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Field Reportbadchad_isglad/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 11:23 PM
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Festivals, concerts, hiking, team sports, apartment complex pools, gym, Craigslist, meetup, etc...
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:24 PM
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Guaranteed? That's a bit strong. However you do have a high likelihood of contracting it. Doctors estimate that between 50-80% of adults over 30 have herpes, but many of these people have never had an outbreak. But there is a solution: only fuck virgins!
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:21 PM
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Don't forget about their saggy tits!
/r/askTRP06/06/17 04:19 PM
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Dating apps do work if you put the time and effort both into yourself and the app. However I believe the more a man's SMV rises, the less he should use dating apps and instead game in person. By perusing this strategy, a man will both differentiate himself from the pack and have an easier/more fun time getting higher quality women. Don't forget, there are many high quality women out there for the top 20% and many of those women are not on dating apps. Get out there and go get a high quality lay.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 06:21 PM
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And then you meet that girl who turns out to be all seven. Quickly turn around and run for your life.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 01:41 AM
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Gotta love Rick and Morty. Fuck it!
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 02:07 AM
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Discipline, Stoicism, and not making excuses is at the core of being a man. In your posts you failed all three. People here may seem like they're not helping or giving good advice, but the reality is they are. TRP is a foundation that must be built. In the beginning it is hard work and not much fun. Once you grow into the role you can branch out and have fun. Ex. Working out everyday for a year+ gives you the body and the strength to apply it to other sports. If you have a strong base at the gym…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 03:16 PM
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Their logic is sound. All women are insecure thus TRP works on all women.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 02:41 PM
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Only women should bleed that much. Go to the doctor, get a prescription, and never look back.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 05:49 AM
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I needed a good laugh today
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:13 PM
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Best way to learn is from your mistakes. Bet it'll never happen again.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:10 PM
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Depends on what you look like. The hotter you are, the less those kinds of games matter.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 02:13 AM
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Life is meaningless. Now say it again...life is meaningless. It is up to you to find what brings happiness to your life and pursue that. The only way you will ever have be satisfied is by chasing your desires (not women) and building a strong life for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 02:12 AM
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Learn from your mistakes and keep at it. One day it will all just click into place.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 02:07 AM
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Typical New York beta ultra-liberal cuck. Has a strong brand through massive amounts of video releases and "selling" his lifestyle to other similar minded people. Glad he found a niche and is successful but he is in no way redpill.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 02:06 AM
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It happens to a lot of us. Become cognizant of it and use it to your advantage. This is a period of time in your life that you can get massive amounts of work done without any distraction. Just remember that it is only a phase. You will come out of it sooner rather than later.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 07:45 PM
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If you have high enough SMV, women will want to be around you. How do you achieve this you may ask? Get rich, get into a position of power, or be the absolute best at something in your city/region/country/world, or even have a cool hobby. It sounds like you have it harder than most of us, but RP truths still apply to you. Maximize your SMV and women will come.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:11 AM
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I have had the same problem...still do on occasion. Whenever I did not get enough sleep, eat right, workout, stay on routine, etc. I suffered in my daily interactions. We all have off days, but not taking care of yourself causes the biggest fluctuations.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:07 AM
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If you're in shape, a large percentage of women could care less how you look. Do you have interesting hobbies? Are you fun to be around? Do you have a strong, positive social circle? Stop making excuses for yourself and start figuring out what you can do to achieve your goal.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 03:03 AM
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Stop playing the victim. If you don't like the results you're getting, you're not working hard or smart enough. Why are your plans ruined? You have a free Friday night to go do whatever you want. Hang out with friends, go to the gym, do laundry, read... Race has nothing to do with success. Yes, some people have disadvantages, but anything can be overcome. It sounds like you've been approaching lots of women without learning anything from the approaches. Use your failures as a learning experience…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 02:57 AM
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Quit 12 years ago...never looked back.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 09:26 PM
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The only way to get rid of that core wiring is to unplug completely. You've obviously been progressing through your RP journey, but don't give up hope. Everything changes in time. One day you will wake up with a smoking plate giving you a bj while another sends you a good morning text. Plate 1 cooks you a healthy breakfast as you shower and get ready for your career in whatever field you want most. You go to work and no challenge is insurmountable. You arrive home to plate 2 cooking you a good d…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:50 AM
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Love the Porsche analogy. So true.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:36 AM
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And yet they still bitch about the wage gap and less opportunities than men. Hypocrites.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:31 AM
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Finally a post about logic and structure. Thank you for putting this up. This is a good reminder for those here who continue to make fallacious arguments.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:15 PM
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This. Couldn't get past the third paragraph.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:30 AM
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The only way to live: I don't care about your feelings, all I care about is facts. The only feelings I care about are my own, my closest friends, and my family.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:25 AM
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Democrats is the wrong term. "Progressives" is the one you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:56 AM
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Bring a plastic zip-lock bag to put it in after your done
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 07:36 AM
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Get off Tinder for a while, and have a completely passive game in the real world while you figure things out. Start developing yourself and make that your number one priority.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 06:29 PM
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Boxer briefs with a nice pouch to cup and support your balls. They'll thank you.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:40 AM
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Big ups to this. Always tell the truth. Remember that if you're living the life you want, there is absolutely no reason to lie. It just makes life more complicated.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:40 AM
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Absolutely no porn and masturbate when you hit the breaking point (unless you're out hunting women or have a date coming up).
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:38 AM
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City definitely. I've spent the past year living by a very popular college. If you're not in school it's almost impossible to break into the social circles where you'll meet the type of women you want. In a city people are forced to make their own social circles (ex. Work, gym, cooking classes, etc.) It's much easier to break into that world because everyone is in the same boat.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:36 AM
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No, you'll only find out what you're like when you're high. Want to really find yourself, go camping alone for a week in the mountains.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:32 AM
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Figure out what you want to do with your life and do it. Being successful with women is such a small part of life that once you find what you want to do, everything else will seem unimportant. Having trouble finding out what you want to do? Try as many things as you can Find a mentor to help you develop Take acid and ponder your future
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:29 AM
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Tinder works great once you find out what works in your area.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:24 AM
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Unless it's sarcastic and witty stated with the upmost amused mastery
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:24 AM
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Go for the classic head pat while saying "of course you are" in a condescending tone.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:18 AM
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Another option is to attend a professional school (work your ass off and get a full ride). Make your contacts while at the school and line up a job after graduation. All future employment will now depend on how well you network while at that first job. Fuck social media, fuck HR departments that check that crap, and get a real job: trade or professional (doctor, lawyer, accountant).
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 08:13 AM
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To add a bit. Have any of you checked out porn in the past couple of years (yes I know don't watch it, but this is for TRP broscience damnit)? Many of the women in it are much heavier than in the past. I remember in my blue pill teen days typing in "petite" and getting result after result of legit petite women. Now I search "petite" and many if not most of these women have flabby stomachs, arms, and double chins. WTF is this world coming too. A second note: I went out with a girl and came across…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 08:06 AM
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Great post. Work hard, work smart, and you shall reap the rewards.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 07:53 AM
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Practice what is preached here. It is the only way to learn. You will make many mistakes, but by doing so you'll learn more than you ever have reading TRP.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 07:32 AM
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Amen
/r/askTRP17/02/17 07:07 AM
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It truly is the best form of closure. Never again.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 06:17 AM
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"I'm going to kill myself if you break up with me." I then proceeded to call her parents, tell them the situation, and never spoke to her again.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:05 AM
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Great job! I'm a big fan of not saying anything, just a sly grin, an intense look into her eye, and moving in again
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:03 AM
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I do agree it is a pyramid scheme. However you are forced to pay money in throughout your life and are given back a smaller percentage than you put in. Rand made quite a bit of money as had to pay into the system. It is her money because she was forced to pay into it. She never gives dating advice. She gives advice on how to live. Big difference. It functions fantastic. Look around at all the successful people in the US. All act selfishly, pursue their own happiness, and succeed by treating othe…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 08:50 PM
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You have obviously never read any of her books. Social security is not technically social welfare. You pay in money to receive less when you hit a certain age. It was her money. Good advice is good advice no matter where it comes. Rand was an intelligent enough thinker to break out of the bindings of her gender and speak the truth. She also never tells you how to live your life, instead she shows you how and why to be free.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 08:21 PM
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Liberal area: white Chads
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:20 PM
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Is this guy trolling?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:16 PM
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It's not if that's how you feel. Just remember, love will make you blind. Keep your eyes open and your alertness on high guard.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:11 PM
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Yes, but don't just buy her a gift. Instead take that money and go do some activity that both of you like doing or are interested in doing. Women tend to value an experience much more than just a gift. Plus you get something out of it too!
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:10 PM
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If the woman you're seeing like Ayn Rand, you're in for a wild ride. These are typically good women to plate too. Who is John Galt?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 06:00 PM
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Quit weed for at least a month and see what the changes are. Weed will typically bring out more beta thought patterns especially after psychedelic trips.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 05:38 PM
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Well here's the way to make it enjoyable long term. You share those things with other people. You set small goals and feel accomplished when you achieve them. You're second part I agree totally with. Life is not about enjoyment, it's about doing. The enjoyable part only comes when you achieve difficult things. And the only way to achieve difficult things is patient, day after day repetition.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 05:13 PM
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It can be tedious but it's really all in perspective. You learn to enjoy the mundane things because that's what will make you successful.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 05:01 AM
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Lift, get on a good career path, develop interesting hobbies. It's not difficult, but just takes time and discipline.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:33 AM
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You should always be changing and evolving, but only for yourself and your goals.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:31 AM
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To each his own. I personally enjoy women who follow politics and can have a rational discussion based on it. In fact the women who could do this were the least crazy, most rational, and the least hypergamous.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 02:28 AM
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That's good. It puts you way ahead of a lot of people here. Much of that irrational fear does come from people still in the anger phase. As you become more adept at RP you appreciate women for the value they provide in your life. Guys are afraid of women having power because they have no real power themselves. The higher your SMV the less you have to worry about this That's some Freud be that I completely disagree with. In fact my parents have been married 40+ years and couldn't be happier. I ha…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 05:54 PM
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Journaling once a day will fix this. I once felt how you do and after a few weeks of writing I discovered that what led to my negative feelings and how to fix them.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:37 AM
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Just jump in, rinse off, and get out. I typically only wash my hair every 2 days and use body wash once every day to two days. Your body will enjoy the lack of chemicals from soap and shampoo. Also invest in daily moisturizer and facial cleanser.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:36 AM
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Yes...
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:33 AM
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Look into different PPL routines. Doing the cycle twice a week is much more effective than 5x5.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:33 AM
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Lift, read, have social hobbies, and go to a camping music festival.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:28 AM
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If you don't want to marry her your path is simple...NEXT!
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:27 AM
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I needed a good laugh.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:24 AM
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I like to subtly drop in hints every now and again. Never be open about it though.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:23 AM
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If you want a companion get a dog. If you want kids, get a woman pregnant or adopt. If you want to be happy: lift, eat well, accomplish your goals, and push your boundaries. I urge you to head over to TRP and checkout what this ideology is really about. Read all of the sidebar and see why the unplugged believe what we do. Most of society is full of unhappy, overweight, and unsatisfied people. Many of them have followed society's standards of finding a companion and are miserable. You only have y…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:22 AM
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If she's not rejecting you, and you haven't fucked yet, you haven't gone far enough. I push KINO until I get a rejection. Then I approach from a different angle and keep applying KINO.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:15 AM
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The more you see her, the more you have to maintain frame. How much can you handle? Are you able to keep up with your lifting and goals?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:13 AM
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Doesn't matter....Hard NEXT! Way too many red flags.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:11 AM
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Hey (potential plate). Want to check out my (stamp collection) in my room? Proceed to room and apply KINO. ...profit
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:09 AM
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You're on here so hopefully you won't make stupid moves like your friends. If you have high enough SMV, a girl will never say this to you.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:07 AM
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There are some sparkling gems out there, but like anything shiny, it dulls fast. Look forward to traveling the world and picking up young, hot, and interesting girls. I've always been happiest with long term plates. Replaceable, breakable, and oh so much fun.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:06 AM
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It's time for you to move on to the real challenges and goals of your life. Find out what your life purpose is. Sex is great, but ultimately it in unfulfilling. You have experienced abundance mentality and are now ready to grow into a successful alpha beast. Keep working on yourself and your goals and life will begin to feel right again.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 08:00 AM
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Must be true love. Unleash the BP.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:57 AM
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Read the fucking sidebar. NEXT!!!
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:56 AM
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Do you have links for this? I'm interested.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 06:21 AM
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Then date down. Younger 20s girls love guys 30+ as long as they have high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 06:13 AM
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You really need to work on formatting. A wall of text is near impossible to read.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:39 AM
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I would like to correct your statement of "past the age of giving birth to healthy children." This is simply not true. Women past the age of thirty have a higher probability of unhealthy children, but most women, paired with modern science, have no issues giving birth to healthy children in their 30s. That being said, if you're going to have kids, make sure the woman is younger than 30.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:37 AM
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This is a terrible idea. A better way to assess: how many IOIs do you get and how well can you close. Period.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:29 AM
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Start over with something new and learn from your past mistakes. There's no reason to put her, or especially you through more bs. I would also read up on the numerous posts on here about how to treat women: like children. You will be happier and your future plates/LTRs will be as well.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:25 AM
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Thanks for clearing that up!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:57 AM
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Just like there is no such thing as "social justice." As soon as you put a qualifier on, it becomes meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:40 AM
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Why the hell would you EVER go near a girl who was gang-raped? I truly hope you learned your lesson and thank you for providing a very entertaining read. AWALT, especially damaged goods.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:38 AM
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What does this have to do with TRP?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:30 AM
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I'm still working on this, but can confirm. My inner circle is just starting to expand.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:28 AM
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Not if she's a lesbian and is the stereotypical man-hating, no self respect type. In my corporate days I did see some of what you described, but mostly they tended to hold it against the "Chad" types and make their lives miserable. Jealousy is a stinky cologne.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:52 PM
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Revenge is for children and women. Why waste your time plotting against others? It adds absolutely no value to your life.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:56 PM
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How is this an example of you being oppressed? You are a male and hopefully not a pussy. I'd be insulted if people ran up to me to see if I was ok in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:55 PM
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Or you live in a liberal area where the hiring people are all SJW HR females and on principal would not hire a top 20% guy. The fatties will get jobs (the SJW types) and all men are left out to dry.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:53 PM
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Then those aren't the people you should surround yourself with. Don't put up with stupidity in order to be more "social." It only lowers you down to their level.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:39 PM
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Good insight. Use her interest in your hobbies/interests as a gauge of how invested she is in you. It's always accurate.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:37 PM
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Congratulations. It only gets better. Keep working your ass off.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 05:34 PM
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Obviously. Head on over to TRP and start reading.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:48 AM
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Lookup FOMH on YouTube. You'll thank me later.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:47 AM
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I’m into, uh, well, murders and executions, mostly...
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:45 AM
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Good advice!
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:42 AM
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Great example. Learn for your past and don't make the same mistakes in the future. It's good to have you back.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:38 AM
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Thanks for the list of schools I never will step foot around. Add the Ivy League and top research liberal arts colleges and the list is complete. School is for getting an education to build your SMV to the point where you can get any woman you want. Be smart and invest in yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:19 AM
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Lead by example and give help to those who ask. That is what men do.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:14 AM
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It's been entertaining seeing the results of failed progressive policies and agendas come to a climax. The decline has never felt so real and so good. Enjoy it boys, it'll only get more fun.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:12 AM
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Agreed. Who the fuck cares what Chad is doing. Go create your own fun and people will flock to it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:22 AM
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Your original post was you bitching along with the various replies. I wouldn't know, I'd have to call and ask them. I live with roommates and am paying my way through a professional school right now. When I graduate I will have a great job waiting for me. Ad hominem attacks are for people who have no argument. I'm not blindly following anyone, I agree with him through both observation, personal experience, and comparing it to the information here on TRP. How is anything I've said BP? We were cal…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:19 AM
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Yes, respect people with flair because they have proved that they personify what this community stands for. About 20% of the men here are doing these things or are already successful. They are here to fight against the self-righteous assholes like you who think TRP is a place to whine and complain. This is a place of hard work and helping other realize the importance of it. I wonder if you have the success you imply most of us here don't have? And why you're bitching about posting obvious TRP id…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 11:48 PM
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You played this correct. Women do learn to ask directly if you keep progressing this direction. Civilized adults ask for things, little children and many women attempt to manipulate you into getting their way.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 08:58 PM
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Listen to u/[deleted]. He knows what he's talking about.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:51 PM
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That episode is amazing. Although it goes against the fiction rule, it portrays the idea of "trickle truth" perfectly. Should be a required watch. That is way too much digging too. When I have a feeling like that, I just leave. Your gut is always right.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:46 PM
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That's true. Guess I'm just pulling from my experiences with taking women to the gym. It can be great every once in a while if they're athletic minded, but there's nothing better than a nice solo workout. Personal trainers teaching people how to squat with good form, especially women...that's a good one hahaha
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:39 PM
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This is what you should be doing. You'll not only be happier, but you'll also attract higher SMV girls when you're around guys like that.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:34 PM
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Never yell, it's a waste of your time and energy. You wouldn't yell at a dog or a child would you?
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:01 AM
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Use it as a lesson of what not to do in your life. Your parents will teach you some of the most important lessons in your life, whether they mean to or not.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:59 AM
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Six pack abs, a great haircut, and a carefree attitude.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:53 AM
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Kill the oneitis! I've been in the same situation and the hard truth is it'll take time. It sounds like you're not over her yet, and that's your problem, not that she was "smart." Here's your plan of action: Gym 6 days/week Meet as many women as you can and talk to them Concentrate on raising your SMV (hobbies, activities, school/work) Last, stop trying to "move on" to other girls. You should be happy being alone and just as happy seeing other women. Realize those feelings you're having are the …
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:52 AM
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How else is she supposed to learn how to squat? I'm all for not hogging equipment, but people have to learn.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:46 AM
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No, raise your SMV and find someone who meets your standards.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:40 AM
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Holy shit that sucks. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:38 AM
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The gym is always nice and empty during the Super Bowl. Turn off the TV's and enjoy the iron.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:30 AM
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That being said, the alpha Chad in the corner who says he's poly is getting even more women than usual. He sleeps with a poly woman and she introduces him to her poly family...threesomes ensue.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:17 PM
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Put a towel down and fuck her anyways. You can always take a shower after to clean up.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 06:29 PM
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What, you don't have a 12" dick?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 06:21 PM
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Except food gets really expensive, you have to take care of her completely, and you have to look at Jabba-the-Hut everyday. I sincerely hope you're kidding.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 08:18 AM
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Love that scene and can confirm that it does work.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:13 AM
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Why would you put in the time doing this? You're much better off just working on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:26 PM
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Read the sidebar and then repeat. Also it is necessary to follow the advice in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:32 AM
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Think before you speak, speak slower, and practice talking about complex subjects out loud (in the shower or on runs). Reading good literature out loud will also help.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:30 AM
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Fuck Facebook, go "run" into her and invite her to a party/coffee/outing whatever.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:29 AM
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Coffee unless you're 21 then hit a bar or brewery. No movies or dinner!
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:26 AM
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By getting rid of that shit attitude. Hit the gym hard, make money, find and excel at hobbies you're passionate about and you will become one of those alpha males.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:25 AM
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Don't apologize, fix it!
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:23 AM
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Then you're not ready to fuck hot women yet. Accept that and keep working on yourself. One day you'll wake up and see everything in a new light. You'll be confident, in shape, notice how many women send you IOIs, and be able to act on it.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:22 AM
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Just because a woman is on top doesn't mean she's in charge. Lead from the bottom. Remember if you're in shape (and she's not a whale) you could flip her on her back at any moment. Women who don't like being on top are either fat, lazy or both.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:18 AM
1

Join a gym, start researching careers, pick up a cool hobby. You'll be a new guy in no time.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:16 AM
3

Come back when it all crumbles around you and write a post. Unicorns don't exist and everything is temporary. Enjoy the high while you can, but it won't last.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 04:32 AM
3

That was very painful to read. Thank you for sharing and glad you're here now.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 08:12 PM
1

You don't pay a plumber to come out if your toilet isn't broken (mentally stable). You only pay him to come out if it's broken (mentally unstable). Why would you waste hard earned cash and more importantly your time on therapy when you are mentally healthy?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 11:18 PM
-4

Terrible advice. Be your own person and figure things out yourself. Why would you pay someone to listen to you talk (except if you really do have a mental illness)?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:34 PM
2

Additional lesson learned: 4) Don't go to clubs
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:16 PM
1

"Women are paid less than men..." Oh shit, that's not true.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 08:42 PM
1

What has always been there for them: be mothers and teach. These are two of the most important jobs out there and sadly many women have been failing miserably at them.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 06:16 PM
2

Lately I've been eating chia and flax seeds (ground to a powder). Lots of extra protein, fiber, and all the other goodies. Haven't tried it without the flax yet though. I'll try that this upcoming month.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 12:12 AM
16

Flax seeds have actually been found to have an anti-estrogenic effect (it mimics and produces a less active form of estrogen). If you're eating enough broccoli there is no reason to cutout flaxseeds. They are a wealth of nutrition.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 11:48 PM
2

Since you're new at this, I would cut my losses and move on. It is always easier to start over than try to get out of the friend zone (I'm using this term as in a female friend who you're not fucking). The other option would be to soft next her, and make her setup any future meetings. If you go this route, escalate consistently. If nothing happens, hard next her. Note: Not making a move IS beta. It is your job to lead interactions and get her into bed.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:16 AM
9

You know I forgot to bring my high speed camera. Next time though I'll get that recoded and analyzed!
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 07:08 AM
1

Sidebar, sidebar, and more sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:07 AM
1

Learn from your mistakes and move on.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:04 AM
11

Begin planning your future and what direction you want to head. You don't have to stick with this, but make efforts to find out what you want to do with your life. Pursue hobbies that you enjoy and stay diligent at practicing them. If you have a job (which you should), put away 20% of your income in a Roth IRA. By the time you retire, you will have ALOT of money. Hit the gym and lift, lift, lift. Also get your diet sorted out and limit the junk food/drinking/drugs. Most of all find a group of ma…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:01 AM
5

Sounds like she doesn't respect you (if she wanted to see you, she would see you), she's friend zoned you (you went on a few dates and no escalation!?), and it's not going to change. Next her.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 06:54 AM
12

From her perspective it would be her left eye. If you are looking directly at her, it is the eye on your right.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 06:49 AM
5

Put in the time and do the work. Don't take the "medication" shortcut as it can lead to dependency, lowered confidence, and lowered energy. Taking any performance enhancing drugs should only ever be considered if you've worked your ass off and there is little room left for you to improve. Hit the books. Learn the material. Learn something about yourself. Studying is like hitting the gym for your brain.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:28 AM
1

Number one is eating a balanced diet. There are tons of threads in TRP about this. Without a balanced diet number two and three are almost worthless. I'm not a huge fan of counting macros (I know what I need to eat and how much) but it can be a good place to start. Number two is taking a daily multivitamin. Number three is taking supplements (Mack sure you check out Labdoor to see the safety and effectiveness of whatever brand you choose). To make sure you're on the right track, go to your docto…
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:22 AM
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It's the eye that bypasses some of a girls' defense mechanisms. Also, the left eye is connected/controlled by the right lobe not the brain (the feeling/emotional/creative side). Last, most people either do the business stare or look into the right eye. It's just a small thing to set you apart. Try it and see how effective it is. At first it definitely feels strange. However it has always given me good results and at the very least I am able to read her better this way. People tend to show their …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 02:29 AM
1

You may not be eating enough if you're working out hard or not enough vitamins as another poster said. Inspiration is a fickle thing and will come and go as she pleases. Stay disciplined and you will not need inspiration to be successful or even energetic.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 12:07 AM
6

In the future how about you write a FR and bring up these "tips" you presented through personal example. Guarantee you'll be better received, learn more yourself, and have something of value to add.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 10:59 PM
2

Not paying attention to it. Focusing on my career, hitting the gym, and enjoying my hobbies. Let everything else bounce right off you.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 05:59 PM
2

Change is always difficult, doesn't matter who you are. The only way to get passed it is to start moving forward and grow. Take those feelings you have now and use it to fuel a goal of yours.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 05:54 PM
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I agree with the gentleman part, but be yourself? No! Be better than yourself. Be that Chad that she longs for with a heart that occasionally shows itself. Again, no. Don't always be there when she needs you unless she has earned that right. What kind of bleeding heart crap is that?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 05:40 PM
1

Yes, cooking is a fun activity to show off and also get her involved. Be the master in the kitchen and direct her what to do.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:12 PM
1

This is from a year ago
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:07 PM
2

Underwater welding. It takes training, it takes balls, but you make ridiculous money.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:06 PM
3

Played well. Enjoy her, and find more!
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:04 PM
2

Does anyone have a resource recommendation on types of stretches to do (besides yoga)?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 04:58 PM
8

So are you just going to brag or are we going to learn something?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 04:55 PM
2

But the TV told me I could do both? I mean have you even seen the newest Bowflex?
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:05 AM
1

Mad Men and Archer
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:03 AM
1

Don't bother fasting, it is not a long term solution for the problem. What has always worked for me is consistent diet (I'm at 5%). And currently I am not doing cardio, just hitting the gym 6 days/week. For you, try and run 5-10 miles/week. Breakfast: Oatmeal, eggs, banana, milk, multivitamin, huge glass of water Lunch: Greek yogurt, nuts, fruit, peanut butter, seeds, hummus, huge glass of water Dinner: Grilled fish or chicken, salad (tons of broccoli, tomatoes, mushrooms, carrots, balsamic vina…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:58 AM
1

Pick only one to say.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:54 AM
1

The great equalizer...get a gun.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:53 AM
1

Smile and act like the world is perfect. Spend this time hitting the gym harder and talking to as many women as you can.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:49 AM
1

It's either a guy or a female that knows a lot of shit about her past or a female she's embarrassed to be around. Don't bother yourself thinking about it. Just fuck her hard the next time you see her.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:48 AM
1

Be honest and find high quality women who accept that you want variety. They exist if you have high enough SMV and strong enough frame.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:43 AM
1

Stay out of it completely. Workplace drama is never worth getting involved.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:42 AM
1

Just because she says she wants a "nice date" doesn't mean you have to. Do whatever type of date you normally do. If she complains just bring up the concept that whoever has the idea has to pay for the date.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:41 AM
1

Ask your roommate. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:39 AM
2

"Because I like you and you drive me crazy." Shuts them up every time. This can be interpreted as a BP response, but paired with the teasing and antagonizing I assume you're successfully employing, it is a solid move. Classic push-pull.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:37 AM
1

That's one less red flag you have to worry about with his daughter.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:30 AM
5

Why would you hold her wrists? KINO is one thing, but just holding? To salvage the situation you could have made a joke out of it: "making sure your hands don't fall off," or "I'm checking your pulse, you're blushing a lot." Good idea letting her go. That situation is going nowhere fast.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:29 AM
2

Glad you're here and ready to learn. Read the sidebar...if you've read it, read it again. You're in the anger phase, accept it and open yourself to change your mentality. Women flake, it's part of AWALT. You may or may not have been the cause but it doesn't matter. Do not let a woman's rejection change your outlook. Remember, abundance mentality! Concentrate on getting more chicks and improving yourself. Rejections happen, that is just part of the game. Remember, the only thing that should get y…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:26 AM
1

Go for it. The worst that will happen is you'll learn something and be that much more motivated to hit the gym/eat right. And remember, it's not how you look that truest matters, it's how you feel/act. The gym is just a tool to get you to the point of self confidence (by building discipline and making you look great).
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:16 AM
1

Perfect response!
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:13 AM
3

Simple...next her. Don't look back.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 06:04 AM
1

Lower quality comment providing absolutely nothing. Reported.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 11:05 PM
1

No need to be an asshole. I have a few minutes free at work and TRP is a great way to exercise my brain and think about topics in a different light. That's terrible advice. Why would you ever put yourself through that? I mean if you like chubby chicks that's one thing, but if you are attracted to "unreachable" women, go for that. Yes you will fail, but you will also learn a lot about yourself. Also, why would you give a fatty the time of day? All that does is reinforce their confidence in their …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 10:58 PM
1

Petite, attractive women do this as well if you have solid frame, are attractive, and are a person of high value. Why settle for less?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 07:35 PM
1

There's a limited amount of time everyday. If you have time to game a fat chick, you have time to work on self improvement. Why waste your valuable time on a creature that doesn't deserve any of your time. Don't give the fatties the pleasure of sleeping with you and don't lower yourself to their pathetic standards. Go for what you truest want, if you can't get it, work harder until you achieve it.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 07:33 PM
1

Yes, always. It will show confidence and make you look younger (in a good way) and healthy. Just make sure you start using sunscreen on your head when not wearing a hat! It is always difficult to judge yourself honestly, but the great thing about life is you don't really need to (as long as you workout). If you start hitting the gym (there are tons of good workouts out there, just search on TRP), and STICK WITH YOUR WORKOUT PLAN, you will be a completely different guy in 3 months. One year from …
/r/askTRP18/01/17 05:45 PM
2

Agreed, best choice hands down. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 05:17 PM
1

Shave your head, style the beard, lift. You will be able to land whatever you want as long as you put in the time at the gym and invest in your personal growth.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 05:14 PM
5

Or raise your fucking standards and work your ass off until you become the man you want to be. The type of women not wanting to be with you at your present state should be an indicator that you haven't been working hard and/or long enough. Instead of wasting your time with women below your standards, get to work. Go to the gym, plan your career, improve your nutrition plan, don't drink for a week, dive back into the hobby you've been putting off, go backpacking. You will be surprised how much yo…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:10 PM
3

Is there proof backing this up, I keep hearing it but have never experienced it (not to say that some girls aren't like this). Most STEM and highly educated women seem to love intellectual debate surrounding their jobs/education and love the negging that can easily be employed. For some intelligent people, debate is what gets them going (males and females) and for some women can even get them wet. Its fun to put them in their place. BUT, when debating make sure you throw in sexual double meaning…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:02 PM
1

I agree, they can and will deceive you. But a good way to prevent that is to trust your gut instinct (if you've been reading TRP for a while now it you should see red flags pretty easily). The actions you describe leads me to believe that you observe your behavior, but you haven't seen the cause of it: the women you're with. A high quality woman will immediately make you feel completely at ease and go out of her way to make your life better (but don't let that fool you! AWALT). The only chance y…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 10:11 PM
1

Being lonely and friendless is a gift when starting over. You literally have a blank slate that will not be trodden on by old friends' expectations. You have one path to follow: get a gym membership and lift like your life depends on it, find a hobby that you enjoy (my personal favorite are photography and hiking), and read great books (they'll keep you happy during any hard transition). This is not an overnight process, expect noticeable change to take from 3-6 months. A great way to track prog…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:20 PM
3

Excellent point! Do not buy things for her place or stock up on groceries. You are merely a guest with a key that happens to fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:14 PM
1

...profit
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:12 PM
1

How you look is important, but the key is how you feel. Lifting does improve your body, but it's your attitude that women will notice the most.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:11 PM
7

If that is how you are with your wife, then you are not the alpha of your friend group. Chances are none of you display any margin of alpha traits. But let's break it down for you. Read the sidebar! Do it now. If you've already read it, do it again. Lift on a consistent schedule Meditate Start dreading you wife and make her work to be your queen. A relationship's quality is your responsibility, not hers. 20 years is a lot of baggage to undo, but the only way to do it is to start today and make i…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 09:08 PM
1

Stop sleeping with those type of women and start sleeping with women who bring value to your life. Start having sex with women who will clean your place, cook you food, and provide good conversation. I guarantee you will not get angry or want them to leave after that. Remember, if you don't have a connection, don't sleep with her. There are better uses for your valuable time.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 09:00 PM
1

Leave the chat. Don't look back. Find some other women and dread the shit out of them.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:54 PM
0

Take charge or leave. There are plenty of girls out there who won't pull this crap. Make sure she knows this. Increase dread.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:47 PM
7

Accept the key but be wary. Your situation is quickly becoming TRP hard mode. Stay on your toes, keep gaming her, maintain your frame, and always be willing to walk away. You'll be just fine.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:45 PM
1

There is only one excuse...I'm working my ass off and enough time hasn't passed yet to achieve my goals. I will hit my goal around XX date.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:49 PM
7

Confidence is a byproduct of discipline. If you put in the time day after day, week after week, year after year you will grow more and more confident. Motivation is nice to have, but it ultimately makes discipline more difficult due to its fleeting nature. Disciple is the only path to a happy, successful, and independent life.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:09 PM
3

Question and discuss everything including "truth" itself. The most deep-seeded lies are embedded in half-truths that have been taught as the word of your god.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:02 PM
2

Simple solution to this problem: Don't get married Or if married Separate bank accounts. Give her an allowance that you adjust according to her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:54 PM
16

Great list and unfortunately it's just the tip of the iceberg. Big Daddy Government rules your life...find what you love to do and enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:51 PM
1

Don't bother fasting, it is not a long term solution for the problem. What has always worked for me is consistent diet (I'm at 5%). And currently I am not doing cardio, just hitting the gym 6 days/week. Breakfast: Oatmeal, eggs, banana, milk, multivitamin, huge glass of water Lunch: Greek yogurt, nuts, fruit, peanut butter, seeds, hummus, huge glass of water Dinner: Grilled fish or chicken, salad (tons of broccoli, tomatoes, mushrooms, carrots, balsamic vinaigrette), huge glass of water. Pre wor…
/r/askTRP13/01/17 04:37 PM
1

Go back to a bar and then go to the movies with the expectation that you'll be fooling around (don't you dare actually watch the movie). Nothing like a little PDA that gets girls going. Or take her back to your place and "watch a movie." Winter is the best time for this to work when it's cold outside.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 04:25 PM
1

I just gave you examples where it is not. I'm attempting to explain to you the importance of making logical arguments. Your statements are fallacious, are logically unsound, and make you sound angry and solipsistic. I'm on your side. The war is against the world. Continue building your toolset so you'll be prepared. The power of language is one of the strongest tools the awaked have. Use it correctly and use it wisely.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 03:39 AM
1

That's great man. Good for you. But just because you experienced one thing doesn't mean that's the only outcome for a similar situation (that would be solipsistic). All I'm saying is to watch the strength of your statements. You will be a much better advocate/debater and present much stronger arguments in the future.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:35 AM
1

Saying always is way too strong of a statement. Oftentimes would be a more accurate statement. Here's why: imagine you are in college in a women's study class full of dyed hair, SJW blimps. You attractiveness will not benefit you in the interactions in that class. Another example is the many guys on here who have complained about corporate HR departments and their vindictive actions towards attractive men. Yet another example is being around a group of married mens' wives. You think being a Chad…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:17 AM
10

Make everything a joke. For example: Her: Why should I come out to see you, you're always so mean to me. You: I just really like the way you clean my room/cook/anything else domestic.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:32 AM
39

Not to be a downer but being fit can also play against you in the professional world, especially starting out. Take for example young Chad who is 6'2, squats 500, and has the body structure of a Greek God. Although Chad is smart, has a degree, and knows how to successfully navigate the workplace, he still runs into problems. His boss, a fat, balding, middle aged man named Jerry absolutely hates his guts. Jerry is stuck in his middle management position and is jealous of Chad's demeanor, youth, a…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:24 AM
8

Good for you. Just because you can get laid doesn't mean you should. The farther you progress along your journey, the more you will realize that most women aren't worth your time. Fuck only women that improve your life period.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:07 AM
1

Almost caveman-like...and paired with his physique...a CHAD
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:01 AM
20

There's only one way to move in life...forward. Count this as another lesson,albeit a hard one, that will make you into the type of man you are working towards.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 07:48 PM
1

Agree to disagree. No a person, I mean characteristics. What does Brad Pitt have that makes him so attractive?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 07:41 PM
2

If you use muscles, they will become more defined. As I have lifted more and dropped body fat my face has become more defined. Cheering does, but this is on top of that. The more work you make your body do, the more your muscles will increase in strength. Attractiveness comes down to personal preference, but Jeff is an attractive guy. Place a girl in a room with him and I bet he would give them the tingles. He has a strong, defined face and a ridiculously fit body. What do you consider the stand…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 06:16 PM
17

A week in the future is a long time for anyone to wait when you haven't met in person, although it sounds like you lucked out on this one. My rule is typically no more than three days. If it has to be more I double book the date and don't expect her to show. I always send a feeler text the day before (it's great when the weather is bad) so as to not waste my time going out to meet her.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 06:07 PM
6

This is good advice, but there are some stipulations to add on. You have to be prepared to say fuck it and throw a wrench in the entire thing. That being said, create multiple storylines to you getting laid and adapt while the date progresses. Think of dating or life in general as a choose your own adventure book where you cheated and already found the best possible ending (where you get laid and plate her). Your only goal is to connect the dots to get there. Work backwards from this point and c…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 06:02 PM
2

Read what I said. Obviously bone structure has a lot to do with it. But compare a person weighing 300 lbs and dropping down to a fit 180 lbs. their face will be more defined due to less fat and thus look better. Obviously less body fat is the key. But lifting heavy will change the muscles in your face too, although this pairs up with a lower body fat. Your muscles are connected. Take shrugs for example, you are not only working your traps, but your neck as well. When your neck contracts, your fa…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 05:45 PM
1

Whenever women pull out their phones on dates I do a loud "cough cough". It always has one of two reactions: she laughs and puts her phone away or she acts affronted and puts her phone away. I've never had a girl pull her phone out after doing that. Note: Not sure this would work on women 30+ as they have not had the social conditioning of coughing from school, but why would you bother with them anyways.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 08:12 AM
5

What many people forget is that the face is made up of muscles that are trained along with the rest of your body. When you hit the gym consistently for a log period of time you will literally transform the contours of your chiseled jawline, accentuate your cheekbones, and have more radiant skin (with proper diet of course). Facial ugliness is just for people who do not put in the time at the gym and have a proper diet. Hit the gym, eat right, look and feel great.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 07:31 AM
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