Do you even attempt to re-setup a date after a flake?

MetalPUA · 2015-01-13T06:23:41+00:00

You could try Mark Manson's "Three Strike" rule for dealing with flaky women. It goes like this:

The first time a woman flakes on you, give her the benefit of the doubt. She may have had a legitimate reason for flaking on you.
If she flakes on you a second time, but you're really interested in her and/or you think she had another legitimate reason for flaking, you can give her another chance if you want. If you do decide to give her another chance, you may want to text her something like "OK, last chance though."
If she flakes on you a third time, let her go. She's not worth the time or effort.

masterplan2020 · 2015-01-13T06:07:48+00:00

How did she flake? In general, things like flakes happen in many different ways and may have different answers or meanings.

joshsway · 2015-01-13T17:30:50+00:00

Depends on how she flaked... things happen sometimes. It's all about the manner with which the flake occurred. One thing I do when there is a flake is that I double book the next date in case she flakes again. But in your case, per your comment below, the answer is clearly move on.

Title	Do you even attempt to re-setup a date after a flake?
Author	bananabreadmuffins
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	January 13, 2015 5:04 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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