Ok is this guy tortured or normal... you decide - Haunted by ExSex

StillAnAss · 2010-03-03T17:52:45+00:00

Sounds pretty normal to me. That's my life in a nutshell.

antihostile · 2010-03-03T19:32:55+00:00

Normal.

WildYams · 2010-03-04T02:25:51+00:00

I don't know if he's normal or tortured (both, maybe?), but his efforts are futile. We all are who we are, and we don't change into someone else just cause another person wants us to. Not permanently anyway. No matter how good the sex is, you can't be having it round the clock every day, and eventually he's gonna get annoyed by just pretending to be who she wishes he was.

Instead of trying to get back into a relationship with her, he should see if she'd be up for just having a sexual-only pseudo friendship with her. I'm sure I'm not the only guy to segue from a relationship with a girl into it being a friends with benefits situation. If the sex was good for him, then it was probably good for her too, and she might be interested in continuing that aspect for a while in the face of just being celibate.

BitterDivorcedDad · 2010-03-03T20:11:37+00:00

Tortured. Great sex can be had for a price, but the flip side? Hard to get that.

BinaryShadow · 2010-03-04T04:22:39+00:00

Great sex is only part of a relationship. It looks like he's missing the other parts. Just take the great memories and move on. Don't ever compromise all of your interests and cares for vagina.

Title	Ok is this guy tortured or normal... you decide - Haunted by ExSex
Author	barryk
Upvotes	9
Comments	5
Date	March 3, 2010 3:27 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/b8qok/ok_is_this_guy_tortured_or_normal_you_decide/
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