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4

seconding this, as it literally just happened to me. great advice!
/r/seduction03/06/21 01:46 PM
3

Right. Take it from me. Terrible idea
/r/seduction15/05/15 06:23 PM
21

I've lived with two actually. One I banged. Both still love me. Some tips: Don't bang her Take out the trash Don't leave your shit around Ask her how her day was Buy candles Keep bathroom neat (assuming only 1) Offer her food you made occasionally Sympathize as a female when she vents to you Don't bang ALL her friends Don't bang her Good luck !
/r/seduction14/05/15 09:17 PM
3

LoL +1
/r/seduction02/03/15 04:50 PM
-1

Bro, I've seen plenty of smoke shows with black guys. In fact, I know plenty
/r/seduction17/10/14 11:31 AM
1

Yea that's terrible
/r/seduction23/09/14 11:50 AM
7

what? no.
/r/seduction22/08/14 07:41 PM
1

solid list. you deserve more upvotes
/r/seduction15/08/14 06:30 PM
1

essential? meh
/r/seduction07/08/14 06:57 PM
2

not sure how an on-duty waitress would handle a cocky-funny routine. she deals with assholes all day. Had you been more genuine, you may have had more success
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:31 PM
2

counterpoint: I am not enough of a robot. so, to /u/AJRexworth 's point it's also important to pick and choose the right combination of things that work for your personality
/r/seduction29/07/14 07:17 PM
1

i can get on board with this. Humor goes both ways!
/r/seduction24/07/14 03:47 PM
6

These are funny, but I can def see them not going over with the wrong chick. Use with discretion.
/r/seduction23/07/14 07:43 PM
2

I like this one
/r/seduction05/07/14 11:20 PM
2

twisted, indeed
/r/seduction30/05/14 02:10 PM
2

Thought you were serious until I watched the Dlow Shuffle. fuck that. I could rock out to boppin it, though.
/r/seduction30/05/14 02:03 PM
1

No need to play it up man. The uniform raises your value in her eyes, and in turn raises your own confidence. You're already ahead of everyone else in this regard. No need for cheesy "uniform game" to play it up more. This is where your own natural game should take over.
/r/seduction30/05/14 01:57 PM
0

I actually found myself in this exact situation, where the girl found someone else who wanted to get serious and pretty much showed me the door. Good point
/r/seduction23/05/14 07:55 PM
1

this is good, but how the hell are you noticing people's shoes in the club? Literally the last thing I'm thinking about
/r/seduction23/05/14 05:03 PM
7

You really can't. this is pretty well documented within the community. It might last a few weeks. few months. Maybe even a year. But in the end, someone is going to get attached. someone is going to want more. and it will crumble. Infrequency is a good way to bide those feelings. Just make sure when you are together, she loves it.
/r/seduction23/05/14 04:58 PM
2

Mark Manson is a commonly subscribed PUAA on seddit. And yes, it's inner game. I agree 100%. More of this
/r/seduction17/05/14 02:26 PM
2

i think you did a nice job on this. way better than the Manson "just be yourself" mindset. deserve a lot more upvotes than you got. thanks and bravo
/r/seduction16/05/14 08:15 PM
1

They don't?
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:14 PM
3

This is news to everyone
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:54 PM
3

I can say that, there is no better time to dance than when you're drunk. I will not dance floor game sober, crutch or not. I just don't enjoy it. Having said that, I am planning on going out tonight completely sober. Going to try to talk to everyone and be as fun as possible. Hopefully at least get a number but know I can still have fun without it.
/r/seduction07/02/14 07:42 PM
2

Great post. the journey is difficult by the destination is rewarding. I'll gladly stay the course.
/r/seduction04/02/14 03:14 PM
3

Game over, man! Game over!
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:19 PM
1

Check out Deep Inner Game by David Deangelo. Long but good. In it, he details the differences between being a gentleman vs gentle man. Turns out, gentleman was not derived from the term 'gentle' as we know it today. I don't quite get it. You were guilty because you did not want to defile this girl? Is it more of a performance issue? Like, were you nervous about it and thus didn't want to make the move/take the lead? Why would you feel guilty if she is SHOWING you (women don't tell, they show) th…
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:18 PM
1

Question about negging: Should you smile when it is delivered? doesn't that take away from the subtlety?
/r/seduction20/01/14 02:02 PM
3

"You miss 100% of the body shots you don't take" - Paulina Gretzky
/r/seduction20/01/14 01:47 PM
1

Just be upfront with her once things get hot and heavy. Also, maybe drink less?
/r/seduction17/01/14 08:52 PM
1

For one, I wouldn't go home with a girl unless you are very attracted to her. This will give you the strength to prevail. Secondarily, I find it helpful to extend the foreplay. This is twofold, because it will ramp her up as well. If it gets time to getting, grab her hand and put it on your junk so she can assist. No shame if you gotta pull out and reboot. also, consider a position change.
/r/seduction17/01/14 04:45 PM
1

hahaha it's funny you made your username for this very post
/r/seduction16/01/14 02:14 PM
2

gentleman vs gentle man
/r/seduction27/12/13 04:10 PM
1

Except World of Warcraft debatable
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:45 PM
0

pretty sure he's just being a dick. this is terrible form
/r/seduction04/12/13 03:12 PM
1

This!
/r/seduction30/11/13 09:09 PM
1

Upvoted for sexiness
/r/seduction29/11/13 06:15 AM
2

How is it a strange phenomenon? Are you familiar with politics? That's how these things work
/r/seduction28/11/13 03:56 PM
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After reading your post, I feel like a lot of Manson's material is a natural's natural approach. "Go up, say hi. Works every time" post was well thought-out. Do you have a particularly "school" you subscribe to more than others? Manson, for the most part, tends to be the end-all be-all on seddit.
/r/seduction27/11/13 08:34 PM
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I see what you do
/r/seduction24/11/13 07:38 PM
1

this. Once you've lost it, you're doubling or tripling your effort to get it back, when you could be using all that emotional energy on someone better :)
/r/seduction22/11/13 06:45 PM
1

interesting analysis
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:55 PM
2

GAME OVER, MAN! GAME OVER!
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:38 PM
1

I think it applies to face as well. Think Pauly D
/r/seduction09/11/13 04:31 AM
2

I believe, yes. But they're pretty much one in the same as far as I know. I'm trying to make the best of my manly situation.
/r/seduction08/11/13 08:25 PM
0

What's an "alpha" way to accept a breakup? I was recently "dumped" by someone who I was in an open relationship with. Another guy told her he wanted exclusivity. I want to come across a little annoyed, but definitely not needy and whiny. Any tips on relaying my thoughts?
/r/seduction07/11/13 08:08 PM
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As someone born 'Raymond', I resent this.
/r/seduction04/11/13 10:01 PM
2

On the subject of a followup message, I wouldn't. If they're interested, they will respond. Some chicks don't check everyday. But if you see she's been on, leave it. Chicks hate that
/r/seduction01/11/13 01:29 AM
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creeped out just reading that. I LOVE BARNEY
/r/seduction29/10/13 06:21 PM
2

text possible for those slaving away at work?
/r/seduction28/10/13 02:51 PM
2

Three strikes she's out. Wait a day or two before reestablishing
/r/seduction21/10/13 11:27 PM
3

wait at least a day. If she "forgets" about you, her loss. Have an opener planned before hand. Sometimes, I'll have one good opener and use it all night. For starters, engage the guy in conversation. Make him acknowledge you. I'd evaluate this on a case-by-case basis. Much advice on here is being direct in your intentions, but I'm not sure that's the best route with FoF. I'd suggest indirect game --> light kino and see how she responds.
/r/seduction21/10/13 08:38 PM
5

Invite her over to make dinner together. bottle of wine + candlelight = KABOOM, baby
/r/seduction21/10/13 08:19 PM
0

you've likely become friendzoned. if not, an unoccupied stairwell works.
/r/seduction21/10/13 08:18 PM
7

a little weird bro
/r/seduction21/10/13 08:13 PM
1

Gotta be blocking them. Cold turkey 4-6 weeks and you're on your way to recovery
/r/seduction17/10/13 07:58 PM
5

The worst word you can get in a text is "sorry". In any context, if I see this word from a woman, I know it is over. Done. Delete their number and move on. That is the most dreaded word to receive in a text. Many women will not be fair to you and say they are not interested, instead they will drag it out and wait for you to give up. Do yourself a favor and cut them out before you waste any more time and energy. this just happened to me. NOO
/r/seduction17/10/13 03:17 PM
1

Seems like she's into it but also seems like she likes to play games. Also, you blew it not going for the kclose. Continue but don't stress over it. You also need a better line for the age disparity she she doesn't bring it up anymore (make it sexual)
/r/seduction17/10/13 11:32 AM
1

Must suck. I'm 26 and look like I'm 30
/r/seduction17/10/13 11:28 AM
1

self-deprecation is one of my gimmicks. I don't go overboard with it, but I def don't hesitate to get a laugh or two in my own expense. I'm comfortable with it. Should I cut back?
/r/seduction16/10/13 06:20 PM
1

praise christ
/r/seduction15/10/13 06:49 PM
4

I've been slapped for much less
/r/seduction11/10/13 03:29 PM
10

My first touch as she walks by was from the back of her knee to her upper thigh am I missing something? this is why seduction gets a bad rap
/r/seduction11/10/13 12:11 PM
2

love this. great guide for the social media obsessed
/r/seduction10/10/13 08:58 PM
1

Well, generally I wouldn't be calling her beautiful within the first 5 minutes if I wanted her to actually believe it. You can usually get a sense of her intelligence level in that 5 minutes, though. Also, if she's a 9 or a 10, you tell her she's smart. Anything below, tell her she looks amazing in that dress.
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:14 PM
1

be a supplicating bitch and entertain her alternatively, don't.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:19 PM
1

Tell a pretty girl she's smart. Tell a smart girl she's pretty. As for just looks, women much prefer to be called beautiful/gorgeous than pretty. It can come across as over the top, but if you say it sincerely with in eye-contact, it'll mean that much more. Source: I've made the mistake of calling a girl pretty or cute to their face.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:16 PM
2

church
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:51 PM
2

you're a dick
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:50 PM
1

dat face
/r/seduction02/10/13 08:33 PM
20

bro, i just popped a chub at work. thanks a lot
/r/seduction02/10/13 06:53 PM
10

snapchat guide? Good grief. dial her number and coordinate a hangout. constantly snapping a girl is as needy and validation-seeking as it gets. a truly comfortable and confident man doesn't need send cutesy pics to let her know he's thinking about her.
/r/seduction01/10/13 01:44 PM
1

never thought of the lack of punctuating being a good thing. hmmmm
/r/seduction27/09/13 06:03 PM
1

skinnyfat
/r/seduction26/09/13 05:48 PM
4

UPVOTES FOR EVERYONE
/r/seduction25/09/13 07:17 PM
0

dem Models concepts
/r/seduction25/09/13 07:10 PM
5

GOLD, Jerry
/r/seduction25/09/13 03:40 PM
1

Speak slowly and calmly. She'll adapt to your style and feel more comfortable. Be her rock
/r/seduction24/09/13 06:33 PM
2

drinks + snacks boiiiiii
/r/seduction24/09/13 06:31 PM
1

That's true and great analysis of me. Thanks
/r/seduction19/09/13 01:56 AM
1

Honestly, a lot of it is a feeling of loneliness. I have one or two FwB but they seem to be missing a next-level connection.
/r/seduction18/09/13 09:08 PM
1

What suggestions do you have for controlling anger/emotions? I generally use the gym as an outlet, and frankly, it works wonder. However, currently, I'm unable to exercise regularly do to a health condition.
/r/seduction18/09/13 08:21 PM
2

weird
/r/seduction17/09/13 12:44 PM
11

she just wants her emotions addressed. Period. I see what you do
/r/seduction12/09/13 02:31 PM
2

you're the worst, dude. Quit trolling every thread. Grow up.
/r/seduction12/09/13 02:18 PM
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occasionally, knowing you probably could have closed is just as well
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:38 PM
1

That page is awful. I can't read any of the text because of that stupid advert
/r/seduction06/09/13 02:42 PM
1

MM = mystery method PUA = pick up artist
/r/seduction06/09/13 02:09 PM
3

anyone can just talk, but if you blurt out something boring, they lose interest. fast.
/r/seduction06/09/13 02:06 PM
3

Yeah, uh, pretty sure that's an open invitation. Is this a serious post?
/r/seduction03/09/13 04:06 PM
2

Thanks for this!
/r/seduction28/08/13 01:38 PM
5

indicator of interest/disinterest
/r/seduction28/08/13 01:38 PM
3

I used to get emails from a guy selling strip club game. He called it being a "shark". I remember one of the components was sitting in the back as opposed to right in front of the stage
/r/seduction26/08/13 06:58 PM
3

Thanks, u/ThePickUpArts, this was a long time coming
/r/seduction26/08/13 05:54 PM
4

Not mad at this
/r/seduction24/08/13 08:15 PM
0

dat deeeeeeep V
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:33 PM
3

just so dumb he writes this way. Give it a rest
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:10 PM
4

agreed. Being sociable and funny will win them over. They want you to be a good guy. make them believe it.
/r/seduction21/08/13 04:16 PM
1

Amen😞
/r/seduction18/08/13 06:30 PM
2

I opt for more long-term game. A lot of times, the same girls will go to the same classes every week. Be friendly, ask for help, and make a joke about being yoga buddies from now on after a few classes
/r/seduction13/08/13 04:27 PM
-2

I find your lack of Ross Jeffries disturbing
/r/seduction12/08/13 01:41 PM
49

Volunteer events. Join a club. Join a dance class. Join a yoga class. Join an exercise class. Hang out with friends from work. Purposely become friend-zoned??
/r/seduction12/08/13 01:21 PM
0

yeah man, but sometimes, these things happen. If you can't remember her name, you're going to have a hard time remembering fine details a lot of times, when I first approach, I'm focused on maintaining a good frame/outer-game, her name will slip my mind. There's extenuating circumstances. I knew someone was going to reply "the solution to not forgetting her name is not forgetting her name". What about when you do? Murphy's law, braj.
/r/seduction12/08/13 01:13 PM
3

Wish I had your problem
/r/seduction06/08/13 01:16 PM
3

I've overcome my AA in the club/bar scene, yet I waver when it comes to daygame. I think I feel like I am too accosting during the day, whereas at night, women are expecting to be approached. Any advice to get past this besides "just do it"?
/r/seduction06/08/13 01:05 PM
2

HAHA
/r/seduction02/08/13 02:11 PM
-1

I can't help but feel like we're taking away from an author's intellectual property because of all these summaries lately. Or maybe it's just because I bought it already and now everyone's getting the info for free :/
/r/seduction02/08/13 01:27 PM
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This is very important. There is a time and a place, and if done during comfort building, you're setting yourself up for good things.
/r/seduction30/07/13 01:19 PM
2

I'm curious also
/r/seduction19/07/13 09:26 PM
27

This is mint. Become a better man for yourself, not her. Hell, I've used bitterness towards breakup (different than blame) as motivation. Works wonders at the gym.
/r/seduction12/07/13 10:25 PM
1

I operate under Unicode
/r/seduction11/07/13 09:00 PM
3

Bro...
/r/seduction09/07/13 06:40 PM
19

Not sure why this isn't getting more love. Love the part on surprise and exercise. Church
/r/seduction21/06/13 04:41 PM
-1

So more deets could be helpful. she wants the D
/r/seduction15/06/13 03:19 PM
1

at 4pm EST on a Thursday?
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:09 PM
-7

well, you're not gonna get any upvotes by insulting us . .
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:06 PM
-6

Getting crushed with down votes
/r/seduction03/06/13 09:29 PM
1

Next time, tell her ass they came out with a cure for it.
/r/seduction31/05/13 07:07 PM
86

I have enough trouble attracting one girl, let alone two! Great guide, though.
/r/seduction31/05/13 01:44 PM
1

Yet eye contact can be a tool for influencing others. Looking at a colleague when speaking conveys confidence and respect. Prolonged eye contact during a debate or disagreement can signal you're standing your ground. It also points to your place on the food chain: People who are high-status tend to look longer at people they're talking to, compared with others, says a 2009 research review in Image and Vision Computing. TL,DR everything we already know about the power of eye-contact
/r/seduction29/05/13 07:41 PM
1

i know that feel, bro
/r/seduction29/05/13 07:10 PM
5

I think this has some merit. Although, some people have less self-control than others.
/r/seduction29/05/13 04:53 PM
3

David Banner?
/r/seduction29/05/13 04:37 PM
3

went for a 6 min +1 rine/rauder timing push, but he was bunkered in with cannons. Threw down my natural, 5 more rax and a factory. Opponent was turtling so I took my third. starved him out.
/r/seduction29/05/13 04:31 PM
1

Good work, however, from the title of your post, I thought for sure this was going to be an afternoon tit-ride sigh
/r/seduction28/05/13 06:36 PM
17

They just teasing you bro. Lighten up!
/r/seduction27/05/13 06:16 PM
1

This is a good idea to reach out for the number early on. I have been waiting far too long and convos get stale
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:39 PM
9

It is a frustrating process with minimal ROI. I've had some success (Two F-close to date) but my response rate is probably 10%. In my opinion, the best way to get a response is mentioning something in her profile, or about her zodiac/height/pics and try to tie in something clever. However, it doesn't really matter what you say -- If she thinks you're attractive, she's going to respond. I messaged a girl "CHEESEBURGER" one time and got a response
/r/seduction22/05/13 07:28 PM
7

That's nice, dear
/r/seduction22/05/13 07:25 PM
1

Pump up Friday? What gets you pumped up to go out and have a good time?
/r/seduction22/05/13 12:34 PM
2

wooooooooo
/r/seduction21/05/13 04:47 PM
4

Glad you're following through with this. Selfless give-back to the community
/r/seduction21/05/13 03:26 PM
1

'Please don't be a dream please don't be a dream'
/r/seduction16/05/13 10:05 PM
1

Give her a friendly, non-intimidated opener. Tease her for cheating on that last rep. You can tell the ones who are in the zone and the ones that are open to chat. Also, social proof is key IMO. She sees you shaking hands with some of the meat heads, and you're that much better off
/r/seduction16/05/13 10:05 PM
1

I have, once. HB7 was checking me out for weeks. Quite obvious. I believe the key is to plant a seed for later interactions. You don't want to go all out the first time you speak. Especially if you're on similar schedules. This would give both parties something intriguing to look forward to. After a few short, friendly interactions, I told her we should get together outside of the gym sometime. I use my phone as my music-station, and had it on me to take her number. Recently moved to a new gym, …
/r/seduction16/05/13 08:36 PM
2

And I'm getting these am I dreaming thoughts? Who am I. I know exactly what you're talking about. And usually when I'm thinking that, I am actually dreaming. Bravo your feeling was RL
/r/seduction16/05/13 08:07 PM
1

007 in action
/r/seduction15/05/13 08:26 PM
2

This is smart. the 30/30 looks guy will be able to initially attract women more easily, but will likely have some issues maintaining LTR
/r/seduction15/05/13 07:16 PM
1

Nice work. The girl was likely the dog-owner's GF XD
/r/seduction14/05/13 09:01 PM
1

Such a weak line though. "I have to go but can I got yo didgies" is just begging the girl to lie about having a BF.
/r/seduction10/05/13 08:01 PM
3

It's like XBL Gamerscore
/r/seduction10/05/13 06:11 PM
7

yeah, what's wrong with that?
/r/seduction10/05/13 01:22 PM
1

+1 because you referenced Jack Reacher
/r/seduction09/05/13 03:45 PM
2

How is that not getting more play?
/r/seduction29/04/13 08:59 PM
1

To me, sounds like naughty cop/nurse/french maid territory. Tell him he's been a "bad boy" and push him into the bed. then straddle him and tell him you're calling the shots then it's goodnight nurse
/r/seduction26/04/13 07:12 PM
2

I logged in at work to upvote this. bravo
/r/seduction26/04/13 06:44 PM
1

Has anyone tried this stuff? Seems sketchy like "deer antler velvet" claims to me.
/r/seduction25/04/13 03:27 PM
1

THIS cannot be overstated. THIS
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:26 PM
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This is absolutely not the case. "late-bloomer" has nothing to do with it. What do you think HS football players do? 16 years old is plenty old to start lifting. My advice: Hit the weights! source
/r/seduction17/04/13 04:27 PM
1

He's on youtube
/r/seduction29/03/13 01:44 AM
3

Half German? What?
/r/seduction21/03/13 05:06 AM
1

Maybe I'll throw some ugly pics up of me I'll prob have some better luck
/r/seduction19/02/13 05:58 PM
1

Thanks for the pointer, braj
/r/seduction19/02/13 05:57 PM
1

bro, chill the fuck out. There's nothing I'm hiding by posting a favorable picture of myself. Moreover, it's not at all your business how I choose to represent myself on a website. besides, there's nothing clandestine about these pictures, is there? Thanks for the advice though?
/r/seduction19/02/13 04:06 PM
1

No, you misunderstand. My pictures are as so that I seem more attractive than I probably am
/r/seduction19/02/13 02:01 PM
1

basically I just attract all the fatties. been this way all my life :(
/r/seduction19/02/13 02:46 AM
1

You do this yet? BC im interested
/r/seduction11/01/13 10:25 PM
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