TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

bearsaw Archive

View 0 posts and 107 comments by bearsaw on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

Turtles don't do drugs
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:18 PM
0

What is this Cosmo?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:34 AM
3

Nothing sexual happened so no need for a follow up text. Wait a few days and ask her out again. "Drinks at x at xpm?" Anything other then yes or her suggesting another time means move on. You two are going out along she knows it's a date. Take the lead. Take her to one bar and if the vibe is right move to another one. Don't touch her unless it seems appropriate. Ie don't just grab her hand. Go for the kiss either between venues or at the end of the night. If the vibe is great ask her for a night…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:29 AM
1

If you have quality friends they won't pressure you to drink. Get a Coke at the bar and everyone will assume it has whiskey or rum in it.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:18 AM
2

I'd tell myself that you can only ever control yourself and not the world around you. Girl turns you down? Move on to the next one. Family member is toxic? Cut them out or set hard boundaries. Want more sex? Learn to approach and deal with rejection. You get back what you put out in this world, don't waste it on self absorbed idiots. Don't wait for the universe to throw you a bone, just get up off your ass.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:16 AM
35

This was a tough read for me as it describes my childhood. My mom would use us as weapons in her war on my father. Making him out to be some monster. Luckily he never gave up on us and I was able to have a relationship with him later in life. Props to you op for fighting for your kids.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 04:51 AM
5

In that case, if it was me I'd go any just have a good time. Only way you'd be a chode would be to miss something having some fun cuz the boys backed out. Sounds like they missed an opportunity to game her friends.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:42 AM
3

Saying "let's be friends" is letting you down easy/attempt to get you to orbit. What you do is move on to the next one and learn from your mistakes. Only thing fucked here is that you can't take a hint.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:39 AM
6

My advice would be to approach. You don't get good at guitar by just looking at one.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:29 AM
2

Didn't read your post, if you got rejected why would you want to stay friends? If you don't respect yourself, why should she?
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:27 AM
6

Do what you want. If you want to go to the festival then go, if the thought of hanging with her friends sounds awful then don't.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:24 AM
1

If you are doing it right you have no completion. Sounds to me like you are chasing after the ones who are not interested.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:06 AM
5

You give off the boyfriend vibe and then seem butthurt when they ask to take it slow. Work on amused mastery and don't tell a girl you like them before you even smash (really almost never). Just be fun and aloof on your dates, you sound thirsty.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:00 AM
4

It's only been 45 minutes? You're been needy.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 02:43 AM
3

I heard the side bar covers something like that. Look up abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 02:40 AM
4

Lead the conversation, ask her a lot of questions, make her ask you questions to find out anything about you (building mystery), and go into it with no expectations. If she's not interested move on, her loss.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 02:37 AM
6

Simple, take yourself out of your comfort zone daily and become interesting. Over time you'll just do more cool things organically.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 02:35 AM
2

You can hamster or you can ask her out. She says anything other than yes/suggest another time she's not interested. Escalate on the date and you will know if she's into you. Base level stuff here. Always take action and know when to move on. Life's too short to wonder if. Also, you are coming down with oneitis.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 02:32 AM
2

This. I never try to hold hands/link arms on a first date. Let them guess your interest and if you played your cards right she'll do all the work. Get way to test interest, especially in the cold months.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 08:47 PM
1

She had hand bigger than Andre the giant...
/r/askTRP12/01/18 08:43 PM
3

Second day in a row I've had to say this. You know you have oneitis and you know you orbit. It's time to go no contact. You will hamster about this girl until you have more options. Work on yourself first, game other girls, and it will bring back a DGAF attitude. Until then all you can do is fake it till you make it.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 02:14 AM
4

..... that is entering her frame
/r/askTRP02/01/18 12:23 AM
1

Nowhere in your post did I see anything about working on your social circle. I would start there.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 02:38 AM
3

Ok, according to your math my SMV is slightly over 1000%, but I still can't lock down a unicorn. What am I doing wrong?
/r/askTRP31/12/17 11:33 PM
3

Exclusive after one date............. I'd start with the sidebar
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:50 PM
4

What do you get in return? You've asked her out and she rejected you and she is now asking you about other guys. That seems rude to me.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:42 PM
19

You know you have oneitis, you know you orbit. This one is easy, you need to go no contact. She will keep bread crumbing you to keep you in orbit while she is sucking some other dudes dick. She likes the validation you give her and nothing more. Too many girls out there to let this one string you along.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:38 PM
6

She's not that interested. Your mistake was when she suggested another time you should have locked in a date. Game other girls and work on your abundance mentality. If she flakes soft next. If her interest increases again she will contact you.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 09:46 PM
2

Why do you care? Too invested
/r/askTRP26/12/17 12:38 AM
3

Are you exclusive? Did you ask her out and she flaked? Need more info here, but it sounds like you got butt hurt for no reason.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:24 PM
4

I think you are taking TRP too seriously. Most guys here don't hate women, but you will see guys in the anger stage talk about them in the extreme. It's up to you to decided what you believe and what you think don't. What TRP is giving you is the rules to the game is all, what you do with it is up to you.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:48 PM
1

When they are fifty and need help going to the bathroom remind them about what they said about staying in shape.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:37 PM
3

Damn dude, ask her out again and if she says yes she is interested, if not you have your answer. Stop trying to build rapport over text... it's kills the tingles. Next time you go out don't talk about yourself unless she asks you questions. Be a mystery. Game girls in the meantime and stop being a bitch and over analyzing everything. Don't tell her again that you like her.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 02:34 AM
1

Ask her out and if she says anything other then yes or purposes another time soft next. She might just be looking for validation. After that don't text her. Let her do the initiating.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:50 AM
1

A little different, but my buddies ex swiped right on my and I definitely swiped left. Ex's are ex's for a reason.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:46 AM
1

Best advice my pops ever game me was that you are always in control of your relationship with someone. I have a buddy who is miserable to go drinking with. I just hit him up to frolf, hike, etc, but never to drink/game girls. I value his friendship, but know he brings me down in certain settings. If it's all negative just cut him off.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:44 AM
2

My youngest sister is in HS. She dates a guy for a couple months and they snap, text, FB post her no stop and she gets bored and branch swings. Don't be these guys.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 04:08 PM
1

I got a hundred matches in 2 weeks. Lift more?
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:24 PM
3

You have to raise her attractiveness in you during the initial courting period. If you play your cards right over the first few weeks she should ideally be doing most of the contacting. Higher SMV girls will take longer to get to this point.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:01 PM
8

validation or hoping you are still beta buck. Don't get why people think it is any other reason than AWALT.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:53 PM
1

Force yourself to be a doer. Lift, talk to random people, get out of your comfort zone, and be open to new experiences. You will fail a lot at first, but once you turn that corner your confidence will build. It's all about momentum.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:46 PM
2

People need to stop with the snapchat crap on here. Use it when you want and stop worry about "scores" that don't fucking matter.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:38 PM
3

If you had read any of the sidebar you would have know to go for the kiss instead of being a girl and sharing your feelings. Be a man of action, everything you described was blue pill.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:35 PM
8

Who cares? Game other girls. It's just social media.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:34 PM
13

If she's into you she'll suggest another time. Anything else is being a flake.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:01 AM
1

I don't. Let them hamster on if you're really into them.
/r/askTRP10/12/17 06:02 PM
4

Hahahaha, no people will think you are together as more than friends
/r/askTRP10/12/17 01:18 AM
2

Don't apologize for having a leg up in life. Feel blessed. You got a lot going for you, but like most young guys you have pussy on a pedestal. Being in college is the perfect time to work on your game and abundance mentality. Think of it as practice. Approach girls at parties, in the classroom, and work on your banter. Keep your mission in school as your top priority, but when you do go out use what you learn in the sidebar to take your game to the next level.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 06:38 PM
8

You are exclusive, but you haven't boned yet? At best you are her orbiter. You are overinvested. Game other girls.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 04:51 AM
4

This is validation seeking behaviour. Don't do for others expecting something in return.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 07:03 PM
1

If you go for the right degree it's worth it. Hard sciences, computers, and finance can lead to high paying jobs. College was like an all you can eat buffet when it comes to meeting girls. Just put school first, be social, and it's worth every penny. Just don't reach and take out more student loans than needed.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:07 PM
4

When I go out alone it usually is for a purpose. Open mic night, to watch a game I don't get at home, to get a rare beer on tap at a local brewery, etc. If you go out and give off the vibe it's only to pick up chicks they can tell. If you go for a reason, you are there to have fun just like everyone else.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 11:31 PM
2

A lot of people here come to the forum and think they need to be Chad from day one, but like anything in life TRP teachings are a skill. Go out and work on treating everyone the same, go on dates just for practice, and do things that interest you. When you start to live for yourself you will be shocked how much easier it is to pull numbers/girls. Girls are a by product of a well lived life. It will take some time, but keep reminding yourself that this all doesn't matter. No one will remember if …
/r/askTRP29/11/17 10:45 PM
1

Dude is pretty small so I'm not sure we'd both fit. I said something about it once to him. He acted cool, than started claiming they are in a relationship the next time I saw him. This one is not worth the headache.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 06:42 PM
2

You must be the bassist.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 12:32 AM
6

You got to stop being so negative. Why come to TRP to spew this beta crap? No way you study 8hrs a day, everyday, don't lie to yourself. Prioritize your time and work on your self worth. If going clubbing doesn't bring you joy find a hobby that does, as if you truly give it your all it will bring like minded people into your life.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 12:00 AM
28

To see if you still have feelings for her. She wants to know that if she wants you back she can at any time. Don't give it to her.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 06:48 PM
14

She's looking for validation. Unless she's asking to meet up ignore her.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 06:42 PM
2

Thank you for playing devils advocate. All the points you bring up have actually crossed my mind, thus the post. I guess I've decided to avoid the drama to not muck up a long term friendship, but I can't say that the whole "shotgun!" thing doesn't bug me a little. Hopefully when he falls flat with this girl he will finally take my advice to be talking to more than one girl at a time.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:05 AM
3

Agreed, just never been in a situation like this before with someone so beta. In college my friends would normally have a tune of "game on", but you guys got me realizing I'd lose a friend over this.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:42 AM
1

I got a few friends that I've been trying to sprinkle in TRP truths, but to be honest I've stopped trying. Reason being is most of these guys eat up that all relationships should only be entered if you see them as potential LTR. We've argued, in a friendly manner, that they are looking for a mother figure and not a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:37 AM
3

It sucks but it probably brought you to TRP haha. I'm letting this one slid, you guys are right. Not worth losing a friend.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:31 AM
10

This one is. He's been a friend of over 15 years and although he is beta with women his social circle game is on point. I've met a lot of good looking women through him, so I guess why go and mess that up.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:26 AM
7

Thanks for the advice. Yeah, I'm going to let this one go. I have other options, I just thought this one was of higher value. He's a good friend so I'm not going to ruin that over a girl. It just seems silly to me to as she shows no signs of interest in him. It really is lose/lose when beta friends go down this road. They get their feelings smashed and I don't get to smash a hottie.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:21 AM
2

Well swallowing TRP has made me realize my HS buddies are all pretty BP, but we've gone through enough shit that I don't want to lose them completely. I'm chalking this one up to a lose. No biggie, that's why you game multiple girls.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:18 AM
1

It reality it is not his girl, but he met her first and in his mind they are more than just friends. If this was an anyone but a close friend I would not care about it and just go for it. Thus my problem, but at least it's not a bad problem to have. I got other girls on deck, just curious what standard thought was about this topic.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:16 AM
3

Only way I've seen it work is to go no contact and in the meantime keep gaming other girls. Having options brings out a girls competitive side. Just keep grinding and if she changes her mind go for it, if not her lose.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 12:30 AM
2

Been there. The biggest thing that helped me to get over that was to get busy, get active, and just say yes to anything that interest me. When you take yourself out of your comfort zone in your personal life, by the time you go out to talk to women they just don't seem so scary anymore. Keep on your journey and one day you are going to look back and laugh that you worried about rejection or getting caught up on the idea of a unicorn.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 02:12 AM
4

First, you need to get rid of these negative thoughts. Start small and practice with girls you believe to be below your value. Some will eat it up and others will ghost/reject you. Their lose. Practice makes perfect. Just remember to live in the moment. You sound outcome dependent and that will kill your game. It makes you come off as needy and will dry up any tingles a girl may initially have.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 02:05 AM
1

Guy or girl, some people just suck to work with. I work with a 50 year old women who is mother to two people my age. She's the best coworker I've ever had. Mostly because for a lady she's RP as fuck. She doesn't take shit, doesn't want to gossip about the office, and just grinds the job. I'd prefer to work with her over almost all the guys in my department, as they are super beta.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:22 PM
2

Great post. Been making a lot of strides on my RP journey lately and can confirm that your beta buddies will try to drag you back down. When you have success it shows them that it's not societies fault they are losers, they are just lazy.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:31 AM
1

You are her orbiter. Good news is, we've all been there at some point. Go no contact, and if she reaches out only go if it's real date. Make sure she knows it's a date, because me may just be testing to see if she still has you orbiting. Make your move and if she is cold next her. In the meantime, work on your game and self-improvement.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 02:01 AM
1

sounds like my HS buddies. I just filled the time I'd get bored and smoke with a hobby. I can play guitar pretty well now. You just need to find something you find more fulfilling then weed.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:55 AM
1

I know dating apps are not well loved around here, but honestly I love them for slump busting. If you are a good looking dude you can find some hotties on there, just don't expect to keep them around long. I usually take them out a few times, smash, and move on. They are either socially awkward and looking to lock you down or just looking to smash anyways.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:40 AM
1

Girls are easier then. You go to a place that surrounds you with them constantly. Society puts a lot of pressure on someone your age to find a career path, find your wife, etc and it can be a drag. Just keep up the grind.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:37 AM
2

Yes it's normal. You've surrounded yourself with betas and they resent you bettering yourself. Make the touch cuts where need be and surround yourself with the right people. Like Roland said, just keep calibrating until you find the right balance.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:35 AM
5

By being a man of action. Go out alone, tackle tough hobbies, and don't take yourself too seriously. You are getting lost in your own head to much. Most of us here have been in your shoes. By having goals, getting social, and just taking it one day at a time you start to realize life is not that hard.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:32 AM
3

My dad once told me that you are always in control defining your relationship with someone and it's very true. If you think someone is a negative influence get rid of them. When you surround yourself with go-getters/IDAF kind of people it rubs off on you. Put yourself out there and the people who are worth a damn will support you, lose the rest. Make the tough cuts. I guess what I'm getting at is take the risk, surround yourself with good people, and all of it will overtime work itself out.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 01:27 AM
2

second this. Went through this with the girl I was seeing this summer. Went no contact for two months and when she got back into town she texted me. Word of advice. If she wants to meet up, make it on your terms. I did not and when I got there it was obvious she was just seeing if I'd still orbit her. When she got flaky again I told her I don't want to talk to her again unless we do it under different circumstances(pretty much we are doing it my way or GTFO). Haven't heard from her since. Not ho…
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:58 AM
2

We've been taught our whole lives to treat the opposite sex special and really all they want is to be treated like everyone else. It must get exhausting to deal with beta white knights all the time. These girls take shits just like the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 12:15 AM
3

BTW, I watch anime. I don't tell new plates if they are not fans themselves, but at the end of the day, just be yourself. As you said you are in the transitional stage. You can't learn from your mistakes if you don't review them. Keep it up and keep it light.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 12:05 AM
3

Keep it light and playful. If they think you are an ass, their loss. Most girls will eat it up, while the orbiters will try to use it to ruin your flow. Just hold frame and if she's into you, you'll have a lot of lead on the rope. If not, well move on. You got better stuff to do.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 12:03 AM
2

treat them all the same, problem solved
/r/askTRP13/11/17 04:04 AM
12

I think part of truly taking TRP is letting go of past relationships. I met the girl I had a bad case of oneitis for through a mutual friend. Said mutual friend calls me out of the blew last week to let me know that old oneitis is not doing well since she moved. She tells me she is depressed, pulling the same crap with new betas as she did with me(I've come to terms with the fact that I played my own part in this), and is going to therapy. My friend tells me this think it will make me happy, but…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 11:51 PM
3

I did it by putting myself out there. I got rejected a lot at first, as girls can smell when you got no other options or don't feel confident in your game. Walk before you run. I went out with a bunch of HB5 off tinder or blind dates. Talk to girls at the bar or social situations. When you continue to go out in public and have girls seeking you out to talk you feel the abundance. I know that if I mess up with girl A, girl B is just around the corner. The other big part of it for me is that I fee…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 10:55 PM
10

I wish my buddy could understand this. This same girl has been all over me every time I see her. Touching, flirting, seeking me out when I'm talking to other people, and out of respect I turn her down every time. Hell, she even invited me to sleep at her place right in front of him. He told me her loves her and I'm pretty sure he hasn't seen her naked yet. Dude is about to get his heart broken for no reason. This is why abundance is so important.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 09:16 PM
4

Agreed, been telling him for months to get busy and focus on himself. We game together at night, as we both get off super late after work. I've been slowly spoon feeding his RP truths and he takes some and leaves others. His problem is he doesn't have much value at the moment and only wants a LTR. Dude needs to mellow out and just have some fun.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 08:58 PM
2

I had a lot more RP attributes while in college and never thought about it, as girls would chase me all the time. It was after I graduated that I fell into my BP ways and once I figured it out, man, it just got so much easier. Stop chasing so hard and the girls will come to you.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 08:31 PM
6

Nothing crazy to thb. Just teasing her for coming to our table so much. She was laughing and having a good time the entire time. I don't even think I was being an ass, I was just teasing her, but in their eyes I crossed a line.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 08:27 PM
5

No actually, I know you are right. The guys from the second example are not going to change. They are the buddies I go to beer events with, but normally I don't call them when I'm looking to go out to talk to girls. The guy from the first case is actually my favorite friend to go out with to pick up chicks. He works in the bar scene and has a great social circle. He's social with girls, but thinks the way into their pants is by being a friend first, so I know he is not competition. He's a great …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 06:55 PM
59

Just remember to keep it light, ask questions, and let her do most of the talking. Be a mystery and have her ask questions to get any personal info about you. Big thing I learned is that the more time you spend taking with a potential plate hurts your chances. Talk for awhile, get her number, and get out if you don't think you can score that night. Your sole attention should not be on one girl while out with friends.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 05:57 AM
35

Think these are bad? I have a buddy who's girl dumped him a year ago and last time I saw him he cried for an hour about her. I just got up and walked away. Let the ladies in the group handle that one. Haha
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 05:50 AM
14

TRP=The Red Pill It should have been DGAF= Don't give a fuck. When I realized that I should just treat everyone the same and that no one person/girl is special it makes approaching easier. I've been turn down plenty, but now it doesn't sting anymore. Their lose.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 05:09 AM
1

Ask questions, make jokes, and work on your banter. Make the girl work for any information about yourself. Girls love a mystery. If they feel they know you too well after one date why come back for more?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 02:19 AM
8

Second this. Make friends with everyone interesting, ask questions, and just enjoy yourself. When people see you as a social guy it's amazing how much easier it is to approach your set. Hell, when you can pull off the fun carefree vibe you will have women even approach you.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 05:13 AM
3

I made quick friends with a guy in college and he soon started acting like my best bud. I started dating my first gf (and thus still awful with girls) and brought him around all the time as she had a lot of cute friends. We dated for about 6 months and then out of no where she breaks up with me. I was shocked and had no idea why. My supposed "best bud" stops hanging out with me and I feel like something fishy is up. Long story short, I see my now ex at a party a month later and she is all over m…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 11:31 PM
1

Thanks man. Again, it wasn't perfect. I've stopped responding to her texts this week after the initial one. It's more a story about knowing when something is bad situation and breaking away. I have a date Saturday with one of the new plates. Just trying to keep moving towards my goal.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:24 PM
1

That's been the goal, but to be honest I've been working on strategy on meeting and obtaining new plates. This one caught me off guard. Lesson learned, always have a plan for this kind of crap.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 04:21 AM
2

Dude, thanks for the recommendation. Checked out his YouTube stuff today and it has some good info.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 07:56 PM
8

Can't ever be 100%, but to be honest it wouldn't matter if she was. I've been seeing other people, and I was assuming she was doing the same until a mutual friend told me otherwise. I haven't been exclusive so why should she?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 03:32 AM
4

That's the plan. I did that for about two months, but when she started texting me again I lost frame. I don't plan on letting that happen a second time.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 03:12 AM
13

Again, I agree, but his girl makes me stupid. I'm just glad I got out of it with her knowing I'm not game for this side guy crap. I don't plan on reaching out to her and am just glad I didn't let her drag me back into my old ways to bad.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:29 AM
8

Funny things is I did just that two months ago. Cut her off cold turkey. My mistake was letting her back in as she realized I wasn't playing games anymore. I should have know this was an attempt to get be back in her frame, but I've just come to far to go back.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:22 AM
19

Agreed, it's not perfect, but I'm getting there. To be honest I feel like I told her what I want. I either want to see where it goes without all the drama, or else I want to be left alone. I have enough girls in state right now that I just don't want her around otherwise. She's the last of my BP state of mind girls, and I think in my head I thought it best to break it off and go for the ones who see the new me. I've still got some BP stuff to work out, but considering I'm happy with myself and d…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 01:13 AM
38

I'm still on my journey and in all likelihood I should have told her that. We have so much history together I just didn't want to go there. To sum it up I told her "We have something here, but your way of doing things just brings out the worse in us, if you want to see me again you have my number, but we are going to try things my way or I'm not interested". I'm finally in a spot where I have some plates going. She is not seeing anyone and hasn't been out with anyone but me in over a year. I thi…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 12:57 AM
2

As someone new to TRP and working to free myself of my beta tendencies, I can say what OP is getting at will truly set you free. Not only will walking away from the bad relationships make you happier it will help lead you to the people worth your time.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 04:22 AM
6

I'm pretty new to TRP and had a eye opening moment to it's truths a few weeks back when grabbing drinks with some HS buddies. One of my friends got dumped by his oneitis about 9 months ago and he still doesn't stop talking about her. He constantly is talking about how he needs to make more money, lose weight, and get higher education if he is ever going to find another girlfriend. He is always working so hard to get into a girls frame that he's missing out on enjoying his life. Slaving away to h…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 12:24 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter