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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | *internal screaming, forever*lmao I would fund a Life Education Van tour for the LVM of Australia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:17 AM |
| 1 | *internal screaming, forever*It's horrific to think that my lovely little cat has a much better dental hygiene routine than old mate here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:22 AM |
| 27 | Saw this on IG, thought it belonged hereI spend my days around boys from the ages of 13-17 and they would get SO WAILED ON by other boys if they said that shit aloud. Some of the more popular boys in my 11th grade classes have extremely abusive dads and back their mums to the hilt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:42 PM |
| 122 | I knew this guy in high school so I accepted his friend request. Saw this one day.Man the right proper shredding in that response is positively erotic... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:11 AM |
| 184 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.How often will some LVM go months without replenishing the handsoap in their bathroom? How long will LVM ignore symptoms of serious illness before finally seeing a doctor? How long will they just leave that broken piece of furniture in the corner? What makes you think he won't just stick with you because he's complacent, lazy, knows something is wrong, but would rather blame the system than address his numerous individual flaws? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 69 | Another broke man afraid of "golddiggers!""VaLeNtInEs DaY iS cOmMeRcIaL bS, YoU dOn'T nEeD OnE DaY tO pRoVe YoU rEaLlY lOvE sOmEoNe". Effort made on those 364 other days: 0. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:45 PM |
| 12 | "Hi" is not sufficientWhat a luxurious assortment of chins you can choose from! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Another gem from the "talk to the women wearing headphones" guy telling men how to wheedle you down into taking him back by staying in your face to "re-spark feelings" that you lost for him bc he kept treating you like shit.Aussie slang has so many great euphemisms. It's usual for a bloke with a rude lid to have an "ordinary rig" as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:34 PM |
| 17 | Another gem from the "talk to the women wearing headphones" guy telling men how to wheedle you down into taking him back by staying in your face to "re-spark feelings" that you lost for him bc he kept treating you like shit.It’s so infuriating to see the woman’s beautiful hair against his grotty, poorly groomed head. He’s got, in Aussie slang, “a rude lid”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:26 AM |
| 9 | We have an epidemic of high male self-esteem, and it's time to do something about it.I always laugh when I hear that stat about "women think 80% of men are below average" and it's like, um, YES, have you even looked at yourself? He wasn't rich, he wasn't well-dressed, he didn't signal having good social acceptance. Why would I place my life and freedom at risk for some dude who I'd need to change and help get into the shower in ten years? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:07 PM |
| 12 | We have an epidemic of high male self-esteem, and it's time to do something about it.I sometimes ask if they're lying about their age and they get FROTHY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 19 | We have an epidemic of high male self-esteem, and it's time to do something about it.I normally don't - but someone who had to go out of their way to send me a message after being declined a match gets a special treat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:03 PM |
| 6 | My friend recently got back into the dating game and just sent me these screenshots of a man asking for all the benefits of a girlfriend but to only hang-out as "friends." The nerve.Dudes on dating sites looking for friendship are the biggest losers. As soon as they pull that line, they're gone. Imagine being so bereft of human company due to your own real life disinterest in others and shit personality that you think someone on a dating site wants friendship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:11 PM |
| 240 | Hollywood big shot started an acting school. Married one of his students when she was 16 and he 51.Courtney's mother was the LVW to end all LVW. Absolute trash human being who sold her teenage daughter out. Just filth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:31 AM |
| 20 | He doesn’t necessarily prefer that you “don’t wear makeup”: he’d just hate that you might expect anything from him.I have a few: today it’s a Chloe one, but I also love my Strathberry East West and Mansur Gavriel tote. It’s as many as I need: I hope tomorrow need any other bag for a very long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 10 | He doesn’t necessarily prefer that you “don’t wear makeup”: he’d just hate that you might expect anything from him.Being on your own is the level up, in its own way. I hope it's peaceful and nurturing for you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:29 PM |
| 12 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.Absolutely 100%. Let them keep talking. Find out what you can, and stay a mystery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:02 AM |
| 92 | Thank you, next.And some shitty friendship. No farmer's markets, no fun gallery trips, no coastal adventures, no cooking classes. I'm sorry, but I'm too good for even friends to expect me to watch them play video games and eat greasy fast food. Friendship? They wouldn't have the first idea. To them, friendship is about the "feelings" they get from the person - not the care and attention and support for wellbeing that friends give and accept. No wonder a lot of male friendships don't last: they're predicated on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 230 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.There is literally nothing you can say to convince them. "Wow, that's so interesting" and deleting his number in front of him before you leave the restaurant is truly the most liberating feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:02 PM |
| 13 | Bought myself flowers because why not 😂 love me some saturday blooms and a good candleKeeping it Aussie too, sis. Natives are the most beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:22 AM |
| 12 | In a LTR that did not begin with FDS standards, how can rising queens overtly or covertly remind their boyfriends that they are not married and that he is taking her for granted? BF is overly secure in 3 year relationship but I feel like a burned out housewife with promises of a future but no ringWhat the shit has he been doing for the last three years in terms of savings? What is he doing with his money?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:33 AM |
| 9 | Society Makes Impossible Demands On Men Too, explains Douglas Murray. However this "impossible" demand is that men don't sexualize and rape women.Dusty old Douglas really needs a skincare regime. That man is wearing CORPSE SKIN on his fuckin' face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:21 PM |
| 57 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.Why are they all so s w e a t y | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:34 PM |
| 116 | This is the kind of guy that would say "wOmEn aRe ToO pIcKy" despite listing TWENTY-NINE extremely specific things he wants in a woman...Loyalty over morality. The fuck is this dusty dude, a wannabe mob boss? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:19 PM |
| 8 | Was an inexperienced pickme, can I salvage the relationship?OP needs to ask herself if these traits are good for just him, or they're traits designed to help and improve her life also. Because boyfriend sounds like a parasite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 32 | That's all she wroteI don't even give that much closure. "Oh?" Or "all the best." Or just nothing before the block. ("All the best" is obviously a massive lie: I want them to live a life plagued with minor inconvenience.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 133 | My ex let me think I was having auditory hallucinationsThat's a ghostin'. A "disappear from his house with all your possessions overnight". Then, when he calls you, you assert clearly that you have never met him, and he must have dreamed of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 12 | Of course LVM don’t want to seek help — they’ve been brought up thinking that they’re great!Oh yeah. Counselling is for weak girly men - like washing your own ass or sleeping in a bed with clean sheets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:28 AM |
| 221 | Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!!Whenever I hear old dudes spout of like this, I like to just look at them really puzzled. "You?! You think she needs to be prettier?" I just keep looking at them critically until they feel uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:29 AM |
| 44 | "Why I'm Giving Up Dating Men and Just Staying Home" A bit old but still relevantI treat looking for a partner the same way I am looking for a couch: I am looking for the perfect fit. It doesn't need to be the biggest, fanciest, most expensive couch, but I am looking for one that's well-proportioned to my living room, which is upholstered nicely, which is perfectly comfortable, and which sits me and my loved ones when we hang out. I don't want one that's just fine - one which is bulky, or hard to clean, or hard to style around, or which feels a little stiff after a few hours… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:35 AM |
| 20 | Of course LVM don’t want to seek help — they’ve been brought up thinking that they’re great!Thank you so much! Trust me: I am the high priestess of former pickmes - I have a lot more discussion to add. I have loved FDS ever since following it from the beginning - I've only really had the opportunity to post and contribute of late! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 03:58 AM |
| 37 | Of course LVM don’t want to seek help — they’ve been brought up thinking that they’re great!Lundy really is the GOAT, right? If we actually valued emotional labour and caregiving more, women would be much more reluctant to act as unpaid therapists and to start insisting that other people sort their shit out far earlier in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 03:22 AM |
| 64 | Mind you I am just his friend. Not sure why there would be friction? Idk kinda feels awkward.Let him stew in his totally self-created awkwardness. Leave on read - forever. Regardless of what he types back, he gets nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 03:15 AM |
| 22 | Girl Didn't Want To Have Sex With Me On First Date..Keep in mind I'm still a virgin lol I went through a lot and I'm just now starting to take control and live life! Did he, though? Or is he confusing "antisocial behaviour and the consequences thereof" with "trauma"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Love is so much more than feelings. Watch his actions.But they have strong feelings. Based on their childhood experiences - they feel strong things for the people they love without having to provide anything in return. Mature adults of any sex are able to show love through action and contribution; the deficient and malformed just want to replicate the soothing emotions and cocooning of childhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:37 AM |
| 43 | I'm a firm believer that men catch feelings faster than women do. Unfortunately those feelings are jealousy, controlling, and inequalities in the relationship. They seem to prefer "tricking you" into dick, or somehow giving you unsolicited D, but if you want it on your terms they get all madAll these jail holding cells full of men who logicked their way into them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:36 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of men with self-deprecating humour?The myth of the "bad boy" is one of aesthetic, and a classist one at that. Of course their mythical "bad boy" is tattooed, or unemployed, or has a history of imprisonment, or poor relationships with caregivers - not like My Nigel who is well-brought-up because... um, his parents stayed together and he can use a word with three syllables at times? (Not correctly, mind you.) It's a self-soothing narrative of sadbois who cling to something - anything - to justify why they are alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:35 AM |
| 8 | My dad leaving my beautiful mom WHOS A LITERAL ANGEL VERY SENSITIVE, INTELLIGENT, AND CARING(and who he abused) for and literal narcissistic bimbo with giant fake tits, 50IQ pickmesha(she's prudshaming me or being virgin and saying that porn is toxic) IS THE BIGEST PINKPILL OF MY LIFEI'm sure he won't regret this later in life when he needs a carer, the new misso has shot through, and his kids are new phone who dis-sing his calls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | LVMs confuse trauma with the consequences of their actions. Reserve your sympathy for the deserving.When I think back to watching exes that cry, it's never been over something genuinely upsetting or traumatic or really bad news; it's been when they haven't got their way. And it has always been that fake, performative, embarrassing "boo-hoo" stage crying. I've been around enough men to tell when it's genuine and it's not a point against male emotional vulnerability; I do think however, that we should be aware of the performativity of their vulnerability inasmuch as it is an effective strategy t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 07:32 PM |
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