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The women might think about it and enjoy it. So they ask for it. I don't have a problem with someone asking for what they like. Also, how do people define "choking" these days? Because it could mean grabbing the neck, or blocking the airway. Those are 2 very different things!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:48 PM
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There are actually society-wide problems supported by surveys and studies, but that doesn't matter when a person takes control of their own life, and makes better choices. When a person makes better choices, and has better boundaries, it doesn't matter what problems that are common society, since they will weed out the people who are not compatible with what they are looking for. The number of people on the relationship forums who expect Mr/s Right to drop out of the sky with no work on their pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:36 PM
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True enough. When dating if I didn't find what I wanted in one woman I moved on, that's a choice I can make. And it worked very well for me. Because I did find a woman who was good for me. Honestly my life to got so much better when I became captain of my own ship, had better boundaries, and made better choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:33 PM
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This is an important distinction, can you edit your original post and add this? By "oppression" do you mean only gov't supported oppression? Or can it include widespread social oppression? What if 50% of Western women are spreading sexism, is that oppression or discrimination by your definitions? Because there are plenty of women, more than half IME, that demand the man pay for all or most of the dates. That's not just entitlement, it's prejudice and sexism and forcing gender roles. And in some …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:06 AM
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You and anyone else have the ability to move to a state that has the rights you want. So what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:05 AM
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Businesses should not mix politics with their business. A lot of them will be damaged when the political climate changes. I'm going to guess the amount of stress there would be really high with all the mental abuse and hate going on there from feminists. I worked at General Motors in the late 1980s. There was a big harassment case a woman filed against GM. So feminists made new rules that only applied to men. So saying "You look nice today" to a woman is sexual harassment, which could get you fi…
/r/MensRights13/03/18 06:59 PM
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I'm divorced. Yes. Child support was 25% of my net income. There is no upper limit for child support in Michigan. In Michigan Family Courts, there are no judges on the bench when it comes time for the divorce filer (me) to go to court to finalize the divorce. There is a guy who has never been a judge, called a "referee". Guess who my referee was? The husband of my wife's lawyer. Talk about shady!
/r/MensRights13/03/18 06:54 PM
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So how does she like equality now?
/r/MensRights13/03/18 06:52 PM
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If someone says "I'm not getting enough sex so I think we should break up" is simply using "I statements" to tell your opinion. Saying "If you don't have sex with me now we are breaking up" could be coercion. If you think your gf is really that crazy, just break up, don't even bother to talk about it. You can do better.
/r/MensRights13/03/18 06:51 PM
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The editor mentioned that saying "I'm going to leave you if we don't have sex" is considered a threat, That sounds more like a claim a lawyer would make, but that doesn't necessarily mean a judge would give credence to that claim. Your SO's divorce lawyer will make all kinds of claims to make you look bad, and make her look good. So instead of trying to work things out, just leave. When people don't have the ability to work things out, or simply redefine "violence" as it suits them, there are co…
/r/MensRights13/03/18 06:44 PM
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I'm sorry to hear you are in such trouble. The court systems are rigged against fathers. Something similar goes for Michigan. If you don't pay your child support through the family court, and pay it directly to the spouse, the courts have no record of the payment being made and so it doesn't count towards your obligation. Even in the 1970s Michigan Family Courts were "losing" checks, so some people had to make some payments twice, like my dad. Just don't get married.
/r/MensRights13/03/18 06:41 PM
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IME, most men ignore personality, and focus too much on looks in the woman. But some men really find the personality important. Myself included. When looks are faded, can the couple still stand each other? Do they have anything else in common besides sexual attraction, which were based on looks in the beginning? This is where personality becomes real important. Is that what you asked? Does that help?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 12:14 PM
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Thanks, I wasn't sure what the OP meant.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 04:18 PM
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Great advice. A person working hard to focus on what they can change, can help a person regain control of their life, and leads to happiness eventually. Think long term.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:54 PM
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For most men: The looks gets you the first date. And the second date. etc. For some men: The looks gets you the first date, but the personality gets you the rest of the dates. You can reduce the appearance of your forehead with a different haircut perhaps. I'm no expert in haircuts. Try to get in shape. Some people wear their weight well, some don't. But most men like slim girls. If you're not slim, your dating pool is reduced. I don't know what you look like, and perhaps you are being too hard …
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:47 PM
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I agree with your generalizations, which shows a real trend among men and women. Likewise, male sexual desire is for quantity, to have as much sex as possible with as many women as possible. This is a real trend, but there are exceptions to this too. I was never about sleeping around. And the best partners I've had are steady partners. Biological drives are also tempered by individuality and society too. But for people to make decisions based on a minority of cases does not seem prudent.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:37 PM
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Loneliness_Inc You have a good point, and this is a serious problem for younger generations. The problem seems even worse in Japan where men pay for hugs and cuddling with a girl. I've been trying to talk to all men for 3 years on Reddit, longer on other sites. I've been trying to talk about the science behind relationships, what works and what doesn't, and it has been very difficult as I've been downvoted to the negative at almost every comment.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:33 PM
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Using your looks in marketing business seems reasonable. Marketing is about using all assets at your disposal. However using only your looks in dating could attract men where looks are the primary thing with them. And that could lead to trouble down the road.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:28 PM
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Yes, if you have the money. We had one come every 2 weeks. She charged about $10 more per hour because it wasn't every week, but we saved money each month. But get personal recommendations from friends or people you know. That's really important. And just to be safe, before we knew her, we locked up our valuables before she came. We never did have a problem with her. Watch their cleaning quality. Don't get too upset if they didn't measure up to your expectations. If they aren't working out, just…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:20 PM
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What defines a "red pill orbiter"?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:14 PM
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As if feminists would actually help fight off Shia Muslims.
/r/MensRights21/04/17 01:43 PM
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Most American women are not worth LTR. I'm in my late 40s and I've been dating off and on since the 1980s. I had hope that my generation (GenX) would eventually mature as they got older. I was very disappointed. The single GenX women in their 40s are still mostly clueless about money management, relationships, and the ones that are still single, still lack most basic adult skills such as preparing for the future. Almost all of them have deal-breakers for me. After my divorce I had some fun, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:33 PM
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I thought men had unconditional love and loved you for who you are. You are delusional. Lol. Most American men are very focused on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:26 PM
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Yep. Cholesterol is a major component in making testosterone. My cholesterol is very low which might be part of my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:23 PM
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Your wife gets breast cancer. She loses both her breasts, goes bald, and loses 30 lbs. This actually happened to me. We were even married for 10 years. AND she got a double-mastectomy. But she was REALLY abusive, I stuck with her through her last chemo treatment, and divorced her ass. Then I learned not to be the punching bag and I have better boundaries now. Your wife quits her job which pays $100k a year due to extreme bullying and harassment bringing her depression and anxiety. The depression…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:20 PM
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I don't hate women. I'm frustrated with American women. Most of them have some major problems which don't earn them LTR from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:14 PM
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but Stanhope says that street violence in America is fairly rare, or words to that effect That depends where you go. If you go downtown to Detroit, Chicago, or LA, violence is more common than in other places, but it doesn't necessarily happen every day on the same street.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:10 PM
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Sounds like a "minority stereotype" to me. Minority stereotype: a stereotype that gets a lot of playtime but it's still only affects a minority of people. Or maybe I just don't follow the majority, because I can think for myself. I choose whom I want, whether my parents are supportive or not. It just so happens I get along with a certain type of girl, and I like smart girls too. However, I have noticed the "girls next door" tend to be more rational. That's a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 09:06 PM
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I couldn't even call the police because I was terrified of them. In Michigan, it's policy to arrest the man automatically in DV cases, regardless of any other evidence. If I was covered in bruises, and she had none, I'd still get arrested. I eventually divorced her, I lost all my share of the house equity, and I'm happier than ever with a real woman.
/r/MensRights23/03/17 07:00 PM
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Not all women are like that. I've seen it myself. There are general trends I could describe about women, usually divided by age groups, and there are always exceptions. The problem in the US is finding the exceptionally good women (feminist or not). Because many of them have a boyfriend starting at age 16 and almost never have a day without one. (In fact this was the case with one of my lady friends.) There are other issues too where people choose a partner based on looks or money alone, and don…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 04:15 PM
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If you are dating a lot of younger American girls, say under age 25, you will be dating girls who have not yet solved their serious inner issues. And in high school there will be a lot of girls, and boys, with issues, including ignorance about how to date. Calling them vamps doesn't solve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 04:01 PM
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Bias. People tend to remember only this certain type for some reason. They don't remember the hard-working types who work on a farm, or the guys who are firefighters, because they don't talk about their job much. Not sure what to call this. Memory bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 03:57 PM
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Just my experience: Not all of them, only 90% of them hate men IME. I just watch their actions, which indicate they hate men. Most feminists are abusive, hateful, and bigoted, and their actions reflect that very clearly. It isn't subtle. There's a reason for the Men's Rights movement, and the feminist bigotry is the reason. Most feminists are not open to any other possible viewpoint at all. There are plenty of videos on Youtube showing how when someone questions a feminist viewpoint, the feminis…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 09:45 AM
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the man should never be blamed when involved in an affair, Wut? The man should take responsibility for his actions. If he doesn't, he's just a boy. The same applies to women. If men are unhappy with their gf, they should take responsibility for their poor choice. And when I did, things got much better. I'm a direct kind of person, and boys that do this make all men look bad, and that affects me as a man. According to them, men are the chasers but women are ultimately the ones that choose. But on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 09:36 AM
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See? Being direct works! Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 09:37 AM
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Limit your texts to 2-3 per day. You just have to show a little interest each day. You don't have to drown him. :) If you haven't texted him today, do that. As a really shy guy this actually worked on me when a girl said: "So, when are you going to ask me out?" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 06:20 PM
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Define "many men". I think your experience might be different from that of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:54 PM
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Just because you picked the wrong women doesn't make them less valuable because they did X. That's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:51 PM
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If they want to immerse themselves in a ridiculous fantasy world, they can do that. It just won't be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:45 PM
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when they make you wait but not other guys; Maybe you are not showing you are confident enough? Most girls like confident guys. Male competition, why commit to a girl who makes you feel like the second place guy. Then don't date that girl. Keep looking until you find a girl that treats you well. Keep in mind she has to earn commitment from you. You don't just give it away. You have to frame the situation, in your head, as you being the person in charge. Besides, waiting 4-8 weeks for the girl to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:41 PM
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People can see my actions in real life. But on the internet I write about the reasons behind those actions. I write about how my experiences have changed my outlook and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:36 PM
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Science shows sexual differences is one of the top 3 reasons couples break up. If she's anti-science, I don't date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:33 PM
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Did you use the word "date"? If so, then that's better. If not, that's still an ambiguous text. You should do texts that are not ambiguous. Follow up on the date tomorrow with a text message. But still text him today about other stuff to show you are interested. Today, tell him he's cute, or he has a nice chest, or biceps. Today, you can also hint about the date, by saying "I'd like to see you." This is how you cross the boundary from "friend zone" to "dating zone". He might also be super nervou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:28 PM
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Almost everyone is afraid of rejection. That's something you and him have in common! Some of my opening lines on my first dates were "I'm sort of nervous. How about you?" Then we started talking and that breaks the ice, because now we know we have something in common. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:18 PM
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It doesn't matter. She should be able to pay all her own bills if she were on her own. That shows maturity. My opinion is not about which job she has, it's about Her making a plan and executing it. Like going to college or trade school, and completing it. This is a higher function of the brain in the "executive functions" class. She should plan ahead for the future and make preparations for emergencies. No one knows when they will have an emergency, but they will have one that requires lots of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:12 PM
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People can't change their hormones, but they can be aware of how they react to those hormones, and now the women can influence their actions toward something more constructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:03 PM
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Then you haven't met a real woman yet. A real woman is rare, but they are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 05:01 PM
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This is just my 30 years of observation of American women. Women assume men want a passive woman. This is not true. I think many men want a responsible woman who's not abusive, and who doesn't have a shopping addiction. I don't want LTR with someone who doesn't know what she needs. Does she need a career? Great! Go get it. Knowing what you need is important. After you know what you need, then you can tell your SO. Woman are good at some things, and most I've seen are terrible at managing money. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:55 PM
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My opinion: I DON'T CARE. Be whatever gender you want, be a tree, it really doesn't bother me. And I'm not going down some pseudo-intellectual rabbit hole to subtly show people I'm superior or something. People are complicated. I find it better just to get to know the individual. But you can't expect to get a job if you're a dude wearing a dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:45 PM
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I hope you did not get offended by my tone. I really do want to help people, I totally understand what it's like to be painfully shy, but sometimes it comes out wrong. But when I did things different, I got much better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:42 PM
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I agree, but it is a bit hard to be upfront when we haven't even been on a date yet! Those are just excuses you make up for not wanting to go out of your comfort zone. Try going out of your comfort zone. Sometimes you won't get what you want, and sometimes you will. I used to be a very shy guy. I know how it is. I'm glad I went out of my comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:36 PM
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If the woman doesn't show she's interested, I can assume she's not interested. I don't think this is a *pill issue, I think it's a communication issue. Be enthusiastic, it looks like confidence. Communication is the foundation of any relationship, it's pretty important. A girl who shows poor communication skills, or doesn't show clearly she likes me, clearly won't get LTR from me. That is one of the top issues I use to separate the children from the women. I like women who are direct. Say what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 04:33 PM
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Ok, I'll have to agree with you, I think you're right. Men are not naturally good at dealing with their emotions, and on certain things, they do get upset very easily about. Plus society tells men they can't show any bad emotions either, so they keep them bottled up, and that can cause problems. Thanks for the comment. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 09:11 AM
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Former delusional shy guy here. Redirecting someone's discontent only deals with the emotions, not the source of the problem. If people want to change their life, they need to change themselves first. A culture of "accepting yourself" does not include all the bad points necessarily, as accepting the bad points, and denying change, will not bring the results the person wants. Letting someone else make you mad also reinforces the idea that one has no control over their life, which is also not true…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:09 PM
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Can confirm. I used to be a wimpy, shy introvert. Now I'm a confident, decisive leader, and most of my dates visibly liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:05 PM
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This is especially true in some states, like Michigan, that has no upper limit on child support people pay. 25% of my net income was quite excessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:04 PM
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A common misconception women might make is the man will ONLY be attracted to body types or actions, in the porn. What I watch in porn has nothing to do with how attracted I am to my wife, or how much I love her. Maybe I'm the exception. I don't want her to change. But my tastes might vary a bit between the way she looks and what I see in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:00 PM
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(Let me know if I violated a rule, it's been a while since I've been here.) Ah, you mean like a hamster running on a wheel but never getting anywhere? It is not unique to women, but they tend to do it a bit more than men. Studies show that women have more connections among neurons, on average, then men. This causes them to over think things, quite often actually. But this makes them great at juggling different tasks. Their brain seems to jump from topic to topic and this is good for certain thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:52 PM
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It's been a while since I've been here. I hope this comment is allowed as long as I make clear this is my experience and the experience of all my male friends. In 30 years, most feminists (about 90% I've met in person and online) are negative people. I don't have the time or resources to do a huge study involving 50,000 people, so I make decisions about my experience, and that happens to be the exact same experience as my friends... over 30 years. Over the past 30 years, IME, feminism has focuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:40 PM
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Because acknowledging how many American women act, supported by studies, is not politically correct at the moment. Some women like being at home to take care of the kids. And they get harassed by feminists too. In the general public's eye, RP behavior is less associated with "leadership" and more associated with "abusive controllers", and they are not the same. Because some dudes be crazy. And some dudes don't know how to be a leader, without being controlling or micromanaging. People are not bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:28 PM
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Whenever someone makes a statement "men do X" I just assume they mean "IME most men to X". That's a given. There are always exceptions to the rule and some people 1) don't see those exceptions or 2) don't want to talk about them for some reason. Never underestimate the power of denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:23 PM
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"This can wait until mansplaining can be eradicated." That's a good explanation of feminist hatred. http://moonbattery.com/graphics/swedish_rape_victim.jpg
/r/MensRights19/11/16 09:13 PM
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Yes, you are in an abusive relationship. She is verbally abusing you. Abuse is defined by a continuing pattern of behavior, not an occasional bad day. You really need to get a divorce. Try to heal yourself so you can protect your kids.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 09:11 PM
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And here I thought it was just feminists verbally abusing the snow, and blaming the snow when it didn't move itself.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 09:08 PM
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Actually, divorce court judges (who are not actually judges, but are called "referees" in my state) in my county are slowly trying to be more fair with men, i.e. they think twice before giving primary physical custody to a mom who has worked 5 days in 5 years, and is a regular drug user. Most of these judges who want fairness for men are... WOMEN!! The male judges are just sexist bitches.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 09:05 PM
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These issues actually happen, whether to me or my friends. This is more an issue of severely immature and insecure women, nothing more. There are a few rational women out there, but not many. If you find one, hang on to her. :) If you choose to stay with an immature woman, that's on you, not her. If she is that bad, just break up already. It really is better to be alone than with someone so irrational.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 09:02 PM
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The national Preventive Services Task Force recommended in February that all primary care doctors, including pediatricians and family physicians, should routinely screen adolescents for depression. OMG, some older doctors still don't believe psychology is a real science and they believe depression doesn't exist.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 09:00 PM
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The world has gone crazy. Makes me glad I have a vasectomy and I'm married.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 08:57 PM
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I don't see how a Facebook reply could make you give up all parental rights, legally, but it might for her state of Florida. OTOH she might be fishing for child support if she couldn't collect from the original father. Never pay child support without a paternity test! Do not reply at all. If she seriously wants child support (CS) you will get a letter from a lawyer. And at that point, demand a paternity test. Lawyering up is also not really an option at this point in my life. You really need a l…
/r/MensRights19/11/16 08:54 PM
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I'm sorry if you had a bad experience. I hope you can find a better therapist that understands men's issues.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 08:49 PM
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IME: Over 30 years almost all feminists have been hostile to men and against men's rights. So while people may want to discuss that aspect of hateful and purposely divisive feminism, it's up to the mods whether to allow it in the Mensrights subreddit.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 08:41 PM
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Men's Day? Wow, feminists must be pissed.
/r/MensRights19/11/16 08:38 PM
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I disagree. I think men are more verbal about their kinks in public than women are, because men don't really care if others judge them but most women do care if others judge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 11:10 AM
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Man here. It's when I have a flat tire and not a single woman offers to help. Or when I sit on my balls. It's really painful. Really. Stupid balls hang lower as a man ages. Stupid gravity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 11:07 AM
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Why are young red pillers who are only in their early 20s maybe, complaining that attractive women do not go for them? Just because one is a red pill doesn't mean they are manly and attractive to women. Your premise appears flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 11:05 AM
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Studies show that men find women with no makeup less attractive, but women dont. First, keep in mind that in order to get a grant for a study, the study, by it's very nature, has to be very narrow and specific. So if this was a questionnaire, the only choices would be "Do you find women without makeup more attractive or less attractive?" Any question without a neutral answer, like "I don't care", is invalid because it truly doesn't cover the range of possible answers humans can give. That doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:59 AM
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Yep. Some guys have a really good game, and they know how to find extremely naive women. I'm not saying it's common though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:55 AM
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I grew up in poverty and am a frugal person myself. I still live with the working poor, not because I have to, but because I choose to have a smaller house payment in order to have financial security. No one, especially not me, is making fun of frugal women, I love them. But when it comes to poor women, they don't even try to be frugal, it's sort of a fake frugality. Ex: "Look! I have the newest Iphone 7 and it's only $120 a month! Can you loan me some money for food?" My phone is $15 a month. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:52 AM
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Man, 40s, purple pill. I think there's more to spirituality than any organized religion says, and religion is the worst thing to happen to spirituality in the history of the world. http://img.astroawani.com/2014-03/51395638721_freesize.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:45 AM
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(Just my opinion based on my 30 years experience.) You are referring to trends with high school and college girls, who are exceptionally immature. This is not how a real woman acts. This is narcissistic because it's a self-indulgence. Women convince themselves they cannot settle for an average man for sex. This is because inexperienced girls (not women) have unrealistic views about dating and sex, and because most young girls are nowhere near their sexual peak, which generally begins at about ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:43 AM
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No. I'm in my 40s and I don't like girls that are too young. They are much more immature than even my own generation, which was bad enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:37 AM
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It's rational for high-income men to look for mature women (age has little to do with maturity these days) who are committed, and who are not gold diggers. If you won't be choosy about who you marry, don't blame her because it didn't work out, you're the one who married her and you have to take some of the responsibility for that. While my first marriage didn't work out, I take full responsibility for not listening to my gut feeling, and for making a decision while lacking experience. I had only…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:30 AM
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My experience: Women reject men who ONLY show weakness and rarely show strength. That's not the same as "showing weakness". I can go out, fix the roof, fix the car, come back in the house dirty and sweaty, grab my woman for a kiss, then shed a tear at a sappy movie and my wife loves all of it. Theory: Women who depend on externalities (like depending solely on men being emotionally strong) probably will not like men who show any weakness at all because that woman's security doesn't have a strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:28 AM
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I'd like to mention something about the dangerous jobs. Men take on dangerous jobs where they can die suddenly, like an iron worker 30 stories up in the air. But they also take dangerous jobs where they are slowly killed by exposure to pollutants like coal dust, saw dust, silica dust, chemical fumes, and more. Also, testosterone is a hell of a bad drug. It's really bad for the circulatory system in chronic high doses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 10:24 AM
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Each time she shoots a white man she should get shot in the foot. The symbolism would be hilarious.
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:44 PM
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This would never happen in Michigan. Twice my ex denied me visitation rights. Did I mention she violated a court order for doing that? The court did nothing but tell her to give me make up time.
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:32 PM
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I smell a lawsuit. More sexism from the f3min1sts. Because we don't want any eye-rape. I have noticed that in men's rights groups there are fewer hysterical men. In feminist groups, especially on Reddit, there are a LOT more hysterical women who don't understand basic definitions of words from the dictionary. They make up their own definitions to suit their personal insanity.
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:27 PM
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In 1989 the number was 1 in 3 women will be "sexually assaulted". This includes rape, unwanted touching, unwanted kissing, unwanted verbal assaults such as "Can I get your number?" So, yes I can see why the misleading inflated number is 1 in 3.
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:25 PM
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I would like people to note that women in the 1800s women were critical to the running of a farm. They did a lot more of the "light" work, but if they were strong enough to handle 2 large horses, then a few also did the plowing.
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:23 PM
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The pay gap is tiny when you account for many, many variables that exist, like time of worker's experience in that job, type of job chosen, size of city the job is in, etc. Women get less pay because they quit for 5 years to have a kid, and when they come back, that huge empty space in their resume counts against them. They haven't practiced their "craft", whatever that is, and that lack of practice matters. If I, as a man, had taken a year off computer programming to take care of my kid, it wou…
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:20 PM
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Welcome to equality, ladies! Because equality means equal sentencing and punishment.
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:17 PM
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Baby steps, one at a time. Now if women would only stop assuming all men are pedophiles and rapists. I thought people were innocent until proven guilty?
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:17 PM
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This kind of hostile work environment opens up a lawsuit against the camp for hiring sexist workers. He should sue and get rich.
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:10 PM
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With that said, why do you assume all aggressive personalities are abusive and insecure? Because I differentiate between "aggressive" and "assertive". Others might have different definitions, which is why a discussion involving "aggressive" should be defined by each poster. Aggressive: trampling others' rights to get one's own way for selfish reasons. This is a dysfunctional, often abusive and possibly mentally ill personality. Assertive: standing up for one's reasonable rights in an active mann…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 10:51 AM
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Your context might very well be today's modern extremist feminism, and I would agree with your comment in that context. But no, i'm not talking about forcing boys to lose their masculinity. I'm talking about everyone having different experiences while embracing their nature. I think it's fine for boys to be masculine or girls to be girly, except when it becomes extreme or dysfunctional. The problems with feminism today are it's extremely hateful and dysfunctional and it doesn't compromise as it …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 10:47 AM
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Michigan already has several degrees of "sexual assault". One of the lowest degrees is unwanted touching of a person's genitals, breasts, or butt with clothes on. And one guy was prosecuted under this "degree" because he kept touching a girl's butt at the bar on the (very crowded) dance floor even after she told him to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 08:17 PM
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The anecdotal and physical evidence is overwhelming. If this was a gigantic 10000 year hoax (evidence goes back more than 10,000 years) why does physical evidence keep disappearing? Especially the good stuff? Claiming mass hysteria is ridiculous. Most of the people don't want to tell their story of abduction as they are afraid people will laugh at them, yet they are still traumatized by something that happened. Yes there are some frauds out there. Not all the people involved are mentally stable.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 08:03 PM
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If he does not, I can take legal action, and I will win. Your argument is valid but does not actually reflect reality. The reality is 95% of people do not have the money for a legal battle. There's a difference between theory and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:54 PM
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You mean like "I have the right to Basic Income without earning it!" Why don't they just say "I have no valuable skills because I make poor choices. I need someone to take care of me!" In some countries people must walk 10 miles for clean water and even then it is not clean. A person cannot survive without clean water. So in this case, access to clean water is what they want. Not free water. But trucking in free water may be cost effective due to the huge amount of red tape it would cost to clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:53 PM
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Sexual assault = yes. Even after she said no he physically pulled her into the tub. When an older woman forced herself on me, she was trying to kiss me, drag me into the bedroom, and take off my clothes all while I kept saying "no no no no!" I was so drunk I couldn't get away from her. Any unwanted touching of a sexual nature is sexual assault. Michigan has several degrees of SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:51 PM
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false rape accusations back and fort and stripping poor defenseless men off their resources The majority of women are not like this and I have never seen anyone say they are the majority. But they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:45 PM
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I think there is "toxic masculinity", as I'm a man and have experienced it first hand many times. But that doesn't mean all masculinity is toxic. Some groups imply or even say that all masculinity is toxic. But there's also a lot of younger guys that are clueless about dating and relationships and are too scared to take a chance. If you're not going to ask someone out you will have a hard time getting a date. lack of positive father figures or other male models along with living in an overall gy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:40 PM
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If someone makes a safe space where people can't disagree with them (there are several subreddits like that) then I cannot possibly take them seriously. There's a difference between a safe space where people are not allowed to disagree, and a safe space that simply keeps out a-holes and trolls. I'm ok with the latter, because often there is a reason for that, and a safe space is needed to talk about sensitive topic like mental illness. People are going to disagree with you sometimes. Grow up and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:28 PM
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When I go from waiting for women to fall all over me, and bitching when they don't, to going up to women and asking them out on a consistent basis. And when I stop crying when they reject me, then I'm on the way to alpha. When I want something I go get it. That doesn't mean I get it every time, but at least I don't run to my safe space and shiver in fear and self-loathing. Wait, are you asking just women? What about gay guys who are attracted to alpha males.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:24 PM
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Can someone define "bloopers" for me? Because there is actually a frozen yogurt place called "Bloop" and I have froyo on my mind. (And don't go there. It's super pricey and not that good.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:20 PM
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In terms of my closing thoughts, the Western world strikes me as extremely Beta Just because that is the dominant media narrative doesn't make it factually true. HOWEVER, at this point in history in America, there are probably more betas in the general population than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:15 PM
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unconfident, no ambition and no flirting skills. I wouldn't date you, and I don't date girls like that either. Confident people are looking for someone confident for the most part. Things just work out better that way. Why do you keep saying TRP works on and predicts female behavior in only a small subset of women when CLEARLY it's the opposite? There's a big difference when talking about a high school girl who doesn't know what she wants, and has 1950s ideas about dating put into her head from …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 07:07 PM
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I didn't get to see my kids for that weekend. I scheduled another weekend to see them. This is not extra time above and beyond what I normally get. It's going back to the normal amount of time to see the kids. The normal thing the court does when someone breaks a court order is they are arrested, put in jail, until they are tried and might get a fine or more jail time. The courts make arbitrary exceptions for women because of the pussy pass. That is not justice nor is it equality. This is just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 02:50 PM
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I agree women are the larger consumers, just look at all the advertising that's directed at them. But if a man is spending lots of money on a shallow, materialistic woman, that was his choice to do and you can't blame that on women. Doesn't TRP promote personal responsibility and better choices? Also, when you account for many variables, which the oft-quoted "wage gap" study did not, the actual wage gap is only about 5% difference. This has been debunked over 18 months ago. Women simply choose l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 02:40 PM
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In other words do all men have pedophilic tendencies deep down? I don't think so. If they have developed enough I might be attracted to an 18yo, but then some 18 year olds still look (and act) like 12 year olds, which is a turn off for me. I'm more attracted by the personality than looks, but they do have to have a minimum "look". Like, not looking like a 12yo. I see women age 21 or 28 who are very petite, flat-chested, have no hips at all, and still look like a 12yo. I just don't have attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 02:33 PM
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My parents are divorced and so am I. The reason I got divorced was I picked poorly, because I had other issues I hadn't yet dealt with. While she chose to be physically and verbally abusive, I take responsibility for choosing poorly. No fault divorce did not ruin things for men, it's the ridiculously high child support and alimony rates that did. Because of high CS and alimony, more and more men don't want to marry at all, and I don't blame them. No fault divorce lowers court costs for both peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 02:22 PM
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I like aggressive women. But that doesn't mean I'm a submissive. Too many people assume I'm a sub. I'm not. I just like to know where the woman is at and what she's ready for. It's just another mode of "clear communication" for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 02:06 PM
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There's not just one reason. It was the woman's choice so it's their problem. Why is that not obvious? Some women have a "Jesus complex" and they like the fixer-uppers. In extreme cases the "Jesus complex" can be really harmful to the woman. LOTS of women assume the man will change. That's a horrible assumption and it's asking for disaster. The men almost never change. The women might think they can't get anything better. Many women don't know how to read red flags. Red flags are a history of be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 02:02 PM
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People have also said that I can be very intense and intimidating (just for context: I'm a pretty bright guy with the body of a rugby player). Ah, you have the "too hot to date" syndrome. I learned in college that I had that too. No girl approached to ask me out because I was "out of their league". I was a very fit bodybuilder. It didn't help I was very smart and had a resting murder face. :( Girls who are attention whores try to play me all the time, It's because you have perceived social value…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 01:57 PM
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IMO: the woman knows what she wants and she knows what makes a successful relationship, and the man makes her happy. If I talked to these women I bet she knows much more about psychology and relationships, and has much better communication skills than most other women. I.e. she knows what she wants, and she asked for it, and she got it. Imagine that! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 01:49 PM
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I had my ex deny my visitation rights twice. I reported it each time to the correct authorities using the correct form. In Michigan the divorce agreement is turned into a court order. The DA includes asset division, child custody, visitation rights schedule, etc. When she violates my visitation right she is violating a court order. Normal people who violate a court order go to jail, but in Michigan, women don't. They only thing that happened was my ex had to give me "make up time" of my choosing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 01:41 PM
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I looked deeper into this issue and found out that men don't ask for custody because the don't think they will get it, which is a result of demonization of men in the courts since the 1970s during "Women's Lib". Why does demonizing men have to liberate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 01:38 PM
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Divorced guy here (and remarried). I didn't really believe the horror stories I hear about Michigan divorces and how the man gets screwed, until I went through it. All the stories are true. In Michigan: The parent with primary custody is usually the wife. It doesn't matter if she has a history of working and being able to take care of a kid. The wife gets half the assets, PLUS child support and in some cases PLUS alimony. That means she ends up with more than half. The wife will also get half yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 01:28 PM
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That's not true in every case. My mom was very nice but also batshit crazy. Things went bad not because my parents were divorced, but because my mom was batshit crazy. There are quite a few women who just don't know how to raise kids, especially boys. Some boys need a firm hand and when the father isn't there, there is no firm hand, and sh*t spins out of control due to an incompetent mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 01:17 PM
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The assumption that all women are the same, when they are not. In their experience the majority of the women they met were the same, but that doesn't match my experience. I do see some of the same trends that TRP does, but I don't make absolute statements about all individuals in a group. Not all women like a dominant/confident man, but I'd say at least 40% do. That's a big chunk of women if you divide them into multiple groups. I don't see the majority if women as being selfish, but perhaps I j…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 01:10 PM
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Often the insecure person doesn't believe they are lovable, for whatever reason. They might think the other person is not committed. The insecure person, because they believe they are not lovable, might believe their SO will leave them for tiny reasons. Is every situation where someone doesn't trust their partner fueled by insecurity? I'd say many situations are fueled by insecurity, but neither party may know it. Some people are so insecure they are just angry all the time so they don't see the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 12:59 PM
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Male entitlement is something that the media makes up so blame males for everything, when in fact the blame might be better put on a system which cannot get mental help to people who need it. Abusive men, and women, are just angry people who get physical, and they need help. They also need to be put in jail. The media often makes vaaaasssst over generalizations to sensationalize a story in order to sell it. The US media is not about relating facts, it's about making money, by making sensational …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 12:53 PM
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It looks like a coping mechanism for socially awkward people, of which I used to be one. I'm for coping mechanisms but only as a starting point, not as a life style. You are weird and akward. This one is the most common one and its usually out of shitty childhood exps. Much more common that people talk about. My childhood was pretty f*cked up. Certain things tend to affect a child's sense of security in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 12:48 PM
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I see a LOT more drama in the Millennial girls these days. It's not your fault. So does my wife who works with them every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 12:44 PM
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This person gets it. I have the same experience. Women want to date, and marry, "up" the social ladder. They aren't happy marrying someone who is lower on the social ladder than they are, with a few exceptions. I'm just talking general group trends here. Most young guys haven't dated enough of a variety of people to really understand this. I did date a girl quite "up" the social ladder from me. While she was very nice and I truly loved her, we really were incompatible, and her dad assumed she wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 12:40 PM
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Experienced divorced guy here. If you hold a man's hand and he makes you feel warm, safe and secure, hold onto him. Basically - "Marry a beta... hopefully you will learn to love him." That's not what it says at all. What the saying means is the girl will eventually tire of the man that excites her, and she'll be unhappy in the long term (in general). But the second more "safe feeling" guy will actually have a better chance of making the girl feel secure. You see when people are young they want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 12:38 PM
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Secondly, it pins beta men as feminine, Well, one of the defining traits of femininity is being passive, hence being passive tends to be linked to women. Or maybe I should say girls instead. Primal masculinity is very different. It involves being fierce, aggressive, impulsive, and boldness. I don't agree. I think you are confusing abusive douche bags with being "masculine" when a girl can be just as abusive. (See my ex-wife.) Being an abusive, insecure twat has nothing to do with being masculine…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/16 12:28 PM
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Out of 50+ documentaries I've seen about cultures all over the world I rarely see women ploughing. If you, for example, live in a place where you see women commonly ploughing then that's your context. I just rarely see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 08:16 PM
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I need a source for that. Last article I read is "Most women are probably bi, if all social barriers are removed". That's different than just stating "most women are bi".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 08:53 PM
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Not TRP, but...some of us actually are very confident and like a more laid-back wife. I know what I want and I want to be in charge, especially of money. If she's some stock market whiz bang, you will certainly see me say "shut up and take my money!" Lol. My wife is also in charge of other things. I don't want to be a micro manager. If you want to use TRP as a model for dating and dating interactions, whatever, but that's not my path. I take my own path. That's what an alpha does. And I don't mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:11 PM
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Im not sure what to ask, just that i dont get why women are like this. everything is fucking about victimhood and disregard of responsibility to yourself. A lack of personal responsibility from women is the reason I got so frustrated during dating. I don't ask "why", I simply find another woman. "Consent is the presence of a yes, not the absence of a no. Not fighting back physically or screaming for help, doesn't mean you consent. It means you're scared." I agree, especially for new couples, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:07 PM
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No. Once you say "all" I only need one instance to disprove your assumption. I know some women who just have zero interest with being with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:03 PM
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Ok, I'm going to assume you're a woman because of your username. As a guy, I was also afraid of gays a long time ago, simply because I didn't know them that well, nor did we have a chance to really talk about things like this. At the time, emotions were too high about homosexuality to talk about anything, thus preventing dialog and progress. As I got to know them, I found they were just normal people, like everyone else and I'm fine being around them. You should get to know some gay people. Mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 05:00 PM
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Here, the women is taking any sort of negative perception of herself from others as gender based oppression, while in fact it could have nothing at all to do with gender. Or maybe the company doesn't want to train her, only to have her leave in 2 years to have a baby and never come back. That happens you know. Another example could be with the idea that all men are potential rapists. Using that logic, all women are potential rapists too. But we know neither is likely. As long as women keep the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:54 PM
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I don't believe anything from tumblr.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:50 PM
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/u/dakru would make a great mod. I've seen their writings in other places for 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:47 PM
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Virtually all men want thin/good looking women. I guess I'm the outlier then. IMO A woman's personality is the primary factor for her ability to keep an LTR going. Looks are secondary to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:43 PM
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It's the internet. I already know it's anecdotal evidence. Who would assume it's the whole truth? I'm not going to assume malice just because someone has a different view than me, based on different experiences than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 04:38 PM
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Racism from Google defintions: "the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races." I never said one race was superior to another. Also, it's well-known that people from Muslim countries, or India, can be super conservative. Like, beat your wife, cut off your head conservative. And for some reason they find that unappealing. Having preferences based on race, is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 04:05 PM
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Anything can be harmful to people if they don't have a solid sense of self or lack a lot of confidence. Happiness is not achieved just be reading material on the internet, it's achieved by experience, by action, by doing, by trying and failing, and then getting back up again, and learning from your experience. It's achieved by internally dealing with your problems, not just avoiding them, and growing as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:58 PM
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There is no sales pitch from me. I'm just tired of extremism from both sides, so I'm purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:52 PM
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It's legal for women to run around naked in New Orleans with nothing but body paint on. I didn't see any pasties. There is an area in New York City where girls go around with only pasties on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:47 PM
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I actually found what I was looking for: an adult woman who is funny and caring. Not only do I love her, but I just plain like her. Take away all the sex and the dating, would I still want to hang out with her? Yes. That's how I know it's a good match (along with a lot of proactive thinking.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:43 PM
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As far as the hiking goes: Make sure you have a good pair of hiking boots and they are broken in for 4 months before you go on the trip. Foot problems could be a major problem if you aren't prepared. Practice walking 5-10 miles a day to get your feet in shape for the trip. Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:39 PM
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First, I'm neither pill, so I call myself a purple pill, and I just like to read some of the discussions here. How do you manage shared property? Her clothes are hers, my clothes are mine. I bought the house long before we started dating so she is not on the title. We have a prenup and our bank accounts are separate and will stay that way. We decided to do that so we wouldn't fight about money. How is being a grown up and paying bills and cleaning the house handled? Because of our money situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:32 PM
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IMO, the Nice Guy who puts "nice" coins in to a girl and expects sex to come out, I think that's rare. The Nice Guy who tries to get girls by being extra nice, certainly does exist. I used to be one. While there were certainly a few girls who chased me, they were mostly put off by my lack of assertiveness. And I've certainly seen lots of guys like this, but I'm not saying they are the majority of guys. TL;DR: Girls tend to like assertive, confident guys. Who woulda thunk? lol. These men turn dar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 10:43 AM
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"I've always been into busty, skinny blondes or brunettes. I'd love to meet someone who looks like Natalie Portman". Lol. Natalie Portman isn't that busty if you look at all her roles, especially before Star Wars. She just wore a tight suit on Star Wars sometimes. Since then it's possible she had a boob job. I mean the generalizations being thrown about men left and right. Relax. It's the internet. And the OP was talking about a ComicCon speed dating situation, which is naturally skewed towards …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:35 AM
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No. Some women do have anxiety disorders (which leads to paranoia and negativity) and some have depression (which also leads to negativity), but a normal woman does not start out misandristic. Although she can certainly go through trauma, and become angry with men later. Emotional trauma can cause someone to do crazy things, even completely forget it ever happened, in a desperate attempt to keep the mind from imploding. PTSD (which IMO, is on the extreme end of an anxiety disorder created by eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/15 09:28 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 05:07 PM
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Not in primitive societies that do this bloody sheet thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:43 PM
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Why are the cows scared in the first place? Enquiring minds want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:29 PM
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cherry picking That's one big reason why I'm not very RP. That's also the reason why I'm not an SJW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:10 PM
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Ask a girl out. Be cautious with online dating. It's not a great place to find quality people. Get fit. In dating, attraction matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:06 PM
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So the bloody sheet could never be faked using animal blood? I think a lot of the virginity thing came from the Victorian era, as far as Western culture is concerned. The daughter's virginity was an asset that was worth a bigger dowry. A lot of the statutory rape laws came from that era too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:00 PM
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For primitive tribes in general, there are some in Africa, South America, and New Guinea in jungle biomes. Jared Diamond surely has a neat documentary on Youtube somewhere. He studies the natives of New Guinea I think. It's pretty interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 10:07 AM
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If you know anything about tribal life it's that women do almost all the work regarding gardening or gathering and taking care of the children. While men go out and hunt for days at a time. If the men come back empty handed, they don't always help with food gathering in all cultures. This was true of farming cultures too. The women did a LOT of the lighter farm work because she couldn't do the heavy work. The man did all the heavy work, because he was the only one who could, until a male child g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 10:02 AM
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Actually that's really insightful!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 09:51 AM
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Was the poor economy the result of Arnold's doing, or the doing of the CA legislature? Or just the inability of people over there to admit facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:56 PM
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Western civ has a problem right now not because it's Western, but because it's corrupt. But the Western civ is not the only civ that has corruption. See Asian, Indian and Muslim countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:54 PM
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In hard fields like science, tech, maths, you don't have to write many essays. Very true. I had an English professor give me a zero on an essay because my thesis wasn't sufficiently pc. Also true. US uni campuses are the bastion of the left simply because business won't put up with their foolishness. Its that men are being socialized not to do anything else. I don't think that's the whole issue. More men are not going to college because they don't want the college debt. And I think more men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:50 PM
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Guy in his 40s here. She must be responsible and self-sufficient. That rules out 90% of American women right there. Hence my frustration with dating. She must be mature. Age has little to do with maturity. Not everyone learns from their mistakes. No crazy chicks. She must demonstrate knowledge about relationship fundamentals, like communication. I don't look for perfect girls. I look for girls whose quirks I can deal with. She thinks she's quirky, I think she's adorable. That's a win-win for us.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:34 PM
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They're still cute, exploring sex, but not yet too jaded by their bad choices in men. Do I look too old for men now? No. You need to look for men who look deeper into their mate for positive qualities. And the fact that I'm a darkskin black women (another barrier in my way) makes things even worse. Could you explain more about this in your original post? Then post a reply here to say "See updated post". Is there some type of discrimination in the black community in the US with dark skinned women…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:29 PM
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Adults should understand that their choices have consequences, good or bad. That's part of being an adult. This is not a man or woman thing. I said women created the sexual market place we now have - one in which women have virtually complete sexual freedom Not in my world. and economic freedom. Wut? Show me one woman, one, with my income level, that creates more wealth than I do. Most women are not proactive, that's why I say they tend to be destroyers of wealth, not creators of wealth. Wealth …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:18 PM
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I would be willing to submit that it is more common to see an alpha with flaws than one without. I have to agree here. I see too many guys who are "fake alphas". They have no idea how to alpha, they just try to fake it. They think bullying people is being alpha when it's not. They go around bragging how alpha they are. True alphas don't need to brag, they simply are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:14 PM
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I personally think learning to accept responsibility is more of a learned behavior than an inherent characteristic. I agree. IMO RP tends to be conservative, with a better work ethic. BPers tend to be liberal and Democrats. Based on the results I see, the Democratic philosophy is founded upon stealing from the rich, to give to the poor, so the poor don't have to work. Welfare pays more than min wage in 35 US states. Nor am I claiming the current Republicans have their shit together either. Trick…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:10 PM
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I'm not sure. I'm sure I get the occasional downvote because I go on a tangent sometimes. Also, personal responsibility is not real popular on Reddit. And the Reddit demographic skews heavily towards ages 18-25, the unemployed, and the less educated. No surprise that personal responsibility is unpopular on Reddit in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:06 PM
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I've heard people online and IRL say that it's bad to marry a woman too educated (Indian or American), as they tend to have stratospheric expectations This IMO has less to do with education and more to do with how they were raised. But there will be exceptions to this too. The girl you are marrying might be a reasonable person, but how do you really know that if you don't get to know her first? Isn't marriage important enough in your culture to make a careful, informed decision? Your best bet is…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 01:00 PM
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Former nice guy here. Nice guys are not bold and assertive with their sexuality/interest. You nailed it. Once I became more confident and assertive, my dating life improved dramatically. Lots of women like a guy who takes charge, and take charge I did, with no apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:48 PM
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Interesting post! Because this is the same thing that happened in the Middle Ages. Women, especially the middle and upper class, were often the aggressors when chasing men, and were often the initiators of sex. There is also one case where a woman kidnapped her lover one day to have her way with him, simply because she had the urge to merge. Not that he minded a whole lot. lol. And then we had the Victorian Age which started the whole "sex is bad and virgins are worth actual money/dowry" concept…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:45 PM
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OP was presenting a theory, and was very clear about that. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:40 PM
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I don't have a problem with the threesome or women's sexuality. But if she's having sex in a public alley, did she think there was no risk of getting caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:34 PM
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I got a vasectomy because I'm not a wimp. Also, it was less out of pocket cost, less recovery time, and less risk. It was easy. And I got ice cream. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:31 PM
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Found the first book with all the studies: "Managing Human Resources for the Millennial Generation"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:09 PM
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American white women don't hate other races, or brown people, they just prefer dating white people. Do not conflate a preference with hate or bigotry. They are not the same. Also, it's well-known that people from Muslim countries, or India, can be super conservative. Like, beat your wife, cut off your head conservative. And for some reason they find that unappealing. Americans can be paranoid about brown people who grew up in other countries. Really, can you blame us?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:00 PM
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It's hilarious, unsurprising, and I can't wait to grep through it for a good laugh. Also, many guys cheat because their wives are sexually inhibited. Not condoning cheating or anything. This is not an excuse, just an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:55 AM
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Because after a while it just becomes annoying. Just like women treating me as nothing more than a wallet for decades became annoying. Wouldn't you get annoyed if most women just treated you as a wallet or source of entertainment or free dinners?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:49 AM
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Yes, many of the studies had samples too small to be meaningful, that's why I try to find the sample size in the study before I read on. However, psychology has helped me immensely with my relationships, work, and personal life. Psychology provided models I can understand, which provided me goals to work towards. Psychology is not an exact science. Even in therapy you are relying on a patient to self-report symptoms and there is always a problem with consistency of reporting and definition of sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:47 AM
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I expect that a good number of them will ditch the "must be as educated as I am" expectation/requirement -- we already see a lot of these nurse/fireman, teacher/contractor marriages anyway, A lot of college-educated professionals earn a lot less than a contractor or plumber who owns his own business. Food for thought. You don't need a college degree to make lots of money. But it helps to educate yourself in the area of work you are doing. My plumber gets $150 per hour because he has advanced cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:43 AM
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Women, in general, mature emotionally faster than men, so women tend to gravitate to older men for this reason. Also, women are attracted to men who are more financially secure, or who appear to be. It doesn't matter if they are, the men just have to appear to have more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:40 AM
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many people just cohabitate anyway without needing a legal contract . A lot of them even have kids. It's more complicated than that. The people that do not get married do so because they get more welfare benefits that way. And they lie about living together on federal forms too. Source: I have friends that do this. While I'm generally against marriage I happened to find a really great woman and got married again. But getting to know the parents is important, the nut doesn't fall far from the tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:33 AM
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Americans associate nudity with sex. Very true. I talked to someone from Norway and teenage guys and girls go nude in the local sauna and it's not sexual. It's just what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:29 AM
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Puritan roots and a fear of change. American has had irrational hysteria regarding certain things for hundreds of years. One time it was alcohol (though in some towns alcohol-related violence was a MAJOR problem), another time it was porn, another time it was pot (still is), another time black people, another time gay people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:27 AM
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If you have more bad experience with women than good, then I can understand your frustration. But really, is it all THEIR fault? Or is it partly your bad choices? What can you do to improve your luck in dating? You don't improve your results by waiting around for someone else to change things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:25 AM
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Upvote for an interesting comment. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:18 AM
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My personal belief is that if you're part of a movement you need to answer for all its wackos too- If I'm in a men's movement does that mean I'm responsible for the wackos? No. Does that mean I could be assumed to be wacko by association? Yes, that's part of being in a group. Not that I take people who assume things seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 11:14 AM
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Indian men seem to be at the bottom of the ladder in the eyes of American women. Why would you want American women in the first place? Most are extremely shallow or ignorant about how relationships work. There simply is no foundation for LTR there. Since I live in America I have to sift through the dregs. I even started dating someone from Canada things are so bad here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 10:04 AM
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The hook-up club is a place reserved for ... men who have to work their asses off to compete with female standards. So, you have a problem with hard work? I work out to look nice, but I'm not trying to please every woman. That would be pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 10:00 AM
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I think Liv Tyler is beautiful but I haven't seen her be sexy in any of her roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 09:58 AM
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Many men tend to like sexuality that is more raw, like tight jeans and tight braless tshirt. Most women don't like that because that jean girl gets more attention, and the other women are jealous they can't attract a man like that. Also, "attractive" is too general a word. There is "beautiful", then there is "sexy", they are not the same. Then there's "classy sexy" like in a long, low-cut evening gown.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 09:56 AM
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Also what is reasonable for a woman to expect out of a man? Reliability, honesty, good communication. The foundation of a relationship is good communication. But that requires that both people know what they want in the relationship first. In perfect world how would structure your relationship? She makes my perfect dinner, BJ, then my favorite TV show and we snuggle. in reality how would structure your relationship? She already makes my perfect dinner, then BJ, then we snuggle with my favorite T…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 09:54 AM
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The first book, supported by a bunch of major studies and other books (which were based on studies), I can't remember. This is another book: "The Next America" by Paul Taylor. I haven't red much of this one, the first book was much more interesting. They were highlighting differences between Millennials and other generations. They weren't saying a majority of Millennials were X, but it's easy to interpret that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 09:49 AM
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If one is in a committed relationship they expect their SO to remain committed. That was the agreement. If someone breaks that agreement that's a breach of trust, and not many relationships can survive without trust. I've been in an open relationship with a woman. We agreed in the beginning it would be casual and nothing more. We agreed to tell each other when we have another date with someone else. As long as we did that, we were fine. If she didn't tell me, there was a breach of trust there. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 09:44 AM
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I’d put all my eggs in one basket This is a common mistake beginners make. I've been there too. This is not a millennial problem, but the millennials happen to talk about it more. This was going on in the 1980s when me and my friends started dating too. The only difference was the outward expression of the frustration of not knowing better. You date the person you kind of like to distract yourself from the fact that the one you really like hasn’t texted you back in three days. This is where I as…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:31 AM
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women should be treated as humans, but not as men. Yet feminists argue that women can do anything a man can, yet recent history shows they choose not to. So I argued that women aren't equal to men, simply because they don't even try. I'm not arguing that women are men, I'm arguing they SHOULD be as responsible as men, yet society does not enforce that, and most women don't choose to be as responsible as men. The results speak for themselves. Women want to be taken seriously but, as a group, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:22 AM
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I don't know about nannies, but childcare runs $500 per month and up in my area, and $1500+ in big cities like New York.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 12:18 AM
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Some women really do want to stay at home, not have a job, and bake cookies, and please their man. But some women do it out of a sense of guilt, those women probably won't be real happy throughout their life. Do what makes you happy. It doesn't bother me. But if someone says "women who stay at home contribute financially" then I will have to disagree. You can't contribute financially unless you have a job, or a business that makes a profit. Women who stay at home help by doing the housework, mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 09:38 PM
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Far too many women want the man to pay for all the dates, and far too many women are too passive about their relationships, especially when they choose to stay in bad relationships. This makes the woman look like she wants someone else to do the hard work, and they aren't equal to men. This says something about women as a group: they tend to be passive. That's not true of all women but it's a strong trend I've been seeing for 30 years. Women are not subject to the same jail terms as men for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 09:29 PM
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Former shy guy here, and yes, I had poor boundaries and was very unhappy with dating for a long time. Here's how I changed things. I wanted a woman who is supportive, realistic, practical, and who pays for half the dates. I did not keep dating people who did not meet these criteria. Within 3 dates I decided if I wanted to keep dating them or needed to get to know them more, or if they just would never have what I was looking for. I developed better boundaries. I didn't put up with drama and rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 09:07 PM
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It's like all the red pill said was: lift, get big, maintain frame In dating, physical attraction matters, and helps you get the first date. This is advice to help you get that first date. Nothing more, nothing less. Beyond the first date, people vary too much to give over generalized advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 08:58 PM
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In a minority of rape cases, that's what the "experts" say, but I'm not so sure. In the minority of rapes, a guy with very poor social skills, even to the point of being a psychopath, wants sex, and takes it violently. There are certainly cases where the man hates women and does rape to degrade her, but I have seen no reliable evidence for that being the majority of actual rape cases (vs rape convictions). Police records are often only based on convicted rapists, and do not include the ones that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 08:49 PM
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Usually race is pretty apparent with an individual. Sometimes it's not, then people use visual cues, about similar races, to make a guess as to a person's race. Thus race is not a social construct, it's based on physical appearance. Example: I was swimming one time in the summer, my hair was wet and appeared black. I had a good tan going on with an olive cast. Someone asked me if I'm Italian. I'm not. They were simply going off my appearance. I'm actually Irish and Scandinavian, and an olive ski…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 08:46 PM
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Most women, like 90%+, associate money with attraction. This has been done in studies, and said studies have been reproduced on the US show "Brain Games". This is old news. This also matches my 20 years of experience with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/15 08:42 PM
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Thanks for your comment. You are seeing what i've seen consistently for 30 years. I'm for equality but will never call myself a feminist. IME most feminists need to downgrade men to feel better. My family are moderates for equality for all. I rarely meet feminists who are for equality for all.
/r/MensRights26/07/15 12:11 PM
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the stud is often accused of being manipulative, objectifying and evil for not handing out commitment. Is it that hard to see a player for what he is? Why can't people use their agency to educate themselves on what a player is, and avoid them? Why totally blame the player when the other person could have learned more, done better to avoid him in the first place? The player is certainly at fault for lying, but there are other things the victim can do also. If you choose not to educate yourself, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:51 PM
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Yes, I understand false rape claims are rare, but why is rape the one crime that we on the left default to believe the accused party is guilty, Because the left are more liberal, and with liberals, emotions are more important than facts, and rape is a highly emotional topic. The liberals are where we get political correctness, after all, and while people "feel better" about it, political correctness has solved no problems at all, like racial tensions. You can't solve a problem until you talk abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:42 PM
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Use your cautionary mindset, but if it's taken too far, it will poison your relationships. Everything in moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:39 PM
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I can't change your view, because it DOES take confidence to be more open. I was that formerly super shy guy in high school who finally fixed his life, but it took 20 years, and a divorce where I lost nearly everything to find that confidence. If it wasn't for my abusive wife, my life would not have changed into something much better after the divorce. I'm money poor, but happy. But I did it. I'm confident, I ask women for what I want, and most of the time I get it, which makes me happy. The oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:31 PM
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Confidence and stupidity are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:28 PM
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A person who was taught good self-control can do the right thing regardless of their testosterone level. I did and I had very high T levels. Now artificially injecting anabolic steroids (testosterone is one) can cause unnaturally high levels of T, and "roid rage" is a documented thing. But hardly covers a majority of mass shooting cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:18 PM
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Well, we all know that people don't kill people, guns kill people, so banning guns will cause all mass shootings to magically disappear. Amirite? /sarcasm I blame it on the parents and the lack of discipline there is for kids today. The Naughty/Time Out Chair puts a bad acting kid in a chair, the parents ignoring him until he naturally stops crying, it teaches no self-motivation at all. Self-motivation, to do the right thing, and avoid doing the wrong thing, is super important. If a child doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 07:17 PM
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veto power over all decisions regarding what goes into, or comes out of, my vagina. Veto power is not equality. Veto power means only one person has the final say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:18 PM
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Alimony is only for the spouse in Michigan. Child support is for the children. A childless spouse can get alimony. Source: I'm divorced in Michigan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:16 PM
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Because the squeakiest wheel gets the grease. Also because the politicians are so corrupt the feminists will expose their secrets if the feminists don't get what they want. In my 30 years of talking to feminists in real life and online, 90% are extremists, 10% are moderates. My family is more moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:13 PM
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No. But she also earned twice what I made, and was working at the time of the divorce, so I guess her lawyer said she probably wouldn't get it. Because if she asked for alimony, I would have asked for palimony, and possibly gotten it. (P)Alimony is to keep the spouse "in the lifestyle of luxury to which they are accustomed", a quote from Friend of the Court pamphlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:10 PM
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No. American's family court is highly sexist in favor og women. Much of the time a woman will work during the marriage, then if she sees a divorce is imminent, she will quit her job in order to get alimony. It doesn't matter that she has a college degree and has shown for 25 years she is fully capable of working full time and supporting herself, she still gets alimony because at the time of the divorce she has no income, regardless what she made in the past. It's a really fucked up system. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:08 PM
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I agree with you. You separated the vague advice from the things "not to do". The bold advice is too vague to follow, and people often do the wrong things in this context. If you follow this advice in the context of a healthy relationship with healthy boundaries, the advice is sound. It worked for me. My SO likes that I'm hard-working man that doesn't mind getting sweaty and dirty, and loves that I take her when I want her. She wants to feel desired too. But she also very much appreciates that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 02:01 PM
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Maintaining my weight. Working out regularly to be healthy. I already look 10 years younger than I am. My dad is 70 and he looks 50 or less. I'm always learning about my SO so I can be a better partner. Always learning about relationships and psychology so I can better understand people, and my partner. Learning never stops for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 01:54 PM
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I will be getting married for the 2nd time shortly. I got a prenup. I will not marry without a prenup, the risk isn't worth it. If she doesn't understand the risk a man takes, she's not worth marrying. If she really cared about YOU, and not just alimony, she should get sign it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 01:47 PM
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There are small changes happening in Michigan where men are starting to get palimony, but these are only in rare and extreme cases. The law, and judges, simply do not make women be as responsible as men. This is mostly a judge problem as the judges decide how to interpret the laws. The judges are the ones who apply the laws unequally to men vs women. Source: I'm divorced in Michigan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 01:44 PM
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IME not all women are like that. I've met some great women that i can really respect! But they are a very small minority. Most women don't qualify for LTR with me because they lack very basic life or relationship skills, that's my experience. I try to be positive, but reality is not very hopeful at all. I did find a great woman and I'm keeping her. :) I do my best to find great women, I know how to ID them, but I can't help it if they just aren't out there in my dating pool, period. I did everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 01:39 PM
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so let me start by explaining the problem. even if we say men and women are equal in every way, Not true, men and women are not clones of each other, they do not think the same way, and often have different ways of problem solving. you still cannot argue that at the very least men and women differ in the way they have sex. Well yes I can, because I blew away your premise above. Also studies show there are trends in how they approach sex. Women tend to want relationships, and to get to know the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 06:39 PM
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You're cherry picking hateful sentiments from TRP elements from the internet. My 30 years of experience with feminists in real life is filled with similar hate from the majority of feminists, with a few exceptions. The essential elements of feminism these days has been redefined to include man hating and bigotry, and it's not just because of what is on the internet or tumblr either. It's my experience in real life...30 years of real life face-to-face interactions with feminists. When I say I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 06:16 PM
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Porn has been around a long while before TRP. Has it? Porn has been found painted on the walls of Greek and Roman ruins, but the man being in charge of the family unit has been around much longer than that. The Greek and Roman porn is simply the oldest porn we have in our hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 06:13 PM
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If your focus is on STDs then have your partner get an STD check, in the appropriate time frame. So then, what does partner count matter after that? If you're that paranoid about STDs, don't have a partner. Life is about relative risk. If you can't handle any risk at all, have zero partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 05:52 PM
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Is it possible for someone to truly change their personality and not be a fake ? For most people, no. For some people, yes. I did. It took a lot of educating myself, a lot of sacrifice, a lot of work, a lot of determination, a lot of inner strength, but I did it. And I would never claim it was easy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 05:42 PM
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Do you me an feminists in the media, or feminists anywhere? Because on Reddit last week there was a guy on /r/askmen who was just barely kicked in the face by his gf. I said something like "Call the police and press charges. Girls need to know about equality." A girl replied to me and said "I'm a feminist and I agree. Go get her."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 05:22 PM
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This study sounds like the women were coming out of the "honeymoon period" and having reality set in, so a lower libido sounds fairly normal to me. A higher libido is fairly normal during the honeymoon period.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 05:10 PM
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I'm a guy and I disagree. I get it if you're sexually frustrated. But if you are, just admit that. EDIT: I used to blame girls for my frustration, until I took control of my life. It was unfair of me to blame them for my nature. They had nothing to do with my nature, and it was not their fault they were not ready for things I was ready for. I know I can't be every thing to every girl, and I don't take it personally. Not every girl is right for me either. Dating is about trying to find a good mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 05:05 PM
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Gender quotas basically state that the woman is not good enough on her own merit to get a job, so here's a special favor for you, because you're just not good enough, and we feel really sorry for you. I feel the same way about racial quotas. I feel the same way about special classrooms for girls for science classes. This does not teach them skills to deal with more assertive men, which is what they need most. It teaches them that life will coddle them, teaches them they are weak and don't have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 04:57 PM
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I don't see this being a 'male' issue for much longer, especially for the couples of tomorrow. I agree with you, things are changing, but very slowly. Still, the stigma of divorce laws will remain for generations to come. Those horrible memories of inequality and retribution will not be easy to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 05:49 PM
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How familiar is this story: "Help I'm 18-23F and my boyfriend Chad McThunderCock is not doing anything sexually to get me off, so far I've given him oral, anal and let him come on my face but he refuses to return the favour. Also he's been acting really suspicious lately and I think he's cheating on me." This has nothing to do with TRP. Nothing in your post mentioned the girl's responsibility in communication in her relationship. And no mention was made of what she tried to communicate. In /r/as…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 04:07 PM
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Don't settle on personality. When life gets hard, and it will, the partner's looks won't help you solve problems, their personality will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:49 PM
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There's a guy in Detroit who sells raccoon meat to the poor there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:44 PM
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I see "fertility rate" as a physical/medical issue. This is more a social issue with multiple causes coming together at once. There will certainly be major economic problems, especially with gov't retirement systems and welfare systems: less working people to pay in, and more people taking benefits. Right now in the US there are only 2 payers into the Social Security system as Baby Boomers retire, for each retiree drawing benefits. This puts a huge strain on the system. I also see the economy sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:36 PM
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Guy here. It was the 1980s and it was more indirect for me. My friends learned I hadn't had sex, so they tried to find me girls, you know, "a sure thing". Having them do the work was embarrassing for me. They meant well, but, it was awkward. I didn't just want sex, I wanted a connection. It eventually happened, it was all very nice. I don't regret it, it did help my self-esteem a lot. And it stopped the pressure to have sex. The other thing was, I needed to come out of my shell, and that was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:29 PM
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It implies virgins are broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:24 PM
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I disagree because it's a word RP throws around so often, like they feel they have to prove themselves. A confident man doesn't have to prove anything. He just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:17 PM
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He said, "Babe. If you have to call yourself an Alpha. You're not one." Guy here. I agree with your husband. I'm not an Alpha, I cannot be condensed into a label, I simply Am. And that's all I need to Be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:15 PM
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Not really. Not all smart people can leverage that into success in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:12 PM
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Nopill here. Rresponse uses only extreme examples, which does not represent the majority of RP. I'd guess that Rreponse is blue pill, if anything, or is anti-RP. I've hung out in RP for a bit here and there and most guys who seem to subscribe to RP seem to be betas masquerading as alphas, or at least have a distorted view of women. Real alphas don't have to resort to any manipulation to have a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 03:07 PM
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However, when it comes to human behaviors , I have noticed that I am much better at making predictions than my brother . This is why I say men and women have equal value even though they are good at different things. Neither men nor women should be ashamed that we are good at different things. Instead we should be a team, who complement each other, and work together for synergy. We should not strive to be clones. Women should not strive to lift as much as a man. There are some women who can do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 02:11 PM
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As a trend, yes. But I also know of some exceptions. I know a very religious Catholic person who is also a pretty thoughtful progressive. She's not RP at all. In fact she has a higher income, and higher position, than her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 02:05 PM
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Maybe I'm just confident, or not intimidated by a woman's sexuality, but her sexual past doesn't bother me unless her personality has problematic traits, of which too many partners is just a symptom. I.e. if she has attention-seeking behavior at a dysfunctional level, that's bad, but if she plain loves sex, that's ok by me. Everyone is free to choose who they date. If I'm looking for LTR, I need to know sexual compatibility. Sexual incompatibility is one of the top 3 reasons couples break up. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 01:54 PM
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Guy here. IMO marriage doesn't hold people back. It's the potential for failure, and the draconian divorce laws that hold people back. Feminist influence on the divorce laws were supposed to equalize society and empower women to get out of bad marriages, but instead the divorce laws in some states have destroyed the family unit. Getting married, and divorced, is such a huge risk now that more and more men are simply not getting married. Divorce no longer just separates 2 people, it usually finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 01:42 PM
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That depends on their age. IME as a trend: Under age 30 I disagree. Over age 30 I agree. Just because they are talking does not mean they are saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 01:33 PM
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I'm neither RP nor BP: Organizing events such as parties. Multitasking and maintaining lists of things in their heads. There have been studies on this one. Good at sales. They often are good at dealing with people because they are judged at how they look and appear, so they make an extra effort to appear friendly, which helps them get results. There's a reason women become assistants and executive assistants: they are good at managing lots of tasks. They also make good managers in general, if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 01:28 PM
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I posted this thread for someone to convince me that "toxic masculinity" isn't just the normal state of affairs. It's not for me. I don't allow toxic masculinity in my life because I don't allow toxic people in my life. I chose that. I chose to change things starting with me. Toxic masculinity = sexual aggression from men. Sexual aggression from men that is wanted from women is not toxic. There's a lot of women in /r/deadbedrooms that want more aggression from their men. Unwanted sexual aggressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 05:51 PM
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Many women like to feel desired just like many men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 05:48 PM
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Fit guy here. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 05:46 PM
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Men can also Wear clothes that fit right. Don't be a lumbersexual. Have a job that actually pays the rent. Get a decent haircut. "Rolled out of bed" is not a real haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 05:46 PM
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There are trends and there are exceptions. TRP talks about trends but doesn't explicitly say that. When I agree with people about women, I agree because their experience matches mine as a trend, however my current SO defies the trend and is a really great person. Which is why she's a keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:56 PM
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In my opinion and personal experience, porn increases sexual objectification That's fine if you have your opinion. But I can separate fantasy from reality, and I can respect women and have a healthy sex life because I'm not a dumb troglodyte. I'm a smart troglodyte! :) “Women, the most responsible teenager in the house”, IME true for most women under age 30, but as they get older, women are much more companionable? More my type? Mature? Men are committing the majority of these crimes, Correction…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:41 PM
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The injustices are mainly in the insane amounts awarded to mothers. I couldn't afford to live in the same school district when I got divorced, so I couldn't do a joint physical custody thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:40 PM
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"Where is the academic evidence for the claim you just made?" When I say something I say it's my opinion or "based on my experience". I don't make claims about my opinion because my opinion is just my opinion based on my experience. And I stated it was my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:26 PM
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I workout and stay fit. I'm in my 40s and have been working out for 30 years with nary a break. I wear clothes that fit properly, not potato sacks. Baggy shorts have been the primary shorts in catalogs for 15 years and I hate them. I'm confident because I dealt with my problems and I wanted to change and I was willing to work for it. I changed my attitude and stopped whining about shit I could change and shit I couldn't change. Basically, I stopped whining. I say what I mean and mean what I say.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:21 PM
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IMO high partner count is a symptom of a more serious problem, which is emotional problems or just plain being dysfunctional or ignorant of how LTR works. Usually, there are exceptions. Emotional problems is a serious roadblock to a serious relationship. When I got divorced and started dating again in 2011, I could attract lots of women to my bed. The problem was, I didn't want that, I wanted LTR and couldn't find anyone who knew how to relationship. The odd things was, my current SO was inexper…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 02:11 PM
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Both men and women have advantages and disadvantages, to ignore one is not seeing the big picture. But men, have higher death rates from a variety of sources: homicide, completed suicide, heart disease, Selective Service (forced military service during a draft), etc. That is a big disadvantage for men right there. Is this the girl who dressed and acted like a man for about a year? Interesting story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 01:59 PM
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Really insecure whiners who refuse to make actual changes in their life? Yes there are a lot of them these days. Unmotivated to take real action? Yes I'd say that. But "mentally damaged"? I'm not sure I'd go that far. I changed. I'm not sure anyone can though. Maybe I'm just the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 12:22 PM
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This is often perpetuated by posts on the sub by subscribers who seem to legitimately hate women, There's a difference between hating women and being frustrated by dating. Some people might appear to hate women when in fact they are just frustrated. I don't hate women but I did have frustrations with dating, I had trouble for years finding someone worthy of LTR. But I did find her. I found that most women want a strong man to be their rock, their foundation, especially when things get rough. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 12:10 PM
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I'm curious, why is paying child support bad? I'm a guy who supports child support, but the amounts are just ridiculously high in my state. They are based on super-inflated living expenses which have nothing to do with reality or even the lifestyle before the divorce. Typical amounts are 25% of gross income for a guy without primary physical custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 12:03 PM
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They become that way. I was the shy beta guy. Now I'm the confident alpha guy, to use your terms. My dating life improved dramatically once I improved my attitude. Can all betas change? No. Can all people change? No. They have to have the will to change. Can all people lose weight? No. They have to have the will to change. Again, most don't have the will to change. Most aren't willing to work for it. They say they are, but when they have to do actual work, they quit. They are the quitters. Walki…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 11:41 AM
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Like keeping up attractiveness, not withholding sex, being helpful and positive and so on. Isn't that called a good relationship? Why is that considered a game?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 11:34 AM
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Ok, so you don't like women who have a lot of partners, so don't date them. Shouldn't you be concerned with their personality instead, which is highly related to their fitness for LTR? Or are you frustrated with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 11:24 AM
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As an absolute reason for all men? No. As a trend for men? No. Many men cheat because they aren't getting affection of some kind, either via sex, or because she turned into a nagging bitch who had unrealistic expectations and now finds her unvoiced expectations have not been met.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 09:38 AM
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Sometimes but not always. Some people, men and women, have fundamental flaws that they will never fix and these make them unsuitable for any LTR. One has to admit they have a problem before one can fix it. Some people will never admit they have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 07:19 PM
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Yes. I didn't give up and I did find one, but it was a long journey, and I had to deal with my issues first. I thought it was BS at first, but when I dealt with my own issues, and became more confident, I started attracting more confident women, and rejecting less confident women. I hate to admit it, but when I was an insecure guy I attracted insecure women I didn't want to spend my life with. So I fixed that. It hurt when people told me that my insecurity was the root problem, but I got results…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:33 PM
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As a guy I don't understand this at all. I mean...2 wives/girlfriends??? Why??? My SO is great but 2 of her would be a handful! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:28 PM
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But maybe women have more stigma about admitting it on a survey...even if it is an anonymous survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:27 PM
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I think it will be very hard to get studies where all participants are 100% honest. But men might cheat a bit more. But men and women cheat for different, although sometimes, overlapping reasons. Overlapping reasons: One person is not getting enough affection or sex. People can take a lot of abuse as long as it comes with affection. Weird but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/15 05:26 PM
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This is correlation, not causation. Me and my SO have quite different counts, but we are both very happy. There are exceptions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:42 PM
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The US Census counts more than just official American citizens, it counts "documented" and "undocumented" aliens also.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:40 PM
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FYI, the FBI definition of rape was changed in 2013 and now reads: "Revised UCR definition of rape: Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim." So it now counts male rape, while the CDC definition does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:38 PM
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1 in 5 woman get raped on Americas campuses alone every day!!!!!1! So after 5 days everyone on every campus has been raped by cancer-free sharks from the wall of China!!!!!!! Is that enough explanation marks to indicate snark?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:33 PM
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IMO the girl likes "the chase" a little bit. I have never heard of this, but I don't find it unusual either. I find a lot of girls (the ones who know how to flirt) like to be teased with flirting, and I make them work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:31 PM
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It may not have anything to do with attraction, it may have to do with the fact that he doesn't shower enough. There really are not enough details to make a great answer for you. It might also be that he wants anal, and he's just HUGE. No way I would blame her for not wanting to get ripped apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:27 PM
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You're never safe from criticism on Reddit. But you can have any preference you want. Just don't judge or shame people who are different. If I think 100% of X People are dim-witted that's because 100% of my experience says so. And I can choose not to associate with X People. I make my decisions based on my experience, not so much on the experiences of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:25 PM
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This post reminds me of my Medieval literature class. They had the same ideas back then about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:21 PM
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It almost sounds like you're bitter because you can't get laid. There are plenty of loser women out there who think that by totally ignoring men, they can get a date. Or by being 300 lbs overweight they can get a date. Or by adding nothing to the relationship the man will stick around. Dating just doesn't happen that way. Very few guys are into heavy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:17 PM
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The "nice guy" thing seems a pretty obvious case of men responding to incentives via socially-taught (yet factually-ineffective) methods. Bingo. (Former nice guy here.) A few nice guys get some attention in high school, including me, but beyond that the attention fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:13 PM
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What is the biggest factor that contributes to a guy developing into a nice guy, instead of growing up to be a leader minded guy with alpha behaviors? The guys hear, from many sources, that girls like "nice guys" yet never hear anything how girls really like confident leaders. And the guys don't know how to reconcile the two into a cohesive idea. Not only that but in my day we heard "never pressure a girl into anything", and many guys translated that into "don't make the first move". I was raise…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:08 PM
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First, some people conflate their own ideas with those of the rest of the world, which is silly. Other people have different opinions. This is not uncommon for younger people, and I'm not completely innocent in my younger years either. They continuously tell us that men never talk to women unless they want to fuck them. A generalization, probably based on their own viewpoint. They talk about how men must have high partner counts or they're betas. Sounds like their insecurity problem. Possibly fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 04:01 PM
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a lot of red pillers, based on past research which linked dark triad and physical attractiveness, erroneously believe that displaying dark triad behaviors enhances attractiveness. IMO part of this comes from the high-school mentality of girls where SOME girls think aggressiveness and abuse from the guy equal confidence. When in fact they are not the same. Some guys do ID these girls and prey on them, know full well how the girls will react to aggressive/borderline violent guys. I've seen it myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 03:53 PM
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Thank you thank you thank you for replying! Now I wish you could get on the national media. *hugs* I do have the occasional feminist agree with me, but most do not. Ah well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 11:00 AM
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Feminism currently is not about equal rights, nor equal treatment under the law, nor equal responsibility. I'm neither RP nor BP but I thought I'd chime in. I grew up in elementary school in the 1970s where feminism was really big. Even in middle school, official school policy was every girl and boy had to take a wood shop class, and every girl and boy had to take a cooking and sewing class. As a boy I got quite a bit of jeers and sexist comments from the girls saying things like "You can't cook…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:15 AM
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The guy sounds confused, or maybe he wants all dating to be risk free and hurt free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 10:29 AM
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If you take someone else's advice about what to look for, and ignore you own preferences, you will be very unhappy. As she gets old and more saggy, her looks will not improve the way you to deal with life's problems, or the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 10:26 AM
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Guy here. I take responsibility for my own failures in the dating world in my past: My own lack of confidence, my own lack of boundaries. I don't whine and blame someone else. I focused on improving myself. And I got results. Since I've done that I'm much more successful in dating, and I'm much more happy. Who woulda thunk taking responsibility would result in happiness? I've never ever seen a guy say he is entitled to sex, though I have seen guys complain when they are frequently bad at dating,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 10:21 AM
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Hi, I'm not RP, but I like strong female characters, and I like to date strong women. However I don't find many balanced but strong women to date and it's very frustrating. No I don't think feminism influenced this. If the women are good at comedy, why not? And I occasionally watch "Girlcode" and I like the girls on there, and they are doing skits now, which i find hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/15 07:20 AM
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Women, as a group, sure don't talk about sex like men do, and they don't reach their sexual peak (generally) at the same time as men. So there is that. Women generally reach their sexual peak around age 40, with some exceptions. So that causes some problems. There are many other social roadblocks to women being open about sex with their boyfriends, but someone who lets society define who they are does not qualify for a date with me. I want someone strong enough who can be themselves. I used to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/15 07:12 AM
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I don't like to use these terms but I'm a former shy, beta male, now an alpha male, you could say. I took charge of my life and I went out looking for what I wanted. I'm much happier now. I'm divorced and getting married for the second time, because I found the girl I really want to spend my life with. Yep, I'm the former shy guy who's done things most guys only dream of. Now I'm settling down without having to play games. And yes, I was myself, but not my goofy, immature self. I set goals, achi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 11:17 AM
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The man increased his risk by getting high with strangers he didn't know. That does not mean he should be blamed for getting mugged. The same applies to rape. People should try to reduce their risk of getting mugged or raped. But they should not be blamed if it does happen. AFAIK, most rapes happen with people the victim knows. Source: Guy here. I've been mugged at age 11, and someone tried to rape me at age 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 11:13 AM
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He never explicitly lies, but I personally think there's no room for contention that he's at least being deceitful and manipulative. I feel like I can ask a mature question about this so, for the sake of discussion, consider this. Is it his responsibility to spell everything out because people are too stupid to ask? Shouldn't people ask more pointed questions and gather evidence to support his claims and not assume things? For the record, I don't create shell companies like this, and I told my g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 02:17 PM
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Someone who sleeps around and lies about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 02:13 PM
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women must know that being a whore doesn't pay off. While that is true, you are missing part of the equation. Some people (not just women) have personal problems so deep, that they don't care if they are exposed, so they will not, or are unable to, change their actions. This same idea goes for people who abuse drugs, abuse themselves, or abuse others, or have dysfunctional behavior so bad, that they will never change. One of my rules of thumb about mental illness is: If one cannot control themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 02:10 PM
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Mens Rights is about a trend of more women acting more badly, so it's highly relevant. One doesn't have to be a feminist to act badly. Mens Rights is about any women acting badly. The guy doesn't deserve to be tortured no matter what he did.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 06:37 PM
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And why are men the ones who run away from traditional marriage? Because men have much more to lose in a divorce. Women, who usually get primary custody of kids, do not. 25% of my net pay for child support is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 04:51 PM
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When some of the most prominent feminists and famous women make openly hateful anti-male statements, and the mainstream feminist organizations say and do nothing to distance themselves from such public statements, then it’s clear that the hatred of men has an accepted place in mainstream feminism. Yep.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 04:47 PM
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You're so awesome I'm actually tearing up. *Hugs* I wish more women were like you.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 11:00 AM
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FEminist and MRA debates.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 10:58 AM
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What is their agenda? Some people are just hateful people. And by cherry picking facts, and repeating their mantra, feminists make men look bad, and bringing down someone else makes some feminists feel good.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 11:39 PM
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Every study I've ever seen shows that while female perpetrators exist, the majority (more than 50%) are male. That's because definitions for rape is different when men are raped, because it's marginalized. When you look at a study like that you have to find out the definitions of rape for men AND women, and look for inconsistencies. The CDC doesn't count men "being forced to penetrate" as rape.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 11:31 PM
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I was banned from Askwomen as soon as I identified as a man. The creator of /r/Femradebates (a woman) was also banned from Feminism and Askwomen, which is why she created Femradebates.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 11:30 PM
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I'm sorry this happened to you, I really am, and I hate guys like that.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 11:29 PM
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Awareness must come before action. We are still at the awareness stage.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 11:22 PM
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You're tearing down the feminist construct of victimhood OP. Good for you. Women can do almost anything a man can, even pee standing up (with a funnel). But feminism wants to make victims out of all women for their own nefarious purposes. This is one of many reasons why I'm opposed to modern feminism.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 11:15 PM
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Try this English translation from Google Translate.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 11:02 PM
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What state are you filing for divorce in? I'm divorced in Michigan. Get a lawyer. It's cheaper than losing all your assets. Do not hide assets. Divide up bank accounts now 50/50 and let the court do the rest later. If you do leave, then go back to get more of your stuff, DO NOT go alone. Take a friend along with a camera and spare battery and film everything especially her. If you don't have solid evidence of her doing X, you have no case. Don't even go there, it's a waste of money. In states li…
/r/MensRights09/12/14 10:15 PM
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5-10 years ago almost NO ONE would have thought to question such a claim. Today its my default position, which is truly sad. False rape allegations were a problem in the late 1980s when I was at college. This is nothing new. In fact it led to the policy suggestion that both parties sign an agreement to have sex before anything happened. False rape allegations won't stop until these girls do jail time and it's a very public event.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 10:09 PM
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It just hit me... your comment reminds me of almost every dictator in the past 100 years. SJW: "We're going to end injustice by killing everyone who is against us!" Good post.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 10:02 PM
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OP, see if you can get a screen shot of these comments. Save for future use. Screenshots are better sources than copy and paste.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 08:18 PM
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First you get a video of the whole situation, and her assaulting you. No video = no case. Take your own pictures of the bruises and hide them offsite in a safe place. Do not mention the pictures until you have copies of them in a safe place. No pictures = no case. Now go to a doctor to get official proof and pictures of the bruises she caused. Absolutely get copies of everything. You get a lawyer immediately, and you let him do the talking. If you don't get it, you file a lawsuit for unequal tre…
/r/MensRights08/12/14 08:02 PM
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The claim in 1987 at my college was 1 in 3 of women are raped in their lifetime (not "before a certain age"). I guess that's not very believable so they randomly pick another number.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 07:36 PM
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“Yes Means Yes” law comes into effect in California, which stipulates that all rape allegations at college campuses statewide be accepted without question, placing the burden on the accused rapist to prove his innocence. Doesn't this violate the US constitution or Bill Of Rights, where we are supposed to be innocent until found guilty? 6th Amendment This Amendment is present in all trials or court cases in America. The 6th Amendment in the American Constitution guarantees an individual the right…
/r/MensRights08/12/14 07:28 PM
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Yes it is. And Viagra is Pfizer's biggest moneymaker. Their original patent expired, and they petitioned the courts to get an extension, and got it. Greedy bastards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 04:09 PM
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Guy here. 100% satisfied with the sex we have and that my SO chases me around the house. It honestly is fun, and turns me on because I feel wanted. Now I get what some women were saying that they want to be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 02:54 PM
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"Never say No" is a GOAL not an iron-clad rule that must never be broken. Very good comment, one that I think many people don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 02:52 PM
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You seem to consider it a virtue to turn the other cheek. No, it's a virtue to stay out of jail. Jailtime would severely hamper my job prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 02:42 PM
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"According to the Cleveland Clinic, as many as 52 percent of men experience erectile dysfunction, with it affecting 40 percent of men age 40." This is a non-issue if you can afford Viagra at $25 per pill. Cialis is about $35. Red pill men who wait until they're 40 are competing for 20-something women with 20-something men An over generalization that is also not true. Some younger women want LTR and know an older man provides the experience, maturity and stability for just that. More and more wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 02:38 PM
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My 30 years of consistent experience with feminism. After 30 years of this shite I said "I'm done with feminism".
/r/MensRights02/12/14 06:22 PM
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So I am wondering how you stay the path and dont become the male equivalent of a feminazi I have a lot of experience with the mentally ill. I'm used to it and I ignore their rantings. (I'm being serious.) The sheer hatred people can generate still bothers me, but I ignore it. Not all women are like that. My FOS (Full Of Sh!t) detector works pretty well.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 06:20 PM
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I don't associate with people who think I am nothing. My life is much better for it.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 06:18 PM
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"Oh the horrors! They're raping innocent men with their eyes! *sob* I must Tumblr this to my fellow Social Justice Warriors!" (lots of banging on computer keys and mumbling about the Matriarchy.)
/r/MensRights02/12/14 06:16 PM
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The Ipad does not help boys read more, parents do. I didn't need an Ipad in the 1970s to help me read the Wall Street Journal when I was 4. I had a dedicated parent who pushed me to learn something new. I know parents who limit the games the kids can play, and the parents want 75% of the games to be educational. Sounds good to me. If they only games they have are educational, they will play those.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 06:08 PM
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I'm glad I don't wash my testicles with toilet cleaner! Seriously, all toilet cleaners I've used for 30 years are just solutions that are basic on the pH scale. Typically a sodium hydroxide solution. It says that right on the bottle. Endocrine disruptors are a real thing, which have shown a high correlation in studies of fish, where male fish testicles start producing eggs. But where is the connection that sodium hydroxide is an EDC? Article date Done by Title Link to article 20020000 USGS Male …
/r/MensRights02/12/14 05:55 PM
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Where did he say that? You can do anything if [you win]...What happens is they win and they go, "You know that girl? She's my trophy. I deserve that girl. In fact, she don't even want to be with me, but I don't care. I'm going to take it." What kind of mindset is that? Never never never never never should that ever be accepted. He's saying he's against man code ignoring rape.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 05:52 PM
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however, this is not the case for birth control options for men. I always wondered why states didn't pay for vasectomies. It's a lot cheaper than welfare for 10 years. Vasectomy: One time payment of about $600. Welfare: $1000s for number of years limited by law.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 05:47 PM
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If I get no material benefits from being a white male, is it still a privilege? I mean, I don't get free coffee at 7-11 or anything. I still have to do my job well if I want to keep my job.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 05:45 PM
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Why doesn't feminism teach girls to be proactive like this, instead of teaching them to be victims?
/r/MensRights01/12/14 12:22 AM
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I've heard all these stories about men going to jail for falling behind on child support, and I'm just losing my mind knowing that this is all my fault. This really is the law in Michigan but the prison part is rarely enforced since most prisons in the US are at 200-300% capacity. He might do 30 days in the local jail just so the courts "make a point". Keep paper copies of all postings and emails from the mother showing how she is an abusive person. Source: I'm divorced in Michigan.
/r/MensRights01/12/14 12:16 AM
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What state are you divorcing in? That's super important.
/r/MensRights01/12/14 12:11 AM
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Relationships are about mutual support. Funny how she talks about mutual support but doesn't want to pay for her own tea.
/r/MensRights30/11/14 11:52 PM
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I can tell you I make a lot less than the US average income per year. how do guys who make under $70k a year even get dates???? I ask. I'm also fit and dress well. I don't look like a sk8ter boi who just rolled out of bed. I mean, MOST WOMEN, it seems, expect at least her man to make $100k. Those aren't women, those are immature girls. Or they live in a big US city where stuff is super expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:50 PM
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Try /r/askmen. They are pretty moderate and will ID BS pretty quickly, from either side. Basically, if you have to play a game, you are dating a "girl", and you probably want a "woman". And if you're dating girls under age 30, a real, responsible, adult "woman" is super hard to find in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:41 PM
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Initial impressions DO make a difference. It's a thing. So that's not totally off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:34 PM
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Then I may become resentful that he assumes he has full access to my body. I don't blame you. I don't do butt stuff without asking. But when the clothes come off, it's assume everything else is fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:30 PM
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"How long have you been in the technology field?" Do you mean doing it professionally? Like after college? Because I was programming long before that. Also, you ask a series of questions about race, and they repeat again. I suggest you have a few other people take this survey to test it and find bugs. Then you release it to the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:21 PM
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Well that explains the 2 antennae on my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:18 PM
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My comment above was more along the lines of, if you are unhappy with the sex situation, you should find a more compatible partner. And yes, it's a lot of work. 90% of girls I date are not compatible with me in some way. So you have asked your SO you want to do X to their Y orifice, and most have refused? I mean you said you are a giver, so does that mean you fee slighted if you can't do X to them? (My SO is a giver too, but more vanilla.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:16 PM
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I'm a confident, non-judgmental, open-minded man about my relationships. Am I some type of rare mutant or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:14 PM
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If I were to make up something from the top of my head I'd say that it's because men need to know that it's their seed that has impregnated the woman and knowing about "others" just means it's not theirs I think you are hitting on some "thing" that resides on an instinctive level, that the men just can't understand or articulate. Yet it's still there. (Which means I agree with you.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:13 PM
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What is the bear minimum you look for in a woman in an ltr? Have good communication, even temperament, self-knowledge, not be too irrational on a daily basis (I get that hormones play a part in this), good with money, is for equality, can help me out with stuff outside, doesn't mind getting her hands dirty, is a "giver", understands the importance of sex. What makes a woman exceed your expectations immensely in an ltr? My expectations are already pretty high for my generation. If she meets that,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 06:07 PM
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My beliefs: everyone is different, likes different things, and I want to find a woman who I can like and respect. I'm not completely red pill, but I do understand some women like to be submissive, and givers. And I don't like forcing people into roles they don't like. Ok, I'll be "that" guy. I'm an alpha guy who likes aggressive women. I like women to have the ovaries to say what they mean, and mean what they say. I don't like women who are always submissive in bed. Sometimes a little "wrastling…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 05:56 PM
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It's the internet. Which means: they don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 05:54 PM
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I say all of that to say, too many men are way too uncomfortable with letting their GF focus on their nipples and play in the taint/anus area. He has the right to say "no". You have the right to a new boyfriend. It's all about choices. Simple right? (I'm not trying to be snarky.) (That said, I'm very open about sex stuff. But not everyone is.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 05:51 PM
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I...what? I just ask the girl what she's into, I tell her what I'm into, and where those match, we do it. Communication. It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 05:50 PM
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Under California's bill, state-funded colleges and universities must adopt strict policies regarding sexual assault, domestic violence, dating violence and stalking, among other actions in order to receive financial aid money. I haven't been following this much but that's what the article said. So it sounds like, there is suspicion that some sexual assault cases where ignored, so Cali is enacting a low to have actual, written policies on sexual assault charges, and document them clearly so anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 05:48 PM
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No. Yes. Maybe. I think some RPers feel like they don't have control of their life, so they latch onto a philosophy where they can exert more control over their family, with (some of) society supporting them. However, in the past, surviving meant physically fighting off enemies, and that meant the stronger man won, and survived to spread his genes. So, this is part of biology, and behavior, as men tend to be more aggressive when they need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 09:05 PM
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I think I'm right in saying one of the core beliefs of TRP is that women are inherently childlike and should be treated as such. Applying to 100% of women: I disagree. Saying this is common to, say, 50% of women: I agree. This is made worse by the fact that I just couldn't find a woman who could pull her own weight in the middle class. Ever. Which strengthens the stereotype that women are mentally weak. It's not that they are women that they act childish. It's that their parents didn't help them…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 08:59 PM
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How to pick the right wife. I don't even have to read it to say that there is no one universal solution for finding a happy relationship. There's a lot of variability with people. First, know what you need. Second, find someone who is ok with giving you that. (Ok I'll read it.) The goals of a marriage should be: 1) Minimize the chance of divorce theft and child robbery. 2) Maximize wife’s happiness with her wifely and motherly duties (the complete opposite of everything you will see, read or hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 08:42 PM
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So is TBP just another close-minded feminist subreddit echo chamber? Or does it set itself apart for some other reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 08:40 PM
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I have an illogical soft-spot for massive jerks. I think the author is really referring to the guy who is a "fixer upper". The guy she can "save" and thereby increase her self-perceived self-worth. It's sort of like a Jesus complex, but not quite as dysfunctional...usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 08:37 PM
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A 1000 anecdotes from 1000 people is not the same quality data as a double-blind study. Still, if that's all you have, people tend to go with it. I find TRP tends to over generalize things, especially about what women want. Women are all different. So I go and date different women until I find someone I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 08:34 PM
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With the exception of women over age 35, I have initiated 100% of sexy times. I grew up in a small town if it matters. It was the 1980s, if that matters also.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/14 08:31 PM
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Sheryl Sandberg: find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Tracy Clark-Flory: You know that guy friend you weren’t romantically interested in because he was just too nice and available? Suddenly, you’re grown up enough to come to your senses. Marry the fuck out of him. I agree with both pieces of advice. I'm not Red or Blue pill. Now I'm divorced and in my 40s, dating again, the few women who want a relationship, even a casual o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/14 05:51 PM
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-Do you believe women are attracted to muscles? Most of them are, yes. -Do you believe women are attracted to money? Yes. Studies show this. No I don't have the link. You can google it. -Do you believe women are attracted to social status? There's no reason to if there's money flowing their way. I think many women like money so they can buy "stuff" to show off to their friends. These bragging rights, like when teenage boys get a bad cut or broken bone, gives them social status. Or at least somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 12:41 AM
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First, AFAIK, it's a VERY small chunk of men doing this. But it's an interesting phenomena. Second, it's their choice. One cannot assume these men are betas, alphas, are lost, or know exactly what they want. Third, I see a LOT of anxiety issues in men and women in /r/askmen. It simply might be easier to get a woman from Asia. When we in /r/askmen talk about why men won't commit, we get 2 big groups of answers: Men are not ready for a relationship. The men can't find women worthy of a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 12:31 AM
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I wonder how much overlap there is with users in feminism, tbp, and againstmensrights. I would guess, quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 12:26 AM
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Is this a free tool you are using to eliminate dupe answers from the same IP? I'd be interested, I sometimes do surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 12:23 AM
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Am I some alien where a woman's physical attractiveness beyond a certain baseline just doesn't matter? I've never actually had a girl's pretty looks magically help us with relationship problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 12:21 AM
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I may have a bad day and post something someone doesn't like. Someone may just get real pissed at me, maybe they're having a bad day. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 12:20 AM
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We did not deviate from the CS formula for Michigan. My CS payments were pushed really high because she earned much more than I did and she got the kids. And I just could not afford to live in that town, so we couldn't do joint custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 12:14 AM
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First, I don't hate feminism. There are many types of feminists, but the whole inconsistency is part of the problem. There are some decent ones, and no shortage of hateful ones. I simply choose not to engage too many feminists online because the chance is greater of finding an extremist online. Inconsistent definitions, like of patriarchy, are confusing. Ask 3 feminists and you'll get 4 different answers. Many feminists I have engaged simply cannot define any feminists term I ask them about. Sev…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/14 12:07 AM
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Because if your life situation changes, you have to go to court to get the CS order adjusted, and most guys don't have the money to hire a lawyer and go to court to do that. They literally have nothing in their bank account many times. Because CS is so high in some states. In these cases, typically the man is a low-wage worker, minimum wage or not much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/14 10:38 PM
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What Michigan county do you practice in? Because my Kent county lawyer says something very very different. My ex earned 200% more than I did, I still have to pay CS, and I got no palimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/14 10:37 PM
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The spouse who makes the most money has to pay alimony in order to maintain the lifestyle to which the couple had been accustomed to during the marriage. Not true in all states. Michigan rarely gives p/alimony these days, really only in cases of permanent disability. Source: my lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/14 10:35 PM
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Because while the rest of society goes forward, the court systems are still stuck in the 1950s. Source: I'm divorced and lost nearly everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/14 10:35 PM
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Honestly, with the internet there are so many avenues to help someone get laid or be attractive to women it is safe to say he clearly just didn't try. Sometimes really bad anxieties prevent people from trying in the first place. Anxiety disorders are a thing. Poor parents who never helped their kid grow confidence is also a thing. (I mention both because they are technically different but with some overlapping symptoms.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/14 10:33 PM
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Do men love bitches? I think this is an example of the man having unhealthy boundaries. He thinks her bitchiness will go away if he buys her enough "stuff".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/14 10:30 PM
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I realized the more women I flirted with, the more a woman would be into me. I found out this is called "dread game" - essentially, showing off your "sexual value" to your women and being "pre-selected" by other women. I'll have to disagree with you here, but only because you implied it affects a majority of women, and I have seen it apply to a minority of women, less than half, and mostly younger women at that. Yes I've seen this. No I don't think it applies to a majority of women. Also, it see…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/14 10:25 PM
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Hmmm, so would that be similar like how (very few) Americans have multiple wives (though it is illegal), but most of us just don't support it? (The highly abusive cases are the ONLY cases that get covered in US media.)
/r/MensRights26/02/14 02:18 PM
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National Geographic did an article (early 2013?) about boy trafficking in Afghanistan. Apparently it's very common, and is ok with Muslims.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 10:55 PM
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My mom told me never to talk to strangers, including women.
/r/MensRights24/02/14 07:55 PM
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Michigan has had changing tables in men's restrooms for at least 20 years, in major chain stores and restaurants.
/r/MensRights24/02/14 07:54 PM
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"But I need permission, and enthusiastic consent before I help her, honest officer, the feminists said so."
/r/MensRights21/02/14 11:33 AM
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"Men are failing us. I feel as though we are not being protected." Because equality. If you want equality, defend yourself. Especially if you're saying shit like "kill all men".
/r/MensRights21/02/14 11:32 AM
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Isn't real life a credible source? Bars often have one or more days where ladies get in free. Men never get this. When in doubt, many bouncers assume the man started a fight, not the woman. Women have the option of abortion. Men do not have the option of avoiding child support. In the US, men are required to register for the draft (Selective Service) at age 18, women are not. Women often get a pass for uncontrollable rage, some citing PMS. In the same situation men are called "psychopaths". Wome…
/r/MensRights20/02/14 11:40 PM
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Sorry to hear that OP. Learn what a sociopath and psychopath is. Please. Immediately. It could save you a lot of pain later on.
/r/MensRights20/02/14 11:39 PM
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But mostly, I am a human being, and I feel compassion whenever I see a group of people not being treated fairly Thanks for that. I think it summarizes things in a nutshell: we should all just be fair with each other regardless of gender, race, religion, etc.
/r/MensRights20/02/14 11:36 PM
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I've seen a few videos by Girl Writes What and she seems simply fed up with all the unequal bullshit.
/r/MensRights20/02/14 11:34 PM
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"I'm sorry I can't help you while you get mugged. I'm only a man."
/r/MensRights20/02/14 11:30 PM
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What state did they divorce in? It wouldn't surprise me if it was California. They have very liberal divorce laws.
/r/MensRights20/02/14 11:28 PM
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Was this a John Quinones segment? He does some interesting stuff. Women comment in the video as they watch the man get assaulted: I didn't think she could do much damage [to him]. I never thought to protect a man. Good for her. Woman1: My first thought is he must have cheated on her. (An assumption with no basis.) JQ: But you don't know that. Another women: But he looked guilty.
/r/MensRights11/02/14 02:49 PM
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Again, people don't know the difference between "bossy" and "assertive". "Assertive" is fine. "Bossy" is not.
/r/MensRights11/02/14 02:46 PM
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How do you know that? Do you have a link?
/r/MensRights11/02/14 02:41 PM
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Then try to get custody now, pending the paternity test. If you are not the father, then say in the custody order you don't want custody and shouldn't have to pay child support.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:55 PM
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She's has a history of being stable, did you get a paternity test? The baby may not be yours. Never pay CS without a paternity test.
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:42 PM
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Paternity fraud is rampant in the US. In as many as 30% of cases, ~fathers~ men are being forced to pay child support... This is misleading because you didn't describe your sample population. Was this 30% for one court? One state? Or was it a meta-study that looked at many other studies? Be more specific so people cannot say you are misleading. Also change "fathers" to "men" above. Since they are not the biological fathers. Thanks to VAWA, states are encouraged to enact mandatory arrest policies…
/r/MensRights06/12/13 01:23 PM
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Which survey?
/r/MensRights04/12/13 11:25 PM
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I just watched this entire video again, and I don't get the level of outrage that MRAs feel over this. Did you see the full 5:24 video? Because many of the videos out there are edited. What I saw: Feminists spitting on the men. Feminists spray painting the men and their genitals. Feminists drawing on the men. This is battery in my state.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 11:24 PM
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I believe all forms of both male and female birth control should be free. You mean paid for by your taxes via the gov't. I think if we got a tax credit instead, we'd avoid the cost of gov't waste and overhead. There is little reason for there to be the amount of abortions there are today. Make PlanB and RU486 both free and easy to attain. Abortion would never be under threat again with what I am proposing, The US religious right would never go for this. I believe the dichotomy should shift from …
/r/MensRights04/12/13 06:24 PM
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She is an advocate for woman's rights, but demonstrates an understanding for men's issues, but criticizes me for raising awareness in disparities between the woman's rights movement and men's rights movement as "an attack on women." Open discussion is not an "attack on women". Your gf is a nutjob. Abort! Abort! There was another comment here that described and gave evidence as many feminists being a brain washing cult. Someone, PLEASE post a link to that. OP needs to read it. Here it is! Signs o…
/r/MensRights04/12/13 06:14 PM
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What men and women do to look attractive. Women: go buy makeup and clothes. Men: buy clothes, lift weights risking sprains, broken bones from weights falling, other injuries.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 06:09 PM
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Get a vasectomy. It's a small price to pay for insurance. You could always adopt later.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 06:05 PM
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Michigan has several levels of "sexual assault", like first degree, second degree, third degree and fourth degree. First degree would be rape for sure. Technically, any minor having sex, consensual or not, is statutory rape, but prosecutors rarely prosecute if the 2 people are close in age. There are exceptions if one person is a "person of power", such as a coach, teacher, police officer, direct supervisor, etc. So a brand new 21yo teacher who has consensual sex with an 18yo student can be char…
/r/MensRights04/12/13 05:46 PM
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they don’t build shelters or raise funds for abused men; Because they're too busy working overtime to pay for child support and alimony. "Dozens march for men's rights." Well it's better than one person.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 05:40 PM
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This is feminist sexism in action.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:41 PM
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Their actions on the other hand, are dodgy to say the least. The EFs (extremist feminists) against men's rights seem to get the most publicity. We all need to work to change that.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:32 PM
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Why aren't police doing anything?
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:27 PM
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Download it to your hard drive and save it. Post it on another website. I wonder if Google Drive will allow FLV or other video files.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:17 PM
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Finally, one isolated case of equal responsibility. So the man gets $31,000, how much child support does the woman get? In my case, base CS for 18 years is $324,000.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:15 PM
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So are they going to defend their choice under the umbrella of "feminism"? Sure he could learn ASL, but very few "hearing-privileged" people know ASL. So he won't be able to communicate with most people. That makes it hard to get a job. In US schools he probably would have a state-paid assistant who knows ASL to help him.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:13 PM
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Did the judge require you to present evidence of physical abuse to her before doing the OOP? Or was your word enough? Did you need to present to the judge any former police reports of abuse you suffered? Because for equality, the judge should only need your sworn verbal testimony. (I realize these conditions will vary by state.)
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:09 PM
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I think what these people don't understand is that the defenders of men's rights aren't defending against reasonable people who desire equality for all This is a key point. The most vocal feminists are the most extreme, full of hate people.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:07 PM
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I can tell you similar man-hate went on in the late 1980s in Michigan, apparently it's still going on. The haters (who can't back up arguments with evidence) are often the same people who join "issue groups" to inflate their own self-importance, because they have no merits on their own. There are good people out there joining good causes, and they do not have the need to hate.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 04:04 PM
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but I also disagree with alot and I have trouble trying to understand exactly what you guys are all about. I see comments about training woman likes the bitches they are, saying we like to be manipulated, that rape and physical abuse (something I've gone through first hand) is not real, and I'm honestly not sure what to think anymore. I've been in RPW about 2 months and I've never seen this in RPW, but I've seen it in /r/theredpill. I don't go there. And I totally agree with you. Men and women s…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/13 10:22 AM
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My best recipe: Use tomato sauce, not tomato soup. Tomato sauce tastes like fresh tomatoes. I avoid national brands as they have way too much sodium, the store brand (Meijer) is really good here. Pour about 8oz of tomato sauce in a bowl. I buy the smaller cans. Sprinkle with dried or fresh chopped basil. Heat and eat. Alternate: Mix ingredients in pot, bring to simmer, simmer 5 minutes. Serve cold in the summer if you like. That's also good.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/13 10:10 AM
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I totally agree. I have similar ways of vetting women.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 06:57 PM
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I actually like the alt scene, and the people, but I look like a choir boy, and that doesn't help me much. I just look young for my age and I dress casual. But thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 03:09 PM
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You are an interesting person. I hope I find a girl like you. Thank you for that. Honestly, I'm fine with the alt scene. Where can I find a single girl like you at your age? I also grew up in the 80s and 90s. Remember gas at 75 cents a gallon? That was about 1985.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 02:55 PM
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She was using her charms on FIL to get into medical school.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 01:30 PM
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Cold tomato basil soup. Cold salad with meat and cheese. Like an antipasto salad. Pasta salad with meat and cheese. Lettuce salad with pecans and dried cranberries. Lettuce salad with chicken. He can use a microwave, right? Have him heat up leftovers.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 01:27 PM
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betafemanon, You are the exception and I'm glad you are. But most women will not change their looks or work out because that takes work. My doctor says 90% of the people he asks to lose weight, don't. That's a telling statistic. Men just go on this assumption that the woman won't change, and dump her, or disqualify her from LTR. They know, the very strong tend is, the woman won't change. It's unfortunate, but since men can't read minds, they go on past performance.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 01:25 PM
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Dana, is your love language physical? Just curious. Or are you just open-minded about sex? Or did you two really click?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 01:22 PM
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Guy here. Sexual compatibility is one of the top 3 things couples fight about, and get a divorce over. See /r/deadbedrooms. If we don't have sex before marriage, it appears she's hiding something, or simply doesn't understand the fundamentals of a relationship and compatibility issues, both of which are deal breakers for me. I will not risk marrying someone who doesn't understand the most basic ideas of relationship dynamics. That said I don't have to have sex right away, I bring up exclusivity …
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 01:14 PM
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I forgot to mention she had a stress induced heart attack two years ago. She's going to have another one if something doesn't change. Well, once I saw this, I say divorce. Because most people like this don't change. I grew up with many of these people and their life was one train wreck after another and 95% don't change. He's not just being lazy, he's being dangerous. I bet he doesn't even have money for his kids' college, or further education. He thinks he's in control. How do you convince him …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 02:17 PM
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One can learn a lot by watching people who fail. "As a failure, you CAN be a role model! A role model of what not to do!" lol.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:54 PM
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A confident man with a strong frame of benevolent dominance evokes feelings of safety, respect, desire, and deference from very nearly all women regardless of their conscious mind's opinions on gender relations. I think you just nailed my whole view of RP.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 06:52 PM
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You need to do some critical things, which other people have mentioned, which I will summarize: Talk to him face to face, admit what you did wrong, give specific examples, then apologize. I personally do not like apologies that come with gifts, it looks manipulative. Tell him your plan to change, be specific. Give specific examples. Tell him you want to act better to prove you want to get back together eventually, but (and say this) you recognize he may be hurt you hope over time he will see you…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 03:10 PM
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Well, this book points out what feminists are doing wrong. Is that what you mean? Looking for the perfect man is part of the feminist message "you can have it all" and is completely unrealistic.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/13 03:05 PM
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and one guy exclaimed "Yes! It's delicious!" and quickly packed it up while looking down at it with a smile. CUTE! It's worth noting that you recognized how this particular guy appreciated your salad non-verbally: with a smile, gazing at the salad of his desire! lol. "Oh lovely salad. How I desire thee, nestled in my contented stomachness." Maybe he was lying to not make me feel bad and will throw it out later. But I thought it was good, so I don't know. Woman! Stop assuming things. (I'm now sha…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/13 10:59 AM
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I disagree that the laws give mom's extra power. It's the judges who interpret the laws who are the problem. If you look at the actual laws, they are written to give equal consideration to both parties. But the judges do not use the laws that way, the judges favor moms. I agree that the judges' inequal decisions is a result of extremist feminist brainwashing.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/13 10:52 AM
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"Husbands want their wives to submit; wives want our husbands to dominate." Ugh, what generalizations. Some women want their husbands to take charge, some don't. I never saw Red Pill as forcing someone into a role they didn't want. I saw it as more like trying something that just might work. If you want your husband to take charge, that's fine. I don't think generalizations from this book help though. Anyway, about sex. Many men get cranky and irritable when they don't get sex. Sex provides both…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/13 10:45 AM
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Hm, thanks for the interesting post. I do see BDSM as sexual. I never thought of "Christian Domestic Discipline" as a sexual thing.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/13 10:43 PM
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I made my share of mistakes but I also learned from them. One mistake I made was I assumed I would never come across an actual sociopath, much less marry one. To be honest, I think the birth of our first kid triggered her somehow and made things MUCH worse. She only had mild problems when we met, but she was never RP in the first place. That assumption cost me all my marital assets.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 07:21 PM
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Anything special that comes to mind, or list something recent, or something that affected your relationship in a major way.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 07:18 PM
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Wow. This explains so much about my abusive ex. She had a very rough, abusive childhood, and I didn't take any BS from her. Not only that, but I was a body builder when we met, I LOOKED confident and powerful, and I was very self-confident and mentally strong. The more she tried to control me the more I resisted, because (she was smart) she knew I was more powerful than her.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 07:17 PM
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Ok. Since sarcasm is often hard to see in text, people often end a sarcastic paragraph with "</sarcasm>". It's similar to the end tag of HTML or XML. It means "end of sarcasm". :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 02:04 PM
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I've never heard of a man spanking his woman on the butt outside of a BDSM context. Is this a thing? Can you explain? How common is this?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 01:56 PM
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I'd like to list my take on Alphas. An Alpha is calm and confident. An Alpha has no need of labels, except to explain himself to others. An Alpha doesn't boast of being Alpha, except maybe to illustrate a point about what is/is not Alpha. An Alpha meets his SO's needs while still maintaining healthy boundaries. An Alpha is clear on getting his needs met also. (Betas often put their needs aside.) An Alpha knows how to listen to both sides of a story, and then decide a course of action. When their…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 01:43 PM
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now instead of being able to keep house, have children, and cook (very, very few women can cook these days) women are ONLY sex-objects. It is the only thing they have to offer to a man, that will get a man’s attention and to hold it for a while. I want to get married. The good women get into relationships early, around age 18, and get married soon after. What's left is mostly not qualified for LTR. That is not my fault, but it is a problem that I still react to. Which means, I have to be very ca…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 01:27 PM
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I believe younger eggs are healthier eggs, and thus have less of a chance of a bad mutation. Remember, when a woman is born, she is born with ALL the eggs she will ever have. While men make sperm on the fly. (Little pun there.) The longer these eggs are exposed to radiation (like from xrays) and poisons (in our food supply) the more likely the DNA will be damaged. In a perfect world with no poisons this would not be a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 01:21 PM
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29 different partners screams of, "I need to validate myself with cock", which tends makes a woman more likely to cheat, in my experience. Well I agree it's a red flag, and a trend, but I don't use it as the only red flag. There are also exceptions. I look for other red flags and add 'em all up. If a person really needs therapy, it will show up in other ways too. Thanks for the comment.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 01:00 PM
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But here it seems that men are very sensitive about paying. Yes many are, which is why this should be discussed before the date. Generally I pay for the first date, because I ask for the first date. I'm fine if we alternate who pays. Really I'm there to get to know her, it doesn't matter what we do.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/13 02:15 PM
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So my husband Betas out on me and gives me all these tender kisses and hugs while I cry-it-out instead of rocking his world. Then I just end up wanting to rock his world all the more. We feed off of each others affection. Oh ok, I get it now. Yes I understand this because I've done it with my SO. We all have needs, mine tend to be physical, hers tend to be emotional. But sometimes I just need to throw my woman down and have her, NOW. Just because she's mine. And I want to remind her she's mine. …
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/13 01:57 PM
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Where can I find a man like you? I'm not sure. I don't know anyone like me. I don't go out to bars much at all. I do online dating though, and I try to be pretty open about who I am and what I'm looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/13 04:27 PM
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I like confident, smart women, but also submissive women who is a "giver". I know that will not make sense to most people, but a smart woman will see my strengths, and will trust me to make the right decisions in many things. I also happen to be an egalitarian feminist. So, doesn't all that sound weird? Because it sounds unusual to me. lol. Just think about it. I know women have needs and I want them to be happy. But I also like to take the lead and be in charge. And I prefer smart, confident wo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/13 10:57 AM
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Wow. Well said. I simply like to go into details, and not assume anything, for the sake of clear communication.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/13 10:50 AM
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Change won't happen until the divorce laws change, and no politician wants to reduce the "rights" (i.e. cash bonus) to women, because that's half their voter base.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 12:47 PM
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That vast majority of women are not relationship material. My experience shows 95% of women are not relationship material. I met some really great girls where we had great compatibility, but they always had a deal-breaker in some area. The most common problems I saw, in no particular order: They did not put effort into the relationship. Most want all the benefits of feminism but none of the responsibility. This is related to them not wanting to work for a relationship. Every relationship require…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 12:39 PM
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He told me that the only thing that I should ever be concerned about was if they stopped hitting on me - he said that, only then did would I have a real problem. I'm glad you got some solid advice at such a young age.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 12:33 PM
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But women are actually taught (on my college campus and others) that all men are potential rapists. But what they hear is "all men are rapists". This instills a fear in most women. This affects how they think and perceive ALL men. And this is a problem. On my campus, the campus feminist group required ALL women of all ages on campus to attend their once a year seminar on rape, where they told the girls that all men are rapists. The whole seminar centered on instilling fear in these girls. Many o…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 12:28 PM
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Is it really arrogant to believe you are higher value than you actually are when that is what you have been told your entire life by parents, teachers, friends, media, most men, etc? I think you nailed it. The problem might be social conditioning. I think parents are being TOO encouraging to their children in some cases, where it creates an unrealistic image of self in the child. This is one of the things that frustrated me about my mom. She said I was great, etc. But when it came time to delive…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 12:12 PM
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Guy here. I agree with the writer's main message, but the way she phrased some things made some generalizations, which are not helpful. Men are attracted to youth, but many modern women don’t seriously consider marriage until they are older. This can be a problem because the woman's "biological clock is ticking" resulting in pressuring the man to have children when the couple may not be financially ready. Many women are less physically attractive (due to factors such as obesity, tattooing, unfem…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 12:06 PM
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Look at this Redditor survey from August 2013. 84% are under 30 53% are liberal or a little liberal 65% atheist/agnostic 53% are employed part time or less. A big chunk of Redditors is not ready to think rationally or take relationships seriously. And anything that does not seem to be a moderate idea is not taken seriously. That's just Reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 11:55 AM
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You're a woman, you're beautiful, you're strong. If you're posting about approaching men, then you're the bold and fierce kind of woman a lot of men want. I'm a bold confident man. I like women who are the same. This is related to something else which I won't go into here. Thanks for your comment! I hope you come back.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 11:37 AM
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Ok, I'm sure I'll be the oddball guy here. I don't settle for "discount bin" women. I want to see a woman has good communication, and actually understands relationship dynamics, and expresses that she wants LTR without jumping into things. I understand people need time to get to know each other, I'm fine waiting for sex 1-2 months. If you want LTR, state that on the first date, don't waste my time by keeping me guessing. I don't mind approaching women, but they should at least know how to flirt.…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 11:14 AM
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You are SO naughty! lol. Upvote because that was funny! Jeebus, why can't people have a sense of humor around here?
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 11:09 AM
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Sluts are just girls that have a difficult time saying no to themselves Yes, most of the time this could indicate a serious insecurity problem. The girl might think the guy would leave her if she says no, so she says yes, and regrets it, spiraling into deeper self-shame. There are also other (a minority of) girls who are just confident, love sex, and go through a slutty phase. A confident girl is what I want. And I make sure to figure out which type the girl is. For someone to assume a person's …
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 11:04 AM
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Since when is saying that, "29 different sexual partners for a woman is too much" such a taboo statement? Am I an asshole for overtly stating the double standard? Disqualifying someone only on partner count is taboo in some subreddits, and /r/sex would be one of those subreddits. The posters in /r/sex seem to be more mentally competent. lol. In /r/askmen, more than 10 partners is considered not LTR material for many men. It all depends on the group of people that hang out in a subreddit. Your st…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 11:00 AM
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Jimjamj effectively explained the wide variation of men's preferences. I guess I'm an oddball because I prefer short women with small breasts. I have no idea why, I just do. Many women assume all men like big breasts. Generalizing will not help your dating life. Communication will. Ask the guy what he prefers. Don't assume. If you assume and things fall apart, you only have yourself to blame. Also, I might have physical preferences, but those are less important than the personality. If I find a …
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 10:47 AM
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Man here. If you are casually dating: yes. If you want LTR: no. A man serious about LTR will accept an average woman, but you do have to be fit. It's more about being fit, than being a pretty barbie doll. Most men know that barbie dolls usually come with serious insecurity issues. Now I'm going to guess that is less of a problem here on RPW, but in real life, lots of women have big insecurity issues which affects communication, which is the foundation to a good relationship. (My personal experie…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 10:43 AM
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Oh my. Is this a dark cherry finish? Dark finish + glossy topcoat = mirror. No wonder you see a lot of scuff marks! lol.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/13 11:43 PM
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Just an FYI. I thought it was interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/13 07:02 PM
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FYI. I thought this was interesting. Sommers thinks of herself as an equity feminist who faults contemporary feminism for "its irrational hostility to men, its recklessness with facts and statistics, and its inability to take seriously the possibility that the sexes are equal – but different." From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christina_Hoff_Sommers.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/13 03:55 PM
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This can vary a lot from person to person. Why not ask him what he likes? Try to encourage him to talk about his kinky fantasies. Maybe his fantasy is something simple like you wearing heels in bed, and nothing else.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/13 03:53 PM
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What are some of the tips and tricks you have picked up, especially regarding organization, keeping clutter at bay, and cleaning best practices? See www.pinterest.com. Really. It has ideas for crafts, parties, household DIY things, and more. Hanging shoe organizers can hold more than shoes. Put them in closets or just behind a door. Put stuff in large boxes to get it out of sight. Buy a bench with a storage area. Put extra blankets in there or something. If you have a basement, store stuff in th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/13 10:16 PM
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I've done carpentry and cabinet making, not as a class, in real life. The carpentry class is probably more about basic wall, door and window framing. It might include doing a roof. Cabinetry teachers one many more tools like standalone planers, routers, shapers, and heavy duty stuff, plus joining techniques, decorative methods, hinges, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/13 10:11 PM
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...On the other hand, now I know people find me pretty/beautiful. But nobody is willing to go further than small talk with me - girls or guys. What am I missing here? Most guys assume you already have a bf. What this means is you have to approach them. Men don't approach women where they have little or no chance of a date. Most men know very well that most women only date "up" the social ladder and this includes looks. Sorry OP, but I go through this too, and I'm a guy. But then I'm expected to …
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/13 12:08 PM
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Uh oh. And what about London's Giant Gherkin?
/r/MensRights27/09/13 04:00 PM
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that I was really happy with his solution to our little problem, and give him a little squeeze and kiss before we sat down. I'm not convinced he saw your kiss and squeeze as related to his leadership and fixing this cash gift situation. Perhaps you could say something like this to him: "You fixed this card problem really well. And that's one of many reasons why I love you. I guess I'll keep you around. *smile*" This directly compliments him about a specific thing. Be specific. This does not make…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/13 11:41 AM
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Pie? Did someone say pie? I thought I heard "pie". You have a great idea OP. You can see how the other girl got nowhere. As you can see, you got results. :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/13 08:54 PM
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huh....that's interesting, I'm skeptical though in regards to where Ideas of redpill come from fundamentally...I feel like your giving them too much credit.. I don't them any credit. I don't really agree with them. First, there's a difference between RedPill stated goals, and the types of posts in the actual subreddit. The stated goals, either in the sidebar, or in a link on the sidebar, state the ideas come from science. Men tend to be better at X, and women tend to be better at Y. But if you l…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/13 07:03 PM
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I see what you're getting at. First, TRP (for men) is a bit different from RPW (for women). The stated goals of TRP is to recognize, in individuals, what they are good at, and not good at. Use your strengths together to form a strong relationship. Admit your weaknesses and allow your SO to do something if they are better at it. What too many posts are about in TRP though, is saying or implying that women actually are inferior to men. And that's why I don't go there. Men and women both have stren…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/13 02:34 PM
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There's no forcing anyone to be anything here. The women want to do this. It's their choice. Can you clarify your question?
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/13 02:05 PM
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But there is also that psychological effect where doing more for someone binds YOU to them, but not THEM to you. My opinion: A psychologically balanced and healthy man WILL be bound to you because he will see all the work you do, and he will appreciate it. The problem is, not many men are balanced like this, so they cannot appreciate what the women do for them. I personally appreciate (and tell her so) a submissive women who shows I matter by doing things for me. I did not know this until recent…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/13 11:23 AM
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What I find interesting is that she doesn't want to be compared to other women, ... or called "big" even by men who like that very thing... Yep, there are men who do like big women. I don't understand why she has a problem with that. She just sounds angry.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/13 11:17 AM
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This is one man's view. I don't use partner count as the only way to reject a person. If I did that, might be rejecting an otherwise great person. If a person by age 30 has 20 partners, that's probably not a problem. If a person by age 30 has 100 partners, that might indicate a POSSIBLE problem. It's one red flag. If there are too many red flags I have to carefully weigh how well this person will do in an LTR. If a person by age 30 has 20 partners, and a string of bad relationships, that's proba…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/13 11:13 AM
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Okay, I'm going to start off this post by saying I'm a feminist. When I say that, I mean that I believe in fighting for equality for both genders, and as such I am also an MRA. I don't agree with the so-called 'feminists' who have completely lost the point of the whole movement and are bat-shit crazy. Thank you for explaining your position on feminism and speaking out against hate groups. More women need to do this. There is a huge misunderstanding about which subgroup an individual is from. Wel…
/r/MensRights24/09/13 05:57 PM
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Well here's one I can answer about the free dating sites. Online dating works. I think it works better than meeting random people in bars, but it doesn't work that well. Very few people will qualify for LTR. No it's not a scam but low quality people seem to gravitate there. They're not all bad, but that's the trend anyway. Not sure if pay sites are better. Like any population, there will be a share of crazies there, just like in public. But it's safer to talk to them online a bit before going on…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 02:26 PM
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Lol. Do I sense a TINY bit of frustration in your comment?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 02:24 PM
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you are hearing this because modern women view men as defective women and are unable to perceive masculine virtues at all. I totally get what you are saying and agree with you. There are other factors though. I don't see many younger people having any "adult" virtues, masculine or otherwise. Most of the younger generation (20s and 30s) of men people seem to be lazy and unmotivated. That means they are unmotivated to improve themselves, or do any change at all. I must be some kind of mutant where…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 02:05 PM
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I saw on here once that there is no "good" or "right" just compatible. Exactly. Two people with low libidos are generally compatible. I talk about this a lot on /r/askmen.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 11:36 AM
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/u/Betafemanon makes a good point that most Western men are psychologically, emotionally, or financially unstable. Which is what I keep hearing from other women. So, you have a great point about the many beta guys out there. Not only are they unstable in the above ways, they also appear VERY shy as a group. (I'm a former shy guy myself. But no longer, because I made the effort to change.)
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 11:31 AM
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See in order for us to have happy long term relationships, ... we have to put effort into ourselves and our attitudes. That's really what being a RPW means. This is basically my philosophy. Both men and women have to put more effort into relationships. I don't find many women who actually will do that though. Most women I meet seem to think life is a Disney movie and love happens, and is continued, with no effort at all. Or maybe with the occasional 1980s-style montage. :) While men being attrac…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 11:20 AM
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I think you should choose what works for you and your SO in your situation. In general, be an adult and talk about problems before someone blows up about it. Brainstorm to try and find a compromise. Sometimes sacrifices have to be made by all people. Be ready to sacrifice. That does not mean you don't get what you need. Define what you "need" vs what you "want". Sometimes the "wants" have to go unmet for a while. Being submissive does not mean your needs go unmet. Ask for your needs to be met. T…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/13 01:56 PM
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If you want to be a housewife, be honest and find a man that wants that also. Don't let other people bring you down with forced gender roles. Now go forth and be happy. :) But also realize it's not economically feasable for most families to have a non-working spouse these days. Most importantly, why is housewife now a dirty word? A subgroup of feminists wants to force you into a gender role THEY chose. Sounds just like the 1950s doesn't it?
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/13 01:49 PM
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This confirms what other studies have said. Introverts tend to have very good imaginations and lean toward enjoying the creative arts, reading, writing, art, role-playing games, etc. There tends to be a LOT more introverts in various engineering disciplines also.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/13 01:47 PM
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Guy here. A platonic compliment like that is not the same as showing romantic interest. It's one of those "vague flirts" that is just poor communication IMO. Many guys just want the girl to be clear if she wants a date. So, say that. I've had plenty of girls give me compliments who don't want to date me. You can be RPW and still have good communication, they are not mutually exclusive. Be more forward. Do you want an alpha who is confident enough to be with a forward women? Or some beta who gets…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/13 01:42 PM
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The girl sounds selfish. She wants the money, and time with him too. It doesn't work that way.
/r/MensRights20/09/13 05:25 PM
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Why did total child care go from 13 hours to 21 hours per week? Does this include enrolling the kids in sports and scouts more often?
/r/MensRights20/09/13 03:07 PM
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Welcome to MR. You are getting tons up upvotes here not just because you support us, but because you are rational and thoughtful. Thank you.
/r/MensRights20/09/13 02:58 PM
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"women are biologically not inclined to violence like men" That's not true. Women are more at risk for certain mental illnesses which can lead to violence. Sources: http://www.who.int/mental_health/prevention/genderwomen/en/ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mental_disorders_and_gender "Women 40% more likely to develop mental illness than men." http://atlanta.cbslocal.com/2013/05/23/study-women-40-percent-more-likely-to-develop-mental-illness-than-men/ "Women are more likely to be diagnosed with anxi…
/r/MensRights20/09/13 02:50 PM
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Food for thought. I require a woman with enough confidence to give a clear flirt. Some flirts are clear, some are not so clear, some are unclear in different contexts. Low self-esteem in a woman can kill a relationship, this is why I place a high value on it. Low-self esteem trends, as I've actually seen them, taints a woman's emotions, causes her to assume things, and causes her to take action with no hard evidence to back up her reason. I don't mind making the first move, or risk a failure. Bu…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/13 01:28 PM
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Yep. THAT is a flirty look. That is not something a woman does to a friend.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/13 01:22 PM
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Are you talking about the girl's lower lip bite?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/13 01:21 PM
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The above comment is guy approved. :) Go back to whatever you were doing. Hopefully this is enough to draw them over. If not, casually make your way over to them, talk with friends on the way, grab a drink, etc. This part is critical: don't give up. Many guys don't want to misinterpret a flirty signal, so they take no action. All they want is a more clear signal. A girl winking at me in a bar is flirty. A girl winking at me at the grocery store is not, because bars are normally pickup points, an…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/13 01:20 PM
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I don't want my SO to take care of me, except if she insists. I hate being sick, but doctor says I must get rest and drink a lot of water. And that does work. I hate staying in one place for hours, or days. Getting up to get my own food is a relief. Only twice in my 40+ years have I needed help walking: once when I had severe dehydration with giardia, and once when I had my first case of kidney stones. If I'm too sick to get my own food, I'm too sick to eat it. (Digesting food requires energy, a…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 09:06 PM
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one of the first things you should do is meet her parents True. I never knew how important it was to get to know the parents. The nut doesn't fall far from the tree.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/13 08:59 PM
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One problem with MRA, I think, is that most think feminists are all the same, even if that is your personal experience. Your experience is valid, but that does not mean all feminists are extremists. For me personally, 99% of my interactions in real life and online were with EFs. But that is only because the extremist feminists (EFs) are more aggressive and louder. When you have no rational case, you can only raise your voice. If you want to see some moderate feminists supporting equal rights, tr…
/r/MensRights19/09/13 01:56 PM
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This was hard to hear all the voices. What exactly went on? It looks like something happened before the video started.
/r/MensRights19/09/13 01:49 PM
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Some people resort to personal attacks when they no longer have a valid argument.
/r/MensRights19/09/13 01:45 PM
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US Annual suicides per 100k. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_differences_in_suicide US Percent in workplace. http://www.census.gov/newsroom/pdf/women_workforce_slides.pdf‎ US Homicide percent. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/1635092 US Domestic Violence, prevalence. http://www.americanbar.org/groups/domestic_violence/resources/statistics.html Sorry I don't have sources for the rest as they were probably Reddit comments.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 06:34 PM
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What MR stands for is in the FAQ. See sidebar.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 02:32 PM
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What graphics did you want? Posters from extremist feminists? Examples of misandry? Written policies of arresting men in domestic violence situations when there is no evidence? Breakdown of men and women in the workforce? Suicide completions men vs women? I'll start work on the suicide rates and workforce data. Here it is.: suicide rate, workplace death ratio, homeless percent, percent in workforce, homicide percent. You'll want to copy this as I might delete it later.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 12:50 PM
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Your feminist friend is conveniently ignoring family court rules for divorced fathers, and how they do restraining orders on men without hard evidence. And that's just two examples. When a court believes a woman's word and ignores the man's, that's sexism.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 12:30 PM
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Great point covering both ends of the extremes. Which is why I get to know the person as an individual. I need more evidence to show trends of why she is a certain way. One piece of information (number of partners) is not enough to show a trend for me to make an informed decision.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/13 10:45 AM
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Michigan. We're well known for several really awful things like the assault laws, family courts, horrible public defender system, red tape discouraging making movies here, corruption in major cities (Detroit especially), failing public schools (Detroit, Grand Rapids, Flint, North Muskegon), etc. The rationale was: it's simply too difficult for police to figure out who was the aggressor, and who was the offender, without a video. Witnesses could not be reliable, the friends would always side with…
/r/MensRights17/09/13 06:53 PM
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the whole philosophy. I think you may misunderstand. TRP is not about "all or nothing". You read "rules", analyze them, and decide which ones are right for you in your situation. I am unable to have my SO stay at home. That is simply a reality I have to deal with. But TRP doesn't want to shame anyone if they want to be a house wife. It's about choice. Random smiley for you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/13 05:50 PM
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Men almost always went to war, women didn't. There were rare exceptions, like in women-led societies like the Amazons of the Russian steppes and the Celts of Ireland. From 50,000BC to about mid-20th century. Not sure when Israel actually required women to serve in the military.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 05:13 PM
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he clearly couldn't be named primary carer because he is just the boy's father. Can you bold this part please? This is ridiculous and heart-breaking. Social Services actually has rules in place to harm children. It works a lot like this in the US too. The woman often gets custody if she just asks. She doesn't have to prove she is a fit mother, or a better parent. She gets special rights just because of her gender.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 05:10 PM
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In the US this is also common. If you don't like it, you can file a lawsuit. But who has money for a lawsuit these days?
/r/MensRights17/09/13 05:05 PM
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Unreasonable divorce laws play a big part in the falling fortunes of young men. Let's not forget that.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 04:53 PM
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Approaching a drunken idiot is stupid. She should have stayed out of it and called the police. In my state, if I would have defended my woman, it would require a fight, and I'd now be in jail. Smart people don't go to jail.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 04:10 PM
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Tell her that the high-status popular boys that she is attracted to will probably be the worst choice she could make because they know they are in demand and can have their pick and will use her and then either cheat or dump her for the next pretty thing to come along. As a guy I can confirm this. I had to listen to my "associates" (and I use that term loosely) brag about the latest chick they bedded. Recommend that she go for a cute quiet boy as he'll be more likely to treat her well. Maybe, or…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/13 03:48 PM
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+1 for you. I've learned that no matter what you call it (RPW or feminism), how you achieve it, balance is key.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/13 03:44 PM
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Everyone is going to have limits to the max partners they will tolerate in a woman. TRP numbers will probably trend lower. I find that most very inexperienced women are not relationship material because they don't try to have sex, and they are unwilling to learn because they cannot conquer their nervousness. And they often have horrible communication. I don't want to be their psychiatrist, I want to be their SO. That said, if a woman is inexperienced, that is not the deciding factor for me. The …
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/13 03:40 PM
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I pretty much agree with you. What I meant was for the sub to tell the dom initially what she likes, then the dom takes it from there. People can't read minds and some initial communication is involved and subs all prefer different things.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/13 10:44 AM
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I'm glad your dad gave you the reason why. Most dads I know are not this perceptive of their own kids.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/13 02:19 PM
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When I'm upset (which is rarely) I tell my woman exactly what I want before I rant, so she does not have to guess. I just need to vent a little. I have a low tolerance for stupid people who have the skills but that don't even try and that's usually the issue. I don't get upset over people who have no skills, thus they can't do a certain job.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/13 02:10 PM
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for us it means he controls the money (I do get a weekly allowance) Wow. 2 things feminists around the US are having conniptions about now. Lol. "Control the money" and "allowance."
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/13 02:00 PM
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My 2 cents. He already agreed to take care of the cat. Just tell him "The cat peed in the living room. Can you please get that?" An adult will follow through on his agreement, or admit a cat is not a good fit for him at this time. Also, cats often pee outside the litter box when they are stressed, like when they go to a new home, or a new cat is introduced, or the owners are away for a while. Cats are very sensitive to stress. See /r/cats or /r/pets for more info.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/13 01:55 PM
1

As a guy I don't like bimbos, never have. I want to connect with a woman who is a mature, rational adult. I want someone who knows their strengths and weaknesses, and knows how to work with them. It's been hard to find, but I won't settle for anything else. I love you ladies, you are really quality people. The trend here seems to be supporting rational choices for what works for you. More power to you. And ignore the feminist extremists as I do.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/13 01:13 PM
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As long as you know you like dominant guys, encourage him by telling him exactly what you like. (Describe the situation above and tell him you liked it). Keep communication going and you will get what you want almost every time. Isn't that a good thing? :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/13 12:46 PM
3

Lately I've seen a lot of posts of the equivalent of "Haha, look at this woman get it!" or straight up complaints about woman. I think this approach is wrong I agree. This bad attitude is the same as the feminists. I think we can do better. I understand people are angry. But maybe they can deal with that in the privacy of their own home, not on a public network.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 03:20 PM
2

It's the arrogance of women to just accept the offer as if they are more valuable than men that pisses me off. Let's look at it another way. Maybe it's not arrogance, but women taking advantage of any loophole of the system. They still do it now by asking for max child support even though they might make 200% more than the man. People take advantage of the system and any loopholes. That's how many people are.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 03:17 PM
2

Wow, $2000 per month? What is that as a percent of your take home pay? Getting rid of the arrears all depends on the laws of your state.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 03:15 PM
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Things won't get better for men until the get worse for women. I now what you're trying to say here. I would rephrase it thusly: "Things won't get better for men until women suffer like men."
/r/MensRights12/09/13 11:40 AM
1

I've come across this as well. I wonder if there is data to show that men do more shoplifting than women? "Men and women shoplift about equally." http://www.shopliftingprevention.org/whatnaspoffers/nrc/publiceducstats.htm “But we were able to determine that men actually stole more often than women.” http://news.ufl.edu/2005/08/10/shoplifters/ "Men tend to shoplift using knapsacks, and women using strollers." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shoplifting
/r/MensRights12/09/13 11:28 AM
1

Are you simply commenting on how much of the world sees America as the local bully? Just curious. I can understand why other countries have that attitude. I can also understand why America gets involved in the world to address regional problems...because no one else will.
/r/MensRights12/09/13 11:24 AM
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I'm opposed to hate groups in general. I'm for equal rights for everyone. That means equal opportunity. If you want to be successful, you have to work equally hard. I don't associate with irrational, violent people. If you want to do a survey, Google Drive Forms lets you do free surveys, simple automatic graphs, and stores the results in a spreadsheet to do more complex graphs. It's all free but you do need to sign up for an account. Example graph of Redditor demographics.
/r/MensRights12/09/13 11:21 AM
15

A rare case where a woman has to learn what it's like to be a man. Too bad it's so rare.
/r/MensRights12/09/13 11:03 AM
2

Ah, well The Sniffer guy sounds odd. Not all guys are like this.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 07:37 PM
6

Whether this woman is bipolar or not, she posted on a public internet for all to see of her own free will. Someone needs to tell her what is wrong about her attitude, if only to help her get the help she needs.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 04:38 PM
2

You sound hypersensitive to certain stimuli for some reason. You sound like you have some anxieties about men or fear of getting raped. The level at which you have it is not normal and can greatly hinder your dating life if you don't deal with it soon. I don't mean ignore it, or hide it, I mean really deal with it. If you need therapy, get it. If you need medication, try it. But don't let this slide. Guys approach you after standing around a while because they are working up the courage to talk …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/13 01:03 PM
2

I see TRP as the man being the leader in general, and the woman helping him. That does not mean the woman is a beta. It's recognizing that there are trends in the abilities of the different genders, and I want to address those trends, use their strengths, and address the weaknesses, to form a lasting relationship. Example: I've never found a woman better at managing money than me. So I will be in charge of the money. If she was some stock whiz, shut up and take my money! I see TRP as a starting …
/r/askTRP10/09/13 06:43 PM
1

Try saying "Quiet a minute and I'll get to you." You assert your boundaries and you send the message she will get her turn. Like every other adult, she needs to wait in line sometimes.
/r/askTRP10/09/13 06:38 PM
1

Try /r/polyamory.
/r/askTRP10/09/13 06:37 PM
2

Her: Will it be just us? You: Yes.
/r/askTRP10/09/13 06:33 PM
3

Not interested in a female friend. I devote my time to my woman, not my female friend.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/13 06:26 PM
2

You just brightened my day. Here's a hug. :)
/r/MensRights10/09/13 12:47 PM
0

We just had a post on not releasing private information on Reddit. You might consider removing personal info. So, welcome to Reddit! Where we have karma and the karma doesn't matter.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 11:18 AM
1

I've seen it, but only at the high school and college level.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 11:10 AM
2

Wait, is that a woman in the picture? A woman for MRA? I thought all men were evil and to be hated by all women? Halp! My head is going to kaplode! Or maybe I'm being oppressed! :) Anyway thanks for your support. Unlike feminism, men's rights is about equality for everyone.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 11:06 AM
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"Patriarchy" is the word feminists use when they don't want to take responsibility for their own actions. Yes, most of the top leaders are men, in politics and industry. That does not mean it's a conscious conspiracy.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 11:00 AM
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When people fun out of logical arguments, they resort to personal attacks. OP, this just means you won. Also, I get a lot of sex just fine.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 10:58 AM
1

In many US states, no contract or prenup will protect you from child support or alimony. Michigan is one such state. In the US, your best bet is not to get married at all. Source: I'm divorced in Michigan. It's well-known to be a highly sexist state against men in family court.
/r/MensRights10/09/13 10:57 AM
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Head wounds tend to bleed a lot, I can't remember why there are so many veins up there. If a former doctor checked it out, it sounds ok.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 02:45 PM
2

Get her to sign an agreement to sex BEFORE sex. In 1989 this was "suggested" at my college due to several false rape allegations on campus. And the administration made the form and distributed it to all dorms. My uni's position: She cannot consent if she's had any alcohol at all. It's not bulletproof, but it will help.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 02:40 PM
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Allegations: Daughter, age 7, is diagnosed with a developmental disorder where she kicks, bites and screams. She was placed on anti-psychotic meds which drastically improved her behavior. Father read side effects of the meds from Wikipedia to a 7 year old developmentally disabled girl, at which point she became convinced her mom was trying to poison her. It's unclear whether father found the actual medication daughter was taking. I didn't have time to watch the whole video. The father has restra…
/r/MensRights09/09/13 02:30 PM
2

Taking care of one baby wasn't that hard for me. I wouldn't know about multiple kids.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 02:15 PM
2

I thought I recognized lds.org. It's the Latter Day Saints religious group!
/r/MensRights09/09/13 02:10 PM
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I don't see how separating girls from guys at school will help the girls to work side-by-side with guys in the real world.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 12:29 PM
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I'm not trying to shame anyone. But just being stuck in "anger mode" will not help them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/13 12:24 PM
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FA = forever alone guy
/r/MensRights09/09/13 12:23 PM
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Upvote from a guy. TRP guys just need to be a man and get over it already! Being angry is normal, but being stuck in "anger mode" is not helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/13 11:55 AM
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I’m not going to believe I haven’t matured since I was 18 and that I am forever just “the most responsible teenager in the house”. TRP is observing trends, but they are horrible making that clear. There are always exceptions. I'm a guy, and their observations of trends match my own, but the anger is just not helpful to me. I do not allow anger or drama in my life as a general rule. To say or imply, that all men, or all women, are alike is just plain silly. The top 3 things couples fight about ar…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/13 11:51 AM
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Very kind to me, my family and his own family (with exceptions for those who weren't blessed with a good family... it happens). Guy here. Your ability to understand that life is not perfect, and there are exceptions, is attractive to the intelligent, confident man. Don't give up, don't settle, and keep looking for that guy that is just for you. Expand your dating pool, and for dating, be less picky. That perfect guy might just appear in the most unexpected place. Good luck! :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/13 11:47 AM
1

Promiscuity, for anyone, may not be the root problem. It may be a symptom (of sexual addiction) or a result (of being very successful with women, where jumping from woman to woman actually becomes a habit, like smoking). There could be one or more reasons men don't want to bond or get married. Let's look at some of these. The cost of divorce simply isn't worth the risk of marriage because the general quality of women they hear about is very low. (I'm not picking on the redditors here, I'm referr…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/13 02:18 PM
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I'm getting "page not found". I didn't realize a ban mean total deletion of an account.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 08:02 PM
1

in the last 1-2 years feminism has recognized that fatherhood has been weakened and that harms everyone. I have no evidence of this. If it's not a bunch of crazy feminists, the major media won't cover it. The PDF was damaged. I can't open it. It may have been damaged during the upload to Drop box.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 04:46 PM
2

One reasonable solution might be to say to him: "I like you. When are you going to ask me out?" And smile. Most guys just want to know for sure you like them before they ask you out.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/13 04:21 PM
1

All the attorneys for Michigan for this firm are women.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 03:16 PM
1

Studies are generally not done for good reason: it would show the corruption and inequality in the courts. I haven't found a study yet.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 03:08 PM
1

The system is biased against you. You cannot help your children if you spend yourself into homelessness via a lawsuit.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 03:03 PM
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The woman got the lesser charge for the same crime.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 02:14 PM
1

I threw up a little in my mouth. Gross.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 01:04 PM
1

Is his username /u/pigman? I want to see his post history.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 01:03 PM
1

Per my lawyer, in Michigan unwanted touching is called "battery". But you need a video as evidence to show the police otherwise they won't do anything. In Michigan, battery is also: throwing an object at a person, knocking an object out of a person's hand.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 12:57 PM
1

And what the hell are so many men doing in the protest? Not everyone has the ability to think for themselves.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 12:56 PM
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I had no idea.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 12:52 PM
1

Wait. NAMGLA is for girls as NAMBLA is for boys? TIL.
/r/MensRights06/09/13 12:51 PM
2

I'm not sure I understand. Are citizens giving input on how the ballot for an upcoming election should look?
/r/MensRights06/09/13 12:49 PM
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The proper use of pepper spray by a civilian varies by jurisdiction. But I think the Toronto PD was trying to take the high road on this one, to make the feminists look even worse.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 10:32 PM
1

Is it just me, or do women at your office simply talk and socialize a lot more? That might explain part of the wage gap.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 03:18 PM
1

I would agree. Sociopathy would be the more extreme form of this problem.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 11:42 AM
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You, sir, owe me a new monitor as my sudden laughter spewed my coffee all over it. :) Spitting guy.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 11:11 AM
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Welcome to the real world and double standards, kid. Don't let the hypocrisy get you down. You sound like a very mature person, but in general the human brain doesn't mature until age 25. That's when the circuits for logical analysis and long-term thinking are finalized. And some people never mature. See "Brain undeveloped until age 25." You will also find people who like to blame others for their own problems. This is a symptom of a sociopath. See Sociopath.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 11:11 AM
0

Frankly, you shouldn't be trusting a woman at all. They are not trustworthy creatures. They are not hard-wired to feel personal honour. In general I agree. But I have found some rare women, 1 or 2, that I can trust. Like the one that talked to me like an adult when she realized she couldn't commit. She could have acted crazy to make me break up with her, but she has more ovaries than that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/13 10:54 AM
1

No. You have to understand how the shadowy marketers work, the ones who are small operations skimming web pages for emails. They tend to hire bottom of the barrel programmers who just don't understand regex very well.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 10:44 AM
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I thought it was in the FAQ or MR welcome message: equal rights for all, special rights for no one. Doesn't that cover it?
/r/MensRights04/09/13 11:18 PM
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One problem with Michigan divorce cases is how the judges interpret the laws...mostly in favor of women. And a judge cannot be sued for a decision he made on the bench either. So there is no balance of power.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 11:15 PM
1

Someone please file a lawsuit for sexism in the workplace. "Hostile workplace! Hostile workplace!"
/r/MensRights04/09/13 11:13 PM
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If summer visitation is not written into the divorce agreement, you can't enforce it. This is why Michigan turns the DA into a court order. Sorry man.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 11:11 PM
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Feminism. It's sad and entertaining all in one ball of whirling anger. Did you know one part of a sociopath is blaming all your problems on someone else? See Sociopath.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 11:10 PM
1

Yes I'm a guy who prefers a relationship. But I'm not giving it up to just anyone. They have to prove themselves to be a quality woman, not a girl-child. "Walk the walk and then we'll talk." If you want to help improve the marriage issue, change the divorce laws. That's the main thing holding back many men from marriage. Right now, it's just not worth it to get married. It's a huge risk for a man. Also everyone, speak up and tell them you are a moderate person who wants equal rights for everyone…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 09:09 PM
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Maybe the video by former FOC enforcement officer Carol Rhodes would help you. Friend of the Court, Enemy of the Family. Exposing corrupt family court systems. Focusing on Michigan. "The system was not designed to be child-friendly...It was all about money." Carol Rhodes.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 05:29 PM
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It looks like that one source was wrong. The actual judges do not seem to get kickbacks, though the local court system does get 66% of costs related to CS reimbursed. See this: Title IV-D and Corruption. Lots of sources for its data. Many other links.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 05:15 PM
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Also this: http://achildsright.typepad.com/achildsright/titleivd.html It has a lot of sources and links.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 05:06 PM
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Read up on Title IV-D.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 05:05 PM
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I found something. Facebook MI FOC Reform
/r/MensRights04/09/13 04:58 PM
0

I just posted this here.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 04:44 PM
1

Get sliced, to have evidence of assault, then go to a neighbor's house and call the police. Let them deal with it. The police won't do shit without hard evidence, especially if you're a man.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 02:50 PM
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If she's a feminist, dump her. If she can't understand that men get raped, dump her. I'm not saying men get raped more than women, I'm staying men do get raped. And they get raped a lot by other men in prison. If she's not for equal rights, dump her.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 02:34 PM
4

Where's my fez? I want my fez.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 02:28 PM
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You may want to mangle your email so you don't get spammed. Like this: doug dante1 at yahoo.com (remove spaces)
/r/MensRights04/09/13 02:27 PM
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Thanks for your support. I'd like more women to know these are not just isolated incidents, but a whole cultural trend that's been going on since the 1970s.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 02:26 PM
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Guy here. Guys who call you a bitch for asserting your rights are dick heads you don't want to be around anyway. Guys are sensitive too and they get their feelings hurt, this is not your problem, it's theirs. Calling you a bitch just means they can't handle rejection. This is a very immature trait. Stay away from these types. And you are going to find a LOT of immature guys in their 20s and 30s. Trust me. You may not want to waste your time with these, maybe date older guys. As a guy who's been …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/13 10:55 AM
0

Most women don't smell like men do. Source: I'm a man.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/13 07:18 PM
1

Friend of the Court, Enemy of the Family. Exposing corrupt family court systems. Focusing on Michigan. "The system was not designed to be child-friendly...It was all about money." Woman asks court for child support, judge impregnates her. I need feminsim because... Crazy signs by feminists.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 06:05 PM
0

Feminism can suck a hill of dicks (and vaginae) A rational woman is a rare thing indeed. This is one reason why I'm still single. It's also one reason I'm going Red Pill. But I'm glad she made this video.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 05:24 PM
0

And that the man must at some point during the pregnancy consent to parental rights But but...that would mean the woman has to actually take responsibility for her actions! That would never do in a politically correct world. (That was sarcasm.)
/r/MensRights03/09/13 05:18 PM
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I found these floating around in support of MR. Some list their sources. What is male privilege? It's a man's world. Feminists should be radical.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 05:14 PM
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Thank you for your positive story. You are a great quality person. They don't think about how much they're hurting someone they once loved. They also don't think how their decisions affect the culture at large, and they don't think how their actions affect how men think about marriage. There's a reason marriage is on the decline. It's because divorce is too costly. Especially when you add in alimony and child support. Did you two have kids? How much did he pay in child support?
/r/MensRights03/09/13 05:09 PM
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Let’s get the moral quandary out of the way right off the bat, shall we? Men rule the world. They have all the money, all the power, all the opportunities and all the privilege. So fuck them. My plan for profiteering is not only perfectly moral, it’s pretty much REQUIRED just as means to get the balance a little more right. Men have had it too easy for too long and it’s time for a little comeuppance. Accurate domain is accurate.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 05:04 PM
1

Be careful not to let sexuality alone determine who to marry. When the sex is gone, is she a solid, reliable, kind person who will be there through the downs as well as the ups? Because there will be downs.
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:47 PM
1

I cook because I'm in charge, and I determine what we will eat. "I am man and I cook meat."
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:43 PM
3

Just because they're hot doesn't mean they are confident. Many of them have really bad self-esteem problems. Also, many women don't go to clubs to get picked up. They just like to dance.
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:41 PM
1

From a documentary I saw earlier this year, chivalry was made up mostly by bards and poets first, then adopted by the upper class as a romantic notion. I think it was from Youtube, so search that. The dirty little secret was, sexuality was much more accepted in the Middle Ages than it is now in America. And some of the bard tales were actually quite bawdy and graphic. But history books won't print that. The Chivalric Code actually had a set of rules for a man "kidnapping" a woman if he loved her…
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:36 PM
1

What about the Charles Bronson movies from the 1970s? I can't remember the name but his character had several movies.
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:33 PM
0

Why not give her suggestions? Because if she can't talk about adult topics like this, you know she's not relationship material.
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:28 PM
1

Her boyfriend got involved and pushed me away saying that it doesn't matter that she hit me because she is a girl. Call the police. It matters to them. Call the police and let them handle if, while you have evidence of assault, like a red mark on your face. This won't stop unless the police get involved with her. You are likely not the first person she's hit. Explanation: In my state the guy is MUCH more likely to go to jail for defending himself, than the woman. That's why I just let the police…
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:23 PM
1

My interpretation: You are overly sensitive about your body, and have not yet accepted yourself as imperfect, and ok.Guess what? You're not perfect, deal with it. Your SO sounds ok overall, but there are issues you need to talk to her about and resolve. Put your foot down and insist on getting it resolved. Start with one issue at a time. When that is resolved, move on to the next. Don't dump all the issues on her at once. It doesn't work. Get your ass out there and skateboard and have a beer wit…
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:18 PM
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Find a girl whose stupidity level you can tolerate. This might take a while, be patient.
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:13 PM
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And tell the girls about the party 4-5 days ahead of time, so they don't make other plans.
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:11 PM
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I find a few Redpillers to use the "Rule of Thumb" as a strict rule with no exceptions, while they ignore details of individual cases. To ignore facts of each case is irrational. It sounds like this one girl might truly be sorry for her past, and now has a more positive attitude about relationships. The fact that she can admit she was wrong, and seems to learn from it, is a good point. Be glad she went through her party phase in the past, instead of with you. That's the silver lining I think. Pe…
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:08 PM
3

You're not a man, but not because of what Roosh said. You are not independent. You didn't get a good enough education to make yourself indispensable, to get a solid job. A college degree guarantees nothing. Especially the wrong degree. Work on getting a job, any job to help pay bills, and maybe work towards getting a career. I don't care if you're a garbage man or CEO. You be the best damn garbage man you can be, and then some. You show up to work on time, every time, no excuses. You do the best…
/r/askTRP03/09/13 02:00 PM
1

Samantha tried to get onto the field during a game and was arrested. She blew .341 on a breathalyzer. And she's proud of this? Is her life really that empty? I'd bet money this was a parenting problem.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/13 10:36 AM
3

I have not met one girl yet who doesn't explode into a ball of scalding metal if I try to explain to her that feminism is not for equality For me, the default definition of "feminism" is the subgroup that gets the most publicity, which is the extremists by far. I think this is where the misunderstanding comes from. Many women don't understand that all men hear about is the extremists. Now add in that the moderate feminists rarely speak out against the extremists, and that makes the moderates loo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/13 10:32 AM
1

Sugarcrush is correct. The skin absorbs all kinds of things, but not everything. The skin is how some medications are given (like some birth control, testosterone gel, stop smoking patches).
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 05:34 PM
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Then he made arrangements to sell the two tickets for which he paid nothing to two of his friends without telling me. He's a bad bad man. He needs a spanking. That is, if he's not into that. :) If my woman plans a major date like that, I show up whether I want to or not, because I want to show I appreciate her effort.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 05:23 PM
1

OMG I love it. You're showing your man he is a valuable person. That's a basic human need. And you're frank about sex. lol. Good for you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 05:21 PM
2

Yes, because it's what he likes. Although culture may look down on him, he knows what he likes, and he's still proud to be with her in public. The majority of men prefer fit women, so red pill concentrates on looking fit. There are exceptions. Red Pill stuff is just addressing majority trends, that's all.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 05:16 PM
1

If the potential is there, then stick with him if he goes to therapy. During my therapy I finally realized I need to talk to my gf, so she could understand what I was going through. And it helped a lot. But it was terrifying for me to reach out like that. Because I had never done it before. New things are terrifying. Keep that in mind. Emotionally reaching out and trusting her over time was one of the hardest things I ever did. And now there's not much that scares me. And now, feeling close to s…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 05:10 PM
1

'Murica = the subgroup of Americans, actually quite a large subgroup, that prefers shortcuts over long-term solutions. These are the irrational, non-thinking people who make continuous mistakes and wonder why their lives are so hard. Some of them make such bad decisions they are a threat to themselves and others around them. And in the end, life just tends to blow up around them, and they wonder what went wrong, yet continue to do the same thing that got them in trouble in the first place. "A fo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 05:06 PM
1

Miley Cyrus is not edgy or cool or sexy. She’s a desperate girl screaming for attention: Notice me. Nah, not really. That's just good marketing. Good marketing targets the biggest market: the lowest common denominator, that's all she's doing.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 03:16 PM
1

Yes that sounds like me.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 02:53 PM
2

You're not ready for dating. Wait a year after the divorce is final. Get your mind together first. but I just dont want to deal with her bullshit, no matter how hot she is. BS from immature womyn is normal. Your frustration is normal because you are now developing healthy boundaries. You will find that the majority of Western women are incompatible with a healthy long-term relationship. Depending on your city this might vary from 70-95% (my estimate based on experience). Your low T can make you …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 02:45 PM
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How do you define "left wing"? That could mean a lot of different things. Do you mean the extremist feminists? Because they are the dominant feminist group who gets the most publicity, and it's clear they don't want equal rights. So, I'm for equal rights, and I don't support feminism. As far as serial relationships go, that's fine with me. People date, it doesn't work out, and then they date someone else. That's what happens.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 02:31 PM
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What is MMSL? I only have a small amount of guilt and I'm not letting it be a part of my life anymore. But I thought I would comment on it anyway. Surely I can't be the only guy that feels like this.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 02:24 PM
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Don't worry OP, your peace of mind alone will make sex MUCH better. I'm also clipped.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 02:23 PM
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The laser version also has a higher failure rate as it does grow back sometimes. My vasectomy puts a clip on each vas deferens so IF the ends grow back and connect, still, no more babies. Source: my urologist.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 02:20 PM
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Sometimes I just want a burger. I'm not that complicated. lol. Sure I can make it myself, but some people are "givers" and like to feel useful. I'm understanding that now.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 01:58 PM
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We have Christmas dinner, but sometimes on Dec 24, 25, or 26, depending on plans of other family members. My family is all over the state. We drink and play cards or games. Some of the games are really funny once you have a glass of wine.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 11:24 AM
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That depends on the website. The free websites are often full of the unemployed, the unemployable, and the obese.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 11:21 AM
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I'm in my early-40s, single, fit, established, and don't live with my mom! lol. I've been told I look 35. I'm considering dating younger girls because they don't seem as jaded and bitter as the older girls. But I'm having trouble finding red pillers in my area. I'm divorced so you know I'm not some kind of ogre.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 11:20 AM
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www.meetup.com is free and you can find hobby groups in your city. It has everything from biking, lifting weights, to card games, table games, RPG, etc. I've tried it. And it's not for dating, just socializing. But you can meet people there too.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 11:18 AM
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www.meetup.com is free and you can find hobby groups in your city. It has everything from biking, lifting weights, to card games, table games, RPG, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 11:17 AM
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Wanting a relationship, and wanting to do the work for a relationship, are two very different things. Most Americans want an easy solution for their problem, a pill they take once a day. They don't really want to work for it. This also helps explain the obesity rate. I think the blue pill women want an easy relationship that they don't have to work at. Because 'Murica. (If you don't know what 'Murica means let me know.)
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 11:10 AM
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Just an small clarification. Some men are scared of marriage for emotional reasons, some don't want marriage due to horrendous divorce laws. I wouldn't just say "men squander commitment." There's a reason they don't want commitment, whether they understand what's going on in their minds, and tell you, or not. Divorce laws these days simply make it too expensive to get married.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/13 11:08 AM
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Personally, I don't want to strive for that level of maturity, because I like needing men in my life. And that's all fine. But people do need a minimum amount of maturity to make a LTR last. And they need to know how relationships work too. That helps a lot. As long as my SO is an asset, not a liability, I can deal with that, because I'm a strong man. It doesn't matter so much HOW she's an asset, it matters that she's an asset to the relationship. I agree with you again. lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 09:40 PM
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Everyone's nature means they have a "neutral point" where their actions in this neutral point are easy for them. Her neutral point may be she's just a selfish jerk.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 08:28 PM
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Now now. Let's not make assumptions. I've met 2 women who told me they were molested at a young age but they refuse to let it define them. They seemed like pretty balanced people, and I was impressed they were not man-haters and were able to move on from this. I've met women in my job who were professional, and nice people, not hard-driving selfish bitches. I've also met a few professional bitches in the workplace. I just stayed away from them. lol. As for them excelling at being feminine, I did…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 08:24 PM
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On the other hand, marrying a woman who puts in time and effort to maintain and improve her looks, is sexually adventurous and interesting, Not all men are sexually adventurous. That's why men make fun of Cosmo sex articles. Cosmo assumes all men are the same and love adventure. If you spend time in /r/askmen, they are VERY sexually conservative. In the real world, divorce has a very high cost for a man, not the woman. In many cases divorce, and child support, and alimony will set a man back to …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 08:18 PM
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And I agree with you again. :D
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 08:11 PM
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I think it's both nature and nurture. Life is not so simple that it would be just one or the other. I think a lot of women COULD be strong and not crack under pressure, if they were trained like men, but then I can't make plans based on "woulda coulda", I have to deal with the here and now. I have personally seen some women who were strong emotionally, creative, persistent, and overall great people, but they are pretty rare in my area. (I've lived in the same state my whole life but in several d…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 08:09 PM
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but I think the role ends up falling on the males shoulders because society wants to protect women from it being on their shoulders. ...because the average woman would crack under pressure, not that that makes them weaker or less valuable. I think we are in agreement, we are just saying it differently. lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 05:40 PM
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As a guy I guess I'm not a true redpiller, but I'd be ok if my SO had a high salary and career, as long as she was happy. I don't HAVE to be the only provider, I just want a healthy relationship, where both people put effort into it, and that's why I'm here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 05:38 PM
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Feminism is a sexual strategy rather than a movement for political and legal equality. First let me help you understand how "feminism" is perceived. There are many types of feminism. The default Feminism is defined by the subgroup that gets the most publicity, and that means the extremists. And in no way shape or form do they want equality with men. They work hard to have more power than men, and you only need to go to /r/mensrights to see the news articles about that. Now when you look at the f…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 05:35 PM
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If he's not ready for to be alpha, he's not ready. I became alpha because I was ready, and had a little push. An old gf wanted me to be dominant in the bedroom. So I tried it, and we both loved it. Her acceptance, nay, adoration, of my manimal helped my confidence a great deal. Now I'm gradually trying my other alpha traits, like at work.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 04:57 PM
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Maybe say you want a woman who needs you to take charge because you want to be pushed and supported to rise to new challenges because that's the kind of person you want to be. I never thought of it this way. You may have changed my whole life just now.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 04:36 PM
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"No," I smiled, "That just means I need a man with even higher dominance to check my own." Awwwww sa-NAP! lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 04:34 PM
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I had to read up on /r/BDSM to really understand the submissive thing. And what I mean is, I had to hear from women that they love being submissive in the bedroom, and it has made their whole relationship much better. You can tell people about this, that the women choose this, and they wouldn't have it any other way. It doesn't take a genius to see that they found happiness. What's wrong with happiness? OTOH, you don't have to make an effort with close-minded people who really don't want to see …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 04:32 PM
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First I would agree with your analysis, but I would not go so far as to say this is true of all western women. Not all women are weak and dependent on something else. But it would certainly apply to a large chunk of women in America, and if I guessed, I would say at least 50%. I'm dating and in my 40s, so this would apply to about 90% of my dating pool. These are the women who never matured, and thus are still single, or divorced. They do not know what a healthy relationship is, nor do they seem…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 04:23 PM
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Ah, but that part was a social commentary. Now that I'm informed, I'm letting go of the guilt. This sub is actually a step in my personal growth. This sub got me to realize where I actually need to go, who I need to be. I need to be me. Nothing more.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 04:07 PM
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Guy here. You could really use some gender flair here. :) As we all know, men have a naturally inclination to protect us. But, now I've realized that under that "umbrella of protection" men also protect us from the burden of having to be mature. I agree, and I blame a lot of the parents for not teaching their daughters, and sons, maturity. But I think the daughters are more affected by this. At the end of the day someone has to be able to step up and deal with it when shit really goes down, some…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 03:35 PM
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Thanks. From the article, for everyone: Cholesterol is a major constituent of the human brain (with about 35 grams of cholesterol in an adult brain [1]), and the brain is the most cholesterol-rich organ [2], containing about 20% of the body’s total cholesterol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 03:27 PM
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I will definitely tell him how much I like being with him and that I understand that because of his job we can't see each other as much, and it's okay,but I still love to hear to hear his voice and it would be nice if he called more often. Perfect! You indicated your needs clearly, and showed you understand the situation and are flexible, AND you showed interest. I feel like I should give you a gold star or something. lol. It's ok to ask me stuff. I never turn down someone if they are willing to…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 03:23 PM
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Thank you. Well said. I have no desire to micromanage anyone's life, I have enough to do as it is. lol.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 03:21 PM
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Using girl game at work to gain favors at others' expense is not right. Using girl game to encourage someone is ok. I simply assumed "girl game" was only in the context of finding a mate/dating.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:53 PM
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I don't mind if a woman pays, but I do 100% of the asking of first dates. So I pay. But if she wants to plan and pay for the second date, I really like that. It shows she's willing to put effort into the relationship, even if we don't know each other well. If she asked me out on a first date, I would like it, but I would also be shocked. I mean I might even be speechless, as in my brain no workee. I would also be very impressed and very interested in this very unusual girl. (Ladies, if you ask a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:36 PM
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If said he needs space that is something you should address, but still you can tell him "I know you need your space, but when you are ready, I like to hear your voice every day. When you are ready for a relationship, I want to hear you because your voice makes me feel special." This is being clear, but giving him the option to take action when he is ready. Also notice you are giving him a compliment: "your voice makes me feel special." He may not even realize how happy this can make you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:34 PM
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This this this. It's not that women shouldn't value themselves it's placing more value to the point where she is above her husband and kids. Yes yes yes! The problem is not women working, the problem is imbalance and selfishness in their life.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:23 PM
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If you need this, it's ok to ask for it. A relationship requires compromise, so both people get what they need. My SO likes to hear my voice also, so I call her every day. If she needs it, I do it, because I care about her happiness. She also meets my needs, because she cares about my happiness. There's a pretty good chance he may not understand the needs women have. So he may perceive it as being demanding, since he does not have this need. That is a short-sighted, ignorant way of looking at th…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:17 PM
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Go to www.meetup.com, it's free. You can find activity groups in your area/town and meet more people. You really need to meet more people, especially people who share your interests. Thus, meetup.com. Do you like hiking, biking, swimming, geocaching, board games, RPGs, cosplay? It's all in there.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:11 PM
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I didn't know a large part of the brain is cholesterol. I've heard there is a lot of fatty tissue in the brain, and cholesterol might be used to make certain tissues, but where does it say the brain actually contains a lot of cholesterol?
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:09 PM
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OP, you didn't mention that when women lift weights, that doesn't mean they will end up looking like a competitive body builder. That's what many women fear. The other thing I want to mention is: fitness is important but not every guy wants a perfect super model, because they often have VERY serious personality problems. (From personal experience.) If you are fit it shows you are responsible, you take care of yourself, that you can set and meet goals. It shows maturity. I don't care if your brea…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 01:07 PM
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I agree with you. And I used to be that shy guy. And I made a big effort to go out of my comfort zone and change that. And I was ridiculously successful (from a male point of view). But I also had some external factors forcing me to come out of my shell. In college all students were required to take a speech class. I was forced to deal with my anxieties. At age 19 I was giving presentations to a room of Senior VPs of a Fortune 500 company. I was nervous but hid it well.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 12:59 PM
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Guy here. Most guys would be intimidated by you because they are (wrongfully) taught that their biggest worth is how much money they make. They are taught, either consciously, or unconsciously, that if they make less money than a woman, that they are weak and unwanted. This issue does not bother me. In fact I love a strong, successful woman. But don't assume I'm submissive either, I'm not. The other problem is, I can't have a relationship if my SO is disappearing for 6 months at at time. I need …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 12:51 PM
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Good for you! They were angry because your acceptance of a healthy relationship is a threat to their preconceived notions of what a relationship should be.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 12:40 PM
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There is anger and crazies both MR and TRP but there is a lot more in TRP. And many times the way TRP phrases things, it sounds misogynist. Tact is an asset, people should learn to use it.
/r/MensRights29/08/13 12:36 PM
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You can say "I really would like if you called me once a day. It makes me feel very special. This is very important to me." While guys have their own ways of showing they care, you have your needs too, and they need to understand that their ways are not your ways. Request it, indicate how important it is, be specific, give a time frame (once a day). If he thinks that's demanding, he has other issues of his own.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 12:35 PM
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Treat others as you would like to be treated, right? This is so simple, why don't more people get it? Good job for you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 10:18 AM
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There's the occasional in /r/askmen that save themselves for marriage. If you hang out in any Reddit Christian subreddits there are more people like that. It's all about where you hang out.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 10:15 AM
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He's laid out 3 years till marriage and 5 to having kids. This is just generally but not with me except I want it to be with me and I don't know if it's just me, but I feel as though why would he be telling me if not for some mutual interest? He's being honest about his intentions and he's taking a huge risk by being honest. This timeline won't fit with many women and he could get rejected. The best way to find the woman I want is to be honest about what I want and about my timeline. That doesn'…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 10:10 AM
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You can't change them, especially if they are too far gone. Been there, done that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 10:05 AM
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Guy here. You don't seem to have any gender flair here. Summary: Good looks get you a first date. Good personality gets you a second date. A positive, supportive (not obsequious) personality is critical for a long-term relationship. But a 6/10 everyday cute woman who makes her man feel like a king is going to have a happier love life than a 9/10 supermodel woman who makes her man feel useless and miserable. Absolutely. I'm not looking for a super model. And I have bad experience with "barbie dol…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 10:01 AM
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Hello, new guy here, I hope you don't mind if I pop in. I'm a guy who prefers relationships and intimacy, so my answers will reflect that position. This guy is hurt by his past relationship, and he hasn't dealt with it or let it go. By his actions, and limited info I have, I can only conclude he is not ready for emotional commitment. Many guys have feelings, and they have trouble dealing with and processing those feelings because we are taught, from a very young age, to ignore the feelings. No o…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/13 09:55 AM
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I'll address this for the sake of discussion, but I think I made it clear I support the OP and don't support poor work ethics. But if a woman isn't capable of doing the same work as her male coworkers, shouldn't she be paid less? While that makes common sense, common sense and the law often don't mix and I'll address this from the point of the law. The law says you have to hire women in the same positions as men. Or the employer can get sued, under the Equal Employment Opportunity Act I think, o…
/r/MensRights29/08/13 09:37 AM
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No, the chlamydia test is putting a q-tip in the urethra. Others are blood tests, and still others test the exudate from sores. Peeing in cup is probably from decades ago.
/r/MensRights28/08/13 05:00 PM
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how can I keep neither my mother nor my father from getting completely screwed over in this divorce? You can't. That's up to how the judge interprets the law. The wife can get more than 50% of the assets based on various factors, like if the husband was cheating. Will California law completely honor my mother's demands? Possibly. The judges often favor the parent who has the kids for the most time each week. Does my dad get any say at all in this? I will gladly stand up if I feel something is un…
/r/MensRights28/08/13 04:50 PM
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ADD has been a scam from the very start. For most cases I agree. But I knew one kid who was either ADHD or "hyper", he was a danger to himself. Maybe he was bipolar with severe manic episodes, but he really did need help, and meds.
/r/MensRights28/08/13 04:41 PM
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yet you still managed to lose all of your property? His property was probably sold to pay child support. That's what often happens. "The child comes first" say the courts. Even if it destroys the father. Source: I'm also divorced. And yes, the courts really are this bad. And I have 30 years of other male divorced family members getting the shaft.
/r/MensRights28/08/13 04:36 PM
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In the US you can't just "quit", because jobs are in such short supply. If you quit, there might be another 20 people waiting for that position. This is even more true for lower wage jobs. And if OP files a grievance every day this happens, he'll be labeled as "not a team player" and get fired, which means, in my state, he can't get unemployment compensation.
/r/MensRights28/08/13 04:33 PM
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Why can't she be sweeping floor or something instead of using her phone during down time? To be fair, I wouldn't want a woman doing heavy lifting because they, on average, are not as strong as men in the upper body, and therefore are more prone to dropping heavy things. As an employer this would cost me more money in damaged goods, missed deadlines, workers comp, etc. and possibly a lawsuit. But otherwise, why can't they be kept busy just like a man?
/r/MensRights28/08/13 04:31 PM
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Wasn't this posted 2-3 weeks ago? I know I saw it recently. And I think it was satire.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 08:35 PM
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There's a difference between teaching children good manners, and preventing boys from rough housing. Boys rough house, it's in their nature. If you have to, send them outside, but you don't have to prevent them from being boys. Some boys need to get rid of that extra energy, it helps them to play rough. As far as verbal name calling with boys among themselves, that's fine too in the privacy of a house or car. That's not "bad manners", that's just boys being boys. I think they should not do that …
/r/MensRights27/08/13 05:11 PM
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what is it with these people and moving the goalposts? I don't think they are moving goalposts. They are so emotionally charged up they didn't even hear what you said, nor understand it. If they don't even hear or understand what you say, there is no dialogue going on. It's like you talking to a brick wall. Source: I've talked to this type before, and I no longer indulge them. I no longer assume they are capable of being rational.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 05:09 PM
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they're just trying to scream over me That's what a person does when they don't have a valid argument. Congratulations, you win.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 01:56 PM
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But isn't an important for them to learn when and where? Yes it is. Redirecting their energies outside is better than stopping them and sending the message "your gender is inherently flawed."
/r/MensRights27/08/13 01:15 PM
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Because theredpillers write stuff which could be interpreted as generalizations, when in fact, I believe they mean to illustrate a trend. On Reddit, you actually should write out "This is a trend I have personally observed" otherwise you'll get pissy comments about how generalizations don't apply to everyone. Because it's very angry and gets nowhere. It's extremist and comes off as a bunch of crazies, just like the feminists. all Many of the good points are swamped in a sea of misogyny. (Decent …
/r/MensRights27/08/13 01:10 PM
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Thanks. This doesn't even have a date inside the book. I wonder how old it is?
/r/MensRights27/08/13 12:20 PM
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First, thank you for chiming in, I appreciate your opinion. However as just a casual browser of this subreddit it strikes me that a lot of the posts here take issue with the notion of men being seen as lesser than women in supposed "feminine" areas like sensitivity. I'm not sure what you mean here. The majority of posts I read here are about news articles or official policy demonizing men and male traits, trying to remove equal rights for men, or illustrating lesser rights for men. Over in /r/as…
/r/MensRights27/08/13 12:12 PM
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As a boy I was taught (by my single mom) to be honest, do my homework, clean the house, do chores, follow through on my word, and be nice to people. As long as I did that I was fine. And I turned out to be a fine, hard-working, tax-paying citizen. Boys like to rough house verbally or physically, that's what boys do. Just because this woman can't understand this does not make it wrong. A boy bullying someone is wrong, 2 friends wrestling is just play time. And sometimes we as friends really do ge…
/r/MensRights27/08/13 12:08 PM
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Get a lawyer. Without a court order declaring his visitation rights, he has nothing. Once he has visitation rights, the mom will ask for child support. It will be a LOT of money. Be prepared for it.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 07:02 PM
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Is this a normal way that fathers get assaulted in court? Yes, it's very common in the US.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 05:29 PM
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Try this. It's both crazy feminist posters, rantings, etc, and women supportive of men's rights. http://imgur.com/a/NWSUj#0
/r/MensRights26/08/13 05:10 PM
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Maybe he should have said "Why do some women fall for serial killers?"
/r/MensRights26/08/13 04:40 PM
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Can you give a summary of the movie? Netflix link. The Netflix summary wasn't very helpful.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 04:32 PM
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I show them my imgur album filled with irrational feminist rage and hate towards men. A lot of women actually aren't aware of all this hate that is still out there. I didn't until I found Men's Rights. If the woman is still rational at this point, I continue with: I don't hate women, I just don't want any part of the hate groups. "Feminism" is defined by the group that gets the most publicity. The most publicity is by a hate group, who doesn't want equal rights for men and women. Moderate femini…
/r/MensRights26/08/13 04:26 PM
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Each US state has different rates. The base rates in Michigan are dependent upon the combined income of the 2 parents. The base rates are intended to keep the child in luxuries to which they are accustomed. Thus rates tend to be very high. Rates for an individual couple are calculated using many pages of tables. Did you want a PDF of the Michigan tables or something? Child support estimator for Michigan. The couple can agree to a lower rate if both agree. Which almost never happens. Source: I'm …
/r/MensRights26/08/13 04:19 PM
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Some general hints for teens I use: Provide a loving home. Tell them they can talk to you, and listen to them when they do. Provide a safe space for them to talk to you where you don't judge them. Provide safety instructions for life. They will want to try things on their own, they will sometimes fail, and you should help them get back up, within reason. Do not tell them "I told you so." Show them that even though they made mistakes, they are still lovable. I like to tell my son some of my funni…
/r/MensRights26/08/13 04:16 PM
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She then switched into scared victim mode and texted me about how she was scared of him and how she didn't want to go home with him. Some people are jerks. Ignore them. Don't let them get to you. That does not mean all women are jerks. Nor does it mean all men are jerks. Also, she was playing the "damsel in distress". Avoid this type of woman. They are usually not real stable.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 04:05 PM
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I'm pretty sure your Reddit subscriptions are stored online, not on a local device. Are you sure you were logged into Reddit as an actual user when you noticed this sub was unsubbed?
/r/MensRights26/08/13 04:02 PM
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Google search for "male abuse in Norway" found a bunch of stories.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 03:57 PM
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Maybe ask in /r/sex?
/r/MensRights26/08/13 03:55 PM
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Can you explain? I don't know much about the culture.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 03:51 PM
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Every case is different and the parents agree to what works best for them, mostly depending on their work schedule. Both parents would obviously have to live close enough to each other for school and activities to work- how does that feel- particularly if the split has been acrimonious? True. They try to live in the same school district so the kid doesn't attend 2 schools. Doesn't this mean a massive drop in salary and career expectation for both parts? Possibly. They might decide to use the sam…
/r/MensRights26/08/13 03:49 PM
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What I don't understand is why a university would allow and accommodate this kind of hate. In the US you can sue anyone for just about anything. A lawsuit costs a lot, and the feminists, known to be crazy, very well might sue. So, that's why the university allows hatespeech. Women have more rights than men. I say, let the feminists make more rope to hang themselves with.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 03:42 PM
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The original application was filed under "Gloria Dawn Ironbox", the real person's name could not be found, and the case was dismissed.
/r/MensRights26/07/13 04:23 PM
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Wow. What sexist assumptions. And it's racist too. Oh I see the statistic they based this ad on: "90% of teen parents don't marry each other." I wonder if that's for the whole US or just New York City?
/r/MensRights26/07/13 03:02 PM
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When I was with her, I discovered her love of drinking and how it brought about her bipolar disorder. Um...sometimes people are just mean drunks. And any addiction can make them mean when they don't get their fix. Did she stop taking her meds or something? He was hauled away in handcuffs even though he is the victim. This might be standard police procedure, or actual law. Taking him away alone does not mean misandry on the part of the police. It would be misandry on the part of the lawmakers. Th…
/r/MensRights26/07/13 03:01 PM
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I'm just going to comment on social change in general. A war on anyone does not have to be active, it can be passive. Example: moderate feminists are losing the war against the extremist feminsts because the MF's don't speak up against the extremism. On Reddit in the past year I've had 2 MF's speak against the EF's. Two. In a year. In real life in 25 years I've had zero MF's speak out against EFs. That alone says a lot about the attitude about women towards men. That says that the MFs really do …
/r/MensRights26/07/13 02:55 PM
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Which country do you think best represents "moderate Islam"? What elements of their culture help them come across as more moderate?
/r/MensRights23/07/13 04:15 PM
1

I'm a recovering Catholic and never heard the Catholic church allows for divorce. You get a divorce from the state. If you want to get remarried in the Catholic church, you need an annulment from the church. You file a form to do this, and someone else decides if you get an annulment, and can proceed with your new marriage in the Catholic church. My mom was denied an annulment in the 1980s. I wonder if policy has changed.
/r/MensRights23/07/13 04:13 PM
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Any irrational society based on anger will fail. It's a thing.
/r/MensRights23/07/13 04:11 PM
3

Find out if she's friends with the dean. If not, file a written complaint with the dean. If she is, wait until you receive your grade in writing, then file a complaint.
/r/MensRights23/07/13 04:10 PM
2

Men don't say no [to sex]. They just don't. Hello. I'm a man. I've said "no" to sex multiple times.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 01:03 PM
1

Thanks for being a decent person, OP. Yes this stuff does perpetuate gender inequality, and general hatred, and I think we've all had enough of that. "In order for evil to flourish, it just takes one good person to do nothing." At least you spoke up about it. And that's something.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 12:58 PM
1

The end results of these events were her feeling deeply ashamed and getting so depressed I worried about self-harm. Um, at least she's thinking that what she did was wrong, even though she had little self-control over herself. Still, she needs professional help, and abuse is not acceptable. If I had responded by either leaving her or treating the first physical incident as a serious thing and not something harmless, none of the escalation would have happened. Well, that's not how mental illness …
/r/MensRights22/07/13 12:52 PM
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I get your point, but sometimes we DO have to act like the feminists, if only to show how crazy they are. Sometimes I say unusual things like this, to get people to think about the situation as a whole, and to analyze their cultural perspective to see if it's really valid or not. Acting crazy, like the feminists, is not the point. It's the catalyst to get people thinking.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 12:43 PM
3

Bad manners should not be protected. That was the point I got.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 12:39 PM
2

Thanks for standing up for equal rights sir. But you have a whole anti-male culture to contend with, and that's a tough fight.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 12:37 PM
2

Ah, thanks. I'm in Michigan. So it looks like private citizens require 2 party consent.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 01:50 PM
2

Good idea. Too bad there was a misspelling on one of the posters in the article. "Feminist demand it" should be "Feminists demand it."
/r/MensRights19/07/13 11:41 AM
1

I don't think it's legal to record calls in the US unless both parties are notified at the beginning of the call. Are there exceptions to a citizen doing this? Because companies record calls all the time "for training purposes."
/r/MensRights19/07/13 11:32 AM
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"Evil is allowed to flourish when good people do nothing." Don't sit down, go to the police and report her. Be a witness in court and make sure she never does that again. Now let's sit back and see if any "egalitarian feminists" actually speak out against this woman and her actions. My guess: 2 or less in this thread.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 11:31 AM
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If they can't provide examples of misogyny, why do you even pay attention to them?
/r/MensRights18/07/13 09:32 PM
1

Not sure. Couples sometimes ignore child support if there is a 50/50 split, but you have to read the law to figure out what she can legally ask for. If she's asking for CS, you ask for equal alimony. It doesn't hurt to ask. I see a lot of people here commenting on what the morally right thing would do, but the divorce laws have nothing to do with equality or common sense these days.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 02:54 PM
1

Every state in the US has a no fault divorce option. Someone gave me a link to support this which I no longer have. But some states have an "at fault" option which can affect who gets the kids, child support and alimony amounts, and divisions of assets. I wouldn't know which option would be used and under which conditions. I live in California, but it seems crazy to me that one spouse could hold another's missteps over their head for the duration of their life. Isn't there some kind of statute o…
/r/MensRights18/07/13 12:45 AM
1

I'm glad you're here, but there are a lot of angry guys here. It's just part of the deal. Full disclosure is that I had no idea that feminism was so anti-male, because all of the self-described feminists I know are really more about equal rights and against rape culture, etc., and support both sexes Apparently you've never been through a divorce, I have. The Michigan laws are written "equally", but the judges do not apply them so. The judges, even male judges, are very much anti-male, and the la…
/r/MensRights18/07/13 12:23 AM
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I think this is a case of two different rules for men and women. Men should always be calm and are not allowed to have emotions if they fear for their life or safety. How do we know Zimmerman didn't fear for his life or safety? How do we know Zimmerman wasn't thinking "If I get up, leave, and turn my back, this kid is going to tackle me from behind." Women are allowed to get emotional, fear for their life and safety, and cry rape. I'm trying to examine how their emotional states in these 2 cases…
/r/MensRights09/07/13 02:44 PM
1

I find it amusing how the Christian Right is against abortion, but you will never see them volunteering to adopt these babies. "Do as I say, not as a I do."
/r/MensRights09/07/13 01:41 PM
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I'll just go with "what is a mature adult": They take responsibility for their actions. That also means they apologize when they are wrong, and make things right. They don't blame others for their own problems. They fix what they have control over, and don't worry too much about the rest. They respect people even if they are different. The measure of a mature person is not how they treat their friends, but how they treat people they disagree with. They are kind and considerate and reasonable. Th…
/r/MensRights09/07/13 01:37 PM
1

What about /r/daddit? It's for all dads.
/r/MensRights09/07/13 01:34 PM
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My parents divorced when I was about 5. My mom automatically received custody of me because...1970s. I am also divorced with a son. Do you ever feel like the child support issue kind of drives a barrier between meeting your dad? No. My crazy mom drove a barrier between me and my dad. It's hard to see your dad if he's a 4 hour drive away, he works full time, and I hate being stuffed into a car for 8 hours for one weekend. On the flip side, a question for fathers who had to pay child support who h…
/r/MensRights09/07/13 01:29 PM
1

If she was actually serious, she sounds sexist, irrational, and this is a red flag. I'd be looking for more red flags. The fact she ASSUMED you did it on purpose is pretty offensive. I don't assume all women are sluts, and they should not assume all men are rapists and pedos or just waiting "for a feel".
/r/MensRights09/07/13 01:22 PM
2

In Michigan the Divorce Agreement is turned into a court order. If the item in question is not in the court order, it cannot be enforced. Verbal agreements cannot be enforced. This includes changes in pickup times for visitations. If the custodial parent (your ex) is violating the court order as written, you can file a complaint with Friend of the Court (the family court arm in Michigan) and they will remind her not to do violate a CO. I don't know of a single case where the woman was actually p…
/r/MensRights09/07/13 01:16 PM
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The reason we have focused on women is b/c generally it's the women that force the men in their lives to go to the doctor seek help and get their screenings. I'd agree this is the trend. Most men don't know how to check for testicular cancer, nor do they know that testicular cancer generally does not cause pain, and is most commonly found in men in their 20s. Men generally only go to the doctor when the pain is unmanageable through other means. Most people think cancer is an "older person's dise…
/r/MensRights09/07/13 01:11 PM
1

I have to disagree on the Afghanistan part because I've heard so much about it in the past 30 years. AFG was thrown into chaos when the Soviets invaded in the 1980s. When the Soviets left, AFG was ruled by violent warlords dealing drugs. Gang wars were common in a fight for money, power, and control of poppy fields. There was almost no education, much political corruption, and absolutely no surface water. AFG is the only country lacking surface water. Wells have to be drilled 30-50 ft down at le…
/r/MensRights09/07/13 01:07 PM
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It only took months of paperwork? In the US it would take years and years. Good for him.
/r/MensRights09/07/13 12:52 PM
1

Welcome to Murica.
/r/MensRights08/07/13 11:04 AM
1

I understand. I'm just trying to illustrate these bizarre laws, and judges, and unhelpful ways to compensate, go back a long time.
/r/MensRights08/07/13 11:02 AM
1

I am just curious because I was in the ER with my boyfriend twice in the last week and he was screened both times for domestic violence. Local hospitals, and states, can implement their own DV screening programs as long as it doesn't conflict with federal law. Federal law is basically the minimum law that must be held to.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 07:07 PM
0

So the Netherlands is saying that women are weak and unfit for service? How sexist.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 07:00 PM
1

One does not have to be a PUA to give a "shit test". I simply get to know the woman I'm dating to see if she is rational or not. That's my "shit test".
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:57 PM
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Be very careful people. In some states there is "common law marriage" where if you live together for N years, you are automatically married, and if you separate, she still gets alimony and child support. Check with a lawyer first before living together. The requirements to be "common law married" vary by state. In some states you don't even have to combine bank accounts, you just "share a living space". Also in Michigan one cannot override child support or alimoney with a prenup. The judges will…
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:54 PM
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Perhaps you could post the city state and year this happened. It's not pinpointing you, but would allow people to research the laws for your state. Also, this extreme no-sense DV law was certainly common in the 1970s, a little less common today. Some states have changed their DV laws, some have not. Source: My family has experience with DV laws.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:40 PM
1

(I'd call it a choice, or at a push you could say privilege) In many countries pregnancy is not a choice. That's just their culture. In many African countries for example, where women have little or no rights. This is also why HIV and STI rates are so high in African countries. If the husband doesn't want to use a condom, the woman can't make him. Don't skewer me please. I'm for men's rights, I just want your argument to have more reliable info to make you more believable. My source: documentari…
/r/MensRights02/07/13 06:22 PM
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What the heck is "prior consent" vs "consent of the actual act?" Does the woman have to continuously repeat during sex "I consent to sex with you. I consent to sex with you. I consent to sex with you."? Good grief. In the late 1980s in college the college started a written "sexual consent form" to be signed by both parties BEFORE any alcohol was consumed. It appears we still need this? Or it won't help anyway?
/r/MensRights02/07/13 05:45 PM
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They are 2 and 4 years old. I don't think they know what sex is, or rape is. For now, teach them to be nice, share toys, don't hit people, stuff like that. You ex sounds like a real nutter.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 01:54 PM
1

Can you give us 3 examples of what they've done, and who did what?
/r/MensRights08/04/13 05:01 PM
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No. This is a relatively small issue, and nudism is more a personal choice affecting few people, rather than an issue affecting the majority of men.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 05:00 PM
1

Hey, does this work for any subreddit?
/r/MensRights08/04/13 03:17 PM
1

You know this happens in the US too. My base child support was 75% of my take home pay. Michigan then divides the Base Child Support (BCS) between the two spouses based on relative income. So I actually paid 33% of BCS. If my ex had no job I would pay 100% of BCS, which is 75% of my take home pay.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 03:13 PM
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It's a bunch of angry men, the male equivalent of radical feminists.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 03:07 PM
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Yes. I think in some states the judge can change the child support amount, but not take it away totally. So if the judge was on the man's side, he might award the woman $1 per month for 18 years.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 03:01 PM
1

i don't point out a person's personal failings, unless they ask me to. What would be the point?
/r/MensRights08/04/13 02:59 PM
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This is consistent with what I've seen going to college in the late 1980s. As a computer programmer I was in class with no less than 3 women who were darn good programmers. We all got along fine because, in the STEM world, if you know your shit, you will get along fine. (Actually we were all good friends.) The problem was, this early in life, I thought most women were this awesome. It was difficult to learn that my assumption was incorrect. Now in the real world, if I need data from a woman prog…
/r/MensRights08/04/13 02:49 PM
1

Thank you. If I need to talk to someone about Men's Rights issues, I need facts to back up my argument. I simply wasn't able to find what I wanted from Google and didn't know what search terms to use.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 01:44 PM
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The CDC does not have the details I'm looking for. It just has very general rates of divorce and marriage, and that's about it. I have updated my post above to show what specific info I'm looking for.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 05:38 PM
2

Just the title really offended me.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 07:09 PM
1

Maybe you should copy the images of posters about abuse. I have never seen any other poster except one that portrays men as the aggressor, and women as the victim. Even though I was in an abusive marriage with a Controlling Personality.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 07:06 PM
3

This chain is likely using a block service. Both K9 and Open DNS both have categories of websites you can block. They determine the websites to block, and the customer can further customize, or add to the whitelist, or blacklist, your own sites. There are other commercial block services too.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 11:17 PM
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Here's her website: Hanna Rosin
/r/MensRights28/01/13 11:11 PM
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I think people are confusing "moderate feminism" with "radical feminism". They are not the same. But the moderate fem's won't speak out against the rad fems much. The mod fems sort of sit in the background, giving one the impression that they tacitly agree with the rad fems, when they do not. I do occasionally hear from a mod fem about once every few months here on Reddit.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 01:59 PM
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You didn't mention what state you are in. I can tell you about Michigan though. Did not ever get a modification for whatever reason. The father can ask for a CS modification if he loses his job or if his income changes significantly. That's the technical part. The reality is the court doesn't have to grant it. We have no contact with the child due to mother pulling the typical exwife bull. If you attempt to pick up the child based on the schedule and exact time in the divorce agreement (which is…
/r/MensRights26/01/13 01:49 PM
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I'm divorced in Michigan, which has the worst divorce laws I ever heard of. I will not be getting married ever again though I want a life partner. A piece of paper will not guarantee we stay together. Our dedication and skills will. A marriage license is really a license to steal unreasonable amounts of assets from the man. There is nothing in it for me, the man. Child support is fine with me, but Michigan amounts are way too high. I can get legal documents to pass on my assets to my partner, gi…
/r/MensRights24/01/13 08:22 PM
1

For the women's help line, they only have people trained to help women. That's what the funding was allocated for. Gov't funding can be very very specific. For the men's helpline, it's staffed by others who are trained to help men becoming violent. They do not have any other types of training. It's not right, but I hope this explains it.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 08:15 PM
1

<bdsm reference> My gf honestly loves it when I grab her hair and take what I want. Does that make me a nice guy? Serious question folks, related to bdsm.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 08:12 PM
0

I have always felt, and seen that men were always vastly superior. How many wars have women started as compared to men? I can't think of one.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 08:04 PM
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If you need this ASAP, call, don't write, your federal congress-critter. Tell them it's very "time sensitive". Best of luck to you.
/r/MensRights24/01/13 07:47 PM
1

I agree.
/r/MensRights22/01/13 08:05 PM
1

which supports his word with the lack of documentation of the female employees being written up. "lack of documenation" is not evidence allowed in court. Sorry to say. Didn't know EEOC would file a suit. Do you have a web page that says this?
/r/MensRights22/01/13 08:03 PM
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Read the sidebar articles, especially: Anti-men legislation: official laws penalizing men just for being men. Ways men face discimination Also, speaking for myself, I pay for 99% of the dates, which is pretty sexist of the women. They don't even offer to pay. I'm coerced into paying because, if I don't, I don't get a second date. Period. I have to follow sexist social rules, because if I don't, I don't have a dating life.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 08:40 PM
1

I think the severe inequality in divorce issues is much more important than this. There are many factors involved in why fewer men enroll in university. There's one main one related to the divorce inequality: inequal laws.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 08:37 PM
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Based on this poster, my ex-wife was VERY abusive. But I knew that already. That's why she's an ex.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 08:14 PM
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That violence wheel was very offensive. It always portrayed women as the victim, and men as the aggressor. That's funny. I know 2 lesbian couples where the aggressor was a woman. Plus my own former marriage, that's 3 couples where the woman was the aggressor. The poster makers could have used the pronoun "they" or "the aggressor".
/r/MensRights20/01/13 08:13 PM
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$55,000 per month. That's consistent with how the laws work in Michigan. Child support is often based on the man's income, or a combination of the man's and woman's income. It's not based often on how much is needed to raise a child. I'm not saying I like it, I'm just confirming that this would be legal in Michigan.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 08:07 PM
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All of my decisions are invalid though and if I don't do what she suggests then "I never listen to her" Google [Controlling personality] or [Controlling personality disorder]. See if she is a good match for that. Key issues with CP: She never/rarely admits she is wrong. You are the one who is wrong almost every time. She uses yelling and verbal abuse most of the time, then blames you for starting it. Nothing is ever good enough for her. You can never do the right thing to make her happy. She can…
/r/MensRights20/01/13 07:34 PM
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The law might forbid a discrimination, but you still need a TON of money to file and pursue a lawsuit in regards to breaking said law. Remember, justice is only for the rich. Besides the OP would need official documentation that the women were late. Since they were not written up, there is no proof, and it would be his word against theirs. OP sadly has no legal case here.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 06:00 PM
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Thanks for posting. I thought he thought what he did was okay, So I thought ALL men thought that. Yes, you made an assumption about all men which was not true. Making assumptions (without evidence) is pretty common the younger the person is. This is mostly an issue of lack of brain development. Brain does not mature until age 25, on average. He told his friends that he 'scored' with me, so they hit on me, and teased me and called me a whore behind my back. This guy, and his friends, is clearly a…
/r/MensRights20/01/13 05:50 PM
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She is sexist. Men still don't have rights even if they DO get a woman pregnant. The only right a man has is to pay child support.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 05:41 PM
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The screenshots show how ignorant SOME women are, and how pervasive misandry is. I vote to keep it, somewhere, if not here. Steps for fixing a social problem. Identify problem. Post examples. (What's going on with the FB images.) Discuss problem in a rational manner. Propose solutions. Implement solutions. If solution doesn't work, go to step 3 and find another solution.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 05:39 PM
1

Do you think this is an issue for all age groups? Because I date the 35+ woman age group and I see this a lot. I figured it was just my generation. I'm nice looking, have a solid education and a solid job with a solid company, I'm great managing money, but I'm not rich. Yet it's very hard for me to get a date, or even a conversation with a woman online. Not sure what is going on here but I'm good at conversation too.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 11:04 PM
1

I like relationships. But as a man I won't be getting married again because Divorce is more common than ever. It's too expensive to get a divorce. I really don't have many rights during a divorce in my state. That about sums it up. There's nothing in it for me to sign a marriage license. Now I don't want to say I'm picky, but I DO have some standards, and only one of them is about looks: She should be a healthy weight. There are a FEW women who want relationships, and a few women who seem, shall…
/r/MensRights19/01/13 11:01 PM
1

Find a lawyer who is a member of American Divorce Association for Men (ADAM). They only work for men and understand men's issues. Google [American Divorce Association for Men Illinois]
/r/MensRights19/01/13 10:55 PM
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When I was a boy, I played with my sister's Barbie dolls. But only to scare my sister. I squished the Barbie head top to bottom, and pretended it was a mutant Barbie that was going to eat her other dolls. She was not happy. lol. So Barbie was much bigger than my plastic army men. She retaliated by having Barbie attack my army men camp. It was all in good fun.
/r/MensRights19/01/13 10:42 PM
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