LTR and work

lietruth · 2017-01-17T19:15:54+00:00

If she feels like she's "doing all the work", it's clear that you're not taking on a leadership role. You're falling into her frame more than she's in yours.

Lead your girlfriend. Take charge. Decide what you two are going to do. Pass her shit tests, and her comfort tests (this was a comfort test and you failed).

dendsm111 · 2017-01-17T19:34:21+00:00

A&A isn't always the answer. If you in the long game you are going to have to provide some comfort to keep her around.

badchad_isglad · 2017-01-17T20:47:09+00:00

Take charge or leave. There are plenty of girls out there who won't pull this crap. Make sure she knows this. Increase dread.

Wallace68LeMay · 2017-01-17T19:36:45+00:00

Ghost her for a minimum of 7-10 days, no contact whatsoever.

Title	LTR and work
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	January 17, 2017 6:40 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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