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There would be a lot more sympathy for the Palastinian people if the matter was reported honestly in the media. The right wing tabloids are the most popular print media by a long shot, and they are heavily pro Israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 09:37 PM
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They're pretty young (early teens and pre teen) and Thankfully the kind of rubbish I had to put up with (girls who developed early being called sluts, despite never having even kissed a boy, girls not being allowed to use the basketball courts or computers, boys not being allowed to take home economics classes and told off if they cried) gets jumped on by teachers these days. There are still issues, especially concerning kids being told they can't do things because of their gender, but it's gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 09:35 PM
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So we should just give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 09:24 PM
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The non Jewish Zionism over here stems from cultural sympathy for having been removed from one's land. The notion is that Israel belonged to the Jewish people first, and therefore it should be theirs. The fact that Palestinians have homes, lives and families there now tends to be glossed over or met with "but haulocost". The younger feminists i know tend to be the daughters of the refugee women i teach English to. Feminism, to them, means being able to access the education and opportunities forb…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 09:39 AM
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Horseradish confused this aspie as a child. Watch a person with ASD have a meltdown, then tell me they're not emotional, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 08:44 AM
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I was an SJW before they were slacktivists. Zionism is pretty much confined to the conservative Sydney community; Melbourne and Adelaide are much more progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 08:38 AM
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How is an "I am a feminist" teeshirt any more offensive than a "vote for x" one? Why do you take issue with people being free to express their political beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 07:02 AM
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Primarily from Sri Lanka and Iraq, they've sailed a leaky tub of a boat halfway around the world to escape persecution and the current bunch of xenophobes lock them up for the term of their natural lives. A couple of young men recently died from infected wounds and several women have been raped then killed by guards. The current immigration minister is having to explain himself to the UN, but I doubt anything will come of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 06:59 AM
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Pretty well. Refugees are stuck in concentration camps there. It's appalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 05:35 AM
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12 provided that there is no more than a 12/ 24 month age gap, otherwise too much potential for exploitation exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 01:28 AM
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So you're part of the problem, while denigrating people who are attempting to be part of the solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/14 12:56 AM
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I don't own one of those shirts, and had no idea as to their original. You raise the very good point of everyone needing to source their food and clothing ethically though. I take it you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 10:09 PM
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I leave it for him to politely disengage. The relationship equivalent of scent marking trees is sad and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 10:06 PM
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No. No one needs to see me red and sweaty apart from my husband, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 10:04 PM
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Because you asked nicely; I have been involved in crowdfunding fistula repair surgery. I don't manage the project any more though, as it has grown beyond my capacity to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 07:46 AM
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Do you want some floppy hats for those strawmen?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 07:42 AM
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Of course it's a human rights issue. It's interesting how few people have noticed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 07:33 AM
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Run that by me again, because since I've already told you that I undertake charitable work in this region, I really don't know what you're trying to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 05:03 AM
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Uh, no. Major comprehension fail there, dear. What I am asserting is that feminism still has a very long way to go in the push to create a safe and equitable society for women to live in. The only person carrying on about catcalling is you. Why did you feel the need to bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 05:01 AM
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Why can't I raise money or awareness right here? Why are you so vehemently opposed to raising awareness in regards to this issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 04:58 AM
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So I'm not allowed to be concerned or work towards improving the circumstances of anyone other than myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 04:37 AM
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A good proportion of them do. The trouble is that you're too busy looking at the 16yo ones on tumblr to notice. Also; agitating on one issue does not preclude you from being active in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 04:16 AM
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Women's health issues is routinely ignored unless other women or their allies fight for their needs to be met. Organizations such as medicines sans frontiers work closely with women's interest groups in order to meet the needs of these women. Religious aid organizations are frequently much more trouble than they are worth, particularly when it comes to sexual health. The Catholic Church and the denial of condoms leading to the spread of HIV in sub Saharan Africa is the most obvious example. What…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 03:16 AM
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It's 30 degrees here, a bit hot for a beanie. Are men routinely forcibly sterilized in unhygienic conditions in India? Because I missed that article.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 03:11 AM
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I have donated time and money previously. Why do you feel the need to try and derail?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 03:09 AM
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What does the desperate need for hygienic health practices amongst impoverished women and the need to raise their status and standard of living have to do with white men feeling entitled to annoy white women in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 03:07 AM
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sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 03:02 AM
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Start another thread on how the caste system oppresses men. That's not what this thread is about. Why do you need to derail, BTW?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 03:01 AM
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Forced sterilization of disabled girls and boys is ongoing, too. Why do you think two wrongs make a right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 03:00 AM
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Because it's us screaming white gender warriors who have bought this to the media's attention. We're the ones opening fistula hospitals and schools. We're the ones agitating for the education of women and for access to safe and affordable contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 02:58 AM
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You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 02:55 AM
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Why are you so frightened to acknowledge the despicable treatment of these women that you are trying to derail? You are welcome to start (yet another) thread about male soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 02:37 AM
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Why are you trying to derail? Don't you think that women everywhere should be allowed to be safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 02:34 AM
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You're down with the idea of the alpha on a personal level. Extend that to a state level.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 02:29 AM
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It would be very interesting to follow a young woman through some of the more "robust" parts of the country with a camera and see the kind of treatment she copped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 02:28 AM
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Veterans issues has followed the G20 for the last two days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 02:26 AM
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Actually, male sterilization is much cheaper, safer and more effective. Yet it's never going to happen. The education and emancipation of girls is the single biggest factor in lowering birth rates. Yet the push is still for seeing women as nothing more than housewife and breeding machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 02:22 AM
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Google Manaus Island.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 12:43 AM
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Corporate fascism. How is a small government going to stop corporations doing whatever the heck they want? I know you're unfamiliar with my country, but a large consortium wants to dredge and mine the Great Barrier Reef. This is the largest living organism on earth, and is completely irreplaceable. Without the threat of being voted out in the next election, the current libertarian conservative mob would have already handed over the rights. Without the stumbling block of government accountability…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 12:31 AM
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Enjoy your overlords when they run your country and you're working 3 jobs at poverty wages, while the small government rocks in a corner, like a toothless kitten and Muslims are herded into gas chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/14 12:00 AM
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Reluctant as I am to engage with the kind of person who will just turn around and go "you rape your kids" as soon as she feels she's losing an argument; I would urge you to consider the inevitable implications of the removal of restrictions of any sort on the Koch brothers bid for De facto ownership of the American state. Statism =/= left. The leftist alternative to libertarianism is anarchy. The leftist alternative to facism is communism. The leftist alternative to capitalism is socialism. Demo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 11:43 PM
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You're confusing the mechanics of the method with the goal of the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 10:16 PM
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Fascism is corporate government; a Libertarian ' s wet dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 09:19 PM
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A gap year working for Red Cross International digging wells and building schools might give the privileged middle class gamers and mallrats the idea that there's more to life than sex with cheerleaders/footballers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 09:32 AM
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I'm utterly opposed to conscription. I do think that a couple of months of pushing your mind and body to their limits will shake the "poor me" attitude out of young men (and young woman, for that matter) and give them some perspective. If the idea of armed service is a bridge too far, then humanitarian work in refugee camps, cleaning up after natural disasters or fighting bushfires might be more palatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 09:19 AM
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Horsefeathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 07:21 AM
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So you can comprehend differences of the far right, but not the far left. Although I dare say you're unable to comprehend the overlaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 05:02 AM
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Really? Seriously, just get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 04:16 AM
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So I take it you can't tell the difference between Tea Party Libertarians, Lassaize Faire Capitalists or oven welding Fascists either?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/14 04:16 AM
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And I think you've managed to confuse Stalinism with communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 11:48 PM
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Boot camp. Stick them all through basic training and get them off the computer and into reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 11:17 PM
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Going by previous form, you're team "Boxer got what he deserved for being stupid enough to trust people he didn't really know" , ergo, Incels get what they deserve and die alone in their mum's basement buried under old pizza boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 11:12 PM
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Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 11:02 PM
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It would be like a vibrator that could do the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 11:01 PM
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Corporate culture has long been problematic for non middle class old school tie white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 10:43 PM
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They're not Marvin. He had style.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 10:06 PM
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Brain the size of a planet and you use it to satisfy Incels. ..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 10:25 AM
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Is that you, Redfoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 09:25 AM
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I can see baby incubating, housework and domestic drudgery robots would make it onto the wish list of upwardly mobile career women, too. Why short circuit your career and go through the pain and inconvenience of pregnancy, labour, birth and the post partum recovery when a robot can do all the hard work and you get a baby at the end of it. It could help the feminist push for the removal of the wage gap, as there will be no excuse to mummy track a woman's career or not hire her in case she gets pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 09:03 AM
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So you two agreed to work together at reestablishing a sexual connection, but she refused to work with you? Was her issue libido or attraction? Because they're two different things, and you chop and change them as though they weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 01:27 AM
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You need to get out more, pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 01:22 AM
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Two wrongs don't make a right. There are correct channels of seeking justice, and flashing your dirty laundry all over the Internet has much wider ramifications than just "getting back" at someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 01:15 AM
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Morally justified? No. Ethically? Much more grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/14 12:52 AM
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Setting out a plan on how to get your sex life back on track. Old tricks like having dates, learning exotic massage, looking through erotica/watching porn/reading the Kama Sutra together, going skinny dipping, etc... Things like forbidding sex is a good trick for making you both want it, too. Tracy Cox has some great tips that don't involve frightening her that you're going to next her if she doesn't put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 11:57 PM
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I've had gastro all weekend; give me a break. TBH, I think this is a much more complicated scenario than a pat black or white answer or philosophy can encompass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 11:39 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. It's a common tactic espoused by groups like Al anon. If you keep being someone's soft place to fall, they'll keep on falling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 11:37 PM
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It works pretty well over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 11:34 PM
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Marx may have coined the phrase, but the implications of collectivism have much more potential than Marx envisioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 11:34 PM
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Danke
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 11:33 AM
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Interesting that the French didn't try that. Is Germany a more politically correct country than France? Over here the shift was more from using gendered language (chairman) to gender neutral language (chairperson,) and the indigenous languages tend to be person first, gender second. The notion is that a person is born "a person" and doesn't become gendered until initiated in late childhood. The exception is that animals default to female and cooked animals default to male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 11:00 AM
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That depends on what you define blue pill as being. Evopsych and biotruths are part of the human condition; I doubt anyone will deny that. Figuring out where biological ends and society begins is much more difficult to untangle, especially when you get into the ephemeral nature of gender, gender roles, social conditioning and cultural context. But that's beside the point. For example; if my husband left me, the money used to support one household would now be needed to support two, which would m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 10:38 AM
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An ultimatum is "do this or I leave". What I did was "I'll wait for you, but won't be with you until you have committed and made significant steps towards getting better".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 09:45 AM
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What makes terpers think they've got the rights to evopsych?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 09:35 AM
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So you didn't think to be proactive whilst you were discussing your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 07:53 AM
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And if he thinks he's pretty awesome already and refuses?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 05:18 AM
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"But her hypergamy! "
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 04:43 AM
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It sounds like a very similar dynamic to my marriage, although I would call it traditional, rather than red pill. It also involves 5 children, so their needs have to come before our wants. (Babies who wake up just as you're about to orgasm are such fun, they seem to have a sixth sense about it).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 03:45 AM
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So you'd be chill with your wife suddenly changing in order to frighten you into doing what she wanted or she'd find someone who would?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 02:24 AM
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The only objections tend to be religious ones. Legalize it, regulate it, tax it and the only people suffering are the illegal operators trying to use illegal setups to subjugate vulnerable women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 02:14 AM
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You don't see how absolving yourself of any leadership decisions is fostering learned helplessness? "Darling, can I please have $20 to out with girlfriends" doesn't strike you as forcing him to take the role of parent, and you the role of daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 02:11 AM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 02:07 AM
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Have you seen who the prime minister is, dumbarse? If Australia was "feminazi", then our judiciary wouldn't be bending over backwards to accommodate violent and amoral men, and Luke Batty would still be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 01:55 AM
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I'm glad it works for you. I find the idea of insisting on incorporating learned helplessness into my relationship to be problematic in a long term sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 01:28 AM
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When things didn't work, after 3 years, I took a secondment to another part of the country and told him to follow if and when he was ready. Before you call it dread game; I wasn't going about creating dread. I was exercising protective behavior regarding my children and allowing him to hit rock bottom and realize that he needed to help himself in order to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 01:25 AM
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That depends on how thinly you want resources spread when they could be providing for your genetic legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 01:19 AM
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Children, ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 10:49 PM
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And have you followed through on that talk with action?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 10:36 PM
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If you don't endorse these kinds of things, why do you throw your lot in with a group of people who aggressively assert that it is their right to abuse women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 10:25 PM
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He had a PTSD fuelled breakdown several years ago and couldn't work or contribute. He became physically aggressive and had breaks with reality. We worked through it together, and eventually came out the other side stronger for it. The idea of arbitrarily shutting up shop is a strawman; these things happen for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 10:15 PM
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Yes I was. I was on picket lines in nappies, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 10:10 PM
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And what if she starts going to the gym, getting her hair and nails done, gets promoted at work and starts getting lots more male attention? Could you cope with a taste of your own medicine if you realized she was a catch too, and she's not into having sex with a selfish baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 12:10 PM
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I've been at the pointy end of lots of hard truths. I don't think that messing with someone's head in order to make them feel dread is useful or healthy. If this notion of men only being able to lead, and women being hypergamous sluts, manipulative abusers, the oldest teenager in the house works for you, then good for you. It's not some great truth though, just regressive internalized misogyny of the kind that allows creeps like Julien Blanc to feel entitled to manhandle strange women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 12:04 PM
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Gastro. What's your excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 11:58 AM
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Letting your wife "know you have options" is talking about your feelings? In what universe?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 11:57 AM
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So how would it have gone down if he'd discovered TRP and dreaded you by letting you know he had options other than you? Don't put out, moggyjo? Ah well, that blonde from accounts gave me her number today, see ya round.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 11:11 AM
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No. They keep pissing on my drop bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 10:55 AM
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Mostly ornery. I'm getting over a gastro bug, the kids have been feral all day and the husband is at a conference where I would be his +1 if I wasn't vomiting all week. I do think that "for better or for worse" should include dry spells. Otherwise, by your logic, she can hunt out another provider if you become unemployable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 10:54 AM
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So you'll dump her if she stops being attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 10:38 AM
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The Greens are looking at picking up at least 5 seats this state election thanks to the austerity for everyone but the magnates and turn back the boats bipartisan slop from the major parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 09:35 AM
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I've been active in the green movement since the 80s. It's gained a lot of ground, and I see it gaining more as people are forced to get their heads out of the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 09:32 AM
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Elucidate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 09:12 AM
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It depends on what you mean by dread game. Are you making yourself more desirable (lose weight, dress better, new haircut, interesting new hobby); or doing the "I have other options" shtick of chatting up other women in front of her, posting on OkCupid and leaving the page open or heading off on camping trips with other women? I disagree with you in regards to option 2; I'm much more keen for sex with my husband when he makes the effort to connect with me in a non sexual manner. Him asking me ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 09:10 AM
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From each according to their ability, to each according to their need. Green is more important than left or right, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 07:13 AM
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Both mean, ime, calm down because you're over thinking and stressing yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/14 04:38 AM
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I think vigilantism is a big risk, but if you've exhausted other options and are prepared to take it, why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 09:43 PM
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Thanks. I have accadacca on the brain atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 09:42 PM
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Hobbyist assaulter of women? Bleuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 04:28 PM
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It really depends on how you define educational or in the public interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 04:27 PM
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Why are you white knighting for her, brah?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 04:25 PM
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Bizarre. I would say that there is more going on here than a trip to the lake. Isn't the filming and distribution of a film without consent against the law, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 10:57 AM
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If a man is sending abusive or threatening messages, and the proper authorities can't or won't do anything to stop them, then why not name and shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 09:51 AM
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I haven't seen it, what exactly does she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 09:48 AM
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Why are you thankful he did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 09:16 AM
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Your reply really troubles me. Did you realize that sunscreen (even the spf 50+ broad spectrum stuff) only works for a finite amount of time? Even if you reapply it, if your skin doesn't have a chance to rest between exposures to high UV sunlight, you will damage it. Please take the time to educate yourself, because skin cancer is no fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 09:06 AM
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Because I doubt doing that kind of thing is conducive to maintaining a relationship. Or gaining a new one for that matter. Would you date a girl who had taped and spread around a video of an ex chucking a wobbly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 08:48 AM
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What happened to that relationship after he did that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 08:40 AM
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While I personally believe that you shouldn't put anything in an email/on twitter/on Facebook that you wouldn't show your granny, I don't condone the publishing of private conversations or intimate photos. It's a dog act to abuse someone's trust like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 08:39 AM
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Tbh, I think it's what older generations have said to younger ones since the beginning of time. That's not to say I don't have my own issues with various schools of feminism; but no ideology is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 08:28 AM
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The promotion of a criminal offense is grounds for deportation. He was hoist on his own petard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 07:34 AM
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It's anecdata, but I know a lot of second wave feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 07:32 AM
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It's frustrating to see Internet slacktivists running their mouths, when you've been at the coalface of creating change. I hail from the green movement, and the notion of hitting "like" on Facebook being equivalent to chaining yourself to a bulldozer or scrubbing decks on the Rainbow Warrior is frustrating, and gets experienced campaigners tetchy. While I'm not terribly familiar with the Internet feminism SJW movement, the same thing seems to apply. The antipathy towards them seems to be partial…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 06:16 AM
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There was radio silence regarding Rolf Harris though. They couldn't even print or broadcast his name or nationality. Every case and every jurisdiction have their own nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 05:03 AM
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What makes you think that they're not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 04:53 AM
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She's also an unreliable witness and the facts need to be established before she can be locked up and the key thrown away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 04:49 AM
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Did she molest her? I was under the impression that she masterbated beside her while she slept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 04:39 AM
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There's clubs and there's clubs. The Melbourne scene is very different from the Tokyo sex tourist scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 04:29 AM
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She's an attention whore and I wouldn't believe "good morning" from her, but I can't see how imprisonment will benefit the situation, especially given her nebulous grasp of facts and the lack of proof. She should have received therapy as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 04:27 AM
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I've heard this before
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 04:03 AM
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Lol. You probably think we ride kangaroos to school, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 02:51 AM
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She was 7. He's what, 40? Old enough to know better for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 02:35 AM
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It's much easier for men to reach the high shelves at the supermarket. Does that mean they should be called shelf sluts and shamed out of reaching for those gourmet pickles?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 12:29 AM
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Don't piss off the locals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 12:25 AM
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Totally this. Abbott is a rabid right winger, but he's also a frothing at the mouth nationalist. If you upset the locals, you're gorn, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 12:24 AM
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I prefer an Akubra. Skin Cancer isn't sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 12:10 AM
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Is this about the psychopathic dude who was inspired by ACDC to murder people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 12:07 AM
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Free speech is an implied right and freedom of association doesn't exist. Sorry, but if you want to choke someone in order to fleece dumb guys out of two months wages, then you're out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/14 12:01 AM
4

Prostitution is legalized and unionized in Australia. $100 at oriental plums, Daily Planet or any number of the legal and regulated brothels in Melbourne would be a much better investment than dropping $2k on this moron to tell you to choke a woman into submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 11:57 PM
1

You have utterly no insight into why women don't come forward after having been assaulted. Please get a clue, because you are being ignorant and offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 11:54 PM
1

IKR? I was under the impression that you couldn't downvote in this sub, so people have gone to the effort of getting around that. Bizarre, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 11:52 PM
1

Can't link on my phone, but it was on the ABC news website a couple of minutes ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 09:21 AM
2

Lol. Even the other terpers on the board are saying you've jumped the shark. Go gather yourself, before you become any more emotional, as you are starting to sound unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 09:06 AM
3

You seem to struggle to follow a conversation, mate. Your theory is as dumb as a box of rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 08:49 AM
1

I seriously doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 08:23 AM
3

TRP has happily claimed some of the responsibility, lol. Several times in fact. Given it's a free game, by an obscure creator, why do you lot care so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 08:21 AM
1

Surely you've heard of gamergate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 07:26 AM
0

You haven't looked very hard. Mens confidence support groups are all over the net (confident man. Net is highly recommended) and programs like Dr Feelgood and Pillowtalk have been around forever. Even your conservative types like Tracy Cox or Alan Pease have been doing this for years. I know you subscribe to the Gordon Gecko world view, but it's passe for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 05:59 AM
2

Mocking stupidity as opposed to sending people death and rape threats, frightening them out if their homes? Shaming people for thinking drunk girls deserve to be raped as opposed to systematic bullying of a woman who dared make a film about sexism in computer games? Pull the other one, it has bells on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 05:41 AM
3

You've never heard of a sex therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 05:35 AM
2

How is he that different to Roosh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 04:18 AM
2

Leaving aside the problematic nature of defining "blue pill", I would categorically state that people who don't consider themselves to be amoral, like it's a good thing, would have higher standards than those who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 04:17 AM
1

Go look up the footage (on my phone, can't link, but abc.gov.au and ninemsn. Com.au will have it) and see if it looks like an angry mob baying for blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 04:15 AM
4

I just see you trying very hard to try and justify being able to insult someone. Bored now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 04:12 AM
6

Victoria police have just confirmed that fuckknuckle Julian has left the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 02:30 AM
8

Of course not. The same as I wouldn't expect the same standard from a graduate as I would expect from an experienced professional. Now you're going to say "see, feeeemales aren't held accountable and are only held to lower standards". Which is where the rest of us lol, because your assertion that all women are teenagers is as logical as saying all cats have six legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 02:28 AM
5

Do you think you're going to find the mother of your children by shoving her face in your crotch in a pub?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 02:22 AM
3

What makes you think no one has called the police? We're you there?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 01:32 AM
4

You said the aim was sex. Make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 01:31 AM
8

Especially when they're smaller, weaker, intoxicated and wearing high heels. Whatta man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 01:30 AM
2

Like you have, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 12:52 AM
5

I wonder if you're going to cry victim when the next one headbutts your balls out your nostrils.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/14 12:50 AM
5

You'd be happy with some strange man choking you in order "get his dick wet", I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 11:33 PM
4

There's a big difference between dying alone and choking someone so they'll be frightened into kissing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 11:32 PM
3

So police doing their job = state sanctioning of this group, eh? Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 11:30 PM
12

Just FYI; the Herald Sun is the right wing Murdoch "news pictorial" and hardly an SJW broadsheet. If he's managed to upset the Hun, he must be pretty darn revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 11:19 PM
5

Yet. His replacement and the "students" were run out of Southbank last night under police guard by protesters, while they bleated about the protesters making them feel "unsafe". But being grabbed and choked by a strange man never makes you feel unsafe, eh? I hope these cretinous slimeballs enjoyed the sensation of tasting their own medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 11:17 PM
5

Prostitution is legal in Australia. Social inept young men would have more luck and a more enjoyable experience at Kings Cross or The Daily Planet than they would by following this moron's "advice"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 11:03 PM
6

I was thinking that Pauline Pantsdown would be throwing him out of the club with his arse in a sling and he'll be kicked the length of Lygon St by the locals who don't want some fuckwit trying to wreck their scene. The Melbourne nightlife is a small town and fuckwits tend to stand out and be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 10:58 PM
9

All of his bookings have been canceled and the attorney general has been petitioned by the Victorian and NSW police chiefs and the national broadcaster to revoke his visa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 10:36 PM
6

I take it you've found those studies detailing how a cat has a more developed brain than a woman, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 10:26 PM
9

How terribly mature. Go to your bedroom, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 10:14 PM
4

What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 10:12 PM
3

You're smart enough to hunt out obscure laws from the 19th century, I'm sure go ogling some current studies regarding MRI technology isn't beyond you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 10:08 PM
8

Have you seen a teenage brain or an adult brain under an MRI? It's amazing how different they look. Children function differently to teenagers; teenagers function differently to adults and younger adults function differently to middle aged or older adults. Your hairbrained notion that "women are teenagers" is foolish and laughable. Go lie down before you hurt yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 11:01 AM
8

So what's your point? Are you stating that there is literally no difference between teenagers and older adults? Because that's bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 09:40 AM
2

Are you a troll or just a dumbarse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 09:36 AM
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It's an insult because it's intended as an insult, I would have thought that was obvious. It also displays a clear lack of understanding as to how the human brain develops, with frontal lobe function maturing several years earlier in women than in men. On a lighter note; what is the male to female ratio of Darwin Award winners?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 08:13 AM
1

Which is why you need to be zen. Being a contented loser is preferable to being an angry loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 07:02 AM
1

Have you actually studied history? Or do you just regurgitate the bits Paul Elam tells you to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 07:01 AM
1

Be zen. Work on yourself and when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. A fisherman getting angry with the fish he can't catch is just an angry, hungry man. Carrying on about "sluts" and "awalt" is just going to chase those fish away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 04:12 AM
1

I was saying that pua's tend towards the woman hating (Roosh would be a good example; resenting women for having to wipe your own arse is no way to live your life). Incels tend to hate everyone, ime. They hate other men for having sex, and hate women for having sex with men other than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 02:10 AM
1

So what are you disagreeing with? That women should have their own agency and go to prison for their own crimes; or that men should own their women, thereby owning any crimes committed by said women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 02:06 AM
1

Is that a trick question?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/14 01:23 AM
1

Sounds like a cherry picked load of old cobblers to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 11:25 AM
1

A how to on being a professional victim, domestic abuser or woman hater, depending on whether you are incel, ltr or pua.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 11:19 AM
1

There's no citations or sources there, no mention of the type of acts or how they were amended, just mentions of other blogs. It really doesn't seem terribly believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 11:13 AM
1

Which country are we talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 11:00 AM
0

You'd prefer to be not allowed to hold down a job, earn a wage, buy a house, get an education or be anything other than shackled to your parents or marriage partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 10:44 AM
1

Post antibiotics and vaccinations, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 10:41 AM
3

Gender is such a nebulous construct; I really couldn't put a finger on any one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 10:35 AM
2

My maiden name was similar. Sod feminism, I changed that sucker when I married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 10:16 AM
1

People are always promoted because of "feelings". A company is a team, and the members of that team need to be able to fit together and compliment each other's strengths and weaknesses. Specialists within their fields (niche fillers) are hired and retained according to merit; everyone else is hired and fired according to how well they play with others. For example; you might be God's gift to accounting, but if you're rude, lousy as communicating your ideas, negative and frustrating to work with,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 10:08 AM
0

I have stalkers now? Bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/14 01:00 AM
2

10yo is a grey area, and tends to be the watershed age for establishing premeditation. Baby boys can get erections in utero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 10:06 PM
5

I think that children of that age don't have the capacity to commit sex crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 11:04 AM
2

If people actually remain in these sects. My husband and I both hail from traditional, conservative branches of Christianity. We're both atheists, my siblings are all atheists, and all his siblings bar one (who converted to Catholicism) are now atheists. Only a couple of my childhood friends and cousins are still church goers. All of my Jewish and Muslim friends and colleagues are less religious than their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 10:52 AM
1

How often do you hear "she shouldn't have been drunk" compared to "he should have checked that she was awake first"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 07:44 AM
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I was 21. We'd been together for 2 years. I had our eldest 12 months later. I'm now 36. There have been ups and downs, as marriage is a marathon, not a sprint. I was lucky in that I met someone I wanted to marry, who had similar values and goals to me, at a time which was mutually beneficial and led to us getting married. In terms of doing things differently? No. Everything is a learning experience. I would possibly have locked my mother and mother in law in a cupboard for the week before the we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 10:29 AM
4

Actually, in my country, I have the legal right to nurse my baby anywhere I choose. In terms of being respectful, I cover up and sit towards the back of the congregation at church, and left to feed him in an annex at a mosque recently. But in a café or at the park? His right to food trumps my desire for modesty and random cats bum types desire for breasts to be sex objects only.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 09:52 AM
3

It's really interesting just how bezerk some men are going about this video. Why are they so defensive and emotional? Why is there such an irrational and aggressive desire to invalidate what this film has shown? Is it to do with having guilty consciences? Feeling like they've been sprung masturbating? Why this overweaning need to discredit what has been shown as truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 09:16 AM
1

My husband loves Pink. I don't get big deal, personally. Yeah, she has some catchy tunes, but she's hardly a groundbreaking bastion of talent. Just another white girl playing at being Aretha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 09:09 AM
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So where do you draw that line? Is walking home at dusk ok, providing you live in a "nice" suburb? Hotpants and a crop top at a party is "asking for it", but how about that strappy sundress that shows your knees? A friend of mine was hassled whilst wearing a cassock, and the man had to be removed from the church service as he became aggressive in his intentions. Her mum told her she contributed to it by "smiling too openly" at him when she took the collection plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 08:09 AM
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You've gone through menopause already; I think I'll hang on to my access to contraception thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 07:53 AM
6

I think both will get blamed. I think both will be told by victim blaming types that they brought it on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 04:48 AM
3

We, as a society, create laws and conventions to enforce ethical cornerstones. Look at the similarities between Moses' 10 commandments, and Hippocrates' philosophical guidelines. Note the similarities between Hindu laws and modern, western ones. Do not kill, do not steal, etc... It always boils down to the same sort of guidelines. Do you think nearly every civilization throughout the history of human life came to these conclusions through chance, or through some sort of human desire to coexist i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 04:46 AM
6

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 04:13 AM
4

No one but you're own conscience, when you get right down to it. Do you buy a ticket when you catch the train? Even though you know you might not get checked by a conductor? Do you not kill that annoying, barking dog down the road, even though you could possibly get away with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 04:13 AM
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You studied law, I assume you're familiar with the "reasonable person" premise, and the frameworks it's based on. These type of obligations tend to reoccur historically and cross culturally; why do you suppose this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:58 AM
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Same with uncles, friends' dads or brothers, boys they've known for years and men they've dated for 3 months. If you say a woman shouldn't trust a man from her English class or a man she's briefly dated, what do you recommend? Chaperones?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:55 AM
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Of course I would advise her not to walk home alone, be it in hotpants or in a burqua. . But if she chose to do so anyway, I wouldn't be terping it up saying "what did you expect. .." after the fact. Rubbing a person' s face in a traumatic incident, and blaming them for it is a reprehensible thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:52 AM
3

I take it you've scraped the "no fat chicks" sticker off the back of your car then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:46 AM
5

Did you realize that a woman is in much more danger of physical or sexual assaults from a person they know, as compared to a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:43 AM
7

Exactly. I can be in baggy jeans and a hoody, make sure I travel during daylight and am totally sober. But when my train breaks down and I have no choice but to walk home, by myself, who will get blamed for being a woman walking alone and "causing herself to be attacked"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:41 AM
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I believe that anyone I don't know is an unknown quantity, who I treat with respect until I know how far to trust them. I believe that people have an ethical obligation to treat other people with respect, regardless of who that other person is. As Theodore Gisele once said "a person's a person, no matter how small. "
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:30 AM
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I think you can take all the precautions in the world, but shit will still happen, and there's a good sporting chance that - when it does - you will be accused of contributing to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:26 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 03:20 AM
1

And you literally can't think of any other short men who have risen to high ranking positions within the military, business, politics or society? How tall is Alan Sugar? How about Paul Watson, Vladimir Putin or Rupert Murdoch?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/14 01:29 AM
1

As an example that not tall didn't mean not alpha, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/14 09:46 PM
1

Napoleon did pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/14 01:59 AM
0

Seriously though, the waif look suits lanky teenage boys much better than girls. Boys have the "right sort" of legs for that thigh gap, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/14 01:57 AM
1

Lol, sounds like fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 10:16 PM
1

Depends how well you can pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 09:49 PM
1

I guess you're happy being part of the problem rather than part of the solution then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 11:41 AM
9

Dare you to dress up as a girl next year and record what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 11:25 AM
0

Which is totes likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 05:02 AM
0

Get back to me if you ever become a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 05:01 AM
0

Lol. Babies very much give a shit if pervs are getting in the way of them enjoying their milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/14 12:55 AM
2

Think about it from the viewpoint of the person being constantly mithered, rather than the viewpoint if the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 11:35 PM
0

Can poor old Puff Daddy not afford to keep his kids in ponies and trips to Disneyland like all the other Hollywood kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 11:34 PM
0

Or they could, you know, leave my baby to eat his lunch in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 11:32 PM
1

I assume it costs money to produce films? Equipment hire, editing, distribution, paying the actress and the filmer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 11:11 PM
4

A baby is entitled to eat. A creep isn't entitled to perve.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 12:17 PM
3

Is she actually asking for donations?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 12:15 PM
2

Babies aren't so keen to be fed under blankets or in toilets just to avoid offending jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 12:14 PM
0

Have you seen how a queen acts when a Tom annoys her? Cat pee ftw.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 09:36 AM
3

What's the age of consent in your country? Anything goes if you're both over 18 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 09:01 AM
0

They may think with their dick, that doesn't mean that they have to act with their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 08:59 AM
2

How could - for example - a 10yo be capable of consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 08:29 AM
5

Running with your comparison here, would you see pocketing the cash you just saw someone drop as a "gateway drug" to other forms of theft. Because I would see disrespecting boundaries by catcalling/following/annoying someone as a potential gateway to more serious versions of disrespecting a person's boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 08:26 AM
3

People catcalling are intimidating and letting me know that if they wanted to, they could have me and there's nothing I could do about stopping them. Catcalling is about power, not attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 08:22 AM
3

And because violent home invasion burglary exists, don't you dare try to complain when you're pick pocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 05:24 AM
4

Have YOU ever tried to express milk?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 04:03 AM
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Not everyone can get a letdown in order to express. I was lucky in that I could, but it really hurt, so I only did it for when I was at work. Seriously though; if I can eat my lunch at a café, why can't my baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 03:16 AM
8

I was just wondering if you were a Thatcherite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 02:34 AM
6

Hungry baby gotta eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 02:20 AM
7

So conservative, individualist "I'm all right thanks jack, bugger the rest of you" types can't think past their own nose. Big surprise. I dare say there's no such thing as society, either?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 02:05 AM
7

I hated it and found it frightening. Does my anecdata balance yours out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 01:54 AM
1

I'm small. Large appendages are wasted on me, I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 01:14 AM
1

Lol. Nice work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 01:11 AM
9

Obviously a non physical altercation is preferable to a physical one. I would still rather hand over cash than sex if I'm cornered. Wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 01:07 AM
1

Why would this junkie only gouge out male eyeballs?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 01:03 AM
6

I'm nobody's victim :) I do wonder why you think robbers or beggers don't target women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/14 01:02 AM
1

I favour some sort of "bark collar"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 11:09 PM
9

Trying and succeeding are two different things. Would you rather a junkie flip out at you for a tenner or a bigger dude offer to peg you? Is a junkie or a bigger, stronger man more likely to succeed in their aims?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 11:07 PM
3

You would have to be pretty tough to wear a kilt and no undies in a Highland climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 11:01 PM
14

Unfortunately, I can't leave my breasts at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 10:46 PM
17

Being attacked for sex is more frightening than being attacked for money. You can get more money; you can't get Un sexually assaulted. Yes, chuggers and beggers and buskers can get annoying, but they're trying to earn a living. The dude leering at someone, wolf whistling her, shouting at her from his car or following her around isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 10:45 PM
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I've been harassed for money and harassed for male attention (dude leaning over for a look while I was breastfeeding my baby was icky). Harassed for money is much less intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 10:09 PM
6

How much do you think it costs to raise a child? Put a roof over their head, gas, electricity, food, school fees, Dr, dentist, shoes, clothes, etc... I just shelled out $12k for orthodontic work for my eldest. Kids aren't free just because you want to go screw your secretary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 09:29 PM
15

Two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 08:58 PM
7

The men you named are very unlike your average, well preserved and fit older man. For every silver fox, there is a MILF, and most folks prefer someone within 5 years of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 09:03 AM
7

And the golden girls; Elle McPherson Nicole Kid man Claudia Schiffer Kate Moss Nigella Lawson Suzi Quatro etc Etc There are hot famous people. Your average Joe or Jane is in a different league.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 01:39 AM
1

Yeah. No. I wouldn't trust you as far as I could throw you on that one. My background has more to do with the protection of children and vulnerable adults than able adults, but I sincerely doubt those figures are accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/14 01:28 AM
1

I did. You implied that all rapes that don't end up with convictions are false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 10:56 PM
3

So does that make all men brothel creepers?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 10:52 PM
1

Why do you assume that the accusations are all false?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 10:44 PM
4

Not RP, but if someone kept pestering me for a hookup after I'd told them that I was married, I would be less than impressed. Having said that, a girlfriend of mine is a rector, and had a man pestering her for her phone number whilst she was wearing her wedding ring, obviously pregnant and dressed in a cassock. He eventually had to be removed as he was disrupting the service and getting aggressive with her refusal to agree to a date. Some people are really bad at taking no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 10:24 AM
1

Miss Havisham
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 10:19 AM
3

You haven't studied any history have you, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 10:14 AM
1

It's the personalities involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 04:33 AM
3

The "good girl" and "people pleaser" was one that was bandied around when I was younger; an ordinary looking girl who cooked or served drinks for every football game or cricket match, who did the team washing and made sure they all got on the bus ok. She'd do fundraisers, volunteer at animal shelters or meals on wheels, study nursing/social care/therapy of some sort and was always available with tea and sympathy for all her male friends when the hot girls dumped them. But she always ended up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/14 02:25 AM
2

So you like to maintain an echo chamber. Shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 10:53 AM
1

It's called statutory rape in my country if there's more than 12 months age between the participants and both of them are under 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 10:40 AM
4

When it's family, I prefer not to make things awkward. A few of my husband's friends are "old school rural" (think crocodile dundee, lol), and arguing with them is just going to give me a headache, so I leave them to it. None of the sexist ones are married/have girlfriends or have kids, even the not bad looking or earning decent money ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 10:17 AM
5

I have family and acquaintances who would fall into both of these categories, and would go and hang out supervising the kids in the backyard in favour of having to be polite to them in the face of their attitude. Life's too short to be buttenholed by bigots at a bbq.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 09:18 AM
1

Nope. You need to exercise that old memory of yours and open that mind that's closed tight as a fish's bum hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 03:30 AM
3

I'm sure Rolf Harris' s friends felt the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 03:28 AM
1

I've linked it before for you ;) you don't want to learn, just bombastically pontificate that all women are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 03:26 AM
1

The red pill parenting sub is linked to TRP, IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 03:11 AM
2

Yes, I understand. If you'd checked out that graphic, they've allowed for the situation that you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 03:10 AM
2

That's dreadful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 03:08 AM
2

That's some seriously shoddy police work. I hope you complained to the station supervisor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 02:07 AM
2

So are you implying this man's conviction is a good or a bad outcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 02:06 AM
1

Leaving aside the low hanging fruit of family violence and overt misogyny; how do you think the enforcement of Victorian gender roles would impact on children? A son who wasn't "masculine enough", and preferred ballet or collecting fossils to football and gaming? A daughter who preferred coding and basketball to fairy dresses and tea parties? Bringing your daughter up to be only good for breeding and feeding? Bringing your son up with "big boys don't cry" and "feelings are for manginas"? He has …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 02:05 AM
3

How were you treated by authorities following the thefts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 01:15 AM
1

So the Victorian nature of red pill parenting isn't likely to damage these children?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 01:10 AM
3

I think it's desirable where a man or woman knows not to touch, and where their peers will keep them honest. Punitive measures are for when all else has failed. Did this man's friends say "not cool, dude, leave her alone", did his boss tell him it was unacceptable to invade the personal space of coworkers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 01:09 AM
4

The Guardian had a very good graphic (I've linked it before, but I'm on my phone right now) detailing the amount of rapes v the amount of rapes that are pursued through the courts v the amount of convictions v the amount of false charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:57 AM
4

A few girls complaining makes for a different level of proof than one girl complaining. I would have thought that would be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:55 AM
1

I was just picking your brain. I actually don't think it's possible to know whether we're smarter than our ancestors, but I doubt TRP makes for smarter children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:53 AM
2

More like 95%, but carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:39 AM
2

For grabbing someone? Did they catch it on CCTV?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:39 AM
1

They sound like a strange crowd. Having hung out with a few radfems, they sound like fringers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:38 AM
0

Has it? I thought it had remained relatively stable, once adjusted for cultural nuances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:37 AM
2

I'm not very sticky, I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:33 AM
5

It's interesting that people were so quick to believe this man was a pedophile? How long ago was this? When I was got to as a 5yo back in the 80s, no one believed me or any of the other little girls who were hurt by this man. He was a pillar of the community until another girl's dad caught him in the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:31 AM
3

Nah, he'd just got to other soft targets; small women, weaker women, disabled or elderly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:15 AM
3

Do you hang it next to the post doc in Pullingitoutyourarsery?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/14 12:13 AM
1

You know an awful lot of straw feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:56 PM
3

Because you're an expert, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:55 PM
0

How do you know that? What makes you extrapolate that modern humans are more intelligent than the thinkers of Ancient Egypt or the European Enlightenment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:54 PM
2

Wrong end of the stick; you have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:53 PM
5

Didn't your parents teach you how to behave yourself? You really struggle with some basic components in bringing up children and teenagers to be functional adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:52 PM
2

It's making sure he rapes someone else, not stopping rape. It's a false solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:50 PM
3

I'd be very surprised if anyone saw the inside of a cop shop for having a grope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:48 PM
2

Nah, I've met enough unreconstructed guts to know what their opinions would most likely be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:48 PM
1

No, I was requesting clarification, not rudeness. What would you say to a girl after the fact? Would it be "I'm sorry that happened to you", or "serves you right for wearing that skirt/being out late/accepting a drink from him/flirting with him"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:47 PM
0

I was making a joke too. Sorry you didn't appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:43 PM
-1

My baby would bite mine if they tried to levitate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:12 AM
0

Fair enough. "Management reserves the right" and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:08 AM
3

Are you suggesting that women who always dress modestly will never be raped? Or that only women who dress modestly are non - participatory in the process of being selected by a predator?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:06 AM
4

Why are they so concerned about being questioned?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:03 AM
3

Power dynamic. It's why everyone barracks for the underdog. It's not like wealthy white tea partiers can make a genuine claim to being oppressed (is it possible to even start to oppress anyone as powerful as the Koch or Walton families), but they try very hard to. I quite liked Bowling for Columbine, but Moore slices the ham a bit thick for me in his other films and his books.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 11:02 AM
0

If I was so inclined, I'd just reset my modem and make another account. I wonder how many trolly posts someone could make before the mods rumbled them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 10:52 AM
3

I see fewer progressives hopping up and down about political correctness interfering with their 1st ammendment rights to free speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 10:50 AM
7

Conservatives are all for free speech until someone disagrees with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 10:10 AM
1

Meh, look back through my posting history to see what I said. It was pretty vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 10:09 AM
-2

Jake and Elwood were brought up by nuns, so it stands to reason that their idea of normal might be a little skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 10:05 AM
-1

Because being shackled to a tribe of kids instead of fulfilling your potential is winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 10:00 AM
-1

I was under the impression that the propensity for intelligence is x - linked. Has this been superseded?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 09:58 AM
-1

That's not "3rd wave feminism", that's the kind of stuff my grandmother used to say. "Girls play at sex looking for love, boys play at love looking for sex " is the kind of quaint old truism that TRP and RPW seem to want to put front and centre when, really, we're a lot more complicated and varied than that. "Men only want one thing, so be careful around them" is something my grandfather said once when I was talking about being the only girl in my sectional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 09:50 AM
1

Sounds like a pitch for a shonky pyramid scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 09:32 AM
6

Sounds a lot like an Amway pitch to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 09:26 AM
1

Didn't think they had ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 09:16 AM
1

I'd be interested to know, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 08:57 AM
7

I don't approve of doxxing or victim blaming, regardless of the target.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 08:02 AM
3

Ok, wading in here; rape culture is pretty pervasive. It's like couch grass: pull it out and burn the ground, but it'll pop up again next season. Like racism, there will always be people who cling to the idea that one type of person is intrinsically better than another. Teaching men (and women, for that matter) not to rape starts in childhood. Do you remember your parents telling you not to hit a sibling or to keep your hands to yourself? Do you remember the concept of "personal space" being exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 07:12 AM
2

Do these people identify as "left"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 04:08 AM
1

Hijacking charities is pretty reprehensible, no matter which way you slice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 03:02 AM
3

Doxxing is a feral thing to do, and spoils things for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 02:56 AM
3

Ok, without being able to see the study itself, or to see if it is actually from a reputable source or a tinfoil hat one, it seems a strange overreaction to remove the thread. Could the current attempt to siphon donations from the "white ribbon" campaign, and inevitable legal action regarding copyright and obtaining money under false pretenses by A Voice For Men be making the moderating team touchy about this topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 02:25 AM
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Nope. Banned from TRP and RPW for posting a woman should consider her own quality of life, as well as that of her husband. Any deviation from lockstep and you're banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/14 02:17 AM
5

Curious, not defensive. I showed him TRP sub and his opinion was "they need to get a job".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 08:53 PM
1

I have a friend who likes the mother/daughter specials.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 10:02 AM
2

Nah, even animals where the males are bigger do it. Cats are notorious for killing litters to bring a queen into oestrus.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 08:39 AM
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Why? Should I be asking his permission, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 08:00 AM
2

Says the boy who stomps around the boards calling people bitches, hos and sluts, but can't cope at the idea of him or any of his homeboys being insulted back. Is HHL your girlfriend, because you white knight for her an awful lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 07:47 AM
3

Are we talking about people who are 40 now, or as a future projection, MissPearl? Because my husband's life and upbringing is vastly different to how his sons will experience our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/14 02:32 AM
2

Pot, meet kettle, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 11:09 PM
2

I have plenty of self respect, sweetheart. It must be because I don't belong to a hate group. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 10:56 PM
1

I'm not going to dox myself to prove you wrong, so I guess you're just going to have to think that. No skin off my nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 09:17 PM
0

Who is Norah Vincent and why would I want to copy her? Edit; that was well after my time of cross dressing. The early 90s were very kind to androgynous sheilas. My writing had nothing to do with human sexuality, and everything to do with neonics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 09:15 PM
1

You believe this or am I missing the sarcasm font?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 09:03 AM
1

Nope. If he wants to watch horror movies, I ignore the TV and read a book. If I want to watch documentaries, he surfs the net beside me. We both like action and Sci Fi. We both dislike romcoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 08:09 AM
2

I have cross dressed and spent time as a man. I found the default of respect very liberating. I am also a published author under a male nom de plume, after multiple rejections under my given name. Being a "man" opened up a lot of doors for me. My current place in life is that of a mother though, and cross dressing is much harder to pull off as you get older, so I doubt I'll be going back there. I'm not into permanent physical changes. Even easy stuff like tattoos or piercings. So no, I wouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 07:45 AM
1

Gough Whitlam was the prime minister. He also bought in no fault divorce, single parent pensions, free healthcare, free education, bought our troops home from vietnam, set up legal aid and set up domestic violence shelters. He was a colossus on the political landscape and died earlier this week. The current conservative governments are trying really hard to dismantle his legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 03:52 AM
2

Wow. I thought you were being satirical. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 01:41 AM
0

The standard you walk past is the standard you accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 01:40 AM
0

Nothing credible that I can find, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 01:39 AM
0

If saying so makes you feel better, dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 01:38 AM
0

Nothing credible that I can find, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 01:06 AM
0

I'm assuming (not an American) that it would be along party rather than gender lines. The feminist movement was pivotal in removing conscription in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 01:05 AM
1

And I'd like to see you requeen 60 be hives. Everyone has different skill sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 10:37 AM
0

I would have agreed with you a generation ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 10:24 AM
-1

In practice, how many of our political representatives are women, or from ethnic minorities?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 10:24 AM
0

Poor old Mel. Didn't he go loony.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 10:13 AM
-1

Really? Are you not just bending what you see to fit your ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 10:12 AM
1

Nah, the Australian conservatives only just got in. So far they've defunded domestic violence shelters (male and female), defunded mental health crisis services, given military personnel a pay cut, locked up refugees in inhumane conditions, slashed jobs and social welfare and ploughed money into the media empire of Rupert Murdoch. Propping up banks just encourages them to give the board payrises and fuck over customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 10:10 AM
-1

Half of all politicians are female?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 10:04 AM
0

Resources are scarce in the Scottish highlands. You don't waste them on someone who can't wield a broadsword, pull a plough and will just produce more mouths to feed. That attitude still lingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 10:00 AM
0

And who hands them that rough end of the pineapple?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 09:52 AM
0

When he injures an unprepared man/thumps a smaller man/bashes a drunk man/targets a weaker man. It's size and power, not purely gender. If a huge, athletic woman laid out a small man after he told her off, do you honestly think she'd be applauded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 09:49 AM
-1

I'm from a European background. Everyone wants sons. Women are livestock, men are golden. If your first child is a daughter, it's a tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 09:44 AM
0

Because cutting welfare to unemployable disability pensioners while bailing out banks makes so much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 09:39 AM
0

Some people vote Tory. Stupid is as stupid does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 09:02 AM
0

Si how would you go about convincing people that a daughter was just as valuable as a son?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 09:00 AM
3

Dude dating the girl next door but batting off over the cheerleader. Dude married at a nice enough woman with 2 kids and a house in the suburbs, after spending his teens and 20s sowing his wild oats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:56 AM
0

So what's your solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:54 AM
-1

Gough Whitlam got rid of conscription in 1972. Would you want to fight beside someone who was forced to be there? Conscription is a false economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:41 AM
0

So society needs men to be disposable? I work in agriculture, and a bull is half the herd. This is great for the bull, but not so great for all the male calves who end up as hamburgers. So cows are more valuable than male calves or steers, but much less valuable than the bull. I would hope that humans are smarter and more socially evolved than cattle, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:21 AM
-2

Who are SRS? I know male on male violence (especially alcohol fuelled violence) has caused a lot of social and legislative waves in my country recently (king hits/coward punches is the issue if you want to check it out).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:17 AM
-1

As opposed to being fro active rather than narkily demanding someone else do your legwork? It's childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:11 AM
-1

If a major power attacked my country, every man, woman and child would be needed to defend the place. Big country/small population. Same as you get teenaged girls and middle aged mums fighting bushfire alongside the young men and old grandpas; all hands are needed on deck and what you've got between your legs is irrelevant when there's a 45 km fire front bearing down on you, with flames shooting 100m into the air and gum trees exploding from the heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:09 AM
-1

No. Two wrongs don't make a right. Fighting back in self defense, sure. Revenge isn't self defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:05 AM
2

Yeah, uppity women, they'll be wanting bodily autonomy next.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 08:03 AM
-2

You know what you meant. That's why you deleted it. Such integrity. Much courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 05:23 AM
5

Lol. She kisses my children good night with that mouth! I don't want her sacking my cock with it. What was that film?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:44 AM
-1

Sooking for sources is pathetically poor debating form. I doubt there were riots. There were certainly protests, petitions and an outpouring of anger. Go Google it. I'm sure you don't need to be afraid. I was showing you your hipocracy. You whinge that feminists didn't riot about Myra Hindley. But become cagey when asked where the mras who want equality were when OJ got off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:42 AM
-1

I'm not a yank, so Leno means nothing to me. Kind of like my saying about Alan Jones joking about killing Julia Gillard and dumping her at sea, to wild applause from his fans, means nothing to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:38 AM
-1

This is England. They protested politely. They save riots for things like poll tax. We're their riots about OJ Simpson getting away with killing his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:34 AM
0

Except when you're a baby girl in China.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:23 AM
-1

Haven't you heard of the moors murders or the west's house of horrors?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:20 AM
-1

Is Sharon Osborne mainstream pop culture? I thought she was low brow reality TV freak show. Where else do people laugh about men being beaten up by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:19 AM
-1

Myra Hindley and Rose West's sentences caused a fair bit of uproar within the feminist movement, IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:16 AM
-1

I don't think Luke Batty was adequately protected from his father. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 02:12 AM
-1

Yeah, just hand over the kids to the man who bashed into them and their mum. You didn't Google, or you would have found the enquiry being held into how much of a beat up these "false abuse" claims are; how frequently violent men (including paedophiles) are awarded visitation and accessories with their children, and how very little a mother or a mandatory reporter or officer of the law can do about a violent man having access to his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 01:24 AM
1

100 years ago. How long since women blockaded the white house demanding an end to their sons being sent to Vietnam, Korea, Iraq, East Timor, Kuwait, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 01:19 AM
1

Religious antipathy towards suicide is frequently cited. Also; how do you go about it when you have nothing you could use?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 01:10 AM
1

Rural India can get you killed if you're dumb enough to be born with a vagina. As can rural China.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 12:58 AM
0

Mutually assured destruction, baby. Who's got most of the nukes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 12:56 AM
3

You are being dishonest. The notion of women being more protected was your position. You can spin like a politician caught with sheep porn, but you're still being dishonest and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 12:54 AM
1

Rental bond is upwards of $1k over here, and utilities movement is upwards of $100. Mail redirect is $250 a quarter and you can't move a bed on the bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 12:47 AM
-1

I take it you didn't have the guts to Google :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 12:46 AM
0

Try looking in the mirror, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 11:56 PM
1

I'm glad that's the kind of world you'd like to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 11:55 PM
-1

Google Rosie Batty, Luke Batty and Greg Anderson. That is why courts should keep violent men away from their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 11:53 PM
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Yeah, you can't have your daughters thinking they need to vote, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 11:52 PM
-2

Oh dear. You're starting to sound like a feminist there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 11:51 PM
1

Lol. Rental bond, utility disconnection and reconnection costs, mail redirection, hiring a moving van, cleaning of both properties, etc... Moving house costs a bomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 11:51 PM
-1

Hilarious? Outside of slapstick comedies and Sharon Osborne making a fool of herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 11:48 PM
4

Because those services don't serve men or children, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 10:55 PM
-1

Poor me! I have a peen and no one will take the lid off the marmalade jar for me. Who washes your clothes and cooks your dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 10:35 AM
3

It's been a long time since women were protected from anything. Your argument may have held water back in the days of neighboring tribes stealing each other's women, but in the west, in the 21st century? You're talking out your hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 10:19 AM
1

My dad taught my son's to pee on the lemon tree :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 06:38 AM
1

How would you afford to move?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 04:19 AM
2

A woman can't grow one by herself, there needs to be some sperm added.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 04:18 AM
1

Buying meat is hugely expensive. Grow/kill your own or eat lentils if you're poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:54 AM
1

You pay for an aspirin with your insurance? Taxpayer funding of the pharmaceutical industry is a figment of everyone else's imagination?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:53 AM
2

This was in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:51 AM
-1

I never said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:45 AM
0

When was the last time you saw a sheep downtown?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:45 AM
2

They taught themselves? Or they went to school? They bought their own clothes for a job interview, or their parents did? They negotiated their own wage, or unions agitated for a living wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:44 AM
4

Who put clothes on their back to attend the job interview? Who taught them to write a resume? Who ensured that they'd be paid a living wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:26 AM
0

Who pays the rest of your Co pay? Pharmacy and over the counter drugs are taxpayer subsidised. The taxpayer is paying for your aspirin just as much as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:24 AM
1

Hunt what? Rats?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:22 AM
2

It is. My husband got his education that way. I'm partially sighted (unfit for combat; you need 100% vision for the ADF), so accepted an academic scholarship, but had to pay my own living costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:21 AM
-1

Occupational health and safety is about the employer being held accountable for providing a safe worksite for their employees. It has nothing to do with the shaming of men or women who work in potentially risky environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 02:17 AM
0

Hahahaha. Oh. You're serious. Good grief. Have you ever held down a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 01:57 AM
0

Decided to stop being poor? So one day they just decided to ask for a pay rise? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 01:55 AM
0

Didn't Ronald Reagan declare tomato ketchup to be a vegetable? I grow my own fresh produce these days, but back when I lived and worked in a steeltown, £5 could buy rice, pasta, biscuits and cereal for the week, or fruit and vegetables for two days. Meat wasn't an option. Half the neighborhood lived on chips for every second meal. But poverty 's a choice and weight is genetic, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 01:47 AM
0

So who pays for your penicillin when you get sick? How about the nurse to wipe your bum in the hospice when you get old and doddery? They won't live to old age; why should they pay for your choice to prolong your life past the time when you can pay taxes to pay your own way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 01:35 AM
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How about your stance on cheaper fresh produce, subsidised by increased levies on high fat high sugar processed foods? It seems like there are screams of "nanny state" when a government attempts to make healthier choices more accessible to lower income people, but screams of "fat people sacking down my healthcare taxes" when they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 01:32 AM
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What's your position of your insurance company paying for old men to have free or subsidised viagra?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 12:57 AM
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When did fat people stop paying tax? Food attracts a GST/VAT/state tax, so you could argue that the person consuming more food pays more tax.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 12:49 AM
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Taxis are a lot more regulated in your country, yeah? A lone woman in a cab at night is not recommended in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 12:25 AM
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Yes. It's pretty common to move from the bush to attend school in Melbourne or Sydney once you hit the upper end of high school. There's only so much you can do via school of the air in the outback.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 12:22 AM
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Cha ching.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 11:13 PM
2

So you're happy to shoplift because "I want that, who cares if it's ullegal"? Or drink drive because "I won't get caught"? Or is it only sexual encounters that you see as being above moral, legal or ethical implication?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 11:11 PM
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So ' s toilet training and teaching them to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 11:07 PM
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So no, you didn't have the guts to explain your views on domestic violence in relationships. Although I dare say that they'll be along the lines of "if she looks at him funny, he's within his rights to beat her to a pulp", but leaving him is still dereliction of wifely duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 09:55 PM
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Yes. I think this girl sounds cray cray.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 04:34 PM
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You've got to be 18 to drive in my country. I had moved to town for high school and work at 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 04:27 PM
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You don't know many women, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 09:59 AM
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My first job was as a housemaid for a motel. I had to start work at 4am to do breakfasts and clean before I started school at 9 am. It was dark when I left for work, and I was too young to drive. I rode. It was often very frightening and I was very lucky I was never robbed or assaulted. Other women in the neighborhood were. I couldn't "not work", as I needed to pay for rent, bills and food. There weren't many jobs that would fit around school and in the middle of the recession in the 1990s, I co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 09:51 AM
2

Waiting to see if she's got the guts to reply....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 02:57 AM
1

How would a bundle of kindling hurt it's backside?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 01:01 AM
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Poor Chelsea, she must be ready to take a job in Siberia.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 12:32 AM
2

Word.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 12:31 AM
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I wonder who'll be delivering her pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 12:19 AM
1

And you wonder why TRP is seen as a hate group?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/14 12:17 AM
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Dress as a girl for a day and go shopping for anything that's not ladies fashion. See you at the hardware store.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 11:47 PM
1

She's already done it once, give someone else a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 11:42 PM
1

It's easy to tell. Why do you think hipsters wear skinny jeans?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 09:50 PM
1

Yep. It damages men, women and society. It's a filth rag that is long past it's used by date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 09:49 PM
1

The Toronto star article claims that the backlash was from a pretty broad base of concerned citizens, rather than just feminist and socialist protesters. The SPLC ruling of the group as a hate group can't have made locals too keen to host them, either. What's your opinion on Anita Sarkeezian ' s talk being shut down over a threat of a massacre?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 10:53 AM
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One of my girls would be destroyed by the mind games TRP guys play. She would be a wreck. The other one would eat that alfalfa for breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 10:22 AM
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Looking for a relationship by viewing someone's edited highlights reel is just asking for trouble. Dating and hookup sites are dodgy and just trouble. I would not touch one if the alternative was foreveralone with 200 cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 09:58 AM
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Glad to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 09:53 AM
1

Your taxes also pay for viagra to be subsidised. Are you going to complain about that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 09:49 AM
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It is fucking awesome when you're treated as a person rather than a decoration. Getting older has made my life much more enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 09:47 AM
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I'm a foreigner. The only anti compulsory draft noise comes from the left and feminist movements as far as I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 07:40 AM
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Is that fact or just your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:47 AM
1

You're not raising her to be a RPW?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 06:46 AM
1

Lol. Tall, skinny ginger girl who was always passed over for short curvy blonde girls here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 04:53 AM
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I have been randomly assaulted in "safe" western cities like Manchester and Liverpool. I should be safe catching the train home from work. But enough with the western privilege. Women in shanty towns and refugee camps should be just as safe as a white middle class woman; and both should be completely safe from sexual assaults.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 04:51 AM
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Where are you looking? Are you chasing only looks and rejecting the nice girls with ginger hair or glasses? If you're catching catfish, go find a different river to cast your line.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 01:59 AM
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Sensible person approach; she's a drama hungry, immature player and you're better off finding someone who isn't so self centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 01:55 AM
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Cosmo is more damaging to women than TRP could ever be in their wildest fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 01:47 AM
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The feminist argument to remove the American national draft or to include women in it is the first "removal of female privilege" that springs to mind. I don't see many feminists agitating for the status quo. Lobbying to increase paid paternity leave is a current one for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 01:41 AM
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And what everyone else says about creationism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 01:31 AM
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Because a woman is treated like she's there for the taking no matter if she's in a bikini or a burqua
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 01:29 AM
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The defunding is Harper, not feminists. Go take a look at all the cuts he's brought in. Men's health (especially mental health) has been slashed. But so has everything else that's not corporate welfare. Where's the feminist hate on movember? It's a Merv Hughes love in over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 12:36 AM
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So wearing a school uniform (knee length gingham frock) to school is a reason to expect having your bra strap flicked and your hem pulled up? Wearing you nursing uniform is a reason to be groped and wearing a sundress on a hot day is an invitation to be grabbed? Awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 12:33 AM
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They want to get it wrong. It makes them feel that their hatred of women has some validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 11:43 PM
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So a man wearing budgie smugglers deserved to be raped? A drunk man walking home from the pub deserves to be raped or bashed? A short man deserves to be beaten up if he annoys a bigger man? An attractive man deserves to be groped? A well hung man deserves to have his package grabbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 11:42 PM
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The Toronto meeting attracted no protesters and Elam pocketed the security fundraising. Silverman's fundraising efforts and attempts to lobby government for funding came up short. Where were the men rattling tins to keep his service open? Boys get HPV vaccines in my country because of universal health care funding. Your country might favour a user pays system, but the vaccine is still available. The issue many people (not just feminists) have with movember is that while men grow a mo, they don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 11:34 PM
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Can you please report your friend too, because spreading dangerous misinformation about pregnancy outcomes endangers not just women (who I know you detest and have admitted to bashing) but their blameless unborn children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 11:25 PM
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This is due to the increased rate of premature stillbirth in multiple births for younger primagravadia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 10:22 PM
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Which meeting has been shut down? Which male shelter have feminists had removed? Which male health initiatives have they kiboshed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 10:14 PM
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No I don't. Why would she do that. If he'd held up that sign at reclaim the night or at a cervical cancer fundraiser, yeah, but a suicide awareness event? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 10:11 PM
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Go have a chat to an obstetrician or a midwife and get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 10:07 PM
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And the highest rate of 4th degree tearing. Not such a fun face when you're torn from clitorus to anus. Throw in the higher risk of eclampsia, gestational diabetes, multiple birth, ante natal depression and stillbirth; Yay, fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 10:06 PM
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Horsefeathers. The MRM is long on sooking and bullying, but short on even attempting to help anyone. Except Elam. They help him to a fair bit of cash. It's a shame he couldn't start an anti circumcision campaign, rather than commissioning endless posters about how much he hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 11:29 AM
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Fast car by Tracy Chapman makes me cry every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 09:57 AM
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Have been rediscovering Mumford and Sons today, after a weekend of my daughters inflicting Katy Perry on me. My eardrums were ready to puke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 09:56 AM
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There are shortfalls and myopia within all ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 09:13 AM
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If it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck... The MRM could have been out there campaigning for workplace safety, and end to infant boy circumcision, affirmative action on getting men into teaching and caring careers, garnering more support for male victims of sexual assaults, funding shelters for homeless men and advocating for paternity leave, etc. But they preferred the slacktivist approach of moaning about how feminism was oppressing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 09:07 AM
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Why the emphasis on western society, OP? A middle class white westerner is at the top of the heap, while we might be annoyed about "girls get onto nightclubs for free because pussy" or "boys never have to wash the dishes", displaced people are being killed by the west's greed for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 07:21 AM
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Most people are decent. Unfortunately, IME, you tend to run into the arseholes when you're at your most vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 03:19 AM
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Boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:50 PM
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Did you know that the male elephant seals who don't get to mate take out their sexual frustrations on the pups?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:48 PM
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Cuttlefish are notorious for it; use the alpha for protection, while mating with the small, beta males who disguise themselves as females to sneak past him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:46 PM
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Of course you do, there there. Pats head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:43 PM
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You got a source for this? Because while I don't think it's never happened, the idea of a woman hiring a hitman to off her husband sounds uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:41 PM
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So you don't believe them, but don't want to do anything about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:39 PM
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You've proved it yourself, no help or legwork from me necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:38 PM
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I look forward to the field report.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:15 PM
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Getting through customs in a niquab or dishdash is just asking for the plastic glove treatment, too. Whiteys are pretty well looked after, especially when they're young and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:14 PM
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Cross dress tomorrow and let me know how you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:11 PM
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So why aren't you (collective you ) doing something about harsh sentencing laws rather than complaining about computer game reviews for a free game?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:09 PM
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When was the last time you were groped on the tram or up skirted at the mall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 11:05 PM
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And if you're a hedge fund manager snorting nose candy off a hooker's arse on the boardroom table? You go, mate, capitalism ftw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:55 PM
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You say all sources are equal and discrediting sources is a "left wing" tactic. As a mens rights advocate; what's your take on removing unions and work safety inspectors from construction sites in order to allow companies to risk workers (mostly young men) lives and health by cutting corners on workplace safety and allowing asbestos exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:52 PM
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So if you're a black man robbing a petrol station you're going down for 20 years, but if you're a pretty white girl shoplifting you'll get a suspended sentence, and if you're a middle aged white man pocketing millions through insider trading, you get off scott free. Big surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:47 PM
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Read the whole section -without being intellectually dishonest - and come back to me. I know you're after points rather than knowledge, so I'll just leave you to hamster away back to a John Hambling or Janet Bloomfield blog post to justify yourself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:39 PM
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So you think a tinfoil hat blog regarding vaccinations causing autism is as reliable and WHO guidelines?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:36 PM
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I've spent time as a drag king. It was awesome. No one tried to grope me on public transport and I didn't have to wear high heels to work. People assumed I knew what I was talking about and I was always served first in shops.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:31 PM
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What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:26 PM
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93% of workplace deaths are male. OH&S is a massive industry. Work cover, work safe, trade unions, spot inspections and if you don't follow code, they'll shut you down. Where's the data on men getting longer for corporate fraud than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 09:58 PM
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Everyone gets angry. Most of us don't thump someone because if it. Do these men who bash their wives also belt their coworkers or friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 09:55 PM
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Click bait ambulance chasing sensationalism that's 13 years old? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 09:54 PM
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Any idiot can write a blog, it doesn't mean it has any factual integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 09:51 PM
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Argument Cherrypicked out of context, lol. Keep trying. Or get a sex change if women have it so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 09:49 PM
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Go read pages 19, 20 and 21 ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:50 AM
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Nothing anyone could show you would change your mind. As far as you are concerned, men are subjugated victims and indentured slaves to an all powerful matriarchy who dares to make them accountable for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:39 AM
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That's exactly what I'm saying. What other reasons could you give for 3 male on male murders making the headlines and leading to legislative change and public outcry; but 57 male on female murders being treated as "same old"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:28 AM
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Misguided rather than inferior. Kind of like people who don't believe in climate change or herd immunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:07 AM
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Read pages 19, 20 and 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:06 AM
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Australia. I'm speechless that you've never heard these terms and excuses before. Do you live in a bubble? On my phone, so apologies for sites rather than links. Www.dvipiowa.org/myths - facts - about - domestic - violence Www.domesticviolence.org
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 10:00 AM
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Lol. Provocation. Temporary insanity. She drove him to it. She asked for it by leaving him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 09:39 AM
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Nope. Still not seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 09:24 AM
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The first two are as reliable a source as the race realism shtick published by the KKK. The third one covers the area of "battered wife syndrome" where women snap and kill their abusive partners. You may want to consider reading links before posting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 09:22 AM
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3 men are killed by "king hits", and the name is changed to "coward punches" and a parliamentary enquiry is held and mandatory jail terms introduced. 57 women are killed in DV situations and...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 09:14 AM
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What does a table of methods of murder have to do with anything? Now Google Jill Meagher and Adrian Bayley. And Rosie and Luke Batty and Greg Anderson. And Mayang Prasetyo and Peter Volke. When was the last time a woman killed, cooked and ate her boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 08:58 AM
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How many men have been terrorized and murdered by their wives or girlfriends this year?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 08:30 AM
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Masculinity and femininity are at each end of the spectrum of gendered behavior. Most people display a mixture of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 08:19 AM
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Lisa Harnum was a middle class white woman from a middle class background; just the bastion of female privilege. Until her boyfriend Simon Gittany terrorized and murdered her. That's female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 08:14 AM
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Don't try and be attracted to something you're not, just don't rag on people for not being attractive to you. I'm not attracted to fair haired men. I'm not sure why, but they just don't do it for me. That doesn't mean that I should think there is anything wrong with being blonde.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 01:53 AM
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Same. It's hard, but worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 01:37 AM
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So now I'm playing the victim? I really hope you're a lot less judgemental and more compassionate with the women you work with. Incidently, what's your take on women who eventually snap and kill their abusive husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/14 01:25 AM
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Oh I self flagellated pretty hard for a long time over this, don't you worry about that. I wrote him grovelling letters begging for forgiveness for making him angry. I self harmed out of guilt for making a police report after he gave me internal injuries. I considered suicide for being such an awful person that I had made someone so angry that the had to hit me. But I couldn't say, to a frightened and bruised young woman, that it was her fault that he chose to hit her. He could have walked away.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 10:41 PM
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But a an is an adult and, as such, responsible for how he expresses his anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 10:22 PM
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I don't want others to be taken advantage of by nasty, manipulative men. I want women to know that they don't deserve to be damaged for not doing what he wants. I want violent men to be held responsible, rather than being told that was her fault for annoying him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 10:05 PM
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While I agree with you, many employers don't. Back in my days of working for a trade union, getting employers to utilize older graduates and young mothers with school aged children was a huge hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 09:22 PM
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And if you don't have enough experience or self esteem to realize that he's not a nice person? If your dad treated your mum like that and you don't know any other way for a relationship to function?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 09:19 PM
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Oh totally lesson learned. It was 100% my fault that I didn't know this, despite having zero experience in romantic relationships. 100% my fault that I couldn't ever be good enough to make him happy with me. 100% my fault that he couldn't get enough sex when I had gastro and was justified in cheating. 100% my fault that I wore a strappy sundress on a stinking hot February day in Melbourne. 100% my fault that I didn't spot that one of his mates was perving down my front. I 100% deserved to be bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 09:17 PM
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I don't think veterans can ever completely adjust. Hurt/comfort is huge turn on for many women. It's not my cup of tea, but nurses marrying injured veterans is almost as common as them marrying doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 12:47 PM
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Enjoy your padded cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 12:34 PM
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Yep. Batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 12:27 PM
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I would love to see more proactive and positive campaigning by feminists, but the rearguard action of DV deaths and sexual assault is taking up all the oxygen due to being more pressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 12:26 PM
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Are you actually batshit crazy or just playing some sort of spoof? Train a woman? Like Pavlov with his dogs? Give her a doggy treat for bringing you your pipe and slippers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 12:05 PM
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My brother in law had several women feeding and fucking him, giving him a warm bed and a roof over his head while he was an undergraduate. Fortunately (for him) they never met each other. He was good looking and charming in a "look after me, I'm starving" way that was equal parts bedraggled kitten and horny Tom cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 11:43 AM
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Red backs get the dreaded deading from me, everything else is humanely rehomed to the backyard. Redbacks under the toilet seat are no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 11:05 AM
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I've been "red pilled on" and know that it's an ideology with huge potential for harm. I really hope that the young women you encourage to become subservient and submissive in order to snag a husband eventually realize that a man is not a plan. Or at least not an entire plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 10:57 AM
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Bail. She is not worth the pain and she's not going to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 10:48 AM
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I love the American homesteading blogs, the movement hasn't taken off to the same degree in my country, and it's a bit beholden to the "I'm off grid so I can grow dope incognito" anti vaccination and homeopathic loonies. My husband and I hope to be mostly self sufficient eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 10:44 AM
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In one post, you claim that if someone marries an arsehole then it's her own bad luck; but in the next you say that it's acceptable to make mistakes. Now pick a lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 08:01 AM
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Ì thought she was, like me, in her mid to late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 07:20 AM
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No I didn't. I was a small town girl in the big city and he seemed like a charming, friendly young man. Being possessive and controlling seems very romantic at the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 07:07 AM
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It is. Spelling isn't my best event.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 07:06 AM
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A plague on both your houses. Romeo and Juliet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:39 AM
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"Allowed " was in quotation marks for a reason. I never realized he had been checking me out until my ex th me against the wall and demanded an apology for being a "tramp". I bought stock in the people who told me that no one deserves violence. In hindsight, I know nothing I ever did would have ever been good enough. He left a trail of broken, vulnerable pretty young things through university, before finally being expelled for plagurism. As for what I learned? I learned that believing I deserved…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:37 AM
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Ohai Meccucio.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:25 AM
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My commanding officer owns me. I CANNOT question his authority, as lives depend on my following his orders to the letter. I would not want that sort of dynamic in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:22 AM
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Would Robin be able to exist without Batman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:15 AM
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They're still alive, ergo they are a survivor. My girlfriends were like myself, girls from a rural conservative upbringing in a culture where the man is always right. No ifs, no buts. They, like your friends at RPW advised me to be more pleasant to him; dress and conduct myself in a way he approved of, never question his judgements, never show him up, always say yes to sex and put him first all the time. Unfortunately, that didn't stop him from beating me to a pulp for "allowing" a friend of his…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 04:13 AM
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I think that being afraid to be vulnerable is one of the biggest reasons for men offing themselves rather than asking for help. "Honey, I'm really struggling to cope as a civilian and need some help to readjust" is much sexier than swallowing lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 03:52 AM
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A male midwife delivered my eldest. Do you think that would have been possible pre - feminism? My brother in law is a stay at home dad. Do you think that would have been possible pre - feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 03:47 AM
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So are you a facilitator or survivor? Because speaking with women who have survived abuse, as a person believes women are inherently less worthy than men and are responsible for those men abusing them, if you are on a leadership capacity, is very disturbing. My first relationship was an abusive one. I had been brought up to believe that the man was "head of the household " and him screaming at me , undermining my confidence, telling me I was stupid and ugly, and getting rough with me were all I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 02:21 AM
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You want your feet bound now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 01:01 AM
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I know what I'm suggesting is, unfortunately, not uncommon. Hope for the best, but plan for the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/14 12:56 AM
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So you have a career, thus being a hypocrite as you are opposed to other women having careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 10:15 PM
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Have you ever heard of the "mid life crisis"? Men becoming abusive for the first time after a woman becomes pregnant or gives birth is also pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 10:14 PM
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It does, but you need both parties to agree that the union was never consummated. In some jurisdictions, lack of sex for a certain period of time (2 years in my country), is also grounds for annulment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 10:15 AM
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Catholic and C of E ones do. Other Protestant Churches vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 10:12 AM
1

Dignity, honesty and respect. Like every human being on the planet. All else is negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 10:09 AM
1

Especially if you were an English monarch looking for a son: off with her head!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 10:01 AM
0

Isn't that grounds for getting a marriage annulled, rather than filing for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 09:52 AM
1

The authorities are all over him like a rash for dodging a few dollars worth of child support, but turn a blind eye to him committing tax fraud by doing cashies? Sounds totally legit. $40k is also about 15 years worth of child support, which would be a bit hard to wrack up for a single 7yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 09:27 AM
1

And if they decided to close or re - take the sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 09:21 AM
1

You might want to reconsider your posting style, because you certainly gave a strong impression of pushing that agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 09:11 AM
0

All the "cat ladies" I know have moggies as their first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 07:51 AM
0

So being a sugamama to a teacher or nurse is out of the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 07:30 AM
5

Not a RPW, but I enjoy making my husband happy, and he enjoys making me happy. We do little things for each other to show our appreciation. He's been away on business for a fortnight, so I'm making a lamb roast (his favorite) for tea and a chocolate self saucing pudding for desert. Tomorrow we're off for a family day to the zoo, while my parents babysit that evening so him and I can have some alone time. Because I've been doing it alone for the last two weeks (5 kids and a job is hard) he's boug…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 05:43 AM
1

Mobile.net.abc.au/news/2014-05-05/domestic - violence - reaches - epidemic-proportions/5426214 Domestic violence is THE LEADING cause of death and serious injury for women aged under 45yo. Go Google Simon Gittany; I dare you. This is the kind of man you're falling over yourself to advocate for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 05:18 AM
2

Shit totally happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 05:10 AM
3

Good on you for having an epiphany. I presume you had the experience and resources to cover your arse if it had gone wrong? Why are you so worried and insecure about aging? Afraid he'll upgrade to a new model?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 05:09 AM
2

And what of the woman you've encouraged give up her career and financial independence in order to be a "first mate" to a man who decides to upgrade from his starter wife? What of her and her children, when she's unemployable and destitute, with him refusing to pay child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 05:04 AM
1

Disagreement and urging caution isn't bashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 04:23 AM
2

That's at odds with what you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 04:22 AM
1

No one is denying that it is difficult for abused men to come forward. You are trying to claim that every abused woman comes forward, has no fear of doing so, and is taken seriously when she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 04:21 AM
1

Just don't pay it. CSA can only garnish your wages with your and your employer's permission. Same with your tax return, assuming you lodge one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 12:40 AM
1

So no one deserves second chances or is allowed to make a mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 12:03 AM
2

cwaa. Org.au Brilliant recipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 12:02 AM
1

Everything gets to me. It's one of the biggest failings of compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 11:53 PM
1

The linked article linked on to further reporting in regards to levels of violence, protection of minors, reciprocal violence and the "battered partner effect". Did you get that far? Did you also encounter the reporting regarding abused partners being less likely to seek help or incriminate a partner if they are female (oh, I bumped into a door/fell down the stairs, he never touched me), but more likely to report (particularly counter repirt) if they are male? Nobody denies women can be violent,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 11:51 PM
-1

All it deserved. Seriously, pick up a newspaper, read something that's not written by AVFM or TRP, serve soup on the line, chat to a police officer or casualty nurse and you'll find out pretty quick who's doing the abusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 11:04 AM
1

Sigh. Get a clue, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:52 AM
5

I see it as a dangerous ideology to promote. In a world where domestic violence is one of the leading cause of death for women, promoting, encouraging women to be submissive and powerless isn't going to end well for a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:38 AM
1

A hangover from "over paid, over sexed and over here" maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:29 AM
1

I thought that was lemmings...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:26 AM
2

A girlfriend of mine is an heiress. She's known plenty of male gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:19 AM
1

Is this an American thing? Because I've never been on a date where we didn't go Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:09 AM
1

What is your first language, if you don't mind me asking? Your syntax reminds me of Cantonese speaking people I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:06 AM
1

Lol, I'm 36 and "back in the day" asking a girl to "come back to my place" meant anything from smoking a couple of cones to group sex. Usually it meant him and I under the bonnet of a car, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:02 AM
9

So essentially, she's going to have shit heaped on her no matter what she does. Big surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 09:31 AM
5

Stick a glass over the spider, a piece of paper under, and put it outside. There's no need to kill such a useful and beautiful creature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 07:05 AM
4

I'm sorry you were made to feel that way. Have you tried places like Bubhub, Essential Baby or CWA? These are fora for (mostly) women, focusing around homemaking, family and being a mother and wife, but without the terpers looking over your shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 07:04 AM
-1

Give it time ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:54 AM
3

I got sick of requests from my 10yo and taught him how to knit for himself; now he's making a Tom Baker scarf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 06:20 AM
2

It's Thursday here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:36 AM
1

I find the kids always want to unravel my knitting, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:35 AM
2

You seemed to imply there was. I think Melanie cops an awful lot of undue flak by virtue of not being Scarlett.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:28 AM
1

And on just about every parenting forum, women's forum or cwa group in the world, lol. It's just that normal people expect a bit of give, as well as take.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:27 AM
1

The lady doth protest too much ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:25 AM
8

Divorce rape is a figment of terper imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 05:25 AM
1

Wasn't that Janet Bloomfield pretending to be Zoe Quinn manufacturing a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 03:00 AM
0

You claim to have a criminology degree, and sprout crap like that? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:58 AM
5

Many see it as their purpose in life; to be the "best supporting actress" and handle all the domestic heavy lifting, keep the home fires burning if you will. There's nothing wrong with wanting that, but RPW fail to comprehend that a woman rendering herself unemployable, financially dependant on the goodwill of another and beholden to his whims is a very precarious position to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:48 AM
-1

I think you'll find that mindset isn't unique to RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:36 AM
4

I think it's sad. I think encouraging women to submit to "their captain" at all costs; to hold the view that women are inherently stupid, dishonest, childish, emotional bonsais, incapable of love, manipulative and shrewish; to never hold an opinion that isn't pre approved by your "master"; and to hamstring your own potential for the sake of hanging onto someone who's ideal is using you as a maid while he watches "barely legal" porn and hangs out in an online community which supports the rape and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:35 AM
2

What's wrong with Melanie? She was strong, courageous and honest. Who else had the integrity and courage to open her door to Belle Watling; or the strength and tenacity to keep treating the wounded past her own point of exhaustion?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 02:22 AM
-2

Terrorists only have to get it right once, whereas anti terrorist workers have to get it right every time in order to prevent an incident; so yes, every threat is taken seriously. And before anyone has a whinge about this person not being a terrorist: He intends to systematically slaughter people based on their political views and drive fear into their comrades, what else would you call him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 08:31 PM
0

Ain't projection a bastard?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 08:11 AM
1

No I haven't. Will take a look, thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 08:09 AM
1

Your reply makes it crystal clear that you have absolutely no understand of this law, or how it would be applied. I hope you enjoy your ignorance, as you seem determined to hold onto it with a white knuckle death grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 08:08 AM
-1

That is not so much a strawman as a haystack. What a load of bunkum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 08:06 AM
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Ok, so you fail to grasp the notion of consent, or understand the common sense of ascertaining it before engaging in sex; you resort to bottom of the barrel insults and yet consider yourself "formidable". You might want to get yourself a dictionary, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 07:47 AM
1

And if a girl came back to your place not realizing that was your intent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 07:45 AM
-2

Really? Usually sex is "on the table", but not a given, at least in my experience. Often it means hanging out and getting to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 06:19 AM
0

That's a statement of fact, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 06:16 AM
-5

It's sad that you jump to conclusions like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 06:09 AM
0

Which is why you've now resorted to cheap insults. Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 05:14 AM
-5

So what a girl wears means you have the right to make unfounded assumptions about her behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 04:31 AM
-3

You really have NFI, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 04:28 AM
3

Have a crack at reading Sense and Sensibility, then tell me if it's for fools. I'm more of a biographies fan though, fiction isn't my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 04:10 AM
-2

Enthusiastic, affirmative consent is robosex? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:59 AM
-1

I hope it's being done for a specific reason; and I hope it becomes common practice. If you have an issue with that, then you really need to take a good hard look at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:58 AM
0

I can explain something to you, but I can't understand it for you. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:54 AM
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When I see a question in good faith, I'll answer it in good faith. You still haven't explained what you understand consent to be ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:52 AM
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If someone is too socially tone deaf to understand the notion of consent, then abstinence would be a good idea. Or work in a one man submarine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:45 AM
0

Like I said before; ongoing and enthusiastic consent is part of what makes sex enjoyable. Try it some time; you might even prefer it to the reverse lottery of taking advantage of frightened, drunk or shy girls. Or sheep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:39 AM
1

Airhead read books? I thought to qualify as an airhead I was supposed to spend all my time reading Cleo and doing my nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:25 AM
-2

You haven't heard of Steubenville? !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 03:16 AM
2

I hadn't realized Mills and Boon still existed. Please tell me why thinking neither of those men would make many women cross the street to speak to them makes me a ditz, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:41 AM
-2

More times than I can count. Frequently by men trying to justify having sex with a drunk or sleeping partner. Take a look at the Steubenville case; it's wall to wall " she wanted it" and "she asked for it" from the rape apologists in the peanut gallery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:37 AM
0

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:31 AM
4

Most women would choose a cup of tea and a good book over either, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:24 AM
-4

Why would innocent men suffer? They've been informed of the law; if they choose not to follow it then it's their own stupid fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:20 AM
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I do. They have much better manners than any of the terpers I've come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:18 AM
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I have. Your failure to understand is not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:17 AM
-1

Relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:17 AM
0

Do you understand what consent is? Because you are either really thick or trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 02:16 AM
0

"Formalized consent"? Or just making sure we were both up for it and enjoying ourselves? You know, like normal, healthy people in normal, healthy relationships do every day. You're making it pretty obvious that you have absolutely no understanding of this law, or of the concept of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:14 AM
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If you've managed to get to your age and still haven't figured out what consent means, it's a bit of a concern. Please educate yourself, or stay well away from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:09 AM
0

Neither did you. If you understood the law, you would understand the redundant nature of your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 01:07 AM
-3

The only ones crying about being victims here are the horny social misfits who prefer to have sex with drunk or otherwise incapacitated women rather than seeking out a mutually enjoyable experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 12:56 AM
-2

Test case within a controlled environment. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 12:54 AM
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Virginity into your 20s isn't that unusual for Exclusive Brethren or 7th Day Adventist communities, and isn't unheard of in Catholic and High Church Anglican circles. Some people believe that sex is for procreating, should only be done within marriage and are unwilling to commit before being financially stable. I have known several people who believe that their purity is a gift from God, and have remained virgins into their 20s. If terpy types can't see past their own solipsism, then I pity them…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 12:52 AM
0

Have you ever been in the workforce?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 12:35 AM
-5

Have you been living under a rock?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 12:34 AM
0

Enthusiastic and ongoing consent is part of the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 12:32 AM
0

You obviously don't understand the law. Have you even read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/14 12:31 AM
-3

Really? I thought it was supported by those if us who don't advocate bashing or raping people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 10:20 AM
-7

I'm very surprised it was passed. It's very unusual for proactive and progressive legislation to make it to the finish line in the current "you know she wanted it" pro aggressor culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 10:19 AM
-5

Of course we did. I'm not a rapist, and neither is my husband. The people who take issue with this law a) don't understand it; b) have been misinformed, or c) are butthurt that they can't get a girl plastered and jump her bones any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 10:13 AM
-3

It's about bloody time. Frankly, if people are too stupid to get their head around the idea of consent, then they're too stupid to be allowed to have sex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 07:47 AM
0

I'll let you reserve judgment until you've been there, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 07:18 AM
1

The ghost with the most
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 04:21 AM
0

So you're not allowed to be passionate and professional, seeking to be the best you can be if you're a cashier, hairdresser, driver, teacher or nurse? No professional development for you, sorry mate, the red pill don't think plumbers or electricians deserve ongoing training and updated qualifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 03:42 AM
1

Many girls are not encouraged to study past their GCSEs, especially in poorer areas. If you leave school at 15 and get a job, you are putting money into the family coffers, but if you're studying A levels or at college or university, those coffers have to support you. An older man who's degree puts him in a management position is a working class girl's unicorn to lift her out of the grind of intergenerational poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 02:58 AM
0

Lol. Dude, if you were left in charge of a toddler, feeding a newborn, balancing the school run with volunteer commitments and baby nap times, whilst keeping the household budget in the black and putting a meal on the table by 6, you would be rocking in a corner before Wednesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 02:53 AM
0

Women are not a gestalt entity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 02:47 AM
1

Which data might that be? Have these studies factored in the low wages and high cost of living in America, which, when combined with a soft job market and lack of carer/maternity leave entitlements, would certainly push many women back into the office sooner than they would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 02:43 AM
0

Haven't you ever heard the term before?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 02:36 AM
0

Men in high status occupations tend to have broader networks due to the "old school tie" phenomenon that still pervades high status institutions. How many deals get cut on the back 9 v how many women execs play golf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 02:35 AM
1

I was a tomboy latch key kid with two working parents and several younger sibling that I was "in charge" of. Boys were friends to play basketball with or go skating with, and I had no interest in having a boyfriend, as (owing to being molested at a small child), I didn't want to put myself in the vulnerable position of being romantically attached. I kept those walls pretty high. My attraction to the notion of feminism stems from a desire for social justice, and many years as a footsoldier fighti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 09:22 AM
0

I never knew that. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 05:49 AM
1

Most don't make it to trial over here (or anywhere) either. It's just too traumatic for most victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 05:14 AM
0

Date =/=sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 04:21 AM
-4

My grandfather was 5 ft 5 in; he married twice (was widowed) and fathered 12 children. He did alright. Wasn't Napoleon 5 ft 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 04:20 AM
1

I'm trying to link the Royal Commission into sexual assaults and family violence, but for some reason it's sticking it behind a paywall when I post. Will see if I can back door it when I'm not at work. It's not a "pro woman bias", it's an "extended exposure to the cadavers of assault victims and sadness in knowing that it's much easier to get a jury onside for a beastiality crash than for a rape one".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 01:40 AM
1

When it comes down to a he said/ she said (which is about 50% of sexual assaults), it feels better to believe that there's a liar rather than a rapist in the room. A man basically has to be caught red handed, with photographic evidence and the victim a nun for a conviction. Which is why revenge killings by women and their families is such a big problem over here, and domestic violence and rape laws and ways if enforcement of those laws are such a political hot potato right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 10:34 PM
1

Nah, over her the default assumption is that she asked for it or she's making it up, because no one wants to face the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 09:25 PM
1

The British and South African armed forces use the same terms; it's an Empire thing. Given the low rates of rape convictions (I've done a lot of hand holding over the years, and it's very rare for a woman or girl - or a man or boy, for that matter - to even front the police after being raped), I'd favour popping the perp over making my child face a cross examination over the length of her skirt or why she hadn't fought back hard enough. Despite several complaints to police, the man who got to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 10:55 AM
1

A sapper is a combat engineer. We're Australian. You're American, aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 09:09 AM
1

Her Dad's a sapper and I have a 90% accuracy rate from the hip; rape charges would be the least of your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 09:01 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 07:55 AM
1

Isn't the central tenet of TRP picking up being amoral, though? Jailbait or not, just get what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 06:55 AM
1

I would have thought that "she's only 14, mate" would cool you off pretty quickly, though. A couple of my girlfriends were early to develop, and they had to put up with an awful lot of unwanted attention from often much older men. I really hope my daughters stay scrawny like their mother, and thus delay the being treated like produce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 05:21 AM
1

Lol, well played. As the mother of a nearly 14yo, who still plays barbie dolls with her girlfriends, I am concerned though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/14 04:23 AM
1

Loh-lee-tah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 10:40 PM
2

Stay classy there, dudebro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 10:37 AM
1

14?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 08:49 AM
1

Until he gets bored with an aging doormat and upgrades to a pretty young thing when he has a midlife crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 08:47 AM
4

In terms of sexual strategy; early mornings, before the kids get up and can hear you. Or the occasional dirty weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/14 02:00 AM
2

Labour and delivery instructor, eh? You mean an obstetrician? Or a midwife? Because either of those would have been able to explain the elevated risk of eclampsia, gestational diabetes, pelvic dysmorphia and higher order tearing in younger primagravadia.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 11:05 PM
3

Actually, a woman's body is is at it's optimum state for coping with pregnancy and childbirth from mid 20s to early 30s. Earlier pregnancies are frequently problematic in regards to calcium and iron stores, as the woman has often only recently finished growing and developing herself. Fertility rates for singleton pregnancies are also at their highest at this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 11:19 AM
0

Ok then. I've not come across it before. Will have to go take a squizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 09:28 AM
1

Who's tumblr in action?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 09:05 AM
0

Have you spent any time around models? Because they are amongst the most insecure people I've ever dealt with; and working within an industry that tries it's utmost to keep them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 09:03 AM
1

Getting fit and lifting won't stop wrinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 08:35 AM
1

I've finished high school, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 08:33 AM
8

Given that the English speaking population is pretty stable, women are aged 18 to 90+ and there are more baby boomer and younger generations, I figured 45 would be about average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 06:58 AM
1

OkCupid seems to be full of men wanting to bag the next Anna Nicole Smith, and women wanting someone to go hiking on the beach with. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We're both older, he has grey streaks in his beard and I have stretch marks from bearing his children. Sometimes we fight, sometimes the baby wakes up in the middle of us having sex and once the cat bit me on the ankle while I was blowing him. But we rub along ok, enjoy each other's company, want the same things out …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 05:43 AM
2

45 yo, size 12, 2 kids in high school, drives a sedan and works as a nurse or teacher. Lives in the suburbs, plays tennis or netball on a Thursday night with girlfriends, has been married 20 years to a cop or plumber and he plays football on a Saturday afternoon while she and the kids cheer him on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 05:32 AM
-1

Far, far away from sad, pathetic internalized misogyny land.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 04:22 AM
1

Rock, blues, soul, country and folk are my go to genres for contemporary music. Besides that, I'm a bagpiper, flautist and lover of the marching and big band sound. Rachmaninov brings me down, and Tchaikovsky brings me back up; playing the 1812 live, with cannons, is an earth moving experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 03:30 AM
1

I love The Pogues. Poor Shane ' s in need of a good bath though, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 03:23 AM
0

Middle aged at 30? Lol. 30yo women are spring chickens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/14 03:12 AM
3

Lol at the idea of David Attenborough narrating a documentary on the mating habits of high school students.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 09:59 AM
1

Does anyone else have that Bowling For Soup song in their head now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 09:57 AM
8

I would call your friend's relationship hostile and untenable, rather than blue pill. Couples who quarantine finances and don't work together in terms of financial goals are a massive red flag for being ex partners in the near future. As for me? Everything goes in the joint account and all incoming and outgoings are tracked on Excel in order to keep us moving forward in realizing our financial goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 12:53 AM
3

Good God yes. Men like this are rarely reformed and not worth the risk: have fun with him as long as you use a condom, but don't let him into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 12:47 AM
1

So you're afraid of being "swamped by" non western people? Classy, Mr "race realist".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 12:41 AM
1

OutThis must vary between jurisdictions. Anyhow; isn't "second degree rape" or " sexual assault" or even "sexual interference" part of the spectrum of charges that fall below violent and premeditated rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 12:39 AM
1

I'm not anti anything. I think most people will grow out of TRP when they get a little more life experience under their belts. I also think that, with modern access to contraception and preventative measures for STDs, archaic arguments against sexual exploration and sampling from a wide range of partners have been rendered obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 11:16 AM
1

My fault for half paying attention while watching The Legend of Korra with the kids. Were men "allowed" to screw around back in the day, though? Because having bastards popping up all over the place looking for a share in your estate can't have been recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 10:56 AM
1

Would you consider this to be a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 10:37 AM
1

Why not lead by example?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 10:16 AM
1

Back in ye olde days, an older man was attracted to a younger woman for fertility reasons, whereas a man wasn't "set up" to provide for a wife and family until he was close to his middle years. So he married a younger woman, she popped out an heir and a few spares, he carked it, and she had a "few good years" as a widow before his estate ran out of money and she had to rely on her sons. Bloody feminism; making people marry for reasons other than necessity!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 09:54 AM
1

It's a good way to combat overpopulation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 09:48 AM
3

Or India, for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 09:05 AM
0

That was an awfully long time before feminism had even been considered. Blaming feminism for courtesan men being turned into eunuchs is like blaming Keynsianism for foot binding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 08:40 AM
1

That's like saying that you didn't know it was against the law to speed, then ran someone over. Homicide by culpable driving is still homicide by culpable driving, whether you saw cthat speed sign or not.Ignorance of the law is not a defense against breaking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 08:34 AM
2

Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 02:22 AM
2

It certainly bothers me, which is why I think a much greater level of education is needed in terms of what does and doesn't constitute consent, because, as we all know, ignorance of the law isn't an admissible defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 02:12 AM
1

Working class men had their penises cut off? Where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 11:26 PM
0

IME, the higher echelons of the judiciary wish that sex crimes would all just go away; as they are traumatizing to junior counsel, have a very low success rate when it comes to agreeable outcomes and are comparatively very expensive to prosecute successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 11:12 PM
3

A girl said she'd kill herself if you didn't have sex with her? I hope you got her psychiatric help, because suicidal depressed and capable of consent is a ticklish legal area.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:56 PM
4

A weapon? So he can disarm you and use it against you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:51 PM
6

I told him that I was a virgin and not ready to have sex yet. He followed me into a bedroom when I went to collect my coat and handbag before my parents came to collect me. He pushed me onto the bed, told me no one would hear me if I called for help and that I might as well save us both some trouble and give in. So I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:50 PM
0

Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:26 PM
1

Could that be due to the different levels of proof required in criminal and civil proceedings? Especially given the contamination of the crime scene and the unreliable nature of the witnesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:25 PM
-2

Strong men who don't confuse being a man with being a regressive thug with a chip in their shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:22 PM
-2

It's not the number of partners, but you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:21 PM
5

He was bigger, stronger and could run faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:20 PM
3

I've had awful, high pressure sex where it was a choice of give in willingly or unwillingly, because he wasn't going to take no for an answer. Almost all of my girlfriends have found themselves in similar situations. There is also the confounding factor of girls being socially conditioned to be nice, not hurt other people's feelings and to do as they're told. Add in "if you loved me, you'd do it", "my balls will hurt if I can't have sex" and "I'll dump you if you don't put out", and is it any wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 11:29 AM
0

I can respect the fact that you're throwing out attacks on my integrity in order to distract from your own lack of credibility. But that's OK. I'm big enough to leave you to gather your ego in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 11:21 AM
0

WTF is a neckbeard? I keep hearing the term, but have no idea as to why a person would be shamed for not being clean shaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 11:18 AM
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So you're telling me that it's shaming someone to acknowledge their self reported virginal status?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 11:04 AM
0

What makes you think the academic (who was a contributor to the linked study) is a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 11:03 AM
1

Where did I say it was ok to shame someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:52 AM
0

A virgin is someone who has never had sex. Defining a "slut" is rather more problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:27 AM
0

That's a shame, I was going to ask you about Ko Ling Can't contribution in regards to gender based definitions, reporting styles and justifications of DV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:26 AM
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Isn't the use of terms like "virgin neckbeard" more to establish a contextual framework for an opinion than to shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 10:08 AM
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I've come across complaints from virgins, who feel hamstrung and defined by their virginity. I have seen posters offering suggestions and sympathy. I honestly haven't seen anyone shame or attempt to shame a person of either gender for being yet to have sex. I have seen people being frustrated and taken aback by the attitudes of people who identify as "incels, but would hazard a guess that this has more to do with personality than sexual experience or lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 09:52 AM
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Protective behavior =/= self defense. Didn't think you'd read it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 09:30 AM
-1

What's an SJW? Is it like a tumblr feminist, feminazi, bleeding heart, greenie, commie, pinko, nigger lover or hippie?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 09:28 AM
0

So tell me what you think about the use of violence as a protective behavior, as described within the text?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 09:25 AM
-1

Lying? Go find that dictionary, stat! Are you familiar with what happens after a claim of sexual assault or rape has been made?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 09:14 AM
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That's a clumsy misrepresentation of the text on the cover of the study. If you had read the entire article (it's behind a paywall) then you would understand the nature of reciprocal violence and the confounding factors when establishing the parameters of such.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 09:12 AM
-1

If you think that's me making a smear, then you are either very fragile or in need of a dictionary. So; where are these figures of withdrawal of a claim of sexual assault? Because once an accusation has been made, a victim becomes a witness, rather than a plaintiff, and as such, is unable to withdraw their accusation. A rape case is prosecuted by the state, not the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 09:07 AM
-1

Have you read the entire article? Because if you had, and had understood it, I would be surprised if you decide to keep that link up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 09:00 AM
-1

Have you read all of that link? Because it was a survey of a little over 1000 people, not "thousands". It also reports that the findings are inconclusive due to the problematic nature of self reporting for the purposes of statistical analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 08:56 AM
0

I wasn't accusing you of anything. Why do you think I was? What are you basing your figures on? Aquittal rates? Withdrawn accusations? Convictions in the making of false accusations? Police reports?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 08:48 AM
5

I have yet to come across any virgin shaming on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 08:45 AM
0

He's a good man. The world needs more like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 07:12 AM
-4

You can only play what you're dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 04:16 AM
-2

Only if sustained abuse has been documented and can be proven beyond reasonable doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 03:19 AM
0

That statement is at odds with just about every study into family violence that has ever been commissioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 02:44 AM
-2

According to whom? White boys with guilty consciences who hope that the "bonobo porn" study will vindicate them by finding that "women want to be raped"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 02:41 AM
-1

Wasn't that due to a lack of capacity? Her lawyer certainly had the book thrown at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 02:25 AM
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It'll be interesting to see how much more of a libel spree Janet Bloomfield can go on before someone sues her, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 01:42 AM
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Wasn't what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 01:38 AM
0

Given the scandal surrounding this case (it was what, 7 or 8 years ago IIRC), do you really think something like this is likely to happen again? Working from memory again, but didn't the university contaminate and later destroy the alleged crime scene before it could be adequately processed, leading to claims that they were vexatiously covering up for their players?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 01:00 AM
1

Birth control wasn't a scientific advance? Do you think that expensive DNA technology would be "wasted" on rape cases if feminists weren't antagonising for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 12:53 AM
-4

Usually they are. Especially when they're not white and the accused is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 12:50 AM
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And expanding the understanding of what constitutes rape would make people more aware of what they should and shouldn't do in terms of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 12:48 AM
0

Do you have a link for that? Because I have heard similar statistics for accusations, but not for convictions. As far as innocent people on jail goes; are you familiar with the type of people who are usually warming a seat in the big house? Because they certainly aren't white college boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 12:45 AM
1

I was under the impression that she went down for murder after a stink in a secure psychiatric facility. The biggest issue with rape reports is the burden of proof. In cases like Jimmy Saville and Rolf Harris; previous accusations had been dismissed as cynical and vexatious attempts at gaining financial compensation and notoriety, yet these cases have subsequently been proved to be sound, and have brought forth convictions. What do you suppose would have happened if these initial claimants had b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 12:44 AM
0

This may be a country by country thing; because deliberatly false reports of crime, resulting in the waste of police resources usually carries a custodial sentence in the UK, Australia and New Zealand. I'm under the impression that the same only applies to false terrorism claims in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/14 12:33 AM
5

You can't convict someone for a crime they haven't committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 11:44 PM
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They do. Wasting police resources is a crime and has been for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 11:11 PM
4

I'm saying that there is more to the arousal response than being aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 11:05 PM
3

But do they act on that arousal or not? Next time you're at a spin class, think about that ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 11:04 PM
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Did you know that asphyxiation also causes sexual arousal. I would recommend throttling yourself though. The fight or flight response is notorious for it, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 11:11 AM
5

It depends if you want to be a slave to biological determinism or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 11:09 AM
2

You may need to procure yourself a dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 11:08 AM
1

So don't. But this kind of fragile sulkyness is why terpers are inevitably passed over in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 10:43 AM
5

Working out, eating well, practicing good personal hygiene and grooming, and cultivating good manners isn't being "alpha", it's just being a decent person. Much like the young woman who does the same. Men who play mind games (shit tests, dread game, gaslighting, undermining, etc) aren't alpha males, they're immature berks. And women will see through that sort of bratty behaviour and head for someone who is honest about who he is and genuine in his intentions: No one wants to date a caricature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 10:30 AM
3

Who does that outside of b grade romcoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 10:17 AM
6

Being yourself doesn't mean not making the best of yourself; it just means working with what you've got, rather than abandoning personal integrity in an effort to shoehorn oneself into a preconceived notion of what is desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 10:15 AM
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This. The nervous boys getting a stiffy on the high diving board aren't sexually aroused, they're shitting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 10:11 AM
5

This is a common reaction in animal husbandry; where female animals will mount each other to assert dominance and males will mount not in season females to proclaim ownership. The lubrication is an automatic stimulus response. We are only a couple of swings out of the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 09:14 AM
-1

Adult swim?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 06:54 AM
2

Will see if I can get something that's not behind a paywall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 05:53 AM
1

That's how it went with almost all the people in ltrs that I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 05:51 AM
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I'd call it high pressure sex, where she was coerced and "nagged" into doing something that would rather not have done. I'm us under the impression that she didn't think that he was going to take no for an answer, so did the "lie back and think of England" thing in order to avoid escalation of the incident. I have done this once before, where giving in and doing something I wasn't happy doing was the alternative to being forced to do it anyway. It's a deeply unpleasant experience to have, and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 04:07 AM
1

If you were a woman who had any understanding of the historical battles to access pain relief and person - centered care during pregnancy and childbirth, you would have swallowed your tongue rather than said that. Being able to control your own fertility is a huge battle being fought by the feminist movement; especially in the developing world, where aid is frequently conditional on pro birthing religious acquiesce. "Fixing" menstruation is possible by using long term and permanent contraception…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 03:57 AM
2

Use of the contraceptive pill, access to safe and legal abortion and patient model ante natal and birth care is a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/14 01:34 AM
1

Like all other forms of cancer, sometimes it just shows up for no good reason, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 09:49 AM
1

By empowering women to be more than their biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 09:48 AM
1

What's stopping men from picking up the traditionally feminine roles of caring and homemaking? Could it be the capitalist system that there forefathers created, which devalues traditional "womens work" by expecting it to be provided free?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 09:46 AM
0

If you understood, you would know :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 09:42 AM
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Compatible libidos, compatible political beliefs, compatible values and a compatible sense of humor. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder on everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 04:56 AM
2

Atheist. Religion is the opiate of the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 12:01 AM
-2

You're unfamiliar with the notion of blood libel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 07:33 AM
2

Nothing I could link, I'm afraid. First hand verbal information.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 03:18 AM
5

Extend that to caring, and I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 12:37 AM
2

Is that capitalism or feminism, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 12:36 AM
2

Be nice if there was a less invasive way to do it though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 12:35 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/14 12:34 AM
2

Yeah, I have an ex like this. Any ribbing or lighthearted banter was taken as a personal insult to be butthurt over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 01:32 PM
1

Pap smears. Seriously; there has to be a better way. Or at least one that doesn't make you feel like an apple being cored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 10:28 AM
1

I dunno, mate. Start up with the dumb blonde or women driver jokes and most people will wonder where you got that time travel machine from the 1970s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 10:24 AM
2

Bail. She's not into you, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 09:47 AM
2

Do you have anything to back up that 10% claim? Because it's at odds with my understanding and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 09:46 AM
1

Compete with the boys in sport? I'm all for a good game of mixed doubles, but Co ed sport should be an opt in rather than an enforced part of the curriculum. Co ed swim meets were the bane of my teenaged life. Are you a mother? Because, while I do agree with you that being home with your babies (and even toddlers, most of the time), is nice for you, and great for their development, being a SAHP is a groundhog day boredom inducing parade of dirty nappies and posseting some days. I didn't work tod…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 09:14 AM
1

Getting rid of the hateful forced birth crowd protesting at family clinics would be great, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 08:58 AM
5

Vasagel won't work effectively for a man until he has finished growing: as he gets bigger, so does his vans differens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 07:40 AM
1

Myra Hindley, anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 07:37 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree with you. I think that the forcing of women to be masculine was the biggest misstep of 2nd wave feminism, and that women being shoehorned into a male headspace is selling both genders short. My youngest sister is fortunate enough to live in a country where gender equality is De rigour; and she can work 80 hour weeks as a Dr, while her husband is the primary carer for their toddler daughter, keeps house and works a few hours a week as a pianist. The hoops my husband had to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 07:11 AM
1

A low IQ makes a person a "vulnerable adult" and unable to give consent, just FYI. This can be below 80 in certain jurisdictions. Also; when did Mensa get togethers stop being all about wine, cheese and hooking up? Much more satisfying than conning average people into being "picked up".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 12:50 PM
1

What's wrong with sex workers? It's the world's oldest profession for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 12:31 PM
1

How did you manage that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 11:30 AM
1

Hogarth's Gin Lane, anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 06:18 AM
2

Xena v some OAP on the bus with her netting bag of cat food?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 06:17 AM
5

Live fast, die young and leave a good looking corpse, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 03:58 AM
3

That was utterly brilliant. I regret that I have but one upvote to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 03:26 AM
2

Checkmate? He castled himself into a stalemate. Do you have any facts to back up those tired old chestnuts you're offering? Or are you just a pawn to the patriarchal propaganda machine?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 03:22 AM
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You haven't misstated the letter of the law (insofar as I can ascertain, I'm not a Yank); but you seem to fail to grasp the spirit of the law, the notion of the burden of proof or the difficulty in getting a witness to present as reliable enough to establish mens really. As you may remember from law school, anything short of a corpus delecti and a smoking gun is open to interpretation, especially if you're dealing with a bulldog.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 03:10 AM
1

30k on a wedding? Good grief. Elope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 03:03 AM
-5

Each thrust? Lol. I think you need to re read the legislation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 02:56 AM
4

I've managed to train my fox terrier not to hump people's legs; why can't men train themselves to ask before they stick their dick in?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 02:45 AM
1

Snort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 02:43 AM
1

He's a self published self help "guru" of the Alan Pease persuasion, throw a stick in an MRA meeting and you'll hit 10 just like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 01:51 AM
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Yes, you certainly come across as the type of "all teeth and no trousers" law student who's never seen the inside if a courtroom. I know you struggle with empathy, so I'll give you an example of why positive and ongoing consent is a good idea: I was an expert witness a few weeks ago for a young man who had taken sure, why not?" before the girl got drunk as a green light to jump her while she was passed out. By the end of the evening, he had accidentally committed necrophellia, and his poor paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 01:44 AM
2

As someone who works with many current and former sex workers in a legal capacity, I don't think you have the foggiest idea as to what you're on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/14 01:13 AM
2

Radical? It seems more like a regressive load of hooey.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 10:20 PM
1

That usually starts in infancy, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 10:14 PM
2

Your homophobia is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 10:13 PM
0

How long has it been since you practiced?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 09:52 PM
5

I'm sorry, I was under the impression that you knew the directives and views of the worldview you'd signed up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 12:03 PM
3

The directives of your sub. Surely you're aware of the RPW viewpoint on career women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 11:49 AM
3

In regards to a daughter; your husband's and your dislike of women, of not wanting them to have careers, of not wanting them to have bodily autonomy, of thinking they're all hypergamous sluts who constantly shit test and manipulate, lie and chear; that line of thinking isn't going to drive her to being a nervous wreck?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 11:33 AM
-1

That's how the prosecution of rape works in every courtroom I've ever been in. If you can't prove intent; can't prove the action and can't prove she's a squeaky clean witness; then it didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 10:43 AM
0

The same as everyone else; make sure they are capable of giving consent and have done so before you stick it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 10:37 AM
-3

Why is it so hard to check that your partner is kosher with each escalation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 10:35 AM
-1

Ask if it's OK before you stick it in there. If you can't cope with the idea of not boning drunken, drugged or resisting girls, then you're obviously too stupid for the privilege of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 10:32 AM
2

What's wrong with getting informed, enthusiastic consent? Do you enjoy jumping unconscious girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 10:09 AM
2

Dripping slop? What a vile man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 10:08 AM
2

I really hope you never have a daughter, and if you have a son, he's homosexual. What a toxic relationship to bring a girl into.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 09:37 AM
0

The "teach rapists not to rape" isn't aimed at psychopathic repeat offenders, but at horn kids trying to push through LRM, taking advantage of someone who's drunk or assuming that a girl who's dressed up is doing so for sex. Otherwise good kids who don't understand where that line is until they cross it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 08:47 AM
3

Nope. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:56 PM
3

Yes. Drunkenly murdered by other men. Maybe if men weren't allowed to drink, we could avoid rape and murder in one fell swoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:49 PM
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So glad I'm not a septic. What a load of crap written about a cesspool of over privileged kids who don't know how to take no for an answer and think the world owes them a positive outcome by virtue of being white and having wealthy parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:47 PM
3

At fault for pointing out facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:27 PM
2

Provision and protection went out with foot binding. Get a job, get an alsation and only date men you want, not because you need one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 10:12 PM
2

Why is the having of a mutually enjoyable experience a trap?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 10:10 PM
3

So you're implying that men murdering other men is the fault of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 10:10 PM
2

I'd rather they did; but telling a teenager not to do something? We all know how that usually goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 09:35 PM
0

Poor wife. Poor children. What an pimple on the arsehole of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 12:37 PM
1

The wanting to assert dominance thing was part of it. He was a bit of a "golden child" who's parents thought the sun got up when he did, and couldn't seem to grasp that relationships involved give and take, rather than demand and acquiesce. I would be wearing a sundress on a hot day: "did you get off on my friends looking down your top?" I'd elect to study with girlfriends instead of party with him: "if you gave a fuck about me, you'd be with me instead of making me look like a loser by going al…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 12:35 PM
1

So why was he with her in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:59 AM
0

Lol. I should have signposted that it was a joke. I had an ex who used to shit test constantly; everything was about point scoring and getting one up. It was bloody exhausting and thank God I had the good sense to bail before it became too serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:57 AM
2

Mgtow; like the Darwin awards, but without the dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:31 AM
0

Hang on, is my asking my husband to open the vegemite for me because the lid's too tight for me to move a shit test?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:29 AM
1

Did he eventually just tell her to go ahead and do it? How old was she? 18? She sounds very immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 11:26 AM
1

Are you doing the first three to your girlfriend or your mum? Because that's some pretty childish carryon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 10:18 AM
2

She hungry for grandbabies?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 08:40 AM
-4

You need to pass this information on, wise one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 08:39 AM
2

Ace in the hole? No. Although pregnancy and childbirth, having your career mummy tracked, your earnings and chances at promotion severely curtailed and your body put through the wringer can cramp your style fairly significantly. Being expected to wear high heels and make up as standard office attire is a pita too. But it's the 5 women per day who are killed by their current or former intimate partners (Bancroft, 2012, OP cit) that is what bugs me most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 07:07 AM
-2

Have you given birth lately, lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 06:09 AM
6

I would encourage my boys to do and think like this; as well as observe their friends doing this. I would much rather that they settled down once they were ready to, rather than snag a girl who was rushing into a relationship out of fear of being "left on the shelf". I would also encourage my daughters to "try before they buy" and to steer clear of bad boys for all but the most casual of encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 06:07 AM
2

You don't believe that white men are afforded privileges that white women are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 05:51 AM
4

If you are so willful obtuse that you are unable to discern that men are pretty fortunate and privileged when compared to women of the same social background, then all I can really tell you is to get out if the echo chamber and go broaden your horizons. My husband and I met at university, why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 03:02 AM
4

I believe that it's most likely rape. The burden of proof in a 10yo incident, with no witnesses or physical evidence is very unlikely to be realized though. She'd never get a conviction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 01:51 AM
-2

Plate her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 01:47 AM
9

I would be so disappointed. My strong and gentle oldest boy, my cheeky, lively middle boy and my cuddly little baby boy are all such terrific people; kind, loving, generous and conscientious; I would be devastated if they 180'd into the kind of selfish spoilt brats that TRP is made up of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 01:46 AM
3

So why are you happy that she loses her right to bodily autonomy, but not happy that the same applies to you? All PIV sex carries the risk of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 10:29 PM
2

So you're happy that she loses her right to bodily autonomy, but not that you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 10:27 PM
6

Please do the world a favour and go mgtow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 09:17 AM
-1

Shelters are only shut down when funding dries up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 07:14 AM
4

Things don't "just happen".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 06:20 AM
1

As opposed to your premise that women withhold sex because they randomly decide to annoy their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 05:28 AM
6

Pigs will fly before we get one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 05:19 AM
0

No law yet; if legislators won't legislate, litigators will litigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 04:57 AM
4

So if you've annoyed your wife sufficiently that she doesn't want to have sex with you, then the decent thing to do would be to make amends. If you're not big enough to do that, then you still have Mrs Palmer and her five daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 04:55 AM
0

Government funded organizations have coed, men's and women's facilities, as do church run charities. But you're welcome to crowdfund a shelter specifically for male victims of DV, just like the women's groups do for women and children victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 03:27 AM
0

So you think that the privately funded women's shelters who cater for the overwhelmingly female victims of DV should be obliged to admit men? Men who may or may not be responsible for that abuse? Because that's utter lunacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 03:12 AM
6

What gives you the idea that feminism opposes prostitution? Make it safe and legal (like in places like The Netherlands or New Zealand or Australia), and I don't get the issue. It's just another job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 02:54 AM
0

I think we have a cultural misunderstanding; hostels are charity run free accommodation for homeless and disadvantaged people in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 02:51 AM
10

That's such a bizarre false premise that I'm not surprised that I missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 02:50 AM
1

I serve plenty of men. Usually veterans with mental health issues, indigenous men and those suffering from ongoing mental illness. None that I speak to are there because their wife got everything though. There are dedicated mens hostels in my country, but, like those for women, there are never enough beds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 02:22 AM
5

I agree with you, but would stipulate use a prostitute rather than take a lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 02:19 AM
7

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 01:07 AM
4

So if he can't get it up any more, she's entitled to look elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 12:50 AM
11

So if you clean up after yourself, that makes you entitled to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 12:46 AM
10

A marriage is a partnership, is it not? You need to work with your partner, not against them. My husband had a major PTSD episode about 10 years ago, and sex went off the menu. But because I love him and am supportive of him, I helped him to heal and didn't mither him for the root he didn't want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 12:37 AM
4

You need to consider why she's pressing charges. Is it to bring about an annulment of the marriage? Is it to secure her safety? The safety of her children? To make sure he can't do it to someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 12:33 AM
11

They: Both of them. Loss of desire and attraction doesn't happen in a vacuum and affects both parties, so they need to work together to come up with a mutually acceptable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 12:24 AM
2

It's a shame the don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 12:19 AM
3

Have you ever tried to prove sexual harassment in front of a magistrate? It's bloody hard, requires a huge burden of proof and the default assumption is that "she asked for it", throw in the additional complications of working around the sanctity of marriage and you'd have more luck just running away to join the circus in order to get away from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 12:17 AM
0

Have you ever tried to get child support out of someone who is determined to use his children as a pawn to get back at his ex? Because I hand out a lot of charity food packages to women and children who've left abusive men, but have never had a "divorce rape" man seek charity on that soup line.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 12:11 AM
4

Proving marital rape according to the "balance of probability" is a monumental task, involving documentation of ongoing abuse. If you think that one partner can just rock up at the court, with zero evidence, say "they raped me" and get a conviction, then you're sorely mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 11:57 PM
-4

Backpedal all you like mate, but you're pretty obvious in your opinion that you think women are just sex dolls that cook and clean. I sincerely hope that they are all able to see you for the cretin you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 11:53 PM
1

Then why isn't she working? Is she at home raising YOUR child?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 11:49 PM
1

It does. I wouldn't use our en suite while he was in the bedroom, because that's just rude. But both of us would use the downstairs loo in that situation; it's just manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 11:45 PM
20

So, OP, if you didn't want a child and your wife waited until you were passed out drunk, got you hard, had sex and got herself pregnant, you'd be cool with that? Because marriage means ongoing consent, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 11:41 PM
9

Then they need to figure out why she doesn't want it. Is she tired? Stress at work? Poor body image? He's grown a beard and it's a turn off? He acts like lord of the Manor while she does all the work around the house after she finishes at the office? She's depressed? He's developed poor personal hygiene?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 11:26 PM
0

You know, I had a first (and only) date with a man who wanted to introduce me to the "joys" of cropophellia. I got out of there pretty quick!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 11:20 PM
1

I sounds like a load of sexist crap to me. I'm surprised they got away with it.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 11:18 PM
1

That's a bit black and white: Do you equate "in the same house" with "right in front of"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 11:15 PM
1

Obviously you don't understand the lives of rural peasants, or you would have known about the starvation when men were sent to fight, and women were left to work. Half the workforce gone; poor harvest seized by feudal lord; those who remain have no money to buy food; starvation follows. But feminism was totes unnecessary, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 11:14 PM
2

Does it bother you that you're encouraging already vulnerable young women to make themselves even more vulnerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 10:20 PM
1

I don't know much about the American health care system beyond the protests about universal health care and access to contraception. I've had one accident, where an elderly driver sideswiped my parked car while I was loading groceries into the boot. Elderly people also have higher premiums.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 10:20 PM
1

Boys only and girls only are pretty common in my country. Both sexes do better academically in a single sex environment.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 10:00 PM
1

As someone who came across "pregnant women" parking in England, I wonder if that's what he's talking about.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 09:59 PM
1

Your insurance company could tell you the same. It's common knowledge.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 09:57 PM
2

Your premise that everything was better for women back in the "good old days"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 09:56 PM
1

So does your bloke get off on constipation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 09:55 PM
1

Same as the "hire a mum" housekeeping and "hire a granny" child minding services. My in laws use a "Jim ' s Mowing" as their block is too big for them to manage and my husband or I don't always have the time to mow it for them.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 11:19 AM
2

If there was a market for them, they would.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 10:58 AM
-4

There's also seniors parking, parents with prams parking, disability parking and small car only parking. Why are you so bent out of shape over the womens one?
/r/MensRights28/09/14 10:57 AM
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Having worked in car insurance, yes, women have more accidents. These much more frequently low speed bumps and scrapes, touch parking against garage walls or opening doors into letter boxes than the high speed write offs that are predominantly the domain of younger male drivers. Insurance companies want female policy holders, as 20 dents or fender benders are hugely cheaper than one complete rebuild.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 10:55 AM
1

Just that recent thread where your vulpine co-traveller became aggressive at the suggestion that refusing to use the bathroom while her husband was awake was bizarre had me scratching my head. As she seems to be the yardstick of your sub, I did wonder how much you were allowed to disagree with her directives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 09:28 AM
1

There really seems to be a lot of angry over compensation going on, doesn't there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 09:13 AM
0

Thanks for that. So many interesting terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 08:23 AM
2

As someone who hails from a long line of working class women, the only difference, historically speaking, between men's and women's work, was that men were paid. All of my ancestors shin deep in rice padded with a baby strapped to their backs weren't paid. Their husbands were. Fact, sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 08:21 AM
4

And people like you think that being belligerent means winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 08:18 AM
1

You've been owned, mate. That's why you're swearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 07:27 AM
1

My apologies; I seem to have mixed you up with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 06:02 AM
1

What is "not my Nigel"? In my country, "Nigel" is a derogatory term for someone with no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 04:53 AM
2

Where are you from? Bootle?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 03:53 AM
0

You really got hold of the wrong end of the stick there, kid. While I don't agree with everything Watson said (her collegiate, inclusive to a fault approach is a bit of a symptom of her youth and generosity of spirit, IMO), I do think that it needed to be repackaged for a younger audience, who hadn't realized the movement hadn't ended with "The Female Eunich" or "The Beauty Myth".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 03:48 AM
1

Your mum let you back online, did she?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 03:39 AM
2

If you know women like that, let alone a lot of them, then you need to get yourself out of the loony bin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 03:38 AM
0

Well, given she's an ambassador for women's rights who was specifically speaking about feminism, what did you expect her to speak about? Nuclear disarmament?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 03:34 AM
0

Hang on, how is being leadership material, traditionally masculine or coming from a privileged background anti - feminist? I realize that misogynist types are stroppy that Watson's boyfriend wasn't a pimply, 7 stone weakling huddling behind her, but you really need to get with the program that feminism benefits everyone. Don't just take my word for it, or Watson's for that matter. Ken Lay and Lt Gen David Morrison's: en.m.wikiquote.org/wiki/david_morrison Www.vicpolicenews.gov.ay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 03:24 AM
1

Was that your take home? That by men and women being supportive of each other, men are being oppressed? Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 02:49 AM
1

The £10 argument? Contradiction isn't an argument! Seriously; I have better things to do than engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 09:58 PM
0

So what's with the not being allowed to undress in front of him or use the bathroom while he's home? What happens when a RPW gives birth? Can he see? Because it's not just a baby popping out elegantly, as you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 09:53 PM
2

I think your hamster needs a lie down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 09:48 PM
1

That would come on very handy to every man who's faced a bouncer to leg stump.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 09:43 PM
2

In the "good old days" marriage implied ongoing consent. If a wife didn't want sex, it was legally enshrined for her husband to force himself on her against her wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 09:39 PM
2

Wow. You've never studied history, have you? Go have a bex and a good lie down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 09:24 PM
4

You have absolutely no idea as to what feminism is. It would be funny if it wasn't so deliberately pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 09:21 PM
2

A girlfriend from uni paid her way by working as a high end dominatrix. She claims that it was usually the high powered, alpha type men who'd come to her for a good spanking, as they were bored with their "yes sir", vanilla submissive wives. When you're in charge all day, I guess it might be thrilling to be out of control for $100 an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 10:47 AM
0

Which part of male privilege are men supposed to surrender? Because last I heard, penises weren't detachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 09:13 AM
3

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 08:54 AM
5

Interestingly, he didn't consider himself to be a feminist until our eldest daughter was sexually harassed by older boys at a swim meet and intimidated by male classmates attempting to physically remove her from the computer lab.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 08:08 AM
0

I'm married to an alpha feminist: an industry leader, ADF veteran, athletic, intelligent, has integrity, is loving, gentle and protective. TRP, according to him, is toddler behavior and something he would feel like a failure of a father if his sons embraced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/14 05:20 AM
5

Lol. He was an absent minded academic who tended to ignore the strange small people in the house unless they were bothering him for food or with broken limbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 11:02 PM
1

I'll see what I can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 10:18 PM
1

Financial screw ups and not being allowed to question them seem to be a reoccurring theme on RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 10:17 PM
5

Depends on what you mean by strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 10:16 PM
2

No, her first one. I'm currently reading her biography and gee she knew how to have a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 10:07 PM
3

By who's metric? What makes you qualified to determine who is or isn't an innovative genius?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 01:16 PM
5

My sisters and I made a trebuchet to launch each other onto the trampoline, then we'd bounce into the pool. It's not just boys (and men) who use physics as an excuse for shenanigans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 11:40 AM
4

Who are these dozen men who have Nobel prizes in two different scientific disciplines and who have discovered a new entry to the periodic table?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 10:11 AM
0

I am in a very traditional setup, marriage wise; he's older, earns more, was much more sexually experienced than me when we got together, we married young and have lotsa kids But the idea that he's my boss? That women are inherently stupid, dishonest, childish, emotionally unstable, incapable if supporting themselves and malevolently manipulative? That i can't have a career? That i can't go out with friends? That he Has to check my phone and GPS to make sure that I'm doing as I aught? That i can…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 06:59 AM
3

Are you familiar with the scandal that Marie Curie's initial Nobel prize caused? Hint; it had to do with slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 04:10 AM
2

You're very inexperienced, aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 10:12 PM
0

Valuable advice? More like a steaming pile of bull manure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 09:50 PM
1

So a serial monogomast 20yo who's had a different ltr every year since she became sexually active at 14 is too slutty? What about virgins who pash a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 12:26 PM
0

And what is a "reasonable" number? 2? 8? 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 11:45 AM
3

If that was true, then hipsters wouldn't be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 11:15 AM
2

If men didn't slut shame, women wouldn't feel the need to lie. You reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 11:05 AM
-1

Dude, you're coming across as the kind of bloke who says "slut" because he's too old to say "cooties". As for sex not being difficult when you have a vagina? How would you know; you don't have one. Or do you just jam your dry dick in, tear the poor girl, think cunningulus is icky and wouldn't know a clitorus from a labia majora? As for me being a desperate post wall ex slut? I was married at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 11:04 AM
0

Of course there's a middle ground. Do you think anyone can define it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 10:45 AM
0

Yes, that is exactly my premise. Only insecure, neurotic men would want a sexually inexperienced and ignorant girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 06:41 AM
0

Because they are insecure in their ability to satisfy an experienced or sexually discerning women. It's like the old joke about men wanting to marry virgins because they can't handle criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 02:38 AM
1

It makes my hand itchy for the soap to wash someone's mouth out for saying it. What a horrible thing to call someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 01:39 AM
4

If this young man is who I think he is, then his mother was quite a prominent feminist academic and activist back in the day. BBL after I double check.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 12:49 AM
1

Hahahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 09:43 PM
8

Until recently, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 09:43 PM
1

If you'd said Hitchcock, you may have had a leg to stand on. But Kubrick? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 09:42 PM
1

My mother was born in 1952. She wasn't allowed to open a bank account to attend university without written consent from her father. She also required my father's permission (her husband) to work in a laboratory without a chaperone. This is in Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 12:07 PM
1

Germaine Greer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:56 AM
1

By what metric is a jumped up pretender like Kubrick a genius?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:55 AM
1

You sat in a classroom lately? My niece has A* averages in maths and physics and wants to study engineering like her brothers, but the school is trying to talk her out of it, as engineering isn't "family friendly". My eldest daughter has A* averages in maths and IT, and the school is trying to steer her away from info tech and into accounting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:49 AM
1

Word
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:40 AM
7

Thousands of guys who didn't need their father or husband's permission to attend higher education.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:38 AM
2

As Margaret Thatcher once said, when you start attacking the person, it's because your argument is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 11:37 AM
2

Where are the male innovative geniuses right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 07:20 AM
1

Jazz isn't an area I'm terribly familiar with, I'm afraid. Could it be like, with classical music, where women were forbidden from holding copyright, performing in public or seeking patronage until relatively recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 04:31 AM
1

Great success? You set the bar pretty low, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 10:46 PM
5

I urge you to look up Hedy Lamarr.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 10:40 PM
2

Not in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 10:02 PM
1

Do you understand what patriarchy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 12:39 PM
2

Why would a highly successful, innovative and intelligent woman want to settle down, pop out babies and hamstring her career and potential?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 11:10 AM
5

Unlike the oft cried terper maxim that calling a boy a loser is effectively removing his brain and setting fire to it, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 11:08 AM
8

Given you're sitting at a computer, how about you spare a thought for Grace Hopper, Hedy Lamarr, Ada Lovelace, Mary Kenneth Keller, Anita Borg and Hanna Wallach?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 11:04 AM
2

As a classical musician, the field was actively discouraging towards women until relatively recently. If you've ever sat in a pit, you'll know what I mean. Even female voice, in the modern era Dame Nellie Melba was the groundbreaker, has been traditionally eschewed for castrato artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 07:12 AM
1

Have you read the study in order to understand why that is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 01:27 AM
1

Have you read the study in order to understand why that is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 01:27 AM
-1

Www.rationalityunleashed.net/deconstructing-mens-rights-activism/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 12:39 AM
1

If you haven't figured out the marketing notion of aspirational envy or why the current major players are fighting cross ownership and saturation laws, or why misogynists hate sites like Jezabel, Huffpo, Think Progress or Upworthy, then there's not much I can do to make you stop being obtuse. What actual studies regarding slut shaming are these?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 12:31 AM
-1

Feminists in my country are at the forefront of the push for shared custody. The main stumbling block is where violent men potentially have unsupervised access to small children. That is why there is so much caution over default joint custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 10:47 PM
3

Lol. You need to get out more. There's a world out there beside "my super sweet 16".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 10:44 PM
1

Because some people just like doing it. There are arseholes everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 10:36 PM
1

Like I said, it's a dead end relationship. They obviously want different things and are wasting each other's time by staying together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 10:35 PM
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Who do you think owns and produces the women's magazines? With a few notable exceptions, it's men like Conrad Black, James Packer and Rupert Murdoch calling the shots. As for women being the main purveyors of shame: You been on TRP lately? Read the comments in a tabloid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 10:32 PM
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Same. Although I do have reservations about the state's right to harvest my DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 10:27 PM
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This was before Jr was even born. He got physical about it, so she left and moved in with her sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 01:13 PM
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Never heard of slut shaming, friendzone shaming, SAHM shaming, working mum shaming, body shaming or infertility shaming? Because women frequently are screwed and damaged by each and every one of these bloke tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 01:11 PM
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Not oppressive so much as has a huge impact on your career and earning potential. Try working around school holidays, doses of impetigo and tonsillitis, breaks to express milk or when the child care worker is ill and see where your next promotion ends up. Which feminist group was this? Because the only campaigning I'm aware of was the one advocating for supervised access for men with DV and SV convictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 12:44 PM
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I have 5 kids. #1 and #4 are the image of him, #2 and #5 are a mix of him and me, while #3 is the image of me. All have his eyes. A friend of my husband's was determined to have a paternity test, so adamant and belligerent that he drove his wife away. Then the kid was a dead ringer for him. Too bad he only sees him every 2nd weekend and since she earns more than him, he doesn't even get the satisfaction of being able to provide for his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 12:36 PM
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That's pretty standard "all women are lying, hypergamous sluts" TRP logic. I'm surprised you're not more familiar with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 12:31 PM
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Who's usually left holding the baby? So start advocating for greater access to paternity and carers leave for men, greater access to workplace opportunity for woman and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 12:24 PM
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Same as Twilight was popular amongst teenage girls and Mills and Boon was huge for women my mum's age: It's fluffy rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 12:03 PM
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That's good, because have nfi.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 12:00 PM
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I think man shouldn't be with a 17yo. Because that's some seriously immature carryon. I wouldn't call it abuse though. I do wonder why the man is attempting to control who is wife sees, what she wears or who she's friends with. He needs help with his insecurity and jealousy. It sounds like a very toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 11:57 AM
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Firstly; get rid of the picture, as you've putting yourself at risk of being doxxed. Secondly, get yourself some therapy. Forget sex, forget romantic relationships; spend some quality time with yourself and be gentle on yourself. Study, spend time with your friends and on your hobbies, find some new hobbies. Try mountain climbing or scuba diving, take yourself out of your comfort zone. Romantic relationships won't happen in a meaningful way until you heal yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 11:38 AM
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You do realize that a hymen can be broken by other things than sex, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 11:25 AM
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A very well deserved shaming. A person who abuses someone else, or who advocates for the right to abuse should be ashamed of themself. I'll even chip in for the hair shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 04:54 AM
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The man who tried to convince me to try cropophellia was my strangest encounter. I pretended I had to have a pee, paid the tab and left. He tried to call me again but I didn't answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 04:44 AM
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Do you understand the difference between wanting a policy and having a personal preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 01:50 AM
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Why would I be privy to that sort of sensitive information? If this is your idea of a cross examination, you need to head back to class.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 01:48 AM
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She's a very damaged person who needs extensive professional help to heal from past abuse. He would be better off leaving her, as the current situation is ruining both their lives. He should seek some help himself, as it's very draining to love and be unable to help a very damaged person. He sounds like a great person, who will find love. A much better outcome than dread - gaming yourself a terrorized husk of a person in order to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 12:56 PM
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Paternity is identifiable through amniocentesis. When this is done for the trisomy and GD testing at around 20 weeks gestation, why not test for paternity at the same time? According to the old wives tale, babies resemble their fathers at birth as a way of ensuring said father sticks around to help raise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 12:23 PM
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Outside of certain faiths, is ringbarking still that common? A friend of mine had a terrible job trying to get his son done. It's extremely rare in my country outside of phimosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 12:14 PM
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The trick is separating the fools from the knaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 12:10 PM
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I don't. But no one was doxxing him or his parents, we're they?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 12:07 PM
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That's very interesting, thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 12:05 PM
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As someone who has never had any trouble whilst traveling through eastern Europe, the Mediterranean, the middle east and the former Baltic States for work, I wholeheartedly agree. The notion that everything outside of North America is the 3rd world is very prevalent throughout Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 12:01 PM
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So what makes you so sure that he's not a bullshit artist? What makes you think that Quinn's family and friends deserve to be harassed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 11:57 AM
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I wouldn't know her if she popped up in my soup, but harassing someone and her family and friends on the say so of her unhinged and bitter ex isn't activism no matter which way you spin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 11:11 AM
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Because they don't. They prefer to harass indie computer game developers and prop up Paul Elam's lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 07:10 AM
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I have 5 children, I have been a SAHM. My husband has taken time to be a SAHD while I worked and he went back to studying for 12 months. There is no shame in staying at home with small children, just caution that you are in a very vulnerable position.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 07:07 AM
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