I saw one of my newbie co-workers on OkCupid [HB8.5]. We get along well even though she's new, there's a chance she's already interested. I viewed her profile on OkC today and I'm not sure if I should message her something funny like "Ladies, Calm your tits" or just keep talking to her in person? I'm thinking her number one fear is whether or not I'm going to tell everyone about her "online" life, which I'm not.