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21

I’m sorry- my bad then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 07:13 PM
101

Respectfully, I have to push back on “whoops babies.” No such thing as a whoops baby, if you cum in a women she will likely get pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 06:40 PM
7

Juuuuuuussssst playing Devil’s Advocate…..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:00 AM
94

Yup. Had one DM with a “warning” that I was in an echo chamber and needed to seek other perspectives. I’m sure that intentions were pure and he definitely wasn’t trying to manipulate me…..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:56 PM
17

New fear unlocked. I knew anal was dangerous but whaaaaa?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 12:30 AM
120

I don’t get why he’s mad. She just wants things 50/50! Just like he likes :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:15 PM
1

Like Bad Moms style mushy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 01:46 PM
27

The people that don’t have social media are usually taken. In this day and age? They have something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:10 PM
83

Be prepared for pushback. People will give you shit. People hate women with boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:33 PM
169

Hobbling by mile 30 lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:42 PM
27

Or they think that you’re ripe for manipulation since you’re “crazy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:04 PM
265

Most kinks need to be shamed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:41 PM
27

Hate that response. I’d rather people just tell me to stop talking than to patronize me….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:05 PM
27

I don’t get why good old PIV and BJs aren’t enough anymore. Those things have been staples for a while for a reason. It’s not good enough for these men anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:23 AM
146

They don’t want a girl who wants hookups. That’s too egalitarian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:41 AM
24

Would you share a lawyer with your enemy? Because that’s not your spouse anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:42 AM
77

Made fun for liking pleasure? What? Are you supposed to have painful sex and not like orgasms and being pleasured?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:47 AM
16

It’s a kink as a cop out makes me batty. Yes it’s a kink. It doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be shamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 12:46 AM
33

Divorced women no longer believe that marriage is forever and have higher standards. They usually also aren’t desperate to remarry. They don’t stroke egos as much to get a ring. Men hate that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:18 AM
23

I call them out and ask why the turned it sexual. Ask when I gave the impression that I wanted to discuss that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:07 PM
44

You had me in the first half lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:58 PM
171

That person needs to NOT be a special needs educator if they feel that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:53 PM
9

Married on paper= married. Period. End of story. He can call back when he’s divorced and can show you a decree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:03 PM
82

A wedding is a once in a lifetime thing! Do the day you want. That said…the wedding industry definitely over charges. As far as the ring- cheaping out on one just means you’ll be replacing it faster. That’s a daily wear ring, it’s gotta be hardy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:35 PM
28

All they ever brag about is how “great” the bouncers are. Is that not true?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:41 PM
17

I read this post, she’s way too giving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:56 PM
84

I feel so blue balled. They’ve been threatening the sex robots for so many years 😭 where are they???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:33 AM
7

Amen sis! Even one sided friendships hurt 😢and it’s not talked about enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:42 PM
112

Or post on Dead Bedrooms that she’s a prude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:46 PM
61

Girl same :( it makes me sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:45 PM
208

So much this! They will use and abuse women who are sexually adventurous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:25 PM
25

This dynamic is so hard to break! Congrats to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:35 PM
46

Being aware of what the world is isn’t jaded at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:19 PM
61

Yeah it was billed as hot and I watched it and it was a male fantasy all the way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:24 PM
66

See this makes me sad. She will never have another first wedding or first proposal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:58 PM
52

I feel sorry for her. Weddings and engagement aren’t supposed to be this stressful. He’s such a douche for ruining a milestone for her. He knows how much people value weddings and he’s purposely making it stressful and not fun…..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:56 PM
12

lol Not if you don’t have a strong stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:30 PM
64

You weren’t the loser, the liar was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:05 PM
243

People forget that normal healthy relationships don’t involve doubting people or questioning if what we’re hearing is authentic and true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:02 PM
87

I am glad you don’t blame yourself. I’m sorry you’ve had to adjust to a mean world. It’s not fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:47 PM
7

I hate this. It isn’t normal to have to analyze someone words for lies and bad intentions. No one from a stable home will know to do that. It’s not their fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:15 PM
28

Communication is very rarely in good faith IME…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:18 PM
4

They can’t stick their dick in a smorgasbord of pussy. Poor things /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:27 PM
25

You’re right it’s situational. I mainly said three to allow some reasonable leeway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:57 AM
73

This. They want you to mommy them. ETA: I’m not saying you should. Just how they want it to go down. Definitely don’t mommy them, it’s not gonna end up well. Just dump them or don’t bother doing it. They’re adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:26 AM
18

The infamous One Penis Policy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:32 PM
174

If we had half the fake confidence these men had, we would rule the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:35 PM
49

They really think they’re doing something when they say that you’re on FDS. Like yes? What of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:51 PM
16

This this this!!!!! My ex fiancé expected me to go to every family function but skipped out of my family birthday dinner because “he promised his friend Fred he’d go to the casino with him.” I tried to miss his niece’s birthday party for a family friends wedding and he flipped the fuck out about me hating his family. Double standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:46 PM
16

Man I wish women had half the unearned confidence these creeps do. We’d get so much done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 10:40 AM
1

Same! I’m happy to do it if I get something out of it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:33 PM
94

He really paid money to spite his ex lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:45 PM
121

How low is this woman’s self esteem? I feel terrible for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:34 PM
3

This! You don’t need a good reason. You’re not Mother Theresa here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:18 PM
1

This money is also very fleeting and you never gain your reputation back. Men won’t date you and women will judge. OF is a career most women don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:39 PM
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If you didn’t have her sign a contract in her own blood after she makes a blood sacrifice, did she really consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:54 PM
1

Not listening to what he’s told during the act
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:49 PM
14

0 to 100 in 3.5. He’s faster than any car in jumping to the most extreme conclusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:57 PM
16

The way that she treated August was disgusting . Don’t throw him under the bus now that you’re caught. But it makes sense for a kiddy diddler. She also open relationshipped with a 16 year old boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:20 AM
75

I did this one time and he threw it in my face later. NOPE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:58 PM
165

Most “tasteful nudes” are of women. 🙃 what a coincidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:59 PM
78

I never liked the whole concept of boudoir photography anyway. Something creeped me out about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:58 PM
70

Rigged game :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:15 PM
132

This lesson hurt to learn. Went from good treatment to bad in a minute :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:48 PM
1490

Stop paragraphing. They know. Saved me so much effort trying to “communicate”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:31 PM
55

Tell any MRA that and they’ll scream about how going into debt should not be necessary. K but a good parent would move mountains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:39 PM
276

Today in what object are women- we have Pokémon, gotta catch em all!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:59 PM
15

Scrotes will still insist she was the abusive one and pushed him to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:25 AM
3

the tiktok Read the top comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:33 PM
30

She apparently JUST got a non porn job almost 20 years later. That’s crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:01 PM
6

Alison Rey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:56 PM
13

No dicks but all the pussy she (doesn’t really) want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:09 PM
16

The man who told me this, told me this after he swore at me and I immediately told him to cut it out. He wanted to be ugly to me and not be rebuked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:38 PM
13

Swinging is just sanctioned cheating IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:43 PM
76

No that actually used to be considered a pretty serious kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:25 PM
33

My mom yelled at me one time because I didn’t immediately go into the kitchen with the rest of the women to help the hostess before the food had even been served. My brother and father who plopped on a couch to watch soccer? Not a word to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:58 PM
19

I stopped going to dinner parties because of this phenomenon. It killed the fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:35 PM
12

Guarantee the scrote is gonna dump her. This isn’t a date he’d propose to a woman he was actually into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:33 PM
8

Even if she did get what she wanted, the ultimatum would taint the engagement. Who would feel good about an ultimatum ring?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:47 PM
21

Hey friend, you’re not alone. I used to be very high L before I heard how men talked about women who enjoyed sex. Like we were easy trash to abuse. I didn’t want to be that. My sex drive at this point is nil and all sex is associated with degradation. I’m trying to work on it but I know for sure that I won’t be going back to the free spirited, free of any hang ups woman I used to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:44 PM
25

Sex positive has become about more exploitation of women vs the original intent. Kind of sad, the original message was so good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:06 AM
46

My drive died when I realized that my high libido meant that I ran the risk of men seeing me as a slut if I enjoyed sex. A few too many comments online about so called s*uts…they punish us for having high libidos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 09:54 AM
1

Feelings of resentment can be so hard to overcome. I can get why this happens. I don’t agree with it and definitely try not to hold onto grudges in my personal life, but I can see why someone would feel like they can’t get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:07 PM
5

Good in moderation. Don’t become so obsessed that any sign of aging is the end of the world- see r/skincareaddiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:40 PM
7

No, even female sex workers are ostracised.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:59 PM
6

Because sex work will never be OK. This whole push won’t change how sex work is seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:56 PM
22

Don’t be embarrassed of your big loving heart! It’s an asset to those who deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:24 AM
151

The cat will also cuddle you on demand if you’re nice to it. Men won’t do that. They always be poking with their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:22 PM
5

Who the hell can remember a safe word when being fake ra*ed? Has no one thought this through?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:17 PM
21

This is facts. Struggle love isn’t love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:15 PM
6

The problem is that people only do couples therapy after the relationship is irretrievably broken then blame the therapy for not working. You have to want it and you have to realize therapy isn’t a quick fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:58 AM
2

Truth. It’s really annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:45 AM
3

It’s harsh but it’s true. Life must go on at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:20 PM
5

And at some point you have to get over it. Childhood issues are only valid for a certain amount of time as an adult...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:06 PM
10

And that sucks but at some point you gotta move on and work through your issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:44 PM
11

It really isn’t. A lot of the incels are cute and just can’t see it. It’s almost body dysmorphia. They’re totally mentalcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:35 PM
2

These things have a way of leaking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:23 PM
1

100%. However they should only accept if they’re willing to wear the stigma of being a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:26 PM
2

Commodifying sex ruins the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:25 PM
2

I Care A Lot is a similar one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:56 PM
1

100% this. I don’t believe they’re delusional enough to think Tiffany (place holder name) loves them for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:59 PM
2

I loved that movie. I’d never do what she did but one hell of a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 12:54 PM
7

They mean they want you to hop on their cock effort free. Any response other then that will get you ire as not being real empathy or sympathy or whatever dumb shit they’re on today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:38 PM
0

Yes he did marry Amber Heard likely because she pressured him. Johnny wasn’t a marriage kind of guy. This experience probably just reinforced that. As far as leaving Vanessa, we don’t know what was going on in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:56 PM
3

Because most never had it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:10 PM
2

Online Dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 01:44 PM
7

There’s this weird argument that goes on that men are controlled by pussy. It makes them seem super weak but whenever anyone points this out- they start reeeing about how men’s sex drive is different. The thing is- everyone has a sex drive. Not everyone can be manipulated with sex though. That’s more like sex addiction. I think a lot of manospherians love to just blame women. They know it’s their life and their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:48 PM
1

Men who complain about this are usually late bloomers who can’t let go of the fact that they missed the crazy college hookup days and want to recreate it. However much like that 30 something on spring break hitting on all the young girls who looks weird- that time cannot be recreated. It’s best to mourn the loss and move on. However they don’t mourn the loss and move on. They sit and stew in the bitterness. So they come after women who are age appropriately dating. It’s perfectly normally to wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:39 PM
9

Men don’t respect you if you chase or beg them. Most will not take you seriously after you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:10 AM
15

Because I don’t beg or chase. Once you do it, the man never respects you the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:00 AM
5

Dead on. Get a life basically. Lives are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:14 PM
9

LPN is a fancy ass wiper. RN administers meds and treatments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:22 PM
8

Compared to RN? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:10 PM
32

They’re the girls getting pumped and dumped. They’re probably a 4x4 and their kids have had multiple stepdads. They’ll tell you that they don’t want marriage because they don’t need a piece of paper. In reality, no one will wed them. Probably get evicted a lot. Probably work in retail or as a hairstylist maybe an LPN.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:45 PM
1

OK care to enlighten me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:31 PM
1

What’s elite levels vs normal women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:16 PM
2

It turns fun into a job. It’s not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:15 PM
2

Wow that’s a super cool job. Bet you learned a lot. Would you say that the wall wasn’t really a factor there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:55 PM
1

They’d learn real quick if you get my drift LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:54 PM
2

Thank you so much! The level of detail in your reply is awesome. Thanks for taking time out of your day to do this! If you don’t mind me asking- what are some signs of a naive/unprepared sugar baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:53 PM
7

That’s true. Weirdos come in all flavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:58 PM
24

It totally does though. Some real silver Fox lovers exist but it’s usually a young girl who wants sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:06 PM
1

Your paragraph about being fun is so true. Nothing worse than a boring date with a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:04 PM
11

They’ll all spend their days weeping and gnashing their teeth as they mourn that they can’t be some man’s bangmaid. They’ll cry as they realize that that guy who stared at her across the bar a year ago was the one and she didn’t get his telepathic message to approach because he’s too much of a pussy to do it. That’s what you wanna hear right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:31 AM
4

It’s never the well adjusted guys saying this either. Says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:07 PM
10

Spot on. This is every sex posi pick me ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:14 PM
4

The boxer type- khabib or muradov come to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 05:47 AM
10

I wish living separately but together was more acceptable. I’m too particular to share- and my last few cohabitations were...a project. But people seem to take it personal when you say you don’t want to live with them. At this point, my parents live with me too which makes it tougher. Most people don’t want to live with the in laws but I will never throw my parents out of the guest house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:15 PM
1

After the divorce they’ll get famous for writing articles about how they should’ve done the dishes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:12 PM
1

“I have no idea why she won’t fuck me” -same man weeks later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:08 PM
9

Power only- everything is irrelevant. Sex and harems is about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:53 PM
1

Yes, this is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:04 AM
17

It just means not to waste your time and energy. Life is too short to have bad sex, relationships or food.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:56 PM
4

Sorry about your sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:07 PM
2

I’m not. I have friends offline ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:54 PM
3

100% and any dude whose fucked anyone knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:45 PM
2

I’m not a virgin. I didn’t think I’d have to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:45 PM
1

Real life experience. So many on Reddit whining about it and it hasn’t panned out in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:29 PM
5

This this this. MRP exists but it’s an offshoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:18 PM
4

After the age of 18, money 100% matters. When mama and papa stop funding you, every penny matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:16 PM
11

That sex sucks for women because most don’t get off. It’s a personal thing and if you’re not advocating for yourself in the bedroom, it’s kind of your fault. Most men want to please- just tell them if something isn’t working for you. Penetration feels good for 90% of women most even get off during it. Sorry your partner is junk. Maybe sleep around more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:15 PM
3

Tom just wasn’t the one. The other guy was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:25 PM
2

It’s not Alpha to worry so much. Just do what feels right- don’t worry you will know if it’s the wrong move. Pick yourself up and learn from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:33 PM
1

It took me a moment to get this comment LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:17 PM
3

Why would anyone share this info on PPD? Do you want to have that info be used against you until the end of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:34 PM
1

This is classic Red Pill stuff, they’ve been saying this for forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:31 PM
6

Before 25, waiting is OK. After its 50/50 sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:38 PM
7

If he wanted to, he would! That’s an excellent example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:37 PM
6

After 25 it is a red flag if you’re not married by year 4. You either have a dawdler or you’re his placeholder GF. Women who want marriage should bail ASAP after 4 if they truly want a family. Waiting never ends well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:36 PM
1

Nah it can be a lady thing too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:12 PM
3

Life experience > verbal advice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:12 PM
2

I like the shitpost LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:11 PM
12

And you believed him?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:47 PM
9

Good. You’re not cut out for it. You’re the classic over invested single AP who should be avoided with a 10 foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:42 PM
4

Opposite for me- mama was the romantic one who wanted me to give chances and papa was the one who wanted me to marry rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:06 PM
2

My mama was the more romantic one ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:56 PM
4

All my papa did was tell me not to date poor men and never to pay on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:43 PM
4

I suppose I am overestimating the social acumen of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:42 PM
13

You need to stop talking about your affair online. This is such bad OPSEC and I’m sure folks over at r/adultery have told you. Your MM is a cake eater. No pseudoscience involved. He’s just a cake eater. Otherwise than these two things- you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:36 PM
2

I agree. Most marriages end up this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:29 PM
10

..this has been going on forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:28 PM
5

Accurate. Desperate people will find a way to get rid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:25 PM
4

Why are you expecting mam to even do that for you? My father certainly didn’t sit me down and give me a course on dating. Hell I didn’t even get a sex talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:03 PM
1

Yes I fuck 25 chads a day and abort their babies after.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:24 PM
37

Looks get you in the door but personality keeps you in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 03:13 PM
6

Yes, 100%. Fucked some real dumb Daryls for the D, why are dumb Daryls so amazing in the sack? Anyway I went from thinking me and DD had a future to Oh NVM maybe just FWB. We didn’t end up anything but Fuck Buddies and that was by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:32 PM
1

Just vet them and don’t take things too personal/serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:18 PM
1

I’m given to be too positive so grain of salt bit I don’t think so. There’s no harm in at least trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:10 PM
2

I want to find an LTR who is also a fence sitter about kids and keep kicking ass in my career. There isn’t many fence sitters. I’m aware that my time for pregnancy is closing fast but I don’t know that I want to be pregnant. Sometimes I think it would be nice to have a child but I don’t want to be pregnant. It is nice not to feel pressured to pick a man because I want kids that badly. It’s not so nice when folks continually want to remind me of my ovaries decline. Thanks I know, if I wanted them…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:04 PM
4

PPD will ruin this fun innocent question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:59 PM
2

That sounds like an amazing plan! You’ve got this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:58 PM
1

Alright I hope you’re living your own standards then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:20 PM
2

Anywhere but America actually, transplant from Russia and I had to learn to nod and smile when asked my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:29 PM
3

OK, I just don’t get the point of worrying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:18 PM
12

If you want to be that paranoid sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:33 PM
13

Birds of a feather flock together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:24 PM
0

In some of my Petty Betty moments- yes. I’ve had a few and I’m not proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:59 PM
1

It’s best to get sexual compatibility out of the way first. If a man judges you for fast sex, he’s probably not the one anyway. At my age, very few low n/virgins exist anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:27 PM
1

This. There isn’t enough “fat shaming” aka the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:33 AM
1

Dating isn’t bad if you have a little common sense and don’t take things too personal. Definitely have to kiss a lot of frogs but that’s just normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:25 AM
2

You’re thinking of lust. There is stages to love IME, lust to puppy teen style love to mid stage love to fully emotionally connected love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:04 AM
3

The coddling of fat people. You guys aren’t told you’re fat. I moved here from Russia a decade ago and I was shocked at how delusional you lot were. I know now I can’t tell a friend a dress looks bad on her and she should drop 10 lbs if she wants to wear it but it took a few incidents to break the blunt honesty habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:01 AM
2

Women check men out sometimes. We’re female not dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:59 AM
4

Huh how about that? 70% of my friends are married or cohabitating but sure OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:18 AM
2

If a company you wanna work for offers this- RUN like your maxi pad is on fire. They’re gonna work you to death almost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:18 PM
8

OK then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:41 AM
8

So have you personally experienced it or are you just talking out your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:31 AM
5

And all the side effects
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:10 AM
15

Hormone changes like that are brutal and have lots of side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:09 AM
1

It’s expensive and painful. It’s only done if you really really want/borderline need children. If you’re just on the fence, it’s a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:08 AM
6

Sex drive is very use it or lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:06 AM
1

Ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:06 PM
1

No baby I’m not. But I’m also not going to argue with someone with an agenda already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 01:38 PM
1

Because it’s a free country
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 01:01 PM
2

They’ll talk your ear off if you let them LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:16 PM
1

I am a bit of an adrenaline junkie but I’m also not stupid about money. I do have to pay for a house car and all that unfun adult stuff...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:06 PM
2

It doesn’t hurt to ask. People love to help you get into hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:21 PM
4

Again- if she wanted to, she would...settling is super easy if you want a kid and hubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:19 PM
1

It’s an alternative to hiking....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:18 PM
1

Barracks Bunnies LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:10 PM
0

This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:09 PM
1

A walk in a public park and a good cup of coffee is also an option as a more public date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:07 PM
1

I do love a challenge. Thank you for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:22 PM
1

Travel rewards credit cards ftw! I put all my bills on one and pay it off in full each month.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:08 PM
1

This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:06 PM
1

OMG dream. I work to fund my outdoor hobbies. Paid to be outdoors? Yes please!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:58 PM
11

Career women who want to be married and have kids, do just that. Single ladies are usually single by choice and not because they’ve been left on the shelf. As the old saying goes- if they wanted to they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:48 PM
2

Hostels really aren’t that bad. You’re only sleeping and showering in them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:27 PM
2

We are opposites LOL. The pandemic drove me outside more than ever and I was already pretty outdoorsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:11 PM
0

It does suck to be me. I got close to drawing a face on a volleyball loneliness level in 2020. As far doing it for women only, I’d agree that’s not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:10 PM
1

Obviously YMMV, this isn’t an authoritative guide to anything but going places is a lot more fun than sitting home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:09 PM
1

You’re working my dream job. I’m a data analyst and it’s boring as sin. If I didn’t need the $$ I’d 100% be a journalist and writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:35 PM
1

That’s a good point. I’m blessed to live in a very beautiful and open air abundant area.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:26 PM
0

That’s so cool! What do you do for work if you don’t mind sharing? I really want to hike the Appalachian Trail (for real not like that one politician haha.) I can see how too much adventuring can make one a bad relationship prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:24 PM
1

People have been traveling since the beginning of the human race. It’s such a fun and enriching experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:23 PM
1

OK maybe I don’t. Help me understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:19 PM
3

Hiking and other outdoor activities are pretty cheap IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:19 PM
1

Well yeah of course don’t go overboard but in general, adventure and having a life is nice. I’m very extroverted, yes. This last year has sucked for me. I almost drew a face on a volleyball lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:18 PM
4

They tell men to have children with their plates LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:03 PM
2

Does she bleed every month? Over the wall. Over the wall! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:03 PM
3

Definitely got into this rut during WFH. When I started going in office again and dressing up daily I felt like a goddess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:01 PM
24

Keep up your looks. I think a lot of folks tend to get complacent sometimes. I am guilty of this. If I don’t remember to doll up sometimes, I forget and stop wanting to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:41 AM
18

Nah man that’s not a reason to marry. You have to want 300% to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:03 PM
4

I’m in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 04:13 PM
1

Not gonna get too specific but early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:55 PM
25

Cheaper taxes and health insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:10 PM
2

Yeah immigration is a big one. It’s absurd how much easier it is for married folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:10 PM
11

If you ban abortion, you’d better be ready to pay child support from 2 months pregnant onward and have stronger penalties for not paying. You can’t just leave women and children high and dry like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 11:37 PM
1

Lady. Presumably but I do not know for sure, I don’t tend to worm into other peoples business...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:50 PM
5

I just threw up in my mouth. Will save this comment for when I go on a diet and need a deterrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:38 PM
5

I didn’t get this way by growing up on the internet LOL. Staying off it helped a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:14 PM
11

Right? The fuck kind of Bible BS is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 03:08 PM
10

I got treated to 90 minutes about Evil Ex Lauren who “forced him to do cocaine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 03:05 PM
10

100%. We’re just as bad as nice guys if demand a relationship for every guy we sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 02:39 PM
9

What was the issue with you telling on the abusive BF? That’s pretty nice of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 02:36 PM
1

Yeah I’ve found this too. At least for the first few dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:41 PM
33

WOW is the one game I won’t go near. You’re a brave soul. I’ll play everything else but WOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:38 PM
5

No axe and frying pan? Why don’t you love me? Is that date 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:26 PM
11

It’s the promotion of it and grooming of other women that has made so many think it’s not prostitution. In reality, it’s not harmless and you always pay for sugar with sex. Not to mention, these men aren’t dumb. They’re not being taken for their money...they’re using these poor girls who don’t understand that they’re cheaper than a prostitute and will do way more depraved shit. They like to pretend like they’re not being screwed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:21 PM
3

Personality. Looks get you in the door but personality let’s you stay. I don’t need or want some insufferable git around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:59 AM
20

Maybe it’s because I run with a boring crowd but not much. Most folks are married with children (not me obviously) and just have the occasional date night. They love their spouse and their lives revolve around the kids. We had our 20s to do this stuff and some people did actually run wild but not most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:58 AM
2

Why should a woman be consistent with a man who hasn’t committed to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:57 AM
1

I just don’t see this many deranged folks irl....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:15 PM
1

Jealousy happens but it’s not the end of the world. I have other things besides my looks that matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 05:40 PM
6

Why would they be consistent for a fuck buddy? That’s silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 04:07 PM
0

These guys are just posturing for the internet, I wouldn’t take them too seriously. They probably do actually love their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 04:06 PM
0

I need to check out this FDS for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 02:13 AM
10

I don’t read FDS but I can relate to learning to set boundaries. I had a hard time with that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 02:11 AM
3

Step mum wot r u doing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:01 PM
0

Stop I can’t die laughing at 10 am 😂🤣 Edit: it wasn’t an insult, I actually found it funny
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:58 PM
6

Car sex is for adulterers and teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:57 PM
5

That last scenario has some serious incest vibes.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:55 PM
1

He’s right. You can’t take it back. Learn to accept it and leave this sub, it can be toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:35 PM
2

This! People are easy to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:26 PM
2

You can’t unspill the milk but you can forgive yourself and do better going forward. Remember you still deserve love and respect and you shouldn’t let any guy abuse you over this. He’s either OK with it or he isn’t. You’re so young honey, you’re gonna be OK. Don’t let this sub get you down. It can be a little fatalistic and unrealistic. Plenty of non virgin ladies have gotten married and been happy. I mostly lurked for a good year and a half but I’m glad I made an account to tell you that you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:25 PM
1

It was never in style. It was like bell bottoms or 70s hippies- some people dressed like that and they were a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:38 PM
1

Where and who is massaging their egos like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:08 PM
1

How old are these women? Like I said 30s and I’m not stupid enough to think I’m as cute as I was as a 21 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:08 PM
1

A catholic school no less....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:18 AM
7

This is one of the risks of sex work. She knew this or should’ve known when she started OF. This is why I don’t understand why it’s being pushed as an easy side hustle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:18 AM
1

Any niche group falls into this trap. Even this place does sometimes...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:48 PM
12

I think it’s just young guys who haven’t learned to take rejection yet. I’m in my 30s and most men have learned to walk off a no and take it with grace. I can see how a young man might not be in a good enough place to do that yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:12 PM
2

No dog and no 14 hour days but we’re lifestyle twins.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:56 PM
7

That’s what I was thinking. I’m in my 30s and most people I know lead some pretty boring lives on weekdays and interesting but still tame lives on weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 12:26 PM
6

Average woman wakes up and eats her breakfast. Goes to work and does her work. Goes home and eats dinner and goes to bed. On weekends, she does her hobbies and hangs out with friends and family. Maybe she’ll have a date if she set one up or she hangs out with her spouse or SO. Much the same for men. Most people are quite boring in their everyday lives. It’s their personalities and quirks that make them special.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 12:20 PM
2

People want they cannot have. Simple as that. SAHMs want to go to work usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 12:16 PM
3

If sexing a man real good makes him see me a as fleshlight then I’ll just be grateful that I managed to ditch him before getting too involved. Life is too short for bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:02 AM
1

You’re aware that the pills and this sub are an outlier right? Most folks don’t need help dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:13 PM
-1

Most men don’t need the help and are able to deduce it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:45 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:46 PM
3

I could answer but you won’t listen. The fact you’re asking tells me that you’ve made up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:42 PM
3

It’s reasonable to have expectations from a partner and a relationship. Just having a man doesn’t mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:40 PM
4

A house divorce would be awesome. Not married here but as a 30 something single lady moving in with someone at this point would suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:28 PM
3

It depends on what you want out of life. I knew I wanted a house and comfortable life. So I chose a career I don’t necessarily love and demands 50 hours a week because it make my out of work life awesome. I have my hobbies and holidays and discretionary spending and that makes me happy. That’s why I built a career. I’m not a manager by the way and have zero interest in that but I do work with data and data analysis. It’s not thrilling but it pays. I’m in my 30s and the bare minimum lifestyle is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:42 PM
-2

That’s hyperbole. I’m just saying they don’t need to be so defeatist or at least admit they like being losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:38 PM
4

Before I made an actual account I knew there was a population of losers who didn’t want to change but god damn did I underestimate how many. I just don’t get it. You don’t like something, change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:32 PM
3

I don’t see that many people being cancelled to where it is a problem for an average Joe on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:02 PM
1

If you don’t want to get help or improve yourself and instead want to keep being miserable, then knock yourself out! Just a tip, I could care less if you do or don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:50 PM
2

Perfect comment. Please make a post about it. The neurotic freaks in this sub need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:47 PM
3

OK but why can’t you shake it off? What good is being neurotic doing for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:45 PM
14

You actually have social skills and a positive outlook on life. A lot of the commenters do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:38 PM
1

If that’s how you want to live, I won’t stop you but it sounds like a sad paranoid existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:37 PM
2

Since when did rejection become the end of the world? When I was growing up, we were expected to accept it and keep it moving because it was a normal part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:12 PM
21

They’re pretty good at a taking a no too. They don’t fight you on it beyond some minor friendly guff and like you said they laugh it off and keep it moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:11 PM
2

There is a risk to everything in life. Yes you might get rejected or called creepy but this is no reason to give up. If you’re a normal well adjusted adult- you can bounce back and move on with your life. If you can’t and you dwell, I’d suggest you see a therapist to deal with that. You’re not going to ever avoid criticism and rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:08 PM
2

All is a very broad term. Have you personally interviewed every single woman in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:04 PM
4

In my experience, the better sex has been the relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:43 AM
3

Nah FWB is rarely worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:39 AM
1

When I drink a lot of water, my skincare routine hits extra and I get the most perfect glowing skin! The only downside is all the peeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:38 AM
2

I agree. My salary in my early 20s aka most fertile time was barely sufficient to support myself. It wasn’t until my late 20s that I started making enough to even think about a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:30 PM
2

No, not really. I think it is more so that women aren’t as pressured to reproduce by a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:19 PM
1

My career is definitely important to me as it’s how I pay for housing etc but I’m not that into it. In my early 20s, I was but I burnt out. Now I’m a mid packer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:00 PM
1

Oh you don’t understand englesh do you? Yeah that was a scot English joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:25 PM
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