There is a link on the red pill sub titled Sexual Strategy is Amoral, that eventually comes to this conclusion "there is no common social contract (regarding sex) that we can commit to that benefits both genders" although the only example given of this is the social taboo of wealthy older man going after 19yr olds.

This strikes me as amusing because of the recent OKCUPID data which showed men, regardless of age, were most attracted to women between 20-22, but women regardless of age were most attracted to men within about five years of them. So all men want young women, but young women answering anonymously are not attracted to guys more than about five years older than them. I think there is flaw in the results (which I haven't been able to confirm) that when rating on OKCUPID, the other person finds out about the rating making women avoid rating men as attractive they had no interest in dating.

If you have doubts about the OKCUPID data the book Survival of the Prettiest references studies which found something similar with an entirely different data set several years ago, i.e. women are most attracted to men that look around 28. So men of all ages are most attracted to 20yr olds, women of all ages are most attracted to 28yr olds.

The red pill delusion seems to accept the male truth (men are most attracted to young women) and deny the female truth (women are not attracted to much older men and only will date within a pretty tight range). That fact that a small amount of women will use much older man for money, stability is not reflective of the mating preferences of a majority of women... because reality reflects behavior, most women are not with much older men. So essentially the red pill delusion, at least for older men, is founded on aiming for a fringe group of aberrant women with serious issues.

It seems the only logical solution for this real mismatch of wants is for women and men to figure out how to avoid physical deterioration. Unless red pill offers the solution to that issue, red pill is a one sided delusion, pipe dream, canned strategy for bagging damaged girls with daddy issues. Bottom line, you can't be older than 28 and be red pill unless you still look like you are 28... and then you might have to lie about your age to the average woman.

In conclusion, if you are male or female and want to remain sexually desirable, don't look older. No amount of money or social status is going to make you more physically desirable even if those things might give you more mate options among types that chase money, status (i.e. the chronically superficial).

I'm also curious how Redpillwomen rationalizes all the data that men are most attracted to 20yr olds? Anyone know the answer to this?