berg1001 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Sex to boost confidence	berg1001	/r/seduction	20/07/18 12:23 PM
1	Texting before a date	berg1001	/r/seduction	31/07/18 08:22 AM
1	My standards have dropped since heartbreak	berg1001	/r/seduction	27/07/18 10:20 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	3rd date-how to know if she’s down for sex? I agree with the first poster - you need to go for the kiss on date 1. Worst thing that can happen is she rejects you - then at least you know where you stand and you won’t waste any more time on her. A kiss is a kiss, it’s not a marriage proposal. Chances of her making the move are slim - just assert your dominance and make that move - leave it too long and she’ll think you want to be friends and you’ll begin to slip into that friend zone.	/r/seduction	07/08/18 01:05 PM
3	How to go in for a kiss during 4th hang out with amazing girl? aka how to make sure I didn't friendzone myself after 5 dates Should have done it on date one, mate. Get it out the way and then it shows that your dominant and take what you want (in a non rapey way).	/r/seduction	07/08/18 11:23 AM
2	Texting before a date Thanks, Mate - I appreciate your honesty. Will see how it goes this evening.	/r/seduction	31/07/18 12:01 PM
1	Texting before a date Yeah you're probably right - to be honest I'm so out of practice I don't really know the do's and don'ts - I think the best thing for me to do is to just be myself, and see what happens.	/r/seduction	31/07/18 11:40 AM
2	People watching: a fun and useful activity for dates. OP - that’s actually a really good idea. I don’t really struggle to make conversation with people, but I can imagine this being great if the conversation does start to go stale after a while. Like you say, it takes the focus off the two of you and puts it in the hands of passers by. I like it!	/r/seduction	29/07/18 10:00 AM
1	My standards have dropped since heartbreak Yeah, you’re 100% right. I’m purely focused on her all the time and I’ve put her on a pedestal so it’s only fact that nobody is going to compare. I need to remove her from that but not quite sure how to. Any ideas? I’m definitely working on myself now as well - doing things on my own, going to the gym, taking classes I’ve always wanted to take - yoga etc. In fact, as I type this I’m sat on my own having a beer after just coming back from the cinema. I guess the thing that makes me nervous and mo…	/r/seduction	27/07/18 08:04 PM
1	My standards have dropped since heartbreak Yeah it is night game mostly, which obviously involves drinking. I'm going to a party tomorrow evening, but was considering driving so I don't drink - you think that's a better idea? I'm 29m by the way. Obviously my view of my ex being an 8/10 is subjective, someone may think she's a 1/10, but I do know the girls I've been going for since the split are nowhere near as good looking. A lot of people talk about day game, but I've always found it intimidating because in a bar, it's almost like peopl…	/r/seduction	27/07/18 11:12 AM
1	Cold approached for the first time in a while today. Loved this post - was very helpful. In terms of creating your own sexual presence, away from the obvious things (hygiene, dressing nicely etc), what other things can you do. My fiancée of five years left me five months ago so my confidence at the moment is pretty low and learning all about this stuff is very helpful.	/r/seduction	21/07/18 07:24 PM
1	Sex to boost confidence I get that - but this woman is dirty and I want to fuck her	/r/seduction	20/07/18 04:31 PM
1	Sex to boost confidence What do you mean ‘how busted’?	/r/seduction	20/07/18 04:00 PM
1	Sex to boost confidence Sounds like I’ve got nothing to lose. Plus, it’ll be good for me to test my sexual moves again on someone new without fear of ruining something. Nothing at all wrong with chunkier women.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 02:44 PM
1	Sex to boost confidence She’s a bit chunkier than I normally go for and I don’t find her hugely attractive. Difficult to say without sounding like a misogynistic prick	/r/seduction	20/07/18 02:42 PM
1	Sex to boost confidence You know what - that’s a very good point. Nobody. I guess sometimes I worry too much about what people would think as she’s not my usual type	/r/seduction	20/07/18 02:39 PM
1	Cold approached for the first time in a while today. I like your thoughts. So let’s say I see a woman at a bar - how would I tell for signs of sexual interest? Also, surely that will massively reduce the amount of encounters you have with women because a lot of them will be too shy or timid to do that sort of thing, or they’ll be with friends and won’t be thinking about hooking up, or guys in general.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 02:34 PM
2	Sex to boost confidence Shit - we’ll I’m gonna have to keep vigilante because I definitely don’t want to get into another relationship if it’s with the wrong person. I don’t want anything knocking me off course.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 01:31 PM
1	Sex to boost confidence Trust me - I’m all about self improvement at the moment. Going to yoga and gym classes every morning and meeting new people a lot. She isn’t the type of person I’d want as my girlfriend.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 01:24 PM
2	Sex to boost confidence Yeah man - oh my dick does get hard thinking about her and we've been sexting for ages, so I may as well. It'll be my 'dirty' secret haha. Think it'd just do me good to get back on the 'horse'.	/r/seduction	20/07/18 01:14 PM