13 06:00 AM
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You don't have to approach every girl you see, but consider this.
/r/seduction10/08/13 02:37 AM
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You payed a whole lot of attention to someone you didn't want to approach ;) C'mon hybrid. You said she was a 10, so the desire to approach was there. It's ok to admit to your fears. Approaching a beautiful woman can be challenging to anyone, especially if she's with friends, but don't bash on her insecurities and try to lower her value because you couldn't break through your comfort zone. In this situation I would have recognized that I didn't feel entitled to this type of women, so I can see h…
/r/seduction08/08/13 03:17 PM
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Say something like "He's single ready to mingle"
/r/seduction03/08/13 04:49 AM
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I've been getting consistent messages on OKC recently and just #-closed a girl I'm interested in. She seems interested in me as well, We were talking about watching horror movies together over the site. I'll wait till tomorrow to send a text, but I want to see if I can make something happen with her on tuesday. What's the best way to suggest a meet-up? I'm thinking: fun text --> truth or dare --> call her up after work --> get her on skype --> suggest meet up.
/r/seduction03/08/13 04:10 AM
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Talk? Toke? Take a walk outside.
/r/seduction03/08/13 02:44 AM
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Going to post more later, but from what I've read most of that sexual energy comes from masculine polarity. You've got to have a certain type of vibe with it. I hope more people that have been here longer share some of their knowledge.
/r/seduction26/07/13 02:28 AM
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Maybe I'm a control freak and get off on manipulation, but hey, to each his own. I have worked in corporate environments and if you don't master being able to control a conversation and influence how others see you (attract and seduce) you won't go far. I feel like the word manipulation gives off the wrong impression, and that the PUA community is often misrepresented by it. It's implying that seduction is about taking something from someone. But in reality, everything I've ever read on seductio…
/r/seduction21/07/13 01:37 AM
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This could really be helpful to someone just getting into all of this. I'd love to give some tips/share some knowledge with anyone needing some help. PM me if you're interested and we'll set something up on my off day.
/r/seduction19/07/13 01:48 AM
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Maybe the internet is multiplying the fact, but it seems like hes got alot of willing minstrels. I've read up on alot of this redpill stuff, but still have a hard time grasping why chicks would do this? Chicks do this because they like sex. Grasp the fact that almost every single person on this planet likes sex, and they like it often, and that there's nothing wrong with that. When you accept people for who they are and make it fun for them to share themselves I believe that you'll find that tho…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 03:48 PM
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My go to for these types of numbers is sending "Happy Birthday!" When they respond it's usually either "Who is this?" Or "It's not my Birthday". The "who is it?" Is more fun to play but I've worked around the later as well.
/r/seduction18/07/13 07:00 AM
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When we're finding out more about her, is it weird to agree and say "Oh that's awesome!" or "I love that" and then ask her to elaborate? I know a good way to build rapport is to hold your cards for a while and show her you actually knew all about it later in the interaction, but what if you're genuinely impressed by what she's saying? I've heard that acting like you're not impressed has a better effect?
/r/seduction03/05/13 04:43 AM
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I work in a store similar to the kiosks in the mall. It's great because for 8-9 hours I'm constantly "approaching", but in a different way because the people come to me. I'm constantly dealing with rejection, you have to really put yourself out there to yell into a crowd of people and be enthusiastic about your product. You end up learning things like the power of insisting on something, different energy levels, strong eye contact, even dealing with frame battles at the beginning of the interact…
/r/seduction25/04/13 01:29 PM
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Mostly with developing stronger connections, relating to the person in front of you. It's something to aim for in any interaction.
/r/seduction05/04/13 02:32 AM
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If I can't make it: What are some techniques you use to draw girls into your reality, bring out those strong emotions, and relate to them on a deeper level?
/r/seduction03/04/13 09:17 PM
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That's what I was thinking, to see if I would be congruent or not. If it's not a "Bitch shield" what would you call this? and how would you have responded?
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:22 AM
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I disagree, just think outside the box. Use that fear to break through your comfort zone and do it because it's funny. Like Julien says it's really no big deal, unless you make it one.
/r/seduction26/03/13 01:02 AM
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Dat Hickie..
/r/seduction13/03/13 01:06 PM
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If you run out of stuff to talk about in an interaction I'd rather eject and regroup my thoughts. That's just me, though. Then again I am a bit of a perfectionist. I personally don't like hearing people talk about nothing. Just have fun dude! it sounds like you're taking the interactions to seriously. If you can relax, stay in set, and enjoy telling her whatever you're feeling then it will help her feel the same way around you.
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:02 PM
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Good idea!
/r/seduction21/02/13 12:05 AM
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You're over thinking it. It's like an acceptance mindset where you feel happy about yourself, a nice balance between confidence and overall well-being. Go out and talk to people and you'll experience it. Don't analyze the situation, just accept. That's why meditation is so key
/r/seduction09/02/13 06:44 PM
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Yesterday I came off really needy to this girl I've been talking to for a couple months, like weird needy. I feel like our connection is dying down since we hardly ever see each other (different state). I was thinking of sending her something like "I feel like total bologna because I was being really needy yesterday. I know you were really busy, I just miss you lol". But this feels so Beta and insecure. Any tips? Or should I just pretend like it never happened and keep being awesome?
/r/seduction29/01/13 02:02 AM
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coolstorybro
/r/seduction08/01/13 03:41 AM
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How is that a shit test? Just ignore
/r/seduction07/01/13 04:29 PM
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Oh, no haha. I bought it like a week ago and brought it because I figured we'd have sex by the water.
/r/seduction26/08/12 12:49 AM
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is that you are not taking anything from these girls, they too made the decision to have sex, and just because you've had sex doesn't mean you owe her anything, but i'd hope that you give them honesty and respect, try and be friends with this girl, if you cant then sometimes thats just the way it is and there's not much else you can do. Whenever I hook up with a girl, even if it's just kissing, I feel like I owe them a relationship. Maybe that mindset changes after you've had a few one nighter's…
/r/seduction26/08/12 12:25 AM
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We were all over the place lol. Fireworks went off while we were still in the water (not deep, it was where the water stretches over the sand), then I moved her over to the bench because that was a really bad idea.
/r/seduction26/08/12 12:14 AM
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Have you ever tried to have sex in saltwater?
/r/seduction25/08/12 11:08 PM
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still twitching, my ex says, "I lost count at 7". A girl I was with last night said, "fuck, how is that even possible"
/r/seduction25/08/12 05:25 PM
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fuck. that's exactly what I was afraid of and college hasn't even started yet. But I see you're point. I need to be the man, I need to look into myself and take responsibility for my actions.
/r/seduction25/08/12 03:42 PM
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While I was in high school I made a lot of really poor decisions with girls. I used to look at all of the jocks and see something that I didn't have. There are times when my AA is bad and I think that I'm somehow less than a man. My fear is like a mixture of never getting better and not living up to my own expectations/ being alone/ not being able to protect myself if I get into a serious fight. But that fear is one of the many things that motivates me to get better and look for new opportunitie…
/r/seduction18/08/12 12:27 AM
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Ikr? I was thinking over the set last night and my problem was that I wasn't thinking straight. My mindset was "OH SHIT so many girls" when it should have been focused on something else. Oh well, it will get better in time.
/r/seduction11/08/12 02:44 PM
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I agree. I'll just try having an interesting conversation with her like last time and if I do go for the # then I'll use an indirect approach
/r/seduction27/06/12 03:15 PM
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