Do You Keep Secrets From Your Spouse?

2010-06-10T16:04:21+00:00

Nice try, wife.

coochiesmoocher · 2010-06-10T18:12:57+00:00

2010-06-10T19:31:05+00:00

Like I'm actually going to tell my wife that I've fantasized about walking in on her eating out her cute younger sister? I'm not that stupid.

Dax420 · 2010-06-10T17:33:35+00:00

No. I've been known to round down the price of a new toy now and again, but I don't keep "secrets".

tastytang · 2010-06-10T14:32:29+00:00

I would like to say no, but I am pretty sure she'd be upset if she knew that sometimes while I am __________ her, I am thinking about one of her friends.

2010-06-10T20:08:15+00:00

Not married - but if you need to lie in any capacity to your partner, then its not a healthy relationship.

I used to lie when I was younger, I used to kinda exagerate my accomplishments and fudge over my flaws, I used to fuck other women behind their backs - I enjoyed the "danger" and "excitement" of juggling a couple women around so neither found out. I was incredibly unhappy and always nervous, I always worried that one would find out - that I'd let something slip. Thats no way to be.

Now? I'm honest, even when it hurts, even when it means the "end" - I don't cheat anymore, I break off relationships if I feel I need to fuck other women, because its the decent thing to do. I've been with my current GF for a while now, and she seems like "the one" and it wouldn't have been possible if I'd been a lying little sneak like I used to be.

audj · 2010-06-10T17:27:20+00:00

I don't keep secrets from my husband. What's the point in giving yourself to someone completely if you can't tell them anything?

tostrinj · 2010-06-10T21:25:56+00:00

Not really, my wife is pretty cool. There are some things that she does not know about some of my past exploits, but if she ever asks, I will tell her.

mandano · 2010-06-11T00:29:25+00:00

discretion is a virtue.

knowing when how discreet is too discreet is also a virtue lol

AnnArchist · 2010-06-16T02:38:38+00:00

I won't tell women how many women I've slept with. Ever.

Title	Do You Keep Secrets From Your Spouse?
Author	barryk
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	June 10, 2010 1:51 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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