So we had a party and had a heart-to-heart. One of the story one guy told me was sobering on how relying on the women can be detrimental to a man.

So the story is about him and his high school crush. He thinks the girl likes him too. But then he thinks so highly of her that he assumes she deserves something more than him. Which, in this case, a chad, who is also her best friend.

Now be fucking regrets it, calling her "the love of his life", "the one that brightens his life" and all the shit. He breaks down crying, regretting the decision clearly, but keeps on saying "I don't know if it was the right decision".

Fucking piece of shit. It wrecks him so much for so long now. It has to be more than three years already, but he is still not over it.

Now me, I'm not satisfied with my mindset either. I don't have the guts to pick up girls irl, but I have met so many girls online and seen so many cunts and how they just disregard their "partners" for some dudes just in the spur of the moment.

The oneitis mindset just messes up the motivation and the growth of a man. If only he was exposed more to how shitty people are in general, he'd get over it immediately.

I'll keep this story in me as motivation to propel myself not relying on anyone else. I'm me. I'll care for whoever cares.