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bananabreadmuffins/r/seduction18/01/15 06:52 PM
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bananabreadmuffins/r/askTRP04/07/15 01:35 AM
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bananabreadmuffins/r/seduction12/01/15 05:09 PM
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bananabreadmuffins/r/seduction13/01/15 05:04 AM
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bananabreadmuffins/r/seduction21/01/15 06:02 PM
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bananabreadmuffins/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:21 PM
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bananabreadmuffins/r/seduction19/01/15 06:19 PM
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bananabreadmuffins/r/askTRP09/04/15 05:08 PM
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bananabreadmuffins/r/seduction26/01/15 08:25 AM
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bananabreadmuffins/r/askTRP03/03/15 08:19 PM
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Welcome to feeling dominant. "Mother fucker was using your machines getting in the way of your god damn workout." Cognitively blah blah we know that's not really the case, but still dude was in your fucking way slackin n shit. If you catch my drift
/r/askTRP04/07/15 02:07 AM
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How to win friends and influence people was like sand paper it was so dry
/r/askTRP29/06/15 10:37 AM
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Had this problem too. Start physically escalating. Stand behind a woman and examine her head to toe. Once I started giving girls jumper cables. Putting my hand on their hip and firmly moving them. Physical interaction got me riled up enough to wanna fuck. What's happening here is you still DESIRE a bluepill way of love. This doesn't mean you're a beta bitch or any of the like. It simply means deep deep deep deep deep down you still desire unconditional love from a woman. I went through the same …
/r/askTRP29/06/15 10:31 AM
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And works flawlessly :)
/r/seduction21/06/15 01:14 PM
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joking face and tone hey touch my scarf again and I'll ring you with it. look srs as fuck
/r/askTRP20/06/15 11:48 AM
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You blew it by not fucking her. Gotta learn the art of self vomit, water, and coffee for situations like this.
/r/seduction20/06/15 11:45 AM
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Just don't text back lol and take a different girl out. *abundance mentality
/r/askTRP19/06/15 03:33 PM
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Yep. She started acting up and you were having none of it. Everything seems good. Women will always be mad at you under the surface. Cool part about staying chipper is they have two options; drop the fucking attitude and shape up or get out.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 02:15 AM
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Just don't fuck her. And do whatever
/r/askTRP18/06/15 01:49 AM
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You'll confrot your childhood trauma. Not flee.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:48 PM
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You'll confrot your childhood trauma. Not flee.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:48 PM
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So much of this. You described me to a T but I have tattoos. Asians super submissiv but even the white fatties think they're gonna push me around
/r/askTRP12/06/15 01:26 PM
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Makes two of us.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 01:24 PM
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Expectations are varying on both sexes on what they want from LTR. Yes your logic is sound. You're both wasting time for what you really want out of life. No penalty in thinking this way either.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 07:16 PM
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I don't indulge regurarly. I attend festivals twice a year and I'm definitely gonna get down two times outta the year.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 11:19 PM
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19F/22M
/r/askTRP02/06/15 11:19 PM
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19F/22M
/r/askTRP02/06/15 11:19 PM
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"Don't stand a chance with her" "She's flirting with them" Check your head mate.
/r/seduction14/05/15 11:19 AM
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Duly noted as fuck
/r/askTRP02/05/15 10:26 PM
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My issue was i couldn't quite decipher what "that's too far for me" meant. I couldn't figure out if that was rejection, a shit test, or a fair concern of hers. I don't really care if anything comes of it. A few months prior i would care, thanks to you guys though i don't cause, the only direction i can go in all areas of life is forward and that's more rewarding than time with any girl.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 08:26 PM
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Just some standard brews with the boys.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 07:46 PM
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Okay, so I am banging another chick tonight. But for some reason, hungup on this girl for the date. Do you have tips for maintaining abundance? I already told her well that's where I'll be you're welcome to join me.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 06:45 PM
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The joint gets busy and that's what I wanna do lol
/r/askTRP02/05/15 04:49 PM
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While it may seem counter-intuitive, this may have increased her level of attraction. Girls get pissed when rejected (entitlement)
/r/seduction01/05/15 11:06 AM
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Okay OP here's a PROTIP about festi chicks- ALL of them are rolling, horny, and sex is all part of the "fun". Believe me they wanna have rollin balls sex while they're having a blast it's icing on the cake. Festi chicks are the easiest out there. Every festival I've attended I've gotten some from grinding at the mainstage to "let's go to my tent now"
/r/seduction29/04/15 10:13 AM
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I had this problem too OP. But kept going and I got over it. What I did after getting interest from 8 and 9s really helped. What also really helped was when I started approaching like crazy, some of the smokin hot babes I would approach were either dumb as fuck or incredibly boring as a person.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 10:00 AM
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"Cut the shit, show some respect ot fuck off" Be very stern and make serious eye contact when saying this. Stand dominantly. Or my personal favorite "Hey we all get you don't like yourself, don't make it our problem. Kthnxbai"
/r/askTRP28/04/15 11:45 AM
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Thank you! It's fucking annoying seeing yhe same damn minute question that could have been answered 5 minutes into the sidebar
/r/askTRP28/04/15 11:34 AM
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Yean beta homies. Point is it's a hell of a lot easier to trust fellow men than slutty women. Actual alpha homies don't care to step on your toes because they're man enough to shine through their own successes. Consider yourself lucky, I wish I could have been sad about it instead of angry. Clear something up for you: a real intelligent friend doesn't "woman thieve" for two reasons, they have abundance mentality (they have plenty of options their self) and they respect you. Less intelligent or n…
/r/askTRP28/04/15 11:19 AM
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Open up to close homies. AWALT. TRP is brutual truths.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 06:58 PM
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K but he's right
/r/askTRP27/04/15 04:18 PM
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Trust them with what?
/r/askTRP27/04/15 04:15 PM
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That's honestly hilarious
/r/askTRP27/04/15 04:12 PM
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No one's mentioned how to win friends and influence people by dale carnigie?
/r/askTRP27/04/15 04:02 PM
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Because you were being a creep lol
/r/askTRP27/04/15 03:51 PM
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I think I have this problem. Labeled as "hot" from a distance until I open my mouth
/r/askTRP27/04/15 03:48 PM
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I really love this irony her2
/r/seduction27/04/15 03:44 PM
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This is why I treat reddit as an information resource instead of a community
/r/seduction27/04/15 03:44 PM
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The part wherw you should have went radio silent is exactly how it should have been handled. Or just have said something like "uh ok"
/r/askTRP26/04/15 12:07 PM
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Keep putting yourself in positions like that where you need to keep on your heels. See: stoicism
/r/askTRP26/04/15 11:59 AM
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Wait, what. I'm attracted to men, does that make me a chubby chasers What?
/r/askTRP23/04/15 02:11 PM
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Am I the only one around here who just lifts random shit (i target all muscle groups through the week) until i puke and eat fuckloads of raw food? Cause i got big and lean quick. Personally my body adapts to routines to quickly
/r/askTRP23/04/15 02:09 PM
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So just don't do what she says Cause you know what's best for yourself. I feel like this wouldn't be a concern if you already didn't have a history of submitting to her
/r/askTRP23/04/15 02:07 PM
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As stated above, it's all conditioning. I ruined one chick lol. She was all "omg i don't leik Payne" Yeah well after enough headboard banging and hip bruising she admitted a few months later (i can't get off without pain now thanks) =]
/r/askTRP23/04/15 02:05 PM
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Right here. Actually a previous LTR failed because of this, which brings me here. Sounds like she's not evil witch. She just has issues which aren't your problem. I think it was handled well.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 02:05 PM
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Doing it wrong. Overtime you can put yourself in a meditative state. Gives you an edge with women, in sports, and on exams.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 12:19 PM
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To add; people that I KNOW are confident and have abundance mentality totally love my time and we get along great. This is what confuses me. Unless these people I'm trying to befriend are that insecure. I have noticed my vices to screw with frame. I'll read those and see what I learn. Thank you.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 11:06 PM
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All of these things happened before swallowing the pill though. And now since I've stopped taking shit amd stand firmly on my beliefsa and speak confidently about things pelople seem to think I'm full of myself They don't say it directly but that's what their looks/energy seem to imply. To better clarify your theory; no i am not putting on a front by being an asshole. I just don't go out of my way for most people these days. I have not dark triaded myself as your reply seems to impose. When i wa…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 10:52 PM
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Elaborate?
/r/askTRP18/04/15 10:23 PM
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I like the idea of weaning. Also, I have noticed if i smoke at the perfect time it seems to offer small benefit. Would you disagree with the notion of keeping pot around for alone time, like when it's night time and the only thing left on the list is paint? Or do I put myself at risk of falling into old habits?
/r/askTRP17/04/15 12:18 AM
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Just do it nike style. Makes sense, glad I'm not alone.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 12:16 AM
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It's your patterns with weed. This right here. I had to cut out smoking alone because when I did, I fell into the same pattern: movies, junk food, jerking off and napping. Nailed it.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 12:15 AM
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The world's a shallow place. Wear a tapout shirt. Post results.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 12:10 AM
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imo 90% of niggas are already RP as fuck
/r/askTRP13/04/15 02:10 PM
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OP why would you get mad? Wtf? Remember A.ll.W.omen.A.re.L.ike.T.hat I can't just meet people?! Hamster right there, she was definitely DTF Women are whores. Big whoop. You should have taken the flattering compliment. Honestly realizing that women are like this is the biggest hurdle in this journey IMO. Morals? Here's the way I think (because I fuck the shit out of my buddy's hot girlfriends) "I don't step on toes or drink others koolaid because I am confident in my capabilities to get my own"
/r/askTRP13/04/15 01:56 PM
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She just threw herself at you to become a plate fyi
/r/askTRP09/04/15 11:23 PM
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Am i the only one that thinks if you truly want LTR you haven't digested enough of TRP?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 05:13 PM
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After you fuck her virtually anything you say goea, its yours forever
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 05:11 PM
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You lacked chemistry. Big deal, next. And stop saying bro.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 11:07 AM
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Or just say "I'm looking to make connections with no expectations"
/r/seduction06/03/15 11:05 AM
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They're all sluts
/r/askTRP06/03/15 10:47 AM
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TL;DR: TRP is a CONCEPTUAL science
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:00 AM
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It's because you are looking for the IOIs. Think about it,it's the same effect as when you do have a girlfriend. (During blue days) she consumed your mind therefore you were focused on her, and the shit you were doing. Chicks are like ohhhh heyyy. Why? Because you're focused on shit, not women, when you're at the bar focus on sports, your drink, anything that is NOT women. This is all speculation from my ass but it sounds like you are actively seeking female attention therefore you are getting n…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:38 AM
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"Make eye contact with people" is usually fairly solid advice, since so few people do it. Walk though most malls, and a ton of people are looking straight at the ground. Walk through most ghettos, and everyone is trying to eye fuck you. Eye-fuck-you-in-the-ass... because everything is about who can stare at who the hardest, right? lol. No. Where does that idea come from?? Do people think that they enter some sort of staring contest with everyone who comes into their view? I understand both viewp…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:58 AM
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Essentially, and I don't really disagree. I thought about it and acted it out while walking around at work today and creeped myself out. Whoops. I realize now that it was so effective because I was relaxed and exceptionally perky, I appeared harmless yet strong.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:45 AM
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But...but i can hardly small talk yet :(
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:26 AM
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Yeah, how you got "I'm staring these bitches down hoping they'll fuck me" is just radical. It's called practicing and improving body language because I also said I'm still in minor monk mode.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:23 AM
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That was my suspicion thank you for the feedback
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:16 AM
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-calls me literalist -thinks I'm literally staring people down in hopes of getting laid -oh the irony
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:15 AM
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Sustain dominant posture but lighten up seems like a feasible plan, no?
/r/askTRP03/03/15 08:47 PM
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So what the hell did I change that I'm coming off as creepy now? It was yielding great results before.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 08:26 PM
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And generating discussion is explicitly what I just did here, by making a statement. This also works when texting girls. "Read beyond the writing" It's kind of pointless to downvote something because you don't like it or disagree with it. A lot of people seem to come to r/seduction for advice and then when given it they want to challenge the knowledge as if they somehow knew better? Instead of just clicking the down arrow, perhaps downvote and explain why you felt that way, that will also genera…
/r/seduction02/03/15 04:15 PM
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Point is, not texting her is MORE effective than texting her. In all areas. "Try to be indifferent from all the other guys" ... Yeah by not texting her like the rest of them are. lightbulb! In addition - the examples they used made me cringe and I'm a guy. Emoticons are a very feminine thing and by acting feminine torwards her she's going to relate to you on a female level...you don't want that.
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:15 PM
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Just don't text her.
/r/seduction01/03/15 10:22 PM
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Yeah or just seem more interested in the uglier one. Don't blatantly ignore your actual target...
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:10 PM
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Depends on the distance really. You have about .5s window after she passes. Basically as soon as you realized she was attractive, out with it. But if you're like 4 steps in after noticing it's too late. If you feel like you've missed your window, you have. It's difficult to explain because it's an art. But what you're trying to do is show the mentality "oh...hey she's cute I'm doing something about that." Within a reasonable amount of time.
/r/seduction25/02/15 04:35 AM
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Go watch the movie hall pass. Ugly friends make them look hotter. It's science. So when at the bar, you see a hottie with an ugly chick friend, hit on the uglt friend and watch the hottie's insecurities flourish
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:01 AM
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Straight up word for word this has worked everytime noticeably looking at her "Wha-h-well hello fox..." Basically verbalize your thoughts and the double take. "uh..wha..holy shit hi" It works because they were expecting to keep on walking and go about their business but you couldn't just "help" to externalize your attraction. I mean if you're walkin on down and you hear some guy motivated enough to turn around and speak naturally they will stop dead in their tracks.
/r/seduction25/02/15 03:54 AM
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Fucking nailed it. Girls don't get me high like they used to.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:09 AM
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That's why you call it the "work girlfriend" I've done this at all my jobs. Just be verbally flirty at work and don't escalate. So when they flip a tit over nothing you have all the deniability in the world. Also by acting this way you're both intuitively sending the message "yup we'd fuck but we work together" keeps her in the fray and you don't get fired.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 03:06 AM
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If you strive to be a better person, be a better person. How that's going to happen will vary from person to person. Just keep at it. Thoughts>Emotion>Action And vice versa. Stop the chatter in your head. Nike: Just do it.
/r/seduction24/02/15 01:45 AM
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OP never asked for anything. He was asking if anyone can relate. Not of that matters. Its all moot he's going to keep going in circles thinking this way. Because comforting OP while he wallows in self pity will only damage him further. "People like you" You mean the kind of people that won't beat around the bush and just get the fuckin' point? Also your logic sucks. "How to swim" Step 1: Read a book Um...sure, or just get your ass in the water don't go to deep or then you will drown. It's very q…
/r/seduction23/02/15 08:28 PM
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Envious much? I'm going through the same successful hoops he is and making progress and the confidence aura he's explained is all true. Source: I'm expierencing this exact story. Feels great.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 03:46 PM
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It feels like you're expecting immediate results. Changing yourself can take anywhere from 1 minute to 10 years. It all depends on who you are, how hard you wanna work, and how badly you want to change. "I just go back to failing" nut up brother. That's the mindset that makes you go right back to who you are. I'm not going to put this nicely (it helps when people are utterly cold in their honesty) stop being a little bitch. Stop Taking people's shit, you don't have to. And stop being so insecure…
/r/seduction23/02/15 02:52 PM
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Hey OP can confirm this works from a female perspective; "So you know how when you were over, you said that I had a lot of anxious tendencies and when you were leaving you said that I had something on my mind and I may never tell you. I couldn't tell you because I didn't know what it was but I've finally figured it out. When you were starting at me I was extremely nervous because you seemed so consumed in me. It's a huge change to have a man with a similar intellect calibration of my own seeming…
/r/seduction19/02/15 04:23 PM
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Well at least it's progress. Thank you for the tip
/r/askTRP18/02/15 05:19 AM
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Otay
/r/askTRP17/02/15 05:53 PM
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So this is a common occurrence when taking the journey to self improvement?
/r/askTRP17/02/15 04:41 PM
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Spot on! So what are some tips to not be so angry?
/r/askTRP17/02/15 04:38 PM
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Thanks but I'll take advice from the fishermen not the fish.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 04:35 PM
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Do not stick your pen in the company ink
/r/seduction17/02/15 04:58 AM
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start Taking her pants off to expose vagina for sex...?
/r/seduction17/02/15 04:56 AM
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Actually don't stare. You'll sense her body language if she's open to it. A great way to tell is run your fingers through her hair, caress her neck. Or my personal favorite thumb and index finger to hold her chin up (while caressing) once this is all said and done just grab the broad and kiss her. Don't look into her eyes don't give her time to think or expect it. Catch her ofd guard and sweep her off her feet. Don't think "should i kiss her" think "i wanna kiss her, I'm gonna kiss her" and do w…
/r/seduction14/02/15 05:44 PM
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Change like to interested. (In your own mind) this will keep em on their feet. You don't want them to be like "wow i already got this, I've already won" that's your job. If that makes sense. And I only say dinner never seems to work for LTR but does for a quick lay. I mean think about it how many married couples will say "oh yeah we met for dinner one evening one thing led to the next, and now we're married" i always suggest avoiding dinner and doing something out of the norm because it really h…
/r/seduction12/02/15 10:31 AM
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I feel like only a genuine bitch would think that way
/r/seduction09/02/15 05:03 AM
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I'll agree whole heartedly. I was never very good at superficial conversation. Catch me on philosophical theories, interesting science and I'll never shut the fuck up. I've just always felt it's kind of foolish to -insert witty pick up line -oh my never heard that one before -thanks, so how's the night treating you? It just seem so...who the fuck do you think you are Or is it really that simple?
/r/seduction09/02/15 04:56 AM
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Sounds like the women you are pursuing are DTF on the firsr date, if you don't get it while it's hot you never will. You're being too nice on your first dates. It also seems like you decide "yep i like her" on the first date. And they can tell. Too easy and no fun. Spice it up. 9/10 90% of these women have been to dinner and an interesting conversation. You're not sticking out
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:55 AM
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Lunch on me? Great way to imply: idgaf i just want your free time ;)
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:50 AM
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I may be a male, but I'm having trouble believing that all these women do "shit tests" and etc. Among various other behaviors it sometimes feel like the general nomenclature torwards women is that they are immature spoiled brats and she be treated as such. (Meaning don't spoil them and naturally they'll like you) sometimes i can't help but feel you won't have half these issues with a grown woman with her shit together and her head slightly screwed on straight. If what all this information claims…
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:42 AM
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Not sure why you haven't written articles yet. I gathered a lot (concept was clear) just from that little bit.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 11:50 PM
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It does, so do it in the day in a more publicly crowded place
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:48 PM
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Lazer tag, ice cream, walk around the park. Literally anything that's not coffee, dinner, or a movie. The cheesiest the better.
/r/seduction04/02/15 05:46 PM
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-Flakes on first date -says nothing the day of the date -takes 5 months to respond Does that sound like a priority to you? If you can't tell that you're on the back burner from that, you missed something obvious. I'm not misunderstood, I'll go ahead and repeat myself; She's just craving attention and has no intention of showing. She's not that interested. She's some girl he got frisky with at the club. Nobody's getting laid. These are all just heat of the moment events and nothing will come of i…
/r/seduction03/02/15 07:17 AM
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Its been 5 month. And he hardly knows this girl...I'm sorry what has she done in any shape or form to make it seem she's worth the second attempt? Besides flaking on the firsr date...
/r/seduction02/02/15 05:51 PM
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Because i have a little higher self esteem than that. To be somebody's fail safe. I'll just take a girl out where I'm her main squeeze. Clearly she wasn't interested (did you miss the part where she flaked on the firsr date and hit him back up 5 months later?) Only a fool would pursue something like that. It's already off to a bad start, so why even bother? I get that shit happens and so do schedules. But blowing him off on the first date and then thinking "oh hey he's on deck and I'm lonely" 5 …
/r/seduction02/02/15 05:48 PM
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Lol what? Or just uh..."hey I'm not a back up plan because your other relationship just ended" you made quite the assumptions off a little bit of text.
/r/seduction02/02/15 02:50 PM
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This is a result of Plan A not going as planned. Therefore call Plan B. You were an option. Next.
/r/seduction01/02/15 07:52 PM
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Thanks. Care to be constructive? :)
/r/seduction26/01/15 02:20 PM
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"Had plans for the day" "Now it's night time and she's home playing xbox" Push and pull, fade out, she'll follow
/r/seduction26/01/15 08:18 AM
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I was thinking about this today and something insightful happened. Made a match, had a short conversation, and got her number for coffee. Then survival instincts kicked in; "That was too easy, she might just be some old guy serial killer...yeah fuck that shit" I wouldn't be surprised if the same happens to women only on a larger scale.
/r/seduction26/01/15 08:06 AM
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I do not mean to provoke more or less contrsuctively criticize; that was a very wordy way of putting it! That was my assumption but I had to decipher the message a bit. Keep this in mind when communicating with women. (I have to do this myself cause not all of them have an equally extensive vocabulary and/or comprehension lol
/r/seduction22/01/15 02:31 AM
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So has she gotten back to you on another date or not? If you answer this question with a yes or no you have solved your own question good sir.
/r/seduction22/01/15 02:13 AM
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60 dates and ALL 60 DATES were the problem? Hmmmm HMMMMMM
/r/seduction22/01/15 01:35 AM
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You want to provide evidence to your claims? I've always felt its a very polite gesture.
/r/seduction22/01/15 01:34 AM
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"Man! I'm just so not into having a girlfriend right now" It's that easy
/r/seduction22/01/15 01:32 AM
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So what changed that you don't like yourself anymore?
/r/seduction22/01/15 01:30 AM
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Depends on the woman and the date. I feel personally leaving the option open if she needs to bail on the first date for her own reasons provides a certain security and comfort. Because if the date is awkward, imagine the drive home
/r/seduction22/01/15 12:49 AM
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"Hey I had a great time with you, wanna do it again in the near future?" or anything of that nature. Just an adult communicating with a recent interest on planning time together. There's no harm done. Either it's a hit or a miss. Typically when they're itching for a second date you can just kind of tell in their energies they're waiting for you to ask. You won't know until you try either.
/r/seduction22/01/15 12:45 AM
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Also she won't be hearing from me until Saturday
/r/seduction19/01/15 06:20 PM
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Spice it up! Get a little more personal with this date. Clearly things are going well. Go to SeaWorld, volunteer somewhere, do something out of the norm and she will very much appreciate it. Also be ready to make a move the third time around.
/r/seduction19/01/15 01:35 PM
1

Just experienced this myself recently and was severly hurt. Yes. It's a huge red flag of insecurity.
/r/seduction19/01/15 12:26 PM
2

Just keep in mind, there's a girl out there in your same boat looking to get fucked too.
/r/seduction19/01/15 12:21 PM
0

Lol then she can clearly communicate this to the poor fella
/r/seduction19/01/15 12:05 PM
1

8/10 of women I've slept with got off on the dominance bit actually.
/r/seduction19/01/15 12:04 PM
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This is also explained in the article. It has nothing to do with being perverted. It is a natural reaction of attraction for a male to glance at a female's breasts. I was naturally expressing my interest/attraction. I feel only a stick in the mud would react with "omg he's naturally attracted to me in the way men have for thousands of years, what a fuckin perv!" Yknow?
/r/seduction19/01/15 12:02 PM
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No. It's a 7 minute read actually
/r/seduction19/01/15 11:55 AM
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I can not stress this article enough, and reading it was a bit of an epiphany. In essence it answered the question I pondered for years. Girls really do like that stuff. After reading this article I started expressing sexual desire to many women. Sometimes I was aggressive and other times I got crafty. All have worked to different degrees, and not ONCE has expressing desire gotten me slapped or rejected. Even at work, I was helping a MILF. She was explaining to me the situation. My eyes began to…
/r/seduction19/01/15 02:10 AM
1

Well that fucked up, one minute
/r/seduction19/01/15 01:52 AM
1

Can you expand on the manipulation bit
/r/seduction18/01/15 10:56 PM
2

Rule of thumb when doing a romantic dance, just don't use the term friend. At all. You can friendzone yourself by doing that. Also nothing wrong with making it clear that your intentions with her was beyond friendship.
/r/seduction18/01/15 09:54 PM
1

So do something as easy as "I'm trying to tear you apart. When can that happen" She'll tell you when you can and potentially where.
/r/seduction18/01/15 07:49 PM
1

Older women when looking for sex want just that. She does not care about your day. Contact her when you are trying to fuck. But keep it classy and be aware of her schedule too. If that makes sense. Play your cards right and she can be on-call booty. She's down to fuck you so fuck her. I'm honestly not trying to give a smartass remark. No game is necessary at this point just plan to fuck accordingly. The only way to fuck this up is by becoming attached/clingy. You are her sexual object that's not…
/r/seduction18/01/15 07:43 PM
2

Seems mapped out for you. Bring a pillow and have at it with your married woman
/r/seduction18/01/15 06:49 PM
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Move along. Also to avoid friendzone you need to express sexual intent.
/r/seduction18/01/15 06:48 PM
0

FYI you perceived it as cold. Meaning that an internal issue has caused you to feel and react this way.
/r/seduction17/01/15 01:34 AM
1

I honestly figured that was the case. What is rapport and how do I establish more? Or shall i see the sidebar
/r/seduction14/01/15 01:10 PM
7

-Hey, can you pack? -"p-pack...?" -Yeah like clothes and stuff -"uhm...yeah...????" -great i want you to come over and pack my girlfriend's shit
/r/seduction14/01/15 04:17 AM
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We had hit it off all night. Literally texting all night, whatever. When I would try to ignore she would do something like "I hope you're awake" so naturally I kept it up. Judging by what she said "you're so charming and hot" she seemed pretty into me. mind you she was drinking. Anyways I ended up getting her to agree for coffee Sunday(this previous weekend). Well next day she was apparently sleeping all day. Whatever, asked how her day was, no response. Next day (Saturday) I just said hey what'…
/r/seduction13/01/15 06:36 AM
2

You're going to be an option irregardless. Just make sure you're the best and first one. How? Identify her needs and fulfill them in a way that no other man has.
/r/seduction13/01/15 05:30 AM
2

I learned in Psych last semester to get someone to intially like you, do it in 3 encounters. Be polite Be kind Be flattering Then go from there
/r/seduction13/01/15 05:19 AM
1

Thank you. Those are my intial reactions but conscience takes over and says "don't come off too cocky or arrogant" but apparently my intial responses I should stick with. Upon reading the sidebar the things that come to mind firsr are what should be said. I just tend to filter it with caring too much about the intial impression. Stand a firm ground,I didn't know women like to test the stability of confidence. Noted
/r/seduction13/01/15 05:09 AM
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Expand?
/r/seduction13/01/15 03:36 AM
1

Excellent feedback. I do suppose they are compliments, it makes sense. And yes it does fuck with my flow, my confidence is a little diminished because I felt they didn't trust me. Ultimately yes I do wish to turn them into something potentially long term. I can hit it off and break the ice. But progressing beyond that has proven difficult. Do I chit chat then proceed to move things forward, or do I cut the bullshit get down to the nitty gritty and express my intention? I can seem to captivate th…
/r/seduction12/01/15 10:13 PM
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