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| 1 | Discussion on article on how important are single dads. I thought it was dark ages mentality, others disagree. Thought it would be interested to read your thoughts.No she didn't mention men being violent. That was a comment made. Although she explains how important time with single fathers is to kids (now anyway) it was the old stereotype descriptions that just got under my skin. Would have just liked to see her discuss how single moms should recognize the need for their kids to spend equal tie with their dad. Not that dads don't get to see what happens after they get dropped off etc. Maybe a I am a bit too sensitive :) | /r/MensRights | 15/11/10 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Discussion on article on how important are single dads. I thought it was dark ages mentality, others disagree. Thought it would be interested to read your thoughts.Apologize . My mistake. Meant to link actual article . http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/equalparenting/a/fathersneeded.htm | /r/MensRights | 11/11/10 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Poll: Have you ever really heard anyone blame a rape victim for being raped?Usually under cross-examination on the stand. Well, on Law and Order anyway ;) | /r/MensRights | 04/03/10 01:55 PM |
| 15 | Are child support rules unfair to fathers?Bottom line--dads end up paying majority of the time. My biggest beef is there is no accountability. Is the money really going to support the child? No way of knowing. Great point in the article, which I completely agree with, is expenses. Ok, lets assume you split, get divorced and go your separate ways. Won't she need housing, electricity, water, food, car, auto insurance, etc etc etc????? Amount needed is grossly over stated. It is the welfare mentality. Since I can get it for free, why not t… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/10 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Teenage boys are being urged not to abuse their girlfriends as part of a new Government campaign which was launched today.This ad will have zero affect. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/10 06:35 PM |
| -1 | The Sad Truth About the Typical American Relationshiptend to agree with you. Needs to get a life and get over it! | /r/MensRights | 15/02/10 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Powerful video underscores the false rape epidemicThis video, is more powerful than 1000 articles. Seeing them in print and the actual ruining of men's lives is eye opener. Sad part is how easy it is for an accusation to be made. Usually guilty until proven innocent. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/10 02:15 PM |
| 5 | MSNBC's Dr. Nancy talks about Breast vs Prostate cancer on Morning JoeHave to give her credit for being fair and talking about mens and womens health issues equally on the show. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/09 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Oh These Dads! Photos of Fathers and KidsThanks for sharing. Important to show the bond between dads and their kids. Wonderful photos. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/09 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Oprah cuts gospel singer BeBe Winans from her Karaoke challenge because of alleged DV incident.Ok we are talking Karaoke on Oprah. Bigger fish to fry. All need to get a life. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/09 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Take a break from the debate and discussions and enjoy this short video. It is worth it. Just wanted to share a moment among father and son.Good for you. We often only have our parents for half our lives (if we are lucky), You can't hug them when the are gone. My dad passed away in 2001. Think of him still everyday. You keep hugging. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/09 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The rule in all Tucson shelters but one is "No Single Dads Allowed."Wow talk about a topic I would not have thought would need to be discussed! Seems the shelters need to get up to speed with the growing number of dads having custody of their kids. Shame on them! | /r/MensRights | 04/11/09 07:00 PM |
| 1 | All parents - absent a finding of true harm - should have an absolute right to 50 percent custody of their children. (Slate, June 2004. I couldn't find a newer, mainstream press opinion)Very good comments Mesca. All sadly true. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/09 05:53 PM |
| 3 | All parents - absent a finding of true harm - should have an absolute right to 50 percent custody of their children. (Slate, June 2004. I couldn't find a newer, mainstream press opinion)I could not agree with you more! 50% should ALWAYS be the starting norm for custody unless one has serious issues. The BEST interest of the child is to have both his mom and his dad equally. Funny how in alimony and child support the states want to make sure one side is placed on equal footing so the child can have similar life in both households and not to adversely affect one side. Should be no different in custody. Too often the dad needs to prove and fight he is worthy of custody. Yet as men… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/09 03:29 PM |
| 12 | I banned a troll for the first time and here was her responseMature response by you. Also, it is your site, you can ban whom you please. Sometimes it is necessary. Otherwise, the smokescreen gets so thick, you can never see through it to find real honest dialog. Nothing is black and white. That is why sites and reports are needed to uncover the truth. Discussion are more productive than hate and accusations ( just look at our political landscape to prove that) But then again, I am sure there are some who believe Duke didn't happen........ | /r/MensRights | 30/10/09 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Judge Bernadette Romano rules that Utica, New York mom cannot adopt out her baby without the father's consent. Mother hid adoption from father.Thank goodness for this judge. Although the article is involved it offers an insight into why fathers need to be diligent. Amazing that in 2009 we still have these one sided cases causing denial of rights. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/09 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Inequity in Divorce and Custody - What can YOU do today?Very good post. I also like the tone of your writing. Not confrontational or name calling, but informational and with tips. Well done. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/09 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Perpetuating the myth "1 in 4 women is beaten in her own home. Fists and Bruises, a black-and-blue world."I would also like to see the statistics to back up these claims. I mean rel stats, not storylines. Is it only me, or does there seem to be a million "awareness months" for everything. Seems to take away from the meaning. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/09 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Ex-Wives Angry Over Paying Alimony After Divorce - ABC Newsditto | /r/MensRights | 03/10/09 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Show of hands: Who is sick and tired of the kind of hysterical reporting that passes along an accusation as fact?As I have said before, the need to be first to report, and to get ratings, causes lack of solid reporting. I do not have a problem with the 13 year old girl being frightened and going for help. Better to seek the authorities than if this really was a bad situation. The problem is the rush to print,post whatever , before confirming the facts. Which I guess is just a long winded way of saying I agree with you :). | /r/MensRights | 01/10/09 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Jon Gosselin Nixed from Kate Plus 8 Equation - "The show will center more around Kate's single-mom plight raising eight " I hardly consider getting 250,000 per episode a 'plight'No she is not "in a sense exploiting the children".....She is exploiting her children. Both parents should be ashamed. But, if people didn't watch, they wouldn't get the money. Just wondering how long it will be and at what age their first child will enter rehab. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/09 06:24 PM |
| 0 | "In the meantime, though, my new husband is cooking me great meals and treating me just like a princess. He’s so boring compared to my bad, bad boy."My guess is this is one nice made up story. If not, who cares. She is a loser. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/09 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The real lesson of Hofstra: We can't empower our daughters by pretending they are powerlessVery good post. Wondering if the rush to publish and report creates even less good reporting. With the news cycles in minutes or even seconds, in depth reporting BEFORE publishing has become a victim. One of the underlying casualties of the disappearing news reporters in place of blogs. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/09 04:46 PM |
| 3 | The New TV Season: Missing MenGreat post on the state of men in new tv shows this season. Or lack of real male role models. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/09 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Toward a core set of principles for men" personal character, exemplified by honesty, integrity, reliability, as the main indicator of mature masculine personality development" Terrific set of traits by themselves. Adding the others in the article is a bonus. | /r/MensRights | 24/09/09 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Advice for Men - 11 Things to Do NowSometime it is just due to finances and affording the move. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/09 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Poor reasons for not charging the false accuserIt is sad. It is one of those moments after reading an article when you just pause and say to yourself, Am I missing something or is this as outrageous as it appears. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/09 11:21 AM |
| 5 | Poor reasons for not charging the false accuserYikes. So now we need to not worry about the falsely accused, but the FUTURE false accusers?? Am I missing something here or is this as warped as it sounds. Amazing. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/09 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Cops taser harmless legless dad in wheelchair so Child Protective Services can take his childWow. Hard to understand what reason the cops are going to provide. The video is very sad. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/09 03:42 PM |
| 10 | Anorexia and obesity arrived at the same time as feminism and possibly on the same trainBeing someone who has had a family member afflicted with an eating disorder, this article is a joke and so superficial without true facts, that it borders on insulting. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/09 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Manhood and Child Support.I want to know what happened in your case that has you so bitter? Do you have a child you don't see but pay support? Just curious. As a side note, I am not saying the court system is not tilted. Men need to continue to fight for custody and equality. Take away money and custody issues and divorce is a cakewalk. I will respectfully disagree with the shame being the primary issue. Custody rights dictate much of the support. No need to play the woe is me shame act and poor man as the victim. Stand … | /r/MensRights | 17/09/09 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Manhood and Child Support.I think you have the argument twisted. If we continue to scream about paying child support we are missing the major issue. The fight needs to be to make sure men get at least 50/50 custody. If a dad does not have this, that needs to be addressed. That is the big fight. Fathers deserve every bit of time with their kids that mothers do. Courts need to make sure this is the norm. This also adjusts the support orders. Demeaning men who are trying to do the right thing is not going to move this discu… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/09 11:21 AM |
| 7 | Girls' night out at a MLB park. Free shirts to first 10,000 ladies. Am I being nitpicky here or is this pretty blatant gender discrimination from a private business?Very nitpicky. Relax. Guess businessman special is a problem also. Or I went to a Sixers game and kids under 14 got a free shirt. The nerve of giving only to kids........... | /r/MensRights | 16/09/09 10:28 PM |
| 1 | UK fathers to be given 6 months paternity leavewow. Isn't this a breath of fresh air. Fathers as equal parents. You mean they are actually able to share in the joy of their newborn. Shocking! Congrats to UK! I thought they only became more important when child support was being determined. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/09 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Time For John Edwards To Be Single DadHigh profile people like John Edwards needs to to the right thing. Otherwise he just gives a poster child for those who oppose mens rights custody issues. MOST dads do the right thing. One guy like John Edwards can overshadow stories about the good men. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/09 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Feminist: "Men are worthless animals"Ummm, Let's see, this ex boyfriend of a friend is without a doubt the scum of the earth. The fact that some relationships went bad = all men are also in the same class. Very warm and fuzzy. Just can't see why we can't all seem to get along :) | /r/MensRights | 12/09/09 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any interest in a Single Parent reddit?Great. Nice to see a dads with custody. I have had full custody of my three kids since 2000. Look forward to hearing from you. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/09 12:34 PM |
| 4 | MetroDad: Twenty of My Favorite Things About Being a FatherSeeing Ex girlfriend line - priceless | /r/MensRights | 12/09/09 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Putting Your Children’s Best Interests FirstI appreciate your comment. I actually thought it was refreshing to see an article stressing the facts to have both parents equally involved. As a full time father of 3, it seemed to be great advice to all and thought the room would embrace an author willing to treat single moms and single dads on a level playing field. It did not come across as anti-dad to me at all. The point is not about anti men or anti women - it is about what is best for your kids. That is the point. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/09 04:02 PM |
| 2 | What did you do for men's rights this week?I am a constant crusader and support for single dad rights and causes on my website. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/09 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Putting Your Children’s Best Interests FirstThe key statement in this article is "they are "Not “my children, not your children”- they still have 2 parents, you need to reframe your thinking into these children being our children." Exactly! Which leads me to 50/50 custody of the kids should ALWAYS be the starting point. Dads should be on equal footing from the outset. That is what is best for the kids. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/09 02:59 PM |
| 0 | You ever hear a lecture about the use of female anatomy as negs, like "cunt" and "pussy", yet nobody mentions the prevalence of "prick" and "dick"?I an sure I will look like an old fashion guy. Sorry. I have never said the "c" word. Ever. I am not saying I disagree with your topic. But when I hear someone use it, I have an immediate downgrade of class in my mind. I am sure I will get hammered for saying this, but just the way I was raised and teach my kids the same way. I understand the heat behind the word, but I choose to find other ways to explain. I have heard the prick and dick used to describe both men and women. Just doesn't seem to… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/09 01:50 PM |
| 1 | 25 Lessons For My DaughterSo true. I constantly remind my kids to be very careful not only what pictures they put on their facebook, but what situations they are in when OTHERS take pictures of them. Employers today are searching facebook and myspace pages for inappropriate information. I am not naive. Kids in college do what kids in college do. With todays instant technology, need to be so very careful. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/09 12:33 PM |
| 2 | I was going to play Co-Ed Recreational Basketball until I read the rules [PDF - read middle of page 2]OK, let's be real here. we can all agree that men on average are physically stronger than women. Here is what I don't agree with. All shots should count the same. You hit a three point shot it is 3 points. Just like in a regular game. Not allowing guys to back down girls into the lane and shoot, I am ok with that. That would go on all day. Not blocking shots, Ok with that too. This could also go on all day. I have coached and have had kids in both boys and girls sports. This is a CO_ED league. I… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/09 03:00 AM |
| 19 | Why I was banned from /r/womenbanning unless crude and vulgar is a sign of weakness. Of course, I am still trying to figure out what I did wrong that my posts are no longer showing up in here and being removed in seconds. Tough to be involved when you don't know who is being the headmaster to discuss or find out what I did wrong. Still learning I guess. This is room is a great resource. I hope discussions continue to flow freely and opposing views are encouraged. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/09 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Don't counter-sue me! I'll let you go if you say you were wrong. Please don't do it Big Ben.Isn't it interesting how Ben's name is all over the article, and ironically the accusers name is nowhere to be found. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/09 07:39 PM |
| 6 | The Roethlisberger case is about men's rights; too bad most men don't realize itI must be living in a cave because I didn't know about this case. I better get out more! How about this for a change, NO names are revealed until the case is heard and tried in the courts. Let the investigations proceed. It just amazes me how fast these guys are guilty just because they are accused. If they are guilty, send them to jail. Sad part is, if they are innocent, they are sentenced to an '*' forever next to their name. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/09 02:53 PM |
| 4 | The Glass Ceiling or what do women want?One place women earn more than men, by a large margin -- Child support | /r/MensRights | 09/09/09 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Duke University Trying to Create False Rape ClaimsThis article is so disturbing I don't even have a proper response. No right to confront one's accuser, No right to an attorney, this is the USA isn't it? Verbal or non verbal consent- HUH? Amazing, just amazing. For a University that is suppose to have some of the brightest minds, Duke seems to not have ability to learn from past mistakes. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/09 05:15 PM |
| 9 | Recanted rape claim treated as false alarm, as if no crime had been committedIt would be a difficult position for anyone to argue, that a false accusation of rape is "Ok". The bottom line, is once someone is accused, they are forever labeled and questioned. He may not be physically raped, but emotionally he is scared forever. No tolerance should be the rule. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/09 05:03 PM |
| 10 | Recanted rape claim treated as false alarm, as if no crime had been committedLiving near to Lehigh University I heard about this. Your take on it is right on target. If someone cries rape, reports it to the police, then recants, it should be reported as a crime in the media like any person accused of rape. The reporting of this crime is so one sided. Thanks for being a voice. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/09 02:27 PM |
| 1 | 'Women don't lie about rape': Men accused of rape are automatically 'guilty by reason of penis'Wow, just read the article on your site. As a father of a 19 teenage son it is so important to drill into them to be responsible and do not get yourself into situations that may be misinterpreted. Unfortunately, alcohol often trumps reason. Sometimes we need to just keep our fingers crosses. Your site is a great service. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/09 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Following a divorce, if shared parenting is impossible, the children are likely to do better when the primary parent is dad."to the child, one-parent stability is also one-parent abandonment. " This is a great statement. Regardless of who has custody this is valid. 50/50 should be the norm, period. Unless unusual circumstances. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/09 12:00 PM |
| 2 | U.S. Jobless Rate for Men Far Worse Than Women’s.Not too surprising since the industries such as construction, and labor intensive jobs are the hardest hit. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/09 11:41 AM |
| 8 | Feminism is NOT about ending all inequalities....So much great data backing up your story. The custody issue is a stickler. I try to stay out of the single mom vs single dad bashing. The one issue I constantly read is how single dads are not involved and not paying support. But, when single dads fight for custody, it seems to always end up in a battle. Kids too often become pawns in the divorce process. Bottom line, 50/50 custody should be the norm and starting point, period! Unless some unusual circumstance. Support issues will be less of an … | /r/MensRights | 08/09/09 12:28 AM |
| 1 | 25 Lessons For My DaughterI agree with you RM. I think the point is being missed. Yes, I also agree with others that this might be a bit generational on some of the advice. Regardless if someone thinks it is to old and conservative, things you put on yourself or pictured online, may come back to haunt you. I'm not saying this is right or wrong, just the facts as they stand. Like it or not, first impressions matter. Still think it is just a comical view from a dad. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/09 12:09 AM |
| 5 | 25 Lessons For My DaughterHmmm, I didn't take it that way. I thought it had some humor in it and some good stuff. Certainly not a doctrine, just light hearted. With two daughters (17 &21), I enjoyed it. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/09 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Unique problems of boys unrecognized, untreated: StudyInteresting study. Keeping kids interested in learning and reading, is vitally important. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/09 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Women more attracted to men in expensive carsYup. This is true. Even if we would prefer not to believe this. I just read a study and article on women prefer men in a better financial standing. More women today earn good incomes on their own but still like a guy who is a good provider of lifestyle.Not all, of course, but percentages tip in that direction. After all, you just have to look at Donald Trump. Stud? hardly. Money and the power it brings? Off the charts. Beautiful woman always on his arm? You Bet. He even admits to this in one of … | /r/MensRights | 05/09/09 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Nurturing: No difference between mom and dadFinally a report that shows what most single dads already knew and felt. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/09 02:20 PM |
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